Do you believe men should have to provide the condoms? Why or why not?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by _Dazed on Monday, August 17, 2020 and has 60 replies.

Should Men Be Responsible for Providing Condoms in Relationships

Responsibility for providing condoms varies and depends on mutual agreement. It is important for both partners to communicate and share contraceptive responsibilities to ensure safe sex and mutual respect. Clear communication helps prevent misunderstandings and promotes healthier relationships.

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Lol if you’re planning on having sex, I don’t care what gender you are, you better come prepared! Or be okay with either getting pregnant/an std or going to the store last minute bc you both weren’t smart enough to plan ahead! Choices people.... choices.

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Posted by _Dazed I mean.. I paid for the date, ya know?

So as long as I pay we don’t have to do it? 😄

Win win for me honestly.

Are you an impotent or an asexual? 🤷‍♀️

Define impotent

Man who aren’t sexually active due to inability to achieve and maintain erection.

Recognizing yourself?

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My erection has been harder and bigger since I've stopped drinking. Try again.

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Do you want to get pregnant or get a std? No? Then always come prepared and have condoms with you. Its not just the task of the man. Most times men dont even think about such things so dont rely on the other person to provide condoms.

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Posted by PiscesGal76

Do you want to get pregnant or get a std? No? Then always come prepared and have condoms with you. Its not just the task of the man. Most times men dont even think about such things so dont rely on the other person to provide condoms.

Some specially lucky people catching STDs from their spouses - so STD is an unfortunate occurrence. I’ve used condom 2 times. First and last. Lol

I rather not do anything than do it with condom.

So all men I spoke with. Torture!!!

Did the Cap give you one?

No. Never had one but friends spouses were fucking around and that shit finding out is brutal...getting STDs AND finding out you’ve been stood up...🙄

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Is how I found out my ex was cheating on me. Gave me chlamydia the son of a bitch! Always used them ever since because of that. Because the next time it might not’ve been curable. Now I’m just celibate LOL

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Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

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When young men hitting on me I am asking why? Do you like sagging boobs more than perky?

Well...I am also be frank...I prefer impotent...and now after we all been truthful to each other - SCRAM!

The woman knows what she likes, and she likes limp dick

Sometimes you are so dense...you are trying to win so hard that you making stupid mistakes like this...

My post was a JOKE! And everyone got it except you. You just being pitiful. Get the trophy 🏆- happy now? 🤦‍♀️

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Does this mean your tits aren't saggy either? Disappointing...

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Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

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Posted by _Dazed I mean.. I paid for the date, ya know?

So as long as I pay we don’t have to do it? 😄

Win win for me honestly.

Are you an impotent or an asexual? 🤷‍♀️

Define impotent

Man who aren’t sexually active due to inability to achieve and maintain erection.

Recognizing yourself?

My erection has been harder and bigger since I've stopped drinking. Try again.

YOU said NOT having sex is win-win for you soooo....this is HOW my question was born.::🤦‍♀️

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I'm borderline asexual and love food, especially when it's free.

What's difficult to understand about that?

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Posted by BlueStar

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Do you want to get pregnant or get a std? No? Then always come prepared and have condoms with you. Its not just the task of the man. Most times men dont even think about such things so dont rely on the other person to provide condoms.

You can get pregnant using condoms. It takes having sex almost every day for 11 months.

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Yes I know. I got pregnant aswell that way. But it still minimises the chance versus without a condom.

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Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

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Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

When young men hitting on me I am asking why? Do you like sagging boobs more than perky?

Well...I am also be frank...I prefer impotent...and now after we all been truthful to each other - SCRAM!

The woman knows what she likes, and she likes limp dick

Sometimes you are so dense...you are trying to win so hard that you making stupid mistakes like this...

My post was a JOKE! And everyone got it except you. You just being pitiful. Get the trophy 🏆- happy now? 🤦‍♀️

Does this mean your tits aren't saggy either? Disappointing...

You are extremely annoying and pitiful today. What’s wrong? Hinted yiur bf about marriage and he is pretending he has was in his ears?

Btw you can always refer to your moms tits about sagging before boob job. I am feeling weird talking to a woman about my boobs...most I can do for you is to send you picture of my...knee...🤷‍♀️😂

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So is that a yes or a no....

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Posted by BlueStar

Posted by _Dazed I mean.. I paid for the date, ya know?

