What relationships do you consider taboo?

Personally speaking, what are the relationships you would never go into in your mind? Have you ever been tempted by someone you consider to be taboo and how did you handle it?

ones based on

sex
lies
manipulation
money

@xdimplez: I genuinely curious as to how we "share dominance." Yes, I'm skeptical because its become a cute catch phrase but rarely is practiced by either sex and is used to lure one another in...by what I've seen.

@Dimps: I see and I agree with what you say. That makes me even more curious, how would one know when to take the lead and relinquish control? We humans have a hard time giving up power especially when we've fought so hard to have it

Posted by xdimplez
i would never get into a relationship where the woman as seen as the homemaker and stays in the kitchen and the man is the bread winner.

I see where you are coming from here, I was bought up with a background culture that think like this and also studied in a religion that also had this way of thinking...

Definitely not for me and I steer clearly away from any person that holds this belief!

@@Dimps: why does it have to be about the power of wills? What purpose does that serve and even further where does it lead? Is not love "peaceful."

It's taboo for me to enter into a relationship with these grounds knowing that once the honeymoon period was over I would fight tooth and nail to go against them!

So the taboo is my personal take on it.

#stopbeingignorant😛

Kissing cousins, everyone has a crush on them 🙂

Posted by Metaphysical
ones based on

sex
lies
manipulation
money

+1

Posted by charliebears
Age
Race
Class

This.

Even religious beliefs. If they're different, can be taboo.

When a couple marries and breaks all these taboos...it kind of is a feeling that lifts the barriers. Kind of like the falling of the Berlin wall.

Exs, if it didn't work first time around, not much chance it will second time around (this is a new revelation)

Friends/families exs, would not stomp on real friends hearts like this and yes I have kept out of temptations way in previous times

Married Men, not even a consideration, they aren't available

races, there are some I couldn't even consider but moreso because of their upbringing and the y way they view woman and their roles

Age, always something I consider and judge to the person and their experiences, although this has tripped me up in recent years

It's not rare here in Australia or in NZ. And when my ex husband was out making his name in the world with his career, I was behind the scenes making his work easier and looking for the next opportunity.

IM THINKING BIGFOOT WEMON , UFO WOMEN, ANIMALS,
ALSO ANY OF THE SPICE GIRLS

I struggle with this topic. I'm 20 years older and I try and fight my feelings for a Leo that lives with me. we spend all our time together and we live a pretty nice life. it's something new for him and me. but honestly I think I struggle with the age difference more than he does.

Posted by geminiloveleo
I struggle with this topic. I'm 20 years older and I try and fight my feelings for a Leo that lives with me. we spend all our time together and we live a pretty nice life. it's something new for him and me. but honestly I think I struggle with the age difference more than he does.

They say age is nothing but a number but there is more to it than that..I know, every single guy that it interested in me is between 10-17 years younger and its always one of the first things on my mind. A previous relationship with a younger man proved that I blindly mistook him for being mature because it suited my needs..but in saying that, it was I that got hurt and learned from the relationship and there are no regrets there.

Short guy, tall girl. Equally short guy and girl. Little person dating an average size person. In the lgbt community, two butch women dating.

Posted by kalin
i don't know if there's any taboo in relationships anymore, nowadays people just go after what they want.

The question is your personal opinion.

Relatives, married people, exes of family and friends, animals of the nonhuman variety, inanimate objects (romantically speaking), dead people, mentally ill to the point of being incompetent people, elderly people, STDiseased people (HIV, herpes, nasty permanent stuff), people on death row or spending life in prison, people that already have 30 children with 25 different SOs, "Octomom", anyone that's into super cray kink like wanting to shove a pineapple up my ass, religious figures, teachers (as a student), working colleagues and/or my boss, underage people, anyone that has a swastika tattooed on their face or has ever belonged to a hate group, cultists, polygamists, alcoholics/drug addicts, drug traffickers, human traffickers, gangsters, pimps, Satanists, anyone that has ever participated in human sacrifice or demonic summoning rituals, Scientologists, clowns, sex offenders, child molesters, serial killers, anyone that has ever worked for the IRS, furries, Miley Cyrus, cannibals, porn stars, prostitutes, and anyone that claims to be a real life vampire or werewolf are all beyond my taboo limits. Pretty much everything else is fair game though.

