@borednbeautiful
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In your opinion, what kills a relationship the most?
I guess Mercury retrograde is approaching and I am thinking of my Leo and other past lovers.
How do you know when that’s really it/the end?
Mismatched sex drives
The partner holding onto an ex
Being taken for granted
Infidelity
Spending too much time together
Mismatched sexual kinks 🫠😬
Wanting to change someone.
Lack of flexibility.
Familiarity.
Men not continuing the courtship after you get her.
Comparison.
Couples tend to survive if they don't engage a ton with social media and continue to date each other.
Abuse
Unresolved trauma
Cheating
Inaction
Stubbornness
Disrespect
When people don’t evolve at the same rate
Jealousy
Kids
Name tattoos
Immaturity
Lack of compassion
Lack of compromise
Finances
Cheating
Being taken for granted
Poor communication
Acting like you're single
Posted by borednbeautiful
In your opinion, what kills a relationship the most?I guess Mercury retrograde is approaching and I am thinking of my Leo and other past lovers.
How do you know when that’s really it/the end?
Were there other past lovers? GTFO! You never mentioned anybody but Leo!
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Lol I don’t put my whole dating life online like you do 🤷♂️ 😂
When both people aren't on the same page on if it's actually a relationship
Most everything else that everyone else said.
But it goes downhill pretty fast if a person is stubborn and lacks communication skills
When they are too stubborn to deal with their shit even though it almost killed them.. aka not growing up or maybe not the killed them part lol but in one case yes.
And other person is growing.
Workaholicism ~ people that are married to their work and not their partner.
If you don't let go. I have a theory that you get along with certain people because you're just more willing to put up with their shit than the rest of the population. And they with my shit too. ❤️
Posted by saggurl88
What the hell are you guys doing that spending too much time together is a relationship killer?Working together or having job where you both work from home.Or job where you work 12h shifts It kills it. From experience - it sucks lol
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I guess they are just sitting under each other all day.
No one goes outside and does other stuff independently huh? lol
Posted by borednbeautiful
In your opinion, what kills a relationship the most?
A breathtakingly beautiful, but...... incredibly bored Gemini woman.
*sighs*
The relationship is ultimately doomed.
Posted by saggurl88
What the hell are you guys doing that spending too much time together is a relationship killer?Working together or having job where you both work from home.Or job where you work 12h shifts It kills it. From experience - it sucks lol
click to expandI guess they are just sitting under each other all day.
No one goes outside and does other stuff independently huh? lol
click to expandWell to tell you the truth, what killed my rs is partly too much time together. We're together, every day and we go out together most of the time. It gets boring. Several other couples that I know are the same...it just gets too much. I love going out with various people. But as it happened to be, where I live a lot of people move to other countries and most of my friends moved. Those who stayed are not social as they used to be since they had kids. So there really isn't much choice to spend time with other people for me at least...
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I find that people still have to have their own individual hobbies. It helps in the long run. I used to drive my ex crazy by staying at the store too many hours lol Sometimes I would book spa days and stay half the day too.
People need to live their own life, no one should be joined at the hip.
Posted by Shamalamadingdongmcshlong
Emotionally stunted women who cannot communicate their concerns but would rather go on an obscure astrology site to consult perpetually single cat ladies.


Nothing. Relationship is fatal by Nature.
I think going from woman to woman is better.
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