So as long as I pay we don’t have to do it? 😄

Win win for me honestly.

Are you an impotent or an asexual? 🤷‍♀️

Define impotent

Man who aren’t sexually active due to inability to achieve and maintain erection.

Recognizing yourself?

My erection has been harder and bigger since I've stopped drinking. Try again.

YOU said NOT having sex is win-win for you soooo....this is HOW my question was born.::🤦‍♀️

I'm borderline asexual and love food, especially when it's free.

What's difficult to understand about that?

You just happily bragged about harder bigger dick!! And now you are an assexual?🤷‍♀️

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Being borderline asexual doesn't mean that I don't masturbate. In fact I do.. once or twice a month for health purposes. And also, erections happen without one's control sometimes. Take a sex ed class.

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Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

When young men hitting on me I am asking why? Do you like sagging boobs more than perky?

Well...I am also be frank...I prefer impotent...and now after we all been truthful to each other - SCRAM!

The woman knows what she likes, and she likes limp dick

Sometimes you are so dense...you are trying to win so hard that you making stupid mistakes like this...

My post was a JOKE! And everyone got it except you. You just being pitiful. Get the trophy 🏆- happy now? 🤦‍♀️

Does this mean your tits aren't saggy either? Disappointing...

You are extremely annoying and pitiful today. What’s wrong? Hinted yiur bf about marriage and he is pretending he has was in his ears?

Btw you can always refer to your moms tits about sagging before boob job. I am feeling weird talking to a woman about my boobs...most I can do for you is to send you picture of my...knee...🤷‍♀️😂

So is that a yes or a no....

I don’t owe you description of my boobs because if I’ll give in - next thing you’ll ask me my vj pick...then you’ll wirk your way to meet me...no! I don’t need this shit...and have I made myself clear? No VJ picks will be sent unless price offered will blind my judgement...but you don’t have this much money so...

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Just trying to figure out what is the truth and what is a 'joke'.

You seem kinda defensive for someone whose joking...

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I think it depends on whose house you are going to. I keep condoms in my place when I'm "active" just incase the guy didn't bring any. But if I'm at his place he should be prepared.

I also agree that the size I get might not be big enough(or small enough) so if a guy is an extreme in either direction he might want to make sure he has his size. I have been in a situation where if it had been left to me I wouldn't have gotten a big enough size so glad he had his own.

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Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

When young men hitting on me I am asking why? Do you like sagging boobs more than perky?

Well...I am also be frank...I prefer impotent...and now after we all been truthful to each other - SCRAM!

The woman knows what she likes, and she likes limp dick

Sometimes you are so dense...you are trying to win so hard that you making stupid mistakes like this...

My post was a JOKE! And everyone got it except you. You just being pitiful. Get the trophy 🏆- happy now? 🤦‍♀️

Does this mean your tits aren't saggy either? Disappointing...

You are extremely annoying and pitiful today. What’s wrong? Hinted yiur bf about marriage and he is pretending he has was in his ears?

Btw you can always refer to your moms tits about sagging before boob job. I am feeling weird talking to a woman about my boobs...most I can do for you is to send you picture of my...knee...🤷‍♀️😂

So is that a yes or a no....

I don’t owe you description of my boobs because if I’ll give in - next thing you’ll ask me my vj pick...then you’ll wirk your way to meet me...no! I don’t need this shit...and have I made myself clear? No VJ picks will be sent unless price offered will blind my judgement...but you don’t have this much money so...

Just trying to figure out what is the truth and what is a 'joke'.

You seem kinda defensive for someone whose joking...

You sound exhausted. And you don’t get jokes. And asking old woman about boobs. Are you about to I’ve fucking nerves break down and be blaming on me? Fuck!

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Mondays are always exhausting, its true.

I promise I'm not having a nervous breakdown. But I might if you keep threatening to send me vj pics. At least eat some humus first, please I beg you.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

When young men hitting on me I am asking why? Do you like sagging boobs more than perky?

Well...I am also be frank...I prefer impotent...and now after we all been truthful to each other - SCRAM!

The woman knows what she likes, and she likes limp dick

Sometimes you are so dense...you are trying to win so hard that you making stupid mistakes like this...

My post was a JOKE! And everyone got it except you. You just being pitiful. Get the trophy 🏆- happy now? 🤦‍♀️

Does this mean your tits aren't saggy either? Disappointing...

