Centaur12
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The Gem Reached out
Posted by Stony
That good job was sarcastic in case you need that info.
Lol yeah I got that.
Probably bored but why reach out to me she never wished me a Happy Birthday or Merry Christmas so why a Happy New Years also, it would of been 2 years New Years eve that we got together.
Posted by halalbae
She didnt try to make you jealous or play mind games. Youre very paranoid, are you a sidereal Scorpio?
I wasn't paranoid just wondered why that was all tried to make sense I duno.
Posted by Wizardz_
because she'd been drinking and was feeling nostalgic
Geminis do random stuff impulsively. Shell prob try to get you back on the hook until she gets bored
Well unfortunately I am seeing the Aries now and there's too much bullshit
There's no sense in overthinking this honestly. If you wanna move on you never should've responded to her.
I don't care if you guys were in a relationship for a long ass time or dated for a few months, if you're trying to get over someone you need to close that window of communication until you're able to speak to them without giving meaning to every single thing they say.
I don't care if you guys were in a relationship for a long ass time or dated for a few months, if you're trying to get over someone you need to close that window of communication until you're able to speak to them without giving meaning to every single thing they say.
Posted by GammaArietis
You should have never responded. She just wants to know if she can still get your attention. And she did.
He’s to stupid and whipped to understand this. He’ll make 100 more threads about her before the end of the wk. Cuck of all cucks
Posted by nanobotz
I saw straight through the last thread where you were “finally moving on”
😂😂😂
He’s been “moving on” for 99 threads now, yet still hasn’t moved on smh 🤦🏽♀️
I feel bad for the Aries bc I’m sure she has no idea this guy isn’t capable of investing in/growing their relationship bc he’s stuck on stupid
He’s wasting her time!
Hey Centaur, Long ago I used to be a member of this forum and a lot of people back then gave me sound advice. Thankfully, I listened which is what saved me from a lot of heartache down the road
After reading about your saga with the Gem lady, I can only hope that you go NC and block her. If you keep trying to unearth hidden meanings on why she is reaching out you will jeopardize your future and every relationship you will have
Who cares why she is trying to contact you? Most likely, because she knows you loved her and she can manipulate your emotions to suit her needs. You could be anything from an ego boost to someone she can keep around when she needs attention
I was involved with someone like that a long time ago and kept making excuses and imagining stupid s*** when all alongthe guy was with someone else . He only used me to make himself feel better and good about himself. Looking back I must have seemed an easy target
When I went NC he tried a lot of tactics and false promises to pull me in and when I responded after a few days it was the same old story. I listened to people
on here and finallh blocked him and moved on. Best advice I ever took. Hope you do the same and stop analyzing everything
I'm surprised that you weren't with the Aries on NYE and not available to take the Gem's phone call or at least not answer.
This is why you block instead of delete 🤪 she will continue to reach out when she feels like it, has nothing to do with how you feel.
Posted by halalbae
She didnt try to make you jealous or play mind games. Youre very paranoid, are you a sidereal Scorpio?
Lol.
Posted by Mutya
There's no sense in overthinking this honestly. If you wanna move on you never should've responded to her.
I don't care if you guys were in a relationship for a long ass time or dated for a few months, if you're trying to get over someone you need to close that window of communication until you're able to speak to them without giving meaning to every single thing they say.
This.
geminis are such professionals
i hope more caps meet them
i hope more caps meet them
Posted by IxiPosted by Centaur12
So I had a message on new years eve from the Gem two text messages and 1 message on WhatsApp obviously hoping I got the message.
She text me saying Happy New year, 😊 I wish you the best year for 2022.
So I replied saying thank you same to ypu but my phone made me spell you wrong so I put * to you back to correct my spelling and she then replied To me. I then said what do you mean and she said the chuckle brothers then I said yeah I thought that's what you meant lol to me, to you, for anyone that knows who I'm talking about will get the joke.
Anyway I left it at that then an hour later I had another message asking how my night was going?
So I replied yeah good thank you how's yours ?
