Why is he so rude to me? (Page 2)

Posted by ayla13

Posted by Goodmorning
Bahahaha a Virgo being told they are not perfect. Quite karmic considering Virgos usually are supposed to be doing this to others.

Anywho I felt that he might be joking but if he isn't you know you should walk away.

normally he does joke with me a lot, but that time when he commented on my appearance implying I looked.terrible im pretty certain he wasn't joking, there was no smile no laughter like normal. click to expand

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Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by ayla13

Posted by pinkbird03
Lol ok now u gotta be the hottest ex he ever had. Make sure he follows u on Snapchat. Post sexy stories daily. Have fun torturing him!!

LOL I feel like he doesn't see me as the "hottest" in any regard lol. even though other guys do. but yeh I see your point 😅😂 click to expand

I don’t believe that one bit. He definitely thinks u are or he wouldn’t have invited u on this trip. And he definitely still has feelings for you, but he’s sabatoging all chances with u. Screw him. Make him regret his decisions. He doesn’t want u to be confident. So be 110% confident!!! It will drive him crazy. Have fun 😁 click to expand

thanks for the faith 😄. iv guess I just doubt it since he's always looking at instagam women lol and then sending me the links 🙄.

he's weird lol. he doesn't want me.to be confident, it's funny beca use normally I am pretty confident and I'm always telling him about other guys and how they hit on me, and hes always like forget them im better (apparently). click to expand

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Posted by ayla13

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by ayla13

Posted by pinkbird03
Lol ok now u gotta be the hottest ex he ever had. Make sure he follows u on Snapchat. Post sexy stories daily. Have fun torturing him!!

LOL I feel like he doesn't see me as the "hottest" in any regard lol. even though other guys do. but yeh I see your point 😅😂 click to expand

I don’t believe that one bit. He definitely thinks u are or he wouldn’t have invited u on this trip. And he definitely still has feelings for you, but he’s sabatoging all chances with u. Screw him. Make him regret his decisions. He doesn’t want u to be confident. So be 110% confident!!! It will drive him crazy. Have fun 😁 click to expand

thanks for the faith 😄. iv guess I just doubt it since he's always looking at instagam women lol and then sending me the links 🙄.

he's weird lol. he doesn't want me.to be confident, it's funny beca use normally I am pretty confident and I'm always telling him about other guys and how they hit on me, and hes always like forget them im better (apparently). click to expand

Do u think he sends u those links because u always tell him about how other guys hit on you? click to expand

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Posted by Confused_
jesus... drop him, this guy has some serious issues >

Posted by DMV
You'll talk to him again because he doesn't give into you. He makes it hard and there's a part of you that likes that.

Realize your part and then cut him off.

Posted by Gemitati
Ok. One question to OP.
Are you staying with him because of sex? Or you love to be humiliated?
Because if you have this sub in you - he might be your man!
Otherwise - reply to him explaining why and block right after so hle can’t woo you back!

Posted by ayla13

Posted by Gemitati
Ok. One question to OP.
Are you staying with him because of sex? Or you love to be humiliated?
Because if you have this sub in you - he might be your man!
Otherwise - reply to him explaining why and block right after so hle can’t woo you back!

we don't even do that, I'm waiting for marriage but I'm pretty sure hes frustrated to the max

I think it's because it's been years literally iv known him and we've had this thing, if it ws a few months I would have ditched.him by now. click to expand

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Posted by ayla13 what do you mean
he's the one who organised it all. and pretty much booked it without even asking me, when we got there towards the end though after all thr rude and mean comments he just said " you really don't know how to have a holiday do you" I have no idea why he said that but there we go. Maybe because of the lack of physical intimacy, or because we didn't go partying like he wanted, I think he wanted to have a wild few days, sex and partying lol and I suppose im more of a "good" girl. That's all I can think of I don't know why else he would have said that.

but then after insulting me when we were going home he said don't worry we're learning, since it's our first trip abroad as in to say we can do better next time. click to expand

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Posted by ayla13 what do you mean
he's the one who organised it all. and pretty much booked it without even asking me, when we got there towards the end though after all thr rude and mean comments he just said " you really don't know how to have a holiday do you" I have no idea why he said that but there we go. Maybe because of the lack of physical intimacy, or because we didn't go partying like he wanted, I think he wanted to have a wild few days, sex and partying lol and I suppose im more of a "good" girl. That's all I can think of I don't know why else he would have said that.

but then after insulting me when we were going home he said don't worry we're learning, since it's our first trip abroad as in to say we can do better next time. click to expand

If I could just play devils advocate...

