Lacey90
@Lacey90
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I'm such a doughnut
Can you give his number to us? We'll...um...just talk to him you know like normal people.
bro weirdos everywhere. I'm worried if I ever meet someone so weird and dense.
Here we go again.
God, you are annoying. You aren't even THAT busy. I work two full time office jobs, while I prep the company I am leaving and transition into a Director of Operations position at another company. I work til 3 am, wake up at 6 am, and on top of ALL of that, I am planning a wedding. Yet, I have time to still check in with my son, my little brother, and best friends. I make the time to make sure they know I am still interested in their lives. If I can do all of this, and still call people the same day back, then there is NO excuse you can find that you can use to not do the same.
I will expect another update 2 weeks from now, with the same behaviors from you.
God, you are annoying. You aren't even THAT busy. I work two full time office jobs, while I prep the company I am leaving and transition into a Director of Operations position at another company. I work til 3 am, wake up at 6 am, and on top of ALL of that, I am planning a wedding. Yet, I have time to still check in with my son, my little brother, and best friends. I make the time to make sure they know I am still interested in their lives. If I can do all of this, and still call people the same day back, then there is NO excuse you can find that you can use to not do the same.
I will expect another update 2 weeks from now, with the same behaviors from you.
Posted by stillstillwater
bro weirdos everywhere. I'm worried if I ever meet someone so weird and dense.
Still not as weird as half the guys ive met. Just because you don't understand me doesn't make me weird π€.
Posted by nikkistar
Here we go again.
God, you are annoying. You aren't even THAT busy. I work two full time office jobs, while I prep the company I am leaving and transition into a Director of Operations position at another company. I work til 3 am, wake up at 6 am, and on top of ALL of that, I am planning a wedding. Yet, I have time to still check in with my son, my little brother, and best friends. I make the time to make sure they know I am still interested in their lives. If I can do all of this, and still call people the same day back, then there is NO excuse you can find that you can use to not do the same.
I will expect another update 2 weeks from now, with the same behaviors from you.
I have a social life too. I might be out sometimes all evenin with friends or whatever.
Anyway everyone is different.
Posted by stillstillwater
Can you give his number to us? We'll...um...just talk to him you know like normal people.
Lol Yeh. Go for it. He can fall in love with you instead
Posted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistar
Here we go again.
God, you are annoying. You aren't even THAT busy. I work two full time office jobs, while I prep the company I am leaving and transition into a Director of Operations position at another company. I work til 3 am, wake up at 6 am, and on top of ALL of that, I am planning a wedding. Yet, I have time to still check in with my son, my little brother, and best friends. I make the time to make sure they know I am still interested in their lives. If I can do all of this, and still call people the same day back, then there is NO excuse you can find that you can use to not do the same.
I will expect another update 2 weeks from now, with the same behaviors from you.
I have a social life too. I might be out sometimes all evenin with friends or whatever.
Anyway everyone is different.click to expand
Yea, or a tumbleweed passed across your foot, as you were grocery shopping. Sure. We can go with that.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistar
Here we go again.
God, you are annoying. You aren't even THAT busy. I work two full time office jobs, while I prep the company I am leaving and transition into a Director of Operations position at another company. I work til 3 am, wake up at 6 am, and on top of ALL of that, I am planning a wedding. Yet, I have time to still check in with my son, my little brother, and best friends. I make the time to make sure they know I am still interested in their lives. If I can do all of this, and still call people the same day back, then there is NO excuse you can find that you can use to not do the same.
I will expect another update 2 weeks from now, with the same behaviors from you.
I have a social life too. I might be out sometimes all evenin with friends or whatever.
Anyway everyone is different.
Yea, or a tumbleweed passed across your foot, as you were grocery shopping. Sure. We can go with that.click to expand
Lol. Calm down girl. He's also missed my calls too like hello it happens
Posted by nikkistarPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistar
Here we go again.
God, you are annoying. You aren't even THAT busy. I work two full time office jobs, while I prep the company I am leaving and transition into a Director of Operations position at another company. I work til 3 am, wake up at 6 am, and on top of ALL of that, I am planning a wedding. Yet, I have time to still check in with my son, my little brother, and best friends. I make the time to make sure they know I am still interested in their lives. If I can do all of this, and still call people the same day back, then there is NO excuse you can find that you can use to not do the same.
I will expect another update 2 weeks from now, with the same behaviors from you.
I have a social life too. I might be out sometimes all evenin with friends or whatever.
Anyway everyone is different.
Yea, or a tumbleweed passed across your foot, as you were grocery shopping. Sure. We can go with that.click to expand
if he wasnt always on the bloody phone all the time the couple times i rang him maybe we would have had a conversation the moment i called him π
just ghost
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPP
just ghost
Can you ghost a ghost tho? Cause he's long goneclick to expand
yep so she needs to go too
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPP
just ghost
Can you ghost a ghost tho? Cause he's long gone
yep so she needs to go tooclick to expand
me reading this thread
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistarPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistar
Here we go again.
God, you are annoying. You aren't even THAT busy. I work two full time office jobs, while I prep the company I am leaving and transition into a Director of Operations position at another company. I work til 3 am, wake up at 6 am, and on top of ALL of that, I am planning a wedding. Yet, I have time to still check in with my son, my little brother, and best friends. I make the time to make sure they know I am still interested in their lives. If I can do all of this, and still call people the same day back, then there is NO excuse you can find that you can use to not do the same.
I will expect another update 2 weeks from now, with the same behaviors from you.
I have a social life too. I might be out sometimes all evenin with friends or whatever.
Anyway everyone is different.
Yea, or a tumbleweed passed across your foot, as you were grocery shopping. Sure. We can go with that.
if he wasnt always on the bloody phone all the time the couple times i rang him maybe we would have had a conversation the moment i called him π
Did you punish him for not answering? Is that how you just happened to not be available when he called back at a time he told you he would, twice?click to expand
Ok one of the times I was pissed because I assumed it was a girl ( Yeh I know I have no right) the other time I was caught up in torrential rain lol.
Posted by virgoOPPP
just ghost
I probably will at this point. Well I'll see if he's bothered me ringing him again. I've ghosted many a guy before
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPP
just ghost
Can you ghost a ghost tho? Cause he's long gone
yep so she needs to go too
me reading this thread
https://media.giphy.com/media/l41YfykEffZ7QM55m/giphy.gif
LOOOL u was talking about our grandkids ππ.
It's allllll a just a dream now lol
Posted by Lacey90Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPP
just ghost
Can you ghost a ghost tho? Cause he's long gone
yep so she needs to go too
me reading this thread
LOOOL u was talking about our grandkids ππ.
