Prom-posal, but we’re not in high school..

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Is it normal for a women(26 years old) to want to be prom-posaled when I ask her out?.. this would be the third time we’ll get together now in a relationship and she has been going off on how if I just ask her out she won’t accept that, I have to prom-posal her. As far as I’ve figured from what she means is that I have to come up with some corny way to ask her out and make a big deal out of it? I get the whole wanting to feel special as a person, but is this kind of thing normal especially given the situation of it being our third time getting back together?
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😆 she's Taurus isn't she?

My bestie is kinda the same, she cracks me up with her expectations... Her husband goes along with it.. So 🤷‍♀️

Valentine's day.. She wants specific flowers from a specific florist.

Christmas she makes her wish list, no getting her anything else.

Her baby shower.. I actually had to tell her all the details because the thought of impromptu or not pre-approved anything is a crazy concept to her. 😸

She's a lovely friend, otherwise.
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Taurus_mn
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Posted by Boots1313

This is cringe.

Why did you guys break up and get back together 3 times?

Sounds high maintenance.

Definitely not normal.

Unless you cheated on her and she wants you to prove your loyalty by making a spectacle ..still cringe though


Very high maintenance.

She’s such a serious “no play unless on my terms” kind of person. The first split was cause I didn’t propose in time. The second, she was driving me insane and I throw it out there and she took the idea and ran with it. No cheating, I’ve always been there for her, always gave 110% . But that shit can ware on a person
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Posted by Basorexia

😆 she's Taurus isn't she?

My bestie is kinda the same, she cracks me up with her expectations... Her husband goes along with it.. So 🤷‍♀️

Valentine's day.. She wants specific flowers from a specific florist.

Christmas she makes her wish list, no getting her anything else.

Her baby shower.. I actually had to tell her all the details because the thought of impromptu or not pre-approved anything is a crazy concept to her. 😸

She's a lovely friend, otherwise.


I’m actually the Taurus☺️ She’s a libra
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Bull-ish
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Posted by Boots1313

This is cringe.

Why did you guys break up and get back together 3 times?

Sounds high maintenance.

Definitely not normal.

Unless you cheated on her and she wants you to prove your loyalty by making a spectacle ..still cringe though

Very high maintenance.

She’s such a serious “no play unless on my terms” kind of person. The first split was cause I didn’t propose in time. The second, she was driving me insane and I throw it out there and she took the idea and ran with it. No cheating, I’ve always been there for her, always gave 110% . But that shit can ware on a person
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Yeah, it certainly can

I feel for you

Ultimately it's up to you if it's something you can deal with and if she's worth it.

Propose quick enough? How long have yall been together.

And what's her sign?
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Screams narcissism. Run away, don’t look back.

Moms a behavioral counselor, she keeps telling me she’s a full blown narcissist

😬 Maybe listen to mom?

Are you 26 also?
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We lived together for 2 years, moved in pretty quick when we started dating, and I was right about to buy her ring, like literally a paycheck away.

She’s a libra, I’m a Taurus

She’s 26, I’m 24

And yeah my moms been dying with all the stuff she’s been doing since we’ve been on “her good terms” lately
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Screams narcissism. Run away, don’t look back.

Moms a behavioral counselor, she keeps telling me she’s a full blown narcissist

😬 Maybe listen to mom?

Are you 26 also?

We lived together for 2 years, moved in pretty quick when we started dating, and I was right about to buy her ring, like literally a paycheck away.

She’s a libra, I’m a Taurus

She’s 26, I’m 24

And yeah my moms been dying with all the stuff she’s been doing since we’ve been on “her good terms” lately
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Yikes.

Well I do usually champion libra w and Taurus m relationships.

How are you feeling about the relationship? You going to go through with the prom-posal?

Just a foreshadow...this is only the beginning. This won't be the last "prom-posal" she's going to expect this for ever occasion and milestone.

It sounds exhausting...but all up to you.

Btw I'm a Taurus female, dating a taurus male.
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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Screams narcissism. Run away, don’t look back.

Moms a behavioral counselor, she keeps telling me she’s a full blown narcissist

😬 Maybe listen to mom?

Are you 26 also?

We lived together for 2 years, moved in pretty quick when we started dating, and I was right about to buy her ring, like literally a paycheck away.

She’s a libra, I’m a Taurus

She’s 26, I’m 24

And yeah my moms been dying with all the stuff she’s been doing since we’ve been on “her good terms” lately

Yikes.

Well I do usually champion libra w and Taurus m relationships.

How are you feeling about the relationship? You going to go through with the prom-posal?

Just a foreshadow...this is only the beginning. This won't be the last "prom-posal" she's going to expect this for ever occasion and milestone.

It sounds exhausting...but all up to you.

Btw I'm a Taurus female, dating a taurus male.
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We’re done now, a couple things happened and I dropped the ball a little on her birthday and she got pissed and ran off again, I didn’t really think of it as a huge deal I was just late. Her mom sent me a kind of out of her place text the next day and blamed everything on me, thought that was kinda weird.

But I’m sure she would expect that and beyond for everything.

I’ve always thought libra/Taurus was like a match made in heaven, we do great together when things are good but once something pisses her off, nice knowin ya she’ll tear you down in anyway possible.

I’ve always been interested in Taurus/taurus relationships, you guys do pretty well together??
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She's got to realize that those types of gestures are meaninglessness when demanded.

Propose because you want to propose, not because she nagged you into it. Sames goes for the ridiculous prom proposal. She needs to get off instagram and reality tv and live in the real world.

Is she worth all of this? Do you really want to spend the rest of your life being nagged into doing over the top acts to impress her followers?

You say narcism, I say sprinkle in some insecurity.