If he said these things in a joking manner...they don’t really read as “mean” to me. Idk. How was the delievery? Was he smiling and teasing you?

Is it possible your being a tad bit sensitive? Have you told him after these incidents that it hurts your feelings? Staying silent and staying period means you are sending him the message that nothing is amiss. If that’s not the case time to speak up and speak out. Keep it 100.

From where I sit I see a dude who planned a vaca for his gf and was bummed she didn’t make an effort to enjoy it, and expressed that. click to expand

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by ayla13

Posted by Gemitati
Ok. One question to OP.
Are you staying with him because of sex? Or you love to be humiliated?
Because if you have this sub in you - he might be your man!
Otherwise - reply to him explaining why and block right after so hle can’t woo you back!

we don't even do that, I'm waiting for marriage but I'm pretty sure hes frustrated to the max

I think it's because it's been years literally iv known him and we've had this thing, if it ws a few months I would have ditched.him by now. click to expand

You are waiting for marriage?
OMG! I am so happy for you!
I am sure after you married Dxp will give you own forum where you will post how he went from verbal abuse to physical and how you can’t wait to have his first child so he can tell you that it’s not his becauaebits ugly like you...

You will make Dxp better!
G_d...👀 click to expand

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Posted by Fallen2Pisces

Posted by ayla13
The guy in question is a Leo and I'm a virgo, we both got scorpio moons. I'm starting to believe the stuff I read now on how incompatible they are. 🤔



We've been dating for about a year on and off. Sometimes he's ok, other times the things he does and says are questionable.



We went on holiday together, he organised the whole thing since prior to that I wasn't happy with him and was pretty much ignoring him for a month. He said let's start again and it can be a new chapter, so I agreed to go away with him.



Since we got back i've just been analysing and questioning why to put it mildly he's such a d**k



First day was good, we got on fine. Then he started doing and saying somethings which were out of order and pretty much made me not want to be there with him.

1. everywhere we went he would leave me trailing behind him trying to catch up, he would just walk and not even consider if im behind him or not. one time I lost him and spent about half an hour contemplating if I should go just end the day and go back to the hotel or carry on looking for him. Only for him to come out and say he's been watching me going up n down the whole time, much to his amusement. I didn't find that very funny.



2. We went to one of the hotel nights, he found a nerdy looking guy and said that guy is you. Why don't you go chat him up, he said it jokingly. when I said ok then I will he suddenly changed and said he doubts he would give you me a chance anyway since the women he's been dancing with are of a different level, implying im unattractive in comparison. 🤕😨



3. He also was sitting there all moody simply because I didn't have a drink with him at that bar



4. This was probably the worst one and put me in a bad mood all day to the point I didn't even want to dress up or anything, I was actually nearly in tears but I hid it.

We got up headed to breakfast at the hotel, granted I was too tired to make an effort like I do usually when I go out out.

so its a buffet breakfast where there's hundreds of people and he sat there making comment after comment about my appearance, to the point where I felt absolutely self conscious.

he's lik so I woke up today to find out you have a double chin 😨, how did you hide it so well all this time. im actually slim and people are constantly saying Iv got a good figure . he's like someone's been eating a bit too much.

I defended myself.and said you need to get.an eye test, he was like if only you could see yourself right now. ( implying how terrible I look).

I said I could always count on you for a compliment, he's like if there's anything to compliment I would. and by the way he never compliments me anyway, ever.



For me that was the icing on the cake and the rest of the holiday I just kept going through his scathing words and couldn't comprehend his rudeness.

