@GemiMay
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Pretending to LOVE being alone
Understanding the Psychology Behind Pretending to Love Being Alone
Many people celebrate single life after leaving unhealthy relationships, but true fulfillment often comes from healthy partnerships. Pretending to enjoy being alone may mask underlying loneliness or fear of intimacy. Recognizing genuine contentment versus post-breakup bravado can help you make better relationship choices and foster authentic happiness.
"how about you try to live with somebody you actually LIKE or even LOVE"
What about those who like or love lazy, messy, freeloaders or difficult people with a chip on both their shoulders? 😄
A partnership is only worth it if both parties are pulling their weight and have similar habits and goals.
After seeing my siblings and friends relationships, I’m more affirmed than ever that my choice to stay single was a good one. I’m, thank God, aging well as I don’t have the stress that comes from having an incompatible partner whom you have to make things work with for the sake of something.
"how about you try to live with somebody you actually LIKE or even LOVE"
What about those who like or love lazy, messy, freeloaders or difficult people with a chip on both their shoulders? 😄
Fine! If that’s whom they love - welcome!
Personally, I feel lonely from time to time but I prefer my peace and low risk love life. Plus, I just don't have it in me to love someone romantically. I'm easily infatuated, but love..I'm just going to chuck it to my sun sign 💁🏽♀️.
As long as you aren’t trying to stick it to other’s faces that their choice of being couples is due to lack of self love or other inane BS - enjoy!
It’s you. At least you KNOW who you are and telling it how it is. No ferry dusting of the situation…
I think that there are a lot of people who are “content” with being single, maybe they know they are toxic in relationships or maybe it’s been so long that they’ve been with someone, or maybe they’ve never been with someone at all, etc. And since everyone knows how much a broken heart hurts - I can understand why anyone would want to avoid it. I do believe that the ultimate goal for everyone deep down is to love and be loved though. We want to experience unconditional love. As humans, we crave that elusive connection with another human being. Unfortunately as far as I can tell, romantic love is often quite conditional. Think about how often does it actually last “unconditionally”
Believing in unconditional love is a Cinderella story. I am for being realistic and realizing that hears can break. Love can fade. But none of it is a reason to be ALONE forever. Hearts can heal.
Personally, I feel lonely from time to time but I prefer my peace and low risk love life. Plus, I just don't have it in me to love someone romantically. I'm easily infatuated, but love..I'm just going to chuck it to my sun sign 💁🏽♀️.
As long as you aren’t trying to stick it to other’s faces that their choice of being couples is due to lack of self love or other inane BS - enjoy!
It’s you. At least you KNOW who you are and telling it how it is. No ferry dusting of the situation…
If you post your personal matters in a forum, then that's different. You're sort of inviting people to mind your business.
Even offline. Most people give unsolicited advice and/or unnecessary comments almost like a natural reflex in communication.
If you're happy, then that's what matters. Protect your happiness whether you need to keep it to yourself or ignore unpleasant comments. Not everyone's going to agree on how you decide to live your life.
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I just saw thread on FB where TONS of people are looking for a partners and giving up…it always makes my heart ache. I hate people being lonely. Not alone! Lonely…
And I come here and see fake manifestation of single living and it strikes me as a LIE and BS of a high quality! So there!
They attracted their shitty partner for a reason. They are shitty partners themselves. Yes, doormats make shit partners, too. Who wants that?
It takes two to tango/to manifest and allow a toxic, poor shit relationship to develop and go on for whatever length of time. But they only want to blame the other person. They want to shift blame to someone else and avoid taking responsibility for their decisions, life and happiness.
Yea, perhaps some dickhead or some cunt treated them like shit. But it is their responsibility to look inside and see where they went wrong. It's their responsibility to set and enforce their boundaries. Their responsibility to heal. Their responsibility to wise up and make better choices. Their responsibility to improve their lives for the sake of their happiness.
