@westside
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini
pale chicks
do they make make-up to make you look pale vs the make-up that makes you look more tan? if so all woman should invest in that ASAP
and dont get me wrong, those girls who get tan just right look sexy too..looking at you natalie 😉..but yea most girls just dont do it right at all
Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa?! There's appreciation for all us pasty women? *thumbs way up* 😄
Posted by venusianbull
Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa?! There's appreciation for all us pasty women? *thumbs way up* 😄
mmmmm...thought you said Pastry Women! We all love those!!!
Yes Westside, make up to make one look paler is very popular in countries like Japan.
And get yourself a nice Fire Girl - forget about the Scorpio.
LOL Pasty woman who can make pastry. Well then.
Posted by westside
PALE SKIN IS SO BEAUTIFUL!!!
And dark skin isn't? What the fuck are you kidding me?
Posted by westside
PALE SKIN IS SO BEAUTIFUL!!!And dark skin isn't? What the fuck are you kidding me?
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"hot" is not a color
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Posted by westside
PALE SKIN IS SO BEAUTIFUL!!!And dark skin isn't? What the fuck are you kidding me?
"hot" is not a color
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What are you talking about "hot" is not a color? Did he say anything about "hot"? He specifically said PALE SKIN IS SO BEAUTIFUL!!! Really? That's what I'm addressing boo-boo.
boo boo? boo who?
I was just sharing one of my many sage sayings with you
Oh dear and it rhymes!! High 5. totally unplanned, must have my Writing mojo back.
'humorlessness unfortunately, comes in all shapes and sizes'
LMAO Gawd Bling.
LOL 🙂 I was surprised ( why I dunno? ) that the fair complected got some kudos. Even though my hair is dark I don't tan. My freckles get darker. I consider it an accomplishment to achieve a light goldy color in the summer. Pretty sad when your ginger sister gets darker than you in the summer.
You're right about the makeup. That just screams trashy, that Oompa Loompa orange line of demarcation. Heavy makeup in general just looks bad to me. Another one that makes me cringe are those that get so dark ( whether it's tanning bed or outside ) they they look like a strip of beef jerky. :/
I like all skin tones. Beautiful is beautiful, no matter the shade. 🙂
Hmmm, he could be playing mack daddy at the mo, only he ( like the Shadow ) knows. 😄
Exactly. Skin like a cracked bomber jacket. When you look like a wizened dried apple it's time to reformulate your beauty strategy. *fidgets* Hair so overprocessed it looks like candy floss, some dried up tart in teen clothes ( Ohhhhh hang it the fruck UP..for the love of God and all that is holy..quit burning my brain with that ), an immensely heavy person in hooker attire. ( 300 lbs. of human crammed into a 50 lb. bag ). Ugly ass feet with troll toenails in sandals. :/
Pale chicks FTW.
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Oh no Blinger, I'm talking about hammer toes, corns, cracked heels, yellowed over-long horny toenails the whole bit. 🙂 A pumice stone and some good lotion people, not hard, takes two minutes in the tub. Yeeeeeesh.
Meh! I'm a ghost toasty but I've got faint laugh lines and those Momma glare lines in between my brows. When my hair isn't tinted it's predominantly silver. ( They started popping up when I was 17 ). I recently had my hair cut quite close, *patting hair* I likes. Something right nice looking about dark brows, a dumplin' face and silver hair.
Agree with the evolving gracefully. In no way is it attractive seeing lumpish ass cheeks hanging low under denim shorts, muffin top over the waistband. May as well slap a hot pink sign on your arse that says "I've no class! Not a scrap!"
I just evade the sun in general because it's so miserable being burnt. LOL Bit Nosferatu really.
Posted by venusianbull
In no way is it attractive seeing lumpish ass cheeks hanging low under denim shorts, muffin top over the waistband. May as well slap a hot pink sign on your arse that says "I've no class! Not a scrap!"LOL. I hate that. Do you know how many desperate looking fifty year old women I see shopping in the juniors section? Seriously. Especially when women's clothes are normally so much more attractive as a whole than juniors. I only shop in juniors because so often women's has no sizes for little peoples like me. Cept for pants, I normally can fit in to those jes fine lol.
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Exactly. It's a crying shame. Not to mention it's sexier imo to just hint at what you've got when dressed, not lay it out like a 5 course dinner. And what they're laying out makes me look longingly at anorexic behavior. 😛
If you're a junior size, then shop in that section. My mother is the size of a sparrow so I know from her how frustrating it is finding what you like in your size.
Posted by venusianbull
Oh no Blinger, I'm talking about hammer toes, corns, cracked heels, yellowed over-long horny toenails the whole bit. 🙂 A pumice stone and some good lotion people, not hard, takes two minutes in the tub. Yeeeeeesh.