So you choose to lower any standards you have because others have none? Interesting..

Also, those woman will get their own just deserve, he will eventually do the very same to them when he is bored.

TMV THERE IS NO ONE LEFT
YOU POOR HORNEY GUY

LOL

^^ LOL @ taters

Posted by charliebears
I thought he talks to George Clooney for murridge probz? 😛

LOL@ George Clooney.

George: "That's right, this is how you take care of the next woman. Romance her, then leave her.
That'll send her head spinning!"

Confused other man: But, but!!! what if she comes after me and chases me?

George: "Better get in practice first! Wrassle with an octopus and if you make it alive, youre set!"

Everything seems so funny today!(shakes fist at the mutables in the sky) sigh.

Posted by Sugarfoot
Relationships between people with a mental disability and those with no mental disability.

I know of a couple, the wife has down's, and the guy has no disability. I was like whaaaaaaaaat— No. No. No.

He is just so wrong to me. Smh.

omg

HAS ANYONE MENTIONED Q OR THE RAT?

Posted by sweethearts
Personally speaking, what are the relationships you would never go into in your mind? Have you ever been tempted by someone you consider to be taboo and how did you handle it?

1. Incest
2. Relationships that no family/friends approve of
3. Relations with an athlete, celebrity or politician (All you gotta do is watch the news & you'll know why I say this)
4. Relationships where abuse of any kind of likely to happen or is happening early on
5. Married men
6. Emotionally unavailable men
7. Men who are not 100% single for whatever reason
8. Men who have more than 4 kids but aren't married/committed to any of the mothers (Sends up a huge red flag)
9. The ex's of any of my friends/family
10. Any of my own ex boyfriends lol
11. Fugitives or jail birds

Posted by kalin
Also, no one ever gives shit to guys who chase over taken women. Why guys are entitled to get what they want, but not girls? I'm pretty sure plenty of girls were pursued by other men when they had a bf/hubby. If you were the girl, did you think those men showed interest are evil? Ha, I think most girls are just thrilled that other guys still want them. This world is basically full of double standards.

Those men are disrespectful in every way and I believe the reasons why these women (certain women) enjoy it is because usually they are not happy in their commitments. If they were truly happy they wouldn't accept advances from men. And the men too, like I said are disrespectful, because they're "preying" on women who are in this very vulnerable state. Maybe the woman is not a vulnerable person but rather she is a predator herself and doesn't care about the feelings of others.

We can even watch Dr. Phil shows and see why these women accept these double standards.

So many variables.

Posted by kalin
Sigh... my friend Kyle, his best friend in high school stole his high school sweetheart from him. They are happily married with kids now, but Kyle is still single. Kyle is in his early 30s now.

My friend Josh, his ex wife's co-worker was heavily pursing her when they were still married. She married her co-worker 6 months after their divorce. She's happily married with kids now. Josh was mad because she never wanted to have kids when they were married, and she was the one pushed him to marry her in the first place. (she said something like, if you don't marry me, we will have to break up, blah blah.)

I have never watched Dr. Phil. but if you have a video to share, that'd be awesome!

meh probably the high school sweetheart was already secretly in love with the other guy and just didnt tell your poor friend kyle. You know how that is. All the high school secret stuff going on. the best friend thing doesn't matter when you have a powerful love connection (in this case, LUST too) and you just want that person no matter what. Your poor Kyle buddy needs a hook up. What about yourself?

Oh my god on the 2nd scenerio. LOL could be loads of things. You know how it is. The woman didnt want to have children with that guy, something was wrong with him so therefore, the co worker just seemed the better "fit"....it happens. It maybe nothing was wrong with him, but to HER it's NOT enough.

wish i could recc you a dr. phil vid, but dont have one. Just mentioned it because it seems that most people need some lessons in understanding human relationships gone bad, and Dr. Phil seems to have a good insight on it for those who need help.

BLING MY MAN THEY ARE NO WORSE THAN THE 20 YEAR OLD BIRDS WHO HANG OUT IN PUBS IN THE MINI SKIRT WITH NO THONG AND GIVE THE BEVER SHOTS TO ONE AND ALL.

I'M GUESSING IT GETS THEM A FEW FREE DRINKS FROM YOUNG BLOKES.