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Posted by Saturn_Returns
Nothing much more to add than what has already been said here.
There's always more to add otherwise there wouldn't be so many topics already. Who decides when it's time to stop asking lmao?
Kanye & Jay-Z
Lil Baby & Gunna..
They seem to make a great duo and have good chemistry.
Lil Baby & Gunna..
They seem to make a great duo and have good chemistry.
...from observing my uncle and my s/o over the years, this is the impression that i got...š
lol
no, but in all seriousness, they tend to fake being okay. it's like they dislike looking vulnerable or weak in front of people. i don't know if it's due to pride or maybe these people feel like they will fall apart if they admit to themselves that they're sad or dispirited or that they don't have all the answers like they thought they did etc.
my impression is that sags get left to their own devices a lot 'cause people just automatically assume they're doing fine on their own. like, they could be dying inside and no one would even know about it.
and unfortunately, sag is contributing to the problem a bit because he doesn't show his weakness to others, he wants to look like he has his shit all figured out.
so, if there is a sag in your life that's talking less than usual, laughing less than usual, losing their temper more than usual, going through the motions distracting himself/herself with a bunch of noise and activities, ask them if they're ok and help them make sense of their sadness or confusion and infuse hope in him/her again.
no, but in all seriousness, they tend to fake being okay. it's like they dislike looking vulnerable or weak in front of people. i don't know if it's due to pride or maybe these people feel like they will fall apart if they admit to themselves that they're sad or dispirited or that they don't have all the answers like they thought they did etc.
my impression is that sags get left to their own devices a lot 'cause people just automatically assume they're doing fine on their own. like, they could be dying inside and no one would even know about it.
and unfortunately, sag is contributing to the problem a bit because he doesn't show his weakness to others, he wants to look like he has his shit all figured out.
so, if there is a sag in your life that's talking less than usual, laughing less than usual, losing their temper more than usual, going through the motions distracting himself/herself with a bunch of noise and activities, ask them if they're ok and help them make sense of their sadness or confusion and infuse hope in him/her again.
Posted by serenidad
...from observing my uncle and my s/o over the years, this is the impression that i got...š lol
no, but in all seriousness, they tend to fake being okay. it's like they dislike looking vulnerable or weak in front of people. i don't know if it's due to pride or maybe these people feel like they will fall apart if they admit to themselves that they're sad or dispirited or that they don't have all the answers like they thought they did etc.
my impression is that sags get left to their own devices a lot 'cause people just automatically assume they're doing fine on their own. like, they could be dying inside and no one would even know about it.
and unfortunately, sag is contributing to the problem a bit because he doesn't show his weakness to others, he wants to look like he has his shit all figured out.
so, if there is a sag in your life that's talking less than usual, laughing less than usual, losing their temper more than usual, going through the motions distracting himself/herself with a bunch of noise and activities, ask them if they're ok and help them make sense of their sadness or confusion and infuse hope in him/her again.
Ok now I wonder why this can relate to me and I'm not even a Sagittarius. I can be in a feel good happy mood and smiling and can have a million to one things going on in my head. Something bad could happen with me and nobody will even know it cus I don't show it. And I sure as hell ain't gone tell nobody whats going on with me and what struggles I'm going through. Not even nobody on this site know what's going on with me and the pain and mystery I'm going through cus I feel it's none of their business. I keep that disclose.
Posted by serenidad
...from observing my uncle and my s/o over the years, this is the impression that i got...š lol
no, but in all seriousness, they tend to fake being okay. it's like they dislike looking vulnerable or weak in front of people. i don't know if it's due to pride or maybe these people feel like they will fall apart if they admit to themselves that they're sad or dispirited or that they don't have all the answers like they thought they did etc.
my impression is that sags get left to their own devices a lot 'cause people just automatically assume they're doing fine on their own. like, they could be dying inside and no one would even know about it.
and unfortunately, sag is contributing to the problem a bit because he doesn't show his weakness to others, he wants to look like he has his shit all figured out.
so, if there is a sag in your life that's talking less than usual, laughing less than usual, losing their temper more than usual, going through the motions distracting himself/herself with a bunch of noise and activities, ask them if they're ok and help them make sense of their sadness or confusion and infuse hope in him/her again.
Why is working through things on your own a "weakness"? Not everyone likes telling their business to others. Venting helps some people and not others.
