PayMeek_NoMind
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So when does the "other women" hold responsibilty
I hold no fault with the woman who unknowingly engages with a man/woman that is in a relationship.
However, there are those women that do know, and annoy me with statements like "I'm not responsible for their relationship" and excuse themselves that drive me up the wall. They literally have no remorse, and talk themselves into corners justifying how they aren't responsible, even though they knew. Bitches like those, need to jump off a bridge.
However, there are those women that do know, and annoy me with statements like "I'm not responsible for their relationship" and excuse themselves that drive me up the wall. They literally have no remorse, and talk themselves into corners justifying how they aren't responsible, even though they knew. Bitches like those, need to jump off a bridge.
Posted by PayMeek_NoMindIf the other woman is your mother, sister, cousin, or friend then they owe their loyalty to you. By fucking with your man they have betrayed you.
When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...
At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
Otherwise you can't blame the other chick. After all they didn't agree to terms of a relationship with you...your man did. Yes their behavior is thot worthy and morally lacking. But they don't owe you anything, your man does.
However I will say if you suspect something and reach out to her to ask about the nature of the relationship between her and your man and if they don't come clean...then they take on responsibility for the lies and deception.
Posted by DeleterNerdFirst, this thread is directed at women, not men. I hate men that do this as well. But given the direction of this thread, I answered it in that fashion.Posted by nikkistar
I hold no fault with the woman who unknowingly engages with a man/woman that is in a relationship.
However, there are those women that do know, and annoy me with statements like "I'm not responsible for their relationship" and excuse themselves that drive me up the wall. They literally have no remorse, and talk themselves into corners justifying how they aren't responsible, even though they knew. Bitches like those, need to jump off a bridge.
That other woman owes you nothing. Stop knocking women who are players while single if youre not even going to knock men who are players while in a relationship.
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I feel the exact same way as I would regardless of them having a penis or a vagina.
And "That other woman owes you nothing" is rhetoric that absolves both men and women unaccountable, and speaks more about what you condone, than what I would.
Posted by DeleterNerdIf Dazed knowingly slept with someone in a relationship, where the significant other was unaware that cheating was occurring, yup, he should.Posted by nikkistarSo out of curiosity, do you think Dazed should jump off a bridge or are you a female misogynist?
I hold no fault with the woman who unknowingly engages with a man/woman that is in a relationship.
However, there are those women that do know, and annoy me with statements like "I'm not responsible for their relationship" and excuse themselves that drive me up the wall. They literally have no remorse, and talk themselves into corners justifying how they aren't responsible, even though they knew. Bitches like those, need to jump off a bridge.click to expand
Swingers and couples that are in agreement to open relationships, are not part of this discussion. I am talking about any relationship where monogamy is expected.
Look she's not responsible at all, she never made a promise or commitment that was broken, that's all his bad.
So not at all her responsibility, but its still extremely risky life style , when I go and stab that bitch in the fucking throat.
So not at all her responsibility, but its still extremely risky life style , when I go and stab that bitch in the fucking throat.
For the record, I don't absolve the dude or girl in the relationship cheating. Let me clarify that. I would Lorena Bobbit him, because he should keep his dick in his pants, if he made the monogamy deal with me.
Posted by DeleterNerdYea... I have my Scorpio moments.
@nikkistar so you arent a libra then! Leeb doms would just shake the other womans hand and say thank you for removing this person who turned out to be shady from my life 😂 and then passive agressively kill them both in a freak accident a few years down the line.
This topic actually hits close to home for me. I've told the story a time or two, but my ex husband cheated with a married co-worker that knew all about me. She was perfectly aware that he was married with a child, just as she was aware she was married with several children and called herself a "Christian".
So I am fully aware of how biased I am in regards to women who sleep with men that they know are in committed relationships. If I could find her at that point in my life, I would have fucked her up, as much as I fucked up my ex's shit. lol
Posted by CvurkooPosted by AstrobynOne could easily argue that we are all morally binded not to participate in such a degrading situation that is deemed amoral by society and therefore goes against the values of the group.