But instead they choose to cover their ears and run around screaming "lalalalala fuckyeah the single life" "#dontneedaman" or "Mgtow!" or whatever the fuck is trending and serves the narrative they choose to believe.
These people say they are 'happy' living the single life, but they have settled to being single because when you hear them talk about relationships, they sound awfully bitter, jaded, cynical ... disenchanted.
And like I said, they COULD manifest much better relationships if they did the inner work and implemented some changes. But they don't want to take any responsibility or think objectively about a situation that they "feel" they are right because they feel wronged, or cheated or whatever it is their victim, entitled identity/perception/point of view makes them think and feel.
It's just easier to be stuck in a rut in life and when confronted by themselves or other people about why they're stuck, they blame others or their circumstances as a way to avoid taking responsibility. It's easier than to look in the mirror and being willing to accept and face some harsh truths about themselves and life in general and make positive changes.
I’d be more than happy to be in a partnership, if it was right. But I sure as hell am not going to be in one that is wrong for me. Single is better than being in a relationship that is wrong for me, just to not be alone.
I absolutely want a partner. My life feels more fulfilling sharing life with someone.
I have no interest in settling with a incompatible person. It becomes a burden rather then the addition I seek.
To be honest, these competing desires has caused me to become something like a way station to others.
Can that be said of your ex husband I mean you didn’t even love him and cheated on him for years. I mean I’d define you as a shitty partner if u were cheating on me.
So it’s easier for u since you were the shitter
Can that be said of your ex husband I mean you didn’t even love him and cheated on him for years. I mean I’d define you as a shitty partner if u were cheating on me.
So it’s easier for u since you were the shitter
You don’t remember or never knew my story.
I told my husband I am going to leave him and he didn’t do anything to keep me because he didn't believe I will leave.
Can that be said of your ex husband I mean you didn’t even love him and cheated on him for years. I mean I’d define you as a shitty partner if u were cheating on me.
So it’s easier for u since you were the shitter
You don’t remember or never knew my story.
my story has nothing to do with the subject of this thread. I never said I love to be alone. I said I love to be coupled. So this is not about discussing my moral image. It’s about totally different things…
I don't think single people really say anything until people in a relationship start bragging. It's like we get it, but no one cares about your relationship. If your relationship is so good why are you telling other people rather then enjoying it with the person you are with? It makes no sense. No one, not even people in a relationship give a shit about your personal relationship and sex life.
I don't think single people really say anything until people in a relationship start bragging. It's like we get it, but no one cares about your relationship. If your relationship is so good why are you telling other people rather then enjoying it with the person you are with? It makes no sense. No one, not even people in a relationship give a shit about your personal relationship and sex life.
If you were right - it means that single people actually jealous of relationships those who has them.
I don't think single people really say anything until people in a relationship start bragging. It's like we get it, but no one cares about your relationship. If your relationship is so good why are you telling other people rather then enjoying it with the person you are with? It makes no sense. No one, not even people in a relationship give a shit about your personal relationship and sex life.
If you were right - it means that single people actually jealous of relationships those who has them.
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I wouldn't say that. There are tons of single people. If we wanted to date, we would. It's not that dating is hard or impossible. It's the fact for some It's a worthless investment. People who are jealous of relationship tend to have many, and end up in prison because they can't get what they want. People who chose the single life aren't that.
Can that be said of your ex husband I mean you didn’t even love him and cheated on him for years. I mean I’d define you as a shitty partner if u were cheating on me.
So it’s easier for u since you were the shitter
You don’t remember or never knew my story.
my story has nothing to do with the subject of this thread. I never said I love to be alone. I said I love to be coupled. So this is not about discussing my moral image. It’s about totally different things…
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you were talking about picking “shitty partners “ then using it to say lonely is better. N technically stating you’re bad for picking shitty partner.