You are extremely annoying and pitiful today. What’s wrong? Hinted yiur bf about marriage and he is pretending he has was in his ears?

Btw you can always refer to your moms tits about sagging before boob job. I am feeling weird talking to a woman about my boobs...most I can do for you is to send you picture of my...knee...🤷‍♀️😂

So is that a yes or a no....

I don’t owe you description of my boobs because if I’ll give in - next thing you’ll ask me my vj pick...then you’ll wirk your way to meet me...no! I don’t need this shit...and have I made myself clear? No VJ picks will be sent unless price offered will blind my judgement...but you don’t have this much money so...

Just trying to figure out what is the truth and what is a 'joke'.

You seem kinda defensive for someone whose joking...

You sound exhausted. And you don’t get jokes. And asking old woman about boobs. Are you about to I’ve fucking nerves break down and be blaming on me? Fuck!

Mondays are always exhausting, its true.

I promise I'm not having a nervous breakdown. But I might if you keep threatening to send me vj pics. At least eat some humus first, please I beg you.

I am...

https://i.imgur.com/LaPGYih.jpg


*wipes tear from eye

Proud of you and your saggy tits

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Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

When young men hitting on me I am asking why? Do you like sagging boobs more than perky?

Well...I am also be frank...I prefer impotent...and now after we all been truthful to each other - SCRAM!

The woman knows what she likes, and she likes limp dick

Sometimes you are so dense...you are trying to win so hard that you making stupid mistakes like this...

My post was a JOKE! And everyone got it except you. You just being pitiful. Get the trophy 🏆- happy now? 🤦‍♀️

Does this mean your tits aren't saggy either? Disappointing...

You are extremely annoying and pitiful today. What’s wrong? Hinted yiur bf about marriage and he is pretending he has was in his ears?

Btw you can always refer to your moms tits about sagging before boob job. I am feeling weird talking to a woman about my boobs...most I can do for you is to send you picture of my...knee...🤷‍♀️😂

So is that a yes or a no....

I don’t owe you description of my boobs because if I’ll give in - next thing you’ll ask me my vj pick...then you’ll wirk your way to meet me...no! I don’t need this shit...and have I made myself clear? No VJ picks will be sent unless price offered will blind my judgement...but you don’t have this much money so...

Just trying to figure out what is the truth and what is a 'joke'.

You seem kinda defensive for someone whose joking...

You sound exhausted. And you don’t get jokes. And asking old woman about boobs. Are you about to I’ve fucking nerves break down and be blaming on me? Fuck!

Mondays are always exhausting, its true.

I promise I'm not having a nervous breakdown. But I might if you keep threatening to send me vj pics. At least eat some humus first, please I beg you.

I am...

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*wipes tear from eye

Proud of you and your saggy tits

I didn’t know Aries likes hummus so between 2 of us we’ve finished that container...so I am bloating like a balloon...thanks.

What if man gets estrogen? Will he grow boobs? 🤷‍♀️

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ED and a little chesticle fluff

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Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

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Posted by PiscesGal76

Do you want to get pregnant or get a std? No? Then always come prepared and have condoms with you. Its not just the task of the man. Most times men dont even think about such things so dont rely on the other person to provide condoms.

Some specially lucky people catching STDs from their spouses - so STD is an unfortunate occurrence. I’ve used condom 2 times. First and last. Lol

I rather not do anything than do it with condom.

So all men I spoke with. Torture!!!

Did the Cap give you one?

No. Never had one but friends spouses were fucking around and that shit finding out is brutal...getting STDs AND finding out you’ve been stood up...🙄

Is how I found out my ex was cheating on me. Gave me chlamydia the son of a bitch! Always used them ever since because of that. Because the next time it might not’ve been curable. Now I’m just celibate LOL

Second chlamidia isn’t curable?

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Lol I meant the next time unwrapped it could be something uncurable lol chlamydia is bacterial if I remember correctly, so antibiotics kill it.... every time haha.

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Posted by PiscesGal76

Do you want to get pregnant or get a std? No? Then always come prepared and have condoms with you. Its not just the task of the man. Most times men dont even think about such things so dont rely on the other person to provide condoms.

Some specially lucky people catching STDs from their spouses - so STD is an unfortunate occurrence. I’ve used condom 2 times. First and last. Lol

I rather not do anything than do it with condom.

