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Posted by Arielle83
What is skanky?
Apparently any girl that dares to approach a man of OP's interest that doesn't take 4+ months to have a single phone conversation.
Duh, didn't you know.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by nikkistarPosted by Arielle83
What is skanky?
Apparently any girl that dares to approach a man of OP's interest that doesn't take 4+ months to have a single phone conversation.
Duh, didn't you know.
Ya. Skanks get married in 2019.click to expand
And get knocked up by their husband.
Fucking sluts.
Posted by dilettante
fuck this troll ass thread
i hate it 😩
Just wait for the OP to tell us that she puts soy sauce and butter in her rice.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistarPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistar
Congrats, you picked up the phone and called him.
It went well. He saw an increase in your 1% effort, to 2% . Then the proceeding days after, the average slipped back to 1% .
Lol alright miss know it all.
😂.
After the phone call he said we would speak soon. What was I meant to do in that time beg him to call me. At least i texted to find out how he was he didn't even do that.
Either way I called him about an hour and a half ago, he picked up and said " just a quick phonecall" then I realised that wasn't to me it was to his work colleague or boss. He then said he was at work and he would give me a.call back later
Congrats, you are acting like a normal communicating adult, that isn't looking at the paint on the wall drying.
Keep it up, and you may actually get an in person date.
Don't kill me but he also messaged after we spoke (when he said hd call me back) ..And he just asked what time I'll be sleeping tonight. (I think so he can call me at a suitable time) I replied with "do u mind if I ring u tomorrow ". But honestly at the time i was dead tired. Lie actually falling asleep.
he didnt say anything I'm pretty sure he hates me lol or has gone back go hating me
It's not about you saying, I am too tired. It is at least you letting him know, and following up.
If you actually follow up, shit starts going the way you want. But when you sit on your thumbs, and do nothing, you get nothing. Which is what I said from the start.click to expand
Trueee. Less talking and more action.
Well he was actually cool with it after all, he messaged saying that it's fine no worries and he explained again he was at work when I called
Posted by nikkistarPosted by dilettante
fuck this troll ass thread
i hate it 😩
Just wait for the OP to tell us that she puts soy sauce and butter in her rice.click to expand
Nope no soy sauce or butter.
Posted by dilettante
fuck this troll ass thread
i hate it 😩
There's threads I've seen here that have gone on for years. So if u don't like it, move along.
Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90I will try to call him more and show interest. But apparently there is such a thing as showing too much interest before it gets to the relationship stage.
Btw it's funny u say that because the aggressive girl scenario has happened to me more than once. Where the guy likes me shows interest andI try to play it cool but Then in the meantime some skanky girl comes along and the rest is history lol.Happened to me a few years ago and guess what him and the girl got married and have kids now. I do think about that sometimes
She is "skanky" because she takes less than two months to have a phone conversation with a man?? Lol.click to expand
Not quite. She was way too forward and way to desperate. Like for example he came to talk to me in person, and she swooped in from no where. She just didn't like that he was speaking to me.
Anyway thats a whole other story
Posted by shellypop34
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Lol thanks. I'll check out the article.
I tend to wait for the man to set up the date. I mean sure I'll show I'm interested before but the rest is upto him
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Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90I will try to call him more and show interest. But apparently there is such a thing as showing too much interest before it gets to the relationship stage.
Btw it's funny u say that because the aggressive girl scenario has happened to me more than once. Where the guy likes me shows interest andI try to play it cool but Then in the meantime some skanky girl comes along and the rest is history lol.Happened to me a few years ago and guess what him and the girl got married and have kids now. I do think about that sometimes
She is "skanky" because she takes less than two months to have a phone conversation with a man?? Lol.
Not quite. She was way too forward and way to desperate. Like for example he came to talk to me in person, and she swooped in from no where. She just didn't like that he was speaking to me.
Anyway thats a whole other story
My point remains the same though. Maybe he married her BECAUSE she was forward, and "swooping" to his side, and didn't talk crap about other women? She probably bothered to form an emotional connection with him, and that made him forgive her perceived flaws and forget about all the women in his life playing games.
I have been that skank (lol) that landed a man that was getting his head played with. It is shockingly not difficult. You just have to be there because she isn't and at the right moment be upset that he is still entertaining women like you.
Easy peasy. Bingo Bango.click to expand
Well I didn't talk crap about other women to him lol, after all that occurred that was my opinion of her. I was just a little reserved at the time. Given some time I could have formed a connection just the same.
Of course I don't label everyone the same it just depends on the scenario.😁
Was your man already with the women or did he just like her/seeing where things go.
Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90I will try to call him more and show interest. But apparently there is such a thing as showing too much interest before it gets to the relationship stage.
