Long story short, dealt with a Sag man for a few years. He didn’t want to be in a relationship but we basically were in one (didn’t want to share me with anyone else, talked everyday, etc.) I got tired of the disappearing acts and him not making things official so i left him alone. It’s been around 9 months and he came back saying he is in love with me and wants to be with me...is he genuine?
Has this Sag man changed?
Posted by Capmercury87Mercury is Capricorn Venus is Aquarius
What's his venus and mercury

Make him prove himself
Posted by UnicornSagYes....we were basically bf and gf smh
I don't think so. I wouldn't believe him. You were physical with him but you weren't in official relationship?
Posted by RooSagicornHe said he was going through a lot with his family (which he was I never met anyone in his family though which was an issue) now I guess he wants to be official
Well maybe? But I’d think you’d need more from him than that after 9 months.. what does he have to say for himself? What does he mean by be with you?
Posted by KoniuchaaActed like we were together but wasntPosted by beebeeNBasically?Posted by UnicornSagYes....we were basically bf and gf smh
I don't think so. I wouldn't believe him. You were physical with him but you weren't in official relationship?click to expand
I plan on making him tap dance I️ honestly don’t even want to go back into the situation
Posted by UnicornSagPosted by beebeeNWho knows lol 🤷🏾♀️ I don’t care to be honest lolPosted by UnicornSagYes....we were basically bf and gf smh
I don't think so. I wouldn't believe him. You were physical with him but you weren't in official relationship?
so...what was he doing for 9 months?click to expand
Posted by UnicornSagWe did all of that,no title thoughPosted by beebeeNPosted by KoniuchaaActed like we were together but wasntPosted by beebeeNBasically?Posted by UnicornSagYes....we were basically bf and gf smh
I don't think so. I wouldn't believe him. You were physical with him but you weren't in official relationship?
I don't know what this means?
For me being together means: kissing,hugging, holding hands, having sex, having long conversations, doing things together, spending time together...click to expand

Eh sounds like he was hiding something or someone... what a bunch of BS he missed you after 9 months? Go with your gut and stay away he did you a favor. If he never saw you as his GF or acknowledged as such then you were in a one way relationship. You can do a whole lot better.
I honestly believe he had something else going on as well..... it was too suspect.
Posted by RooSagicornI don’t want to be with him I don’t love him anymore 🤷🏾♀️Posted by beebeeNWhat do you want?Posted by RooSagicornHe said he was going through a lot with his family (which he was I never met anyone in his family though which was an issue) now I guess he wants to be official
Well maybe? But I’d think you’d need more from him than that after 9 months.. what does he have to say for himself? What does he mean by be with you?click to expand

Posted by beebeeNOnly you know that.
Long story short, dealt with a Sag man for a few years. He didn’t want to be in a relationship but we basically were in one (didn’t want to share me with anyone else, talked everyday, etc.) I got tired of the disappearing acts and him not making things official so i left him alone. It’s been around 9 months and he came back saying he is in love with me and wants to be with me...is he genuine?
We don't know him.
Posted by Senorita_LLI am lolPosted by RooSagicornShe's weird. lolPosted by beebeeNWell then it doesn’t matter! Does it?Posted by RooSagicornI don’t want to be with him I don’t love him anymore 🤷🏾♀️Posted by beebeeNWhat do you want?Posted by RooSagicornHe said he was going through a lot with his family (which he was I never met anyone in his family though which was an issue) now I guess he wants to be official
Well maybe? But I’d think you’d need more from him than that after 9 months.. what does he have to say for himself? What does he mean by be with you?click to expand
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3Just curious for an outside opinion
Lol if you really don’t give a shit you wouldn’t he here asking these questions.
Posted by Senorita_LLI just knew he was lying to me after awhile my therapist had to point this out.... disappearing because of “family issues” smfh looking back on it I was a fool....Sag annoy me to no endPosted by beebeeNWhat's you sun sign? lolPosted by Senorita_LLI am lolPosted by RooSagicornShe's weird. lolPosted by beebeeNWell then it doesn’t matter! Does it?Posted by RooSagicornI don’t want to be with him I don’t love him anymore 🤷🏾♀️Posted by beebeeNWhat do you want?Posted by RooSagicornHe said he was going through a lot with his family (which he was I never met anyone in his family though which was an issue) now I guess he wants to be official
Well maybe? But I’d think you’d need more from him than that after 9 months.. what does he have to say for himself? What does he mean by be with you?
My ex Sag kept on coming back to but ain't buying his words again. Both Sags, never will I. 😆click to expand

OP,
You know the truth...that he wasn’t committed to you. Bf/Gfs don’t pull disappearing acts. Are you upset at him or at the fact that you allowed him to do this? I’m not shifting blame on you or defending him as people should treat others with respect. You’re simply asking a question that you already know the answer to. Who knows why he’s coming around now. That will be revealed with time but his past behavior is relevant because he nor you have held him accountable. You shouldn’t get involved with him at all but if you must, keep him in the friendzone.
You know the truth...that he wasn’t committed to you. Bf/Gfs don’t pull disappearing acts. Are you upset at him or at the fact that you allowed him to do this? I’m not shifting blame on you or defending him as people should treat others with respect. You’re simply asking a question that you already know the answer to. Who knows why he’s coming around now. That will be revealed with time but his past behavior is relevant because he nor you have held him accountable. You shouldn’t get involved with him at all but if you must, keep him in the friendzone.

Posted by beebeeNHe shopped around and is settling for you now, He's full of shit. Almost a year later? Yeah right. He's gonna disappear again when someone else catches his attention.
Long story short, dealt with a Sag man for a few years. He didn’t want to be in a relationship but we basically were in one (didn’t want to share me with anyone else, talked everyday, etc.) I got tired of the disappearing acts and him not making things official so i left him alone. It’s been around 9 months and he came back saying he is in love with me and wants to be with me...is he genuine?
It just depends on what you're willing to put up with. You gave him too much freedom those years you were together. He's looking for that again. I would tell him to go shove it! He's gonna get all the comforts of home without living there, if you know what I mean. smh.
He knows how you are now and knows what you will put up with, he's gonna play you,I bet.
Posted by saggurl88I think a part of me want to wheel him in to get back at him and that isn’t healthy lol I knew he was lying to me he acts like he’s sooooo sincere but I feel it, he’s full of shit. He’s “in love” with me now....after all we have been through? It was a great learning experience but I’m off itPosted by beebeeNHe shopped around and is settling for you now, He's full of shit. Almost a year later? Yeah right. He's gonna disappear again when someone else catches his attention.
Long story short, dealt with a Sag man for a few years. He didn’t want to be in a relationship but we basically were in one (didn’t want to share me with anyone else, talked everyday, etc.) I got tired of the disappearing acts and him not making things official so i left him alone. It’s been around 9 months and he came back saying he is in love with me and wants to be with me...is he genuine?
It just depends on what you're willing to put up with. You gave him too much freedom those years you were together. He's looking for that again. I would tell him to go shove it! He's gonna get all the comforts of home without living there, if you know what I mean. smh.
He knows how you are now and knows what you will put up with, he's gonna play you,I bet.click to expand
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