So it’s most likely your ex will decide to be alone than you. You like coupling of course because u were the one dishing out the harm
“They acting like it was somebody’s fault that they were coupled with some shitty partners and like if somebody held them hostages and FINALLY!!! Hallelujah!!! They left…and loving it! “
It most likely ur ex is saying hallelujah than you
Whatever, I need Parents to stop pretending that having kids isn’t one of their biggest regrets
I don't think single people really say anything until people in a relationship start bragging. It's like we get it, but no one cares about your relationship. If your relationship is so good why are you telling other people rather then enjoying it with the person you are with? It makes no sense. No one, not even people in a relationship give a shit about your personal relationship and sex life.
If you were right - it means that single people actually jealous of relationships those who has them.
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Um....I think we single folks are happy just the way we are...happy
So who in the blue moon hell are we jealous of? And why us single folks need people? I'm happy to be out of relationships for once and for all. I'm adjusting to life as a free single man. And guess what. It feels wonderful.
I don't think single people really say anything until people in a relationship start bragging. It's like we get it, but no one cares about your relationship. If your relationship is so good why are you telling other people rather then enjoying it with the person you are with? It makes no sense. No one, not even people in a relationship give a shit about your personal relationship and sex life.
If you were right - it means that single people actually jealous of relationships those who has them.
I wouldn't say that. There are tons of single people. If we wanted to date, we would. It's not that dating is hard or impossible. It's the fact for some It's a worthless investment. People who are jealous of relationship tend to have many, and end up in prison because they can't get what they want. People who chose the single life aren't that.
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You MUST Amit it was moronic to say: People who are jealous of relationship tend to have many, and end up in prison
Can that be said of your ex husband I mean you didn’t even love him and cheated on him for years. I mean I’d define you as a shitty partner if u were cheating on me.
So it’s easier for u since you were the shitter
You don’t remember or never knew my story.
my story has nothing to do with the subject of this thread. I never said I love to be alone. I said I love to be coupled. So this is not about discussing my moral image. It’s about totally different things…
you were talking about picking “shitty partners “ then using it to say lonely is better. N technically stating you’re bad for picking shitty partner.
So it’s most likely your ex will decide to be alone than you. You like coupling of course because u were the one dishing out the harm
“They acting like it was somebody’s fault that they were coupled with some shitty partners and like if somebody held them hostages and FINALLY!!! Hallelujah!!! They left…and loving it! “
It most likely ur ex is saying hallelujah than you
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How did you come up with this shit?
My ex would run back to me in a heartbeat if I asked him back.
I left my shitty partner but I had NOT chosen to be ‘happy single’. You rumbling
I don't think single people really say anything until people in a relationship start bragging. It's like we get it, but no one cares about your relationship. If your relationship is so good why are you telling other people rather then enjoying it with the person you are with? It makes no sense. No one, not even people in a relationship give a shit about your personal relationship and sex life.
If you were right - it means that single people actually jealous of relationships those who has them.
Um....I think we single folks are happy just the way we are...happy
So who in the blue moon hell are we jealous of? And why us single folks need people? I'm happy to be out of relationships for once and for all. I'm adjusting to life as a free single man. And guess what. It feels wonderful.
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Wow! You were bragging not too long ago about ‘my lady’ and shit…
Now you are single and happy all of a sudden?
Whatever, I need Parents to stop pretending that having kids isn’t one of their biggest regrets
I am not a parent material so I had one and stopped and I had my mother who helped raising her and it’s the happy parenting story.
Having more than one and no parents to step in is a horror scenario for me. However some people are very parental.
I don't think single people really say anything until people in a relationship start bragging. It's like we get it, but no one cares about your relationship. If your relationship is so good why are you telling other people rather then enjoying it with the person you are with? It makes no sense. No one, not even people in a relationship give a shit about your personal relationship and sex life.
If you were right - it means that single people actually jealous of relationships those who has them.
Um....I think we single folks are happy just the way we are...happy
So who in the blue moon hell are we jealous of? And why us single folks need people? I'm happy to be out of relationships for once and for all. I'm adjusting to life as a free single man. And guess what. It feels wonderful.