It's allllll a just a dream now lolclick to expand
You need a dude who will be all up your butt with the communication. . A love bomber. Someone whose willing to overlook your iciness in order to lock you down fast before you find out their cray.
Posted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistarPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistar
Here we go again.
God, you are annoying. You aren't even THAT busy. I work two full time office jobs, while I prep the company I am leaving and transition into a Director of Operations position at another company. I work til 3 am, wake up at 6 am, and on top of ALL of that, I am planning a wedding. Yet, I have time to still check in with my son, my little brother, and best friends. I make the time to make sure they know I am still interested in their lives. If I can do all of this, and still call people the same day back, then there is NO excuse you can find that you can use to not do the same.
I will expect another update 2 weeks from now, with the same behaviors from you.
I have a social life too. I might be out sometimes all evenin with friends or whatever.
Anyway everyone is different.
Yea, or a tumbleweed passed across your foot, as you were grocery shopping. Sure. We can go with that.
if he wasnt always on the bloody phone all the time the couple times i rang him maybe we would have had a conversation the moment i called him πclick to expand
Correct me if I am wrong, but I believe somewhere in this thread, you said he had a job that meant he was on the phone quite a bit.
Half the time you don't pick up the phone when he calls, is probably because you think he is talking to another girl anyways. Not from being busy.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Lacey90Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPP
just ghost
Can you ghost a ghost tho? Cause he's long gone
yep so she needs to go too
me reading this thread
LOOOL u was talking about our grandkids ππ.
It's allllll a just a dream now lol
You need a dude who will be all up your butt with the communication. . A love bomber. Someone whose willing to overlook your iciness in order to lock you down fast before you find out their cray.click to expand
He was kind of up ma butt at the beginning for a fair couple of months id say.
Even after the time when I blocked.him and came back. He was really pissed at that. It was only a few weeks though in between
I guess somewhere along the way he just got fed up with me
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Lacey90Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistarPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistar
Here we go again.
God, you are annoying. You aren't even THAT busy. I work two full time office jobs, while I prep the company I am leaving and transition into a Director of Operations position at another company. I work til 3 am, wake up at 6 am, and on top of ALL of that, I am planning a wedding. Yet, I have time to still check in with my son, my little brother, and best friends. I make the time to make sure they know I am still interested in their lives. If I can do all of this, and still call people the same day back, then there is NO excuse you can find that you can use to not do the same.
I will expect another update 2 weeks from now, with the same behaviors from you.
I have a social life too. I might be out sometimes all evenin with friends or whatever.
Anyway everyone is different.
Yea, or a tumbleweed passed across your foot, as you were grocery shopping. Sure. We can go with that.
if he wasnt always on the bloody phone all the time the couple times i rang him maybe we would have had a conversation the moment i called him π
Did you punish him for not answering? Is that how you just happened to not be available when he called back at a time he told you he would, twice?
Ok one of the times I was pissed because I assumed it was a girl ( Yeh I know I have no right) the other time I was caught up in torrential rain lol.
Okay, so you have some jealousy and/or pride issues and you startle easily. Right? Maybe you should just chalk this one up to a learning experience and have that friend of yours help you with the next one.click to expand
She's still dying for me to try it with this guy. I dunno how she came to the conclusion but she seems to think hes a nice guy and he likes me (well liked now). So wanted it to work with us. Yeh u could say I have huge pride issues lol and may be get a bit jealous at times
Posted by nikkistarPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistarPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistar
Here we go again.
God, you are annoying. You aren't even THAT busy. I work two full time office jobs, while I prep the company I am leaving and transition into a Director of Operations position at another company. I work til 3 am, wake up at 6 am, and on top of ALL of that, I am planning a wedding. Yet, I have time to still check in with my son, my little brother, and best friends. I make the time to make sure they know I am still interested in their lives. If I can do all of this, and still call people the same day back, then there is NO excuse you can find that you can use to not do the same.
I will expect another update 2 weeks from now, with the same behaviors from you.
I have a social life too. I might be out sometimes all evenin with friends or whatever.
Anyway everyone is different.
Yea, or a tumbleweed passed across your foot, as you were grocery shopping. Sure. We can go with that.
if he wasnt always on the bloody phone all the time the couple times i rang him maybe we would have had a conversation the moment i called him π
Correct me if I am wrong, but I believe somewhere in this thread, you said he had a job that meant he was on the phone quite a bit.
Half the time you don't pick up the phone when he calls, is probably because you think he is talking to another girl anyways. Not from being busy.click to expand
He's a cop. But I do believe the times I called him he was off shift.
Without sounding like a stalker I did c him online for a couple of hours on WhatsApp in the middle of the night.
I was just like what on earth is he doing for that long.
But Yeh that was just after I said I would call him soon and he replied what time. A day or so after that.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Lacey90Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Lacey90Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistarPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistar
Here we go again.
God, you are annoying. You aren't even THAT busy. I work two full time office jobs, while I prep the company I am leaving and transition into a Director of Operations position at another company. I work til 3 am, wake up at 6 am, and on top of ALL of that, I am planning a wedding. Yet, I have time to still check in with my son, my little brother, and best friends. I make the time to make sure they know I am still interested in their lives. If I can do all of this, and still call people the same day back, then there is NO excuse you can find that you can use to not do the same.
I will expect another update 2 weeks from now, with the same behaviors from you.
I have a social life too. I might be out sometimes all evenin with friends or whatever.
Anyway everyone is different.
Yea, or a tumbleweed passed across your foot, as you were grocery shopping. Sure. We can go with that.
if he wasnt always on the bloody phone all the time the couple times i rang him maybe we would have had a conversation the moment i called him π
Did you punish him for not answering? Is that how you just happened to not be available when he called back at a time he told you he would, twice?
Ok one of the times I was pissed because I assumed it was a girl ( Yeh I know I have no right) the other time I was caught up in torrential rain lol.
Okay, so you have some jealousy and/or pride issues and you startle easily. Right? Maybe you should just chalk this one up to a learning experience and have that friend of yours help you with the next one.
She's still dying for me to try it with this guy. I dunno how she came to the conclusion but she seems to think hes a nice guy and he likes me (well liked now). So wanted it to work with us. Yeh u could say I have huge pride issues lol and may be get a bit jealous at times
I understand those issues. It's mostly pride in my case, I've found, even the jealousy part mostly is. So, the reason I said chalk it up to experience is because you're so far below the starting line now, you'd have to make yourself really uncomfortable and stick your neck out now. Do you think you can do that?click to expand
Oh so you get jealous too lol and have pride. So u know how i feel π.