Meh! I'm a ghost toasty but I've got faint laugh lines and those Momma glare lines in between my brows. When my hair isn't tinted it's predominantly silver. ( They started popping up when I was 17 ). I recently had my hair cut quite close, *patting hair* I likes. Something right nice looking about dark brows, a dumplin' face and silver hair.
Agree with the evolving gracefully. In no way is it attractive seeing lumpish ass cheeks hanging low under denim shorts, muffin top over the waistband. May as well slap a hot pink sign on your arse that says "I've no class! Not a scrap!"
I just evade the sun in general because it's so miserable being burnt. LOL Bit Nosferatu really.You're too kind with the 'muffin top'. It's known as a 'gunt' round these parts.
I love the sun !! plus I tend to look healthier slightly toasted imo.
+1 on the pumice too, although I grind my feet before a bath as I've overdone if before and it feels more than a little tender if I've took too much skin off.:/click to expand
LMAO "Gunt"...gut over the c--- I assume?
You have taken too much skin, do it in the tub sir. The skin softens in the water and comes off easily. And no orbital sander. Ta. 🙂
🙂 LOL Most excellent.
Posted by westside
PALE SKIN IS SO BEAUTIFUL!!!And dark skin isn't? What the fuck are you kidding me?
Caramel,chocolate,dark chocolate..😛
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Yup IT'S THE BEST...& no I don't know what the hell he is but if he is African-American saying some bullshit like that, it would be a fucken crying shame...smh.
Yay....I'm so pale I glow in the dark lol. I can tan but choose not too...the Oompa Loompa style is just not for me...I can't believe a lot of people walk around like that...you would think their friends or family would tell them?!
Posted by ellybd
. . .The black men I know are less discriminating with outward appearance than most of the white guys I've come across. They(white men) tend to have drastically specific images they want when dating a girl. Where as the black guys don't. It could also be age difference though. .
Don't get gassed girlfriend -- black men become super open minded and option-expanding when it comes to non-black women yet are very discriminating with the outward appearance when it comes to black women so, *we* black women face the same things you white women do from the men of our respective race -- discriminating with outward appearance.
At the end of the day, white men like slim bodies and black men like hair they can touch and that's *pretty when wet*. Let me guess, cause this is how I'm thinking you are able to pull the black men -- your hair is touchable and, it's pretty when wet!! 🙂 🙂 The hair in and of itself can make a fat sloppy looking white gal who looks like she lives on fastfood look like A STAR when, that's what Black men like -- women who look like a STAR!!
With the Brothas, it's all in the hair and, when it comes to the white men, it's all in the weight!! 🙂
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Are you kidding?
LOL YEP. And foundation? UGH. Ivory is too pale, Bisque too flipping dark. I accentuate one feature or the other. If I wear boom boom POW red lipstick, the eyes are understated. If I go cat-eye the lips are neutral. If you go whole face with it you just need a Bozo button and a pair of big shoes.
I like the mineral makeup personally. I mix and match about 3 different colors. 🙂 LOL You know? I look at the bright ones in their nifty lil' compacts and so on, then shake my head. I know what colors look dire on me. You think "Ohhhh yeh, brilliant! Turqoise, emerald green, fuschia!" Then you just know you best put it down and walk away.
No ma'am with the trowel and spackling. I've rosacea patches on my cheeks though or I'd not wear it at all. I look hectic or slapped if I do not. I miss seeing my freckles spattered cross my nose though. :/
Posted by CarbonMonoxide
TBH, I wouldn't have guessed you wear foundation at all, VB. Your skin looks very natural.So you're doing it right! 🙂
And I think rosy patches on the cheeks are cute, fwiw.
Especially on pale skin.
🙂
🙂 Curse of the Celts. Looks gooood on ya. LOL 🙂
Posted by venusianbull
I like the mineral makeup personally. I mix and match about 3 different colors. 🙂I also love mineral makeup. I can't use Bare Escentuals, though, because it makes my skin itch. I use SPF 30 moisturizer, then put mineral powder on top. I don't like liquid foundation.
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Me either, can't stand the stuff. I use a hibiscus/rosehip serum, then go with the powder. I don't like the feeling that my skin can't breathe with other products.
Posted by ellybd
. . .The black men I know are less discriminating with outward appearance than most of the white guys I've come across. They(white men) tend to have drastically specific images they want when dating a girl. Where as the black guys don't. It could also be age difference though. .
Don't get gassed girlfriend -- black men become super open minded and option-expanding when it comes to non-black women yet are very discriminating with the outward appearance when it comes to black women so, *we* black women face the same things you white women do from the men of our respective race -- discriminating with outward appearance.
At the end of the day, white men like slim bodies and black men like hair they can touch and that's *pretty when wet*. Let me guess, cause this is how I'm thinking you are able to pull the black men -- your hair is touchable and, it's pretty when wet!! 🙂 🙂 The hair in and of itself can make a fat sloppy looking white gal who looks like she lives on fastfood look like A STAR when, that's what Black men like -- women who look like a STAR!!
