Are Sags capable of commitment and stable relationship? Any examples at all? :3

I find it very disheartening that I seem to never have come across any commentaries about loyal Sags showing valuable qualities for a long-terms partnership with ANY sign. On the other hand all I find is how flakey and easy to switch affections they are. It's kind of weird and hard to believe. It's a huge deal-breaker as well for me as I am Leo, very loyal plus loads of earth (inc Venus in Virgo) in the chart and Cap Rising 😢

Does anyone heard of any Sags being married, or at least happy in a relationship?

My own experience is that of a female cousin, changing guys quicker than I know their names, and another female friend who is married but she rules their marriage and very flirty including me.

With guys I knew only one who was very attractive but his flirty superficial attitude put me off and while he didn't give up on me he would flirt and pick up girls (2 at a times sometimes) while we are in the same company. I can't stand such whorish behaviour and have no respect for a person who is zero selective.

This said, I FINALLY (Venus in Virgo you know..lol) met a guy with who I felt mutual immediate attraction and connection and we started slowly dating. I don't hurry him, not he me meaning meet-ups in 1-2 weeks but it feels very safe, exciting and connected. He was outspoken and upright commenting his dislikes in other people we were observing, also he is grounded and calm.... I was sure he was Virgo based on these qualities. Well.. he is SAG. *yuck* Hope this doesn't SUCK 😄 but I am a bit nervous now.

So, for a science sake only (of course🙂 any observation of devoted Sags?

I know plenty of sag ppl in long term relationships and marriages.

Anyways. Leos suck for saggis. Way too controlling. Starts out good but....

DMV, I am controlling only when I don't feel trust - is what I must feel in a relationship. This is what I am afraid not to feel with Sag after reading so much about them. Without trust it wouldn't hold, I agree, cause I don't have interest in sitting on a volcano. I love grow together in depth and height.

But if a person (Sag, here) behaves in the way that makes him come across as a genuine caring person, then I don't think I have any problems to let him fly free when he pleases.

That's what I try to figure if this sign ever produce the type of people I feel good about. Thank you a lot, happy to hear it actually. Jake Gyllenhaal 😄 seems to be one non-flakey example when I came to think about it, purely from media-sources.. oh my... but still.. looks like he was more often dumped sooner than he himself wanted.

Well then just dont date him. You sound anxious already.

Yes. My Sagittarius Wife and I have been together since we were sophomores in high school. You're welcome.

Yes, get her pregnant

At my job in my immediate vicinity I have 6 Sags...three men and three women all of various ages...5 are married and have been married for years and the one that isn't has been in a committed relationship for four and has been faithful.

Yes sag can be very committed

It IS a breath of fresh air indeed to get out here some (many) positive examples.

Great to hear that, thank you guys for your contributions. Looks like there is a variety within Sags too.

Now, I don't know his dates/year to find our other important planets and influences but I'll find out it later. Probably lots of earth or water since he comes across like non-temperamental even though lots of other typical traits are all there. And travels like crazy chosen a job enabling him to do so.

I do believe other plants might play in how mercury you come out to be.

We'll live and see. I'll going to give him free reign to initiate things himself (I normally want things move sooner as Leo/Gemini Moon - impatient) and take it easy with asking questions. So far I am not bothered with slow tempo as I sense genuine interest and want from his side every time we meet, and I even enjoy slowly building up the positive/sexual tension without jumping hedges too quick and spoil things. I think he wants it now this way to feel his freedom is not endangered and he has space to move about before he feels secure 😄

I can't read hidden messages.. ? why hide them even

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Before dxp I never would have associated sags with "infidelity" or "can't commit" I still don't cause that's not the sags I personally know.

The common trait of the sags I know is... They're workaholics.... Oh.. and they won't shut up 😄 they looooooove to talk.

"workaholics.... Oh.. and they won't shut up"

guilty here

All the Sag peeps I know are in committed relationships or happy marriages.

I've added that before on something similar...I really don't think it is a sun sign thing.