It's funny u say that because I was thinking the exact same thing, I will have to suddenly become someone else and express myself to the max for him to consider it. He's going to be like who is this girl if I did that lol. What do u think I should say though
Posted by CaplovePosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistarPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistarPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistar
Here we go again.
God, you are annoying. You aren't even THAT busy. I work two full time office jobs, while I prep the company I am leaving and transition into a Director of Operations position at another company. I work til 3 am, wake up at 6 am, and on top of ALL of that, I am planning a wedding. Yet, I have time to still check in with my son, my little brother, and best friends. I make the time to make sure they know I am still interested in their lives. If I can do all of this, and still call people the same day back, then there is NO excuse you can find that you can use to not do the same.
I will expect another update 2 weeks from now, with the same behaviors from you.
I have a social life too. I might be out sometimes all evenin with friends or whatever.
Anyway everyone is different.
Yea, or a tumbleweed passed across your foot, as you were grocery shopping. Sure. We can go with that.
if he wasnt always on the bloody phone all the time the couple times i rang him maybe we would have had a conversation the moment i called him π
Correct me if I am wrong, but I believe somewhere in this thread, you said he had a job that meant he was on the phone quite a bit.
Half the time you don't pick up the phone when he calls, is probably because you think he is talking to another girl anyways. Not from being busy.
He's a cop. But I do believe the times I called him he was off shift.
Without sounding like a stalker I did c him online for a couple of hours on WhatsApp in the middle of the night.
I was just like what on earth is he doing for that long.
But Yeh that was just after I said I would call him soon and he replied what time. A day or so after that.
How about just give him a time you'll call him? It seems like he's trying to be accommodating but you keep blowing him off for some reason.click to expand
he actually asked the other day to give him a time lol. N i kinda didn't instead I was like seems like you're pretty preoccupied anyway. By that i meant his being on WhatsApp the whole time n always being on a call when I call him π. He ignored that of course
Posted by Lacey90Posted by pisceanloves
Any news? Either of you called yet?? tell me your name and I'll call him for you, tell me what you want me to deliver π
I'm dead serious ππ
Lol heyyyy I just saw this now π ππ.
As you guys can probably imagine nothing's progressed particularly since the last time lol.
So he completely stopped initiating no texts and no calls whatsoever now. Since the last time when He waited for me to call and the next day i messaged saying i fell asleep or whatever (see original post), now a month ago that was. And then I think we had the small text exchange a week after that where I initiated asking how he is etc etc. He responded all friendly and polite but didn't follow up anything.
Then I thought ok I'll call, so I did but he was already on another call. He straight away texted "I'll call you back", then called 20 minutes later, I missed the call (see original post)
I met my friend a week ago and she read all our text exchanges and was like omg what are you doing with your life π. He's a great catch, seems to like you (through the text exchanges) and here you are doing nothing lol.
She then tried to force me in to calling him then and there and me being me thought I'll wait a couple days lol.
I swear exactly the same thing happened as the last time when I called, I called he was already on the phone, messaged he would call me back, 20 minutes later he called back, by which time I think I was caught up in a heavy rain storm lol. In that time I messaged saying it seems he is already on a call and sorry to disturb him, he messaged me after trying to call me he said "u can call now". But I left it.
Next day I messaged saying I'm sorry and I'll call him soon, I think he thought I meant that day because he replied with "what time". I then messaged a few days later saying "i meant over the next couple days" also I said " you're quite preoccupied I think anyway ".
I know I'm terrible at this, but I was motivated after what my friend said to call him etc. But then I keep thinking negatively too at the same time, when I did take the initiative to call he was already on the phone (twice) and then hes always on WhatsApp at ungodly hours π, not that I stalk him or anything i just noticed recently π€. So I guess I'm just assuming maybe his focus is on another person now. Not to mention he hasn't initiated anything since nearly a month ago now.
I don't know what to do, I know he's put in tonnes of effort before this to call and try to get to know me but now I feel like maybe it's too late?click to expand
Do nothing. He's gone and quite honestly good for him
You'd look like a signed joker if you send another text or even call. There was no motivation in your actions whatsoever and I'm surprised he put up with you for that long. It's not your business what time he's online, he may be working night shifts and sometimes it gets lonely.
YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO MAKE A CALL when he said "YOU CAN CALL NOW"
You didn't ...
Next day you have nerves to send a message saying you'll be calling soon, at that point it's more than obvious you are playing some kind of sick game and really bs-ing around. He asks what time and you again don't respond for a few days, why?? just because that's you..
And guess what?? why would someone make you a priority when you act like that?? you don't strike as someone mature and logical, more like a spoiled child who's used to play people and always get whatever they want. The world doesn't revolve around you and you reap whatever you sow.
I don't know you but judging your story and what you have presented to us I came to conclusion that you shouldn't seek relationships, you need help. You are super manipulative and for whatever reason you expect everyone to put you first. Good luck to you in life, you are gonna need it
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Lacey90Posted by pisceanloves
Any news? Either of you called yet?? tell me your name and I'll call him for you, tell me what you want me to deliver π
I'm dead serious ππ
Lol heyyyy I just saw this now π ππ.
As you guys can probably imagine nothing's progressed particularly since the last time lol.
So he completely stopped initiating no texts and no calls whatsoever now. Since the last time when He waited for me to call and the next day i messaged saying i fell asleep or whatever (see original post), now a month ago that was. And then I think we had the small text exchange a week after that where I initiated asking how he is etc etc. He responded all friendly and polite but didn't follow up anything.
Then I thought ok I'll call, so I did but he was already on another call. He straight away texted "I'll call you back", then called 20 minutes later, I missed the call (see original post)
I met my friend a week ago and she read all our text exchanges and was like omg what are you doing with your life π. He's a great catch, seems to like you (through the text exchanges) and here you are doing nothing lol.
She then tried to force me in to calling him then and there and me being me thought I'll wait a couple days lol.
I swear exactly the same thing happened as the last time when I called, I called he was already on the phone, messaged he would call me back, 20 minutes later he called back, by which time I think I was caught up in a heavy rain storm lol. In that time I messaged saying it seems he is already on a call and sorry to disturb him, he messaged me after trying to call me he said "u can call now". But I left it.
Next day I messaged saying I'm sorry and I'll call him soon, I think he thought I meant that day because he replied with "what time". I then messaged a few days later saying "i meant over the next couple days" also I said " you're quite preoccupied I think anyway ".
