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You're very confusing
middle of the road
vague
Act like you cant be bothered
Lowkey gaslighting him
Not being definitive
Scared of rejection
Not showing your cards
Answering like hes a burden
Not being grounded
Everything is a maybe
Answering a direct question with wordplay
Looking for reactions
Temperature checking
If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.
Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.
Dont damage him.
I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.
Earth and water, not so much.
Fire, toss up
This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign
Why don’t you try sending text messages more frequently instead of monthly.
You actually text the way I do. But I respond quicker because I suck at reaching out.
I wish I was more clingy and caring when it comes to communication.
He could be either sign based on his texting. But he’s flirting so that’s a good sign. Pick up the pace and see if he matches you.
I like your profile image/gif. I used that myself. 😂 actually i think its quite fitting for my situation. And thanks for actually replying without judging or scrutinizing 😁
Yeh he is quite flirty. Even on the phone he kept flirting i think half the time he was implying sexual things but me being a little slow didnt even realise till later. Like ohhh that's what you meant 😂. Oh and he complimented me a lot. Saying im unique and a very interesting person. Unlike women hes met before
He doesnt respond to texts that that well i think he prefers phone calls more often. So i think if i called more he would be happy with that its just, i get so lost doing my own things that i domt end up calling him.
Ill try picking up the pace thanks 😁🤔😂
If he’s a Sag, that’s probably what he’s waiting for.
Good luck. And thanks for the avi compliment. It’s my alter ego. Sometimes I could punch myself in the face for not being quicker about things. I’m always busy when it comes to reaching out. Even if I like or love the person. I don’t even know how to change.
I have a hard time with it being too little, or too much, so I just do nothing instead and hope they are mind readers 😭😭😭😖😅
Erm how am i exactly the same as you 😂😂😂😂. You described yourself and it describes me perfectly lol. Even if i like/love the person im terrible with contact. Wow. At least you understand and im not the only one 😂
Have you lost anyone because of being that way?
Its hard to tell. He could be sag because he complained about other girls being boring and hes quite adventurous. But then he gives me scorpio vibes too, in that he was so defensive at the beginning and is very untrusting and suspicious
Sometimes I lose them but I have a big ego so I think that it means it wasn’t meant to be if they go 😩😩😫🤣🤣
I recognized myself in the way you communicate. The only thing I do differently is respond fast because it’s the least I can do, since I don’t reach out.
But my communication gets better if they text more frequently. Sometimes men want it to be more even. I don’t mind that but once I text and it gets ignored, I go back to not texting at all. Either we’re doing this or we’re not! 😝
Men have told me that it seems like I’m not interested in them. I lose guys who love too quickly. I don’t lose the ones who need time to get to know someone. They are the ones who tolerate me and my bullshit.
I have Scorpio in my chart. So I am the same way. My birthday is the end of November. Scorpios reach out more and show more interest, I think. I love that about them cause I need that.
If both of you are really attractive, you both just may have too many options and so you will need to work a little harder to meet in the middle.
I’m good at knowing what I’m supposed to do, but I’m lazy at doing it. I always make excuses of why the guy should try harder. I never learn lessons. Lol.
Im the same aswell sometimes. Like i may be initially like damn. But then be like it is what it is.
Im exactly like that. I will rarely double text. Or double call. It would have to ne fairly equal. With this guy its exactly that too he will rarely call more than once and never text more than once if i dont respond back.
Im a scorpio moon. Snap!! 😂. I dont want to seem bigheaded so all ill say is a lot of guys say im pretty/hot/beautiful. As for this guy hes been in multiple relationships so i assume hes the same. And he keeps dropping all these female friends he has in to the conversation.
One weird thing is. At the start of the conversation (after i took initiative to call him) i mentioned my friend and how she spends a lot of money per month on makeup and he was like i should dm/snap/message her. Implying shes got money so hes interested. I just brushed it off. Inside i was like what a weird thing to say about my friend while youre on the phone to me l😂
And as for your last paragraph, same, im lazy too in terms of contact and think well the guy can do something. Its only when some time has passed that i think fine i will initiate. 😂
What’s your sun sign?
He sounds like a Scorpio, playing that jealousy card, looking for a reaction 🙄
You should’ve asked if he’s a gold digger and not a man who likes working for his money! That would’ve shut him up. Lol.
I’m the same as you with the double texting. People get the phone calls and text, so I just wait for a response until I forget about them completely. Too many men have been conditioned to get needy women who chase the hell out of them. I can’t do that, so I just give up. If the man wants me, he knows where to find me.
You should reach out a little more. Surprise him and see if he starts doing the same. 😉
Virgo lol. Same as the guys you date 😂
Haha exactly. The age old jealousy card. Ive met way too many guys who try that on me. Never give them the satisfaction. I just play them at their own game when they least expect 😂. Yess i was thinking i should have mentioned him being a gold digger.
Sooo true about men being conditioned to expect women to chase after them. And ditto. I refuse to chase a guy. You are legit my twin. We're so similar
I bet this guy is like why wont she chase me like my previous women. 😂
Apparently his ex used to have a go at him for not calling her enough.
Hmmm i did think about trying a bit more.🤔 i mean i guess we did leave it on him asking if i want to meet him, so maybe hes thinking i should get back to him now. Like its my turn. ..click to expand
Well let’s hope he is a Scorpio because Scorpios move quicker to secure what they want. A Sag will bullshit, just like you’re doing, and mirror. Both of our signs need someone to initiate. He seems to be doing well by being direct.
WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS??!!!! Ugh!! Giving me PTSD !! Lmao!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Girl, I move slow as molasses if things aren’t clear. Which is why I’ve been in this situation for over a year and still looking. 😏
I did like the other one I dated for 9 months. So I’m just gonna see if he comes back around. But good thing you have Scorpio in your chart! Makes you a more passionate Virgo! The other one I’m dating has a Cancer moon and tons of Virgo aspects, and he is too boring for me. That’s the reason why I don’t like him completely and won’t settle. I need someone passionate.
You have that crazy moon! Lol. Damn. You’re getting me excited! 😜
Posted by molly94Posted by PiscesGal76
You do give him the runaround and you are treating him as an option!
When he asks to go out, you react like...meh... how would you feel if you would be the one asking someone out n get a ... meh... response? I bet you wouldnt like it!
You know, asking a woman out is just as scary for a man, as it would be for a woman. He finally has the guts to ask you out and you reply with a ...meh... response. How awkward!!
Seriously, make your mind up! Do you like him enough to procede to actual dating and see where it can lead to or do you already know it should stay in the friendship zone? If you already know, do yourself and him a favor and tell him. He obviously likes you enough to ask you out and he tried to see where it can lead to but you are very indifferent and give... meh... responses. Ofcourse he'll say things like you are treating him like an option. Cause you are doing exactly that!
Make your mind up and stop with the headgames!
Well the way he asked was not massively assertive, it sounded more like a friend asking to hang out. We were in the middle of talking about some thing else completely and he just randomly put that in there. Like oh btw do you want to meet me. So then i paused for a bit as he caught me off guard..and then replied with i dont mind.
If i friendzoned him, there's no way i would initiate contact with him at all.
But i suppose initiating isnt enough he needs me to tell him maybe that im interested. Which i admit i have failed on doing soclick to expand
Women all over the world expect men to be the ones doing all the work. But they are just as scared as us to ask someone out. When they finally do, its often in a very unpractical, awkward way. And yes, it often comes across as tho they are barely interested. Its their shield. They dont want to get hurt. And girl, you sure did just that with the meh response.
Posted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83
Are you seriously a real person?
probably half donkey
There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types
so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.
Ya it’s typical.
Did you read the capricorn sexting one?
ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄
i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.
One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.
Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!
Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL
Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!
If you got options then why are you so bothered that he's not reaching out? Don't you have better things to do? And check out all the other posts in here of women similar to you. They aren't in a proper relationship. Always asking why the man isn't texting, isn't calling, isn't making an effort. That will answer your question. It's not just "my world" lol and FYI. I've already graduated from dating lololololol who do you think you are? God's gift to men? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lol
I didnt say all women in the world who are of that nature are with guys. But there are a lot of women who operate this way who are in relationships!!!!. And usually the guy ends up fulfilling all their needs.
You actually seem young. So I guess I should be more understanding of your immaturity. Dating is not finding a man who fulfill their needs. You have to fulfill your needs on your own. You don't seem to know what you want and yet you expect him to know what you want. You are vague like many mentioned and yet you come here asking why he hasn't responded. Why are you wasting your time doing that? Most people in matured relationships don't do clingy because there has to be respect for independence and freedom while still maintaining good communication. In other words, the one you re asking about is not interested because you've been initiating. At first it was more like you left on your own so you came back in your own. But if he was excited that you're back, he would've made more effort. But he can't be blamed because of things you said as well. You're masking your neediness with "I'm too good for you" vibe. Why would you do that? And if he's looking for a serious relationship, you won't be part of the list anymore because of the things you say. You have no right to test him either by being wishy washy. Who are you? And then you ask why he's being the way he is. You have to ask yourself. And stop pretending that you got options because you are already wasting enough time here asking about a guy you consider as an option.
If it was the other way round and i hadnt heard from a guy in three months, i doubt id respond at all. So at least he is responding. And spending hours on the phone to me.
And as i already mentioned when i did reach out to him in january he did ask me straight if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him, strsight3 up questions. And i admit i didnt reply with yes yes and yes.
I do have options. But im very fussy as well i dont go for just anyone. I mean there was another guy i was speaking to not that long ago who did continually message me and is even doing so now, but i dont see him as a feasible option.
And youre right i am young. Well mid twentiesclick to expand
What a moron.
You do not have options. You just like to think you do because you are unable to deal with the reality of you being an inherently flawed and undesirable romantic partner.
Once said "options" get to know you on a personal level, they grow repelled by your immaturity, emotional instability and indecisiveness. Which is to be expected, as any decent man knows better than to stick his dick in crazy.
The man you're now so eager to chase after has already discarded you, yet you're too much of a dumbass to see it. Thinking you might still have chance if you just change your strategy. Lol.
It's hard to believe you are in your mid 20s, seeing how you come across as someone who can't seem to figure out what the fuck she wants out of life.
Let me guess . . . you're going to continue pursuing, or waiting for this person to decide you are special.
Posted by Dastard2020Posted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83
Are you seriously a real person?
probably half donkey
There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types
so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.
Ya it’s typical.
Did you read the capricorn sexting one?
ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄
i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.
One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.
Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!
Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL
Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!
If you got options then why are you so bothered that he's not reaching out? Don't you have better things to do? And check out all the other posts in here of women similar to you. They aren't in a proper relationship. Always asking why the man isn't texting, isn't calling, isn't making an effort. That will answer your question. It's not just "my world" lol and FYI. I've already graduated from dating lololololol who do you think you are? God's gift to men? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lol
I didnt say all women in the world who are of that nature are with guys. But there are a lot of women who operate this way who are in relationships!!!!. And usually the guy ends up fulfilling all their needs.
You actually seem young. So I guess I should be more understanding of your immaturity. Dating is not finding a man who fulfill their needs. You have to fulfill your needs on your own. You don't seem to know what you want and yet you expect him to know what you want. You are vague like many mentioned and yet you come here asking why he hasn't responded. Why are you wasting your time doing that? Most people in matured relationships don't do clingy because there has to be respect for independence and freedom while still maintaining good communication. In other words, the one you re asking about is not interested because you've been initiating. At first it was more like you left on your own so you came back in your own. But if he was excited that you're back, he would've made more effort. But he can't be blamed because of things you said as well. You're masking your neediness with "I'm too good for you" vibe. Why would you do that? And if he's looking for a serious relationship, you won't be part of the list anymore because of the things you say. You have no right to test him either by being wishy washy. Who are you? And then you ask why he's being the way he is. You have to ask yourself. And stop pretending that you got options because you are already wasting enough time here asking about a guy you consider as an option.
If it was the other way round and i hadnt heard from a guy in three months, i doubt id respond at all. So at least he is responding. And spending hours on the phone to me.
And as i already mentioned when i did reach out to him in january he did ask me straight if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him, strsight3 up questions. And i admit i didnt reply with yes yes and yes.
I do have options. But im very fussy as well i dont go for just anyone. I mean there was another guy i was speaking to not that long ago who did continually message me and is even doing so now, but i dont see him as a feasible option.
And youre right i am young. Well mid twenties
What a moron.
You do not have options. You just like to think you do because you are unable to deal with the reality of you being an inherently flawed and undesirable romantic partner.
Once said "options" get to know you on a personal level, they grow repelled by your immaturity, emotional instability and indecisiveness. Which is to be expected, as any decent man knows better than to stick his dick in crazy.
The man you're now so eager to chase after has already discarded you, yet you're too much of a dumbass to see it. Thinking you might still have chance if you just change your strategy. Lol.
It's hard to believe you are in your mid 20s, seeing how you come across as someone who can't seem to figure out what the fuck she wants out of life.
Let me guess . . . you're going to continue pursuing, or waiting for this person to decide you are special.click to expand
Should have known you would be a Leo ascendant.
Come across many of them now. And all they are is self absorbed, lame, and like to think theyre the best thing since sliced bread.
Posted by Dastard2020Posted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83
Are you seriously a real person?
probably half donkey
There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types
so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.
Ya it’s typical.
Did you read the capricorn sexting one?
ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄
i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.
One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.
Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!
Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL
Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!
If you got options then why are you so bothered that he's not reaching out? Don't you have better things to do? And check out all the other posts in here of women similar to you. They aren't in a proper relationship. Always asking why the man isn't texting, isn't calling, isn't making an effort. That will answer your question. It's not just "my world" lol and FYI. I've already graduated from dating lololololol who do you think you are? God's gift to men? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lol
I didnt say all women in the world who are of that nature are with guys. But there are a lot of women who operate this way who are in relationships!!!!. And usually the guy ends up fulfilling all their needs.