Look she's not responsible at all, she never made a promise or commitment that was broken, that's all his bad.
So not at all her responsibility, but its still extremely risky life style , when I go and stab that bitch in the fucking throat.
This syllogism leads me to conclude that the general principle should be that a certain responsibility is held by the one being cheated with. As every general rule, there are exceptions that relieve the subject from responsibility, such as the fact that the subject acted unknowingly.
I'd include a supplemental obligation that rests with the third party to make a reasonable effort to know the situation of the eventual intercourse partner.
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The general rule of how humanity works is you do whats in your own best interest. If not getting stabbed in the neck is the best option for you, then you don't fuck my man. If fucking my man serves your interest and you think you can take me, then you do you.
I always felt like a ho and a player is not the same, players are single mingle and aren't worried about a commitment or even trying to be up in nobodies bed that is committed. It's called play for a reason you don't want drama you just want to play.
Ho's like drama, so you have to be mad at the man for dealing with a ho that goes without saying. But she gets a turn too! I just don't agree that a ho should get a pass it's part of a ho life style to catch hands from ppl. I am a women before anything so I could never do to another women what I don't want done to me.
You have some women that know they are dealing with a man in a relationship. They'll troll the mans life, finding out who his girl is then start doing the most for her attention.
Ho's like drama, so you have to be mad at the man for dealing with a ho that goes without saying. But she gets a turn too! I just don't agree that a ho should get a pass it's part of a ho life style to catch hands from ppl. I am a women before anything so I could never do to another women what I don't want done to me.
You have some women that know they are dealing with a man in a relationship. They'll troll the mans life, finding out who his girl is then start doing the most for her attention.
Posted by Caramel_PrincessThese ho's don't be happy they be in competition with women who don't even know they exist. I've seen ho's do the most when their agreement it to stfu and stay on the side. They will go out there way to troll the girlfriend get close with any mutual and try to place themselves in the girlfriends atmosphere to slowly expose the thing they agreed to keep on the low. Again a ho don't owe anyone anything it doesn't mean the disrespect has to be tolerated from some ho bit who's idea of happiness is creeping with men in relationships and exposing like that's going to make him be with her by default, that's not a happy life it's a deadly one IMO
If I’m going to be critical and self righteous trying to live rightly and selfishlessly I’d say she’s to blame, but to get down to the real world and technicalities?
She’s not responsible for someone else’s happiness but her own, and that’s how MOST people live... their own desires and happiness first. Just look at how people act in parking lots! They won’t give someone else a parking lot space, but they’ll give someone else their happiness? Put their desires before theirs?
I’ve never been involved with a man who is taken and I never will, but it drives me mad when others expect that the other woman must be this innocent righteous person who needs to sacrifice her own happiness for someone she doesn’t even know. It’s not realistic. She’s not the one cheating, she’s not breaking vows, and she’s not the one throwing her partners happiness away, the guy she’s with is the one doing all of that.
I already established in the original post that I wasn't talking about an unknowing normal women I am referring to the women that knows and in my opinion that is a ho and ho's come in all classes not just in a, "trailer style relationship," whatever that means.
Now we're giving ho's a class and pass lol
Posted by PayMeek_NoMindThe thing is, even if they know, doesn't always mean they are being malicious thots.
Now we're giving ho's a class and pass lol
After all how many times do we have threads here where she is talking about...
"He's still married but is separated from his wife even though they still live together for the sake of the kids..."
"He is on a break from his gf..."
"He is separated but can't get a divorce because the financial fall-out would be too great"
In these cases the side ho knows about the gf/wife but has been led to believe that their relationship with him has ended. By the time they find out the truth they are emotionally involved and delude themselves into believing his empty promises and stick it out cause 'one day' they will be together...
Posted by LadyNeptuneNope. The interloper is still an asshole, and even more so in my opinion if this is the scenario. Not only are they willingly getting involved with someone that is married, there are kids involved, and they still live together. You can't even justify this in anyway, shape, or form. Anyone willingly doing this, is purposely being obtuse, and can't think past themselves. Those kids shouldn't be punished for the cheater, or the interloper's actions.
