What kills a relationship?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by borednbeautiful on Friday, April 14, 2023 and has 19 replies.

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In your opinion, what kills a relationship the most?

I guess Mercury retrograde is approaching and I am thinking of my Leo and other past lovers.

How do you know when that’s really it/the end?

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Wanting to change someone.

Lack of flexibility.

Familiarity.

Men not continuing the courtship after you get her.

Comparison.

Couples tend to survive if they don't engage a ton with social media and continue to date each other.

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15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Abuse

Unresolved trauma

Cheating

Inaction

Stubbornness

Disrespect

When people don’t evolve at the same rate

Jealousy

Kids

Name tattoos

Immaturity

Lack of compassion

Lack of compromise

Finances

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Posted by MonaLisa26

Posted by borednbeautiful
In your opinion, what kills a relationship the most?

I guess Mercury retrograde is approaching and I am thinking of my Leo and other past lovers.

How do you know when that’s really it/the end?

Were there other past lovers? GTFO! You never mentioned anybody but Leo!

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Lol I don’t put my whole dating life online like you do 🤷‍♂️ 😂

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When both people aren't on the same page on if it's actually a relationship

Most everything else that everyone else said.

But it goes downhill pretty fast if a person is stubborn and lacks communication skills

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When they are too stubborn to deal with their shit even though it almost killed them.. aka not growing up or maybe not the killed them part lol but in one case yes.

And other person is growing.

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If you don't let go. I have a theory that you get along with certain people because you're just more willing to put up with their shit than the rest of the population. And they with my shit too. ❤️

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Posted by StubbornSagittarius

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What the hell are you guys doing that spending too much time together is a relationship killer?

Working together or having job where you both work from home.Or job where you work 12h shifts It kills it. From experience - it sucks lol

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I guess they are just sitting under each other all day.

No one goes outside and does other stuff independently huh? lol

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Posted by StubbornSagittarius

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Posted by StubbornSagittarius

Posted by saggurl88
What the hell are you guys doing that spending too much time together is a relationship killer?

Working together or having job where you both work from home.Or job where you work 12h shifts It kills it. From experience - it sucks lol
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I guess they are just sitting under each other all day.

No one goes outside and does other stuff independently huh? lol
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Well to tell you the truth, what killed my rs is partly too much time together. We're together, every day and we go out together most of the time. It gets boring. Several other couples that I know are the same...it just gets too much. I love going out with various people. But as it happened to be, where I live a lot of people move to other countries and most of my friends moved. Those who stayed are not social as they used to be since they had kids. So there really isn't much choice to spend time with other people for me at least...

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I find that people still have to have their own individual hobbies. It helps in the long run. I used to drive my ex crazy by staying at the store too many hours lol Sometimes I would book spa days and stay half the day too.

People need to live their own life, no one should be joined at the hip.