Btw it's funny u say that because the aggressive girl scenario has happened to me more than once. Where the guy likes me shows interest andI try to play it cool but Then in the meantime some skanky girl comes along and the rest is history lol.Happened to me a few years ago and guess what him and the girl got married and have kids now. I do think about that sometimes
She is "skanky" because she takes less than two months to have a phone conversation with a man?? Lol.
Not quite. She was way too forward and way to desperate. Like for example he came to talk to me in person, and she swooped in from no where. She just didn't like that he was speaking to me.
Anyway thats a whole other story
My point remains the same though. Maybe he married her BECAUSE she was forward, and "swooping" to his side, and didn't talk crap about other women? She probably bothered to form an emotional connection with him, and that made him forgive her perceived flaws and forget about all the women in his life playing games.
I have been that skank (lol) that landed a man that was getting his head played with. It is shockingly not difficult. You just have to be there because she isn't and at the right moment be upset that he is still entertaining women like you.
Easy peasy. Bingo Bango.
Well I didn't talk crap about other women to him lol, after all that occurred that was my opinion of her. I was just a little reserved at the time. Given some time I could have formed a connection just the same.
Of course I don't label everyone the same it just depends on the scenario.😁
Was your man already with the women or did he just like her/seeing where things go.
I don't go after taken dudes, ew.
They had sex once and she was off pretending to be busy and playing it cool for weeks on end.click to expand
Lol so she was basically doing what guys do after the deed 😂
Ad then what happened? You guys got together. Did she find out
Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90I will try to call him more and show interest. But apparently there is such a thing as showing too much interest before it gets to the relationship stage.
Btw it's funny u say that because the aggressive girl scenario has happened to me more than once. Where the guy likes me shows interest andI try to play it cool but Then in the meantime some skanky girl comes along and the rest is history lol.Happened to me a few years ago and guess what him and the girl got married and have kids now. I do think about that sometimes
She is "skanky" because she takes less than two months to have a phone conversation with a man?? Lol.
Not quite. She was way too forward and way to desperate. Like for example he came to talk to me in person, and she swooped in from no where. She just didn't like that he was speaking to me.
Anyway thats a whole other story
My point remains the same though. Maybe he married her BECAUSE she was forward, and "swooping" to his side, and didn't talk crap about other women? She probably bothered to form an emotional connection with him, and that made him forgive her perceived flaws and forget about all the women in his life playing games.
I have been that skank (lol) that landed a man that was getting his head played with. It is shockingly not difficult. You just have to be there because she isn't and at the right moment be upset that he is still entertaining women like you.
Easy peasy. Bingo Bango.
Well I didn't talk crap about other women to him lol, after all that occurred that was my opinion of her. I was just a little reserved at the time. Given some time I could have formed a connection just the same.
Of course I don't label everyone the same it just depends on the scenario.😁
Was your man already with the women or did he just like her/seeing where things go.
I don't go after taken dudes, ew.
They had sex once and she was off pretending to be busy and playing it cool for weeks on end.
Lol so she was basically doing what guys do after the deed 😂
Ad then what happened? You guys got together. Did she find out
It got to the point where it was commiting time and he had a face to face conversation with her for like an hour, which was stupid and pissed me right off. He told me she was sitting on his floor trying to catch him in lies.
I probably should have let them have each other. One sneaky moron and one needy detective, match made in heaven Lol.click to expand
So the game playing almost worked lool. He was still interested in her.
I find men are usually very sneaky and will speak to multiple women if they can.
Wait so what happened u guys ended up dating?
Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90I will try to call him more and show interest. But apparently there is such a thing as showing too much interest before it gets to the relationship stage.
Btw it's funny u say that because the aggressive girl scenario has happened to me more than once. Where the guy likes me shows interest andI try to play it cool but Then in the meantime some skanky girl comes along and the rest is history lol.Happened to me a few years ago and guess what him and the girl got married and have kids now. I do think about that sometimes
She is "skanky" because she takes less than two months to have a phone conversation with a man?? Lol.
Not quite. She was way too forward and way to desperate. Like for example he came to talk to me in person, and she swooped in from no where. She just didn't like that he was speaking to me.
Anyway thats a whole other story
My point remains the same though. Maybe he married her BECAUSE she was forward, and "swooping" to his side, and didn't talk crap about other women? She probably bothered to form an emotional connection with him, and that made him forgive her perceived flaws and forget about all the women in his life playing games.
I have been that skank (lol) that landed a man that was getting his head played with. It is shockingly not difficult. You just have to be there because she isn't and at the right moment be upset that he is still entertaining women like you.
Easy peasy. Bingo Bango.
Well I didn't talk crap about other women to him lol, after all that occurred that was my opinion of her. I was just a little reserved at the time. Given some time I could have formed a connection just the same.
Of course I don't label everyone the same it just depends on the scenario.😁
Was your man already with the women or did he just like her/seeing where things go.
I don't go after taken dudes, ew.