"He's still married but is separated from his wife even though they still live together for the sake of the kids..."
Posted by LadyNeptune
"He is on a break from his gf..."
I feel more lax in this regard, because a marriage is not involved (if kids are involved, it's a little messier). There is not a marriage contract, but a relationship one. And technically speaking if the cheater is saying they aren't together with the gf/bf, the interloper wouldn't be the side piece as they are being led to believe the person is no longer with the other.
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"He is separated but can't get a divorce because the financial fall-out would be too great"
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If they are living apart, in separate households, I don't see a problem with this scenario. There are many states that can take 6+ months to get divorced, as well at a few grand. If their lives are separate completely, I don't have issue with this as much. The relationship has officially ended, and I am more logically inclined to not judge this.
Posted by nikkistarOh yeah...none of this fuckery would fly with me. Js that for a naive person they might buy this bs.Posted by LadyNeptuneNope. The interloper is still an asshole, and even more so in my opinion if this is the scenario. Not only are they willingly getting involved with someone that is married, there are kids involved, and they still live together. You can't even justify this in anyway, shape, or form. Anyone willingly doing this, is purposely being obtuse, and can't think past themselves. Those kids shouldn't be punished for the cheater, or the interloper's actions.
"He's still married but is separated from his wife even though they still live together for the sake of the kids..."
Posted by LadyNeptune
"He is on a break from his gf..."
I feel more lax in this regard, because a marriage is not involved (if kids are involved, it's a little messier). There is not a marriage contract, but a relationship one. And technically speaking if the cheater is saying they aren't together with the gf/bf, the interloper wouldn't be the side piece as they are being led to believe the person is no longer with the other.Posted by LadyNeptune
"He is separated but can't get a divorce because the financial fall-out would be too great"
If they are living apart, in separate households, I don't see a problem with this scenario. There are many states that can take 6+ months to get divorced, as well at a few grand. If their lives are separate completely, I don't have issue with this as much. The relationship has officially ended, and I am more logically inclined to not judge this.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneYea, I get what you are saying. I just cant logically process how someone is THAT dumb to believe it, or not look deeper into it.Posted by nikkistarOh yeah...none of this fuckery would fly with me. Js that for a naive person they might buy this bs.Posted by LadyNeptuneNope. The interloper is still an asshole, and even more so in my opinion if this is the scenario. Not only are they willingly getting involved with someone that is married, there are kids involved, and they still live together. You can't even justify this in anyway, shape, or form. Anyone willingly doing this, is purposely being obtuse, and can't think past themselves. Those kids shouldn't be punished for the cheater, or the interloper's actions.
"He's still married but is separated from his wife even though they still live together for the sake of the kids..."
Posted by LadyNeptune
"He is on a break from his gf..."
I feel more lax in this regard, because a marriage is not involved (if kids are involved, it's a little messier). There is not a marriage contract, but a relationship one. And technically speaking if the cheater is saying they aren't together with the gf/bf, the interloper wouldn't be the side piece as they are being led to believe the person is no longer with the other.Posted by LadyNeptune
"He is separated but can't get a divorce because the financial fall-out would be too great"
If they are living apart, in separate households, I don't see a problem with this scenario. There are many states that can take 6+ months to get divorced, as well at a few grand. If their lives are separate completely, I don't have issue with this as much. The relationship has officially ended, and I am more logically inclined to not judge this.click to expand
Posted by JadeAlexanderSoooo...he also knows he is in committed relashionships doesn’t he?
If you know he’s in a committed relationship and you allow contact then it’s your responsibility.
Posted by LadyNeptuneAnd if she admits? She is not guilty, dumbbell?Posted by PayMeek_NoMindIf the other woman is your mother, sister, cousin, or friend then they owe their loyalty to you. By fucking with your man they have betrayed you.
When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...
