besarlalluvia
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No contact for a week, should I call him? (Page 3)
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Posted by NemDeuxPosted by GobbyPosted by NemDeux
you sound overdramatic ....
geez.
That's American women for you... 😆
we don´t know if the OP is american .....something tells me she is from a more "traditional" background ....something ethnic.click to expand
Im mixed. Part morrocan, part white
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by molly94Posted by MaraiPosted by molly94Posted by MaraiPosted by molly94Posted by Marai
Oh man... If he can't be your priority, just leave him alone indeed. It's not fair.
Im guessing once every couple weeks isnt enough
Depends on what his wants and needs are.
But he already stated wants be first choice, therefore priority, and if you can't give him that.. let him go
Well he didnt use those words that he wants to be my priority or first choice..all he said was he refuses to be a penpal...as in just someone who texts him from time to time
He said he feels like an option. Right?
There you go...
Oh right yeh. 🤔 but i dont know how to not make him feel that way. 🤔.
Im guessing his exes were probably extra attentive and communicating 24/7
have you heard of the expression quality over quantity?click to expand
Oh yeah 😂😂. Well the last.conversation was quality but im beginning to forget details now 😂 its fading awayyyy.. it been two weeks now. I sent a animated gif.yesterday to which he replied are you bored. 🤔
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by GobbyPosted by NemDeux
you sound overdramatic ....
geez.
That's American women for you... 😆
we don´t know if the OP is american .....something tells me she is from a more "traditional" background ....something ethnic.
Yeah. She said she's never had an fwb or a proper relationship and thinks people who had relationships and fwb are funny.
fwb are bullshit imo anyway. it´s such self-deception. so, good for her regarding that aspect!
very rarely are people able to differentiate or really keep those boundaries up.
yeahh .....the op reminds me a bit of the princess on the pea lol.click to expand
Lol thanks
I think i am a bit like the princess om the pea 😂😂
Posted by SlipperySlopePosted by LostinmyMind11
"told me i should learn how to cook and it could be a little project for me"
I would have told him...how about I make you a fuck off sandwich?!
Anyway, as someone who is oblivious and aloof themselves...even I can see you play too much.
It's sound advice though...click to expand
It sounded more like hes training me up to be a domestic goddess
Posted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by GobbyPosted by NemDeux
you sound overdramatic ....
geez.
That's American women for you... 😆
we don´t know if the OP is american .....something tells me she is from a more "traditional" background ....something ethnic.
Yeah. She said she's never had an fwb or a proper relationship and thinks people who had relationships and fwb are funny.click to expand
I dont find them funny. Each to their own. I dont mean to come across judgemental.
But personally i couldn't do a fwb. Even if this guy asked i would outright say no.
Posted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by GobbyPosted by NemDeux
you sound overdramatic ....
geez.
That's American women for you... 😆
we don´t know if the OP is american .....something tells me she is from a more "traditional" background ....something ethnic.
Yeah. She said she's never had an fwb or a proper relationship and thinks people who had relationships and fwb are funny.
fwb are bullshit imo anyway. it´s such self-deception. so, good for her regarding that aspect!
very rarely are people able to differentiate or really keep those boundaries up.
yeahh .....the op reminds me a bit of the princess on the pea lol.
She's never experienced anything lol but she's quite arrogant. I don't like her. Lol regarding fwb and relationships boundaries are def important. And it really depends on one's personality on how he or she can navigate both. Yes she definitely does act that way 😂😂😂😂😂
pride comes before the fall ....idk maybe she grew up very sheltered/coddled.
in any case, if the username suggests birth year 1994 .....that makes her 26 .....
as for FWB ....my experience has been; one party always looses their shit 😄 😄
She probably did or she wants to appear like she did. I can't believe a thing she says 😂 I am not wondering why the guy is acting the way he is. It's hard to take her word. Yes, I reckon she's 26. I'm not even 10 years older than she is IRL. Ahhhh yes 😂 that happens in fwb. I had my fair share of hits and misses on that one. The good ol days 😜 no regrets though. I learned so much.click to expand
25 still not 26
I wouldnt say ive necessarily led a sheltered life but ive not been the wildest person out there either. 😂
Plenty of guys have wanted just a pirely physical thing, and ive simply declined.
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by GobbyPosted by NemDeux
you sound overdramatic ....
geez.
That's American women for you... 😆
we don´t know if the OP is american .....something tells me she is from a more "traditional" background ....something ethnic.
Yeah. She said she's never had an fwb or a proper relationship and thinks people who had relationships and fwb are funny.
fwb are bullshit imo anyway. it´s such self-deception. so, good for her regarding that aspect!
very rarely are people able to differentiate or really keep those boundaries up.
yeahh .....the op reminds me a bit of the princess on the pea lol.
She's never experienced anything lol but she's quite arrogant. I don't like her. Lol regarding fwb and relationships boundaries are def important. And it really depends on one's personality on how he or she can navigate both. Yes she definitely does act that way 😂😂😂😂😂
pride comes before the fall ....idk maybe she grew up very sheltered/coddled.
in any case, if the username suggests birth year 1994 .....that makes her 26 .....
as for FWB ....my experience has been; one party always looses their shit 😄 😄
She probably did or she wants to appear like she did. I can't believe a thing she says 😂 I am not wondering why the guy is acting the way he is. It's hard to take her word. Yes, I reckon she's 26. I'm not even 10 years older than she is IRL. Ahhhh yes 😂 that happens in fwb. I had my fair share of hits and misses on that one. The good ol days 😜 no regrets though. I learned so much.
😄 😄 we should leave that in the past, dear 😄
are we on week two now of no communication?
i´ve lost track ....click to expand
Yep week two
Hes just asked if im bored yesterday by text after the funny gif i sent.
And i decided not to respond to that
Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by Marai
Oh man... If he can't be your priority, just leave him alone indeed. It's not fair.
I dont know wht he wants. He complained he doesnt want to be my texting friend so i stopped texting as much and now call him instead. Call him finally after ages for three hours an still has to act like i see him an option..
Does he want more frequent contact or something. Maybe hes the one whos actually needy🤨
Lol, this doesn't mean call instead of text. I swear virgos always read things so literally!!
He's saying don't waste his time leading him on. As in, women have loads of options and just maintain connection with small texts, maybe a half-assed semi nude every now and then. Doing the bare minimum to keep those options interested but basically shooting them down every time they pursue you. You literally said you have options, so he is telling you straight out to stop doing that. This is a guy who knows his worth and also knows he wants you, so if you want him, stop playing, because he seems to know these games very well and isn't falling for itclick to expand
I😂😂😂 a half assed semi nude. That made me laugh.
Well how do i show im not a game player 😂 because im not. Even though no matter what i do or say he thinks that.
I think u may have read he asked me to meet him, the last time we spoke. And i said i dont mind🤔. Then he said he wanted one more photo. But yeah its been silence since. So what now
Posted by molly94Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by Marai
Oh man... If he can't be your priority, just leave him alone indeed. It's not fair.
I dont know wht he wants. He complained he doesnt want to be my texting friend so i stopped texting as much and now call him instead. Call him finally after ages for three hours an still has to act like i see him an option..
Does he want more frequent contact or something. Maybe hes the one whos actually needy🤨
Lol, this doesn't mean call instead of text. I swear virgos always read things so literally!!
He's saying don't waste his time leading him on. As in, women have loads of options and just maintain connection with small texts, maybe a half-assed semi nude every now and then. Doing the bare minimum to keep those options interested but basically shooting them down every time they pursue you. You literally said you have options, so he is telling you straight out to stop doing that. This is a guy who knows his worth and also knows he wants you, so if you want him, stop playing, because he seems to know these games very well and isn't falling for it
I😂😂😂 a half assed semi nude. That made me laugh.
Well how do i show im not a game player 😂 because im not. Even though no matter what i do or say he thinks that.
I think u may have read he asked me to meet him, the last time we spoke. And i said i dont mind🤔. Then he said he wanted one more photo. But yeah its been silence since. So what nowclick to expand
Show some more oomph in your responses. "i don't mind" well is it yes or no?? You sound too ambivalent and waiting for him to make moves and for us to make decisions for you. Are you a robot waiting to be programmed??
Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by Marai
Oh man... If he can't be your priority, just leave him alone indeed. It's not fair.
I dont know wht he wants. He complained he doesnt want to be my texting friend so i stopped texting as much and now call him instead. Call him finally after ages for three hours an still has to act like i see him an option..
Does he want more frequent contact or something. Maybe hes the one whos actually needy🤨
Lol, this doesn't mean call instead of text. I swear virgos always read things so literally!!
He's saying don't waste his time leading him on. As in, women have loads of options and just maintain connection with small texts, maybe a half-assed semi nude every now and then. Doing the bare minimum to keep those options interested but basically shooting them down every time they pursue you. You literally said you have options, so he is telling you straight out to stop doing that. This is a guy who knows his worth and also knows he wants you, so if you want him, stop playing, because he seems to know these games very well and isn't falling for it
I😂😂😂 a half assed semi nude. That made me laugh.
Well how do i show im not a game player 😂 because im not. Even though no matter what i do or say he thinks that.
