can being a Sagittarius sun with Cancer Moon really change your outlook on relationships ?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by lilliverpoolsangel on Tuesday, January 5, 2021 and has 13 replies.

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@lilliverpoolsangel
13 Years

Hi all,

please excuse me if I come across as ignorant, its only because I only know a handful of Sagittarius people and all of the ones I've come across have a difficult time settling down or committing to a partner, that or they are flighty because they want to keep their freedom and free spirited nature over everything else

but ive since met a Sagittarius man with a Cancer moon placement and he seems completely different about it, yes he values his freedom but he is also really keen on commitment and settling down

does your moon sign really affect you that much ? or do I just not know Sagittarians very well

thank you in advance

xx

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@LithiK
5 Years

I believe so. I'm Cancer sun who should love to settle down and comit easy, but i have Sag moon, and i have real hard time committing in relationships, i date 1year minimum before i'd go in boyfriend girlfriend status, and that's not to say that's exactly the time, but that's aprox how much it takes for me to get comfy with someone and see if they are not going to take away my freedom, it's really important for me. Moon represents what you need, instead of what you want, so i'd say moon is good indication of what you need in life to trully feel fulfilled instead of what you want .

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@lilliverpoolsangel
13 Years

Posted by LithiK

I believe so. I'm Cancer sun who should love to settle down and comit easy, but i have Sag moon, and i have real hard time committing in relationships, i date 1year minimum before i'd go in boyfriend girlfriend status, and that's not to say that's exactly the time, but that's aprox how much it takes for me to get comfy with someone and see if they are not going to take away my freedom, it's really important for me. Moon represents what you need, instead of what you want, so i'd say moon is good indication of what you need in life to trully feel fulfilled instead of what you want .

hey !! 🙂 I am a cancer sun with a scorpio moon and even im more skeptical to settle down like im super suspicious of everyone and have major trust issues, this guy seems extremely keen and its throwing me off haha

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@LithiK
5 Years

Posted by lilliverpoolsangel

Posted by LithiK

I believe so. I'm Cancer sun who should love to settle down and comit easy, but i have Sag moon, and i have real hard time committing in relationships, i date 1year minimum before i'd go in boyfriend girlfriend status, and that's not to say that's exactly the time, but that's aprox how much it takes for me to get comfy with someone and see if they are not going to take away my freedom, it's really important for me. Moon represents what you need, instead of what you want, so i'd say moon is good indication of what you need in life to trully feel fulfilled instead of what you want .

hey !! 🙂 I am a cancer sun with a scorpio moon and even im more skeptical to settle down like im super suspicious of everyone and have major trust issues, this guy seems extremely keen and its throwing me off haha

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Ohh i bet, i can imagine Scorp moon could make you skeptical and suspicious, i have north node, asc, juppiter and pluto in scorp , lol.

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@applecherrypie
7 Years

Posted by lilliverpoolsangel

Posted by LithiK

I believe so. I'm Cancer sun who should love to settle down and comit easy, but i have Sag moon, and i have real hard time committing in relationships, i date 1year minimum before i'd go in boyfriend girlfriend status, and that's not to say that's exactly the time, but that's aprox how much it takes for me to get comfy with someone and see if they are not going to take away my freedom, it's really important for me. Moon represents what you need, instead of what you want, so i'd say moon is good indication of what you need in life to trully feel fulfilled instead of what you want .

hey !! 🙂 I am a cancer sun with a scorpio moon and even im more skeptical to settle down like im super suspicious of everyone and have major trust issues, this guy seems extremely keen and its throwing me off haha

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You should be intuitive with your placements. If something feels off it probably is? Proceed with caution. Don't let a guy's keeness rush you.

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@jeane
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by LithiK

I believe so. I'm Cancer sun who should love to settle down and comit easy, but i have Sag moon, and i have real hard time committing in relationships, i date 1year minimum before i'd go in boyfriend girlfriend status, and that's not to say that's exactly the time, but that's aprox how much it takes for me to get comfy with someone and see if they are not going to take away my freedom, it's really important for me. Moon represents what you need, instead of what you want, so i'd say moon is good indication of what you need in life to trully feel fulfilled instead of what you want .

i have a sag moon too and this sounds very familiar. my partner is also a sag moon and he behaved the same way.