Wow! You were bragging not too long ago about ‘my lady’ and shit…
Now you are single and happy all of a sudden?
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First of all good morning. Cus I know you in America on my eastern time. Secondly being single has its goods versus bads. You have freedom, you have all your space alone to yourself, no woman to nag me to death (about that nagging, if that's the case why not just move in with my mom) amongst other things I feel I couldn't do when I felt tied down. And lastly I can always get another lady to call 'my lady' if I so want another one.
Now with that out of the way it's good you got a partner, but for how long is the million dollar question. And because you got one and others may not doesn't give you the right to down single folks claiming their jealous.
90% of the time it's better to be single
but then, i like having someone scrub my back while bathing so 🤷♀🤷♀
I don't think single people really say anything until people in a relationship start bragging. It's like we get it, but no one cares about your relationship. If your relationship is so good why are you telling other people rather then enjoying it with the person you are with? It makes no sense. No one, not even people in a relationship give a shit about your personal relationship and sex life.
If you were right - it means that single people actually jealous of relationships those who has them.
Um....I think we single folks are happy just the way we are...happy
So who in the blue moon hell are we jealous of? And why us single folks need people? I'm happy to be out of relationships for once and for all. I'm adjusting to life as a free single man. And guess what. It feels wonderful.
Wow! You were bragging not too long ago about ‘my lady’ and shit…
Now you are single and happy all of a sudden?
First of all good morning. Cus I know you in America on my eastern time. Secondly being single has its goods versus bads. You have freedom, you have all your space alone to yourself, no woman to nag me to death (about that nagging, if that's the case why not just move in with my mom) amongst other things I feel I couldn't do when I felt tied down. And lastly I can always get another lady to call 'my lady' if I so want another one.
Now with that out of the way it's good you got a partner, but for how long is the million dollar question. And because you got one and others may not doesn't give you the right to down single folks claiming their jealous.
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Yes I do have rights to say whatever I want.
As you are…
When one comes and manifest that coupled people are coupled because they are NEEDY - I can say - JEALOUS!
Otherwise she would be happily single without making front page post about it.
I don't think single people really say anything until people in a relationship start bragging. It's like we get it, but no one cares about your relationship. If your relationship is so good why are you telling other people rather then enjoying it with the person you are with? It makes no sense. No one, not even people in a relationship give a shit about your personal relationship and sex life.
If you were right - it means that single people actually jealous of relationships those who has them.
Um....I think we single folks are happy just the way we are...happy
So who in the blue moon hell are we jealous of? And why us single folks need people? I'm happy to be out of relationships for once and for all. I'm adjusting to life as a free single man. And guess what. It feels wonderful.
Wow! You were bragging not too long ago about ‘my lady’ and shit…
Now you are single and happy all of a sudden?
First of all good morning. Cus I know you in America on my eastern time. Secondly being single has its goods versus bads. You have freedom, you have all your space alone to yourself, no woman to nag me to death (about that nagging, if that's the case why not just move in with my mom) amongst other things I feel I couldn't do when I felt tied down. And lastly I can always get another lady to call 'my lady' if I so want another one.
Now with that out of the way it's good you got a partner, but for how long is the million dollar question. And because you got one and others may not doesn't give you the right to down single folks claiming their jealous.
Yes I do have rights to say whatever I want.
As you are…
When one comes and manifest that coupled people are coupled because they are NEEDY - I can say - JEALOUS!
Otherwise she would be happily single without making front page post about it.
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Pretty ironic I don't remember posting that comment I was drunk as a skunk and still am. I probably l won't remember posting this when I'm sobered up. But all I got to say is, whatever
The idea of selling my beautiful flat to buy a house together with my boyfriend scares me somewhat. It would be like goodbye freedom, goodbye beautiful place!
What if the relationship doesn't last the long haul and I'll find myself "homeless", with my all my stuff in storage? Or having to kick him out of the house, but ending up with a mortgage I couldn't possibly afford on my own?
