How to get another Sagi back?

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Ok, here is about another Sagi. We've been shortly together, and it was fine and easy going, as it is between two Sagi. But, I opted to be with friends and drink for NY eve instead of being with her in my room as she suggested. It was tough to me to decide, and kinda reject her, but at that point, we only saw each other like 4 times, so I thought it would not be a big deal me partying with friends...I mean she doesn't drink, and me being at home just with her and not drinking sounded kinda...not as exciting, dunno...just wanted to party and have fun.

So at first she was like ok with that, but took her time to respond, and agreed to see me prior to NY eve, and then tomorrow send a long text how she changed her mind, cause if I can go to party without her, she can too, and she almost always text first, it's enough, she doesn't want any arguments on my side, etc, it's over. Then she removed me from all social networks.

But being a Sagi, and doing that before, I know she regretted it later, but Sagi's pride doesn't let them to come back. I run into similar situation here on forum, also between two Sags, and girl asked how to get him back after she dumping him...so I think that maybe she wonders the same. That 4th date was really nice, she stayed really long at my place, even tho she had to study, but stayed lot longer, so there was a lot of fire, passion, long kisses, hugs, sex, and all that.

Ok, I know it sounds lame asking recently about other Sagi, and now about this one too, but, the other chick is complicated cause of having a baby, and being or not with Sag male already...so better to skip it. This one is 24, while the one having baby is 20. Even the day and month of birth are almost the same.This one I feel like it isn't completely my fault cause it was just a beginning, and she was already depressed at the time, so I think that is why it hit her more than it should.

Anyway, wanted to ask cause three months passed, should I text her and how? Thought asking something about her exams, and all that. Dunno if she is in a relationship now tho, but would find out. She could either ignore my text, or reply as if she also waited, so I could invite to drink. I am willing to put more effort and try to be less carefree or wandering around. I thought about her a lot from then, so what do you Sagi girls think? Again, I am not trying just to have some fun...I would do my best to focus only on her, lol.

Also I think that her rising sign is in Virgo if I remember correctly.
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As a Sag, my vote is to leave her alone. She moved on. Why can't you? As a Sag, I don't want people from my past attempting to wiggle their asses back into my life uninvited. Personally, once I'm done, I'm done. Seems she is too.

You mentioned something about partying. Here's where you went wrong. You didn't include her (or present the option) which allowed room for her thoughts to wander. But, you're young, so, I get it, somewhat.

If I don't drink, that's fine. But that doesn't mean that I don't or won't socialize. See what I'm saying? You didn't allow her the opportunity to at least socialize with your friends and with you. So, she decided not to take you seriously aka playing games. So yeah, leave her alone.
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Well yeah, usually I do not look back either in those situations, just wondered cause it was something that could have been fixed easily, but yeah, she reacted maybe too impulsively, cause firstly she agreed to came then changed her mind, it means it was all the time in her head, bothering her, so instead of talking, she just reacted being short tempered Sagi, i can understand, lol.

I mean, I thought that it would also not be a good idea, but wanted to check cause I read about similar situation here, and Sagi girl wanted Sagi man back, but cause of her messing things up with short temper, she didn't knew how to do it being kinda embarrassed cause of it, so I wondered that maybe it was the same with her.

And I didn't want to invite her too cause it would be stupid for her to watch them or me being kinda drunk and her being sober, lol...

Also we just started dating then, so she shouldn't have been offended for that imo, plus we didn't even talk about NY eve...but her depression probably prevailed.