At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
Otherwise you can't blame the other chick. After all they didn't agree to terms of a relationship with you...your man did. Yes their behavior is thot worthy and morally lacking. But they don't owe you anything, your man does.
However I will say if you suspect something and reach out to her to ask about the nature of the relationship between her and your man and if they don't come clean...then they take on responsibility for the cheating and lies and deception.
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Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by PayMeek_NoMindThe thing is, even if they know, doesn't always mean they are being malicious thots.
Now we're giving ho's a class and pass lol
After all how many times do we have threads here where she is talking about...
"He's still married but is separated from his wife even though they still live together for the sake of the kids..."
"He is on a break from his gf..."
"He is separated but can't get a divorce because the financial fall-out would be too great"
In these cases the side ho knows about the gf/wife but has been led to believe that their relationship with him has ended. By the time they find out the truth they are emotionally involved and delude themselves into believing his empty promises and stick it out cause 'one day' they will be together...click to expand
To feel like you have to dive into a situation with anyone that has any of those circumstances going on is desperate. Makes them look worst if you ask me like what, they think pretending they don't know the obvious would solidify a relationship with someone that's already in one? Maybe she'll never find out and one day he will lose interest in his relationship and rebound with them sounds to me like a homewrecker but that's just my opinion it's really hard for me to be convince there is some type of excuse when knowing.
Posted by AstrobynAnd being that stupid will do the time for your cheating man? What are you going to achieve thug face?
Look she's not responsible at all, she never made a promise or commitment that was broken, that's all his bad.
So not at all her responsibility, but its still extremely risky life style , when I go and stab that bitch in the fucking throat.
Posted by UnicornSagHave you ever seen a man about passed out from desire? No! He has no brain and no control! And his thinking is turned off at the moment...lmao
Unless she put gun into his head and said "do me", I see no responsibility on her side. He's a human being with brain used for thinking, if he can't control himself in ANY situation then it's all his problem, not anyone's else.
Posted by AstrobynHow about fuck uournman so he doesn’t have to look elsewhere...frigit!!!Posted by CvurkooPosted by AstrobynOne could easily argue that we are all morally binded not to participate in such a degrading situation that is deemed amoral by society and therefore goes against the values of the group.
Look she's not responsible at all, she never made a promise or commitment that was broken, that's all his bad.
So not at all her responsibility, but its still extremely risky life style , when I go and stab that bitch in the fucking throat.
This syllogism leads me to conclude that the general principle should be that a certain responsibility is held by the one being cheated with. As every general rule, there are exceptions that relieve the subject from responsibility, such as the fact that the subject acted unknowingly.
I'd include a supplemental obligation that rests with the third party to make a reasonable effort to know the situation of the eventual intercourse partner.
😄 i guess its good im not a legislator 😄
The general rule of how humanity works is you do whats in your own best interest. If not getting stabbed in the neck is the best option for you, then you don't fuck my man. If fucking my man serves your interest and you think you can take me, then you do you.
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Posted by GemitatiGuilty of what, cheating? Of course not. She’s the side ho, not the cheating bf.Posted by LadyNeptuneAnd if she admits? She is not guilty, dumbbell?Posted by PayMeek_NoMindIf the other woman is your mother, sister, cousin, or friend then they owe their loyalty to you. By fucking with your man they have betrayed you.
When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...
At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
Otherwise you can't blame the other chick. After all they didn't agree to terms of a relationship with you...your man did. Yes their behavior is thot worthy and morally lacking. But they don't owe you anything, your man does.
However I will say if you suspect something and reach out to her to ask about the nature of the relationship between her and your man and if they don't come clean...then they take on responsibility for the cheating and lies and deception.
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If she hides the truth and lies when asked outright she is guilty of being knowingly deceptive...that’s all.
Posted by Ravishingthe "other woman" is not a decent human being, if she willingly maintains a contact with a taken man. Thats why she feels connection to a cheater, who is not a decent human being as well. So these two low-lifes are a perfect match
Well of course they should take responsibility if they know the dude is in a relationship.