You actually seem young. So I guess I should be more understanding of your immaturity. Dating is not finding a man who fulfill their needs. You have to fulfill your needs on your own. You don't seem to know what you want and yet you expect him to know what you want. You are vague like many mentioned and yet you come here asking why he hasn't responded. Why are you wasting your time doing that? Most people in matured relationships don't do clingy because there has to be respect for independence and freedom while still maintaining good communication. In other words, the one you re asking about is not interested because you've been initiating. At first it was more like you left on your own so you came back in your own. But if he was excited that you're back, he would've made more effort. But he can't be blamed because of things you said as well. You're masking your neediness with "I'm too good for you" vibe. Why would you do that? And if he's looking for a serious relationship, you won't be part of the list anymore because of the things you say. You have no right to test him either by being wishy washy. Who are you? And then you ask why he's being the way he is. You have to ask yourself. And stop pretending that you got options because you are already wasting enough time here asking about a guy you consider as an option.
If it was the other way round and i hadnt heard from a guy in three months, i doubt id respond at all. So at least he is responding. And spending hours on the phone to me.
And as i already mentioned when i did reach out to him in january he did ask me straight if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him, strsight3 up questions. And i admit i didnt reply with yes yes and yes.
I do have options. But im very fussy as well i dont go for just anyone. I mean there was another guy i was speaking to not that long ago who did continually message me and is even doing so now, but i dont see him as a feasible option.
And youre right i am young. Well mid twenties
What a moron.
You do not have options. You just like to think you do because you are unable to deal with the reality of you being an inherently flawed and undesirable romantic partner.
Once said "options" get to know you on a personal level, they grow repelled by your immaturity, emotional instability and indecisiveness. Which is to be expected, as any decent man knows better than to stick his dick in crazy.
The man you're now so eager to chase after has already discarded you, yet you're too much of a dumbass to see it. Thinking you might still have chance if you just change your strategy. Lol.
It's hard to believe you are in your mid 20s, seeing how you come across as someone who can't seem to figure out what the fuck she wants out of life.
Let me guess . . . you're going to continue pursuing, or waiting for this person to decide you are special.click to expand
The last we spoke he asked me to meet. So i guess youre the dumbass.
And if you must know twenties in terms of dating is when theyre figuring out what they want. How old are you? Middle aged?
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Dastard2020Posted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83
Are you seriously a real person?
probably half donkey
There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types
so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.
Ya it’s typical.
Did you read the capricorn sexting one?
ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄
i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.
One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.
Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!
Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL
Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!
If you got options then why are you so bothered that he's not reaching out? Don't you have better things to do? And check out all the other posts in here of women similar to you. They aren't in a proper relationship. Always asking why the man isn't texting, isn't calling, isn't making an effort. That will answer your question. It's not just "my world" lol and FYI. I've already graduated from dating lololololol who do you think you are? God's gift to men? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lol
I didnt say all women in the world who are of that nature are with guys. But there are a lot of women who operate this way who are in relationships!!!!. And usually the guy ends up fulfilling all their needs.
You actually seem young. So I guess I should be more understanding of your immaturity. Dating is not finding a man who fulfill their needs. You have to fulfill your needs on your own. You don't seem to know what you want and yet you expect him to know what you want. You are vague like many mentioned and yet you come here asking why he hasn't responded. Why are you wasting your time doing that? Most people in matured relationships don't do clingy because there has to be respect for independence and freedom while still maintaining good communication. In other words, the one you re asking about is not interested because you've been initiating. At first it was more like you left on your own so you came back in your own. But if he was excited that you're back, he would've made more effort. But he can't be blamed because of things you said as well. You're masking your neediness with "I'm too good for you" vibe. Why would you do that? And if he's looking for a serious relationship, you won't be part of the list anymore because of the things you say. You have no right to test him either by being wishy washy. Who are you? And then you ask why he's being the way he is. You have to ask yourself. And stop pretending that you got options because you are already wasting enough time here asking about a guy you consider as an option.
If it was the other way round and i hadnt heard from a guy in three months, i doubt id respond at all. So at least he is responding. And spending hours on the phone to me.
And as i already mentioned when i did reach out to him in january he did ask me straight if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him, strsight3 up questions. And i admit i didnt reply with yes yes and yes.
I do have options. But im very fussy as well i dont go for just anyone. I mean there was another guy i was speaking to not that long ago who did continually message me and is even doing so now, but i dont see him as a feasible option.
And youre right i am young. Well mid twenties
What a moron.
You do not have options. You just like to think you do because you are unable to deal with the reality of you being an inherently flawed and undesirable romantic partner.
Once said "options" get to know you on a personal level, they grow repelled by your immaturity, emotional instability and indecisiveness. Which is to be expected, as any decent man knows better than to stick his dick in crazy.
The man you're now so eager to chase after has already discarded you, yet you're too much of a dumbass to see it. Thinking you might still have chance if you just change your strategy. Lol.
It's hard to believe you are in your mid 20s, seeing how you come across as someone who can't seem to figure out what the fuck she wants out of life.
Let me guess . . . you're going to continue pursuing, or waiting for this person to decide you are special.
Yep agree with all of this.
All of this is typical of people that just seek superficial connections.
It’s all about her and her need to feel wanted.
She thinks making him feel disposable will make him think she has options, but it’s 2020 and men aren’t putting up with being treated like shit. Just like women are fed up.
She only likes him when he doesn’t care for her.
She’s a userclick to expand
Im not a narcissist. Which is kind of what youre describing there
I wasnt trying to make anyone feel disposable. As much as he said im acting like he's an option.
Did u miss the part where i was the one who initiated the call to him, and the first thing he does is mention my friend and how should hit her up, when i was telling him how much she was spending monthly on makeup.
Dont act like men are all amazing and being treated like shit. Majority of the time they are notorious for using and abusing women. Its laughable
Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by DMVPosted by DMV
You're very confusing
middle of the road
vague
Act like you cant be bothered
Lowkey gaslighting him
Not being definitive
Scared of rejection
Not showing your cards
Answering like hes a burden
Not being grounded
Everything is a maybe
Answering a direct question with wordplay
Looking for reactions
Temperature checking
If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.
Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.
Dont damage him.
I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.
Earth and water, not so much.
Fire, toss up
This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign
Why don’t you try sending text messages more frequently instead of monthly.
You actually text the way I do. But I respond quicker because I suck at reaching out.
I wish I was more clingy and caring when it comes to communication.
He could be either sign based on his texting. But he’s flirting so that’s a good sign. Pick up the pace and see if he matches you.
I like your profile image/gif. I used that myself. 😂 actually i think its quite fitting for my situation. And thanks for actually replying without judging or scrutinizing 😁
Yeh he is quite flirty. Even on the phone he kept flirting i think half the time he was implying sexual things but me being a little slow didnt even realise till later. Like ohhh that's what you meant 😂. Oh and he complimented me a lot. Saying im unique and a very interesting person. Unlike women hes met before
He doesnt respond to texts that that well i think he prefers phone calls more often. So i think if i called more he would be happy with that its just, i get so lost doing my own things that i domt end up calling him.
Ill try picking up the pace thanks 😁🤔😂
If he’s a Sag, that’s probably what he’s waiting for.
Good luck. And thanks for the avi compliment. It’s my alter ego. Sometimes I could punch myself in the face for not being quicker about things. I’m always busy when it comes to reaching out. Even if I like or love the person. I don’t even know how to change.
I have a hard time with it being too little, or too much, so I just do nothing instead and hope they are mind readers 😭😭😭😖😅
Erm how am i exactly the same as you 😂😂😂😂. You described yourself and it describes me perfectly lol. Even if i like/love the person im terrible with contact. Wow. At least you understand and im not the only one 😂
Have you lost anyone because of being that way?
Its hard to tell. He could be sag because he complained about other girls being boring and hes quite adventurous. But then he gives me scorpio vibes too, in that he was so defensive at the beginning and is very untrusting and suspicious
Sometimes I lose them but I have a big ego so I think that it means it wasn’t meant to be if they go 😩😩😫🤣🤣
I recognized myself in the way you communicate. The only thing I do differently is respond fast because it’s the least I can do, since I don’t reach out.
But my communication gets better if they text more frequently. Sometimes men want it to be more even. I don’t mind that but once I text and it gets ignored, I go back to not texting at all. Either we’re doing this or we’re not! 😝
Men have told me that it seems like I’m not interested in them. I lose guys who love too quickly. I don’t lose the ones who need time to get to know someone. They are the ones who tolerate me and my bullshit.
I have Scorpio in my chart. So I am the same way. My birthday is the end of November. Scorpios reach out more and show more interest, I think. I love that about them cause I need that.
If both of you are really attractive, you both just may have too many options and so you will need to work a little harder to meet in the middle.
I’m good at knowing what I’m supposed to do, but I’m lazy at doing it. I always make excuses of why the guy should try harder. I never learn lessons. Lol.
Im the same aswell sometimes. Like i may be initially like damn. But then be like it is what it is.
Im exactly like that. I will rarely double text. Or double call. It would have to ne fairly equal. With this guy its exactly that too he will rarely call more than once and never text more than once if i dont respond back.
Im a scorpio moon. Snap!! 😂. I dont want to seem bigheaded so all ill say is a lot of guys say im pretty/hot/beautiful. As for this guy hes been in multiple relationships so i assume hes the same. And he keeps dropping all these female friends he has in to the conversation.
One weird thing is. At the start of the conversation (after i took initiative to call him) i mentioned my friend and how she spends a lot of money per month on makeup and he was like i should dm/snap/message her. Implying shes got money so hes interested. I just brushed it off. Inside i was like what a weird thing to say about my friend while youre on the phone to me l😂
And as for your last paragraph, same, im lazy too in terms of contact and think well the guy can do something. Its only when some time has passed that i think fine i will initiate. 😂
What’s your sun sign?
He sounds like a Scorpio, playing that jealousy card, looking for a reaction 🙄
You should’ve asked if he’s a gold digger and not a man who likes working for his money! That would’ve shut him up. Lol.
I’m the same as you with the double texting. People get the phone calls and text, so I just wait for a response until I forget about them completely. Too many men have been conditioned to get needy women who chase the hell out of them. I can’t do that, so I just give up. If the man wants me, he knows where to find me.
You should reach out a little more. Surprise him and see if he starts doing the same. 😉
Virgo lol. Same as the guys you date 😂
Haha exactly. The age old jealousy card. Ive met way too many guys who try that on me. Never give them the satisfaction. I just play them at their own game when they least expect 😂. Yess i was thinking i should have mentioned him being a gold digger.
Sooo true about men being conditioned to expect women to chase after them. And ditto. I refuse to chase a guy. You are legit my twin. We're so similar
I bet this guy is like why wont she chase me like my previous women. 😂
Apparently his ex used to have a go at him for not calling her enough.
Hmmm i did think about trying a bit more.🤔 i mean i guess we did leave it on him asking if i want to meet him, so maybe hes thinking i should get back to him now. Like its my turn. ..
Well let’s hope he is a Scorpio because Scorpios move quicker to secure what they want. A Sag will bullshit, just like you’re doing, and mirror. Both of our signs need someone to initiate. He seems to be doing well by being direct.
WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS??!!!! Ugh!! Giving me PTSD !! Lmao!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Girl, I move slow as molasses if things aren’t clear. Which is why I’ve been in this situation for over a year and still looking. 😏
I did like the other one I dated for 9 months. So I’m just gonna see if he comes back around. But good thing you have Scorpio in your chart! Makes you a more passionate Virgo! The other one I’m dating has a Cancer moon and tons of Virgo aspects, and he is too boring for me. That’s the reason why I don’t like him completely and won’t settle. I need someone passionate.
You have that crazy moon! Lol. Damn. You’re getting me excited! 😜click to expand
Well at the beginning he acted like a scorpio i.e securing what they want, and now part scorpio and part sag, on occasion showing interest but then pulling back. 🤔😂
Hes always been direct, and ive always been indirect 😂. Sorry for giving you ptsd 😂. Why do you act slow like molasses lol ? Is it because you dont want to get hurt, or is it because you cant be bothered and youre a bit of an introvert? Why dont you message the one u liked? Get out of yout comfort zone 😂.
I think its the scorpio which is making me appear "passionate" 😂😂 but in person and how i come across to this guy its very virgo like, im very matter of fact/cold/aloof.
Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by molly94Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by molly94
I lost contact with this guy i met online i was getting to know, back in October. I know it will sound bad but i think he was waiting on a call from me then. Life got in the way, work/family etc etc.. but he didnt reach out again either . Forward three months (january 1st)and i thought i would give him a call. I sent a message aswell saying im sorry for the lack of contact, explaining i was busy and if he wants to resume contact id be fine with that.
He replied with "i see".
I just asked what hes been upto and he said hes been busy working and will go away on holiday soon.
I told him my friend tried to set me up with someone but i wasnt interested.
He just straight up then asked me if i liked him and if hes my type. I said sometimes i like him sometimes i dont. ...and then he said he feels like a sandwich. That text exchange ended middle of January. Then a few weeks went by where no one said a word. I assumed he was busy maybe packing for his holiday. I then decide to reach out middle of February, whilst he was on holiday i just asked how he is and got no response.
I thought forget this and decided to block him for a few weeks. I unblocked thinking i was being silly then another month went by n i decided to call him on the 24th march, he missed the call but did call back later (which i missed) and messaged aswell saying he thought i deleted his number and i asked why he would think that. To which he replied he messaged me but i didnt respond. I said i didnt receive anything. ( i assume must have been the time i blocked him) .
We finally ended up speaking about a week ago now, it was a two and a half hour conversation. He seemed quite happy that we were finally speaking after so long. Although He kept repeating how i didnt reply to his messages and how comes i decided to contact him after months. I just said it seemed mutual and that we drifted but i think he was implying it was more from my end and that i left him. He said if you found someone and it didnt work out and then you came back to me its fine just let me know. I just said there was no one else, but i guess that is what he assumed. And then he kept saying im cool and unique and an interesting person. Rest of the time he was asking me a multitude of questions about what ive been doing the last couple of months and where have i been. I kind of replied vaguely though i just said times flown by.