I'm used to strangers and everyone I know always saying how beautiful I am and how pretty I am and the person I decide to spend most my time with keeps attacking my appearance. 😐



The reason I didn't go over all that with him is simply because I just wanted to appear tough as if it didnt bother me. but really it's the opposite.



Oh yeh and another thing, on the journey home he ws driving me in his car and he started making jokes about how people look in my area and I threw a scrunched up piece of paper at him in a playful way, he then switched and very aggressively threw it back and told me to pick it up, pick it up now. when I did he said good you're learning how to be disciplined.



I'm always nice to him but his level of disrespect is just getting to me now but at the same time I don't want to act like it got to me so instead ill just end up avoiding him. SINCE we got back he's been messaging me n iv not replied.



What do you guys think

man i always seen leos be the biggest dicks to the sweet lullaby virgal...ditch that dweeb and fish for a pisces.. click to expand

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Posted by ayla13

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by ayla13

Posted by Gemitati
Ok. One question to OP.
Are you staying with him because of sex? Or you love to be humiliated?
Because if you have this sub in you - he might be your man!
Otherwise - reply to him explaining why and block right after so hle can’t woo you back!

we don't even do that, I'm waiting for marriage but I'm pretty sure hes frustrated to the max

I think it's because it's been years literally iv known him and we've had this thing, if it ws a few months I would have ditched.him by now. click to expand

You are waiting for marriage?
OMG! I am so happy for you!
I am sure after you married Dxp will give you own forum where you will post how he went from verbal abuse to physical and how you can’t wait to have his first child so he can tell you that it’s not his becauaebits ugly like you...

You will make Dxp better!
G_d...👀 click to expand

nooooo you misunderstood me, I'm waiting for marriage to sleep with someone, not saying im waiting for him. im just confused now, as the off few people are saying it's not.abuse but a vast majority are saying they are signs. its just weird to think of this guy as an abuser someome whom iv been seeing for years and way before then we were friends for yesrs too click to expand

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Posted by Fallen2Pisces

Posted by ayla13

Posted by Fallen2Pisces

Posted by ayla13
The guy in question is a Leo and I'm a virgo, we both got scorpio moons. I'm starting to believe the stuff I read now on how incompatible they are. 🤔



We've been dating for about a year on and off. Sometimes he's ok, other times the things he does and says are questionable.



We went on holiday together, he organised the whole thing since prior to that I wasn't happy with him and was pretty much ignoring him for a month. He said let's start again and it can be a new chapter, so I agreed to go away with him.



Since we got back i've just been analysing and questioning why to put it mildly he's such a d**k



First day was good, we got on fine. Then he started doing and saying somethings which were out of order and pretty much made me not want to be there with him.

1. everywhere we went he would leave me trailing behind him trying to catch up, he would just walk and not even consider if im behind him or not. one time I lost him and spent about half an hour contemplating if I should go just end the day and go back to the hotel or carry on looking for him. Only for him to come out and say he's been watching me going up n down the whole time, much to his amusement. I didn't find that very funny.



2. We went to one of the hotel nights, he found a nerdy looking guy and said that guy is you. Why don't you go chat him up, he said it jokingly. when I said ok then I will he suddenly changed and said he doubts he would give you me a chance anyway since the women he's been dancing with are of a different level, implying im unattractive in comparison. 🤕😨



3. He also was sitting there all moody simply because I didn't have a drink with him at that bar



4. This was probably the worst one and put me in a bad mood all day to the point I didn't even want to dress up or anything, I was actually nearly in tears but I hid it.

We got up headed to breakfast at the hotel, granted I was too tired to make an effort like I do usually when I go out out.

so its a buffet breakfast where there's hundreds of people and he sat there making comment after comment about my appearance, to the point where I felt absolutely self conscious.

he's lik so I woke up today to find out you have a double chin 😨, how did you hide it so well all this time. im actually slim and people are constantly saying Iv got a good figure . he's like someone's been eating a bit too much.

I defended myself.and said you need to get.an eye test, he was like if only you could see yourself right now. ( implying how terrible I look).

