Chessmess
@Chessmess
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What does he want?
He maybe doesn’t know what he wants
Sun quincunx Moon often don’t know their arse from their elbow
Are you going to give him another 3 years to flake out on you?
🥴
Sun quincunx Moon often don’t know their arse from their elbow
Are you going to give him another 3 years to flake out on you?
🥴
Yeah, you may have to take the bull by the horns with this guy.
His Gemini moon needs excitement and fast responses.
The problem is, he keeps finding more funnier things to do than hang with you. Sounds harsh but Gemini moons are bored easily and love some good chaos.
You gotta make him feel alive
He wasn’t lying about seeing the picture late. Algorithms and a real life can make you miss all the social media life.
His Gemini moon needs excitement and fast responses.
The problem is, he keeps finding more funnier things to do than hang with you. Sounds harsh but Gemini moons are bored easily and love some good chaos.
You gotta make him feel alive
He wasn’t lying about seeing the picture late. Algorithms and a real life can make you miss all the social media life.
put your toothbrush over at his place
if he hides it, it's over he's a hoe
but gemini moons are so attractive tho 😢
if he hides it, it's over he's a hoe
but gemini moons are so attractive tho 😢
Posted by MyStarsShine
He maybe doesn’t know what he wants
Sun quincunx Moon often don’t know their arse from their elbow
Are you going to give him another 3 years to flake out on you?
🥴
I don’t contact him like I used to. I let it be. He seems to be chasing me...
I’ve given up on him ...
What do you want?
Based on what you provided he wants attention.
Based on what you provided he wants attention.
Posted by DMV
Yeah, you may have to take the bull by the horns with this guy.
His Gemini moon needs excitement and fast responses.
The problem is, he keeps finding more funnier things to do than hang with you. Sounds harsh but Gemini moons are bored easily and love some good chaos.
You gotta make him feel alive
He wasn’t lying about seeing the picture late. Algorithms and a real life can make you miss all the social media life.
Last year things were great.
We would hang out, talk for hours, send flirty messages, I would catch him staring at me when he thought I was not looking....but this year, he has turned into a flake. Always canceling....Even before covid.
So I figured he’s sending me a hint - he’s not interested. So I moved on.
But maybe that’s not the case?
I’ve done things to tell him I like him and when I do, he disappears for weeks.
Posted by virgoOPPP
put your toothbrush over at his place
if he hides it, it's over he's a hoe
but gemini moons are so attractive tho 😢
Lol
Good idea 💡
Yeah, he’s so attractive. When he’s around, I melt.
Posted by bkbella86
What do you want?
Based on what you provided he wants attention.
I’ve given him attention. Then he disappears for weeks or even months when I show him affection.
So I stopped doing that because I am frustrated and annoyed with him.
I don’t understand what he wants.
Posted by bkbella86
What do you want?
Based on what you provided he wants attention.
And I want to be with him...
I’m just tired of the push and pull
Posted by ChessmessPosted by MyStarsShine
He maybe doesn’t know what he wants
Sun quincunx Moon often don’t know their arse from their elbow
Are you going to give him another 3 years to flake out on you?
🥴
I don’t contact him like I used to. I let it be. He seems to be chasing me...
I’ve given up on him ...click to expand
Wise move 👍
Posted by ChessmessPosted by DMV
Yeah, you may have to take the bull by the horns with this guy.
His Gemini moon needs excitement and fast responses.
The problem is, he keeps finding more funnier things to do than hang with you. Sounds harsh but Gemini moons are bored easily and love some good chaos.
You gotta make him feel alive
He wasn’t lying about seeing the picture late. Algorithms and a real life can make you miss all the social media life.
Last year things were great.
We would hang out, talk for hours, send flirty messages, I would catch him staring at me when he thought I was not looking....but this year, he has turned into a flake. Always canceling....Even before covid.
So I figured he’s sending me a hint - he’s not interested. So I moved on.
But maybe that’s not the case?
I’ve done things to tell him I like him and when I do, he disappears for weeks.click to expand
None of that is unusual with a Gemini moon.