We carried on speaking for another half hour. He asked lots of other questions personal and general. It felt like an interview. He asked about my family, and work life, what my plans are in the near future, told me i should learn how to cook and it could be a little project for me. Personal question wise he asked about sexual experiences and dating experiences. So as you can see we talked about pretty much everything.
Ill be honest though although i was trying my best to open upto him, i think it was him doing most of the talking and answering/asking questions. I think i just felt shy/awkward since i hadnt spoken to him in a while.
Right at the end he asked if i want to see him/meet up, i said i dont mind, and then he said you make it sound like im an option. To which i replied everyone is an option. He said i guess you could say that.
Eventually he said he had to go, so he cut the conversation short. And was like wow weve been speaking for nearly 3 hours.
That was on Sunday, its now been a week and have not heard since. Either by text or call.
So my question is what now. Should i call again? Even though i was the one who called last?
Nobody wants to be with someone that’s not interested in them. Or cuz they are bored. Sounds like he likes you n your like whatever.
So even if initiate calls and texts? He wont think im interested ? He will just think im bored? I just dont know how to express myself the best way if i likee the guy
Yes ur bored you pretty much told him that lol in other waysclick to expand
I swear is not just boredom 😂
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Are you seriously a real person?
probably half donkey
There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types
so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.
Ya it’s typical.
Did you read the capricorn sexting one?
ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄
i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.
One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.
Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!
Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL
Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!
If you got options then why are you so bothered that he's not reaching out? Don't you have better things to do? And check out all the other posts in here of women similar to you. They aren't in a proper relationship. Always asking why the man isn't texting, isn't calling, isn't making an effort. That will answer your question. It's not just "my world" lol and FYI. I've already graduated from dating lololololol who do you think you are? God's gift to men? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lol
I didnt say all women in the world who are of that nature are with guys. But there are a lot of women who operate this way who are in relationships!!!!. And usually the guy ends up fulfilling all their needs.
You actually seem young. So I guess I should be more understanding of your immaturity. Dating is not finding a man who fulfill their needs. You have to fulfill your needs on your own. You don't seem to know what you want and yet you expect him to know what you want. You are vague like many mentioned and yet you come here asking why he hasn't responded. Why are you wasting your time doing that? Most people in matured relationships don't do clingy because there has to be respect for independence and freedom while still maintaining good communication. In other words, the one you re asking about is not interested because you've been initiating. At first it was more like you left on your own so you came back in your own. But if he was excited that you're back, he would've made more effort. But he can't be blamed because of things you said as well. You're masking your neediness with "I'm too good for you" vibe. Why would you do that? And if he's looking for a serious relationship, you won't be part of the list anymore because of the things you say. You have no right to test him either by being wishy washy. Who are you? And then you ask why he's being the way he is. You have to ask yourself. And stop pretending that you got options because you are already wasting enough time here asking about a guy you consider as an option.
If it was the other way round and i hadnt heard from a guy in three months, i doubt id respond at all. So at least he is responding. And spending hours on the phone to me.
And as i already mentioned when i did reach out to him in january he did ask me straight if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him, strsight3 up questions. And i admit i didnt reply with yes yes and yes.
I do have options. But im very fussy as well i dont go for just anyone. I mean there was another guy i was speaking to not that long ago who did continually message me and is even doing so now, but i dont see him as a feasible option.
And youre right i am young. Well mid twenties
What a moron.
You do not have options. You just like to think you do because you are unable to deal with the reality of you being an inherently flawed and undesirable romantic partner.
Once said "options" get to know you on a personal level, they grow repelled by your immaturity, emotional instability and indecisiveness. Which is to be expected, as any decent man knows better than to stick his dick in crazy.
The man you're now so eager to chase after has already discarded you, yet you're too much of a dumbass to see it. Thinking you might still have chance if you just change your strategy. Lol.
It's hard to believe you are in your mid 20s, seeing how you come across as someone who can't seem to figure out what the fuck she wants out of life.
Let me guess . . . you're going to continue pursuing, or waiting for this person to decide you are special.
Yep agree with all of this.
All of this is typical of people that just seek superficial connections.
It’s all about her and her need to feel wanted.
She thinks making him feel disposable will make him think she has options, but it’s 2020 and men aren’t putting up with being treated like shit. Just like women are fed up.
She only likes him when he doesn’t care for her.
She’s a user
Im not a narcissist. Which is kind of what youre describing there
I wasnt trying to make anyone feel disposable. As much as he said im acting like he's an option.
Did u miss the part where i was the one who initiated the call to him, and the first thing he does is mention my friend and how should hit her up, when i was telling him how much she was spending monthly on makeup.
Dont act like men are all amazing and being treated like shit. Majority of the time they are notorious for using and abusing women. Its laughable
So you gossip about your friends ....well done. 👏click to expand
Its not gossip. It was barely anything bad.
Posted by PiscesGal76Posted by molly94Posted by PiscesGal76
You do give him the runaround and you are treating him as an option!
When he asks to go out, you react like...meh... how would you feel if you would be the one asking someone out n get a ... meh... response? I bet you wouldnt like it!
You know, asking a woman out is just as scary for a man, as it would be for a woman. He finally has the guts to ask you out and you reply with a ...meh... response. How awkward!!
Seriously, make your mind up! Do you like him enough to procede to actual dating and see where it can lead to or do you already know it should stay in the friendship zone? If you already know, do yourself and him a favor and tell him. He obviously likes you enough to ask you out and he tried to see where it can lead to but you are very indifferent and give... meh... responses. Ofcourse he'll say things like you are treating him like an option. Cause you are doing exactly that!
Make your mind up and stop with the headgames!
Well the way he asked was not massively assertive, it sounded more like a friend asking to hang out. We were in the middle of talking about some thing else completely and he just randomly put that in there. Like oh btw do you want to meet me. So then i paused for a bit as he caught me off guard..and then replied with i dont mind.
If i friendzoned him, there's no way i would initiate contact with him at all.
But i suppose initiating isnt enough he needs me to tell him maybe that im interested. Which i admit i have failed on doing so
Women all over the world expect men to be the ones doing all the work. But they are just as scared as us to ask someone out. When they finally do, its often in a very unpractical, awkward way. And yes, it often comes across as tho they are barely interested. Its their shield. They dont want to get hurt. And girl, you sure did just that with the meh response.click to expand
Ok i get you. But he then followed up with only if he gets one more picture from me. So just imagine i was all excited, like yesss i would love to. And he comes out with that still. On this condition first.
Some relationships take awhile to come together, but I see hesitation on both sides and the question is why? My guess is trust issues. You both make each other feel insecure and it seems like some of it is with the intent to make the other person jealous. That’s not a good feeling. When you like someone, you shouldn’t try to make them feel bad.
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Are you seriously a real person?
probably half donkey
There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types
so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.
Ya it’s typical.
Did you read the capricorn sexting one?
ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄
i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.
One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.
Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!
Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL
Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!
If you got options then why are you so bothered that he's not reaching out? Don't you have better things to do? And check out all the other posts in here of women similar to you. They aren't in a proper relationship. Always asking why the man isn't texting, isn't calling, isn't making an effort. That will answer your question. It's not just "my world" lol and FYI. I've already graduated from dating lololololol who do you think you are? God's gift to men? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lol
I didnt say all women in the world who are of that nature are with guys. But there are a lot of women who operate this way who are in relationships!!!!. And usually the guy ends up fulfilling all their needs.
You actually seem young. So I guess I should be more understanding of your immaturity. Dating is not finding a man who fulfill their needs. You have to fulfill your needs on your own. You don't seem to know what you want and yet you expect him to know what you want. You are vague like many mentioned and yet you come here asking why he hasn't responded. Why are you wasting your time doing that? Most people in matured relationships don't do clingy because there has to be respect for independence and freedom while still maintaining good communication. In other words, the one you re asking about is not interested because you've been initiating. At first it was more like you left on your own so you came back in your own. But if he was excited that you're back, he would've made more effort. But he can't be blamed because of things you said as well. You're masking your neediness with "I'm too good for you" vibe. Why would you do that? And if he's looking for a serious relationship, you won't be part of the list anymore because of the things you say. You have no right to test him either by being wishy washy. Who are you? And then you ask why he's being the way he is. You have to ask yourself. And stop pretending that you got options because you are already wasting enough time here asking about a guy you consider as an option.
If it was the other way round and i hadnt heard from a guy in three months, i doubt id respond at all. So at least he is responding. And spending hours on the phone to me.
And as i already mentioned when i did reach out to him in january he did ask me straight if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him, strsight3 up questions. And i admit i didnt reply with yes yes and yes.
I do have options. But im very fussy as well i dont go for just anyone. I mean there was another guy i was speaking to not that long ago who did continually message me and is even doing so now, but i dont see him as a feasible option.
And youre right i am young. Well mid twenties
What a moron.
You do not have options. You just like to think you do because you are unable to deal with the reality of you being an inherently flawed and undesirable romantic partner.
Once said "options" get to know you on a personal level, they grow repelled by your immaturity, emotional instability and indecisiveness. Which is to be expected, as any decent man knows better than to stick his dick in crazy.
The man you're now so eager to chase after has already discarded you, yet you're too much of a dumbass to see it. Thinking you might still have chance if you just change your strategy. Lol.
It's hard to believe you are in your mid 20s, seeing how you come across as someone who can't seem to figure out what the fuck she wants out of life.
Let me guess . . . you're going to continue pursuing, or waiting for this person to decide you are special.
Yep agree with all of this.
All of this is typical of people that just seek superficial connections.
It’s all about her and her need to feel wanted.
She thinks making him feel disposable will make him think she has options, but it’s 2020 and men aren’t putting up with being treated like shit. Just like women are fed up.
She only likes him when he doesn’t care for her.
She’s a user
Im not a narcissist. Which is kind of what youre describing there
I wasnt trying to make anyone feel disposable. As much as he said im acting like he's an option.
Did u miss the part where i was the one who initiated the call to him, and the first thing he does is mention my friend and how should hit her up, when i was telling him how much she was spending monthly on makeup.
Dont act like men are all amazing and being treated like shit. Majority of the time they are notorious for using and abusing women. Its laughable
So you gossip about your friends ....well done. 👏
Its not gossip. It was barely anything bad.
You told him she is spending a lot of money on make up. Why ....i can only speculate.click to expand
I only told you that's what i said. You dont see the bigger picture why i said what i said.
Posted by NemDeux
So reading through the comments and your responses ....you are very evasive. You don't give a concrete answer to anything and if this is indicative of your communication style towards your current target of interest ....not surprised that it backfired.
I also revoke your donkey card, it is too much of an insult for those lovely creatures.
I have given some detail to some posters if you read carefully.
Sometimes i could be evasive with him but he also started off being evasive with me eg. If i asked about his personal life in an effort to find out more as you do, he would say that's personal, and this is personal. All im saying is its not always black and white.
And fair enough. Carry on with the insults. Shows your immaturity
Posted by pinkbird03
Some relationships take awhile to come together, but I see hesitation on both sides and the question is why? My guess is trust issues. You both make each other feel insecure and it seems like some of it is with the intent to make the other person jealous. That’s not a good feeling. When you like someone, you shouldn’t try to make them feel bad.
Ive never tried to make him jealous. Although i do think hes tried to when he said he should chat my friend up.
I could see him being insecure.and acting out. So youre right on that front
Posted by molly94Posted by pinkbird03
Some relationships take awhile to come together, but I see hesitation on both sides and the question is why? My guess is trust issues. You both make each other feel insecure and it seems like some of it is with the intent to make the other person jealous. That’s not a good feeling. When you like someone, you shouldn’t try to make them feel bad.
Ive never tried to make him jealous. Although i do think hes tried to when he said he should chat my friend up.
I could see him being insecure.and acting out. So youre right on that frontclick to expand
Yes, but you need to stop being so defensive in your part. You told him about a guy your friend tried to set you up with. You told him that everyone is an option. You’re not helping him like you more with your actions. You’re the one pushing him away.
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Are you seriously a real person?
probably half donkey
There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types
so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.
Ya it’s typical.
Did you read the capricorn sexting one?
ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄
i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.
One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.
Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!
Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL
Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!
If you got options then why are you so bothered that he's not reaching out? Don't you have better things to do? And check out all the other posts in here of women similar to you. They aren't in a proper relationship. Always asking why the man isn't texting, isn't calling, isn't making an effort. That will answer your question. It's not just "my world" lol and FYI. I've already graduated from dating lololololol who do you think you are? God's gift to men? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lol
I didnt say all women in the world who are of that nature are with guys. But there are a lot of women who operate this way who are in relationships!!!!. And usually the guy ends up fulfilling all their needs.
You actually seem young. So I guess I should be more understanding of your immaturity. Dating is not finding a man who fulfill their needs. You have to fulfill your needs on your own. You don't seem to know what you want and yet you expect him to know what you want. You are vague like many mentioned and yet you come here asking why he hasn't responded. Why are you wasting your time doing that? Most people in matured relationships don't do clingy because there has to be respect for independence and freedom while still maintaining good communication. In other words, the one you re asking about is not interested because you've been initiating. At first it was more like you left on your own so you came back in your own. But if he was excited that you're back, he would've made more effort. But he can't be blamed because of things you said as well. You're masking your neediness with "I'm too good for you" vibe. Why would you do that? And if he's looking for a serious relationship, you won't be part of the list anymore because of the things you say. You have no right to test him either by being wishy washy. Who are you? And then you ask why he's being the way he is. You have to ask yourself. And stop pretending that you got options because you are already wasting enough time here asking about a guy you consider as an option.
If it was the other way round and i hadnt heard from a guy in three months, i doubt id respond at all. So at least he is responding. And spending hours on the phone to me.