I know I'm terrible at this, but I was motivated after what my friend said to call him etc. But then I keep thinking negatively too at the same time, when I did take the initiative to call he was already on the phone (twice) and then hes always on WhatsApp at ungodly hours π, not that I stalk him or anything i just noticed recently π€. So I guess I'm just assuming maybe his focus is on another person now. Not to mention he hasn't initiated anything since nearly a month ago now.
I don't know what to do, I know he's put in tonnes of effort before this to call and try to get to know me but now I feel like maybe it's too late?
Do nothing. He's gone and quite honestly good for him
You'd look like a signed joker if you send another text or even call. There was no motivation in your actions whatsoever and I'm surprised he put up with you for that long. It's not your business what time he's online, he may be working night shifts and sometimes it gets lonely.
YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO MAKE A CALL when he said "YOU CAN CALL NOW"
You didn't ...
Next day you have nerves to send a message saying you'll be calling soon, at that point it's more than obvious you are playing some kind of sick game and really bs-ing around. He asks what time and you again don't respond for a few days, why?? just because that's you..
And guess what?? why would someone make you a priority when you act like that?? you don't strike as someone mature and logical, more like a spoiled child who's used to play people and always get whatever they want. The world doesn't revolve around you and you reap whatever you sow.
I don't know you but judging your story and what you have presented to us I came to conclusion that you shouldn't seek relationships, you need help. You are super manipulative and for whatever reason you expect everyone to put you first. Good luck to you in life, you are gonna need itclick to expand
Well I'm sorry it looks that way but I'm not manipulative at all. My intention wasn't to hurt him or get his hopes up and let him down, although again from an outsiders perspective it looks likely.
I can see though how bad it looks now.
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Lacey90Posted by pisceanloves
Any news? Either of you called yet?? tell me your name and I'll call him for you, tell me what you want me to deliver π
I'm dead serious ππ
Lol heyyyy I just saw this now π ππ.
As you guys can probably imagine nothing's progressed particularly since the last time lol.
So he completely stopped initiating no texts and no calls whatsoever now. Since the last time when He waited for me to call and the next day i messaged saying i fell asleep or whatever (see original post), now a month ago that was. And then I think we had the small text exchange a week after that where I initiated asking how he is etc etc. He responded all friendly and polite but didn't follow up anything.
Then I thought ok I'll call, so I did but he was already on another call. He straight away texted "I'll call you back", then called 20 minutes later, I missed the call (see original post)
I met my friend a week ago and she read all our text exchanges and was like omg what are you doing with your life π. He's a great catch, seems to like you (through the text exchanges) and here you are doing nothing lol.
She then tried to force me in to calling him then and there and me being me thought I'll wait a couple days lol.
I swear exactly the same thing happened as the last time when I called, I called he was already on the phone, messaged he would call me back, 20 minutes later he called back, by which time I think I was caught up in a heavy rain storm lol. In that time I messaged saying it seems he is already on a call and sorry to disturb him, he messaged me after trying to call me he said "u can call now". But I left it.
Next day I messaged saying I'm sorry and I'll call him soon, I think he thought I meant that day because he replied with "what time". I then messaged a few days later saying "i meant over the next couple days" also I said " you're quite preoccupied I think anyway ".
I know I'm terrible at this, but I was motivated after what my friend said to call him etc. But then I keep thinking negatively too at the same time, when I did take the initiative to call he was already on the phone (twice) and then hes always on WhatsApp at ungodly hours π, not that I stalk him or anything i just noticed recently π€. So I guess I'm just assuming maybe his focus is on another person now. Not to mention he hasn't initiated anything since nearly a month ago now.
I don't know what to do, I know he's put in tonnes of effort before this to call and try to get to know me but now I feel like maybe it's too late?
Do nothing. He's gone and quite honestly good for him
You'd look like a signed joker if you send another text or even call. There was no motivation in your actions whatsoever and I'm surprised he put up with you for that long. It's not your business what time he's online, he may be working night shifts and sometimes it gets lonely.
YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO MAKE A CALL when he said "YOU CAN CALL NOW"
You didn't ...
Next day you have nerves to send a message saying you'll be calling soon, at that point it's more than obvious you are playing some kind of sick game and really bs-ing around. He asks what time and you again don't respond for a few days, why?? just because that's you..
And guess what?? why would someone make you a priority when you act like that?? you don't strike as someone mature and logical, more like a spoiled child who's used to play people and always get whatever they want. The world doesn't revolve around you and you reap whatever you sow.
I don't know you but judging your story and what you have presented to us I came to conclusion that you shouldn't seek relationships, you need help. You are super manipulative and for whatever reason you expect everyone to put you first. Good luck to you in life, you are gonna need itclick to expand
I mean I spent like a couple years in the company of an actual narcissist who was like this but intentionally, I only realised when it was too late. And now I look like that lol but I'm not that.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Lacey90Posted by pisceanloves
Any news? Either of you called yet?? tell me your name and I'll call him for you, tell me what you want me to deliver π
I'm dead serious ππ
Lol heyyyy I just saw this now π ππ.
As you guys can probably imagine nothing's progressed particularly since the last time lol.
So he completely stopped initiating no texts and no calls whatsoever now. Since the last time when He waited for me to call and the next day i messaged saying i fell asleep or whatever (see original post), now a month ago that was. And then I think we had the small text exchange a week after that where I initiated asking how he is etc etc. He responded all friendly and polite but didn't follow up anything.
Then I thought ok I'll call, so I did but he was already on another call. He straight away texted "I'll call you back", then called 20 minutes later, I missed the call (see original post)
I met my friend a week ago and she read all our text exchanges and was like omg what are you doing with your life π. He's a great catch, seems to like you (through the text exchanges) and here you are doing nothing lol.
She then tried to force me in to calling him then and there and me being me thought I'll wait a couple days lol.
I swear exactly the same thing happened as the last time when I called, I called he was already on the phone, messaged he would call me back, 20 minutes later he called back, by which time I think I was caught up in a heavy rain storm lol. In that time I messaged saying it seems he is already on a call and sorry to disturb him, he messaged me after trying to call me he said "u can call now". But I left it.
Next day I messaged saying I'm sorry and I'll call him soon, I think he thought I meant that day because he replied with "what time". I then messaged a few days later saying "i meant over the next couple days" also I said " you're quite preoccupied I think anyway ".