However, most of the blame from the girlfriend needs to fall on the man... They're the ones that know you, are supposedly "committed" to you, "love you" and they still cheat? The "other woman" is a stranger who has no loyalty to you whatsoever. The ultimate backstabber is the boyfriend.
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some people have just straw in their heads and fire in their loans, and straw and fire... 🙂
how cheap is that
Posted by GemitatiLol that’s what these dudes tell you so they can fuck the pussy raw. And your naive ass believes them and let’s em nut inside.Posted by UnicornSagHave you ever seen a man about passed out from desire? No! He has no brain and no control! And his thinking is turned off at the moment...lmao
Unless she put gun into his head and said "do me", I see no responsibility on her side. He's a human being with brain used for thinking, if he can't control himself in ANY situation then it's all his problem, not anyone's else.click to expand
#talesofathot
Posted by igotthatfireThat’s a nice thought but...Karma for one life doesn’t hit you until your next reincarnation.
It’s called karma and it’s not your job to serve. Tables will always turn in one way or another.
Posted by Caramel_PrincessWomen are responsible for all of men’s sins within our society. Just look at rape culture/blame the victim.
I feel like this is another thing that we put on the woman, not the man. He’s the issue here... the side chick is weak, but he is much weaker.
Posted by UnicornSagI can only talk about it outside of here.Posted by GemitatiWell I haven't been socializing with men in jail so I guess no lolPosted by UnicornSagHave you ever seen a man about passed out from desire? No! He has no brain and no control! And his thinking is turned off at the moment...lmao
Unless she put gun into his head and said "do me", I see no responsibility on her side. He's a human being with brain used for thinking, if he can't control himself in ANY situation then it's all his problem, not anyone's else.
If women got him that desperate for sex that he literally can't resist another women then it's all her fault anyway. Again not the other women's fault lol
So to resume it would be either way the couple's fault one way or another lolclick to expand
No jail. At all...
Posted by Ravishingon the other side... we dont know, if the girlfriend is a decent human being....maybe she is a lying cheating abusive user.... so maybe its case from case, but in that case, the "other woman" loves a doormat.... which is very oftenPosted by Pandora101Posted by Ravishingthe "other woman" is not a decent human being, if she willingly maintains a contact with a taken man. Thats why she feels connection to a cheater, who is not a decent human being as well. So these two low-lifes are a perfect match
Well of course they should take responsibility if they know the dude is in a relationship.
However, most of the blame from the girlfriend needs to fall on the man... They're the ones that know you, are supposedly "committed" to you, "love you" and they still cheat? The "other woman" is a stranger who has no loyalty to you whatsoever. The ultimate backstabber is the boyfriend.
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some people have just straw in their heads and fire in their loans, and straw and fire... 🙂
how cheap is that
Yes, she's disgusting too... But you can't expect basic human decency from people these days...
But you should be able to expect that from your boyfriend.
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so, I would say 50 % - the cheating man is a player ass
50 % - doormat
and 1 % on either side of it is just true love
PS. very hard topic, I am glad to not be involved in a taken man any time, its always cheap and its always common, frequent thing
Posted by nikkistar
For the record, I don't absolve the dude or girl in the relationship cheating. Let me clarify that. I would Lorena Bobbit him, because he should keep his dick in his pants, if he made the monogamy deal with me.
i dont want to go there....either. lol i have murderous thoughts and i really dont want any problems in life...
so i agree with you too, that if we made the promise... please keep that promise, to keep dick inside locked down and i'll wear a chastity belt. ALthough eyeing other men/women as long as it's a "safe" distance, like 'oh she's pretty' ..'Oh he is not bad looker blabh blah" is ok too. i mean we're human for god's sakes.
Posted by Arkansassyexactly.
I take no responsibility in her cheating..
She gonna do what she wants to do.click to expand
i told my husband, you do what you gotta do.
if that's how it is...pfffftt.
if love can't hold you i can't control you .. control is for the weak. lol
Posted by PayMeek_NoMindanyway i've never been with guys who were taken. i just dont find them attractive.