Sigh. I truly enjoyed living on my own (especially while I was married...got the best of two worlds, lol) but I would like a VERY committed and stable relationship now, and I couldn't see one without us living together.
I don't think single people really say anything until people in a relationship start bragging. It's like we get it, but no one cares about your relationship. If your relationship is so good why are you telling other people rather then enjoying it with the person you are with? It makes no sense. No one, not even people in a relationship give a shit about your personal relationship and sex life.
If you were right - it means that single people actually jealous of relationships those who has them.
I wouldn't say that. There are tons of single people. If we wanted to date, we would. It's not that dating is hard or impossible. It's the fact for some It's a worthless investment. People who are jealous of relationship tend to have many, and end up in prison because they can't get what they want. People who chose the single life aren't that.
You MUST Amit it was moronic to say: People who are jealous of relationship tend to have many, and end up in prison
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It's true though. They end up in and out of relationships more because of jealously, and end up potential harming others more because they can't get over it. That was the best part of my post imo.
The idea of selling my beautiful flat to buy a house together with my boyfriend scares me somewhat. It would be like goodbye freedom, goodbye beautiful place!
What if the relationship doesn't last the long haul and I'll find myself "homeless", with my all my stuff in storage? Or having to kick him out of the house, but ending up with a mortgage I couldn't possibly afford on my own?
Sigh. I truly enjoyed living on my own (especially while I was married...got the best of two worlds, lol) but I would like a VERY committed and stable relationship now, and I couldn't see one without us living together.
don’t ever ever sell. I know someone who did. Left her work to go to his area. Helped him in his business. He left her homeless two years later. Working grocery store now when she had a gov job
I think that there are a lot of people who are “content” with being single, maybe they know they are toxic in relationships or maybe it’s been so long that they’ve been with someone, or maybe they’ve never been with someone at all, etc. And since everyone knows how much a broken heart hurts - I can understand why anyone would want to avoid it. I do believe that the ultimate goal for everyone deep down is to love and be loved though. We want to experience unconditional love. As humans, we crave that elusive connection with another human being. Unfortunately as far as I can tell, romantic love is often quite conditional. Think about how often does it actually last “unconditionally”
Believing in unconditional love is a Cinderella story. I am for being realistic and realizing that hears can break. Love can fade. But none of it is a reason to be ALONE forever. Hearts can heal.
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Never been one for settling.
Not all people are meant to be in a relationship.
Agreed
if you always remember to go by this rule, you won’t find yourself in too many “shitty relationships” often:
i think many people who say they like being alone are actually just kinda worn out for the time being/tired of the BS....but if they met the right person, they’ll probably be more than happy to be part of a couple again.
I think that there are a lot of people who are “content” with being single, maybe they know they are toxic in relationships or maybe it’s been so long that they’ve been with someone, or maybe they’ve never been with someone at all, etc. And since everyone knows how much a broken heart hurts - I can understand why anyone would want to avoid it. I do believe that the ultimate goal for everyone deep down is to love and be loved though. We want to experience unconditional love. As humans, we crave that elusive connection with another human being. Unfortunately as far as I can tell, romantic love is often quite conditional. Think about how often does it actually last “unconditionally”
Believing in unconditional love is a Cinderella story. I am for being realistic and realizing that hears can break. Love can fade. But none of it is a reason to be ALONE forever. Hearts can heal.
Never been one for settling.
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Same. Do not settle. However realizing that unconditional love is a myth and not really necessary. It’s like perpetuum mobile - impossible!
if you always remember to go by this rule, you won’t find yourself in too many “shitty relationships” often:
i think many people who say they like being alone are actually just kinda worn out for the time being/tired of the BS....but if they met the right person, they’ll probably be more than happy to be part of a couple again.
No wonder that quote is unknown who would own up a to a spelling mistake and that word soup?
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You are such an ass 😂😂😂😂😂
Women are generally statistically to be happier single. Even a happy relationship has less of an impact on us.
Where is this coming from?
Women in loving sexual relationships living MUCH longer and looking much younger!