BUT my current BF is a Sag and he hasn't had a serious relationship before me. I asked him why? And he just said he was too busy with school and work (went to law school) that he just didn't see a need to be in one. He said how he feels about me is different than he's ever felt about someone before and that instead of feeling like he's too busy, he feels like he never gets ENOUGH time with me (because I'm a workaholic myself.) He is such a sweetheart and does so much for me, even when I try to do it all myself. ☺️

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All the Sag peeps I know are in committed relationships or happy marriages.

I've added that before on something similar...I really don't think it is a sun sign thing.

BUT my current BF is a Sag and he hasn't had a serious relationship before me. I asked him why? And he just said he was too busy with school and work (went to law school) that he just didn't see a need to be in one. He said how he feels about me is different than he's ever felt about someone before and that instead of feeling like he's too busy, he feels like he never gets ENOUGH time with me (because I'm a workaholic myself.) He is such a sweetheart and does so much for me, even when I try to do it all myself. ☺️

the sag that i am dating is very faithful and loyal too.

I was very sceptical at the beginning and cautious. ( still am! lol )

but at this stage, I'm just very happy. I'm enjoying this ride fully when we see each other.

a couple months in this relationship and we are even stronger than when we started.

it's like this weird mix of friendship and love.



I find myself changing and doing weird things for her. lol

it's scary. but then I see her, equally obssessed with me ( if not more.. ) and that's comforting. 😄

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Aww that's awesome! I'm happy for you and your Sag. I can relate with that "weird mix of friendship and love." It definitely feels like that and I'm enjoying it as well.

haha equally obsessed is a great way to explain it.

I wish the best for your relationship. But yeah we never know what's going to happen, we just have to enjoy the ride. ?

Taylor Swift is a Sag and look at all the relationships she's gone through ?

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Taylor Swift is a Sag and look at all the relationships she's gone through ?

I thought she's a gemini—?

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No she's a Sagittarius Sun and Cancer Moon

I don't know many Sag but the 4 guys I do know are all in committed relationships except one. He would be in the relationship with her still but she's too young & keeps playing games with him. He's having a problem letting go. One of them I've been friends with since I'm 12. He's always in a relationship & rarely ever single. He's cheated but not more than any other signs have. He's a very loyal till the end type of guy. All 4 guys are total sweethearts. I don't have anything bad to say about them .

yes make a baby

My Dad maybe, granted he's no longer with my mother (Scorpio) but he has been with the same woman for the past 31 yrs...she's Gemini.

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Posted by themilkyway36
Taylor Swift is a Sag and look at all the relationships she's gone through ?

I thought she's a gemini—?

No she's a Sagittarius Sun and Cancer Moon

WHATTT?? That's my placement!!! Oh hell nooo!!! We share the same birth year too.. but hell noo!! ?

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Haha are your dating patterns similar to hers? I feel like she's just picky/idealistic about her partners or maybe gets bored easily in relationships

Yes. I don't understand why people think we are so unfaithful. We are very honest people. I have never cheated.When I love ❤️... I love hard & deep. 2x more happier when I'm in love. Been cheated on. Horrible feeling.

Venus & Mars in Sag

Posted by alrauneTB
I find it very disheartening that I seem to never have come across any commentaries about loyal Sags showing valuable qualities for a long-terms partnership with ANY sign. On the other hand all I find is how flakey and easy to switch affections they are. It's kind of weird and hard to believe. It's a huge deal-breaker as well for me as I am Leo, very loyal plus loads of earth (inc Venus in Virgo) in the chart and Cap Rising 😢

Does anyone heard of any Sags being married, or at least happy in a relationship?

My own experience is that of a female cousin, changing guys quicker than I know their names, and another female friend who is married but she rules their marriage and very flirty including me.

With guys I knew only one who was very attractive but his flirty superficial attitude put me off and while he didn't give up on me he would flirt and pick up girls (2 at a times sometimes) while we are in the same company. I can't stand such whorish behaviour and have no respect for a person who is zero selective.