This is a common misconception for me as a Sag, some of what you say is true, that we hide what is upsetting us. For me it's because I need to work through things by myself, without a persons opinion, if I think they wont help OR I have to find a person that can help me brainstorm and come up with ideas to move past it.
I don't want to burden family members with things that are bothering me because I don't want them asking about it later, once I've moved past it or reminding me of it. I just want to deal with it and go on with my life.
My chart isn't the chart that has that saying "We are the strong ones, but who ever checks on us?" I'd rather figure things out on my own so I know I made the right choice for myself.
Someone coming to ask me if I'm ok will get a "Sure, I'm fine"
I can usually talk about an issue once it's been resolved, no problem.
I don't understand why other signs think just because we don't share what's happening on the inside that we are affected by it drastically.
We get upset and have emotions just like everyone else, but we can find ways to work through them without telling a whole bunch of people.
We are an independent sign, remember??
My Sag cousin married a Gemini girl. I think theyāre both textbook Sag and Gemini. They would tactlessly fight a lot but the Gemini was stubborn in not letting him go (the relationship benefits her more than him anyway). They recently had a baby and my Sag cousin is softer now š¤·āāļø
Posted by GeminiJimPosted by saggurl88Posted by serenidadWhy is working through things on your own a "weakness"? Not everyone likes telling their business to others. Venting helps some people and not others.
...from observing my uncle and my s/o over the years, this is the impression that i got...š lol
no, but in all seriousness, they tend to fake being okay. it's like they dislike looking vulnerable or weak in front of people. i don't know if it's due to pride or maybe these people feel like they will fall apart if they admit to themselves that they're sad or dispirited or that they don't have all the answers like they thought they did etc.
my impression is that sags get left to their own devices a lot 'cause people just automatically assume they're doing fine on their own. like, they could be dying inside and no one would even know about it.
and unfortunately, sag is contributing to the problem a bit because he doesn't show his weakness to others, he wants to look like he has his shit all figured out.
so, if there is a sag in your life that's talking less than usual, laughing less than usual, losing their temper more than usual, going through the motions distracting himself/herself with a bunch of noise and activities, ask them if they're ok and help them make sense of their sadness or confusion and infuse hope in him/her again.
This is a common misconception for me as a Sag, some of what you say is true, that we hide what is upsetting us. For me it's because I need to work through things by myself, without a persons opinion, if I think they wont help OR I have to find a person that can help me brainstorm and come up with ideas to move past it.
I don't want to burden family members with things that are bothering me because I don't want them asking about it later, once I've moved past it or reminding me of it. I just want to deal with it and go on with my life.
My chart isn't the chart that has that saying "We are the strong ones, but who ever checks on us?" I'd rather figure things out on my own so I know I made the right choice for myself.
Someone coming to ask me if I'm ok will get a "Sure, I'm fine"
I can usually talk about an issue once it's been resolved, no problem.
I don't understand why other signs think just because we don't share what's happening on the inside that we are affected by it drastically.
We get upset and have emotions just like everyone else, but we can find ways to work through them without telling a whole bunch of people.
We are an independent sign, remember??
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You can't fool us! We know you are weeping and crying inside šclick to expand
Actually! It's "Dying on the inside"! š
Man! People want us as a sign to be depressed SO BAD, I don't get it lol
We aren't hiding anything, just minding our own damn business! LMAO!
Posted by GeminiJimPosted by saggurl88Posted by GeminiJimPosted by saggurl88Posted by serenidadWhy is working through things on your own a "weakness"? Not everyone likes telling their business to others. Venting helps some people and not others.
...from observing my uncle and my s/o over the years, this is the impression that i got...š lol
no, but in all seriousness, they tend to fake being okay. it's like they dislike looking vulnerable or weak in front of people. i don't know if it's due to pride or maybe these people feel like they will fall apart if they admit to themselves that they're sad or dispirited or that they don't have all the answers like they thought they did etc.
my impression is that sags get left to their own devices a lot 'cause people just automatically assume they're doing fine on their own. like, they could be dying inside and no one would even know about it.
and unfortunately, sag is contributing to the problem a bit because he doesn't show his weakness to others, he wants to look like he has his shit all figured out.
so, if there is a sag in your life that's talking less than usual, laughing less than usual, losing their temper more than usual, going through the motions distracting himself/herself with a bunch of noise and activities, ask them if they're ok and help them make sense of their sadness or confusion and infuse hope in him/her again.