I think u may have read he asked me to meet him, the last time we spoke. And i said i dont mind🤔. Then he said he wanted one more photo. But yeah its been silence since. So what now
Show some more oomph in your responses. "i don't mind" well is it yes or no?? You sound too ambivalent and waiting for him to make moves and for us to make decisions for you. Are you a robot waiting to be programmed??click to expand
Fair enough.😂😂😂 I could try that
I guess every situation is different. But ive also seen women give their absolute all to the man and be very much full of oomph but in the end he'll be like no thanks. Well ive seen it with my own friend. And all she is at times is simply devastated.
Posted by molly94Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by Marai
Oh man... If he can't be your priority, just leave him alone indeed. It's not fair.
I dont know wht he wants. He complained he doesnt want to be my texting friend so i stopped texting as much and now call him instead. Call him finally after ages for three hours an still has to act like i see him an option..
Does he want more frequent contact or something. Maybe hes the one whos actually needy🤨
Lol, this doesn't mean call instead of text. I swear virgos always read things so literally!!
He's saying don't waste his time leading him on. As in, women have loads of options and just maintain connection with small texts, maybe a half-assed semi nude every now and then. Doing the bare minimum to keep those options interested but basically shooting them down every time they pursue you. You literally said you have options, so he is telling you straight out to stop doing that. This is a guy who knows his worth and also knows he wants you, so if you want him, stop playing, because he seems to know these games very well and isn't falling for it
I😂😂😂 a half assed semi nude. That made me laugh.
Well how do i show im not a game player 😂 because im not. Even though no matter what i do or say he thinks that.
I think u may have read he asked me to meet him, the last time we spoke. And i said i dont mind🤔. Then he said he wanted one more photo. But yeah its been silence since. So what now
Show some more oomph in your responses. "i don't mind" well is it yes or no?? You sound too ambivalent and waiting for him to make moves and for us to make decisions for you. Are you a robot waiting to be programmed??
Fair enough.😂😂😂 I could try that
I guess every situation is different. But ive also seen women give their absolute all to the man and be very much full of oomph but in the end he'll be like no thanks. Well ive seen it with my own friend. And all she is at times is simply devastated.click to expand
It seems you're scared because of what happened to ur friend. But it sounds like she put all her emotional eggs in one basket, and you are doing the opposite extreme by trying to play men at their game. Both these extremes are based on insecurity - needing validation vs avoiding rejection. To be comfortable on this scale u need to assert your needs and desires - whether that's love, affection, good dick, money - whatever, but also accept that u ain't everybody's cup of tea and definitely not god's gift.
However I think this man has done enough to validate your worthiness and ur confidence should be boosted enough for u to say outright what it is that u want. If u think the man is sex on legs, u tell him that (it's called flirting). The more u think about the outcome and plan how you're going to SPEAK, the more awkward it will be. If u have to plan and think about it that much, honestly just stop beating a dead horse (sounds like he's come to this conclusion himself).
Btw when girls put their all in for a dude and get fucked over, it's normally having sex and expecting a full-out relationship after. If u both want sex there is nothing wrong with it, but if he hasn't said he wants to be ur man, don't build a relationship in ur head to hurt yourself. I have been in this situation before, and honestly us girls sometimes do this shit to ourselves by not listening
Posted by MissKrabs
Yeah you seem bored and not really interested, and he obv sees it. Which is fine since so many ppl are bored now or better in lack of social contacts but he is not looking for that.
And what is that i feel like a sandwich? What kind of slang did i miss lol
Well i sent a gif which showed i was bored lol. Hence he asked if i am.
Well he asked me if i like him, i said sometimes yes and sometimes no to which he replied the sandwich comment.
So im assuming an inbetween thing. Or maybe he should have said sandwich filling lool. 😂
Its weird for him to come out with such a cute nerdy comment given the job he has where he always has to exert his masculinity 😂.
Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by Marai
Oh man... If he can't be your priority, just leave him alone indeed. It's not fair.
I dont know wht he wants. He complained he doesnt want to be my texting friend so i stopped texting as much and now call him instead. Call him finally after ages for three hours an still has to act like i see him an option..
Does he want more frequent contact or something. Maybe hes the one whos actually needy🤨
Lol, this doesn't mean call instead of text. I swear virgos always read things so literally!!
He's saying don't waste his time leading him on. As in, women have loads of options and just maintain connection with small texts, maybe a half-assed semi nude every now and then. Doing the bare minimum to keep those options interested but basically shooting them down every time they pursue you. You literally said you have options, so he is telling you straight out to stop doing that. This is a guy who knows his worth and also knows he wants you, so if you want him, stop playing, because he seems to know these games very well and isn't falling for it
I😂😂😂 a half assed semi nude. That made me laugh.
Well how do i show im not a game player 😂 because im not. Even though no matter what i do or say he thinks that.
I think u may have read he asked me to meet him, the last time we spoke. And i said i dont mind🤔. Then he said he wanted one more photo. But yeah its been silence since. So what now
Show some more oomph in your responses. "i don't mind" well is it yes or no?? You sound too ambivalent and waiting for him to make moves and for us to make decisions for you. Are you a robot waiting to be programmed??
Fair enough.😂😂😂 I could try that
I guess every situation is different. But ive also seen women give their absolute all to the man and be very much full of oomph but in the end he'll be like no thanks. Well ive seen it with my own friend. And all she is at times is simply devastated.
It seems you're scared because of what happened to ur friend. But it sounds like she put all her emotional eggs in one basket, and you are doing the opposite extreme by trying to play men at their game. Both these extremes are based on insecurity - needing validation vs avoiding rejection. To be comfortable on this scale u need to assert your needs and desires - whether that's love, affection, good dick, money - whatever, but also accept that u ain't everybody's cup of tea and definitely not god's gift.
However I think this man has done enough to validate your worthiness and ur confidence should be boosted enough for u to say outright what it is that u want. If u think the man is sex on legs, u tell him that (it's called flirting). The more u think about the outcome and plan how you're going to SPEAK, the more awkward it will be. If u have to plan and think about it that much, honestly just stop beating a dead horse (sounds like he's come to this conclusion himself).
Btw when girls put their all in for a dude and get fucked over, it's normally having sex and expecting a full-out relationship after. If u both want sex there is nothing wrong with it, but if he hasn't said he wants to be ur man, don't build a relationship in ur head to hurt yourself. I have been in this situation before, and honestly us girls sometimes do this shit to ourselves by not listeningclick to expand
I know she did but the thing is she never stopped shes continued in something where the guy is using her and does not want a commitment .
I have such a big fragile ego sometimes😂 i know i shouldnt expect to be everyones cup of tea
I know i guess he has, based on one pic 😂. Ive seen how rude he is about the way other women look though. Like how he insulted the women his friends were setting him up with, in other words saying they were ugly.
And as for the last one oh i deffo do not go for a fwb situation and expect something else at the end. Well i wouldn't do that anyway. I just think women let their emotions take over, whereas men can just easily walk away not giving a crap.
Posted by molly94Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by Marai
Oh man... If he can't be your priority, just leave him alone indeed. It's not fair.
I dont know wht he wants. He complained he doesnt want to be my texting friend so i stopped texting as much and now call him instead. Call him finally after ages for three hours an still has to act like i see him an option..
Does he want more frequent contact or something. Maybe hes the one whos actually needy🤨
Lol, this doesn't mean call instead of text. I swear virgos always read things so literally!!
He's saying don't waste his time leading him on. As in, women have loads of options and just maintain connection with small texts, maybe a half-assed semi nude every now and then. Doing the bare minimum to keep those options interested but basically shooting them down every time they pursue you. You literally said you have options, so he is telling you straight out to stop doing that. This is a guy who knows his worth and also knows he wants you, so if you want him, stop playing, because he seems to know these games very well and isn't falling for it
I😂😂😂 a half assed semi nude. That made me laugh.
Well how do i show im not a game player 😂 because im not. Even though no matter what i do or say he thinks that.
I think u may have read he asked me to meet him, the last time we spoke. And i said i dont mind🤔. Then he said he wanted one more photo. But yeah its been silence since. So what now
Show some more oomph in your responses. "i don't mind" well is it yes or no?? You sound too ambivalent and waiting for him to make moves and for us to make decisions for you. Are you a robot waiting to be programmed??
Fair enough.😂😂😂 I could try that
I guess every situation is different. But ive also seen women give their absolute all to the man and be very much full of oomph but in the end he'll be like no thanks. Well ive seen it with my own friend. And all she is at times is simply devastated.
It seems you're scared because of what happened to ur friend. But it sounds like she put all her emotional eggs in one basket, and you are doing the opposite extreme by trying to play men at their game. Both these extremes are based on insecurity - needing validation vs avoiding rejection. To be comfortable on this scale u need to assert your needs and desires - whether that's love, affection, good dick, money - whatever, but also accept that u ain't everybody's cup of tea and definitely not god's gift.
However I think this man has done enough to validate your worthiness and ur confidence should be boosted enough for u to say outright what it is that u want. If u think the man is sex on legs, u tell him that (it's called flirting). The more u think about the outcome and plan how you're going to SPEAK, the more awkward it will be. If u have to plan and think about it that much, honestly just stop beating a dead horse (sounds like he's come to this conclusion himself).