They had sex once and she was off pretending to be busy and playing it cool for weeks on end.
Lol so she was basically doing what guys do after the deed 😂
Ad then what happened? You guys got together. Did she find out
It got to the point where it was commiting time and he had a face to face conversation with her for like an hour, which was stupid and pissed me right off. He told me she was sitting on his floor trying to catch him in lies.
I probably should have let them have each other. One sneaky moron and one needy detective, match made in heaven Lol.
So the game playing almost worked lool. He was still interested in her.
I find men are usually very sneaky and will speak to multiple women if they can.
Wait so what happened u guys ended up dating?
I don't think he was interested in her or that her games almost worked.click to expand
Hmmmmmm
Posted by Erin
I don't think he was interested in her or that her games almost worked.
I suspect the OP has a different outlook in terms of talking and dating to men, then most. I think she has an expectation of monogamy immediately the moment she begins talking to a man. If he is talking or interacting with other women, then it is either them being sneaky, or the women lack morals.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by Erin
I don't think he was interested in her or that her games almost worked.
I suspect the OP has a different outlook in terms of talking and dating to men, then most. I think she has an expectation of monogamy immediately the moment she begins talking to a man. If he is talking or interacting with other women, then it is either them being sneaky, or the women lack morals.click to expand
I do find it sneaky but at the same time no i don't expect monogamy because that obviously doesn't happen till both parties agree on the terms.
I find it sneaky especially when an individual acts like you're the only one and almost like they're in love with you Yeh.
I'm just not fake. If I'm unsure of someone and do have other options It will most likely be quite obvious. I don't act one way and do another
Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90Posted by ErinPosted by Lacey90I will try to call him more and show interest. But apparently there is such a thing as showing too much interest before it gets to the relationship stage.
Btw it's funny u say that because the aggressive girl scenario has happened to me more than once. Where the guy likes me shows interest andI try to play it cool but Then in the meantime some skanky girl comes along and the rest is history lol.Happened to me a few years ago and guess what him and the girl got married and have kids now. I do think about that sometimes
She is "skanky" because she takes less than two months to have a phone conversation with a man?? Lol.
Not quite. She was way too forward and way to desperate. Like for example he came to talk to me in person, and she swooped in from no where. She just didn't like that he was speaking to me.
Anyway thats a whole other story
My point remains the same though. Maybe he married her BECAUSE she was forward, and "swooping" to his side, and didn't talk crap about other women? She probably bothered to form an emotional connection with him, and that made him forgive her perceived flaws and forget about all the women in his life playing games.
I have been that skank (lol) that landed a man that was getting his head played with. It is shockingly not difficult. You just have to be there because she isn't and at the right moment be upset that he is still entertaining women like you.
Easy peasy. Bingo Bango.
Well I didn't talk crap about other women to him lol, after all that occurred that was my opinion of her. I was just a little reserved at the time. Given some time I could have formed a connection just the same.
Of course I don't label everyone the same it just depends on the scenario.😁
Was your man already with the women or did he just like her/seeing where things go.
I don't go after taken dudes, ew.
They had sex once and she was off pretending to be busy and playing it cool for weeks on end.
Lol so she was basically doing what guys do after the deed 😂
Ad then what happened? You guys got together. Did she find out
It got to the point where it was commiting time and he had a face to face conversation with her for like an hour, which was stupid and pissed me right off. He told me she was sitting on his floor trying to catch him in lies.
I probably should have let them have each other. One sneaky moron and one needy detective, match made in heaven Lol.
So the game playing almost worked lool. He was still interested in her.
I find men are usually very sneaky and will speak to multiple women if they can.
Wait so what happened u guys ended up dating?
I don't think he was interested in her or that her games almost worked.
Hmmmmmm
He just had weak boundaries and no balls. He wanted her to leave, she was bugging him.
Anway, keep playing your games and having them "almost work". I'm sure you will get 'em next time.
https://media.giphy.com/media/yoOotVRp4JMxVTEgDy/giphy.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand
I don't play games. I was referring to that woman who you said was playing games.
Posted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistarPosted by Erin
I don't think he was interested in her or that her games almost worked.
I suspect the OP has a different outlook in terms of talking and dating to men, then most. I think she has an expectation of monogamy immediately the moment she begins talking to a man. If he is talking or interacting with other women, then it is either them being sneaky, or the women lack morals.
I do find it sneaky but at the same time no i don't expect monogamy because that obviously doesn't happen till both parties agree on the terms.
I find it sneaky especially when an individual acts like you're the only one and almost like they're in love with you Yeh.
I'm just not fake. If I'm unsure of someone and do have other options It will most likely be quite obvious. I don't act one way and do anotherclick to expand
But you do. If a man talks to another woman, you call the other woman names. Even if a relationship is not present. It would be one thing, if you were actually in a relationship, and a woman disregards that. But that is not the case with you.
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