This is a common misconception for me as a Sag, some of what you say is true, that we hide what is upsetting us. For me it's because I need to work through things by myself, without a persons opinion, if I think they wont help OR I have to find a person that can help me brainstorm and come up with ideas to move past it.
I don't want to burden family members with things that are bothering me because I don't want them asking about it later, once I've moved past it or reminding me of it. I just want to deal with it and go on with my life.
My chart isn't the chart that has that saying "We are the strong ones, but who ever checks on us?" I'd rather figure things out on my own so I know I made the right choice for myself.
Someone coming to ask me if I'm ok will get a "Sure, I'm fine"
I can usually talk about an issue once it's been resolved, no problem.
I don't understand why other signs think just because we don't share what's happening on the inside that we are affected by it drastically.
We get upset and have emotions just like everyone else, but we can find ways to work through them without telling a whole bunch of people.
We are an independent sign, remember??
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You can't fool us! We know you are weeping and crying inside š
Actually! It's "Dying on the inside"! š
Man! People want us as a sign to be depressed SO BAD, I don't get it lol
We aren't hiding anything, just minding our own damn business! LMAO!
Smile on the outside darling! Don't let them see the pain inside.. So brave šclick to expand
It's not even that serious, just a regular day that we don't worry too much about. Optimism helps our sign a lot. We know things will work out in the end.
We are a lucky sign, after all! š
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by serenidadOk now I wonder why this can relate to me and I'm not even a Sagittarius. I can be in a feel good happy mood and smiling and can have a million to one things going on in my head. Something bad could happen with me and nobody will even know it cus I don't show it. And I sure as hell ain't gone tell nobody whats going on with me and what struggles I'm going through. Not even nobody on this site know what's going on with me and the pain and mystery I'm going through cus I feel it's none of their business. I keep that disclose.
...from observing my uncle and my s/o over the years, this is the impression that i got...š lol
no, but in all seriousness, they tend to fake being okay. it's like they dislike looking vulnerable or weak in front of people. i don't know if it's due to pride or maybe these people feel like they will fall apart if they admit to themselves that they're sad or dispirited or that they don't have all the answers like they thought they did etc.
my impression is that sags get left to their own devices a lot 'cause people just automatically assume they're doing fine on their own. like, they could be dying inside and no one would even know about it.
and unfortunately, sag is contributing to the problem a bit because he doesn't show his weakness to others, he wants to look like he has his shit all figured out.
so, if there is a sag in your life that's talking less than usual, laughing less than usual, losing their temper more than usual, going through the motions distracting himself/herself with a bunch of noise and activities, ask them if they're ok and help them make sense of their sadness or confusion and infuse hope in him/her again.
Because opposites are also much alike each other in many things, they just respond differently for the same things. Or have different views on them. Sag-Gem opposition is probably the most alike one another. All of my Gem friends are just like that too. We hardly ever talk about problems. It's always talking about happier things in life and dealing with our problems on our own. It does help to vent occasionally if you have that reliable person in your life. Like I mentioned in another response, me and my bestie have been through really hard time and the exact same time and neither of us said a word about it or complained. We only realized that after it all passed and even then I was first to start that talkclick to expand
Oh I'm a natural loner. With the little bit of pisces friends I have not even them I can open up to them with the problems I'm facing. I really and honestly prefer to face my problems alone. I don't need human interaction, all I need is some alone time to recharge my batteries, cold brew and nice soft jazz music and unwind and meditate. That usually solve everything for me and I'm back to normal. I'm suck at talking to people about anything let alone my problems I'm dealing with. I'm even suck at holding conversations. I don't engage or talk to nobody unless I'm spoken to first. My late Libra grandmother used to say, speak only when spoken to. To this very day I live by that.
Posted by GeminiJimPosted by saggurl88Posted by GeminiJimPosted by saggurl88Posted by GeminiJimActually! It's "Dying on the inside"!Posted by saggurl88You can't fool us! We know you are weeping and crying inside šPosted by serenidad
...from observing my uncle and my s/o over the years, this is the impression that i got...š lol
no, but in all seriousness, they tend to fake being okay. it's like they dislike looking vulnerable or weak in front of people. i don't know if it's due to pride or maybe these people feel like they will fall apart if they admit to themselves that they're sad or dispirited or that they don't have all the answers like they thought they did etc.
my impression is that sags get left to their own devices a lot 'cause people just automatically assume they're doing fine on their own. like, they could be dying inside and no one would even know about it.
and unfortunately, sag is contributing to the problem a bit because he doesn't show his weakness to others, he wants to look like he has his shit all figured out.
so, if there is a sag in your life that's talking less than usual, laughing less than usual, losing their temper more than usual, going through the motions distracting himself/herself with a bunch of noise and activities, ask them if they're ok and help them make sense of their sadness or confusion and infuse hope in him/her again.