And as i already mentioned when i did reach out to him in january he did ask me straight if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him, strsight3 up questions. And i admit i didnt reply with yes yes and yes.
I do have options. But im very fussy as well i dont go for just anyone. I mean there was another guy i was speaking to not that long ago who did continually message me and is even doing so now, but i dont see him as a feasible option.
And youre right i am young. Well mid twenties
What a moron.
You do not have options. You just like to think you do because you are unable to deal with the reality of you being an inherently flawed and undesirable romantic partner.
Once said "options" get to know you on a personal level, they grow repelled by your immaturity, emotional instability and indecisiveness. Which is to be expected, as any decent man knows better than to stick his dick in crazy.
The man you're now so eager to chase after has already discarded you, yet you're too much of a dumbass to see it. Thinking you might still have chance if you just change your strategy. Lol.
It's hard to believe you are in your mid 20s, seeing how you come across as someone who can't seem to figure out what the fuck she wants out of life.
Let me guess . . . you're going to continue pursuing, or waiting for this person to decide you are special.click to expand
This reply gave me P-angel vibes.
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Are you seriously a real person?
probably half donkey
There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types
so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.
Ya it’s typical.
Did you read the capricorn sexting one?
ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄
i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.
One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.
Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!
Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL
Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!
If you got options then why are you so bothered that he's not reaching out? Don't you have better things to do? And check out all the other posts in here of women similar to you. They aren't in a proper relationship. Always asking why the man isn't texting, isn't calling, isn't making an effort. That will answer your question. It's not just "my world" lol and FYI. I've already graduated from dating lololololol who do you think you are? God's gift to men? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lol
I didnt say all women in the world who are of that nature are with guys. But there are a lot of women who operate this way who are in relationships!!!!. And usually the guy ends up fulfilling all their needs.
You actually seem young. So I guess I should be more understanding of your immaturity. Dating is not finding a man who fulfill their needs. You have to fulfill your needs on your own. You don't seem to know what you want and yet you expect him to know what you want. You are vague like many mentioned and yet you come here asking why he hasn't responded. Why are you wasting your time doing that? Most people in matured relationships don't do clingy because there has to be respect for independence and freedom while still maintaining good communication. In other words, the one you re asking about is not interested because you've been initiating. At first it was more like you left on your own so you came back in your own. But if he was excited that you're back, he would've made more effort. But he can't be blamed because of things you said as well. You're masking your neediness with "I'm too good for you" vibe. Why would you do that? And if he's looking for a serious relationship, you won't be part of the list anymore because of the things you say. You have no right to test him either by being wishy washy. Who are you? And then you ask why he's being the way he is. You have to ask yourself. And stop pretending that you got options because you are already wasting enough time here asking about a guy you consider as an option.
If it was the other way round and i hadnt heard from a guy in three months, i doubt id respond at all. So at least he is responding. And spending hours on the phone to me.
And as i already mentioned when i did reach out to him in january he did ask me straight if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him, strsight3 up questions. And i admit i didnt reply with yes yes and yes.
I do have options. But im very fussy as well i dont go for just anyone. I mean there was another guy i was speaking to not that long ago who did continually message me and is even doing so now, but i dont see him as a feasible option.
And youre right i am young. Well mid twenties
What a moron.
You do not have options. You just like to think you do because you are unable to deal with the reality of you being an inherently flawed and undesirable romantic partner.
Once said "options" get to know you on a personal level, they grow repelled by your immaturity, emotional instability and indecisiveness. Which is to be expected, as any decent man knows better than to stick his dick in crazy.
The man you're now so eager to chase after has already discarded you, yet you're too much of a dumbass to see it. Thinking you might still have chance if you just change your strategy. Lol.
It's hard to believe you are in your mid 20s, seeing how you come across as someone who can't seem to figure out what the fuck she wants out of life.
Let me guess . . . you're going to continue pursuing, or waiting for this person to decide you are special.
This reply gave me P-angel vibes.
https://i.gifer.com/1ZSO.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand
Whos p angel. Some psycho
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by molly94Posted by pinkbird03
Some relationships take awhile to come together, but I see hesitation on both sides and the question is why? My guess is trust issues. You both make each other feel insecure and it seems like some of it is with the intent to make the other person jealous. That’s not a good feeling. When you like someone, you shouldn’t try to make them feel bad.
Ive never tried to make him jealous. Although i do think hes tried to when he said he should chat my friend up.
I could see him being insecure.and acting out. So youre right on that front
Yes, but you need to stop being so defensive in your part. You told him about a guy your friend tried to set you up with. You told him that everyone is an option. You’re not helping him like you more with your actions. You’re the one pushing him away.click to expand
Yeh youre right. All i did was ask him what hes been upto in january after we didnt speak to each other in a few months. He acted a bit cold and then was like "been working and friends have set me up with people". So coincidentally at tht time my friend actually was trying to set me up with a guy so i just briefly mentioned it but i did say i wasnt interested. And i asked him ifhe liked any one of those women,he said none of them were attractive.
Following this he csme out with thr questions...if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him lol.
Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by DMVPosted by DMV
You're very confusing
middle of the road
vague
Act like you cant be bothered
Lowkey gaslighting him
Not being definitive
Scared of rejection
Not showing your cards
Answering like hes a burden
Not being grounded
Everything is a maybe
Answering a direct question with wordplay
Looking for reactions
Temperature checking
If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.
Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.
Dont damage him.
I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.
Earth and water, not so much.
Fire, toss up
This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign
Why don’t you try sending text messages more frequently instead of monthly.
You actually text the way I do. But I respond quicker because I suck at reaching out.
I wish I was more clingy and caring when it comes to communication.
He could be either sign based on his texting. But he’s flirting so that’s a good sign. Pick up the pace and see if he matches you.
I like your profile image/gif. I used that myself. 😂 actually i think its quite fitting for my situation. And thanks for actually replying without judging or scrutinizing 😁
Yeh he is quite flirty. Even on the phone he kept flirting i think half the time he was implying sexual things but me being a little slow didnt even realise till later. Like ohhh that's what you meant 😂. Oh and he complimented me a lot. Saying im unique and a very interesting person. Unlike women hes met before
He doesnt respond to texts that that well i think he prefers phone calls more often. So i think if i called more he would be happy with that its just, i get so lost doing my own things that i domt end up calling him.
Ill try picking up the pace thanks 😁🤔😂
If he’s a Sag, that’s probably what he’s waiting for.
Good luck. And thanks for the avi compliment. It’s my alter ego. Sometimes I could punch myself in the face for not being quicker about things. I’m always busy when it comes to reaching out. Even if I like or love the person. I don’t even know how to change.
I have a hard time with it being too little, or too much, so I just do nothing instead and hope they are mind readers 😭😭😭😖😅
Erm how am i exactly the same as you 😂😂😂😂. You described yourself and it describes me perfectly lol. Even if i like/love the person im terrible with contact. Wow. At least you understand and im not the only one 😂
Have you lost anyone because of being that way?
Its hard to tell. He could be sag because he complained about other girls being boring and hes quite adventurous. But then he gives me scorpio vibes too, in that he was so defensive at the beginning and is very untrusting and suspicious
Sometimes I lose them but I have a big ego so I think that it means it wasn’t meant to be if they go 😩😩😫🤣🤣
I recognized myself in the way you communicate. The only thing I do differently is respond fast because it’s the least I can do, since I don’t reach out.
But my communication gets better if they text more frequently. Sometimes men want it to be more even. I don’t mind that but once I text and it gets ignored, I go back to not texting at all. Either we’re doing this or we’re not! 😝
Men have told me that it seems like I’m not interested in them. I lose guys who love too quickly. I don’t lose the ones who need time to get to know someone. They are the ones who tolerate me and my bullshit.
I have Scorpio in my chart. So I am the same way. My birthday is the end of November. Scorpios reach out more and show more interest, I think. I love that about them cause I need that.
If both of you are really attractive, you both just may have too many options and so you will need to work a little harder to meet in the middle.
I’m good at knowing what I’m supposed to do, but I’m lazy at doing it. I always make excuses of why the guy should try harder. I never learn lessons. Lol.
Im the same aswell sometimes. Like i may be initially like damn. But then be like it is what it is.
Im exactly like that. I will rarely double text. Or double call. It would have to ne fairly equal. With this guy its exactly that too he will rarely call more than once and never text more than once if i dont respond back.
Im a scorpio moon. Snap!! 😂. I dont want to seem bigheaded so all ill say is a lot of guys say im pretty/hot/beautiful. As for this guy hes been in multiple relationships so i assume hes the same. And he keeps dropping all these female friends he has in to the conversation.
One weird thing is. At the start of the conversation (after i took initiative to call him) i mentioned my friend and how she spends a lot of money per month on makeup and he was like i should dm/snap/message her. Implying shes got money so hes interested. I just brushed it off. Inside i was like what a weird thing to say about my friend while youre on the phone to me l😂
And as for your last paragraph, same, im lazy too in terms of contact and think well the guy can do something. Its only when some time has passed that i think fine i will initiate. 😂
What’s your sun sign?
He sounds like a Scorpio, playing that jealousy card, looking for a reaction 🙄
You should’ve asked if he’s a gold digger and not a man who likes working for his money! That would’ve shut him up. Lol.
I’m the same as you with the double texting. People get the phone calls and text, so I just wait for a response until I forget about them completely. Too many men have been conditioned to get needy women who chase the hell out of them. I can’t do that, so I just give up. If the man wants me, he knows where to find me.
You should reach out a little more. Surprise him and see if he starts doing the same. 😉
Virgo lol. Same as the guys you date 😂
Haha exactly. The age old jealousy card. Ive met way too many guys who try that on me. Never give them the satisfaction. I just play them at their own game when they least expect 😂. Yess i was thinking i should have mentioned him being a gold digger.
Sooo true about men being conditioned to expect women to chase after them. And ditto. I refuse to chase a guy. You are legit my twin. We're so similar
I bet this guy is like why wont she chase me like my previous women. 😂
Apparently his ex used to have a go at him for not calling her enough.
Hmmm i did think about trying a bit more.🤔 i mean i guess we did leave it on him asking if i want to meet him, so maybe hes thinking i should get back to him now. Like its my turn. ..
Well let’s hope he is a Scorpio because Scorpios move quicker to secure what they want.
Well at the beginning he acted like a scorpio i.e securing what they want, and now part scorpio and part sag, on occasion showing interest but then pulling back. 🤔😂
Hes always been direct, and ive always been indirect 😂. Sorry for giving you ptsd 😂. Why do you act slow like molasses lol ? Is it because you dont want to get hurt, or is it because you cant be bothered and youre a bit of an introvert? Why dont you message the one u liked? Get out of yout comfort zone 😂.
I think its the scorpio which is making me appear "passionate" 😂😂 but in person and how i come across to this guy its very virgo like, im very matter of fact/cold/aloof.click to expand
Hey hey hey now! We are talking about you, not me! 😛 Haha!
I was kidding about the PTSD🤪
But seriously, I message almost daily now with the Virgo I’m dating. The one who I like, who isn’t around anymore, is moving, so it was gonna end anyways. Nature has to take its course.
I am slow with things because I take time to get to know someone. I don’t just hop in a relationship because I want a boyfriend, so I just stay in the dating stage. People put too much weight on titles. I don’t mind not having one, until I find someone worth having it for.
I’m actually finding that I don’t like the aloofness of a Virgo. I thought that after some time, you guys get clingy. That’s what I’ve been hoping for. But I’m aloof and cold. It’s not a good combination for me and my needs (Not just based on my sun sign)
You should find out his sign though. The push/pull thing, I do all day with guys. It’s hard to tell my interest level unless I tell the guy because I’m so withdrawn. But time reveals it all.
Why do you like being indirect if he is so forthcoming?
Posted by sagaciouscorp
Let this one go
Scorpio ain’t sag so find yourself one we’re you can play these games together all day as they enjoy it. Like Saggirl88 says she does
Scorpio don’t like them.
It’s just a matter and yours doesn’t fit his directness
I dont know if he is a 100 percent scorpio or sag.
But youre right he is direct and im not
Posted by CreativeCap
haven’t you created a thread about this at least 3X
Aren’t you the same woman who posted about the cap doctor, who you block and unblock cause he’s not giving you the attention you are looking for?
Yeah, not just here but other forums too. I've seen this exact same thread on other sites.
Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by molly94Posted by pinkbird03Posted by molly94Posted by pinkbird03
Some relationships take awhile to come together, but I see hesitation on both sides and the question is why? My guess is trust issues. You both make each other feel insecure and it seems like some of it is with the intent to make the other person jealous. That’s not a good feeling. When you like someone, you shouldn’t try to make them feel bad.
Ive never tried to make him jealous. Although i do think hes tried to when he said he should chat my friend up.
I could see him being insecure.and acting out. So youre right on that front
Yes, but you need to stop being so defensive in your part. You told him about a guy your friend tried to set you up with. You told him that everyone is an option. You’re not helping him like you more with your actions. You’re the one pushing him away.
Yeh youre right. All i did was ask him what hes been upto in january after we didnt speak to each other in a few months. He acted a bit cold and then was like "been working and friends have set me up with people". So coincidentally at tht time my friend actually was trying to set me up with a guy so i just briefly mentioned it but i did say i wasnt interested. And i asked him ifhe liked any one of those women,he said none of them were attractive.
Following this he csme out with thr questions...if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him lol.
Why is that an lol
Good for him for manning up and asking you directly.click to expand
Well its good but its not as good as if he was to tell me how he feels which he didnt.
Hes not like i like you or i want you or youre my type. Hes just asking me those questions. And i know which one is harder to do
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Are you seriously a real person?
probably half donkey
There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types
so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.
Ya it’s typical.
Did you read the capricorn sexting one?
ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄
i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.
One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.
Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!
Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL
Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!