This said, I FINALLY (Venus in Virgo you know..lol) met a guy with who I felt mutual immediate attraction and connection and we started slowly dating. I don't hurry him, not he me meaning meet-ups in 1-2 weeks but it feels very safe, exciting and connected. He was outspoken and upright commenting his dislikes in other people we were observing, also he is grounded and calm.... I was sure he was Virgo based on these qualities. Well.. he is SAG. *yuck* Hope this doesn't SUCK 😄 but I am a bit nervous now.

So, for a science sake only (of course🙂 any observation of devoted Sags?

Brad Pitt was in long term relationships. xD Well, the best part of our sign is flirting, it's just in our nature, and we are sooo good it at. Sags are Cassanovas...if they can pull five chicks at once, they will, because they know they can. 😉

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Posted by alrauneTB
I find it very disheartening that I seem to never have come across any commentaries about loyal Sags showing valuable qualities for a long-terms partnership with ANY sign. On the other hand all I find is how flakey and easy to switch affections they are. It's kind of weird and hard to believe. It's a huge deal-breaker as well for me as I am Leo, very loyal plus loads of earth (inc Venus in Virgo) in the chart and Cap Rising 😢

Does anyone heard of any Sags being married, or at least happy in a relationship?

My own experience is that of a female cousin, changing guys quicker than I know their names, and another female friend who is married but she rules their marriage and very flirty including me.

With guys I knew only one who was very attractive but his flirty superficial attitude put me off and while he didn't give up on me he would flirt and pick up girls (2 at a times sometimes) while we are in the same company. I can't stand such whorish behaviour and have no respect for a person who is zero selective.

This said, I FINALLY (Venus in Virgo you know..lol) met a guy with who I felt mutual immediate attraction and connection and we started slowly dating. I don't hurry him, not he me meaning meet-ups in 1-2 weeks but it feels very safe, exciting and connected. He was outspoken and upright commenting his dislikes in other people we were observing, also he is grounded and calm.... I was sure he was Virgo based on these qualities. Well.. he is SAG. *yuck* Hope this doesn't SUCK 😄 but I am a bit nervous now.

So, for a science sake only (of course🙂 any observation of devoted Sags?

Brad Pitt was in long term relationships. xD Well, the best part of our sign is flirting, it's just in our nature, and we are sooo good it at. Sags are Cassanovas...if they can pull five chicks at once, they will, because they know they can. 😉

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I don't know, maybe men.

I don't do that. but maybe my approach to people is inviting. I don't have it in head, only in behaviour.

I have known like 20 sags. Currently there are like 6 sags who are singles and never were the relationship type of people anyway, a few of them are players. The rest is more or less involved in relationships. One of my friends is married but I know he cheated on two of his ex-gf. But basicly I don't know too much about them being cheaters at all. Actually I know more libras who have cheated on their partners. lol

It's because I don't like being controlled, and I hate rules. It limits my freedom. Any concept of rules and being manipulated irks me. Marriage, controlling husbands, the law. I literally feel like I'm suffocating. I plan on having children but never getting married because it's just a piece of paper - piece of paper that is expensive when you decide to file a divorce too. I don't ever want anybody to tell me what to do, not even a husband. That's just me. I always want to be in control with things than be controlled. And most relationships, especially men who come across women like me don't get along well with me because of my dominating and unemotional tendencies.

I just have an irrational and logical reasons that people don't get. I look over our existence of "complex human beings" and just count us all as animals as we are nothing different from them. Just reproduce and improve the race. Marriage, love and all that is just a concept built by some hopeless romantic because it's become a business that makes people relate to each other.

Valentine's day, Drama shows, Romantic movies, gifts, wedding rings. Without love and marriage, these things won't even sell. People just complicate our existence because of emotions. That's just my logic as a sag. Live a simple and straightforward life. We we're taught to get disappointed when somebody doesn't love us, or has a divorce. But if we accept that that is just our nature and it was just a concept, people won't really be butthurt about loyalty and divorce. That's from me being very truthful, realistic and undenial about these possibilities that most of the world denies and live this fantasy land.

I'm friends with a Sag guy from work and we were just talking about this.

He wants everything about a relationship but once he is in one all he wants is freedom.