Why is working through things on your own a "weakness"? Not everyone likes telling their business to others. Venting helps some people and not others.
This is a common misconception for me as a Sag, some of what you say is true, that we hide what is upsetting us. For me it's because I need to work through things by myself, without a persons opinion, if I think they wont help OR I have to find a person that can help me brainstorm and come up with ideas to move past it.
I don't want to burden family members with things that are bothering me because I don't want them asking about it later, once I've moved past it or reminding me of it. I just want to deal with it and go on with my life.
My chart isn't the chart that has that saying "We are the strong ones, but who ever checks on us?" I'd rather figure things out on my own so I know I made the right choice for myself.
Someone coming to ask me if I'm ok will get a "Sure, I'm fine"
I can usually talk about an issue once it's been resolved, no problem.
I don't understand why other signs think just because we don't share what's happening on the inside that we are affected by it drastically.
We get upset and have emotions just like everyone else, but we can find ways to work through them without telling a whole bunch of people.
We are an independent sign, remember??
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Man! People want us as a sign to be depressed SO BAD, I don't get it lol
We aren't hiding anything, just minding our own damn business! LMAO!
Smile on the outside darling! Don't let them see the pain inside.. So brave š
It's not even that serious, just a regular day that we don't worry too much about. Optimism helps our sign a lot. We know things will work out in the end.
We are a lucky sign, after all!
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Just know that I am here for you if you feel like opening up about all your pain and sadnessclick to expand
Hahahaha! Thanks! Dually noted! š
Posted by serenidad
...from observing my uncle and my s/o over the years, this is the impression that i got...š lol
no, but in all seriousness, they tend to fake being okay. it's like they dislike looking vulnerable or weak in front of people. i don't know if it's due to pride or maybe these people feel like they will fall apart if they admit to themselves that they're sad or dispirited or that they don't have all the answers like they thought they did etc.
my impression is that sags get left to their own devices a lot 'cause people just automatically assume they're doing fine on their own. like, they could be dying inside and no one would even know about it.
and unfortunately, sag is contributing to the problem a bit because he doesn't show his weakness to others, he wants to look like he has his shit all figured out.
so, if there is a sag in your life that's talking less than usual, laughing less than usual, losing their temper more than usual, going through the motions distracting himself/herself with a bunch of noise and activities, ask them if they're ok and help them make sense of their sadness or confusion and infuse hope in him/her again.
Yeah, theyāre not sad.
Theyāre bored out of their mind
The best part about being a Sagittarius is waking up at 3am and suddenly deciding that I need street tacos.
I grab my purse and my phone and here I am, driving 6 hours to Miami in search of an unknown person, Iāve named him Ernesto, and his taco truck.
Me and Ernesto.
Watching the sun come up over a plate of huevos rancheros.
Ernesto is impressed with my morning tequila skills and he invites me to his home to meet his wife Maria and taste the softest rice Iāve ever had.
Then it hits meā¦I never called outta work.
Pour me another Ernesto
I grab my purse and my phone and here I am, driving 6 hours to Miami in search of an unknown person, Iāve named him Ernesto, and his taco truck.
Me and Ernesto.
Watching the sun come up over a plate of huevos rancheros.
Ernesto is impressed with my morning tequila skills and he invites me to his home to meet his wife Maria and taste the softest rice Iāve ever had.
Then it hits meā¦I never called outta work.
Pour me another Ernesto
Saggis have a lot of success with other Saggis
Especially after age 35
Especially after age 35
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by DMV
Saggis have a lot of success with other Saggis
Especially after age 35
I don't know about that age but in 20's or earlier let's just say this - only person I punched in my whole life is a Sag guy. The person who hurt me the most and from whom I expected it the least was a Sag guy. I'm 100% not trying anything with a 3rd lol if I ever come across another, I'm running away. Most hateful person I know is one Sag friend. I truly love Gems in every possible aspect so much more than Sags tbh. Other Sags I know are just fine but I wouldn't date a Sag guy again ever. It took months and blocking everywhere to get rid of that one lol the one I punched, I'm also on good terms with now, he lives next door lol so many girls were into him, including my Gem bestie at a time, but I could never understand what they saw in him lolclick to expand
Hey, I get it.