If you got options then why are you so bothered that he's not reaching out? Don't you have better things to do? And check out all the other posts in here of women similar to you. They aren't in a proper relationship. Always asking why the man isn't texting, isn't calling, isn't making an effort. That will answer your question. It's not just "my world" lol and FYI. I've already graduated from dating lololololol who do you think you are? God's gift to men? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lol
I didnt say all women in the world who are of that nature are with guys. But there are a lot of women who operate this way who are in relationships!!!!. And usually the guy ends up fulfilling all their needs.
You actually seem young. So I guess I should be more understanding of your immaturity. Dating is not finding a man who fulfill their needs. You have to fulfill your needs on your own. You don't seem to know what you want and yet you expect him to know what you want. You are vague like many mentioned and yet you come here asking why he hasn't responded. Why are you wasting your time doing that? Most people in matured relationships don't do clingy because there has to be respect for independence and freedom while still maintaining good communication. In other words, the one you re asking about is not interested because you've been initiating. At first it was more like you left on your own so you came back in your own. But if he was excited that you're back, he would've made more effort. But he can't be blamed because of things you said as well. You're masking your neediness with "I'm too good for you" vibe. Why would you do that? And if he's looking for a serious relationship, you won't be part of the list anymore because of the things you say. You have no right to test him either by being wishy washy. Who are you? And then you ask why he's being the way he is. You have to ask yourself. And stop pretending that you got options because you are already wasting enough time here asking about a guy you consider as an option.
If it was the other way round and i hadnt heard from a guy in three months, i doubt id respond at all. So at least he is responding. And spending hours on the phone to me.
And as i already mentioned when i did reach out to him in january he did ask me straight if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him, strsight3 up questions. And i admit i didnt reply with yes yes and yes.
I do have options. But im very fussy as well i dont go for just anyone. I mean there was another guy i was speaking to not that long ago who did continually message me and is even doing so now, but i dont see him as a feasible option.
And youre right i am young. Well mid twenties
What a moron.
You do not have options. You just like to think you do because you are unable to deal with the reality of you being an inherently flawed and undesirable romantic partner.
Once said "options" get to know you on a personal level, they grow repelled by your immaturity, emotional instability and indecisiveness. Which is to be expected, as any decent man knows better than to stick his dick in crazy.
The man you're now so eager to chase after has already discarded you, yet you're too much of a dumbass to see it. Thinking you might still have chance if you just change your strategy. Lol.
It's hard to believe you are in your mid 20s, seeing how you come across as someone who can't seem to figure out what the fuck she wants out of life.
Let me guess . . . you're going to continue pursuing, or waiting for this person to decide you are special.
Yep agree with all of this.
All of this is typical of people that just seek superficial connections.
It’s all about her and her need to feel wanted.
She thinks making him feel disposable will make him think she has options, but it’s 2020 and men aren’t putting up with being treated like shit. Just like women are fed up.
She only likes him when he doesn’t care for her.
She’s a user
Im not a narcissist. Which is kind of what youre describing there
I wasnt trying to make anyone feel disposable. As much as he said im acting like he's an option.
Did u miss the part where i was the one who initiated the call to him, and the first thing he does is mention my friend and how should hit her up, when i was telling him how much she was spending monthly on makeup.
Dont act like men are all amazing and being treated like shit. Majority of the time they are notorious for using and abusing women. Its laughable
So you gossip about your friends ....well done. 👏
Its not gossip. It was barely anything bad.click to expand
Why bring up your friend and her make up at all? Were you jealous because he thinks she's pretty?
Posted by molly94Posted by pinkbird03
Some relationships take awhile to come together, but I see hesitation on both sides and the question is why? My guess is trust issues. You both make each other feel insecure and it seems like some of it is with the intent to make the other person jealous. That’s not a good feeling. When you like someone, you shouldn’t try to make them feel bad.
Ive never tried to make him jealous. Although i do think hes tried to when he said he should chat my friend up.
I could see him being insecure.and acting out. So youre right on that frontclick to expand
If he's a Scorpio man he isn't kidding about your friend.
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Are you seriously a real person?
probably half donkey
There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types
so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.
Ya it’s typical.
Did you read the capricorn sexting one?
ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄
i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.
One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.
Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!
Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL
Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!
If you got options then why are you so bothered that he's not reaching out? Don't you have better things to do? And check out all the other posts in here of women similar to you. They aren't in a proper relationship. Always asking why the man isn't texting, isn't calling, isn't making an effort. That will answer your question. It's not just "my world" lol and FYI. I've already graduated from dating lololololol who do you think you are? God's gift to men? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lol
I didnt say all women in the world who are of that nature are with guys. But there are a lot of women who operate this way who are in relationships!!!!. And usually the guy ends up fulfilling all their needs.
You actually seem young. So I guess I should be more understanding of your immaturity. Dating is not finding a man who fulfill their needs. You have to fulfill your needs on your own. You don't seem to know what you want and yet you expect him to know what you want. You are vague like many mentioned and yet you come here asking why he hasn't responded. Why are you wasting your time doing that? Most people in matured relationships don't do clingy because there has to be respect for independence and freedom while still maintaining good communication. In other words, the one you re asking about is not interested because you've been initiating. At first it was more like you left on your own so you came back in your own. But if he was excited that you're back, he would've made more effort. But he can't be blamed because of things you said as well. You're masking your neediness with "I'm too good for you" vibe. Why would you do that? And if he's looking for a serious relationship, you won't be part of the list anymore because of the things you say. You have no right to test him either by being wishy washy. Who are you? And then you ask why he's being the way he is. You have to ask yourself. And stop pretending that you got options because you are already wasting enough time here asking about a guy you consider as an option.
If it was the other way round and i hadnt heard from a guy in three months, i doubt id respond at all. So at least he is responding. And spending hours on the phone to me.
And as i already mentioned when i did reach out to him in january he did ask me straight if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him, strsight3 up questions. And i admit i didnt reply with yes yes and yes.
I do have options. But im very fussy as well i dont go for just anyone. I mean there was another guy i was speaking to not that long ago who did continually message me and is even doing so now, but i dont see him as a feasible option.
And youre right i am young. Well mid twenties
What a moron.
You do not have options. You just like to think you do because you are unable to deal with the reality of you being an inherently flawed and undesirable romantic partner.
Once said "options" get to know you on a personal level, they grow repelled by your immaturity, emotional instability and indecisiveness. Which is to be expected, as any decent man knows better than to stick his dick in crazy.
The man you're now so eager to chase after has already discarded you, yet you're too much of a dumbass to see it. Thinking you might still have chance if you just change your strategy. Lol.
It's hard to believe you are in your mid 20s, seeing how you come across as someone who can't seem to figure out what the fuck she wants out of life.
Let me guess . . . you're going to continue pursuing, or waiting for this person to decide you are special.
Yep agree with all of this.
All of this is typical of people that just seek superficial connections.
It’s all about her and her need to feel wanted.
She thinks making him feel disposable will make him think she has options, but it’s 2020 and men aren’t putting up with being treated like shit. Just like women are fed up.
She only likes him when he doesn’t care for her.
She’s a user
Im not a narcissist. Which is kind of what youre describing there
I wasnt trying to make anyone feel disposable. As much as he said im acting like he's an option.
Did u miss the part where i was the one who initiated the call to him, and the first thing he does is mention my friend and how should hit her up, when i was telling him how much she was spending monthly on makeup.
Dont act like men are all amazing and being treated like shit. Majority of the time they are notorious for using and abusing women. Its laughable
So you gossip about your friends ....well done. 👏
Its not gossip. It was barely anything bad.
Why bring up your friend and her make up at all? Were you jealous because he thinks she's pretty?click to expand
He doesnt know my friend. Or has seen her. He probably just said it to get some kind of reaction. Whicj is kind of sad. But its not the first time a guys.done that. Too bad im not that brutal. I brought her up because was was talking about finances an stuff. So there was a context, in which i brought it up. And it was a passing comment
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Dastard2020Posted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83
Are you seriously a real person?
probably half donkey
There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types
so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.
Ya it’s typical.
Did you read the capricorn sexting one?
ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄
i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.
One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.
Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!
Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL
Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!
If you got options then why are you so bothered that he's not reaching out? Don't you have better things to do? And check out all the other posts in here of women similar to you. They aren't in a proper relationship. Always asking why the man isn't texting, isn't calling, isn't making an effort. That will answer your question. It's not just "my world" lol and FYI. I've already graduated from dating lololololol who do you think you are? God's gift to men? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lol
I didnt say all women in the world who are of that nature are with guys. But there are a lot of women who operate this way who are in relationships!!!!. And usually the guy ends up fulfilling all their needs.
You actually seem young. So I guess I should be more understanding of your immaturity. Dating is not finding a man who fulfill their needs. You have to fulfill your needs on your own. You don't seem to know what you want and yet you expect him to know what you want. You are vague like many mentioned and yet you come here asking why he hasn't responded. Why are you wasting your time doing that? Most people in matured relationships don't do clingy because there has to be respect for independence and freedom while still maintaining good communication. In other words, the one you re asking about is not interested because you've been initiating. At first it was more like you left on your own so you came back in your own. But if he was excited that you're back, he would've made more effort. But he can't be blamed because of things you said as well. You're masking your neediness with "I'm too good for you" vibe. Why would you do that? And if he's looking for a serious relationship, you won't be part of the list anymore because of the things you say. You have no right to test him either by being wishy washy. Who are you? And then you ask why he's being the way he is. You have to ask yourself. And stop pretending that you got options because you are already wasting enough time here asking about a guy you consider as an option.
If it was the other way round and i hadnt heard from a guy in three months, i doubt id respond at all. So at least he is responding. And spending hours on the phone to me.
And as i already mentioned when i did reach out to him in january he did ask me straight if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him, strsight3 up questions. And i admit i didnt reply with yes yes and yes.
I do have options. But im very fussy as well i dont go for just anyone. I mean there was another guy i was speaking to not that long ago who did continually message me and is even doing so now, but i dont see him as a feasible option.
And youre right i am young. Well mid twenties
What a moron.
You do not have options. You just like to think you do because you are unable to deal with the reality of you being an inherently flawed and undesirable romantic partner.
Once said "options" get to know you on a personal level, they grow repelled by your immaturity, emotional instability and indecisiveness. Which is to be expected, as any decent man knows better than to stick his dick in crazy.
The man you're now so eager to chase after has already discarded you, yet you're too much of a dumbass to see it. Thinking you might still have chance if you just change your strategy. Lol.
It's hard to believe you are in your mid 20s, seeing how you come across as someone who can't seem to figure out what the fuck she wants out of life.
Let me guess . . . you're going to continue pursuing, or waiting for this person to decide you are special.
Yep agree with all of this.
All of this is typical of people that just seek superficial connections.
It’s all about her and her need to feel wanted.
She thinks making him feel disposable will make him think she has options, but it’s 2020 and men aren’t putting up with being treated like shit. Just like women are fed up.
She only likes him when he doesn’t care for her.
She’s a userclick to expand
And then when she's treated as a piece of meat, she's gonna cry foul . . . and never, anywhere in her brain is she going to be able to recognize that she got what she deserved.
Rolfmao.
Posted by molly94Posted by PiscesGal76Posted by molly94Posted by PiscesGal76
You do give him the runaround and you are treating him as an option!
When he asks to go out, you react like...meh... how would you feel if you would be the one asking someone out n get a ... meh... response? I bet you wouldnt like it!
You know, asking a woman out is just as scary for a man, as it would be for a woman. He finally has the guts to ask you out and you reply with a ...meh... response. How awkward!!
Seriously, make your mind up! Do you like him enough to procede to actual dating and see where it can lead to or do you already know it should stay in the friendship zone? If you already know, do yourself and him a favor and tell him. He obviously likes you enough to ask you out and he tried to see where it can lead to but you are very indifferent and give... meh... responses. Ofcourse he'll say things like you are treating him like an option. Cause you are doing exactly that!
Make your mind up and stop with the headgames!
Well the way he asked was not massively assertive, it sounded more like a friend asking to hang out. We were in the middle of talking about some thing else completely and he just randomly put that in there. Like oh btw do you want to meet me. So then i paused for a bit as he caught me off guard..and then replied with i dont mind.
If i friendzoned him, there's no way i would initiate contact with him at all.
But i suppose initiating isnt enough he needs me to tell him maybe that im interested. Which i admit i have failed on doing so
Women all over the world expect men to be the ones doing all the work. But they are just as scared as us to ask someone out. When they finally do, its often in a very unpractical, awkward way. And yes, it often comes across as tho they are barely interested. Its their shield. They dont want to get hurt. And girl, you sure did just that with the meh response.
Ok i get you. But he then followed up with only if he gets one more picture from me. So just imagine i was all excited, like yesss i would love to. And he comes out with that still. On this condition first.click to expand
If it doesnt feel good, be honest about that to yourself and tell him also straight up.
Posted by Dastard2020Posted by Arielle83Posted by Dastard2020Posted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Arielle83
Are you seriously a real person?
probably half donkey
There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types
so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.
Ya it’s typical.
Did you read the capricorn sexting one?
ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄
i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.
One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.
Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!
Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL
Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!
If you got options then why are you so bothered that he's not reaching out? Don't you have better things to do? And check out all the other posts in here of women similar to you. They aren't in a proper relationship. Always asking why the man isn't texting, isn't calling, isn't making an effort. That will answer your question. It's not just "my world" lol and FYI. I've already graduated from dating lololololol who do you think you are? God's gift to men? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lol
I didnt say all women in the world who are of that nature are with guys. But there are a lot of women who operate this way who are in relationships!!!!. And usually the guy ends up fulfilling all their needs.
You actually seem young. So I guess I should be more understanding of your immaturity. Dating is not finding a man who fulfill their needs. You have to fulfill your needs on your own. You don't seem to know what you want and yet you expect him to know what you want. You are vague like many mentioned and yet you come here asking why he hasn't responded. Why are you wasting your time doing that? Most people in matured relationships don't do clingy because there has to be respect for independence and freedom while still maintaining good communication. In other words, the one you re asking about is not interested because you've been initiating. At first it was more like you left on your own so you came back in your own. But if he was excited that you're back, he would've made more effort. But he can't be blamed because of things you said as well. You're masking your neediness with "I'm too good for you" vibe. Why would you do that? And if he's looking for a serious relationship, you won't be part of the list anymore because of the things you say. You have no right to test him either by being wishy washy. Who are you? And then you ask why he's being the way he is. You have to ask yourself. And stop pretending that you got options because you are already wasting enough time here asking about a guy you consider as an option.