Btw when girls put their all in for a dude and get fucked over, it's normally having sex and expecting a full-out relationship after. If u both want sex there is nothing wrong with it, but if he hasn't said he wants to be ur man, don't build a relationship in ur head to hurt yourself. I have been in this situation before, and honestly us girls sometimes do this shit to ourselves by not listening
Ive seen how rude he is about the way other women look though. Like how he insulted the women his friends were setting him up with, in other words saying they were ugly.click to expand
Ew this is negging
What do u see in this guy again?
Posted by SlipperySlopePosted by LostinmyMind11
"told me i should learn how to cook and it could be a little project for me"
I would have told him...how about I make you a fuck off sandwich?!
Anyway, as someone who is oblivious and aloof themselves...even I can see you play too much.
It's sound advice though...click to expand
It's the "little project for me" part I don't care for...sounds a little patronizing.
Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by molly94Posted by Marai
Oh man... If he can't be your priority, just leave him alone indeed. It's not fair.
I dont know wht he wants. He complained he doesnt want to be my texting friend so i stopped texting as much and now call him instead. Call him finally after ages for three hours an still has to act like i see him an option..
Does he want more frequent contact or something. Maybe hes the one whos actually needy🤨
Lol, this doesn't mean call instead of text. I swear virgos always read things so literally!!
He's saying don't waste his time leading him on. As in, women have loads of options and just maintain connection with small texts, maybe a half-assed semi nude every now and then. Doing the bare minimum to keep those options interested but basically shooting them down every time they pursue you. You literally said you have options, so he is telling you straight out to stop doing that. This is a guy who knows his worth and also knows he wants you, so if you want him, stop playing, because he seems to know these games very well and isn't falling for it
I😂😂😂 a half assed semi nude. That made me laugh.
Well how do i show im not a game player 😂 because im not. Even though no matter what i do or say he thinks that.
I think u may have read he asked me to meet him, the last time we spoke. And i said i dont mind🤔. Then he said he wanted one more photo. But yeah its been silence since. So what now
Show some more oomph in your responses. "i don't mind" well is it yes or no?? You sound too ambivalent and waiting for him to make moves and for us to make decisions for you. Are you a robot waiting to be programmed??
Fair enough.😂😂😂 I could try that
I guess every situation is different. But ive also seen women give their absolute all to the man and be very much full of oomph but in the end he'll be like no thanks. Well ive seen it with my own friend. And all she is at times is simply devastated.
It seems you're scared because of what happened to ur friend. But it sounds like she put all her emotional eggs in one basket, and you are doing the opposite extreme by trying to play men at their game. Both these extremes are based on insecurity - needing validation vs avoiding rejection. To be comfortable on this scale u need to assert your needs and desires - whether that's love, affection, good dick, money - whatever, but also accept that u ain't everybody's cup of tea and definitely not god's gift.
However I think this man has done enough to validate your worthiness and ur confidence should be boosted enough for u to say outright what it is that u want. If u think the man is sex on legs, u tell him that (it's called flirting). The more u think about the outcome and plan how you're going to SPEAK, the more awkward it will be. If u have to plan and think about it that much, honestly just stop beating a dead horse (sounds like he's come to this conclusion himself).
Btw when girls put their all in for a dude and get fucked over, it's normally having sex and expecting a full-out relationship after. If u both want sex there is nothing wrong with it, but if he hasn't said he wants to be ur man, don't build a relationship in ur head to hurt yourself. I have been in this situation before, and honestly us girls sometimes do this shit to ourselves by not listening
Ive seen how rude he is about the way other women look though. Like how he insulted the women his friends were setting him up with, in other words saying they were ugly.
Ew this is negging
What do u see in this guy again?click to expand
Ive heard of negging. What's that again lolm its weird he sounds like an ass through messages. But on the phone he seemed nice. I dunno it could just be i have rose tinted spectacles on.
My guy friend continues to insult the guy everyday saying i can do better etc..according to him hes an arrogant loser 😂. And he barely knows anything about him just a couple of small things i told him
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by SlipperySlopePosted by LostinmyMind11
"told me i should learn how to cook and it could be a little project for me"
I would have told him...how about I make you a fuck off sandwich?!
Anyway, as someone who is oblivious and aloof themselves...even I can see you play too much.
It's sound advice though...
It's the "little project for me" part I don't care for...sounds a little patronizing.click to expand
Oops. I wrote that out wrong. As in not for him but for me to do. I guess still kind of patronizing lol.
Because he asked me what i can cook ( and honestly i tend to eat out more than i cook) so i sounded like i was struggling😂😂 and then when i told him one thing i could make, he was lioe even i can do that
As long as you stand 6 feet away from the phone
No point really as you'll prob not be able to meet him for weeks or months
Dating is a waste of time atm unless you like "imagining" what and who the person really is
God's grand plan
lol....
Dating is a waste of time atm unless you like "imagining" what and who the person really is
God's grand plan
lol....
Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by GobbyPosted by NemDeux
you sound overdramatic ....
geez.
That's American women for you... 😆
we don´t know if the OP is american .....something tells me she is from a more "traditional" background ....something ethnic.
Yeah. She said she's never had an fwb or a proper relationship and thinks people who had relationships and fwb are funny.
I dont find them funny. Each to their own. I dont mean to come across judgemental.
But personally i couldn't do a fwb. Even if this guy asked i would outright say no.
That's what you said to me yesterday. Yes you did come across very judgmental. Fwb is not everyone's cup of tea. I was never the type to get serious with men back then. I had my ambitions in the way. I get bored easily. It was hard for me to commit. But when I did, it lasted 2 years, 5 years etc. And it wasn't just about sleeping around. Even my fwbs need to make sense. They need to stimulate me mentally or I'm gonna move on to the next. It's different for different people so you can't judge the term just because you've heard about it.click to expand
My bad 😂. Erm well if it worked for you then its cool. Plus its probably better that you focused more on work in your prime than guys anyway. Since they can be annoying as hell 😂. In a way its good you're kind of cut throat like that as women usually tend to get caught up in their feelings with men. From what ive seen from other people and friends, and it can be really damaging
Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by GobbyPosted by NemDeux
you sound overdramatic ....
geez.
That's American women for you... 😆
we don´t know if the OP is american .....something tells me she is from a more "traditional" background ....something ethnic.
Yeah. She said she's never had an fwb or a proper relationship and thinks people who had relationships and fwb are funny.
fwb are bullshit imo anyway. it´s such self-deception. so, good for her regarding that aspect!
very rarely are people able to differentiate or really keep those boundaries up.
yeahh .....the op reminds me a bit of the princess on the pea lol.
She's never experienced anything lol but she's quite arrogant. I don't like her. Lol regarding fwb and relationships boundaries are def important. And it really depends on one's personality on how he or she can navigate both. Yes she definitely does act that way 😂😂😂😂😂
pride comes before the fall ....idk maybe she grew up very sheltered/coddled.
in any case, if the username suggests birth year 1994 .....that makes her 26 .....
as for FWB ....my experience has been; one party always looses their shit 😄 😄
She probably did or she wants to appear like she did. I can't believe a thing she says 😂 I am not wondering why the guy is acting the way he is. It's hard to take her word. Yes, I reckon she's 26. I'm not even 10 years older than she is IRL. Ahhhh yes 😂 that happens in fwb. I had my fair share of hits and misses on that one. The good ol days 😜 no regrets though. I learned so much.
25 still not 26
I wouldnt say ive necessarily led a sheltered life but ive not been the wildest person out there either. 😂
Plenty of guys have wanted just a pirely physical thing, and ive simply declined.
That's understandable. You said you are part Moroccan. I know some Moroccan men. They are different compared to an Aussie or a British man.
Oh and if you're 26, I am not even 10 years older than you are. So really, the generation you probably come across in dating is not far off from my same pool. Lol what I don't understand is why you're being so vague when you communicate. You're playing hard to get but deep down you're very interested. Interested enough that you came here to make a thread. It sure will be hard to be in a relationship when you think and communicate like that. Does it have something to do with your religion? Is he from the same background as you? If so, that will explain more. But if let's say he's from where I am where people are more direct, your games won't fly. You'd be dumped and replaced in no time.click to expand
How old are you if you dont mind me asking. Age doesnt matter but i guess at least you all will have experienced things and are wiser 😂
Yeh i know im a walking contradiction😂. Theres quite a lot of reasons, one is i dont want to give away too much too soon before getting to know him properly and get all like loved up. Like i want to see if hes genuinely interested first. As stupid as that sounds. Im always like that especially at the beginning. And to be honest all he does is ask questions, he doesnt give away his feelings much either. Fair enough hes being direct by asking questions eg. "Do you like me" "am i your type" "do you want me" 😂 but hes not giving anything away about himself and hiw he feels about me. Just wanting me to open up.
No hes not the same as me. Hes fully european.
I mean its not fully to do with religion, i think its more me just being a reserved person and just not like one of those women who go get their man😂. Like a go getter type.
Currently hes willing to speak to me if i reach out but does not really initiate much.
Posted by MyStarsShine
No point really as you'll prob not be able to meet him for weeks or months
Dating is a waste of time atm unless you like "imagining" what and who the person really is
God's grand plan
lol....
😪. I have no idea then why he talked about us meeting during our last convo. When he damn well must know we wont be able to for a while.
