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Would you throw away your entire life, for someone you love, even though they may use you? (Page 3)
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I chose to live an authentic life
I give props to the guy who left living in a car. HIS truth matters
Tell me more Impulsiv x
Why does HIS truth matter?
What's the husband sign, and what's this new guys sign? Also yours?
"Hypothetically"
Husband - Aries.
New Guy - Pisces
Mine - Capricorn
Hey! You are back and still struggling? Shit! I have to read some more. Just wanted to say hi!
Hi ya x
Yes I'm still struggling. But I don't really want to say much about it.
I was just on here re-reading what I wrote.
How are you Gemitati?
Things developed for You?
Darling! My things are developing but I am not to compare us.
I don’t understand how is he expecting you to leave and him to not...seriously fucked up theory!
I don’t understand what your lover wants! Do you? Sorry. Just aching my heart again for you and all this crap...I don’t know what to say.
I am just reading you. And wishing you’ll be fine!
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I will private message you later x
What's the husband sign, and what's this new guys sign? Also yours?
"Hypothetically"
Husband - Aries.
New Guy - Pisces
Mine - Capricorn
Hey! You are back and still struggling? Shit! I have to read some more. Just wanted to say hi!
Hi ya x
Yes I'm still struggling. But I don't really want to say much about it.
I was just on here re-reading what I wrote.
How are you Gemitati?
Things developed for You?
Darling! My things are developing but I am not to compare us.
I don’t understand how is he expecting you to leave and him to not...seriously fucked up theory!
I don’t understand what your lover wants! Do you? Sorry. Just aching my heart again for you and all this crap...I don’t know what to say.
I am just reading you. And wishing you’ll be fine!
I will private message you later x
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I’ll wait
To answer the title: yes. But I have nothing to lose and have been single 2 years
I love how you're always honest. You da best.
Thanks 😊 I love love
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I wish love will love you back very soon! ❤️
I wasn't born @ Rent-A-Center so it's a hard pass for me
Lmao
God no
If I was going to be with a man it would be with one who loved and respected me
I'm not into being abused or masochism
🙄
To answer the title: yes. But I have nothing to lose and have been single 2 years
I love how you're always honest. You da best.
Thanks 😊 I love love
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But a man that loved you wouldn't treat you this way......
You have an obligation to your child. Staying with a man who treats you like shit would not be a good environment to the child - the child would learn that it's okay to let yourself be treated that way. Some would go as far as to call staying child abuse, depending on the way he acts. So yeah.
You have an obligation to your child. Staying with a man who treats you like shit would not be a good environment to the child - the child would learn that it's okay to let yourself be treated that way. Some would go as far as to call staying child abuse, depending on the way he acts. So yeah.
Well said 👍
A potential recipe for disaster
And the potential to ruin a young life
😐
I chose to live an authentic life
I give props to the guy who left living in a car. HIS truth matters
No one is living in their car.
To recap:
Op had an affair with a man who was living with his gf/wife. (House is in gf’s name ergo op calling him ‘homeless’)
He demands she leaves but doesn’t leave his own relationship.
Husband finds out she’s been cheating on him for the past 3 years and leaves.
Side Dick also moves on.
Op is left feeling lonely and regretful.
The only one living their authentic truth is op’s husband. He found out he was being lied too and betrayed and gtfot. Good for him.
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Errr that's not quite it!
I wasn't cheating for 3yrs. We were seeing each other in 2015 mainly but as I never left my husband, he left me in 2016.
He didn't demand I leave my husband while he stays, he actually said to me back then, "you'll leave your husband, and I'll leave my partner."
However I couldn't work out how we could be together, because i was not going to jump straight in and buy a house with this guy. So it seemed the best option would be to rent with this guy. The stupid thing was I never actually thought to say to the Pisces, "how can we get together properly? I'm a bit confused working this out myself, what do you think we should do?"
I took the situation on by myself and never thought to try to work things out with him.
Plus I realise what you and others are saying on here, about caring for my child etc BUT my fear was being a single parent.
My mum is a single parent of 2 - me and my sister - I'm now 41 and I started seeing this guy when I was 38.
Being married to a controlling bully who threatened to leave me if I don't do as he says - after in my just having a baby with him (she is now 4), I became lonely, frustrated and spiralling into depression.
So Pisces guy came into my life 3 or so yrs ago and he was making me Happy while my husband was e.ktiinally tearing me apart!
I didn't want to be alone with a child as I've seen my mum struggle emotionally and financially, and after being fought with, bullied and threatened by my Aries husband, the Pisces guy was soft, soothing, a fantastic listener, very perceptive, understood me in a way I've never had a guy understand me (a special Pisces trait apparently); and we had so much connection with each other that I longed to be with him properly.
My husband doesn't know me, emotionally wipes the floor with me, then Tell a me he loves me BUT ONLY when he gets his own way. Otherwise I'm in permanent emotional hell!
Oh and the Pisces guy WAS living in his car YEARS ago when he left his wife and son. Be walked out due to whatever was going on with his wife etc, then at some point he met his current partner she took him in and they've been together 10yrs now.
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Hi Gemitati x