I said I could always count on you for a compliment, he's like if there's anything to compliment I would. and by the way he never compliments me anyway, ever.



For me that was the icing on the cake and the rest of the holiday I just kept going through his scathing words and couldn't comprehend his rudeness.

I'm used to strangers and everyone I know always saying how beautiful I am and how pretty I am and the person I decide to spend most my time with keeps attacking my appearance. 😐



The reason I didn't go over all that with him is simply because I just wanted to appear tough as if it didnt bother me. but really it's the opposite.



Oh yeh and another thing, on the journey home he ws driving me in his car and he started making jokes about how people look in my area and I threw a scrunched up piece of paper at him in a playful way, he then switched and very aggressively threw it back and told me to pick it up, pick it up now. when I did he said good you're learning how to be disciplined.



I'm always nice to him but his level of disrespect is just getting to me now but at the same time I don't want to act like it got to me so instead ill just end up avoiding him. SINCE we got back he's been messaging me n iv not replied.



What do you guys think

man i always seen leos be the biggest dicks to the sweet lullaby virgal...ditch that dweeb and fish for a pisces.. click to expand

lol are they. makes.sense since he wasn't a dick to his other women who were both cancers lol. click to expand

usually when theyre being dicks to u its cuz they got some1 else on they mind they tryna dick. if you can't tame the lion best believe his bich ass will roam.. click to expand

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by ayla13

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by ayla13

Posted by Gemitati
Ok. One question to OP.
Are you staying with him because of sex? Or you love to be humiliated?
Because if you have this sub in you - he might be your man!
Otherwise - reply to him explaining why and block right after so hle can’t woo you back!

we don't even do that, I'm waiting for marriage but I'm pretty sure hes frustrated to the max

I think it's because it's been years literally iv known him and we've had this thing, if it ws a few months I would have ditched.him by now. click to expand

You are waiting for marriage?
OMG! I am so happy for you!
I am sure after you married Dxp will give you own forum where you will post how he went from verbal abuse to physical and how you can’t wait to have his first child so he can tell you that it’s not his becauaebits ugly like you...

You will make Dxp better!
G_d...👀 click to expand

nooooo you misunderstood me, I'm waiting for marriage to sleep with someone, not saying im waiting for him. im just confused now, as the off few people are saying it's not.abuse but a vast majority are saying they are signs. its just weird to think of this guy as an abuser someome whom iv been seeing for years and way before then we were friends for yesrs too click to expand

Honey! Darling! Dear love! He IS an abuser and bad news!!!
Do what I said. Write everything you feel to him. Sent and block immediately!
At least he will know! He will never change. He is a sociopath! You are his prey! And I am sure 100% he always been an ass but those kinds can behave until you are trapped.
And now when you feel for him - he is coming out of his shell!
Don’t let him!
Good luck! click to expand

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Posted by Toti
How old are you?

Posted by ayla13

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by ayla13

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by ayla13

Posted by pinkbird03
Lol ok now u gotta be the hottest ex he ever had. Make sure he follows u on Snapchat. Post sexy stories daily. Have fun torturing him!!

LOL I feel like he doesn't see me as the "hottest" in any regard lol. even though other guys do. but yeh I see your point 😅😂 click to expand

I don’t believe that one bit. He definitely thinks u are or he wouldn’t have invited u on this trip. And he definitely still has feelings for you, but he’s sabatoging all chances with u. Screw him. Make him regret his decisions. He doesn’t want u to be confident. So be 110% confident!!! It will drive him crazy. Have fun 😁 click to expand

thanks for the faith 😄. iv guess I just doubt it since he's always looking at instagam women lol and then sending me the links 🙄.

he's weird lol. he doesn't want me.to be confident, it's funny beca use normally I am pretty confident and I'm always telling him about other guys and how they hit on me, and hes always like forget them im better (apparently). click to expand

Do u think he sends u those links because u always tell him about how other guys hit on you? click to expand

I literally have no idea, but I think even before I told him about other guys he was a pervert on instagram, I think the reason I started telling him about those guys was because I knew he was always checking out women on insta. who knows what else.

because of how he behaved on holiday as I mentioned earlier I havnt bothered to initiate.conversatiom with him only he has, and ome of the things he decides to send me is thr.video link of the.woman, not exactly great considering im already not happy with.him click to expand

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Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by ayla13

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by ayla13

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by ayla13

Posted by pinkbird03
Lol ok now u gotta be the hottest ex he ever had. Make sure he follows u on Snapchat. Post sexy stories daily. Have fun torturing him!!