If it was the other way round and i hadnt heard from a guy in three months, i doubt id respond at all. So at least he is responding. And spending hours on the phone to me.
And as i already mentioned when i did reach out to him in january he did ask me straight if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him, strsight3 up questions. And i admit i didnt reply with yes yes and yes.
I do have options. But im very fussy as well i dont go for just anyone. I mean there was another guy i was speaking to not that long ago who did continually message me and is even doing so now, but i dont see him as a feasible option.
And youre right i am young. Well mid twenties
What a moron.
You do not have options. You just like to think you do because you are unable to deal with the reality of you being an inherently flawed and undesirable romantic partner.
Once said "options" get to know you on a personal level, they grow repelled by your immaturity, emotional instability and indecisiveness. Which is to be expected, as any decent man knows better than to stick his dick in crazy.
The man you're now so eager to chase after has already discarded you, yet you're too much of a dumbass to see it. Thinking you might still have chance if you just change your strategy. Lol.
It's hard to believe you are in your mid 20s, seeing how you come across as someone who can't seem to figure out what the fuck she wants out of life.
Let me guess . . . you're going to continue pursuing, or waiting for this person to decide you are special.
Yep agree with all of this.
All of this is typical of people that just seek superficial connections.
It’s all about her and her need to feel wanted.
She thinks making him feel disposable will make him think she has options, but it’s 2020 and men aren’t putting up with being treated like shit. Just like women are fed up.
She only likes him when he doesn’t care for her.
She’s a user
And then when she's treated as a piece of meat, she's gonna cry foul . . . and never, anywhere in her brain is she going to be able to recognize that she got what she deserved.
Rolfmao.click to expand
Why dont you replace the d in your name with a b.
I got what i deserved. Get over yourself.
Im not even that bad.
Posted by PiscesGal76Posted by molly94Posted by PiscesGal76Posted by molly94Posted by PiscesGal76
You do give him the runaround and you are treating him as an option!
When he asks to go out, you react like...meh... how would you feel if you would be the one asking someone out n get a ... meh... response? I bet you wouldnt like it!
You know, asking a woman out is just as scary for a man, as it would be for a woman. He finally has the guts to ask you out and you reply with a ...meh... response. How awkward!!
Seriously, make your mind up! Do you like him enough to procede to actual dating and see where it can lead to or do you already know it should stay in the friendship zone? If you already know, do yourself and him a favor and tell him. He obviously likes you enough to ask you out and he tried to see where it can lead to but you are very indifferent and give... meh... responses. Ofcourse he'll say things like you are treating him like an option. Cause you are doing exactly that!
Make your mind up and stop with the headgames!
Well the way he asked was not massively assertive, it sounded more like a friend asking to hang out. We were in the middle of talking about some thing else completely and he just randomly put that in there. Like oh btw do you want to meet me. So then i paused for a bit as he caught me off guard..and then replied with i dont mind.
If i friendzoned him, there's no way i would initiate contact with him at all.
But i suppose initiating isnt enough he needs me to tell him maybe that im interested. Which i admit i have failed on doing so
Women all over the world expect men to be the ones doing all the work. But they are just as scared as us to ask someone out. When they finally do, its often in a very unpractical, awkward way. And yes, it often comes across as tho they are barely interested. Its their shield. They dont want to get hurt. And girl, you sure did just that with the meh response.
Ok i get you. But he then followed up with only if he gets one more picture from me. So just imagine i was all excited, like yesss i would love to. And he comes out with that still. On this condition first.
If it doesnt feel good, be honest about that to yourself and tell him also straight up.click to expand
I know but i dont want to show too much emotion just yet. But then who knows maybe that's what he wants. Hes not the best at communicating either...
Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by DMVPosted by DMV
You're very confusing
middle of the road
vague
Act like you cant be bothered
Lowkey gaslighting him
Not being definitive
Scared of rejection
Not showing your cards
Answering like hes a burden
Not being grounded
Everything is a maybe
Answering a direct question with wordplay
Looking for reactions
Temperature checking
If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.
Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.
Dont damage him.
I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.
Earth and water, not so much.
Fire, toss up
This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign
Why don’t you try sending text messages more frequently instead of monthly.
You actually text the way I do. But I respond quicker because I suck at reaching out.
I wish I was more clingy and caring when it comes to communication.
He could be either sign based on his texting. But he’s flirting so that’s a good sign. Pick up the pace and see if he matches you.
I like your profile image/gif. I used that myself. 😂 actually i think its quite fitting for my situation. And thanks for actually replying without judging or scrutinizing 😁
Yeh he is quite flirty. Even on the phone he kept flirting i think half the time he was implying sexual things but me being a little slow didnt even realise till later. Like ohhh that's what you meant 😂. Oh and he complimented me a lot. Saying im unique and a very interesting person. Unlike women hes met before
He doesnt respond to texts that that well i think he prefers phone calls more often. So i think if i called more he would be happy with that its just, i get so lost doing my own things that i domt end up calling him.
Ill try picking up the pace thanks 😁🤔😂
If he’s a Sag, that’s probably what he’s waiting for.
Good luck. And thanks for the avi compliment. It’s my alter ego. Sometimes I could punch myself in the face for not being quicker about things. I’m always busy when it comes to reaching out. Even if I like or love the person. I don’t even know how to change.
I have a hard time with it being too little, or too much, so I just do nothing instead and hope they are mind readers 😭😭😭😖😅
Erm how am i exactly the same as you 😂😂😂😂. You described yourself and it describes me perfectly lol. Even if i like/love the person im terrible with contact. Wow. At least you understand and im not the only one 😂
Have you lost anyone because of being that way?
Its hard to tell. He could be sag because he complained about other girls being boring and hes quite adventurous. But then he gives me scorpio vibes too, in that he was so defensive at the beginning and is very untrusting and suspicious
Sometimes I lose them but I have a big ego so I think that it means it wasn’t meant to be if they go 😩😩😫🤣🤣
I recognized myself in the way you communicate. The only thing I do differently is respond fast because it’s the least I can do, since I don’t reach out.
But my communication gets better if they text more frequently. Sometimes men want it to be more even. I don’t mind that but once I text and it gets ignored, I go back to not texting at all. Either we’re doing this or we’re not! 😝
Men have told me that it seems like I’m not interested in them. I lose guys who love too quickly. I don’t lose the ones who need time to get to know someone. They are the ones who tolerate me and my bullshit.
I have Scorpio in my chart. So I am the same way. My birthday is the end of November. Scorpios reach out more and show more interest, I think. I love that about them cause I need that.
If both of you are really attractive, you both just may have too many options and so you will need to work a little harder to meet in the middle.
I’m good at knowing what I’m supposed to do, but I’m lazy at doing it. I always make excuses of why the guy should try harder. I never learn lessons. Lol.
Im the same aswell sometimes. Like i may be initially like damn. But then be like it is what it is.
Im exactly like that. I will rarely double text. Or double call. It would have to ne fairly equal. With this guy its exactly that too he will rarely call more than once and never text more than once if i dont respond back.
Im a scorpio moon. Snap!! 😂. I dont want to seem bigheaded so all ill say is a lot of guys say im pretty/hot/beautiful. As for this guy hes been in multiple relationships so i assume hes the same. And he keeps dropping all these female friends he has in to the conversation.
One weird thing is. At the start of the conversation (after i took initiative to call him) i mentioned my friend and how she spends a lot of money per month on makeup and he was like i should dm/snap/message her. Implying shes got money so hes interested. I just brushed it off. Inside i was like what a weird thing to say about my friend while youre on the phone to me l😂
And as for your last paragraph, same, im lazy too in terms of contact and think well the guy can do something. Its only when some time has passed that i think fine i will initiate. 😂
What’s your sun sign?
He sounds like a Scorpio, playing that jealousy card, looking for a reaction 🙄
You should’ve asked if he’s a gold digger and not a man who likes working for his money! That would’ve shut him up. Lol.
I’m the same as you with the double texting. People get the phone calls and text, so I just wait for a response until I forget about them completely. Too many men have been conditioned to get needy women who chase the hell out of them. I can’t do that, so I just give up. If the man wants me, he knows where to find me.
You should reach out a little more. Surprise him and see if he starts doing the same. 😉click to expand
I cant seem to reply to your last message for whatever reason but ill just reply here 😂
Does your virgo know how u feel about him?
And i agree he is direct by asking questions . But its not like he is opening up to me about how he feels necessarily. He asked do i want to meet him but he didnt say he wants to meet me, he asked if i like him but he didnt say anything about whether he liked me. Do you get what im saying . 😂.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by DMVPosted by DMV
You're very confusing
middle of the road
vague
Act like you cant be bothered
Lowkey gaslighting him
Not being definitive
Scared of rejection
Not showing your cards
Answering like hes a burden
Not being grounded
Everything is a maybe
Answering a direct question with wordplay
Looking for reactions
Temperature checking
If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.
Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.
Dont damage him.
I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.
Earth and water, not so much.
Fire, toss up
This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign
Why don’t you try sending text messages more frequently instead of monthly.
You actually text the way I do. But I respond quicker because I suck at reaching out.
I wish I was more clingy and caring when it comes to communication.
He could be either sign based on his texting. But he’s flirting so that’s a good sign. Pick up the pace and see if he matches you.
I like your profile image/gif. I used that myself. 😂 actually i think its quite fitting for my situation. And thanks for actually replying without judging or scrutinizing 😁
Yeh he is quite flirty. Even on the phone he kept flirting i think half the time he was implying sexual things but me being a little slow didnt even realise till later. Like ohhh that's what you meant 😂. Oh and he complimented me a lot. Saying im unique and a very interesting person. Unlike women hes met before
He doesnt respond to texts that that well i think he prefers phone calls more often. So i think if i called more he would be happy with that its just, i get so lost doing my own things that i domt end up calling him.
Ill try picking up the pace thanks 😁🤔😂
If he’s a Sag, that’s probably what he’s waiting for.
Good luck. And thanks for the avi compliment. It’s my alter ego. Sometimes I could punch myself in the face for not being quicker about things. I’m always busy when it comes to reaching out. Even if I like or love the person. I don’t even know how to change.
I have a hard time with it being too little, or too much, so I just do nothing instead and hope they are mind readers 😭😭😭😖😅
Erm how am i exactly the same as you 😂😂😂😂. You described yourself and it describes me perfectly lol. Even if i like/love the person im terrible with contact. Wow. At least you understand and im not the only one 😂
Have you lost anyone because of being that way?
Its hard to tell. He could be sag because he complained about other girls being boring and hes quite adventurous. But then he gives me scorpio vibes too, in that he was so defensive at the beginning and is very untrusting and suspicious
Sometimes I lose them but I have a big ego so I think that it means it wasn’t meant to be if they go 😩😩😫🤣🤣
I recognized myself in the way you communicate. The only thing I do differently is respond fast because it’s the least I can do, since I don’t reach out.
But my communication gets better if they text more frequently. Sometimes men want it to be more even. I don’t mind that but once I text and it gets ignored, I go back to not texting at all. Either we’re doing this or we’re not! 😝
Men have told me that it seems like I’m not interested in them. I lose guys who love too quickly. I don’t lose the ones who need time to get to know someone. They are the ones who tolerate me and my bullshit.
I have Scorpio in my chart. So I am the same way. My birthday is the end of November. Scorpios reach out more and show more interest, I think. I love that about them cause I need that.
If both of you are really attractive, you both just may have too many options and so you will need to work a little harder to meet in the middle.
I’m good at knowing what I’m supposed to do, but I’m lazy at doing it. I always make excuses of why the guy should try harder. I never learn lessons. Lol.
Im the same aswell sometimes. Like i may be initially like damn. But then be like it is what it is.
Im exactly like that. I will rarely double text. Or double call. It would have to ne fairly equal. With this guy its exactly that too he will rarely call more than once and never text more than once if i dont respond back.
Im a scorpio moon. Snap!! 😂. I dont want to seem bigheaded so all ill say is a lot of guys say im pretty/hot/beautiful. As for this guy hes been in multiple relationships so i assume hes the same. And he keeps dropping all these female friends he has in to the conversation.
One weird thing is. At the start of the conversation (after i took initiative to call him) i mentioned my friend and how she spends a lot of money per month on makeup and he was like i should dm/snap/message her. Implying shes got money so hes interested. I just brushed it off. Inside i was like what a weird thing to say about my friend while youre on the phone to me l😂
And as for your last paragraph, same, im lazy too in terms of contact and think well the guy can do something. Its only when some time has passed that i think fine i will initiate. 😂
What’s your sun sign?
He sounds like a Scorpio, playing that jealousy card, looking for a reaction 🙄
You should’ve asked if he’s a gold digger and not a man who likes working for his money! That would’ve shut him up. Lol.
I’m the same as you with the double texting. People get the phone calls and text, so I just wait for a response until I forget about them completely. Too many men have been conditioned to get needy women who chase the hell out of them. I can’t do that, so I just give up. If the man wants me, he knows where to find me.
You should reach out a little more. Surprise him and see if he starts doing the same. 😉
Virgo lol. Same as the guys you date 😂
Haha exactly. The age old jealousy card. Ive met way too many guys who try that on me. Never give them the satisfaction. I just play them at their own game when they least expect 😂. Yess i was thinking i should have mentioned him being a gold digger.
Sooo true about men being conditioned to expect women to chase after them. And ditto. I refuse to chase a guy. You are legit my twin. We're so similar
I bet this guy is like why wont she chase me like my previous women. 😂
Apparently his ex used to have a go at him for not calling her enough.