Geminis have no place in my life either
Posted by saggurl88Posted by serenidad
...from observing my uncle and my s/o over the years, this is the impression that i got...š lol
no, but in all seriousness, they tend to fake being okay. it's like they dislike looking vulnerable or weak in front of people. i don't know if it's due to pride or maybe these people feel like they will fall apart if they admit to themselves that they're sad or dispirited or that they don't have all the answers like they thought they did etc.
my impression is that sags get left to their own devices a lot 'cause people just automatically assume they're doing fine on their own. like, they could be dying inside and no one would even know about it.
and unfortunately, sag is contributing to the problem a bit because he doesn't show his weakness to others, he wants to look like he has his shit all figured out.
so, if there is a sag in your life that's talking less than usual, laughing less than usual, losing their temper more than usual, going through the motions distracting himself/herself with a bunch of noise and activities, ask them if they're ok and help them make sense of their sadness or confusion and infuse hope in him/her again.
Why is working through things on your own a "weakness"? Not everyone likes telling their business to others. Venting helps some people and not others.
This is a common misconception for me as a Sag, some of what you say is true, that we hide what is upsetting us. For me it's because I need to work through things by myself, without a persons opinion, if I think they wont help OR I have to find a person that can help me brainstorm and come up with ideas to move past it.
I don't want to burden family members with things that are bothering me because I don't want them asking about it later, once I've moved past it or reminding me of it. I just want to deal with it and go on with my life.
My chart isn't the chart that has that saying "We are the strong ones, but who ever checks on us?" I'd rather figure things out on my own so I know I made the right choice for myself.
Someone coming to ask me if I'm ok will get a "Sure, I'm fine"
I can usually talk about an issue once it's been resolved, no problem.
I don't understand why other signs think just because we don't share what's happening on the inside that we are affected by it drastically.
We get upset and have emotions just like everyone else, but we can find ways to work through them without telling a whole bunch of people.
We are an independent sign, remember??
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i think solving your problems on your own is fine. iām the same way. iāve been accused of being secretive cause i donāt tell anyone anything lol i just sorta assume āif i canāt help myself, and i know myself better than anyone, then no one else can help meā lol
but as far as the two sag dudes i mentioned, they tend to sweep things under the rug, act like theyāre fine, and then blow up later. (they both have venus in libra so that might be why. they try to keep the peace until they canāt or donāt want to anymore)
also, my aunt is always complaining to me because my uncle solves things on his own even if it involves other people, like my aunt for example. sheās a libra. she says heās not open to communicate about the issues she wants to solve. she says he just goes into denial mode and shuts down.
Posted by DMV
The best part about being a Sagittarius is waking up at 3am and suddenly deciding that I need street tacos.
I grab my purse and my phone and here I am, driving 6 hours to Miami in search of an unknown person, Iāve named him Ernesto, and his taco truck.
Me and Ernesto.
Watching the sun come up over a plate of huevos rancheros.
Ernesto is impressed with my morning tequila skills and he invites me to his home to meet his wife Maria and taste the softest rice Iāve ever had.
Then it hits meā¦I never called outta work.
Pour me another Ernesto
last time i went to hong kong on a whim while my dude was visiting his relatives in the states (he was gone for a week, and i had nothing to do) , he asked to see my passport when he came home and never gave it back. itās been in his suitcase ever since. i canāt get to it cause i donāt know the combination to his suitcase lock.
(we live in japan so hong kong is only like 4 hrs away on a plane. i was only gonna go for 2 nights)
i even told him once i got there, āyo, iām in hong kong !ā but he didnāt like that i went without telling him. i thought it would be funny but he didnāt think it was funny. but i canāt be mad about it ācause after all, it was my fault.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by SassyKiwi
My Sag cousin married a Gemini girl. I think theyāre both textbook Sag and Gemini. They would tactlessly fight a lot but the Gemini was stubborn in not letting him go (the relationship benefits her more than him anyway). They recently had a baby and my Sag cousin is softer now š¤·āāļø
ātactlessly fightā? as supposed to? Gracefully fight? š¤š¤¦āāļøclick to expand
They would verbally attack and scream at each other very often being foul-spoken.