Try and see.
Women are generally statistically to be happier single. Even a happy relationship has less of an impact on us.
Where is this coming from?
Women in loving sexual relationships living MUCH longer and looking much younger!
Try and see.
Look into any stats on the subject. Men are highly affected by any relationship no matter the quality vs women are somewhat affected positively by a healthy relationship and highly negatively impacted by an unhealthy one.
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Link please 🤷♀️
if you always remember to go by this rule, you won’t find yourself in too many “shitty relationships” often:
i think many people who say they like being alone are actually just kinda worn out for the time being/tired of the BS....but if they met the right person, they’ll probably be more than happy to be part of a couple again.
No wonder that quote is unknown who would own up a to a spelling mistake and that word soup?
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i know, at first i was like wtf is that word but apparently the word “complement” actually exists. it’s not a spelling mistake lol it doesn’t have the same meaning as “compliment”.
if you always remember to go by this rule, you won’t find yourself in too many “shitty relationships” often:
i think many people who say they like being alone are actually just kinda worn out for the time being/tired of the BS....but if they met the right person, they’ll probably be more than happy to be part of a couple again.
No wonder that quote is unknown who would own up a to a spelling mistake and that word soup?
i know, at first i was like wtf is that word but apparently the word “complement” actually exists. it’s not a spelling mistake lol it doesn’t have the same meaning as “compliment”.
If we were both confused by it, it's not great. "Choose someone who makes your life better. If they do not stay single". To me it reads convoluted. Why do so many quotes have unnecessary bold type or CAPS these days?
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yeah so many strangely worded quotes out there.
one of the dumbest quotes i’ve ever seen in my life was this :
...no shit...lol
if you always remember to go by this rule, you won’t find yourself in too many “shitty relationships” often:
i think many people who say they like being alone are actually just kinda worn out for the time being/tired of the BS....but if they met the right person, they’ll probably be more than happy to be part of a couple again.
No wonder that quote is unknown who would own up a to a spelling mistake and that word soup?
i know, at first i was like wtf is that word but apparently the word “complement” actually exists. it’s not a spelling mistake lol it doesn’t have the same meaning as “compliment”.
If we were both confused by it, it's not great. "Choose someone who makes your life better. If they do not stay single". To me it reads convoluted. Why do so many quotes have unnecessary bold type or CAPS these days?
yeah so many strangely worded quotes out there.
one of the dumbest quotes i’ve ever seen in my life was this :
...no shit...lol
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One if my favorite dumb eye quotes is
Real eyes
Realize
Real lies
if you always remember to go by this rule, you won’t find yourself in too many “shitty relationships” often:
i think many people who say they like being alone are actually just kinda worn out for the time being/tired of the BS....but if they met the right person, they’ll probably be more than happy to be part of a couple again.
No wonder that quote is unknown who would own up a to a spelling mistake and that word soup?
i know, at first i was like wtf is that word but apparently the word “complement” actually exists. it’s not a spelling mistake lol it doesn’t have the same meaning as “compliment”.
If we were both confused by it, it's not great. "Choose someone who makes your life better. If they do not stay single". To me it reads convoluted. Why do so many quotes have unnecessary bold type or CAPS these days?
yeah so many strangely worded quotes out there.
one of the dumbest quotes i’ve ever seen in my life was this :
...no shit...lol
One if my favorite dumb eye quotes is
Real eyes
Realize
Real lies
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hell naww corny af lol 😂
Not all people are meant to be in a relationship.
ABSOLUTELY!
But IF you are single and calling couples ‘needy’ - THAN I am calling you out in your most likely jealousy and loneliness.
If you are enjoying yourself being single - you will never post how wonderful your life is and how stupid those needy people to need a partner!
This is what thread was about but as always - original idea went to shit and we talking about unrelated stuff which is totally ok as long as people have something to say…
if you always remember to go by this rule, you won’t find yourself in too many “shitty relationships” often:
i think many people who say they like being alone are actually just kinda worn out for the time being/tired of the BS....but if they met the right person, they’ll probably be more than happy to be part of a couple again.