She said its okay however she had covid and has to stay at home and she's kid free first ever new-years but cannot go out.
She said her Gin that she's drinking is going down very well and that she has first dibs on the music tonight but she said her entertainment can't sing very well and they can't hold a conversation.
In other words sounded like she was trying to make me jealous and rebellious or something who knows but I replied good for you 😊. Anyway it came to midnight and then she text me saying Happy New Years Sam the man and I replied Happy New years I thought I was always a boy in your eyes because she's said in past arguments that I'm a boy lol and then she replied I will give you that one 😅.
Why did she bother to reach out was it out of kindness or to see what I was doing I do not understand what the whole point in it was as I haven't heard anything from her since and I deleted her number when I told you guys I did weeks ago obviously she hasnt deleted mine.
It's called Hoovering.click to expand
So many names for the behaviors of narcissistic people. Crazy!
Posted by IxiPosted by saggurl88Posted by IxiPosted by Centaur12
So I had a message on new years eve from the Gem two text messages and 1 message on WhatsApp obviously hoping I got the message.
She text me saying Happy New year, 😊 I wish you the best year for 2022.
So I replied saying thank you same to ypu but my phone made me spell you wrong so I put * to you back to correct my spelling and she then replied To me. I then said what do you mean and she said the chuckle brothers then I said yeah I thought that's what you meant lol to me, to you, for anyone that knows who I'm talking about will get the joke.
Anyway I left it at that then an hour later I had another message asking how my night was going?
So I replied yeah good thank you how's yours ?
She said its okay however she had covid and has to stay at home and she's kid free first ever new-years but cannot go out.
She said her Gin that she's drinking is going down very well and that she has first dibs on the music tonight but she said her entertainment can't sing very well and they can't hold a conversation.
In other words sounded like she was trying to make me jealous and rebellious or something who knows but I replied good for you 😊. Anyway it came to midnight and then she text me saying Happy New Years Sam the man and I replied Happy New years I thought I was always a boy in your eyes because she's said in past arguments that I'm a boy lol and then she replied I will give you that one 😅.
Why did she bother to reach out was it out of kindness or to see what I was doing I do not understand what the whole point in it was as I haven't heard anything from her since and I deleted her number when I told you guys I did weeks ago obviously she hasnt deleted mine.
It's called Hoovering.
So many names for the behaviors of narcissistic people. Crazy!
I mean it's attributed to "narcissists" but really this behavior can come from anyone since these behaviors are typically practiced by someone who has unchecked narcissistic traits...and the vast majority of us (re: likely all) Have at least one narcissistic trait.click to expand
I've been looking a lot into narcissistic people attracting empaths and vice verse. So do you think empaths are still capable of the "at least one" narcissistic trait? And I am asking for your specific thoughts on the matter and not just a text book generalization 🙂
There are so many labels for behaviors, it can make a persons head spin.
Posted by shrek11
Hey Centaur, Long ago I used to be a member of this forum and a lot of people back then gave me sound advice. Thankfully, I listened which is what saved me from a lot of heartache down the road
After reading about your saga with the Gem lady, I can only hope that you go NC and block her. If you keep trying to unearth hidden meanings on why she is reaching out you will jeopardize your future and every relationship you will have
Who cares why she is trying to contact you? Most likely, because she knows you loved her and she can manipulate your emotions to suit her needs. You could be anything from an ego boost to someone she can keep around when she needs attention
I was involved with someone like that a long time ago and kept making excuses and imagining stupid s*** when all alongthe guy was with someone else . He only used me to make himself feel better and good about himself. Looking back I must have seemed an easy target
When I went NC he tried a lot of tactics and false promises to pull me in and when I responded after a few days it was the same old story. I listened to people
on here and finallh blocked him and moved on. Best advice I ever took. Hope you do the same and stop analyzing everything
Thank you.