He just recently moved in with his Cap girlfriend of 7 months. He got together with her because she told him she was in love with him and he really really wanted a relationship. In actuality, he was actively pursuing someone else but she turned him down.

He was actively pursuing me for several months at the beginning of the year but I told him that I wasn't ready to date. We are still friends but he is still really flirtatious.

He actively pursued everyone!

He is a great guy and I love him dearly but I don't think that a monogamous relationship is in the cards. He likes the thought of a partner and the fun of the chase but once he gets the girl he is bored.

I know he is a Sag sun, Libra moon, Scorpio Mars.

My boyfriend, but his moon and venus is in Scorpio.

LMFAOO I would love to know the answer to that too

I know some sags that are very faithful. Like my pal @Soul

But I will admit that my sag placements make me more mutable than ever, and personally, I'm not sure of what I want ever. So I may be into someone and then not. Idk

Honestly and truly sags aren't unfaithful. I just think they date a lot. And once they're dating the person, they'll stay faithful until they get bored. Then they'll break up w the person and go onto the next.

I met my sag when I was 19. Now I'm 29 and we're still together.

Posted by Deedee86
I'm friends with a Sag guy from work and we were just talking about this.

He wants everything about a relationship but once he is in one all he wants is freedom.

He just recently moved in with his Cap girlfriend of 7 months. He got together with her because she told him she was in love with him and he really really wanted a relationship. In actuality, he was actively pursuing someone else but she turned him down.

He was actively pursuing me for several months at the beginning of the year but I told him that I wasn't ready to date. We are still friends but he is still really flirtatious.

He actively pursued everyone!

He is a great guy and I love him dearly but I don't think that a monogamous relationship is in the cards. He likes the thought of a partner and the fun of the chase but once he gets the girl he is bored.

I know he is a Sag sun, Libra moon, Scorpio Mars.

Lol, yeah, I also want relationship, but when I'm in one, I quickly get bored. As you said, it's all about challenge, and chase. Once it's over, no more fun for us, lol. 😄

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
I know some sags that are very faithful. Like my pal @Soul

But I will admit that my sag placements make me more mutable than ever, and personally, I'm not sure of what I want ever. So I may be into someone and then not. Idk

@beautifulsoul7

I can't see my PM's anymore 😢

It's like I can see that you've pm'ed me but I can't open it ?

You've been good otherwise ?

Most Sags I know are in committed relationships with earth or water signs.

They don't seem to make it long term with another flighty fire sign.

Too much fighting and both calling each other on their bull shit.

Sag seems to need a stable, strong sign.

They are like paper flying in the wind sometimes, in need of a partner capable of putting their foot down and getting commitment out of them without it feeling like they are being suffocated.

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I know some sags that are very faithful. Like my pal @Soul

But I will admit that my sag placements make me more mutable than ever, and personally, I'm not sure of what I want ever. So I may be into someone and then not. Idk

@beautifulsoul7

I can't see my PM's anymore 😢

It's like I can see that you've pm'ed me but I can't open it ?

You've been good otherwise ?

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Yup I have been good. Ready to ring in 2017! And you?

Of course. I have been in 3 relationships and all were long term. My lash relationship I was in was for 6 years until I ended it. The key to keeping a sag is to have a friendship type relationship. Be fun, funny, spontaneous, honest, communicate and most importantly let us be free. Give s sag her freedom and she will always come back to you.

Posted by alrauneTB
I find it very disheartening that I seem to never have come across any commentaries about loyal Sags showing valuable qualities for a long-terms partnership with ANY sign. On the other hand all I find is how flakey and easy to switch affections they are. It's kind of weird and hard to believe. It's a huge deal-breaker as well for me as I am Leo, very loyal plus loads of earth (inc Venus in Virgo) in the chart and Cap Rising 😢

Does anyone heard of any Sags being married, or at least happy in a relationship?

I actually know of a leo sun female and sag sun male couple and the sag wanted marriage from the start with her. Few years later they got married and have been for years now.

One of my best friends is a Sagittarius, and she is one of the most loyal people I know! Both in friendships and romantic relationships, she values commitment. 🙂