Wiaitng until marriage...

Obviously I have NO expierence with this subject...but im curious if anyone here has waited until marriage to have intercourse.

I want to know how it went? If you could go back would you still wait? Ever wish you had expierences with other people?

Just your story in general...i dont need super intimate details.

Please state your sun and venus sign.

I will be damned before I have mediocre sex for the rest of my life.

I am going to test drive that D, to make sure it works first.

Posted by nikkistar

I will be damned before I have mediocre sex for the rest of my life.

I am going to test drive that D, to make sure it works first.

Thats my belief on it also...but ive been watching the show "counting on" and im just so curious how these peoples first sexual expierence went as a married couple. Like are they really staisfied? I guess if you have nothing to compare it to, then you dont know what you are missing?🤷‍♀️

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Posted by nikkistar

I will be damned before I have mediocre sex for the rest of my life.

I am going to test drive that D, to make sure it works first.

Thats my belief on it also...but ive been watching the show "counting on" and im just so curious how these peoples first sexual expierence went as a married couple. Like are they really staisfied? I guess if you have nothing to compare it to, then you dont know what you are missing?🤷‍♀️

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My best friend is waiting until marriage, and will likely want a girl that is as well. So I guess they can learn together. i am not knocking it for others who have religious beliefs from doing so.

Every first time is awkward, regardless of gender. I guess the upside to both parties waiting, would be both sharing that awkwardness together, and learning what each other likes together.

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Boots1313

Posted by nikkistar

I will be damned before I have mediocre sex for the rest of my life.

I am going to test drive that D, to make sure it works first.

Thats my belief on it also...but ive been watching the show "counting on" and im just so curious how these peoples first sexual expierence went as a married couple. Like are they really staisfied? I guess if you have nothing to compare it to, then you dont know what you are missing?🤷‍♀️

My best friend is waiting until marriage, and will likely want a girl that is as well. So I guess they can learn together. i am not knocking it for others who have religious beliefs from doing so.

Every first time is awkward, regardless of gender. I guess the upside to both parties waiting, would be both sharing that awkwardness together, and learning what each other likes together.

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Yes, that is definitely a pro. I just cant help but wonder if those people get antsy to try others. Like what if the dude has a mirco penis? Or the woman is super tight/loose,

Or they just really aren't sexually compatible?!

Also even if you sont wait until marriage, if you love the person you still learn with them and grow sexually with them. Part of being compatible and having a loving partner.

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Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Boots1313

Posted by nikkistar

I will be damned before I have mediocre sex for the rest of my life.

I am going to test drive that D, to make sure it works first.

Thats my belief on it also...but ive been watching the show "counting on" and im just so curious how these peoples first sexual expierence went as a married couple. Like are they really staisfied? I guess if you have nothing to compare it to, then you dont know what you are missing?🤷‍♀️

My best friend is waiting until marriage, and will likely want a girl that is as well. So I guess they can learn together. i am not knocking it for others who have religious beliefs from doing so.

Every first time is awkward, regardless of gender. I guess the upside to both parties waiting, would be both sharing that awkwardness together, and learning what each other likes together.

Yes, that is definitely a pro. I just cant help but wonder if those people get antsy to try others. Like what if the dude has a mirco penis? Or the woman is super tight/loose,

Or they just really aren't sexually compatible?!

Also even if you sont wait until marriage, if you love the person you still learn with them and grow sexually with them. Part of being conpatible ans having a loving partner.

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I mean, for those that usually wait for marriage, I would probably say that sex isn't really a priority, so it may not really factor as a make or break for them.

There are a lot of folks out there that aren't hyper sexual people, that rely more on emotional and intellectual compatibility then physical. Hell there are people that don't like sex at all.

I just know for me, I like sex. I like good sex. I like orgasms. So therefore, I can't marry anyone that can't give me a good dick down. lol

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Boots1313

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Boots1313

Posted by nikkistar

I will be damned before I have mediocre sex for the rest of my life.

I am going to test drive that D, to make sure it works first.

Thats my belief on it also...but ive been watching the show "counting on" and im just so curious how these peoples first sexual expierence went as a married couple. Like are they really staisfied? I guess if you have nothing to compare it to, then you dont know what you are missing?🤷‍♀️

My best friend is waiting until marriage, and will likely want a girl that is as well. So I guess they can learn together. i am not knocking it for others who have religious beliefs from doing so.

Every first time is awkward, regardless of gender. I guess the upside to both parties waiting, would be both sharing that awkwardness together, and learning what each other likes together.