LOL I feel like he doesn't see me as the "hottest" in any regard lol. even though other guys do. but yeh I see your point 😅😂 click to expand

I don’t believe that one bit. He definitely thinks u are or he wouldn’t have invited u on this trip. And he definitely still has feelings for you, but he’s sabatoging all chances with u. Screw him. Make him regret his decisions. He doesn’t want u to be confident. So be 110% confident!!! It will drive him crazy. Have fun 😁 click to expand

thanks for the faith 😄. iv guess I just doubt it since he's always looking at instagam women lol and then sending me the links 🙄.

he's weird lol. he doesn't want me.to be confident, it's funny beca use normally I am pretty confident and I'm always telling him about other guys and how they hit on me, and hes always like forget them im better (apparently). click to expand

Do u think he sends u those links because u always tell him about how other guys hit on you? click to expand

I literally have no idea, but I think even before I told him about other guys he was a pervert on instagram, I think the reason I started telling him about those guys was because I knew he was always checking out women on insta. who knows what else.

because of how he behaved on holiday as I mentioned earlier I havnt bothered to initiate.conversatiom with him only he has, and ome of the things he decides to send me is thr.video link of the.woman, not exactly great considering im already not happy with.him click to expand

Get dressed up right now. Do ur hair, makeup, find a cute/sexy outfit, take a great photo, and post this. Do it every day from now on. Make him go crazy. Its time to play mind games with him. click to expand

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Posted by Toti

Posted by ayla13

Posted by Toti
How old are you?

mid twenties. he's gnna be 30 click to expand

Then you should know well that what he is exposing are red flags. He is an abusive person and there are no excuses for it. No sexual frustration can justify it. He isn't having weird sense of humour either.
You are way too young to collapse in toxic relationship. I'm a bit older than you with eight years of abusive marriage experience. Leave now. I know how you feel. I felt same confusion and despite all the advices against, I followed my heart. You deserve a man who will make you feel good about yourself, who would support and understand you, who will bring the best out of you. No amount of your love will change him. Repeat that to yourself. All the best! click to expand

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Posted by Fallen2Pisces

Posted by ayla13

Posted by Fallen2Pisces

Posted by ayla13

Posted by Fallen2Pisces

Posted by ayla13
The guy in question is a Leo and I'm a virgo, we both got scorpio moons. I'm starting to believe the stuff I read now on how incompatible they are. 🤔



We've been dating for about a year on and off. Sometimes he's ok, other times the things he does and says are questionable.



We went on holiday together, he organised the whole thing since prior to that I wasn't happy with him and was pretty much ignoring him for a month. He said let's start again and it can be a new chapter, so I agreed to go away with him.



Since we got back i've just been analysing and questioning why to put it mildly he's such a d**k



First day was good, we got on fine. Then he started doing and saying somethings which were out of order and pretty much made me not want to be there with him.

1. everywhere we went he would leave me trailing behind him trying to catch up, he would just walk and not even consider if im behind him or not. one time I lost him and spent about half an hour contemplating if I should go just end the day and go back to the hotel or carry on looking for him. Only for him to come out and say he's been watching me going up n down the whole time, much to his amusement. I didn't find that very funny.



2. We went to one of the hotel nights, he found a nerdy looking guy and said that guy is you. Why don't you go chat him up, he said it jokingly. when I said ok then I will he suddenly changed and said he doubts he would give you me a chance anyway since the women he's been dancing with are of a different level, implying im unattractive in comparison. 🤕😨



3. He also was sitting there all moody simply because I didn't have a drink with him at that bar



4. This was probably the worst one and put me in a bad mood all day to the point I didn't even want to dress up or anything, I was actually nearly in tears but I hid it.