They flake when something better comes along
That’s the thing with some attractive people. That’s literally it with them.
Might you have said something unintelligent?
Scorpio, Virgo, Gemini are pretentious with intellect and thinking people are dumber then they are.
He’s a mercurial strategist with his placements
Might you have said something unintelligent?
Scorpio, Virgo, Gemini are pretentious with intellect and thinking people are dumber then they are.
He’s a mercurial strategist with his placements
Posted by DMV
That’s the thing with some attractive people. That’s literally it with them.
Might you have said something unintelligent?
Scorpio, Virgo, Gemini are pretentious with intellect and thinking people are dumber then they are.
He’s a mercurial strategist with his placements
I’ve seen this in people with a combo of those signs in their natal chart...
Who knows what he wants.
But we can safely say it’s not you. Cause if it was he would’ve made an effort to see you. He’s had 3 years worth of opportunity.
Have you ever met face to face?
Him flaking on zoom calls and meet ups seems like classic catfish behavior. Ijs.
Edit: ok read the thread and saw you used to hang out.
In that case I think you were a 2nd/3rd option and he would always flaked cause his first choice came through. Now with pandemic it’s harder to make new connections so he’s digging deep into the rolodex.
But we can safely say it’s not you. Cause if it was he would’ve made an effort to see you. He’s had 3 years worth of opportunity.
Have you ever met face to face?
Him flaking on zoom calls and meet ups seems like classic catfish behavior. Ijs.
Edit: ok read the thread and saw you used to hang out.
In that case I think you were a 2nd/3rd option and he would always flaked cause his first choice came through. Now with pandemic it’s harder to make new connections so he’s digging deep into the rolodex.
Posted by DMV
That’s the thing with some attractive people. That’s literally it with them.
Might you have said something unintelligent?
Scorpio, Virgo, Gemini are pretentious with intellect and thinking people are dumber then they are.
He’s a mercurial strategist with his placements
I would definitely know when I say something incredibly stupid. Most of the time I do this with friends and family members - I act stupid and say silly things just to get a laugh.
Around strangers or when I am with him, I watch what I say. Most of the time we talk about history and literature.
Back in June, he sent a message of him singing a song - of course I thanked him and complimented him. Then we continued to talk about literature.
I also sent him a link of a song that I like...but he stopped communicating with me after that.
Now he wants to reconnect again.
The song is similar to the music he likes so I don’t think he got offended about the song.
I don’t know. Maybe he did.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Who knows what he wants.
But we can safely say it’s not you. Cause if it was he would’ve made an effort to see you. He’s had 3 years worth of opportunity.
Have you ever met face to face?
Him flaking on zoom calls and meet ups seems like classic catfish behavior. Ijs.
Edit: ok read the thread and saw you used to hang out.
In that case I think you were a 2nd/3rd option and he would always flaked cause his first choice came through. Now with pandemic it’s harder to make new connections so he’s digging deep into the rolodex.
That’s what I thought. I’m not really in the mood to entertain his needs unless he’s serious about me. If he is, I’m all for it.
If he’s hot and cold, he better choose choice #1 or whomever she is.
This is the reason why I distant myself from him.
Posted by ChessmessPosted by LadyNeptune
Who knows what he wants.
But we can safely say it’s not you. Cause if it was he would’ve made an effort to see you. He’s had 3 years worth of opportunity.
Have you ever met face to face?
Him flaking on zoom calls and meet ups seems like classic catfish behavior. Ijs.
Edit: ok read the thread and saw you used to hang out.
In that case I think you were a 2nd/3rd option and he would always flaked cause his first choice came through. Now with pandemic it’s harder to make new connections so he’s digging deep into the rolodex.
That’s what I thought. I’m not really in the mood to entertain his needs unless he’s serious about me. If he is, I’m all for it.
If he’s hot and cold, he better choose choice #1 or whomever she is.
This is the reason why I distant myself from him.click to expand
And I didn’t mean to insinuate that 1st option was another girl necessarily. It could’ve also been friends, family, work function, alone time etc.