When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...
At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
there's a feeling about them...you just kind of know if they are taken.
although, the ones who are separated, like getting a divorce, living apart or still married but separate...on the process of divorce.....
i've been with a guy who broke up with his ex but the ex won't let go....
that's as far as it goes.
taken men are kind of gross.
Yep blame it all on him.
Never blame the hoes.
Never blame the hoes.
Posted by lisabethur8What does it mean she won’t let go?Posted by PayMeek_NoMindanyway i've never been with guys who were taken. i just dont find them attractive.
When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...
At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
there's a feeling about them...you just kind of know if they are taken.
although, the ones who are separated, like getting a divorce, living apart or still married but separate...on the process of divorce.....
i've been with a guy who broke up with his ex but the ex won't let go....
that's as far as it goes.
taken men are kind of gross.click to expand
He was still unavailable? Though you’ve been with him!!where is the ‘gross’ part starts and ends? It’s what you said you would never but you did! Right?
Posted by AerialViewBlame on ho! Only if she is much bigger and he is scared shitless because she treat to sit on him!
Yep blame it all on him.
Never blame the hoes.
Otherwise - blame on whomever - see if anyone cares!
Posted by Gemitatimeans she stalks him and asks for favours and he felt sorry for her. so i told him i wasn't gonna get into a relationshp with him until he ends up ...i mean END it.. meaning no friendship either.Posted by lisabethur8What does it mean she won’t let go?Posted by PayMeek_NoMindanyway i've never been with guys who were taken. i just dont find them attractive.
When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...
At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
there's a feeling about them...you just kind of know if they are taken.
although, the ones who are separated, like getting a divorce, living apart or still married but separate...on the process of divorce.....
i've been with a guy who broke up with his ex but the ex won't let go....
that's as far as it goes.
taken men are kind of gross.
He was still unavailable? Though you’ve been with him!!where is the ‘gross’ part starts and ends? It’s what you said you would never but you did! Right?click to expand
i dont like that.
edit -- and he did it. he had NO contact.
Posted by lisabethur8You said ‘I’ve been with a guy’... so follow your story. You’ve been or you haven’t been?Posted by Gemitatimeans she stalks him and asks for favours and he felt sorry for her. so i told him i wasn't gonna get into a relationshp with him until he ends up ...i mean END it.. meaning no friendship either.Posted by lisabethur8What does it mean she won’t let go?Posted by PayMeek_NoMindanyway i've never been with guys who were taken. i just dont find them attractive.
When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...
At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
there's a feeling about them...you just kind of know if they are taken.
although, the ones who are separated, like getting a divorce, living apart or still married but separate...on the process of divorce.....
i've been with a guy who broke up with his ex but the ex won't let go....
that's as far as it goes.
taken men are kind of gross.
He was still unavailable? Though you’ve been with him!!where is the ‘gross’ part starts and ends? It’s what you said you would never but you did! Right?
i dont like that.click to expand
Posted by Gemitatilol he's the last ex.Posted by lisabethur8You said ‘I’ve been with a guy’... so follow your story. You’ve been or you haven’t been?Posted by Gemitatimeans she stalks him and asks for favours and he felt sorry for her. so i told him i wasn't gonna get into a relationshp with him until he ends up ...i mean END it.. meaning no friendship either.Posted by lisabethur8What does it mean she won’t let go?Posted by PayMeek_NoMindanyway i've never been with guys who were taken. i just dont find them attractive.
When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...
At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
there's a feeling about them...you just kind of know if they are taken.
although, the ones who are separated, like getting a divorce, living apart or still married but separate...on the process of divorce.....
i've been with a guy who broke up with his ex but the ex won't let go....
that's as far as it goes.
taken men are kind of gross.
He was still unavailable? Though you’ve been with him!!where is the ‘gross’ part starts and ends? It’s what you said you would never but you did! Right?
i dont like that.click to expand
my man....i never had to do that. he just had NO contact with ex's... it was simple.