No wonder that quote is unknown who would own up a to a spelling mistake and that word soup?
i know, at first i was like wtf is that word but apparently the word “complement” actually exists. it’s not a spelling mistake lol it doesn’t have the same meaning as “compliment”.
If we were both confused by it, it's not great. "Choose someone who makes your life better. If they do not stay single". To me it reads convoluted. Why do so many quotes have unnecessary bold type or CAPS these days?
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This is basically where my BF would go 🤌
😂😂😂
if you always remember to go by this rule, you won’t find yourself in too many “shitty relationships” often:
i think many people who say they like being alone are actually just kinda worn out for the time being/tired of the BS....but if they met the right person, they’ll probably be more than happy to be part of a couple again.
No wonder that quote is unknown who would own up a to a spelling mistake and that word soup?
i know, at first i was like wtf is that word but apparently the word “complement” actually exists. it’s not a spelling mistake lol it doesn’t have the same meaning as “compliment”.
If we were both confused by it, it's not great. "Choose someone who makes your life better. If they do not stay single". To me it reads convoluted. Why do so many quotes have unnecessary bold type or CAPS these days?
yeah so many strangely worded quotes out there.
one of the dumbest quotes i’ve ever seen in my life was this :
...no shit...lol
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It is a PARODY 🤌
A joke 🤌
Common! What’s the matter with you?
if you always remember to go by this rule, you won’t find yourself in too many “shitty relationships” often:
i think many people who say they like being alone are actually just kinda worn out for the time being/tired of the BS....but if they met the right person, they’ll probably be more than happy to be part of a couple again.
No wonder that quote is unknown who would own up a to a spelling mistake and that word soup?
i know, at first i was like wtf is that word but apparently the word “complement” actually exists. it’s not a spelling mistake lol it doesn’t have the same meaning as “compliment”.
If we were both confused by it, it's not great. "Choose someone who makes your life better. If they do not stay single". To me it reads convoluted. Why do so many quotes have unnecessary bold type or CAPS these days?
yeah so many strangely worded quotes out there.
one of the dumbest quotes i’ve ever seen in my life was this :
...no shit...lol
One if my favorite dumb eye quotes is
Real eyes
Realize
Real lies
"I see dumb people" is mine
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And the best part you don’t have to GO…anyWHERE!!! 🤌
I think that there are a lot of people who are “content” with being single, maybe they know they are toxic in relationships or maybe it’s been so long that they’ve been with someone, or maybe they’ve never been with someone at all, etc. And since everyone knows how much a broken heart hurts - I can understand why anyone would want to avoid it. I do believe that the ultimate goal for everyone deep down is to love and be loved though. We want to experience unconditional love. As humans, we crave that elusive connection with another human being. Unfortunately as far as I can tell, romantic love is often quite conditional. Think about how often does it actually last “unconditionally”
Believing in unconditional love is a Cinderella story. I am for being realistic and realizing that hears can break. Love can fade. But none of it is a reason to be ALONE forever. Hearts can heal.
Never been one for settling.
Same. Do not settle. However realizing that unconditional love is a myth and not really necessary. It’s like perpetuum mobile - impossible!
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You don’t have unconditional love for your child? Not surprising you see the world this way. The problem is inward.
I think that there are a lot of people who are “content” with being single, maybe they know they are toxic in relationships or maybe it’s been so long that they’ve been with someone, or maybe they’ve never been with someone at all, etc. And since everyone knows how much a broken heart hurts - I can understand why anyone would want to avoid it. I do believe that the ultimate goal for everyone deep down is to love and be loved though. We want to experience unconditional love. As humans, we crave that elusive connection with another human being. Unfortunately as far as I can tell, romantic love is often quite conditional. Think about how often does it actually last “unconditionally”
Believing in unconditional love is a Cinderella story. I am for being realistic and realizing that hears can break. Love can fade. But none of it is a reason to be ALONE forever. Hearts can heal.