I know I'm terrible at this, but I was motivated after what my friend said to call him etc. But then I keep thinking negatively too at the same time, when I did take the initiative to call he was already on the phone (twice) and then hes always on WhatsApp at ungodly hours π, not that I stalk him or anything i just noticed recently π€. So I guess I'm just assuming maybe his focus is on another person now. Not to mention he hasn't initiated anything since nearly a month ago now.
I don't know what to do, I know he's put in tonnes of effort before this to call and try to get to know me but now I feel like maybe it's too late?
Do nothing. He's gone and quite honestly good for him
You'd look like a signed joker if you send another text or even call. There was no motivation in your actions whatsoever and I'm surprised he put up with you for that long. It's not your business what time he's online, he may be working night shifts and sometimes it gets lonely.
YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO MAKE A CALL when he said "YOU CAN CALL NOW"
You didn't ...
Next day you have nerves to send a message saying you'll be calling soon, at that point it's more than obvious you are playing some kind of sick game and really bs-ing around. He asks what time and you again don't respond for a few days, why?? just because that's you..
And guess what?? why would someone make you a priority when you act like that?? you don't strike as someone mature and logical, more like a spoiled child who's used to play people and always get whatever they want. The world doesn't revolve around you and you reap whatever you sow.
I don't know you but judging your story and what you have presented to us I came to conclusion that you shouldn't seek relationships, you need help. You are super manipulative and for whatever reason you expect everyone to put you first. Good luck to you in life, you are gonna need it
Hahahah you sound like meclick to expand
I shouldn't care but I was pissed off π
Posted by JammerwheelsPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by Lacey90Posted by pisceanloves
Any news? Either of you called yet?? tell me your name and I'll call him for you, tell me what you want me to deliver π
I'm dead serious ππ
Lol heyyyy I just saw this now π ππ.
As you guys can probably imagine nothing's progressed particularly since the last time lol.
So he completely stopped initiating no texts and no calls whatsoever now. Since the last time when He waited for me to call and the next day i messaged saying i fell asleep or whatever (see original post), now a month ago that was. And then I think we had the small text exchange a week after that where I initiated asking how he is etc etc. He responded all friendly and polite but didn't follow up anything.
Then I thought ok I'll call, so I did but he was already on another call. He straight away texted "I'll call you back", then called 20 minutes later, I missed the call (see original post)
I met my friend a week ago and she read all our text exchanges and was like omg what are you doing with your life π. He's a great catch, seems to like you (through the text exchanges) and here you are doing nothing lol.
She then tried to force me in to calling him then and there and me being me thought I'll wait a couple days lol.
I swear exactly the same thing happened as the last time when I called, I called he was already on the phone, messaged he would call me back, 20 minutes later he called back, by which time I think I was caught up in a heavy rain storm lol. In that time I messaged saying it seems he is already on a call and sorry to disturb him, he messaged me after trying to call me he said "u can call now". But I left it.
Next day I messaged saying I'm sorry and I'll call him soon, I think he thought I meant that day because he replied with "what time". I then messaged a few days later saying "i meant over the next couple days" also I said " you're quite preoccupied I think anyway ".
I know I'm terrible at this, but I was motivated after what my friend said to call him etc. But then I keep thinking negatively too at the same time, when I did take the initiative to call he was already on the phone (twice) and then hes always on WhatsApp at ungodly hours π, not that I stalk him or anything i just noticed recently π€. So I guess I'm just assuming maybe his focus is on another person now. Not to mention he hasn't initiated anything since nearly a month ago now.
I don't know what to do, I know he's put in tonnes of effort before this to call and try to get to know me but now I feel like maybe it's too late?
Do nothing. He's gone and quite honestly good for him
You'd look like a signed joker if you send another text or even call. There was no motivation in your actions whatsoever and I'm surprised he put up with you for that long. It's not your business what time he's online, he may be working night shifts and sometimes it gets lonely.
YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO MAKE A CALL when he said "YOU CAN CALL NOW"
You didn't ...
Next day you have nerves to send a message saying you'll be calling soon, at that point it's more than obvious you are playing some kind of sick game and really bs-ing around. He asks what time and you again don't respond for a few days, why?? just because that's you..
And guess what?? why would someone make you a priority when you act like that?? you don't strike as someone mature and logical, more like a spoiled child who's used to play people and always get whatever they want. The world doesn't revolve around you and you reap whatever you sow.
I don't know you but judging your story and what you have presented to us I came to conclusion that you shouldn't seek relationships, you need help. You are super manipulative and for whatever reason you expect everyone to put you first. Good luck to you in life, you are gonna need it
The truth is going to hurt ππclick to expand
That poor man went thru a lot while dealing with her π
Posted by Lacey90Posted by stillstillwater
bro weirdos everywhere. I'm worried if I ever meet someone so weird and dense.
Still not as weird as half the guys ive met. Just because you don't understand me doesn't make me weird π€.click to expand
It's hard to understand someone who 1)hardly knows what they want 2) doesn't know how to communicate what they want 3) doesn't have the skill to see from another point of view or outside their own experience.
Those are skills every high level functioning adult needs to have especially in romantic relationships (since those type of relationships naturally bring out insecurities which are communication barriers alone). Communication which leads to understanding takes two people: speaker and listener. I can be a great listener but if you're not a great speaker there won't be much understanding.
I'm not being snarky but if 99% of people in this thread do not understand you, could the communication issue be with you rather than others?
So rather than blaming ohters for not understanding you, it would be so much more beneficial to your own life to internalize some of the messages you get from external indicators aka how people respond to you.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPP
just ghost
Can you ghost a ghost tho? Cause he's long gone
yep so she needs to go too
me reading this thread
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legit dying...because so true lmao
Another update :
So I ended up finally calling him properly and having a decent conversation with him. So no one can say this time that i didnt make the effort. It was about a 45 minute conversation. So what happened was I was on my way home, once I got home I told him I had to go ( it was late had work next day). He seemed he didn't want to let me go as in he wanted to carry on speaking to me. He said it's fine I'll call u once you're home and settled not a big deal. Then he called but by that time I was already in bed ready to sleep and I messaged saying sorry I'm having an early night.
Then he continued messaging the next day saying "hope you have a good day at work" and "You have a really cute voice".. I replied with likewise and thanks. He was like "we will catch up soon". Then he said "miss me" a few hours later, I didn't know what to say to that so I replied with a bitmoji of myself saying "oh you" . He then said "lol goodnight"
Forward about 4/5 days following that, with no contact from him I initiated a messaging saying "hello ____ and then a little emoji with the stars in its eyes"..He responded pretty quick and said "hey u good and someone's in a good mood"...I then replied with "am i not always " and He then replied again pretty quick and goes "keep it up" And "how was work"..with a thumbs up. I said work was not bad.