We got up headed to breakfast at the hotel, granted I was too tired to make an effort like I do usually when I go out out.

so its a buffet breakfast where there's hundreds of people and he sat there making comment after comment about my appearance, to the point where I felt absolutely self conscious.

he's lik so I woke up today to find out you have a double chin 😨, how did you hide it so well all this time. im actually slim and people are constantly saying Iv got a good figure . he's like someone's been eating a bit too much.

I defended myself.and said you need to get.an eye test, he was like if only you could see yourself right now. ( implying how terrible I look).

I said I could always count on you for a compliment, he's like if there's anything to compliment I would. and by the way he never compliments me anyway, ever.



For me that was the icing on the cake and the rest of the holiday I just kept going through his scathing words and couldn't comprehend his rudeness.

I'm used to strangers and everyone I know always saying how beautiful I am and how pretty I am and the person I decide to spend most my time with keeps attacking my appearance. 😐



The reason I didn't go over all that with him is simply because I just wanted to appear tough as if it didnt bother me. but really it's the opposite.



Oh yeh and another thing, on the journey home he ws driving me in his car and he started making jokes about how people look in my area and I threw a scrunched up piece of paper at him in a playful way, he then switched and very aggressively threw it back and told me to pick it up, pick it up now. when I did he said good you're learning how to be disciplined.



I'm always nice to him but his level of disrespect is just getting to me now but at the same time I don't want to act like it got to me so instead ill just end up avoiding him. SINCE we got back he's been messaging me n iv not replied.



What do you guys think

man i always seen leos be the biggest dicks to the sweet lullaby virgal...ditch that dweeb and fish for a pisces.. click to expand

lol are they. makes.sense since he wasn't a dick to his other women who were both cancers lol. click to expand

usually when theyre being dicks to u its cuz they got some1 else on they mind they tryna dick. if you can't tame the lion best believe his bich ass will roam.. click to expand

Well he's always watching porn and checking out.women's pics and videos on instagram so it wouldn't surprise me.

but at the same time he clearly wanted some action from me since he brought tonnes of protection. but nothing happened so it was pointless anyway click to expand

you need to leave that abusive, disrespectful dweeb, HE IS NOT RIGHT FOR YOU! click to expand

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Posted by PinsNNeedles
Just be like:

"Listen booboo... If you can't enjoy all this, I will alone."

And that's it. And live up to it. =D

Posted by SpaceBird

Posted by ayla13

Posted by SpaceBird
Self entitled over pampered twat? Family molly coddled him?

People who have very easy first years etc ...tend to have this thing the world owes them something and they are better than everyone else.

he has a lot of younger brothers and sisters whom he had to look after.
I don't know how his childhood was maybe you're right.

thjng is im the only one he's like that with. self entitled. not with his friends or his other exes. I know people might think he's also like that with them but it's not the case.

with them it was like "oh I love you so much can't wait to hold you" and all the like click to expand

He doesn't love you. click to expand

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Posted by Fallen2Pisces

Posted by ayla13

Posted by Fallen2Pisces

Posted by ayla13

Posted by Fallen2Pisces

Posted by ayla13

Posted by Fallen2Pisces

Posted by ayla13
The guy in question is a Leo and I'm a virgo, we both got scorpio moons. I'm starting to believe the stuff I read now on how incompatible they are. 🤔



We've been dating for about a year on and off. Sometimes he's ok, other times the things he does and says are questionable.



We went on holiday together, he organised the whole thing since prior to that I wasn't happy with him and was pretty much ignoring him for a month. He said let's start again and it can be a new chapter, so I agreed to go away with him.



Since we got back i've just been analysing and questioning why to put it mildly he's such a d**k



First day was good, we got on fine. Then he started doing and saying somethings which were out of order and pretty much made me not want to be there with him.