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@LithiK
5 Years

Posted by jeane

Posted by LithiK

I believe so. I'm Cancer sun who should love to settle down and comit easy, but i have Sag moon, and i have real hard time committing in relationships, i date 1year minimum before i'd go in boyfriend girlfriend status, and that's not to say that's exactly the time, but that's aprox how much it takes for me to get comfy with someone and see if they are not going to take away my freedom, it's really important for me. Moon represents what you need, instead of what you want, so i'd say moon is good indication of what you need in life to trully feel fulfilled instead of what you want .

i have a sag moon too and this sounds very familiar. my partner is also a sag moon and he behaved the same way.

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yeah exactly, sag moons can understand sag moon easy.

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@jeane
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by LithiK

Posted by jeane

Posted by LithiK

I believe so. I'm Cancer sun who should love to settle down and comit easy, but i have Sag moon, and i have real hard time committing in relationships, i date 1year minimum before i'd go in boyfriend girlfriend status, and that's not to say that's exactly the time, but that's aprox how much it takes for me to get comfy with someone and see if they are not going to take away my freedom, it's really important for me. Moon represents what you need, instead of what you want, so i'd say moon is good indication of what you need in life to trully feel fulfilled instead of what you want .

i have a sag moon too and this sounds very familiar. my partner is also a sag moon and he behaved the same way.

yeah exactly, sag moons can understand sag moon easy.

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although the loss of freedom was on my mind, it was him who expressed it "no strings....i don't want to get tied down...i don't want to answer to anyone..."

who's looking to tie you down? i don't care what you do. do whatever the hell you want. i'm not your mother.

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

I’m a Sag sun Cancer moon and was in a relationship for half my life. I was made for relationships, as long as I don’t get bored of a person.

If someone appeals to my emotional side, I’m in. If they hold back, I’m out.

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@lilliverpoolsangel
13 Years

Posted by saggurl88

I’m a Sag sun Cancer moon and was in a relationship for half my life. I was made for relationships, as long as I don’t get bored of a person.

If someone appeals to my emotional side, I’m in. If they hold back, I’m out.

he wants to see me all the time and its a little overwhelming but I guess I just have to see how it goes without overthinking it then huh ?

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by lilliverpoolsangel

Posted by saggurl88

I’m a Sag sun Cancer moon and was in a relationship for half my life. I was made for relationships, as long as I don’t get bored of a person.

If someone appeals to my emotional side, I’m in. If they hold back, I’m out.

he wants to see me all the time and its a little overwhelming but I guess I just have to see how it goes without overthinking it then huh ?

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Yeah,

If you think about it, most relationships have to do with seeing each other often.

It's when he doesn't want to see you, that it becomes a problem.

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@aquarius09
15 Years10,000+ Posts

I’m starting to think there’s no such things as commitphobia. This is nonsense people hide behind when they are going with the flow and dating people/settling for people they have lukewarm feelings for. When you meet someone you click with or have instant connection with, timing is right or someone who you deem to be too good for you, trust me you immediately wanna lock them down. I have seen this play out with all supposed commitment phobes like the Sag moon below.

My bro, bestie (f), her husband, my cousin (m)two acquaintances I know with sag moon.

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@Emilia_Libra
7 Years

Posted by Misscappy

Cancer moon with any sun sign not necessarily just sagittarius, likes to be in a relationship.

Why? Cuddles.

A cuddle a day, all my problem goes away - cancer moon

Haha My Sag sun, cancer moon guy could cuddle every single night and be happy.

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5 Years500+ Posts

Posted by lilliverpoolsangel

Hi all,

please excuse me if I come across as ignorant, its only because I only know a handful of Sagittarius people and all of the ones I've come across have a difficult time settling down or committing to a partner, that or they are flighty because they want to keep their freedom and free spirited nature over everything else

but ive since met a Sagittarius man with a Cancer moon placement and he seems completely different about it, yes he values his freedom but he is also really keen on commitment and settling down

does your moon sign really affect you that much ? or do I just not know Sagittarians very well

thank you in advance

xx

Moons do play apart I am sag male with Aqua moon and unusually I am not worried about my freedom as such and I am not afraid to settle down in fact that is all I want to have the right person and support eachother etc.