I then proceeded to ask if he attended some event he was telling me about in our previous conversation. He had to attend due to his cop duties. I also said i was trying to look for you on tv οΏ½οΏ½. This was just a joke.
And about five minutes after that I sent a random song. I tend to always do this though with all my friends,songs I like etc. It was sigala "wish you well" οΏ½οΏ½. I told my friend And She was like that is a break up song lol οΏ½οΏ½. I just liked the song and thought I'd send it. There was no meaning behind it at all from my end. But for those who don't know the song the woman singing is saying she's sad they are not together but good things get lost along the way and she wishes him well.
Well since I sent those last messages i expected him to say something or anything at all. But I got nothing. Total silence now for ten days. Now I don't know if it's something I said in the last messages or if it's just him.
So I ended up finally calling him properly and having a decent conversation with him. So no one can say this time that i didnt make the effort. It was about a 45 minute conversation. So what happened was I was on my way home, once I got home I told him I had to go ( it was late had work next day). He seemed he didn't want to let me go as in he wanted to carry on speaking to me. He said it's fine I'll call u once you're home and settled not a big deal. Then he called but by that time I was already in bed ready to sleep and I messaged saying sorry I'm having an early night.
Then he continued messaging the next day saying "hope you have a good day at work" and "You have a really cute voice".. I replied with likewise and thanks. He was like "we will catch up soon". Then he said "miss me" a few hours later, I didn't know what to say to that so I replied with a bitmoji of myself saying "oh you" . He then said "lol goodnight"
Forward about 4/5 days following that, with no contact from him I initiated a messaging saying "hello ____ and then a little emoji with the stars in its eyes"..He responded pretty quick and said "hey u good and someone's in a good mood"...I then replied with "am i not always " and He then replied again pretty quick and goes "keep it up" And "how was work"..with a thumbs up. I said work was not bad.
I then proceeded to ask if he attended some event he was telling me about in our previous conversation. He had to attend due to his cop duties. I also said i was trying to look for you on tv οΏ½οΏ½. This was just a joke.
And about five minutes after that I sent a random song. I tend to always do this though with all my friends,songs I like etc. It was sigala "wish you well" οΏ½οΏ½. I told my friend And She was like that is a break up song lol οΏ½οΏ½. I just liked the song and thought I'd send it. There was no meaning behind it at all from my end. But for those who don't know the song the woman singing is saying she's sad they are not together but good things get lost along the way and she wishes him well.
Well since I sent those last messages i expected him to say something or anything at all. But I got nothing. Total silence now for ten days. Now I don't know if it's something I said in the last messages or if it's just him.
Posted by Lacey90
Another update :
So I ended up finally calling him properly and having a decent conversation with him. So no one can say this time that i didnt make the effort. It was about a 45 minute conversation. So what happened was I was on my way home, once I got home I told him I had to go ( it was late had work next day). He seemed he didn't want to let me go as in he wanted to carry on speaking to me. He said it's fine I'll call u once you're home and settled not a big deal. Then he called but by that time I was already in bed ready to sleep and I messaged saying sorry I'm having an early night.
Then he continued messaging the next day saying "hope you have a good day at work" and "You have a really cute voice".. I replied with likewise and thanks. He was like "we will catch up soon". Then he said "miss me" a few hours later, I didn't know what to say to that so I replied with a bitmoji of myself saying "oh you" . He then said "lol goodnight"
Forward about 4/5 days following that, with no contact from him I initiated a messaging saying "hello ____ and then a little emoji with the stars in its eyes"..He responded pretty quick and said "hey u good and someone's in a good mood"...I then replied with "am i not always " and He then replied again pretty quick and goes "keep it up" And "how was work"..with a thumbs up. I said work was not bad.
I then proceeded to ask if he attended some event he was telling me about in our previous conversation. He had to attend due to his cop duties. I also said i was trying to look for you on tv οΏ½οΏ½. This was just a joke.
And about five minutes after that I sent a random song. I tend to always do this though with all my friends,songs I like etc. It was sigala "wish you well" οΏ½οΏ½. I told my friend And She was like that is a break up song lol οΏ½οΏ½. I just liked the song and thought I'd send it. There was no meaning behind it at all from my end. But for those who don't know the song the woman singing is saying she's sad they are not together but good things get lost along the way and she wishes him well.
Well since I sent those last messages i expected him to say something or anything at all. But I got nothing. Total silence now for ten days. Now I don't know if it's something I said in the last messages or if it's just him.
Wouldnβt that be easier to find someone else to torture? He seems no fun by example of your conversations...no fun at all.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lacey90
Another update :
So I ended up finally calling him properly and having a decent conversation with him. So no one can say this time that i didnt make the effort. It was about a 45 minute conversation. So what happened was I was on my way home, once I got home I told him I had to go ( it was late had work next day). He seemed he didn't want to let me go as in he wanted to carry on speaking to me. He said it's fine I'll call u once you're home and settled not a big deal. Then he called but by that time I was already in bed ready to sleep and I messaged saying sorry I'm having an early night.
Then he continued messaging the next day saying "hope you have a good day at work" and "You have a really cute voice".. I replied with likewise and thanks. He was like "we will catch up soon". Then he said "miss me" a few hours later, I didn't know what to say to that so I replied with a bitmoji of myself saying "oh you" . He then said "lol goodnight"
Forward about 4/5 days following that, with no contact from him I initiated a messaging saying "hello ____ and then a little emoji with the stars in its eyes"..He responded pretty quick and said "hey u good and someone's in a good mood"...I then replied with "am i not always " and He then replied again pretty quick and goes "keep it up" And "how was work"..with a thumbs up. I said work was not bad.
I then proceeded to ask if he attended some event he was telling me about in our previous conversation. He had to attend due to his cop duties. I also said i was trying to look for you on tv οΏ½οΏ½. This was just a joke.
And about five minutes after that I sent a random song. I tend to always do this though with all my friends,songs I like etc. It was sigala "wish you well" οΏ½οΏ½. I told my friend And She was like that is a break up song lol οΏ½οΏ½. I just liked the song and thought I'd send it. There was no meaning behind it at all from my end. But for those who don't know the song the woman singing is saying she's sad they are not together but good things get lost along the way and she wishes him well.
Well since I sent those last messages i expected him to say something or anything at all. But I got nothing. Total silence now for ten days. Now I don't know if it's something I said in the last messages or if it's just him.