I guess the best way is to speak to him on the phone 🤔 and find out more that way. I best contact him at some point before he starts thinking hes an option again🤔. And with both of us with our pride n egos its so easy to drift apart. As has happened before multiple times😐
Posted by molly94Posted by MyStarsShine
No point really as you'll prob not be able to meet him for weeks or months
Dating is a waste of time atm unless you like "imagining" what and who the person really is
God's grand plan
lol....
😪. I have no idea then why he talked about us meeting during our last convo. When he damn well must know we wont be able to for a while.
I guess the best way is to speak to him on the phone 🤔 and find out more that way. I best contact him at some point before he starts thinking hes an option again🤔. And with both of us with our pride n egos its so easy to drift apart. As has happened before multiple times😐click to expand
Why let ego stand in your way of getting to know someone and possibly forming a relationship with them? All you need to do is text or email him to ask how he is managing with the lockdown, hope he is keeping well and if he'd like to talk by phone/FaceTime etc, to let you know
Remember ..... "pride comes before a fall"
.....and also remember, llfe is too short to allow the ego to stand in the way
🌟
Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by GobbyPosted by NemDeux
you sound overdramatic ....
geez.
That's American women for you... 😆
we don´t know if the OP is american .....something tells me she is from a more "traditional" background ....something ethnic.
Yeah. She said she's never had an fwb or a proper relationship and thinks people who had relationships and fwb are funny.
I dont find them funny. Each to their own. I dont mean to come across judgemental.
But personally i couldn't do a fwb. Even if this guy asked i would outright say no.
That's what you said to me yesterday. Yes you did come across very judgmental. Fwb is not everyone's cup of tea. I was never the type to get serious with men back then. I had my ambitions in the way. I get bored easily. It was hard for me to commit. But when I did, it lasted 2 years, 5 years etc. And it wasn't just about sleeping around. Even my fwbs need to make sense. They need to stimulate me mentally or I'm gonna move on to the next. It's different for different people so you can't judge the term just because you've heard about it.
My bad 😂. Erm well if it worked for you then its cool. Plus its probably better that you focused more on work in your prime than guys anyway. Since they can be annoying as hell 😂. In a way its good you're kind of cut throat like that as women usually tend to get caught up in their feelings with men. From what ive seen from other people and friends, and it can be really damaging
Yeah. I wanted to settledown of course. But I didn't want to settledown and have regrets. I wanted to be able to do everything I wanted to do before settling down so I don't search for the thrill. Did you never get in rs or fwb due to cultural or religious reasons? I'm curious because I know some Moroccans and they are Muslims so they basically have a different dating pattern to us.click to expand
I get you. And ive barely experienced that thrill😂😂. I dont really follow the religion, it was more my personal values i guess as well as being particular with regards to who i spend time with. I didnt really find anyone that worth the bother or maybe i did n just didnt give them a chance 🤔😂
Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by molly94Posted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by 7thHousePosted by NemDeuxPosted by GobbyPosted by NemDeux
you sound overdramatic ....
geez.
That's American women for you... 😆
we don´t know if the OP is american .....something tells me she is from a more "traditional" background ....something ethnic.
Yeah. She said she's never had an fwb or a proper relationship and thinks people who had relationships and fwb are funny.
fwb are bullshit imo anyway. it´s such self-deception. so, good for her regarding that aspect!
very rarely are people able to differentiate or really keep those boundaries up.
yeahh .....the op reminds me a bit of the princess on the pea lol.
She's never experienced anything lol but she's quite arrogant. I don't like her. Lol regarding fwb and relationships boundaries are def important. And it really depends on one's personality on how he or she can navigate both. Yes she definitely does act that way 😂😂😂😂😂
pride comes before the fall ....idk maybe she grew up very sheltered/coddled.
in any case, if the username suggests birth year 1994 .....that makes her 26 .....
as for FWB ....my experience has been; one party always looses their shit 😄 😄
She probably did or she wants to appear like she did. I can't believe a thing she says 😂 I am not wondering why the guy is acting the way he is. It's hard to take her word. Yes, I reckon she's 26. I'm not even 10 years older than she is IRL. Ahhhh yes 😂 that happens in fwb. I had my fair share of hits and misses on that one. The good ol days 😜 no regrets though. I learned so much.
25 still not 26
I wouldnt say ive necessarily led a sheltered life but ive not been the wildest person out there either. 😂
Plenty of guys have wanted just a pirely physical thing, and ive simply declined.
That's understandable. You said you are part Moroccan. I know some Moroccan men. They are different compared to an Aussie or a British man.
Oh and if you're 26, I am not even 10 years older than you are. So really, the generation you probably come across in dating is not far off from my same pool. Lol what I don't understand is why you're being so vague when you communicate. You're playing hard to get but deep down you're very interested. Interested enough that you came here to make a thread. It sure will be hard to be in a relationship when you think and communicate like that. Does it have something to do with your religion? Is he from the same background as you? If so, that will explain more. But if let's say he's from where I am where people are more direct, your games won't fly. You'd be dumped and replaced in no time.
How old are you if you dont mind me asking. Age doesnt matter but i guess at least you all will have experienced things and are wiser 😂
Yeh i know im a walking contradiction😂. Theres quite a lot of reasons, one is i dont want to give away too much too soon before getting to know him properly and get all like loved up. Like i want to see if hes genuinely interested first. As stupid as that sounds. Im always like that especially at the beginning. And to be honest all he does is ask questions, he doesnt give away his feelings much either. Fair enough hes being direct by asking questions eg. "Do you like me" "am i your type" "do you want me" 😂 but hes not giving anything away about himself and hiw he feels about me. Just wanting me to open up.
No hes not the same as me. Hes fully european.
I mean its not fully to do with religion, i think its more me just being a reserved person and just not like one of those women who go get their man😂. Like a go getter type.
Currently hes willing to speak to me if i reach out but does not really initiate much.
I'm in my early 30's. My husband is from a European family but living in Australia. We don't really have dating rules her per se. Maybe he is mirroring you. So if you want further clarity from him, you also need to have clarity with yourself. Did he have to court you, do you think? In some cultures, that does apply. Courtship is getting to know each other and no sex. But you do go on dates etc. Talk about deeper things an dlong term plans. I personally like reserved men though. I feel I can trust them more because they don't just open up to anyone. So I guess in a way, it's a good thing he is the way he is.click to expand
Nice! Well at least you found your other half now😁.
Ihe told me hes had sexual experiences, and i think was trying to find out more about me in terms of what ive done physically with others. but me being me i kept it as a mystery. Also i think hes being a bit cautious with me since he kept asking if i spoke to you in that way would u stop talking to me. I think he probably means it in terms of maybe being more obvious i guess 😂. So far though he flirts but mostly its serious talk and keeping it pg lol.
I get what u mean with regards to reserved guys. This guy is hard to work out...though, i dont know if i would fully trust him. I mean for example i did ask if he spoke to anyone on the dating app and he kept just saying he had no time etc etc...but i clearly saw he had changed his profile picture etc. So its like why not just come clean.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by molly94Posted by MyStarsShine
No point really as you'll prob not be able to meet him for weeks or months
Dating is a waste of time atm unless you like "imagining" what and who the person really is
God's grand plan
lol....
😪. I have no idea then why he talked about us meeting during our last convo. When he damn well must know we wont be able to for a while.
I guess the best way is to speak to him on the phone 🤔 and find out more that way. I best contact him at some point before he starts thinking hes an option again🤔. And with both of us with our pride n egos its so easy to drift apart. As has happened before multiple times😐
Why let ego stand in your way of getting to know someone and possibly forming a relationship with them? All you need to do is text or email him to ask how he is managing with the lockdown, hope he is keeping well and if he'd like to talk by phone/FaceTime etc, to let you know
Remember ..... "pride comes before a fall"
.....and also remember, llfe is too short to allow the ego to stand in the way
🌟click to expand
I know i always say that not to let ego get in the way but then i end up reverting back to my old ways😂😂
The thing is i initiated last time when we had our 3 hour convo. And now im just like do i seriously have to initiate again. But i dunno what his thoughts or plans are. I mean yeah he did ask if i want to meet etc but then it was silence from his end.
Maybe hes leaving the ball in my court.
I was thinking maybe he doesnt want to get into a pattern of him calling me again and me saying im busy and not returning his calls etc.( which im guilty of doing before) So he just maybe leaves it up to me. But that's just a theory
Well a week has turned into three and a half weeks no proper conversation. Apart from the litte gif thing i sent to which he replied am i bored 🤔😂.
Posted by dillpicklePosted by molly94Posted by NemDeuxPosted by molly94
Continued: What should i do guys 😳😪. Ok i know i haven't been straight up with him fully and have been giving him the run around a bit. Now i just thought let me check his dating profile out of curiosity and ive seen hes changed his pic to one he sent me in january. But i didnt even look at his profile on the app since last year 😳. So i dont know the timing of the photo change could have been anytime.
I don't know what to do now. I did ask him during our two hour convo if hes chatted to anyone on the app he said no, hes been busy doing up his house and busy working 🤔. So didn't mention anyone else. But kept going on about how may be i went off and found someone and came back to him. 🤔 since i didnt speak to him for a month and a bit
What should i do seriously. On the phone he obviously ended the convo with asking me to meet him, and me being a plonker and being like yeh i dont mind and then him thinking he's an option.
i dont know what to do. If hes speaking to other people even if he said he isnt and didnt mention anyone hes still on that dating app.
you played yourself, donkey.
lmfao at the self-sabotage.
what is your sign? *notawatersignplease*
Im a virgo.