Never been one for settling.
Same. Do not settle. However realizing that unconditional love is a myth and not really necessary. It’s like perpetuum mobile - impossible!
You don’t have unconditional love for your child? Not surprising you see the world this way. The problem is inward.
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Call me a cold hearted bitch but I do know when to stop and I do have conditions which can’t be broken and if she breaks them - she will be on her own.
I will die for her but I won’t let her to disrespect me, lie to me, be an asshole etc. I am wired this way. I don’t JUST love because I have you birth. That’s stupid! That’s why we have so many retards raised by blind and deaf parents without integrity…
I think that there are a lot of people who are “content” with being single, maybe they know they are toxic in relationships or maybe it’s been so long that they’ve been with someone, or maybe they’ve never been with someone at all, etc. And since everyone knows how much a broken heart hurts - I can understand why anyone would want to avoid it. I do believe that the ultimate goal for everyone deep down is to love and be loved though. We want to experience unconditional love. As humans, we crave that elusive connection with another human being. Unfortunately as far as I can tell, romantic love is often quite conditional. Think about how often does it actually last “unconditionally”
Believing in unconditional love is a Cinderella story. I am for being realistic and realizing that hears can break. Love can fade. But none of it is a reason to be ALONE forever. Hearts can heal.
Never been one for settling.
Same. Do not settle. However realizing that unconditional love is a myth and not really necessary. It’s like perpetuum mobile - impossible!
You don’t have unconditional love for your child? Not surprising you see the world this way. The problem is inward.
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right it seems she doesn’t get that you don’t stop loving them
Just because they miss behave. Yes you can set boundaries but you don’t stop loving them. But bad mothers who kill their children exist so💁
I think that there are a lot of people who are “content” with being single, maybe they know they are toxic in relationships or maybe it’s been so long that they’ve been with someone, or maybe they’ve never been with someone at all, etc. And since everyone knows how much a broken heart hurts - I can understand why anyone would want to avoid it. I do believe that the ultimate goal for everyone deep down is to love and be loved though. We want to experience unconditional love. As humans, we crave that elusive connection with another human being. Unfortunately as far as I can tell, romantic love is often quite conditional. Think about how often does it actually last “unconditionally”
Believing in unconditional love is a Cinderella story. I am for being realistic and realizing that hears can break. Love can fade. But none of it is a reason to be ALONE forever. Hearts can heal.
Never been one for settling.
Same. Do not settle. However realizing that unconditional love is a myth and not really necessary. It’s like perpetuum mobile - impossible!
You don’t have unconditional love for your child? Not surprising you see the world this way. The problem is inward.
right it seems she doesn’t get that you don’t stop loving them
Just because they miss behave. Yes you can set boundaries but you don’t stop loving them. But bad mothers who kill their children exist so💁
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You mistaking bad mothers for mentally ill people. And miss behaving like rape and murder is well…way beyond ‘mistake’ and ‘miss behaving’. So sitting in court whole family does what? Cheering murderer on? Or feeling sorry for them? Or because they still love them?
GTFO with your sappy BS!
This is why we are where we are with your liberal crying all forgiving humane killing of the killers!!!
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Have you noticed how people who left shitty relationship are manifesting single life as the only way to live since they obtained their freedom?
They acting like it was somebody’s fault that they were coupled with some shitty partners and like if somebody held them hostages and FINALLY!!! Hallelujah!!! They left…and loving it!
So for them being a couple now called being needy…
I just want to say that how about you try to live with somebody you actually LIKE or even LOVE (God forbid) and see how is THAT feels and STFU about how horrible living as a couple or family is…
I don’t remember us, couples saying that single life sucks because we HAVE life when you have empty space around you and shitload of time doing nothing but being so jealous so you must address couples as ‘needy’ which is MORONIC! because you WERE ‘needy’ just before you being dumped…remember?
You just choose wrong people!