So all men I spoke with. Torture!!!

Did the Cap give you one?

No. Never had one but friends spouses were fucking around and that shit finding out is brutal...getting STDs AND finding out you’ve been stood up...🙄

Is how I found out my ex was cheating on me. Gave me chlamydia the son of a bitch! Always used them ever since because of that. Because the next time it might not’ve been curable. Now I’m just celibate LOL

Second chlamidia isn’t curable?

Lol I meant the next time unwrapped it could be something uncurable lol chlamydia is bacterial if I remember correctly, so antibiotics kill it.... every time haha.

So...it’s a good news right? 🤷‍♀️

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Relatively I guess lol it was a pretty hard lesson to learn but learnt! Never again. Better choices ever since my early 20s for sure.

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Yes, as a courtesy and I don't mind using them. Plus, I feel like it's less complicated than a woman using birth control or an IUD, which can come with unpleasant side effects. Unless she wants the extra peace of mind.

When I knew it was going down, I placed them in strategic positions within reach, knowing I would not want to pause the action to grab them. The band can't stop playing halfway through the set.

What a man, what a man, what a mighty good man

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It's kinna sad some of these responses...it's like some men lost their testosterone. Do u wanna be bottle fed next?

Hehe take charge of ur desires and masculinity... So that women can relax and be in their femininity... To receive and love u and stroke ur hair ...and everything else...and tell u everything is gonna be okay.

I may have gotten carried away but u get the picture lolll

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Posted by bkbella86

When I was in a relationship we picked them up together often, and he paid. Why is this a question? Are you trying to fuggg or nah? It’s sounds incredibly petty to ask.

Lol.hes hurt because he paid for dinner. So he wants to prove his manhood through reciprocity that women buy the condoms 🤷

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Its 2020, big ass and titties with petite waist is the ideal body shape. Someone should tell grams...

For real. I’m petite overall so that ain’t happening for me lol

I'm just shook that 'huge/fat/big ass' was meant as an insult. Shooketh.

She’s just salty, and trying to make racist remarks that obviously backfired.

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That might be my fault. I've been peer pressuring her to eat more hummus for those low e levels to keep the pussy from drying out like the mummy before he sucked the life outta those tomb raiders.

Sadly I forgot to mention to look out for the high sodium content. My bad.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Its 2020, big ass and titties with petite waist is the ideal body shape. Someone should tell grams...

For real. I’m petite overall so that ain’t happening for me lol

I'm just shook that 'huge/fat/big ass' was meant as an insult. Shooketh.

She’s just salty, and trying to make racist remarks that obviously backfired.

That might be my fault. I've been peer pressuring her to eat more hummus for those low e levels to keep the pussy from drying out like the mummy before he sucked the life outta those tomb raiders.

Sadly I forgot to mention to look out for the high sodium content. My bad.

😂😂😂

Lookin like groot

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It's funny to me watching the women in this thread not realize this is a parody thread.

A non-amusing at that.

Dxpers think they're so cute w their parody posts whereas most of the time it's such evident attention seeking behavior.

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So evident that you commented seriously 🤣

"Lol.hes hurt because he paid for dinner. So he wants to prove his manhood through reciprocity that women buy the condoms 🤷"

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Posted by _Dazed

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It's funny to me watching the women in this thread not realize this is a parody thread.

A non-amusing at that.

Dxpers think they're so cute w their parody posts whereas most of the time it's such evident attention seeking behavior.

So evident that you commented seriously 🤣

"Lol.hes hurt because he paid for dinner. So he wants to prove his manhood through reciprocity that women buy the condoms 🤷"

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Lol it was evident but like I said non-amusing. So the only entertainment value is to pretend that it's serious and clap back. Listen we're all bored on lol

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Posted by stillstillwater

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Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by _Dazed

It's funny to me watching the women in this thread not realize this is a parody thread.

A non-amusing at that.

Dxpers think they're so cute w their parody posts whereas most of the time it's such evident attention seeking behavior.

So evident that you commented seriously 🤣

"Lol.hes hurt because he paid for dinner. So he wants to prove his manhood through reciprocity that women buy the condoms 🤷"

Lol it was evident but like I said non-amusing. So the only entertainment value is to pretend that it's serious and clap back. Listen we're all bored on lol

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