Posted by lisabethur8Something in this story seems messed up.Posted by Gemitatilol he's the last ex.Posted by lisabethur8You said ‘I’ve been with a guy’... so follow your story. You’ve been or you haven’t been?Posted by Gemitatimeans she stalks him and asks for favours and he felt sorry for her. so i told him i wasn't gonna get into a relationshp with him until he ends up ...i mean END it.. meaning no friendship either.Posted by lisabethur8What does it mean she won’t let go?Posted by PayMeek_NoMindanyway i've never been with guys who were taken. i just dont find them attractive.
When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...
At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
there's a feeling about them...you just kind of know if they are taken.
although, the ones who are separated, like getting a divorce, living apart or still married but separate...on the process of divorce.....
i've been with a guy who broke up with his ex but the ex won't let go....
that's as far as it goes.
taken men are kind of gross.
He was still unavailable? Though you’ve been with him!!where is the ‘gross’ part starts and ends? It’s what you said you would never but you did! Right?
i dont like that.
my man....i never had to do that. he just had NO contact with ex's... it was simple.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8Something in this story seems messed up.Posted by Gemitatilol he's the last ex.Posted by lisabethur8You said ‘I’ve been with a guy’... so follow your story. You’ve been or you haven’t been?Posted by Gemitatimeans she stalks him and asks for favours and he felt sorry for her. so i told him i wasn't gonna get into a relationshp with him until he ends up ...i mean END it.. meaning no friendship either.Posted by lisabethur8What does it mean she won’t let go?Posted by PayMeek_NoMindanyway i've never been with guys who were taken. i just dont find them attractive.
When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...
At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
there's a feeling about them...you just kind of know if they are taken.
although, the ones who are separated, like getting a divorce, living apart or still married but separate...on the process of divorce.....
i've been with a guy who broke up with his ex but the ex won't let go....
that's as far as it goes.
taken men are kind of gross.
He was still unavailable? Though you’ve been with him!!where is the ‘gross’ part starts and ends? It’s what you said you would never but you did! Right?
i dont like that.
my man....i never had to do that. he just had NO contact with ex's... it was simple.
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some guys leave someone, and are happier when they left, but they seem "obligated" because they feel bad they left. i know...it's messed up.
at least they felt bad but still, be strong!!! if you left her, packed up and gone... ...leave and dont keep giving her "hopes" you're gonna return. by being obligated to do things for her if she calls for favours.
like a "friendship" thing.
if he had gone with a woman who doesn't mind having an ex around, that's fine.
but i'm a weird one...i dont like it. i'm one of those that cant hack that....so i'm happy i have a man who didnt give me any drama of that and his rules/ were the same as mine without me saying anything.
Posted by UnicornSagIt’s my turn to raise a brow...Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8What does it mean she won’t let go?Posted by PayMeek_NoMindanyway i've never been with guys who were taken. i just dont find them attractive.
When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...
At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
there's a feeling about them...you just kind of know if they are taken.
although, the ones who are separated, like getting a divorce, living apart or still married but separate...on the process of divorce.....
i've been with a guy who broke up with his ex but the ex won't let go....
that's as far as it goes.
taken men are kind of gross.
He was still unavailable? Though you’ve been with him!!where is the ‘gross’ part starts and ends? It’s what you said you would never but you did! Right?
Some women are just like that, they just keep begging a guy to be with them. Literally. I had such situation with my ex Taurus, he dated some 2 dumb ones at the same time...he left them both to date me...one was threatening she will kill herself lol he just said "then do it, I don't care, why are you calling me for that" lol
The other one kept showering him with calls and texts, actually somehow got my number too and started threatening lol she claimed I "stole" him, like he was someone's property lolclick to expand
He was dating 2 women and dumped them to date you? Are you still together?
Posted by UnicornSaglol well jeez..that was extreme of him. smhPosted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8What does it mean she won’t let go?Posted by PayMeek_NoMindanyway i've never been with guys who were taken. i just dont find them attractive.
When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...