Wouldnβt that be easier to find someone else to torture? He seems no fun by example of your conversations...no fun at all.click to expand
Lol. Yeh I feel like I'm bubbly and fun but I don't get the same banter back from him perhaps it's because of his cop job lol I dunno really.
I think once or twice I did actually but most of the time he's quite formal and boring.
Posted by thatlibralife
It seems things got better when talking on phone. Why not keep that up?. Just texting seems too impersonal...and call HIM to see what's up. Why WAIT on him? Is this the new way nowadays?
Yeh he seemed more enthusiastic after the phone call like it came across like he really enjoyed it. By the fact tht he wanted to carry on speaking to me even after nearly an hour when I said I had to cut it short. And then all the follow up messages etc I.e "you got a cute voice" "miss me" etc etc.
I think I waited on him since I was the last one who sent the texts so I was waiting on him to at least reply or follow it up. When he didn't and it got to ten days I was wondering what happened.
And then I started thinking is it what I said about me trying to look for him on tv lol or was it the break up song I sent π and all these random thoughts or has he just lost interest
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Lacey90Posted by thatlibralife
It seems things got better when talking on phone. Why not keep that up?. Just texting seems too impersonal...and call HIM to see what's up. Why WAIT on him? Is this the new way nowadays?
Yeh he seemed more enthusiastic after the phone call like it came across like he really enjoyed it. By the fact tht he wanted to carry on speaking to me even after nearly an hour when I said I had to cut it short. And then all the follow up messages etc I.e "you got a cute voice" "miss me" etc etc.
I think I waited on him since I was the last one who sent the texts so I was waiting on him to at least reply or follow it up. When he didn't and it got to ten days I was wondering what happened.
And then I started thinking is it what I said about me trying to look for him on tv lol or was it the break up song I sent π and all these random thoughts or has he just lost interest
I dunno. I guess I'm a more forward type. I told my boyfriend in the beginning that talking every couple days wasn't gonna cut it and he agreed and suggested we talk everyday lol. Texts are ok but I like to hear a person's voice. It's more intimate and builds a rapport. I come from a time with no cell phones and all conversations were through landline phones. I prefer that...click to expand
I get what you're saying. But I guess it's different when you're officially boyfriend and girlfriend. Me and him are still at the getting to know each other stage so it's still all up in the air. And u know this generation of guys, one second they're into you and the next second they're off with.someone else. So any slight pull back I take note of and i think well i was the last one to initiate shouldn't it be his turn now
Hence why I didn't call him or message after I was the last to message. It's just harder these days
What do you want out of a potential relationship with someone? Do you even know? If you don't, you really need some time off to yourself to be introspective. Or are you just using this guy to kill some of your time on? Because right now whatever this little thing is is going nowhere.
Congrats, you picked up the phone and called him.
It went well. He saw an increase in your 1% effort, to 2% . Then the proceeding days after, the average slipped back to 1% .
It went well. He saw an increase in your 1% effort, to 2% . Then the proceeding days after, the average slipped back to 1% .
He does seem boring though *yawn*
Posted by nikkistar
Congrats, you picked up the phone and called him.
It went well. He saw an increase in your 1% effort, to 2% . Then the proceeding days after, the average slipped back to 1% .
Lol alright miss know it all.
π.
After the phone call he said we would speak soon. What was I meant to do in that time beg him to call me. At least i texted to find out how he was he didn't even do that.
Either way I called him about an hour and a half ago, he picked up and said " just a quick phonecall" then I realised that wasn't to me it was to his work colleague or boss. He then said he was at work and he would give me a.call back later
Posted by SassyKiwi
What do you want out of a potential relationship with someone? Do you even know? If you don't, you really need some time off to yourself to be introspective. Or are you just using this guy to kill some of your time on? Because right now whatever this little thing is is going nowhere.
Well ideally I would want the end goal to be marriage with whoever it is. As shocking as that may sound.
But at the minute I would have to see how suited we are and in person aswell. I mean he did say previously we should meet but never got round to setting a proper date and then when I was being flaky with him I think he got suspicious maybe and then was like I'm open to meeting But I would need to speak to you properly on the phone first....and here we are
Posted by Arielle83
Cheesy ass song and your hot and cold bs did this.
You seem high maintenance
Im really not high maintenance. I'm actually pretty chill. Even if it doesn't come.across
Which is maybe why I am hot n cold maybe since a lot of the time I'm busy doing my own thing aswell. Instead of focusing on potential relationships. From my point of view it can be frustrating maintaining a connection with some one.
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Lacey90Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Lacey90Posted by thatlibralife
It seems things got better when talking on phone. Why not keep that up?. Just texting seems too impersonal...and call HIM to see what's up. Why WAIT on him? Is this the new way nowadays?
Yeh he seemed more enthusiastic after the phone call like it came across like he really enjoyed it. By the fact tht he wanted to carry on speaking to me even after nearly an hour when I said I had to cut it short. And then all the follow up messages etc I.e "you got a cute voice" "miss me" etc etc.
I think I waited on him since I was the last one who sent the texts so I was waiting on him to at least reply or follow it up. When he didn't and it got to ten days I was wondering what happened.
And then I started thinking is it what I said about me trying to look for him on tv lol or was it the break up song I sent π and all these random thoughts or has he just lost interest
I dunno. I guess I'm a more forward type. I told my boyfriend in the beginning that talking every couple days wasn't gonna cut it and he agreed and suggested we talk everyday lol. Texts are ok but I like to hear a person's voice. It's more intimate and builds a rapport. I come from a time with no cell phones and all conversations were through landline phones. I prefer that...
I get what you're saying. But I guess it's different when you're officially boyfriend and girlfriend. Me and him are still at the getting to know each other stage so it's still all up in the air. And u know this generation of guys, one second they're into you and the next second they're off with.someone else. So any slight pull back I take note of and i think well i was the last one to initiate shouldn't it be his turn now
Hence why I didn't call him or message after I was the last to message. It's just harder these days
I hear ya. I just think maybe he's thinking the same way you're thinking and you two are at a standoff waiting to see what the other is gonna do. In the meantime some other more aggressive girl may come in for a sneak attack. If he seems a good catch I would override my usual tactic and contact him more by phone not text to keep you on his mind...just my thoughts...click to expand
I will try to call him more and show interest. But apparently there is such a thing as showing too much interest before it gets to the relationship stage.