Whatever it was, he’s had ample time to make you a priority and never did. Your better off giving your time to someone who puts in some effort.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by ChessmessPosted by LadyNeptune
Who knows what he wants.
But we can safely say it’s not you. Cause if it was he would’ve made an effort to see you. He’s had 3 years worth of opportunity.
Have you ever met face to face?
Him flaking on zoom calls and meet ups seems like classic catfish behavior. Ijs.
Edit: ok read the thread and saw you used to hang out.
In that case I think you were a 2nd/3rd option and he would always flaked cause his first choice came through. Now with pandemic it’s harder to make new connections so he’s digging deep into the rolodex.
That’s what I thought. I’m not really in the mood to entertain his needs unless he’s serious about me. If he is, I’m all for it.
If he’s hot and cold, he better choose choice #1 or whomever she is.
This is the reason why I distant myself from him.
And I didn’t mean to insinuate that 1st option was another girl necessarily. It could’ve also been friends, family, work function, alone time etc.
Whatever it was, he’s had ample time to make you a priority and never did. Your better off giving your time to someone who puts in some effort.click to expand
Agree.
I’ve been working a lot lately so my main focus is my job/new role.
Posted by ChessmessPosted by bkbella86
What do you want?
Based on what you provided he wants attention.
I’ve given him attention. Then he disappears for weeks or even months when I show him affection.
So I stopped doing that because I am frustrated and annoyed with him.
I don’t understand what he wants.click to expand
For you to be there when he returns.
you didn’t mention what you want?
Posted by ChessmessPosted by bkbella86
What do you want?
Based on what you provided he wants attention.
And I want to be with him...
I’m just tired of the push and pullclick to expand
Oh! Disregard my other response.
Posted by ChessmessPosted by bkbella86
What do you want?
Based on what you provided he wants attention.
And I want to be with him...
I’m just tired of the push and pullclick to expand
You sound just like me.
But with me it was a Pisces guy.
I just wanted to be with him.
Was tired of the push/pull.
He wanted to leave his partner for me.
I wanted to leave my husband for him.
But he waited for Me to do it First.
I won't go on because lots of people on here already know my lengthy painful story.
He flaked on me so many times I just didnt trust him. So i never left my marriage. So he didnt leave his partner.
Round and round and round for 6 YEARS. Disappear. Reappear. Over and Over.
Posted by pooface222Posted by ChessmessPosted by bkbella86
What do you want?
Based on what you provided he wants attention.
And I want to be with him...
I’m just tired of the push and pull
You sound just like me.
But with me it was a Pisces guy.
I just wanted to be with him.
Was tired of the push/pull.
He wanted to leave his partner for me.
I wanted to leave my husband for him.
But he waited for Me to do it First.
I won't go on because lots of people on here already know my lengthy painful story.
He flaked on me so many times I just didnt trust him. So i never left my marriage. So he didnt leave his partner.
Round and round and round for 6 YEARS. Disappear. Reappear. Over and Over.click to expand
Sorry to hear about Pisces guy. Do you keep in touch with him?
Now you got me thinking... maybe he has someone. Maybe that’s why he acts this way towards me...
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It’s been going on for 3 years.
This year we have tried to stay in contact but most of the time he tends flake on me giving me lame excuses he was busy or he had forgotten (zoom calls)
This summer, I focused on my new role at work and just forgot about him.
Last month he sent a message wanting to meet up which I responded a few days later ( needed time to think) telling him that whenever he’s free , we can meet. I was really annoyed so I think my text was short and dry.
I forgot about him and continued with my life thinking that I would not hear from him again.
Last week he sends a message complimenting me about a photo from a social media account.
Plus he said he had not noticed the photo until now. Kinda lame because that photo was posted months ago.
I replied a few day’s later with a “thank you”(I have taken my time to reply because I am annoyed and I don’t want to say something rude) but he replied immediately wanting to meet up.
What does he want? Is he bored?
He’s a Scorpio with a Gemini moon and Venus in Virgo.