At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
there's a feeling about them...you just kind of know if they are taken.
although, the ones who are separated, like getting a divorce, living apart or still married but separate...on the process of divorce.....
i've been with a guy who broke up with his ex but the ex won't let go....
that's as far as it goes.
taken men are kind of gross.
He was still unavailable? Though you’ve been with him!!where is the ‘gross’ part starts and ends? It’s what you said you would never but you did! Right?
Some women are just like that, they just keep begging a guy to be with them. Literally. I had such situation with my ex Taurus, he dated some 2 dumb ones at the same time...he left them both to date me...one was threatening she will kill herself lol he just said "then do it, I don't care, why are you calling me for that"
The other one kept showering him with calls and texts, actually somehow got my number too and started threatening lol she claimed I "stole" him, like he was someone's property lolclick to expand
Posted by Gemitatiyou know my aspirations are to get three men, like you, geminitati....Posted by UnicornSagIt’s my turn to raise a brow...Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8What does it mean she won’t let go?Posted by PayMeek_NoMindanyway i've never been with guys who were taken. i just dont find them attractive.
When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...
At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
there's a feeling about them...you just kind of know if they are taken.
although, the ones who are separated, like getting a divorce, living apart or still married but separate...on the process of divorce.....
i've been with a guy who broke up with his ex but the ex won't let go....
that's as far as it goes.
taken men are kind of gross.
He was still unavailable? Though you’ve been with him!!where is the ‘gross’ part starts and ends? It’s what you said you would never but you did! Right?
Some women are just like that, they just keep begging a guy to be with them. Literally. I had such situation with my ex Taurus, he dated some 2 dumb ones at the same time...he left them both to date me...one was threatening she will kill herself lol he just said "then do it, I don't care, why are you calling me for that" lol
The other one kept showering him with calls and texts, actually somehow got my number too and started threatening lol she claimed I "stole" him, like he was someone's property lol
He was dating 2 women and dumped them to date you? Are you still together?
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a capricorn, scorpio and a cancer in a pear tree. lol
just kidding.
but meh..no thanks...
one man...sil vous plait.
Posted by lisabethur8You forgot Taurus...oh! Pardon me. I haven’t made an announcement yet...lmaoPosted by Gemitatiyou know my aspirations are to get three men, like you, geminitati....Posted by UnicornSagIt’s my turn to raise a brow...Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8What does it mean she won’t let go?Posted by PayMeek_NoMindanyway i've never been with guys who were taken. i just dont find them attractive.
When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...
At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
there's a feeling about them...you just kind of know if they are taken.
although, the ones who are separated, like getting a divorce, living apart or still married but separate...on the process of divorce.....
i've been with a guy who broke up with his ex but the ex won't let go....
that's as far as it goes.
taken men are kind of gross.
He was still unavailable? Though you’ve been with him!!where is the ‘gross’ part starts and ends? It’s what you said you would never but you did! Right?
Some women are just like that, they just keep begging a guy to be with them. Literally. I had such situation with my ex Taurus, he dated some 2 dumb ones at the same time...he left them both to date me...one was threatening she will kill herself lol he just said "then do it, I don't care, why are you calling me for that" lol
The other one kept showering him with calls and texts, actually somehow got my number too and started threatening lol she claimed I "stole" him, like he was someone's property lol
He was dating 2 women and dumped them to date you? Are you still together?
a capricorn, scorpio and a cancer in a pear tree. lol
just kidding.
but meh..no thanks...
one man...sil vous plait.
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I don’t ever hold a women responsible unless she forced him to do what he did
I would however find women who knows a man is in a relationship and not interested in them, yet find that man enticing to be the lowest female
But I still wouldn’t deem her responsible.
Now the man is always responsible if he choose to play with her too but then by that point he’d be out of my life
I would however find women who knows a man is in a relationship and not interested in them, yet find that man enticing to be the lowest female
But I still wouldn’t deem her responsible.
Now the man is always responsible if he choose to play with her too but then by that point he’d be out of my life
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