My moon sign is scorpio
i fucking knew it.
i knew this was some weak ass virgo bullshitclick to expand
Why what's wrong with virgos.
I dont think im a typical virgo actually.
My female virgo friends are literallly always fawning over guys.
I tend to act more aloof
Posted by dillpicklePosted by molly94Posted by dillpicklePosted by molly94Posted by NemDeuxPosted by molly94
Continued: What should i do guys 😳😪. Ok i know i haven't been straight up with him fully and have been giving him the run around a bit. Now i just thought let me check his dating profile out of curiosity and ive seen hes changed his pic to one he sent me in january. But i didnt even look at his profile on the app since last year 😳. So i dont know the timing of the photo change could have been anytime.
I don't know what to do now. I did ask him during our two hour convo if hes chatted to anyone on the app he said no, hes been busy doing up his house and busy working 🤔. So didn't mention anyone else. But kept going on about how may be i went off and found someone and came back to him. 🤔 since i didnt speak to him for a month and a bit
What should i do seriously. On the phone he obviously ended the convo with asking me to meet him, and me being a plonker and being like yeh i dont mind and then him thinking he's an option.
i dont know what to do. If hes speaking to other people even if he said he isnt and didnt mention anyone hes still on that dating app.
you played yourself, donkey.
lmfao at the self-sabotage.
what is your sign? *notawatersignplease*
Im a virgo.
My moon sign is scorpio
i fucking knew it.
i knew this was some weak ass virgo bullshit
Why what's wrong with virgos.
I dont think im a typical virgo actually.
My female virgo friends are literallly always fawning over guys.
I tend to act more aloof
i just read this entire thread. you are acting like a typical unevolved virgo. unwilling to communicate, unwilling to initiate, unwilling to match effort, unwilling to be direct, thinking you deserve everything while giving 1% effort.
he asked you to hang out & you left him dangling with NO RESPONSE? “i guess he thinks its my turn to respond”. FUCKING DUH!!! i swear these type of virgos make me wanna smash my head thru a brick wall.
whats the rest of your chart? this shit vibes so aries to me. arrogant as fuck w/ zero respect for the effort put in by the other party.
this princess shit aint cute.click to expand
Sun is in virgo
Moon is in scorpio
Mercury is in virgo
Venus and mars is in virgo
Jupiter is in aries
Saturn and uranus is in Sagittarius
Neptune is in capricorn
Pluto is in scorpio
Lilith is in leo
N node is in aries
Posted by dillpicklePosted by molly94Posted by dillpicklePosted by molly94Posted by NemDeuxPosted by molly94
Continued: What should i do guys 😳😪. Ok i know i haven't been straight up with him fully and have been giving him the run around a bit. Now i just thought let me check his dating profile out of curiosity and ive seen hes changed his pic to one he sent me in january. But i didnt even look at his profile on the app since last year 😳. So i dont know the timing of the photo change could have been anytime.
I don't know what to do now. I did ask him during our two hour convo if hes chatted to anyone on the app he said no, hes been busy doing up his house and busy working 🤔. So didn't mention anyone else. But kept going on about how may be i went off and found someone and came back to him. 🤔 since i didnt speak to him for a month and a bit
What should i do seriously. On the phone he obviously ended the convo with asking me to meet him, and me being a plonker and being like yeh i dont mind and then him thinking he's an option.
i dont know what to do. If hes speaking to other people even if he said he isnt and didnt mention anyone hes still on that dating app.
you played yourself, donkey.
lmfao at the self-sabotage.
what is your sign? *notawatersignplease*
Im a virgo.
My moon sign is scorpio
i fucking knew it.
i knew this was some weak ass virgo bullshit
Why what's wrong with virgos.
I dont think im a typical virgo actually.
My female virgo friends are literallly always fawning over guys.
I tend to act more aloof
i just read this entire thread. you are acting like a typical unevolved virgo. unwilling to communicate, unwilling to initiate, unwilling to match effort, unwilling to be direct, thinking you deserve everything while giving 1% effort.
he asked you to hang out & you left him dangling with NO RESPONSE? “i guess he thinks its my turn to respond”. FUCKING DUH!!! i swear these type of virgos make me wanna smash my head thru a brick wall.
whats the rest of your chart? this shit vibes so aries to me. arrogant as fuck w/ zero respect for the effort put in by the other party.
this princess shit aint cute.click to expand
I do initiate contact. I initiated the last phone call, a few weeks ago. Ok maybe its not often but its still me initiating contact.
When he asked to meet up i said i dont mind. And then asked for another photo before we meet. And i admit i didnt send another photo. Felt weird just randomly sending a photo. But any way here i am three weeks later and nothing 😁
Posted by tiziani
Gotta be blunt, eventually you will get to an age where no one cares about who initiated what call or which text.
he was making time to meet up and you’re flakey about it. you can’t be surprised he thinks you’re messaging him out of boredom. there’s nothing more you can do.
So u dont think he'l mind if im the pme initiating. I dunno. I guess he stopped calling because eberytime he used to call before i wouldnt always pick up.
I wasnt flakey i just said i dont mind.
And then he followed that with he wants one more photo before we do. But i didnt end up sending the photo. Pride got in the way of that
Posted by tiziani
Gotta be blunt, eventually you will get to an age where no one cares about who initiated what call or which text.
he was making time to meet up and you’re flakey about it. you can’t be surprised he thinks you’re messaging him out of boredom. there’s nothing more you can do.
So u dont think he'l mind if im the pme initiating. I dunno. I guess he stopped calling because eberytime he used to call before i wouldnt always pick up.
I wasnt flakey i just said i dont mind.
And then he followed that with he wants one more photo before we do. But i didnt end up sending the photo. Pride got in the way of that
Posted by Plague
Holy shit he's got to be a rock head if he's entertaining the likes of you and your unevolved scorpio moon
And whats wrong with having a scorpio moon.
Hes could potentially be a scorpio himself or a sagg.
Posted by Plague
Holy shit he's got to be a rock head if he's entertaining the likes of you and your unevolved scorpio moon
Also starsigns are not always valid and do not determine the personality of someone
It seems everyone is dead here 😂😂
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by molly94
It seems everyone is dead here 😂😂
The horse is ....click to expand
😳😳
update:
2 months ago now spoke to the guy for a few hours on the phone. And before then because i hadn't reached out to him in so long (just over a month), he kept asking what id been doing and where i was ..he then said he thought i deleted his number and moved on from him. That was the theory in his mind. And when it didnt work out with the "other person" he thinks i came back to him. I reassured him that there wasnt anyone else. ( i was just bad at keeping contact).
Anyway during the convo he asked if i want to see him/meet him..i said i don't mind..and he then said cool send me another pic then.
Following that convo i didnt send a photo simply out of principle. He already has one. Nor did i mention the meeting which he asked about in such a weird way.
Two weeks went by i sent a gif showing im bored..he then messaged with "you bored ?" Literally neither of us contacted the other after that for like five weeks.
Then about a week ago now i was like thinking so much time has gone by and decided to message him. Saying...how has nearly 2 months gone by since i last spoke to you..and you must hate me. Followed by shocked emojis.
Needless to say he didnt respond AT ALL. Complete silence. I saw he read it pretty quick within half n hour of me sending it. He came online and read the messages. But nothing
So what i was going to do was call him.. is it a good idea? Or should i leave it? And if calling is a good idea wth do i even say to rectify the situation...where do i start.. . Provided he doesnt ignore my call too.
I am genuinely think i may miss out unless i do something ( and will probably be regretful) But is it too late.?..
2 months ago now spoke to the guy for a few hours on the phone. And before then because i hadn't reached out to him in so long (just over a month), he kept asking what id been doing and where i was ..he then said he thought i deleted his number and moved on from him. That was the theory in his mind. And when it didnt work out with the "other person" he thinks i came back to him. I reassured him that there wasnt anyone else. ( i was just bad at keeping contact).
Anyway during the convo he asked if i want to see him/meet him..i said i don't mind..and he then said cool send me another pic then.
Following that convo i didnt send a photo simply out of principle. He already has one. Nor did i mention the meeting which he asked about in such a weird way.
Two weeks went by i sent a gif showing im bored..he then messaged with "you bored ?" Literally neither of us contacted the other after that for like five weeks.
Then about a week ago now i was like thinking so much time has gone by and decided to message him. Saying...how has nearly 2 months gone by since i last spoke to you..and you must hate me. Followed by shocked emojis.
Needless to say he didnt respond AT ALL. Complete silence. I saw he read it pretty quick within half n hour of me sending it. He came online and read the messages. But nothing
So what i was going to do was call him.. is it a good idea? Or should i leave it? And if calling is a good idea wth do i even say to rectify the situation...where do i start.. . Provided he doesnt ignore my call too.
I am genuinely think i may miss out unless i do something ( and will probably be regretful) But is it too late.?..
Anyone else?
I haven't read every single post.
It seems like he was interested, then you ghosted/blocked - what kind of message that sends to him? This woman plays games.