1. everywhere we went he would leave me trailing behind him trying to catch up, he would just walk and not even consider if im behind him or not. one time I lost him and spent about half an hour contemplating if I should go just end the day and go back to the hotel or carry on looking for him. Only for him to come out and say he's been watching me going up n down the whole time, much to his amusement. I didn't find that very funny.



2. We went to one of the hotel nights, he found a nerdy looking guy and said that guy is you. Why don't you go chat him up, he said it jokingly. when I said ok then I will he suddenly changed and said he doubts he would give you me a chance anyway since the women he's been dancing with are of a different level, implying im unattractive in comparison. 🤕😨



3. He also was sitting there all moody simply because I didn't have a drink with him at that bar



4. This was probably the worst one and put me in a bad mood all day to the point I didn't even want to dress up or anything, I was actually nearly in tears but I hid it.

We got up headed to breakfast at the hotel, granted I was too tired to make an effort like I do usually when I go out out.

so its a buffet breakfast where there's hundreds of people and he sat there making comment after comment about my appearance, to the point where I felt absolutely self conscious.

he's lik so I woke up today to find out you have a double chin 😨, how did you hide it so well all this time. im actually slim and people are constantly saying Iv got a good figure . he's like someone's been eating a bit too much.

I defended myself.and said you need to get.an eye test, he was like if only you could see yourself right now. ( implying how terrible I look).

I said I could always count on you for a compliment, he's like if there's anything to compliment I would. and by the way he never compliments me anyway, ever.



For me that was the icing on the cake and the rest of the holiday I just kept going through his scathing words and couldn't comprehend his rudeness.

I'm used to strangers and everyone I know always saying how beautiful I am and how pretty I am and the person I decide to spend most my time with keeps attacking my appearance. 😐



The reason I didn't go over all that with him is simply because I just wanted to appear tough as if it didnt bother me. but really it's the opposite.



Oh yeh and another thing, on the journey home he ws driving me in his car and he started making jokes about how people look in my area and I threw a scrunched up piece of paper at him in a playful way, he then switched and very aggressively threw it back and told me to pick it up, pick it up now. when I did he said good you're learning how to be disciplined.



I'm always nice to him but his level of disrespect is just getting to me now but at the same time I don't want to act like it got to me so instead ill just end up avoiding him. SINCE we got back he's been messaging me n iv not replied.



What do you guys think

man i always seen leos be the biggest dicks to the sweet lullaby virgal...ditch that dweeb and fish for a pisces.. click to expand

lol are they. makes.sense since he wasn't a dick to his other women who were both cancers lol. click to expand

usually when theyre being dicks to u its cuz they got some1 else on they mind they tryna dick. if you can't tame the lion best believe his bich ass will roam.. click to expand

Well he's always watching porn and checking out.women's pics and videos on instagram so it wouldn't surprise me.

but at the same time he clearly wanted some action from me since he brought tonnes of protection. but nothing happened so it was pointless anyway click to expand

you need to leave that abusive, disrespectful dweeb, HE IS NOT RIGHT FOR YOU! click to expand

so far we havn't spoken in 11 days and counting. he messaged a couple of times a week ago but I wasnt particularly responsive, plus I started talking about.some.other guys, well after he sent me a video of some woman with her cleavage out *rolls eyes* but yeh since then nothing click to expand

ohhhh this is the abusive, rude, incompetent leo..yea why are you still with him? lol...poor virgals i always see em as a victim to the lion;s poor hygenic comedic ways....once he started his dispicable ways you shouldve been threw away this trash..yall women love the marker and cry bout it like woe is me... they only capture you from the start cuz they are good at capturing their prey, but once they bored of you, treat you like butter! click to expand

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Posted by ayla13

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Posted by ayla13
The guy in question is a Leo and I'm a virgo, we both got scorpio moons. I'm starting to believe the stuff I read now on how incompatible they are. 🤔



We've been dating for about a year on and off. Sometimes he's ok, other times the things he does and says are questionable.



We went on holiday together, he organised the whole thing since prior to that I wasn't happy with him and was pretty much ignoring him for a month. He said let's start again and it can be a new chapter, so I agreed to go away with him.



