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This topic was created in the Relationships forum by brianafay on Sunday, December 2, 2018 and has 24 replies.

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Taking a poll

What would bother you more...finding that someone sent your significant other nudes or finding that your significant other sent their nudes to someone else ??

Does the context matter ?

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Posted by SoftMachine

We wouldn't have this problem if we still had the Nokias

Seriously though

The only breakup a Nokia ever caused was when someone beat your high score in Snake

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Posted by ACsquarepluto

Context matters. I can't imagine a scenario where I would be surprised by this discovery. People socialize and things like this come up, I would only be concerned if he was unhappy with me

Very interesting answer and is exactly the opinion that prompted this post

My friend seems to think nudes can be casual and context matters...and I’m like I can’t imagine sending a friend a pic of my kitty 😂like what? I guess I’m old af

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Posted by TodaysRap

First one, of course.

Find him or her, show up at their workplace, call them out in the parking lot right before you take a bat to their car?

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I have been cheated on enough to say that if my significant other did that it would be over. Now if someone sent it to them that depends on if they asked them to or not. But my eyes would be on them because why did she feel comfortable enough sending them to you?

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Posted by ACsquarepluto

Posted by brianafay

Posted by ACsquarepluto

Context matters. I can't imagine a scenario where I would be surprised by this discovery. People socialize and things like this come up, I would only be concerned if he was unhappy with me

Very interesting answer and is exactly the opinion that prompted this post

My friend seems to think nudes can be casual and context matters...and I’m like I can’t imagine sending a friend a pic of my kitty 😂like what? I guess I’m old af

My previous focus on suspicion led to the end of relationships I wanted to maintain so I've learned not to seek for infidelity or act too quickly should I find out

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Totally agree

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Both would bother me equally.

The only exception is if a really unhinged person would send a nude to my SO out of the blue. But that's quite unlikely so yeah, both.

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Posted by topes

I get constant requests from the SO for chest pics. She loves staring at the abs & dad bod bewbs. Doesn't care for the other as she would prefer to see it when she can play.

Dick & poon snaps are so 2004

"she would prefer to see it when she can play"

exactly!

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Posted by Ixion

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Posted by MademoiselleFisk

Send me a nude pic of you in a high renaissance pose. I shall sketch you in charcoal on an expensive Arches cold press paper, then I'm gonna mail it to your girl as a birthday gift. Dad bods need not apply.

Done 😂, I'll throw in some cash for a nice frame.

Please don't. That's like seeing my favorite cousin naked. But @Tiziani is equally, if not more, talented. Send it to him.

Say no more @Tiziani prepare your inbox lol

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a collage of DXP nudes - now that is autistic lol

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Posted by DeadInside

Posted by brianafay

Posted by DeadInside

i miss the old brianafay

Do I know you ?

cant decide if its a lowkey diss or a real question

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Always err on the side of caution

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Posted by ACsquarepluto

Posted by brianafay

Posted by ACsquarepluto

Context matters. I can't imagine a scenario where I would be surprised by this discovery. People socialize and things like this come up, I would only be concerned if he was unhappy with me

Very interesting answer and is exactly the opinion that prompted this post

My friend seems to think nudes can be casual and context matters...and I’m like I can’t imagine sending a friend a pic of my kitty 😂like what? I guess I’m old af

My previous focus on suspicion led to the end of relationships I wanted to maintain so I've learned not to seek for infidelity or act too quickly should I find out

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idem dito says scorpio moon.

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Posted by Neshama

I don't know. Maybe women sending him nudes ....he should see no other nudity in a woman but me.

Obv i would be worried he is a pest to other women ....if he sent nudes ..

Either way he would have to go.

What about porn stars?