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by serenidad
...from observing my uncle and my s/o over the years, this is the impression that i got...š lol
no, but in all seriousness, they tend to fake being okay. it's like they dislike looking vulnerable or weak in front of people. i don't know if it's due to pride or maybe these people feel like they will fall apart if they admit to themselves that they're sad or dispirited or that they don't have all the answers like they thought they did etc.
my impression is that sags get left to their own devices a lot 'cause people just automatically assume they're doing fine on their own. like, they could be dying inside and no one would even know about it.
and unfortunately, sag is contributing to the problem a bit because he doesn't show his weakness to others, he wants to look like he has his shit all figured out.
so, if there is a sag in your life that's talking less than usual, laughing less than usual, losing their temper more than usual, going through the motions distracting himself/herself with a bunch of noise and activities, ask them if they're ok and help them make sense of their sadness or confusion and infuse hope in him/her again.
You describes it perfectly. I hate being vulnerable in front of people and always act everything's ok. Showing vulnerability feels like weakness and I just don't feel like doing it unless I really trust someone with my life. Talking to strangers is a whole other story though and is much easier for me to doclick to expand
i could be wrong but people who hate being vulnerable werenāt always that way. they were vulnerable in the past and were exploited or shamed in some way for it.
but i think in order to protect ourselves from harm, we actually need to conceal certain aspects of ourselves.
now, i look at everyone like āguilty until proven innocentā lol i used to go around believing anything and anyone lol
when you see the type of cruelty thatās out there, you become extra cautious. i like watching crime/murder/fraud documentaries for this reason. you can see what humans are capable of and adjust and prepare yourself accordingly š lol
Yoooo! Thatās exactly why I watch reality competition shows documentaries
I need to see how people react in different stimuli and than I know what to look out for
I need to see how people react in different stimuli and than I know what to look out for
Posted by DMV
Yoooo! Thatās exactly why I watch reality competition shows documentaries
I need to see how people react in different stimuli and than I know what to look out for
i donāt usually watch reality shows ācause i heard most of it is scripted but new york from flavor of love had me dying lol š š
also, i dunno if anyone else does this aside from watching shows and documentaries lol š (collecting data in the real world lol š i donāt do it often, i swear. just once in a while š ) :
Posted by DMV
The best part about being a Sagittarius is waking up at 3am and suddenly deciding that I need street tacos.
I grab my purse and my phone and here I am, driving 6 hours to Miami in search of an unknown person, Iāve named him Ernesto, and his taco truck.
Me and Ernesto.
Watching the sun come up over a plate of huevos rancheros.
Ernesto is impressed with my morning tequila skills and he invites me to his home to meet his wife Maria and taste the softest rice Iāve ever had.
Then it hits meā¦I never called outta work.
Pour me another Ernesto
also this could be a movie lol š i would watch it š
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by serenidadPosted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by serenidadYou describes it perfectly. I hate being vulnerable in front of people and always act everything's ok. Showing vulnerability feels like weakness and I just don't feel like doing it unless I really trust someone with my life. Talking to strangers is a whole other story though and is much easier for me to do
...from observing my uncle and my s/o over the years, this is the impression that i got...š lol
no, but in all seriousness, they tend to fake being okay. it's like they dislike looking vulnerable or weak in front of people. i don't know if it's due to pride or maybe these people feel like they will fall apart if they admit to themselves that they're sad or dispirited or that they don't have all the answers like they thought they did etc.
my impression is that sags get left to their own devices a lot 'cause people just automatically assume they're doing fine on their own. like, they could be dying inside and no one would even know about it.
and unfortunately, sag is contributing to the problem a bit because he doesn't show his weakness to others, he wants to look like he has his shit all figured out.
so, if there is a sag in your life that's talking less than usual, laughing less than usual, losing their temper more than usual, going through the motions distracting himself/herself with a bunch of noise and activities, ask them if they're ok and help them make sense of their sadness or confusion and infuse hope in him/her again.