Hmmm i did think about trying a bit more.🤔 i mean i guess we did leave it on him asking if i want to meet him, so maybe hes thinking i should get back to him now. Like its my turn. ..
Well let’s hope he is a Scorpio because Scorpios move quicker to secure what they want. A Sag will bullshit, just like you’re doing, and mirror. Both of our signs need someone to initiate. He seems to be doing well by being direct.
WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS??!!!! Ugh!! Giving me PTSD !! Lmao!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Girl, I move slow as molasses if things aren’t clear. Which is why I’ve been in this situation for over a year and still looking. 😏
I did like the other one I dated for 9 months. So I’m just gonna see if he comes back around. But good thing you have Scorpio in your chart! Makes you a more passionate Virgo! The other one I’m dating has a Cancer moon and tons of Virgo aspects, and he is too boring for me. That’s the reason why I don’t like him completely and won’t settle. I need someone passionate.
You have that crazy moon! Lol. Damn. You’re getting me excited! 😜click to expand
Also i messaged him today earlier on...and no response. Hes just weird. I dunno.
Like going from a three hour conversation outlining us meeting and flirting and just overal everything to going cold. Fair enough i messaged him over a week later but at least i messaged u know what i mean.
Hes the kind of person who wont be polite or talk about what he wants or why hes gone cold. But at least if it was the other way around i would have replied even out of courtesy
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You do give him the runaround and you are treating him as an option!
When he asks to go out, you react like...meh... how would you feel if you would be the one asking someone out n get a ... meh... response? I bet you wouldnt like it!
You know, asking a woman out is just as scary for a man, as it would be for a woman. He finally has the guts to ask you out and you reply with a ...meh... response. How awkward!!
Seriously, make your mind up! Do you like him enough to procede to actual dating and see where it can lead to or do you already know it should stay in the friendship zone? If you already know, do yourself and him a favor and tell him. He obviously likes you enough to ask you out and he tried to see where it can lead to but you are very indifferent and give... meh... responses. Ofcourse he'll say things like you are treating him like an option. Cause you are doing exactly that!
Make your mind up and stop with the headgames!
Well the way he asked was not massively assertive, it sounded more like a friend asking to hang out. We were in the middle of talking about some thing else completely and he just randomly put that in there. Like oh btw do you want to meet me. So then i paused for a bit as he caught me off guard..and then replied with i dont mind.
If i friendzoned him, there's no way i would initiate contact with him at all.
But i suppose initiating isnt enough he needs me to tell him maybe that im interested. Which i admit i have failed on doing so
Women all over the world expect men to be the ones doing all the work. But they are just as scared as us to ask someone out. When they finally do, its often in a very unpractical, awkward way. And yes, it often comes across as tho they are barely interested. Its their shield. They dont want to get hurt. And girl, you sure did just that with the meh response.
Ok i get you. But he then followed up with only if he gets one more picture from me. So just imagine i was all excited, like yesss i would love to. And he comes out with that still. On this condition first.
If it doesnt feel good, be honest about that to yourself and tell him also straight up.
I know but i dont want to show too much emotion just yet. But then who knows maybe that's what he wants. Hes not the best at communicating either...click to expand
Telling him straight up what you want and how you feel doesnt have to be done with full-on emotions tho. Decide for yourself first what you want from him. And then tell him. But dont go telling him that you need to talk ahead of time. Tell him when you are ready, without warning him that you need to talk.
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You're very confusing
middle of the road
vague
Act like you cant be bothered
Lowkey gaslighting him
Not being definitive
Scared of rejection
Not showing your cards
Answering like hes a burden
Not being grounded
Everything is a maybe
Answering a direct question with wordplay
Looking for reactions
Temperature checking
If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.
Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.
Dont damage him.
I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.
Earth and water, not so much.
Fire, toss up
This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign
Why don’t you try sending text messages more frequently instead of monthly.
You actually text the way I do. But I respond quicker because I suck at reaching out.
I wish I was more clingy and caring when it comes to communication.
He could be either sign based on his texting. But he’s flirting so that’s a good sign. Pick up the pace and see if he matches you.
I like your profile image/gif. I used that myself. 😂 actually i think its quite fitting for my situation. And thanks for actually replying without judging or scrutinizing 😁
Yeh he is quite flirty. Even on the phone he kept flirting i think half the time he was implying sexual things but me being a little slow didnt even realise till later. Like ohhh that's what you meant 😂. Oh and he complimented me a lot. Saying im unique and a very interesting person. Unlike women hes met before
He doesnt respond to texts that that well i think he prefers phone calls more often. So i think if i called more he would be happy with that its just, i get so lost doing my own things that i domt end up calling him.
Ill try picking up the pace thanks 😁🤔😂
If he’s a Sag, that’s probably what he’s waiting for.
Good luck. And thanks for the avi compliment. It’s my alter ego. Sometimes I could punch myself in the face for not being quicker about things. I’m always busy when it comes to reaching out. Even if I like or love the person. I don’t even know how to change.
I have a hard time with it being too little, or too much, so I just do nothing instead and hope they are mind readers 😭😭😭😖😅
Erm how am i exactly the same as you 😂😂😂😂. You described yourself and it describes me perfectly lol. Even if i like/love the person im terrible with contact. Wow. At least you understand and im not the only one 😂
Have you lost anyone because of being that way?
Its hard to tell. He could be sag because he complained about other girls being boring and hes quite adventurous. But then he gives me scorpio vibes too, in that he was so defensive at the beginning and is very untrusting and suspicious
Sometimes I lose them but I have a big ego so I think that it means it wasn’t meant to be if they go 😩😩😫🤣🤣
I recognized myself in the way you communicate. The only thing I do differently is respond fast because it’s the least I can do, since I don’t reach out.
But my communication gets better if they text more frequently. Sometimes men want it to be more even. I don’t mind that but once I text and it gets ignored, I go back to not texting at all. Either we’re doing this or we’re not! 😝
Men have told me that it seems like I’m not interested in them. I lose guys who love too quickly. I don’t lose the ones who need time to get to know someone. They are the ones who tolerate me and my bullshit.
I have Scorpio in my chart. So I am the same way. My birthday is the end of November. Scorpios reach out more and show more interest, I think. I love that about them cause I need that.
If both of you are really attractive, you both just may have too many options and so you will need to work a little harder to meet in the middle.
I’m good at knowing what I’m supposed to do, but I’m lazy at doing it. I always make excuses of why the guy should try harder. I never learn lessons. Lol.
Im the same aswell sometimes. Like i may be initially like damn. But then be like it is what it is.
Im exactly like that. I will rarely double text. Or double call. It would have to ne fairly equal. With this guy its exactly that too he will rarely call more than once and never text more than once if i dont respond back.
Im a scorpio moon. Snap!! 😂. I dont want to seem bigheaded so all ill say is a lot of guys say im pretty/hot/beautiful. As for this guy hes been in multiple relationships so i assume hes the same. And he keeps dropping all these female friends he has in to the conversation.
One weird thing is. At the start of the conversation (after i took initiative to call him) i mentioned my friend and how she spends a lot of money per month on makeup and he was like i should dm/snap/message her. Implying shes got money so hes interested. I just brushed it off. Inside i was like what a weird thing to say about my friend while youre on the phone to me l😂
And as for your last paragraph, same, im lazy too in terms of contact and think well the guy can do something. Its only when some time has passed that i think fine i will initiate. 😂
What’s your sun sign?
He sounds like a Scorpio, playing that jealousy card, looking for a reaction 🙄
You should’ve asked if he’s a gold digger and not a man who likes working for his money! That would’ve shut him up. Lol.
I’m the same as you with the double texting. People get the phone calls and text, so I just wait for a response until I forget about them completely. Too many men have been conditioned to get needy women who chase the hell out of them. I can’t do that, so I just give up. If the man wants me, he knows where to find me.
You should reach out a little more. Surprise him and see if he starts doing the same. 😉
Virgo lol. Same as the guys you date 😂
Haha exactly. The age old jealousy card. Ive met way too many guys who try that on me. Never give them the satisfaction. I just play them at their own game when they least expect 😂. Yess i was thinking i should have mentioned him being a gold digger.
Sooo true about men being conditioned to expect women to chase after them. And ditto. I refuse to chase a guy. You are legit my twin. We're so similar
I bet this guy is like why wont she chase me like my previous women. 😂
Apparently his ex used to have a go at him for not calling her enough.
Hmmm i did think about trying a bit more.🤔 i mean i guess we did leave it on him asking if i want to meet him, so maybe hes thinking i should get back to him now. Like its my turn. ..
Well let’s hope he is a Scorpio because Scorpios move quicker to secure what they want. A Sag will bullshit, just like you’re doing, and mirror. Both of our signs need someone to initiate. He seems to be doing well by being direct.
WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS??!!!! Ugh!! Giving me PTSD !! Lmao!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Girl, I move slow as molasses if things aren’t clear. Which is why I’ve been in this situation for over a year and still looking. 😏
I did like the other one I dated for 9 months. So I’m just gonna see if he comes back around. But good thing you have Scorpio in your chart! Makes you a more passionate Virgo! The other one I’m dating has a Cancer moon and tons of Virgo aspects, and he is too boring for me. That’s the reason why I don’t like him completely and won’t settle. I need someone passionate.
You have that crazy moon! Lol. Damn. You’re getting me excited! 😜
Also i messaged him today earlier on...and no response. Hes just weird. I dunno.
Like going from a three hour conversation outlining us meeting and flirting and just overal everything to going cold. Fair enough i messaged him over a week later but at least i messaged u know what i mean.
Hes the kind of person who wont be polite or talk about what he wants or why hes gone cold. But at least if it was the other way around i would have replied even out of courtesyclick to expand
You guys both were doing the cold thing back and forth and now because of your interest changing, you are expecting more from him. But things are the same for now. You liking him more is why it bugs you
You two just need to meet in the middle.
It’s good you reached out. After the long conversation he can tell your interest level now. So it’s up to him to reciprocate.
Sometimes doing things out of courtesy when there is no interest does more harm then good.
Talking so long on the phone shows lots of interest.
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You're very confusing
middle of the road
vague
Act like you cant be bothered
Lowkey gaslighting him
Not being definitive
Scared of rejection
Not showing your cards
Answering like hes a burden
Not being grounded
Everything is a maybe
Answering a direct question with wordplay
Looking for reactions
Temperature checking
If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.
Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.
Dont damage him.
I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.
Earth and water, not so much.
Fire, toss up
This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign
Why don’t you try sending text messages more frequently instead of monthly.
You actually text the way I do. But I respond quicker because I suck at reaching out.
I wish I was more clingy and caring when it comes to communication.
He could be either sign based on his texting. But he’s flirting so that’s a good sign. Pick up the pace and see if he matches you.
I like your profile image/gif. I used that myself. 😂 actually i think its quite fitting for my situation. And thanks for actually replying without judging or scrutinizing 😁
Yeh he is quite flirty. Even on the phone he kept flirting i think half the time he was implying sexual things but me being a little slow didnt even realise till later. Like ohhh that's what you meant 😂. Oh and he complimented me a lot. Saying im unique and a very interesting person. Unlike women hes met before
He doesnt respond to texts that that well i think he prefers phone calls more often. So i think if i called more he would be happy with that its just, i get so lost doing my own things that i domt end up calling him.
Ill try picking up the pace thanks 😁🤔😂
If he’s a Sag, that’s probably what he’s waiting for.
Good luck. And thanks for the avi compliment. It’s my alter ego. Sometimes I could punch myself in the face for not being quicker about things. I’m always busy when it comes to reaching out. Even if I like or love the person. I don’t even know how to change.
I have a hard time with it being too little, or too much, so I just do nothing instead and hope they are mind readers 😭😭😭😖😅
Erm how am i exactly the same as you 😂😂😂😂. You described yourself and it describes me perfectly lol. Even if i like/love the person im terrible with contact. Wow. At least you understand and im not the only one 😂
Have you lost anyone because of being that way?
Its hard to tell. He could be sag because he complained about other girls being boring and hes quite adventurous. But then he gives me scorpio vibes too, in that he was so defensive at the beginning and is very untrusting and suspicious
Sometimes I lose them but I have a big ego so I think that it means it wasn’t meant to be if they go 😩😩😫🤣🤣
I recognized myself in the way you communicate. The only thing I do differently is respond fast because it’s the least I can do, since I don’t reach out.
But my communication gets better if they text more frequently. Sometimes men want it to be more even. I don’t mind that but once I text and it gets ignored, I go back to not texting at all. Either we’re doing this or we’re not! 😝
Men have told me that it seems like I’m not interested in them. I lose guys who love too quickly. I don’t lose the ones who need time to get to know someone. They are the ones who tolerate me and my bullshit.
I have Scorpio in my chart. So I am the same way. My birthday is the end of November. Scorpios reach out more and show more interest, I think. I love that about them cause I need that.
If both of you are really attractive, you both just may have too many options and so you will need to work a little harder to meet in the middle.
I’m good at knowing what I’m supposed to do, but I’m lazy at doing it. I always make excuses of why the guy should try harder. I never learn lessons. Lol.
Im the same aswell sometimes. Like i may be initially like damn. But then be like it is what it is.
Im exactly like that. I will rarely double text. Or double call. It would have to ne fairly equal. With this guy its exactly that too he will rarely call more than once and never text more than once if i dont respond back.
Im a scorpio moon. Snap!! 😂. I dont want to seem bigheaded so all ill say is a lot of guys say im pretty/hot/beautiful. As for this guy hes been in multiple relationships so i assume hes the same. And he keeps dropping all these female friends he has in to the conversation.
One weird thing is. At the start of the conversation (after i took initiative to call him) i mentioned my friend and how she spends a lot of money per month on makeup and he was like i should dm/snap/message her. Implying shes got money so hes interested. I just brushed it off. Inside i was like what a weird thing to say about my friend while youre on the phone to me l😂
And as for your last paragraph, same, im lazy too in terms of contact and think well the guy can do something. Its only when some time has passed that i think fine i will initiate. 😂
What’s your sun sign?