Anyway, he asked you a lot of questions, and you said you didn't ask a lot - suggests that you aren't interested in him and/or able to have an adult conversation. If you are interested in someone you tell them about yourself and you ask about them. He was asking to see what you were all about. The cooking question was interesting. I have no problem with someone not being a good cook. If they don't care about cooking, then that tells me they don't want to learn about life. Cooking is an essential practice for adults. Not everyone has to be great at it but you need to show some desire to care about what you put in our body and not relying on take-out for example. He might have suggested this as growth for you and then saw how you answered it.
I haven't seen a lot of: "I really learned from this" from you.
It's a lot of I shouldn't have done this or that. Seems like you are still doing the same things.
I'm a bit troubled about him asking about messaging your friend with money. Could have been an attempt at humor which is a poor one, but it also could be him playing with your emotions to see if he can get a response.
I think him asking if you're interested in him and if he's your type is a so-so questions. It's almost, "Do you like me?". I think a better question from him would have been: "What are you looking for?" Your reply wasn't any better. "Sometimes I am interested in you and sometimes not." -- that tells him that you think of him as "meh". It also says, "I don't know what I want or I don't really want anything, except for attention from you.
Lesson: Be your authentic self. If a guy doesn't like it. Then move on. He doesn't deserve you.
Lesson: Get real and stop playing games. If you want a relationship then make some time for it.
Lesson: Stop playing games. Stop ghosting. Stop ghosting and blocking. Stop ghosting, blocking, and then returning expecting attention.
Lesson: You mess up interacting with guys. Learn from it. Tell yourself what you will do next time. If I like a guy, I'm going to stay engaged with him. If he ghosts me then it's his loss and I dodged a bullet. I put myself out there and that's not good enough for him.
Lesson: Be vulnerable. Share of yourself. Be uncomfortable. Tell things about your true self and accept that not everyone will like you and/or will be real back or will be vulnerable with you, then move on.
Lesson: Stop wasting time with people who don't value your time. Make sure you value the time of every human being you interact with.
Lesson: Stop chasing guys who show you no interest and give a chance to a guy who does.
Lesson: If you like someone. Let them know by giving them your time and attention.
Lesson: Don't get stuck in regret mode with this situation. Learn from it and move on.
It seems like he was interested, then you ghosted/blocked - what kind of message that sends to him? This woman plays games.
Anyway, he asked you a lot of questions, and you said you didn't ask a lot - suggests that you aren't interested in him and/or able to have an adult conversation. If you are interested in someone you tell them about yourself and you ask about them. He was asking to see what you were all about. The cooking question was interesting. I have no problem with someone not being a good cook. If they don't care about cooking, then that tells me they don't want to learn about life. Cooking is an essential practice for adults. Not everyone has to be great at it but you need to show some desire to care about what you put in our body and not relying on take-out for example. He might have suggested this as growth for you and then saw how you answered it.
I haven't seen a lot of: "I really learned from this" from you.
It's a lot of I shouldn't have done this or that. Seems like you are still doing the same things.
I'm a bit troubled about him asking about messaging your friend with money. Could have been an attempt at humor which is a poor one, but it also could be him playing with your emotions to see if he can get a response.
I think him asking if you're interested in him and if he's your type is a so-so questions. It's almost, "Do you like me?". I think a better question from him would have been: "What are you looking for?" Your reply wasn't any better. "Sometimes I am interested in you and sometimes not." -- that tells him that you think of him as "meh". It also says, "I don't know what I want or I don't really want anything, except for attention from you.
Lesson: Be your authentic self. If a guy doesn't like it. Then move on. He doesn't deserve you.
Lesson: Get real and stop playing games. If you want a relationship then make some time for it.
Lesson: Stop playing games. Stop ghosting. Stop ghosting and blocking. Stop ghosting, blocking, and then returning expecting attention.
Lesson: You mess up interacting with guys. Learn from it. Tell yourself what you will do next time. If I like a guy, I'm going to stay engaged with him. If he ghosts me then it's his loss and I dodged a bullet. I put myself out there and that's not good enough for him.
Lesson: Be vulnerable. Share of yourself. Be uncomfortable. Tell things about your true self and accept that not everyone will like you and/or will be real back or will be vulnerable with you, then move on.
Lesson: Stop wasting time with people who don't value your time. Make sure you value the time of every human being you interact with.
Lesson: Stop chasing guys who show you no interest and give a chance to a guy who does.
Lesson: If you like someone. Let them know by giving them your time and attention.
Lesson: Don't get stuck in regret mode with this situation. Learn from it and move on.
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
I haven't read every single post.
It seems like he was interested, then you ghosted/blocked - what kind of message that sends to him? This woman plays games.
Anyway, he asked you a lot of questions, and you said you didn't ask a lot - suggests that you aren't interested in him and/or able to have an adult conversation. If you are interested in someone you tell them about yourself and you ask about them. He was asking to see what you were all about. The cooking question was interesting. I have no problem with someone not being a good cook. If they don't care about cooking, then that tells me they don't want to learn about life. Cooking is an essential practice for adults. Not everyone has to be great at it but you need to show some desire to care about what you put in our body and not relying on take-out for example. He might have suggested this as growth for you and then saw how you answered it.
I haven't seen a lot of: "I really learned from this" from you.
It's a lot of I shouldn't have done this or that. Seems like you are still doing the same things.
I'm a bit troubled about him asking about messaging your friend with money. Could have been an attempt at humor which is a poor one, but it also could be him playing with your emotions to see if he can get a response.
I think him asking if you're interested in him and if he's your type is a so-so questions. It's almost, "Do you like me?". I think a better question from him would have been: "What are you looking for?" Your reply wasn't any better. "Sometimes I am interested in you and sometimes not." -- that tells him that you think of him as "meh". It also says, "I don't know what I want or I don't really want anything, except for attention from you.
Lesson: Be your authentic self. If a guy doesn't like it. Then move on. He doesn't deserve you.
Lesson: Get real and stop playing games. If you want a relationship then make some time for it.
Lesson: Stop playing games. Stop ghosting. Stop ghosting and blocking. Stop ghosting, blocking, and then returning expecting attention.
Lesson: You mess up interacting with guys. Learn from it. Tell yourself what you will do next time. If I like a guy, I'm going to stay engaged with him. If he ghosts me then it's his loss and I dodged a bullet. I put myself out there and that's not good enough for him.
Lesson: Be vulnerable. Share of yourself. Be uncomfortable. Tell things about your true self and accept that not everyone will like you and/or will be real back or will be vulnerable with you, then move on.
Lesson: Stop wasting time with people who don't value your time. Make sure you value the time of every human being you interact with.
Lesson: Stop chasing guys who show you no interest and give a chance to a guy who does.
Lesson: If you like someone. Let them know by giving them your time and attention.
Lesson: Don't get stuck in regret mode with this situation. Learn from it and move on.
I blocked him once because i messaged him and he didnt respond even after four days. So i blocked for a few weeks.
When i eventually spoke to him on the phone he said he assumed i deleted his number because apparently he messaged me and i didnt reply. I got no messages from him, so i assumed he messaged when i had him blocked.
He then kept repeating how i didnt reply to bhis message and did i find someone else and come back to him.
The actual reality of the situation was i got annoyed he hadnt replied and so blocked him. And i hadnt spoken to any other guys, shows how people shouldnt ever assume as they could be so wrong.
I didnt ask him many questions as it was almost like he was interviewing me. It was question after question i barely had time to think to ask him anything.
Yes the comment about my friend was beyond weird it just reminded me of past men who would mention other girls..
Whatever his reason as dismissive of him that i have been at times ive not disrespected him by saying i would like to chat.up his friends.
About the cooking i told him i don't have time to cook he said you have plenty of time to...at that time we were all in strict quarantine.
When he asked me if i like him etc etc..i found it weird who asks someone if they like them so bluntly 😂. That's why i didnt answer him straight.
And why is it aabout him why couldnt he say he likes me and then maybe i would have said something similar back?
Ive got a lessoms to learn. I know.
Posted by Aria1
When I was on dating apps if a guy asked me out I promptly agreed and we went out.
If there was mutual interest on both sides, we'd go out again, and again (i.e. dating).
Letting months go by without going on a proper date isn't really going to amount to much.
Hes probably thinking the exact same thing to be fair.
But in actual fact i do want to meet him.
Its just going to be hard now with regards to all the restrictions and the virus still being around
Posted by molly94Posted by Piscis_Hominis
I haven't read every single post.
It seems like he was interested, then you ghosted/blocked - what kind of message that sends to him? This woman plays games.
Anyway, he asked you a lot of questions, and you said you didn't ask a lot - suggests that you aren't interested in him and/or able to have an adult conversation. If you are interested in someone you tell them about yourself and you ask about them. He was asking to see what you were all about. The cooking question was interesting. I have no problem with someone not being a good cook. If they don't care about cooking, then that tells me they don't want to learn about life. Cooking is an essential practice for adults. Not everyone has to be great at it but you need to show some desire to care about what you put in our body and not relying on take-out for example. He might have suggested this as growth for you and then saw how you answered it.
I haven't seen a lot of: "I really learned from this" from you.
It's a lot of I shouldn't have done this or that. Seems like you are still doing the same things.
I'm a bit troubled about him asking about messaging your friend with money. Could have been an attempt at humor which is a poor one, but it also could be him playing with your emotions to see if he can get a response.