Yes, that is definitely a pro. I just cant help but wonder if those people get antsy to try others. Like what if the dude has a mirco penis? Or the woman is super tight/loose,

Or they just really aren't sexually compatible?!

Also even if you sont wait until marriage, if you love the person you still learn with them and grow sexually with them. Part of being conpatible ans having a loving partner.

I mean, for those that usually wait for marriage, I would probably say that sex isn't really a priority, so it may not really factor as a make or break for them.

There are a lot of folks out there that aren't hyper sexual people, that rely more on emotional and intellectual compatibility then physical. Hell there are people that don't like sex at all.

I just know for me, I like sex. I like good sex. I like orgasms. So therefore, I can't marry anyone that can't give me a good dick down. lol

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That is all very true.

I like the whole package.

Intellectual, physical and emotional stimulation.

All top priority to me.

Posted by nikkistar

I will be damned before I have mediocre sex for the rest of my life.

I am going to test drive that D, to make sure it works first.

My spirit animal 🦓😂

I was actually waiting for marriage

Until I met my now husband...I guess it worked out since we eventually did marry lol

Posted by brianafay

I was actually waiting for marriage

Until I met my now husband...I guess it worked out since we eventually did marry lol

What were your original reasons and how did he sway you? Do u think it would have been different if you did wait?

You said "eventually" married...did you have to wait awhile for marriage? Do you think it would have been a faster marriage if you withheld?

Posted by Boots1313

Posted by brianafay

I was actually waiting for marriage

Until I met my now husband...I guess it worked out since we eventually did marry lol

What were your original reasons and how did he sway you? Do u think it would have been different if you did wait?

You said "eventually" married...did you have to wait awhile for marriage? Do you think it would have been a faster marriage if you withheld?

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It was religious reasons...I was very involved in church and was a youth leader

It was classic bad boy-good girl attraction. He didn’t really have to convince me, I just hopped right on that pole 😂

And nah we waited so long to marry for lots of other reasons...

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Posted by Boots1313

Posted by brianafay

I was actually waiting for marriage

Until I met my now husband...I guess it worked out since we eventually did marry lol

What were your original reasons and how did he sway you? Do u think it would have been different if you did wait?

You said "eventually" married...did you have to wait awhile for marriage? Do you think it would have been a faster marriage if you withheld?

It was religious reasons...I was very involved in church and was a youth leader

It was classic bad boy-good girl attraction. He didn’t really have to convince me, I just hopped right on that pole 😂

And nah we waited so long to marry for lots of other reasons...

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Interesting lol.

Would you say you are still religious?

(If thats too personal sorry)

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Posted by Boots1313

Posted by brianafay

I was actually waiting for marriage

Until I met my now husband...I guess it worked out since we eventually did marry lol

What were your original reasons and how did he sway you? Do u think it would have been different if you did wait?

You said "eventually" married...did you have to wait awhile for marriage? Do you think it would have been a faster marriage if you withheld?

It was religious reasons...I was very involved in church and was a youth leader

It was classic bad boy-good girl attraction. He didn’t really have to convince me, I just hopped right on that pole 😂

And nah we waited so long to marry for lots of other reasons...

Interesting lol.

Would you say you are still religious?

(If thats too personal sorry)

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No not really religious

Hehe.. Excellent thread..

Posted by AneemA11

Hehe.. Excellent thread..

I need more people to respond...

For me to vent..

Posted by AneemA11

For me to vent..

So, go ahead....

Posted by Boots1313

Posted by AneemA11

Hehe.. Excellent thread..

I need more people to respond...

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Imagine there is a man whose sex experience is at ending stage, meaning he has done most of it.. So he understands many of the hooks and nooks about how to satisfy women in bed.. He could withhold himself for as long as his woman requests him to cum during sexing in order to let this woman to be satisfied first.. And he let himself become a sex scientist.

Meets someone who had zero experience in sex due to her previous religious belief of not having pre-marital sex. Yet, she was too desperate to find out what sex was like and her mind started saying how unhealthy it is for her to keep up her religious facade on your particular subject.

The relationship is pretty much looking like..



and only God knows the answer for that.



Ps: i have a libra venus & mars.

what could go retrograde?

@virgoop

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Posted by AneemA11

what could go retrograde?

@virgoop

i never understand what you're saying.

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Posted by AneemA11

what could go retrograde?

@virgoop

i never understand what you're saying.

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Shall we ask tiziani which planet is going in retrograduation today??!!

I am mercury. What about you?! You had better take pluto who can transmutate yourself to be someone else!

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Posted by virgoop

Posted by AneemA11

what could go retrograde?

@virgoop

i never understand what you're saying.

🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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@P😆.www