He sounds like a Scorpio, playing that jealousy card, looking for a reaction 🙄
You should’ve asked if he’s a gold digger and not a man who likes working for his money! That would’ve shut him up. Lol.
I’m the same as you with the double texting. People get the phone calls and text, so I just wait for a response until I forget about them completely. Too many men have been conditioned to get needy women who chase the hell out of them. I can’t do that, so I just give up. If the man wants me, he knows where to find me.
You should reach out a little more. Surprise him and see if he starts doing the same. 😉
Virgo lol. Same as the guys you date 😂
Haha exactly. The age old jealousy card. Ive met way too many guys who try that on me. Never give them the satisfaction. I just play them at their own game when they least expect 😂. Yess i was thinking i should have mentioned him being a gold digger.
Sooo true about men being conditioned to expect women to chase after them. And ditto. I refuse to chase a guy. You are legit my twin. We're so similar
I bet this guy is like why wont she chase me like my previous women. 😂
Apparently his ex used to have a go at him for not calling her enough.
Hmmm i did think about trying a bit more.🤔 i mean i guess we did leave it on him asking if i want to meet him, so maybe hes thinking i should get back to him now. Like its my turn. ..
Well let’s hope he is a Scorpio because Scorpios move quicker to secure what they want. A Sag will bullshit, just like you’re doing, and mirror. Both of our signs need someone to initiate. He seems to be doing well by being direct.
WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS??!!!! Ugh!! Giving me PTSD !! Lmao!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Girl, I move slow as molasses if things aren’t clear. Which is why I’ve been in this situation for over a year and still looking. 😏
I did like the other one I dated for 9 months. So I’m just gonna see if he comes back around. But good thing you have Scorpio in your chart! Makes you a more passionate Virgo! The other one I’m dating has a Cancer moon and tons of Virgo aspects, and he is too boring for me. That’s the reason why I don’t like him completely and won’t settle. I need someone passionate.
You have that crazy moon! Lol. Damn. You’re getting me excited! 😜click to expand
Erm i cant seem to quote and reply to your any of your new messages. So i guess this is the way it has to be lol
Yeh i think so too, i think spending 3 hours on the phone shows interest on his part. As polite as i am if wasn't interested in someone i would either just send a short text or if i spoke wouldnt be longer than 15 minutes max
I think with him from our last convo he was expecting a pic or something. U know how he told me to send him one. Because before he meets he wanted another pic. And i didnt send him anything or speak after. So i dunno
What i have noticed is he prefers phonecalls to messages. So if i message he choses what to reply to but with calls he will call back or pick up straight away.
Also he may just be insecure and still think i see him as an option, because he did say it in our last call lol. But either way im not going to go above and beyond to show him hes not.
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You do give him the runaround and you are treating him as an option!
When he asks to go out, you react like...meh... how would you feel if you would be the one asking someone out n get a ... meh... response? I bet you wouldnt like it!
You know, asking a woman out is just as scary for a man, as it would be for a woman. He finally has the guts to ask you out and you reply with a ...meh... response. How awkward!!
Seriously, make your mind up! Do you like him enough to procede to actual dating and see where it can lead to or do you already know it should stay in the friendship zone? If you already know, do yourself and him a favor and tell him. He obviously likes you enough to ask you out and he tried to see where it can lead to but you are very indifferent and give... meh... responses. Ofcourse he'll say things like you are treating him like an option. Cause you are doing exactly that!
Make your mind up and stop with the headgames!
Well the way he asked was not massively assertive, it sounded more like a friend asking to hang out. We were in the middle of talking about some thing else completely and he just randomly put that in there. Like oh btw do you want to meet me. So then i paused for a bit as he caught me off guard..and then replied with i dont mind.
If i friendzoned him, there's no way i would initiate contact with him at all.
But i suppose initiating isnt enough he needs me to tell him maybe that im interested. Which i admit i have failed on doing so
Women all over the world expect men to be the ones doing all the work. But they are just as scared as us to ask someone out. When they finally do, its often in a very unpractical, awkward way. And yes, it often comes across as tho they are barely interested. Its their shield. They dont want to get hurt. And girl, you sure did just that with the meh response.
Ok i get you. But he then followed up with only if he gets one more picture from me. So just imagine i was all excited, like yesss i would love to. And he comes out with that still. On this condition first.
If it doesnt feel good, be honest about that to yourself and tell him also straight up.
I know but i dont want to show too much emotion just yet. But then who knows maybe that's what he wants. Hes not the best at communicating either...
Telling him straight up what you want and how you feel doesnt have to be done with full-on emotions tho. Decide for yourself first what you want from him. And then tell him. But dont go telling him that you need to talk ahead of time. Tell him when you are ready, without warning him that you need to talk.click to expand
This isna good idea. Yeh i can just try and be open for the first time ever 😂. And c if it makes a difference. He may be surprised but if after that it still carries on being difficult im going to have to call it a day
I just read the response. We reached our max because we are such chatter boxes! 😉
So he wants a pic? And I’m a little confused about the meet up. Have you guys met in person before?
ThIs could change everything if you haven’t met.
Sometimes men want more pics from different angles to make sure you look like your pics. If you haven’t met in person.
I’m hoping you guys have met previously though. Seems like a waste of time for months if you haven’t.
So he wants a pic? And I’m a little confused about the meet up. Have you guys met in person before?
ThIs could change everything if you haven’t met.
Sometimes men want more pics from different angles to make sure you look like your pics. If you haven’t met in person.
I’m hoping you guys have met previously though. Seems like a waste of time for months if you haven’t.
Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX
Just leave him alone and let him sandwich in peace.
😂😂. Whaaattt
Posted by saggurl88
I just read the response. We reached our max because we are such chatter boxes! 😉
So he wants a pic? And I’m a little confused about the meet up. Have you guys met in person before?
ThIs could change everything if you haven’t met.
Sometimes men want more pics from different angles to make sure you look like your pics. If you haven’t met in person.
I’m hoping you guys have met previously though. Seems like a waste of time for months if you haven’t.
Lol no we have not met, just seen pics. To be fair, when we ddidnt talk i was doing my own thing and he was doing his so i guess it didnt matter.
Now being in isolation and having nothing else to do, probably wasting time on it more. Whereas when I'm out there😂 just am getting on with my life if u get what i mean.
So yeh he liked the one pic i sent him, im guessing he wants to see more. I feel like hes really into womens looks, as he kept saying how unattractive the women were who his friends were trying to set him up with
Posted by Marai
Oh man... If he can't be your priority, just leave him alone indeed. It's not fair.
I dont know wht he wants. He complained he doesnt want to be my texting friend so i stopped texting as much and now call him instead. Call him finally after ages for three hours an still has to act like i see him an option..
Does he want more frequent contact or something. Maybe hes the one whos actually needy🤨
Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88
I just read the response. We reached our max because we are such chatter boxes! 😉
So he wants a pic? And I’m a little confused about the meet up. Have you guys met in person before?
ThIs could change everything if you haven’t met.
Sometimes men want more pics from different angles to make sure you look like your pics. If you haven’t met in person.
I’m hoping you guys have met previously though. Seems like a waste of time for months if you haven’t.
Lol no we have not met, just seen pics. To be fair, when we ddidnt talk i was doing my own thing and he was doing his so i guess it didnt matter.
Now being in isolation and having nothing else to do, probably wasting time on it more. Whereas when I'm out there😂 just am getting on with my life if u get what i mean.
So yeh he liked the one pic i sent him, im guessing he wants to see more. I feel like hes really into womens looks, as he kept saying how unattractive the women were who his friends were trying to set him up withclick to expand
Oh man 😅 This quarantine gives everyone more time on their hands.
I think you guys should meet in person ASAP and just think of it as a friendship for now until you meet.
Both of you all the sudden showing interest with what’s going on, can seem insincere and leave room for doubt, since you two had so much free time before and have never made much effort.
Posted by Marai
Oh man... If he can't be your priority, just leave him alone indeed. It's not fair.
Im guessing once every couple weeks isnt enough
Posted by saggurl88Posted by molly94Posted by saggurl88
I just read the response. We reached our max because we are such chatter boxes! 😉
So he wants a pic? And I’m a little confused about the meet up. Have you guys met in person before?
ThIs could change everything if you haven’t met.
Sometimes men want more pics from different angles to make sure you look like your pics. If you haven’t met in person.
I’m hoping you guys have met previously though. Seems like a waste of time for months if you haven’t.
Lol no we have not met, just seen pics. To be fair, when we ddidnt talk i was doing my own thing and he was doing his so i guess it didnt matter.
Now being in isolation and having nothing else to do, probably wasting time on it more. Whereas when I'm out there😂 just am getting on with my life if u get what i mean.
So yeh he liked the one pic i sent him, im guessing he wants to see more. I feel like hes really into womens looks, as he kept saying how unattractive the women were who his friends were trying to set him up with
Oh man 😅 This quarantine gives everyone more time on their hands.
I think you guys should meet in person ASAP and just think of it as a friendship for now until you meet.
Both of you all the sudden showing interest with what’s going on, can seem insincere and leave room for doubt, since you two had so much free time before and have never made much effort.click to expand
😅youre telling me. 😂. He speaks to me in such a flirty way. I guess guys are good at talking in that way..an then later on detaching if needs be. Whereas i cant be fake like that.
I guess he does want to meet but then again he wont case its not me whose pic hes seen. 😳talk about paranoid. I barely even think about things like that and ive met lots of people in person after speaking to them online.
I honestly have no idea when we would meet any way given this quarantine situation lol. 🤔 i just hope we dont drift apart again before we can meet. I dont know if i have the energy to try all over again.
Posted by MaraiPosted by molly94Posted by Marai
Oh man... If he can't be your priority, just leave him alone indeed. It's not fair.
Im guessing once every couple weeks isnt enough
Depends on what his wants and needs are.
But he already stated wants be first choice, therefore priority, and if you can't give him that.. let him goclick to expand
Well he didnt use those words that he wants to be my priority or first choice..all he said was he refuses to be a penpal...as in just someone who texts him from time to time
Posted by MaraiPosted by molly94Posted by MaraiPosted by molly94Posted by Marai
Oh man... If he can't be your priority, just leave him alone indeed. It's not fair.
Im guessing once every couple weeks isnt enough
Depends on what his wants and needs are.
But he already stated wants be first choice, therefore priority, and if you can't give him that.. let him go
Well he didnt use those words that he wants to be my priority or first choice..all he said was he refuses to be a penpal...as in just someone who texts him from time to time
He said he feels like an option. Right?
There you go...click to expand
Oh right yeh. 🤔 but i dont know how to not make him feel that way. 🤔.
Im guessing his exes were probably extra attentive and communicating 24/7
Posted by MaraiPosted by molly94Posted by MaraiPosted by molly94Posted by MaraiPosted by molly94Posted by Marai
Oh man... If he can't be your priority, just leave him alone indeed. It's not fair.
Im guessing once every couple weeks isnt enough
Depends on what his wants and needs are.
But he already stated wants be first choice, therefore priority, and if you can't give him that.. let him go
Well he didnt use those words that he wants to be my priority or first choice..all he said was he refuses to be a penpal...as in just someone who texts him from time to time
He said he feels like an option. Right?
There you go...
Oh right yeh. 🤔 but i dont know how to not make him feel that way. 🤔.
Im guessing his exes were probably extra attentive and communicating 24/7
Ask for a friendship? And if he can't accept that then you should probably leave him alone. Kinda pointless if you both want different thingsclick to expand
I dont think he likes the word friend 😂😂. I just remember him telling me his ex said they could be friends because she didnt want to be with him anymore. And he said he declined the offer and basically told her to stick it😂
Posted by MaraiPosted by molly94Posted by MaraiPosted by molly94Posted by MaraiPosted by molly94Posted by MaraiPosted by molly94Posted by Marai
Oh man... If he can't be your priority, just leave him alone indeed. It's not fair.
Im guessing once every couple weeks isnt enough
Depends on what his wants and needs are.
But he already stated wants be first choice, therefore priority, and if you can't give him that.. let him go
Well he didnt use those words that he wants to be my priority or first choice..all he said was he refuses to be a penpal...as in just someone who texts him from time to time
He said he feels like an option. Right?
There you go...
Oh right yeh. 🤔 but i dont know how to not make him feel that way. 🤔.
Im guessing his exes were probably extra attentive and communicating 24/7
Ask for a friendship? And if he can't accept that then you should probably leave him alone. Kinda pointless if you both want different things
I dont think he likes the word friend 😂😂. I just remember him telling me his ex said they could be friends because she didnt want to be with him anymore. And he said he declined the offer and basically told her to stick it😂
Ok, then do you really need to ask more?😂click to expand
😪😢 i guess not
One thing that would help you ladies is to stop worrying about what the guy wants and spend more time thinking about what you want and whether or not you are getting it. If things are not lining up the way you want them then move on to someone else.
Posted by DonnaLibra
One thing that would help you ladies is to stop worrying about what the guy wants and spend more time thinking about what you want and whether or not you are getting it. If things are not lining up the way you want them then move on to someone else.
That's accurate. And normally i do i mean ive spoken to a tonne of guys and if they start acting weird n what n not i will just delete/block
With this one initially i thought id try again since he was serious from the beginning but i was acting out and kind of pushing him away without meaning to.
To be fair he did show heaps of interest in the last conversation including wanting to meet. But then i didnt contact him since.
And over a week has gone by now. So im just like what now.
Its boring even me now this situation
Posted by DonnaLibra
One thing that would help you ladies is to stop worrying about what the guy wants and spend more time thinking about what you want and whether or not you are getting it. If things are not lining up the way you want them then move on to someone else.
I guess im not giving him enough or what he wants. 🤔
But can i be bothered in the end
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