Btw it's funny u say that because the aggressive girl scenario has happened to me more than once. Where the guy likes me shows interest and I try to play it cool but Then in the meantime some skanky girl comes along and the rest is history lol. Happened to me a few years ago and guess what him and the girl got married and have kids now. I do think about that sometimes
Posted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistar
Congrats, you picked up the phone and called him.
It went well. He saw an increase in your 1% effort, to 2% . Then the proceeding days after, the average slipped back to 1% .
Lol alright miss know it all.
π.
After the phone call he said we would speak soon. What was I meant to do in that time beg him to call me. At least i texted to find out how he was he didn't even do that.
Either way I called him about an hour and a half ago, he picked up and said " just a quick phonecall" then I realised that wasn't to me it was to his work colleague or boss. He then said he was at work and he would give me a.call back laterclick to expand
Congrats, you are acting like a normal communicating adult, that isn't looking at the paint on the wall drying.
Keep it up, and you may actually get an in person date.
Posted by Lacey90Posted by stillstillwater
He does seem boring though *yawn*
Lol does he?click to expand
well there's no banter BUT don't know what he was like on the phone with you. Some people are just not that into texting...
Posted by nikkistarPosted by Lacey90Posted by nikkistar
Congrats, you picked up the phone and called him.
It went well. He saw an increase in your 1% effort, to 2% . Then the proceeding days after, the average slipped back to 1% .
Lol alright miss know it all.
π.
After the phone call he said we would speak soon. What was I meant to do in that time beg him to call me. At least i texted to find out how he was he didn't even do that.
Either way I called him about an hour and a half ago, he picked up and said " just a quick phonecall" then I realised that wasn't to me it was to his work colleague or boss. He then said he was at work and he would give me a.call back later
Congrats, you are acting like a normal communicating adult, that isn't looking at the paint on the wall drying.
Keep it up, and you may actually get an in person date.click to expand
Don't kill me but he also messaged after we spoke (when he said hd call me back) ..And he just asked what time I'll be sleeping tonight. (I think so he can call me at a suitable time) I replied with "do u mind if I ring u tomorrow ". But honestly at the time i was dead tired. Lie actually falling asleep.
he didnt say anything I'm pretty sure he hates me lol or has gone back go hating me
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Lacey90Posted by stillstillwater
He does seem boring though *yawn*
Lol does he?
well there's no banter BUT don't know what he was like on the phone with you. Some people are just not that into texting...click to expand
He's really formal and serious by text lol. Legit there's no banter. I think there was a tiny amount in the past but negligible really.
He was so talkative on the phone and lively and talked really really fast lol. When i told my friend he said he's probably nervous or something. I got the feeling he was trying to impress me the whole time by having this whole I'm a cop attitude and everyone respects me lol. Either that or was just being arrogant lol i dunno. And then the rest of the time he was talking about boring subjects like starting up card and changing light bulbs. But I guess that's his forte because even in the past he would mention all tht lol. Its quite different to the convos I have had with other guys where it was a laugh a minute and talking about random subjects lol. I feel like I can't do tht with him but he's got his own unique charm I suppose
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Yesterday, I experienced several orgasms while kissing my love. It was such a beautiful experience. (First time through kisses) I read about this happening as one of the dozen ways a woman can orgasm.
Who else has had orgasms from Kissing?
do you think it is normal to have a hard trusting people in general as an adult?
Iβve been training for a few weeks at a new job. My trainer has been passive aggressive/ lazy bish that literally doesnβt want to teach me anything. Culturally Iβm taught that I should give a gift at the end of a teacher/student relationship. But my ego o
Can it be messed up because one feels so insecure? Is it often blown out of proportion? Has it ever been wrong?
I read some where that your gut feeling is because of passed experiences and when these experiences come around again your gut just channels t
So i was messaging someone for my boyfriend and landed on his Google and i didn't touch anything but a list of his history came up and it was all about abortion, 11 weeks pregnant rh positive (which is a pregnancy issue) ect... so i was like ummm.... he w
Cam someone PLEASEππ»explain to my old ass WTF dies this mean:
I liked him a lot...but I told him we should just be friends and distanced myself because I started to catch feelings for him and I donβt think either of us were ready for that.
Is this new
I am inspired by @nanoboat post in another thread and it made me think...(with whatever is that I have left to think with)...
Me and Aries are in LDR witch is only an hour drive. Nano said she is as well...and itβs food.
Me and Aries were just talking a
If your ex texted you: I love you and want you back
would you reply and if yes, what would be your answer? honestly
(try to word it, to the first ex you think of when reading this, no backstory needed)
Please help, Lol. Tips and tricks for more pleasure AND comfort. ποΈπποΈ
When we start to have problems in a relationship? is it merely the illusion starting to fade?
when we break up and when we mourn the relationship are we really sad that the relationship is over or are we merely sad that the fantasy finally died?
Lol heyyyy I just saw this now π ππ.
As you guys can probably imagine nothing's progressed particularly since the last time lol.
So he completely stopped initiating no texts and no calls whatsoever now. Since the last time when He waited for me to call and the next day i messaged saying i fell asleep or whatever (see original post), now a month ago that was. And then I think we had the small text exchange a week after that where I initiated asking how he is etc etc. He responded all friendly and polite but didn't follow up anything.
Then I thought ok I'll call, so I did but he was already on another call. He straight away texted "I'll call you back", then called 20 minutes later, I missed the call (see original post)
I met my friend a week ago and she read all our text exchanges and was like omg what are you doing with your life π. He's a great catch, seems to like you (through the text exchanges) and here you are doing nothing lol.
She then tried to force me in to calling him then and there and me being me thought I'll wait a couple days lol.
I swear exactly the same thing happened as the last time when I called, I called he was already on the phone, messaged he would call me back, 20 minutes later he called back, by which time I think I was caught up in a heavy rain storm lol. In that time I messaged saying it seems he is already on a call and sorry to disturb him, he messaged me after trying to call me he said "u can call now". But I left it.
Next day I messaged saying I'm sorry and I'll call him soon, I think he thought I meant that day because he replied with "what time". I then messaged a few days later saying "i meant over the next couple days" also I said " you're quite preoccupied I think anyway ".
I know I'm terrible at this, but I was motivated after what my friend said to call him etc. But then I keep thinking negatively too at the same time, when I did take the initiative to call he was already on the phone (twice) and then hes always on WhatsApp at ungodly hours π, not that I stalk him or anything i just noticed recently π€. So I guess I'm just assuming maybe his focus is on another person now. Not to mention he hasn't initiated anything since nearly a month ago now.
I don't know what to do, I know he's put in tonnes of effort before this to call and try to get to know me but now I feel like maybe it's too late?