Being forward with a Sag

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I wanna say something pretty forward to let my interest known

He just left the office and I wanna text him and ask him if he’s coming back

When he ask me why I want to say something like I like when you’re here

Too forward? I like this guy and want to know him more

Technically we don’t really work together

My office is more of a coworking situation

Help me saggis?
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So I said something entirely different than what I said I was and I didn’t like his response so i kept is pushing and didn’t respond.

The next day I come to the lunch area and he starts asking me a ton of questions like serious ones. About my last bf, what kind of guys I like, am I single, am I fucking, why did me and my last break up, what he did for a living. Said I look like a player with mad boyfriends. Asked If I lived with my man. I answered some, but not all and I felt flustered. He was soooo direct and aggressive with it. Tells me he likes honesty and transparency. Then when i asked what kind of women he likes he described me.

Then tells me he can’t take me to dinner if I’m going to eat a salad (was eating one for lunch) then says yes he you’re a beautiful woman but I can’t date you we work in the same place

Imma be shy when I see you and put a

Folder over

My face when I see you.

So I left the convo disappointed and deleted his num and I’m killing my feelings for him.
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Posted by MissKrabs

and the salad thing, men love watching women eating meat, not salad. that reminds them of sucking dick, and having energy riding one. so. he is very into you.


Idk girl



He said a lot and asked a lot but then followed up with directly saying he can’t date me.

I think it’s a good idea to take him at face

Value. I do like him even more now but I also have to be smart.

And what good is liking me but not enough to date me?
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Posted by tctaap

so sorry but I get how he feels - I can't date anyone from work either - it's can just get too messy

move on and find someone you can get it on with outside of work - and just keep him as a good eye-candy co-worker and flirt you butt off with him but only go so far; you never know what the future will bring


Thanks

No flirting for me

I won’t treat him bad but No flirting

I am talking to another Sag lol and I like him too and I feel he likes me he’s sweet and consistent thus far. I do want to date multiple people for the time being. Before committing to one.
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Posted by MissKrabs

I can’t date you we work in the same place

Imma be shy when I see you and put a

Folder over

My face when I see you.

first of all i'm not from usa, but from eu. and i know you are big on titles and shit. we give you bruises on thighs - a joke from another thread. anyway, accepting your ways, this still sounds very very cute. your choice ofc. but he seems very into you. and the fact 80% of my bfs were sags. and are still friends.


Idk

He just came in too

He always makes it a point to single me out and always says hi to me specifically but it almost feels like I’m being toyed with. I think leaving confusion alone is a good

Thing. And I’m not really confused since he said he couldn’t date me. I feel like there’s nothing to decipher. If I read into it I’ll get more confused.
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Posted by MissKrabs

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by MissKrabs

I can’t date you we work in the same place

Imma be shy when I see you and put a

Folder over

My face when I see you.

first of all i'm not from usa, but from eu. and i know you are big on titles and shit. we give you bruises on thighs - a joke from another thread. anyway, accepting your ways, this still sounds very very cute. your choice ofc. but he seems very into you. and the fact 80% of my bfs were sags. and are still friends.


Idk

He just came in too

He always makes it a point to single me out and always says hi to me specifically but it almost feels like I’m being toyed with. I think leaving confusion alone is a good

Thing. And I’m not really confused since he said he couldn’t date me. I feel like there’s nothing to decipher. If I read into it I’ll get more confused.

he is a sag. he will go for you. just don't be mad. let him. and be chill in the mean time.
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Great advice

Thanks dear...xoxo
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Posted by MissKrabs

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by MissKrabs

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by MissKrabs

I can’t date you we work in the same place

Imma be shy when I see you and put a

Folder over

My face when I see you.

first of all i'm not from usa, but from eu. and i know you are big on titles and shit. we give you bruises on thighs - a joke from another thread. anyway, accepting your ways, this still sounds very very cute. your choice ofc. but he seems very into you. and the fact 80% of my bfs were sags. and are still friends.


Idk

He just came in too

He always makes it a point to single me out and always says hi to me specifically but it almost feels like I’m being toyed with. I think leaving confusion alone is a good

Thing. And I’m not really confused since he said he couldn’t date me. I feel like there’s nothing to decipher. If I read into it I’ll get more confused.

he is a sag. he will go for you. just don't be mad. let him. and be chill in the mean time.


Great advice

Thanks dear...xoxo

xo, let us know if that goes forward, love good stories.
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I’ll keep you posted along the way
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Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by MissKrabs

I can’t date you we work in the same place

Imma be shy when I see you and put a

Folder over

My face when I see you.

first of all i'm not from usa, but from eu. and i know you are big on titles and shit. we give you bruises on thighs - a joke from another thread. anyway, accepting your ways, this still sounds very very cute. your choice ofc. but he seems very into you. and the fact 80% of my bfs were sags. and are still friends.


Idk

He just came in too

He always makes it a point to single me out and always says hi to me specifically but it almost feels like I’m being toyed with. I think leaving confusion alone is a good

Thing. And I’m not really confused since he said he couldn’t date me. I feel like there’s nothing to decipher. If I read into it I’ll get more confused.


go drink

have fun

make a little love

get drunk tonight
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Girl I need to lol it’s been two years and I need some love and affection

I’m getting back out There
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Posted by bkbella86

Posted by Black-Mamba

first time i seen you write a man, proud of you


Lmaooo

Thanks girl

I hated doing it

But at least I’m not curious anymore
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I love your story lol. I recently did the same thing sort of, but I am a Sag and he is Cancer. I believe the Sag is interested in you, but I don't believe he is looking for anything serious atm. Don't waste your time because Saggies know what they want or they will approach you from a friendly-flirt type of situation. We are the Archers of the zodiac and aim at our prey.