I think him asking if you're interested in him and if he's your type is a so-so questions. It's almost, "Do you like me?". I think a better question from him would have been: "What are you looking for?" Your reply wasn't any better. "Sometimes I am interested in you and sometimes not." -- that tells him that you think of him as "meh". It also says, "I don't know what I want or I don't really want anything, except for attention from you.
Lesson: Be your authentic self. If a guy doesn't like it. Then move on. He doesn't deserve you.
Lesson: Get real and stop playing games. If you want a relationship then make some time for it.
Lesson: Stop playing games. Stop ghosting. Stop ghosting and blocking. Stop ghosting, blocking, and then returning expecting attention.
Lesson: You mess up interacting with guys. Learn from it. Tell yourself what you will do next time. If I like a guy, I'm going to stay engaged with him. If he ghosts me then it's his loss and I dodged a bullet. I put myself out there and that's not good enough for him.
Lesson: Be vulnerable. Share of yourself. Be uncomfortable. Tell things about your true self and accept that not everyone will like you and/or will be real back or will be vulnerable with you, then move on.
Lesson: Stop wasting time with people who don't value your time. Make sure you value the time of every human being you interact with.
Lesson: Stop chasing guys who show you no interest and give a chance to a guy who does.
Lesson: If you like someone. Let them know by giving them your time and attention.
Lesson: Don't get stuck in regret mode with this situation. Learn from it and move on.
I blocked him once because i messaged him and he didnt respond even after four days. So i blocked for a few weeks.
When i eventually spoke to him on the phone he said he assumed i deleted his number because apparently he messaged me and i didnt reply. I got no messages from him, so i assumed he messaged when i had him blocked.
He then kept repeating how i didnt reply to bhis message and did i find someone else and come back to him.
The actual reality of the situation was i got annoyed he hadnt replied and so blocked him. And i hadnt spoken to any other guys, shows how people shouldnt ever assume as they could be so wrong.
I didnt ask him many questions as it was almost like he was interviewing me. It was question after question i barely had time to think to ask him anything.
Yes the comment about my friend was beyond weird it just reminded me of past men who would mention other girls..
Whatever his reason as dismissive of him that i have been at times ive not disrespected him by saying i would like to chat.up his friends.
About the cooking i told him i don't have time to cook he said you have plenty of time to...at that time we were all in strict quarantine.
When he asked me if i like him etc etc..i found it weird who asks someone if they like them so bluntly 😂. That's why i didnt answer him straight.
And why is it aabout him why couldnt he say he likes me and then maybe i would have said something similar back?
Ive got a lessoms to learn. I know.click to expand
Are you talking to any other guys right now? Why not invest some time in them? Or get more active online? You're spending way too much time thinking about a guy who's thinking about other women right now. I've been in the reverse circumstances before. It's hard when you're not thinking clear.
You keep wondering why he doesn't like you? You have lots to offer. Go find a guy who wants it and deserves you.
Posted by Piscis_HominisPosted by molly94Posted by Piscis_Hominis
I haven't read every single post.
It seems like he was interested, then you ghosted/blocked - what kind of message that sends to him? This woman plays games.
Anyway, he asked you a lot of questions, and you said you didn't ask a lot - suggests that you aren't interested in him and/or able to have an adult conversation. If you are interested in someone you tell them about yourself and you ask about them. He was asking to see what you were all about. The cooking question was interesting. I have no problem with someone not being a good cook. If they don't care about cooking, then that tells me they don't want to learn about life. Cooking is an essential practice for adults. Not everyone has to be great at it but you need to show some desire to care about what you put in our body and not relying on take-out for example. He might have suggested this as growth for you and then saw how you answered it.
I haven't seen a lot of: "I really learned from this" from you.
It's a lot of I shouldn't have done this or that. Seems like you are still doing the same things.
I'm a bit troubled about him asking about messaging your friend with money. Could have been an attempt at humor which is a poor one, but it also could be him playing with your emotions to see if he can get a response.
I think him asking if you're interested in him and if he's your type is a so-so questions. It's almost, "Do you like me?". I think a better question from him would have been: "What are you looking for?" Your reply wasn't any better. "Sometimes I am interested in you and sometimes not." -- that tells him that you think of him as "meh". It also says, "I don't know what I want or I don't really want anything, except for attention from you.
Lesson: Be your authentic self. If a guy doesn't like it. Then move on. He doesn't deserve you.
Lesson: Get real and stop playing games. If you want a relationship then make some time for it.
Lesson: Stop playing games. Stop ghosting. Stop ghosting and blocking. Stop ghosting, blocking, and then returning expecting attention.
Lesson: You mess up interacting with guys. Learn from it. Tell yourself what you will do next time. If I like a guy, I'm going to stay engaged with him. If he ghosts me then it's his loss and I dodged a bullet. I put myself out there and that's not good enough for him.
Lesson: Be vulnerable. Share of yourself. Be uncomfortable. Tell things about your true self and accept that not everyone will like you and/or will be real back or will be vulnerable with you, then move on.
Lesson: Stop wasting time with people who don't value your time. Make sure you value the time of every human being you interact with.
Lesson: Stop chasing guys who show you no interest and give a chance to a guy who does.
Lesson: If you like someone. Let them know by giving them your time and attention.
Lesson: Don't get stuck in regret mode with this situation. Learn from it and move on.
I blocked him once because i messaged him and he didnt respond even after four days. So i blocked for a few weeks.
When i eventually spoke to him on the phone he said he assumed i deleted his number because apparently he messaged me and i didnt reply. I got no messages from him, so i assumed he messaged when i had him blocked.
He then kept repeating how i didnt reply to bhis message and did i find someone else and come back to him.
The actual reality of the situation was i got annoyed he hadnt replied and so blocked him. And i hadnt spoken to any other guys, shows how people shouldnt ever assume as they could be so wrong.
I didnt ask him many questions as it was almost like he was interviewing me. It was question after question i barely had time to think to ask him anything.
Yes the comment about my friend was beyond weird it just reminded me of past men who would mention other girls..
Whatever his reason as dismissive of him that i have been at times ive not disrespected him by saying i would like to chat.up his friends.
About the cooking i told him i don't have time to cook he said you have plenty of time to...at that time we were all in strict quarantine.
When he asked me if i like him etc etc..i found it weird who asks someone if they like them so bluntly 😂. That's why i didnt answer him straight.
And why is it aabout him why couldnt he say he likes me and then maybe i would have said something similar back?
Ive got a lessoms to learn. I know.
Are you talking to any other guys right now? Why not invest some time in them? Or get more active online? You're spending way too much time thinking about a guy who's thinking about other women right now. I've been in the reverse circumstances before. It's hard when you're not thinking clear.
You keep wondering why he doesn't like you? You have lots to offer. Go find a guy who wants it and deserves you.click to expand
No im not wondering why he doesnt like me
I know he has been interested in me for a.long time.
Its just i didnt always show my interest back.
I don't know who hes thinking about..i not going to guess that.
He asked me to meet him last..that's what i know.
Yes i have spoken to other guys. Didnt like any of them. They were weird. As a lot of men are online.
Posted by molly94Posted by Piscis_HominisPosted by molly94Posted by Piscis_Hominis
I haven't read every single post.
It seems like he was interested, then you ghosted/blocked - what kind of message that sends to him? This woman plays games.
Anyway, he asked you a lot of questions, and you said you didn't ask a lot - suggests that you aren't interested in him and/or able to have an adult conversation. If you are interested in someone you tell them about yourself and you ask about them. He was asking to see what you were all about. The cooking question was interesting. I have no problem with someone not being a good cook. If they don't care about cooking, then that tells me they don't want to learn about life. Cooking is an essential practice for adults. Not everyone has to be great at it but you need to show some desire to care about what you put in our body and not relying on take-out for example. He might have suggested this as growth for you and then saw how you answered it.
I haven't seen a lot of: "I really learned from this" from you.
It's a lot of I shouldn't have done this or that. Seems like you are still doing the same things.
I'm a bit troubled about him asking about messaging your friend with money. Could have been an attempt at humor which is a poor one, but it also could be him playing with your emotions to see if he can get a response.
I think him asking if you're interested in him and if he's your type is a so-so questions. It's almost, "Do you like me?". I think a better question from him would have been: "What are you looking for?" Your reply wasn't any better. "Sometimes I am interested in you and sometimes not." -- that tells him that you think of him as "meh". It also says, "I don't know what I want or I don't really want anything, except for attention from you.
Lesson: Be your authentic self. If a guy doesn't like it. Then move on. He doesn't deserve you.
Lesson: Get real and stop playing games. If you want a relationship then make some time for it.
Lesson: Stop playing games. Stop ghosting. Stop ghosting and blocking. Stop ghosting, blocking, and then returning expecting attention.
Lesson: You mess up interacting with guys. Learn from it. Tell yourself what you will do next time. If I like a guy, I'm going to stay engaged with him. If he ghosts me then it's his loss and I dodged a bullet. I put myself out there and that's not good enough for him.
Lesson: Be vulnerable. Share of yourself. Be uncomfortable. Tell things about your true self and accept that not everyone will like you and/or will be real back or will be vulnerable with you, then move on.
Lesson: Stop wasting time with people who don't value your time. Make sure you value the time of every human being you interact with.
Lesson: Stop chasing guys who show you no interest and give a chance to a guy who does.
Lesson: If you like someone. Let them know by giving them your time and attention.
