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I was talking to the pisces earlier and this time she was letting me touch her and she was opening up to me about herself. so towards the end of the evening i held her wrist and i said "i wanted this" while she was holding something in her hand. she holds the object and she was like "you mean this?" I said "no this". "You mean my hand?" she takes her hand away and says "well i do have nice skin." then she became closed off then she tried hiding towards the end.

I don't get it

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Posted by LadyNeptune
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srly. that wrist holding was a bit of an aggressive move. when you're trying to lure a kitten with a piece of ham, you don't grab it by the neck once it's close enough to touch
actually i was gentle like a kitten and she didn't object until until i spoke


its the words you used.
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damn misunderstandings
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Posted by Scrumptious
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srly. that wrist holding was a bit of an aggressive move. when you're trying to lure a kitten with a piece of ham, you don't grab it by the neck once it's close enough to touch
actually i was gentle like a kitten and she didn't object until until i spoke

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I agree. If a guy held my wrist like that, I would feel very closed off. I would feel the need to distance myself and restablish boundaries. *shudders* I think it would have been better to speak with eye contact rather than touch her like that. But what do I know? I'm only a Pisces moon not sun.
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Posted by LillyPetal
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srly. that wrist holding was a bit of an aggressive move. when you're trying to lure a kitten with a piece of ham, you don't grab it by the neck once it's close enough to touch
actually i was gentle like a kitten and she didn't object until until i spoke


I agree. If a guy held my wrist like that, I would feel very closed off. I would feel the need to distance myself and restablish boundaries. *shudders* I think it would have been better to speak with eye contact rather than touch her like that. But what do I know? I'm only a Pisces moon not sun.

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no i agree with ladyneptune because in terms of touching, i was holding her wrist before
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On the surface, this handhold might come off as a little more aggressive, needy, or overly assertive.

None of that is true โ€” on the contrary, you are not only intertwining your hands, you are also interlocking the bottom half of your arms.

This only makes the handhold even more intimate and passionate, and the โ€œneedโ€ to be around each other more urgent.



http://www.littlethings.com/different-ways-to-hold-hands/

:-) Hugs.
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Posted by pathfinder
Are you saying that you held her wrist and said you wanted her wrist literally and that scared her?

Lost in translation.


damn play by play

I reached out and held her wrist gently. she didn't pull away immediately. as i held her wrist she playfully asked if i wanted the object in her hand or "this" as in her hand. i said "no "this" and thats when she pulled away.
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dammit i wanted to sweep her off her feet


But you didn't. That's why she went all weird. She wanted you to sweep her off her feet and kiss her and you wanted to sweep her off her feet and kiss her. All you had the balls to do was grab her hand and mumble some cutesy wutsey shit. Go all out for her dude, Pisces girls love that shit. Don't think she doesn't know it either, shes more intuitive and sensitive to your emotions than you could imagine. They practically know what your thinking and feeling, which is scary as fuck but its so attractive. When your actions don't line up with what she feels coming from inside you, she gets uncomfortable with that.

You haven't blown it. As long as you start acting how you feel then your gonna be good as gold.
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yea its weird. earlier she was fiddling with this little device trying to put it together. it wasn't that difficult to do. i noticed and i came up standing behind her putting my left hand on the device while touching her hand and i was bringing my right hand around her to the device. then she managed to put it together before i could fully encompass her in my arms. then i backed off. shes like "oh its all set now"

fuck
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Posted by TaurusinTexas
Maybe she's just not ready for all the touching. I know you are but maybe she's slower. She didn't recoil in horror, right?
earlier in the evening i reached out wanting to hold her wrist because she look like she hurt it. so she gave me her wrist and i said something like is it ok? she like oh i'm just twirling my wrist just to pop the joint in it.

fucking romance

she probably wanted me to say something like, it doesn't look ok because my hand isn't holding your hand.
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Maybe she's just not ready for all the touching. I know you are but maybe she's slower. She didn't recoil in horror, right?
earlier in the evening i reached out wanting to hold her wrist because she look like she hurt it. so she gave me her wrist and i said something like is it ok? she like oh i'm just twirling my wrist just to pop the joint in it.

fucking romance

she probably wanted me to say something like, it doesn't look ok because my hand isn't holding your hand.
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I know they Pisces are all romantic but my sister would have laughed at you, if you had said that. We need her moon and Venus.

It'll be fine, quit worrying.
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Seriously though

So you were a little creepy...But I'm sure you're thinking about it more than her. She's probably already forgotten about it. Don't bring it up - just move forward.

Trust me - I say weird shit all. The. Time.

There's shit I said 10 years ago I still think about and cringe ...but no one else even remembers it.

Next time grab her ass and say it ??

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and failure
update?
told her how i felt, i hung around as long as i could and that was it nothing. she was telling me she found someone else months ago which was a lie obviously
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If her testing you meant life and death for your relationship, know you dodged a ford pinto, cause that relationship backin' up on yo' dick would have been a disaster...
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yea thats true
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Idk how this will all turn out, but I'd say next time just slowly move in for the kiss. I think Virgo/Pisces axis tend to spend a lot of time in their heads, so talking about it beforehand will only give her time to freak out or start analyzing.

Just give her a hug goodbye and kiss her cheek. Then don't pull away all the way and start moving towards her mouth. See how she responds to that.. you should know pretty quickly if she's okay with you kissing her or not.
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