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i could be wrong but people who hate being vulnerable werenāt always that way. they were vulnerable in the past and were exploited or shamed in some way for it.
but i think in order to protect ourselves from harm, we actually need to conceal certain aspects of ourselves.
now, i look at everyone like āguilty until proven innocentā lol i used to go around believing anything and anyone lol
when you see the type of cruelty thatās out there, you become extra cautious. i like watching crime/murder/fraud documentaries for this reason. you can see what humans are capable of and adjust and prepare yourself accordingly š lol
You're right, it did take someone to exploit my vulnerability in order for me to become more cautious. I used to be an open box and would easily show my emotions. But that was a very naive approach and it brought me a lot of pain so I learned not to talk about things that are my own concern. Not even to friends. When it comes to friends, it's simply because different people see same things in different ways and my views on many things are very liberal, unlike for many other people. For example, my story of liking a guy who's married blah blah...I told only one friend about it. She's not judgemental either, but also sees things differently. I mentioned about talking to his wife once, how she admired my hair and asked me about how I take care of it cause she's also blonde and hers is in bad condition. Anyway, I talked with her about as if I would to my best friend, I have literally 0 bad thoughts about her and could never have...but my friend's reaction was that I should have said something that could destroy her hair, or something like thatš and I'm surprised by that response cause that would literally never even occur to me to think about, not to mention to actually say lol on many occasions I saw people frown upon things I find to be normal so I just stopped sharing my opinions with others on such matters. Like politics, religion and similar stuffclick to expand
lol donāt worry, you did the right thing by being nice and polite to the wife and not offering bad hair advice lol š
i donāt know too much about your situation with the married guy (?) but hopefully heās gonna make a decision in the near future to either be with you or let you go so you can find your happiness with someone else who is a hundred percent all about you and invested in you š¢. i wouldnāt wanna see you or anyone hurt. be sure to take care of your own needs too. they are valid just as much as anyone elseās. wish you all the best.
I generally get along with Geminiās on the surface level. But when I get too close to my Gemini sister, her insecurities and craziness boil over. So Iāve kept her at arms length because having a close relationship is stressful and exhausting. She has Leo Venus, Gemini Moon, Taurus Asc. Sheās nuts. Gem dudes are cool enough but unsure if Iād ever date one after my experience with my Gem sister who is a serial cheater as well.
Sagittarius guys are chill and my bf is a Sag. Sag girls are usually a hit or miss. Some are funny and cool while others are annoying and obnoxious as heck.
But then again, Sun signs arenāt everything. Anyone with Gem placements in Moon or Venus, Iād be wary of.
Sagittarius guys are chill and my bf is a Sag. Sag girls are usually a hit or miss. Some are funny and cool while others are annoying and obnoxious as heck.
But then again, Sun signs arenāt everything. Anyone with Gem placements in Moon or Venus, Iād be wary of.
It's the opposite sign. I'm a Sag. I had a bad time with this Gemini girl, but after she did something one day.. I just changed my opinion of her. She likes to voice out everything, she is the centre of attention, good at work, a good friend, funny, open-minded, rarely pissed off. So, I get along well with her. There are a few disagreements along our friendship but that's ok. She is still under my friend level, my best friend is an Aries. I think Fire signs goes well together. But don't lose hope, you just have to accept each other flaws and it will be fine.
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...from observing my uncle and my s/o over the years, this is the impression that i got...š lol
no, but in all seriousness, they tend to fake being okay. it's like they dislike looking vulnerable or weak in front of people. i don't know if it's due to pride or maybe these people feel like they will fall apart if they admit to themselves that they're sad or dispirited or that they don't have all the answers like they thought they did etc.
my impression is that sags get left to their own devices a lot 'cause people just automatically assume they're doing fine on their own. like, they could be dying inside and no one would even know about it.
and unfortunately, sag is contributing to the problem a bit because he doesn't show his weakness to others, he wants to look like he has his shit all figured out.
so, if there is a sag in your life that's talking less than usual, laughing less than usual, losing their temper more than usual, going through the motions distracting himself/herself with a bunch of noise and activities, ask them if they're ok and help them make sense of their sadness or confusion and infuse hope in him/her again.
i am laughing because this is true
on the one hand my life is like the scene from Jurassic Park 2 with the trailer hanging over the cliff, a T-Rex about to smash it into oblivion
on the other hand, it's kinda funny
Geminis are cool, only conflicts are non-astrological factors in my opinion
any comparison risks becoming a circle of yin-yang type
any comparison risks becoming a circle of yin-yang type
Is it about compatibility?
I'm not sure.. I feel like both like adventure but have different ideas of what that is
Sags are more like - let's go bungee jumping!
Geminis are more like - let's go down that sketchy looking alley in the middle of Cairo š¤Ø
I'm not sure.. I feel like both like adventure but have different ideas of what that is
Sags are more like - let's go bungee jumping!
Geminis are more like - let's go down that sketchy looking alley in the middle of Cairo š¤Ø
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