Lesson: Don't get stuck in regret mode with this situation. Learn from it and move on.
I blocked him once because i messaged him and he didnt respond even after four days. So i blocked for a few weeks.
When i eventually spoke to him on the phone he said he assumed i deleted his number because apparently he messaged me and i didnt reply. I got no messages from him, so i assumed he messaged when i had him blocked.
He then kept repeating how i didnt reply to bhis message and did i find someone else and come back to him.
The actual reality of the situation was i got annoyed he hadnt replied and so blocked him. And i hadnt spoken to any other guys, shows how people shouldnt ever assume as they could be so wrong.
I didnt ask him many questions as it was almost like he was interviewing me. It was question after question i barely had time to think to ask him anything.
Yes the comment about my friend was beyond weird it just reminded me of past men who would mention other girls..
Whatever his reason as dismissive of him that i have been at times ive not disrespected him by saying i would like to chat.up his friends.
About the cooking i told him i don't have time to cook he said you have plenty of time to...at that time we were all in strict quarantine.
When he asked me if i like him etc etc..i found it weird who asks someone if they like them so bluntly 😂. That's why i didnt answer him straight.
And why is it aabout him why couldnt he say he likes me and then maybe i would have said something similar back?
Ive got a lessoms to learn. I know.
Are you talking to any other guys right now? Why not invest some time in them? Or get more active online? You're spending way too much time thinking about a guy who's thinking about other women right now. I've been in the reverse circumstances before. It's hard when you're not thinking clear.
You keep wondering why he doesn't like you? You have lots to offer. Go find a guy who wants it and deserves you.
No im not wondering why he doesnt like me
I know he has been interested in me for a.long time.
Its just i didnt always show my interest back.
I don't know who hes thinking about..i not going to guess that.
He asked me to meet him last..that's what i know.
Yes i have spoken to other guys. Didnt like any of them. They were weird. As a lot of men are online.click to expand
You met him online and you’ll meet another. If he was interested he’d be messaging. If you message him you lose part of your dignity. If you cannot move on without talking to him then send a hello and be done with it. If he replies deal with it. If he doesn’t then he’s not interested.
Posted by molly94Posted by Aria1
When I was on dating apps if a guy asked me out I promptly agreed and we went out.
If there was mutual interest on both sides, we'd go out again, and again (i.e. dating).
Letting months go by without going on a proper date isn't really going to amount to much.
Hes probably thinking the exact same thing to be fair.
But in actual fact i do want to meet him.
Its just going to be hard now with regards to all the restrictions and the virus still being aroundclick to expand
Well a good time to meet would have been shortly after you first started speaking in October. Now, it will be especially hard given Coronavirus plus he could have already met someone else.
Posted by Piscis_HominisPosted by molly94Posted by Piscis_HominisPosted by molly94Posted by Piscis_Hominis
I haven't read every single post.
It seems like he was interested, then you ghosted/blocked - what kind of message that sends to him? This woman plays games.
Anyway, he asked you a lot of questions, and you said you didn't ask a lot - suggests that you aren't interested in him and/or able to have an adult conversation. If you are interested in someone you tell them about yourself and you ask about them. He was asking to see what you were all about. The cooking question was interesting. I have no problem with someone not being a good cook. If they don't care about cooking, then that tells me they don't want to learn about life. Cooking is an essential practice for adults. Not everyone has to be great at it but you need to show some desire to care about what you put in our body and not relying on take-out for example. He might have suggested this as growth for you and then saw how you answered it.
I haven't seen a lot of: "I really learned from this" from you.
It's a lot of I shouldn't have done this or that. Seems like you are still doing the same things.
I'm a bit troubled about him asking about messaging your friend with money. Could have been an attempt at humor which is a poor one, but it also could be him playing with your emotions to see if he can get a response.
I think him asking if you're interested in him and if he's your type is a so-so questions. It's almost, "Do you like me?". I think a better question from him would have been: "What are you looking for?" Your reply wasn't any better. "Sometimes I am interested in you and sometimes not." -- that tells him that you think of him as "meh". It also says, "I don't know what I want or I don't really want anything, except for attention from you.
Lesson: Be your authentic self. If a guy doesn't like it. Then move on. He doesn't deserve you.
Lesson: Get real and stop playing games. If you want a relationship then make some time for it.
Lesson: Stop playing games. Stop ghosting. Stop ghosting and blocking. Stop ghosting, blocking, and then returning expecting attention.
Lesson: You mess up interacting with guys. Learn from it. Tell yourself what you will do next time. If I like a guy, I'm going to stay engaged with him. If he ghosts me then it's his loss and I dodged a bullet. I put myself out there and that's not good enough for him.
Lesson: Be vulnerable. Share of yourself. Be uncomfortable. Tell things about your true self and accept that not everyone will like you and/or will be real back or will be vulnerable with you, then move on.
Lesson: Stop wasting time with people who don't value your time. Make sure you value the time of every human being you interact with.
Lesson: Stop chasing guys who show you no interest and give a chance to a guy who does.
Lesson: If you like someone. Let them know by giving them your time and attention.
Lesson: Don't get stuck in regret mode with this situation. Learn from it and move on.
I blocked him once because i messaged him and he didnt respond even after four days. So i blocked for a few weeks.
When i eventually spoke to him on the phone he said he assumed i deleted his number because apparently he messaged me and i didnt reply. I got no messages from him, so i assumed he messaged when i had him blocked.
He then kept repeating how i didnt reply to bhis message and did i find someone else and come back to him.
The actual reality of the situation was i got annoyed he hadnt replied and so blocked him. And i hadnt spoken to any other guys, shows how people shouldnt ever assume as they could be so wrong.
I didnt ask him many questions as it was almost like he was interviewing me. It was question after question i barely had time to think to ask him anything.
Yes the comment about my friend was beyond weird it just reminded me of past men who would mention other girls..
Whatever his reason as dismissive of him that i have been at times ive not disrespected him by saying i would like to chat.up his friends.
About the cooking i told him i don't have time to cook he said you have plenty of time to...at that time we were all in strict quarantine.
When he asked me if i like him etc etc..i found it weird who asks someone if they like them so bluntly 😂. That's why i didnt answer him straight.
And why is it aabout him why couldnt he say he likes me and then maybe i would have said something similar back?
Ive got a lessoms to learn. I know.
Are you talking to any other guys right now? Why not invest some time in them? Or get more active online? You're spending way too much time thinking about a guy who's thinking about other women right now. I've been in the reverse circumstances before. It's hard when you're not thinking clear.
You keep wondering why he doesn't like you? You have lots to offer. Go find a guy who wants it and deserves you.
No im not wondering why he doesnt like me
I know he has been interested in me for a.long time.
Its just i didnt always show my interest back.
I don't know who hes thinking about..i not going to guess that.
He asked me to meet him last..that's what i know.
Yes i have spoken to other guys. Didnt like any of them. They were weird. As a lot of men are online.
You met him online and you’ll meet another. If he was interested he’d be messaging. If you message him you lose part of your dignity. If you cannot move on without talking to him then send a hello and be done with it. If he replies deal with it. If he doesn’t then he’s not interested.click to expand
He was chasing me this whole time.
The only reason he stopped as i said os because of my behaviour.
When he asked to meet he probably expected me to bring it up again. Which i didnt...so no i wouldn't lose dignity. I think I've preserved all my .dignity this whole time.
Because after all his forward moving gestures most women would have done a hell of a lot more than i have
Posted by Aria1Posted by molly94Posted by Aria1
When I was on dating apps if a guy asked me out I promptly agreed and we went out.
If there was mutual interest on both sides, we'd go out again, and again (i.e. dating).
Letting months go by without going on a proper date isn't really going to amount to much.
Hes probably thinking the exact same thing to be fair.
But in actual fact i do want to meet him.
Its just going to be hard now with regards to all the restrictions and the virus still being around
Well a good time to meet would have been shortly after you first started speaking in October. Now, it will be especially hard given Coronavirus plus he could have already met someone else.click to expand
Yeh i guess.
But all our communication has always been on n off. And hes been fine with it. But i guess i shall know soon
Like your guy, I tend to make myself scarce in situations where I'm not wanted. One guy that I was talking to we had a great chemistry, and I think we totally do it for each other. But he told me he was going to get with me one night at 9 p.m., and he didnt. I never initiated a conversation after that. My thinking is if he's too busy to message me, then so be it. Now I totally think this is a situation where he is just really busy from work , but of course I wouldn't know because he hasn't told me. Even if that's the situation that he's just too busy, he, like me and you, has to make time for what we want. If you're not willing to make dating a priority then don't message him. Because in all honesty it sounds like you're sending mixed signals.
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I haven’t posted for a long time. And I’m curious about your back story when y’all were dating the signs (or I’m just being noisy). It could be short & simple don’t really matter.
Capricorn: I never dated one, they usually become one of the closest
Lol, this doesn't mean call instead of text. I swear virgos always read things so literally!!
He's saying don't waste his time leading him on. As in, women have loads of options and just maintain connection with small texts, maybe a half-assed semi nude every now and then. Doing the bare minimum to keep those options interested but basically shooting them down every time they pursue you. You literally said you have options, so he is telling you straight out to stop doing that. This is a guy who knows his worth and also knows he wants you, so if you want him, stop playing, because he seems to know these games very well and isn't falling for it