Since we got back i've just been analysing and questioning why to put it mildly he's such a d**k



First day was good, we got on fine. Then he started doing and saying somethings which were out of order and pretty much made me not want to be there with him.

1. everywhere we went he would leave me trailing behind him trying to catch up, he would just walk and not even consider if im behind him or not. one time I lost him and spent about half an hour contemplating if I should go just end the day and go back to the hotel or carry on looking for him. Only for him to come out and say he's been watching me going up n down the whole time, much to his amusement. I didn't find that very funny.



2. We went to one of the hotel nights, he found a nerdy looking guy and said that guy is you. Why don't you go chat him up, he said it jokingly. when I said ok then I will he suddenly changed and said he doubts he would give you me a chance anyway since the women he's been dancing with are of a different level, implying im unattractive in comparison. 🤕😨



3. He also was sitting there all moody simply because I didn't have a drink with him at that bar



4. This was probably the worst one and put me in a bad mood all day to the point I didn't even want to dress up or anything, I was actually nearly in tears but I hid it.

We got up headed to breakfast at the hotel, granted I was too tired to make an effort like I do usually when I go out out.

so its a buffet breakfast where there's hundreds of people and he sat there making comment after comment about my appearance, to the point where I felt absolutely self conscious.

he's lik so I woke up today to find out you have a double chin 😨, how did you hide it so well all this time. im actually slim and people are constantly saying Iv got a good figure . he's like someone's been eating a bit too much.

I defended myself.and said you need to get.an eye test, he was like if only you could see yourself right now. ( implying how terrible I look).

I said I could always count on you for a compliment, he's like if there's anything to compliment I would. and by the way he never compliments me anyway, ever.



For me that was the icing on the cake and the rest of the holiday I just kept going through his scathing words and couldn't comprehend his rudeness.

I'm used to strangers and everyone I know always saying how beautiful I am and how pretty I am and the person I decide to spend most my time with keeps attacking my appearance. 😐



The reason I didn't go over all that with him is simply because I just wanted to appear tough as if it didnt bother me. but really it's the opposite.



Oh yeh and another thing, on the journey home he ws driving me in his car and he started making jokes about how people look in my area and I threw a scrunched up piece of paper at him in a playful way, he then switched and very aggressively threw it back and told me to pick it up, pick it up now. when I did he said good you're learning how to be disciplined.



I'm always nice to him but his level of disrespect is just getting to me now but at the same time I don't want to act like it got to me so instead ill just end up avoiding him. SINCE we got back he's been messaging me n iv not replied.



What do you guys think

man i always seen leos be the biggest dicks to the sweet lullaby virgal...ditch that dweeb and fish for a pisces.. click to expand

lol are they. makes.sense since he wasn't a dick to his other women who were both cancers lol. click to expand

usually when theyre being dicks to u its cuz they got some1 else on they mind they tryna dick. if you can't tame the lion best believe his bich ass will roam.. click to expand

Well he's always watching porn and checking out.women's pics and videos on instagram so it wouldn't surprise me.

but at the same time he clearly wanted some action from me since he brought tonnes of protection. but nothing happened so it was pointless anyway click to expand

you need to leave that abusive, disrespectful dweeb, HE IS NOT RIGHT FOR YOU! click to expand

so far we havn't spoken in 11 days and counting. he messaged a couple of times a week ago but I wasnt particularly responsive, plus I started talking about.some.other guys, well after he sent me a video of some woman with her cleavage out *rolls eyes* but yeh since then nothing click to expand

yea yo 4get bout that fool and lets go see deadpool click to expand

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Posted by Endless
Sun square Moon is a very difficult aspect, you either meditate and learn to live with it, or don't and become an unstable emotional trainwreck, guess what he is now, ofc you have a Sun sextile moon, so mind you, you're harmony, he's chaos, and you thought you could make that butter work out. I say RUN!! otherwise he will suck your happiness away.

Posted by Arielle83
He’s rude because you had no boundaries on how you let him treat you.

He pushed to see what he could get away with.

Some ppl don’t give a treetrunk.