With the Brothas, it's all in the hair and, when it comes to the white men, it's all in the weight!! 🙂
Are you kidding?
Yes. 🙂
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Yeah...I figured you were because that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard & this is the dumbest topic I've ever seen...FOH.
Don't know how else to be epithet...I say what's on my mind & if they don't like it, I don't give a fuck...🙂
Not at all..."internet gangsta" lol. No need to be. I'm just not fake.
I'm surrounded by pale ass people here in seattle. I don't care though. I like being one of the few with a touch of color.
Very few people can pull off the ghostly white look without looking sickly from what I see. I don't think it's good to be a sun-phobe either. Sure, don't sit out in it unprotected all day but living your life indoors sounds just as bad.
Regardless, it's all just another fad. Being pale is "in" just like tanning was some years ago. One of these days we'll get past this and find the balance. I hope.
Posted by westside
i fuckin love pale chicks. not only are you guys beautiful but you are hard to find too, nowadays all these girls are tan as balls..its like these girls dont even realize how bad that is for them in the first place, and by the time you're 20 you look 35. its nasty yall. PALE SKIN IS SO BEAUTIFUL!!! even if you are tan, you gotta wear sunscreen at all times ladies, the sun aint no joke! one time i met the perfect girl..she was a scorpio and she had the most pale skin i have ever seen in my life, and she rejected me! aint that some shit...but anyway, i just had to get this off of my chest!
You crack me up.
Westside wants an albino chick. hahahha.
But you are right. Girls be looking orange now. Like they eating too many carrots.
I want to ask them sometimes...you went tanning or a carrot eating festival?
I was on I-95 the other day and I swear a traffic cone was driving a car. She was bright orange.
Do they do this on purpose or is there like a
Lite, Tan, Dark and Orangutan tanning levels in the booths?
this is the dumbest topic I've ever seen...
ILL REMEMBER THAT!
Posted by PurrrrHissss
CarbonMonoxide: Your full lips are lovely. 🙂
yup. those are some DSls if i ever saw some 🙂
those monkey lips work too i guess ahahaha
Posted by PurrrrHissss
I don't understand why people are attacking you, westside. You're simply showing a preference for white people with pale skin as opposed to white people with tanned skin.You said NOTHING about people with naturally darker skin. 🙂
There's nothing racist about that.
thats what IM saying!
awww
Posted by PurrrrHissss
I don't understand why people are attacking you, westside. You're simply showing a preference for white people with pale skin as opposed to white people with tanned skin.You said NOTHING about people with naturally darker skin. 🙂
There's nothing racist about that.
thats what IM saying!
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LMAO!!! I guess I mis-construed what you were saying. I was hot with you for a second Westside! Oh ok...I SEE..you like the "white" white people but not the tanned white people. OK...GOT IT. Yes, I thought it was a dumb topic at first because I thought you were trying to say that pale skin was better than dark skin. You know I love you boo...😉
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Gotta get down on Friiiday !
Thursday here. Seriously, ffs :/ 😛
i think you're nifty just the way you are, thursday chile
And for the record I have A WHOLE LOT TO DO AND SAY if I believe someone is being "racist" against their own race, I WILL say something about it & won't give a rat's ass about what anyone thinks, but since I realize that is not the case, I'm good. Continue to play children.
friday under a full moon for me
gotta love those oppositions =/ 😛
LOL @ this thread.
I can't tan to save my life, I just burn and freckle lol :X
LMAO.
Freckle and Burn......just sounds funny.
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
boo boo? boo who?
I was just sharing one of my many sage sayings with youOh dear and it rhymes!! High 5. totally unplanned, must have my Writing mojo back.
'humorlessness unfortunately, comes in all shapes and sizes'
LMAO!!! pale girls!? girls are girls bro. and while we're on that topic, why do "thugs" always get with the most pale, fat girls they can find? seriously! do these dudes got serious low self esteem or what!?
Thanks for the comment Westside. In this day of fake boobs, botox and tanning beds, its so refreshing to know that some men appreciate the natural pale skin. I can't/won't tan and I know my skin looks better for it. The other day my mom told me that a man once told her he found it attractive b/c when a pale woman is in the nude or in revealing outfits, the paleness only proves to a man that he's seeing skin that isnt frequently revealed for all to see.
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i fuckin love pale chicks. not only are you guys beautiful but you are hard to find too, nowadays all these girls are tan as balls..its like these girls dont even realize how bad that is for them in the first place, and by the time you're 20 you look 35. its nasty yall. PALE SKIN IS SO BEAUTIFUL!!! even if you are tan, you gotta wear sunscreen at all times ladies, the sun aint no joke! one time i met the perfect girl..she was a scorpio and she had the most pale skin i have ever seen in my life, and she rejected me! aint that some shit...but anyway, i just had to get this off of my chest!