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by shrek11
Hey Centaur, Long ago I used to be a member of this forum and a lot of people back then gave me sound advice. Thankfully, I listened which is what saved me from a lot of heartache down the road
After reading about your saga with the Gem lady, I can only hope that you go NC and block her. If you keep trying to unearth hidden meanings on why she is reaching out you will jeopardize your future and every relationship you will have
Who cares why she is trying to contact you? Most likely, because she knows you loved her and she can manipulate your emotions to suit her needs. You could be anything from an ego boost to someone she can keep around when she needs attention
I was involved with someone like that a long time ago and kept making excuses and imagining stupid s*** when all alongthe guy was with someone else . He only used me to make himself feel better and good about himself. Looking back I must have seemed an easy target
When I went NC he tried a lot of tactics and false promises to pull me in and when I responded after a few days it was the same old story. I listened to people
on here and finallh blocked him and moved on. Best advice I ever took. Hope you do the same and stop analyzing everything
Listen to this! Otherwise you won't have self-respectclick to expand
I have listened to it I have stayed away and spent time with the Aries and will continue to do so as I am valued by her.
I haven't reached out at all like I said I wouldn't she come to me.
The one thing I struggle with was the connection we shared you could really tell there wasn't anything superficial about it, it was like we were looking into eachothers souls I can't really explain it.
I don't have expectations of why this and why that anymore what I was trying to say was I must of been on her mind for her to reach out on New Years 🤷♂️ anyhow I'm not going to loose sleep over it.
If she wanted to talk properly to me she would of done so she's too stubborn and stuck in her ways of thinking she's right and her way or no way it's all a front anyways she's opened up to me a few times saying I act like I'm all strong etc but I don't really have anyone and then called me her guardian angle etc lol even that proved to be bullshit if she really felt that way she wouldn't be silent now I walked away out of respect for myself as I didn't want FWB or to be messed around with she knew I wanted a stable relationship and after all the past relationships she's told me about what she's been through I gave her stability and loved her kids yet its still not enough lol I don't think she will ever find what she's looking for however it's not my concern anymore .
Good luck 👍
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by virgoOPPP
geminis are such professionals
i hope more caps meet them
What does that mean? 😣 Why are you wishing bad things on Geminis?click to expand
She mean as professional as we already are capricorns would make us geniuses.
Hahahaha hey I'm only kidding. I don't know what that mean either. I'm more confused by that as much as you are.
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by Wizardz_Posted by virgoOPPP
geminis are such professionals
i hope more caps meet them
What does that mean? 😣 Why are you wishing bad things on Geminis?
She mean as professional as we already are capricorns would make us geniuses.
Hahahaha hey I'm only kidding. I don't know what that mean either. I'm more confused by that as much as you are.click to expand
Professional tricksters?
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by virgoOPPP
geminis are such professionals
i hope more caps meet them
What does that mean? 😣 Why are you wishing bad things on Geminis?click to expand
more like capricorn
gems are never at a disadvantage except maybe with taurus
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by Wizardz_Posted by virgoOPPP
geminis are such professionals
i hope more caps meet them
What does that mean? 😣 Why are you wishing bad things on Geminis?
She mean as professional as we already are capricorns would make us geniuses.
Hahahaha hey I'm only kidding. I don't know what that mean either. I'm more confused by that as much as you are.
Professional tricksters?click to expand
Lol I was thinking the likes of professional at sports, music, communicating, looking beautiful and lovely without trying to be and in this thread's case...love and romance. But good one.
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She text me saying Happy New year, 😊 I wish you the best year for 2022.
So I replied saying thank you same to ypu but my phone made me spell you wrong so I put * to you back to correct my spelling and she then replied To me. I then said what do you mean and she said the chuckle brothers then I said yeah I thought that's what you meant lol to me, to you, for anyone that knows who I'm talking about will get the joke.
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In other words sounded like she was trying to make me jealous and rebellious or something who knows but I replied good for you 😊. Anyway it came to midnight and then she text me saying Happy New Years Sam the man and I replied Happy New years I thought I was always a boy in your eyes because she's said in past arguments that I'm a boy lol and then she replied I will give you that one 😅.
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