
DMV
@DMV
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Posted by WestsidekodakPosted by DMV
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.

Posted by WestsidekodakPosted by DMVPosted by WestsidekodakPosted by DMV
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.

Posted by tizianiTalk to me please... I've been told "I just can't slow you down... You can have anyone you want... I don't know why you're attracted to a girl like me" I don't get it...
Maybe you inspire fear in people. You have that kind of vibe in the way you write.





Posted by KoniuchaStylish nerdy glasses = Not intimidating / def relationship potentialPosted by enfant_terribleAnd what if you are just completely single? No FWB, no nothin
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.click to expand

Posted by justagirl
From the threads i have seen/read of yours, it didn't seem like you actually wanted to be tied down. Perhaps that was an incorrect assumtion on my part, but that is what came across via the internet, so i would assume that was tenfold in realtime.
Maybe that has all changed for you and you desire to be tied down now.. maybe the way you approach it is still hooking those " types" of men? just something to ponder. i do hope you find what you are searching for.
Posted by cheekyfaerie- Saturn can change us, right?
...
try not to see this guy as a loss and let it get you all down in the dumps. Somewhere, somebody out there is speaking your language.click to expand

Posted by Wynter

Posted by blessyou
I try to make life as Neptune as possible..idgaf how strong of a hold Saturn has on me or others,

Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.
Posted by DMVSay whatever you want, this right here is your problem.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.

Posted by DwellingOnMovePartial credit but with the risk of sounding unpopular I think men make the shift easier than women.Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.
that explains the half.
the other half is explained by "men stay too long in the FWB era too". they lose the orientation.click to expand

Posted by feby
I hear the same thing from a sag I work with. As she's sitting there juggling numerous men through dating sites right in front of my eyes. She keeps getting the 1 date and then the next day "it's not going to work" thing. I think it's more of a be honest with yourself kind of thing, usually is.
Plus she has a tendency to give too much / share too much right away. I tried to tell her to keep her hand closer to her chest but I don't think she'll change....maybe doesn't want to even.


Posted by risesafterallPosted by DMVSay whatever you want, this right here is your problem.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
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Posted by DMVPosted by starloverI got friend zoned!!!
😢
What happened to Mr Ram?
Im still in disbeliefclick to expand

Posted by arose32I have to be cursed. Theres no other explanation.
DMV.. I was about to post this today..
I for real don't get it. I'm hardworking, studying in Architecture, literally building my first company from the ground up.. Caring.. And I KNOW FOR A FACT... My sex is amazing... I'm so selfless... And I have to be great looking because I get the women everyone wants!!! BUT THEY BE CRAZY!!!! Like my friends laugh and say I get the crazy ones...
I have about five girls right now to this day... When they see me, they act like we talk and stuff... But they won't step up to the plate... Omg

Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by DwellingOnMovePartial credit but with the risk of sounding unpopular I think men make the shift easier than women.Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.
that explains the half.
the other half is explained by "men stay too long in the FWB era too". they lose the orientation.
When men decide to settle they decide for the quiet life knowing what that entails. And they stick to it.
Women who are used and comfortable with the FWB lifestyle will have a harder time adapting to the quiet life, many of them seem to approach it as just another experiment.
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Posted by tizianiIm intimidating. Thats for sure.
Maybe you inspire fear in people. You have that kind of vibe in the way you write.

Posted by DMVPosted by arose32I have to be cursed. Theres no other explanation.
DMV.. I was about to post this today..
I for real don't get it. I'm hardworking, studying in Architecture, literally building my first company from the ground up.. Caring.. And I KNOW FOR A FACT... My sex is amazing... I'm so selfless... And I have to be great looking because I get the women everyone wants!!! BUT THEY BE CRAZY!!!! Like my friends laugh and say I get the crazy ones...
I have about five girls right now to this day... When they see me, they act like we talk and stuff... But they won't step up to the plate... Omg
I hang out in a totally different crowd. Ive changed alot and still no one wants to date me.
I can only be me.
It has to be all this 5th house energy. I dont come across as committal maybe. Im just loads of fun to people.
Dont get me wrong. Men and women clamor to hang out with me. Im a good time. But no relationshipclick to expand

Posted by blessyouCan u elaborate
I try to make life as Neptune as possible..idgaf how strong of a hold Saturn has on me or others,

Posted by DMVWell I'm the champion always picking up wrong guys in my life, And all those relationships always have the same ending, they leave, quit talking, ignoring, lying, blah. I think your life is better than mine, seriously. At least no problems there.
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.

Posted by DMVNot for anything too serious though, right?Posted by tizianiIm intimidating. Thats for sure.
Maybe you inspire fear in people. You have that kind of vibe in the way you write.
But i still get approached.click to expand

Posted by enfant_terribleI wear glasses cause my eyes are to piercing. LolPosted by KoniuchaStylish nerdy glasses = Not intimidating / def relationship potentialPosted by enfant_terribleAnd what if you are just completely single? No FWB, no nothin
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.
Lolclick to expand

Posted by DMVSee how you confuse all the little boys 😛Posted by enfant_terribleI wear glasses cause my eyes are to piercing. LolPosted by KoniuchaStylish nerdy glasses = Not intimidating / def relationship potentialPosted by enfant_terribleAnd what if you are just completely single? No FWB, no nothin
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.
Lolclick to expand

Posted by febyWell im not juggling. I dont have anything to juggle.
I hear the same thing from a sag I work with. As she's sitting there juggling numerous men through dating sites right in front of my eyes. She keeps getting the 1 date and then the next day "it's not going to work" thing. I think it's more of a be honest with yourself kind of thing, usually is.
Plus she has a tendency to give too much / share too much right away. I tried to tell her to keep her hand closer to her chest but I don't think she'll change....maybe doesn't want to even.

Posted by DMVPosted by blessyouCan u elaborate
I try to make life as Neptune as possible..idgaf how strong of a hold Saturn has on me or others,
Posted by DwellingOnMove
... statistically life is more pragmatical and sold to Saturn than dreamy and sold to Neptune.
...click to expand

Posted by risesafterallThats where youre wrong i think.
Wanting to take and take from someone without giving is not love.
Nobody's hoping for a parasite.

Posted by enfant_terribleTheres some truth to this.Posted by DwellingOnMovePartial credit but with the risk of sounding unpopular I think men make the shift easier than women.Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.
that explains the half.
the other half is explained by "men stay too long in the FWB era too". they lose the orientation.
When men decide to settle they decide for the quiet life knowing what that entails. And they stick to it.
Women who are used and comfortable with the FWB lifestyle will have a harder time adapting to the quiet life, many of them seem to approach it as just another experiment.
click to expand

Posted by DwellingOnMoveNo its phrase lol.Posted by risesafterallPosted by DMVSay whatever you want, this right here is your problem.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
I have a hard time to understand you both. Is "to save my life" a language thing? Cause I don't see how a man can save any life. When you extend yourself to a further person, usually you have more problems/worries too. It is at least not as comfortable and managable as living alone. For me with Moon in Pisces it is double trouble. I don't know how it is for other Moon placements.click to expand

Posted by DwellingOnMoveThat was a different ram.Posted by DMVPosted by starloverI got friend zoned!!!
😢
What happened to Mr Ram?
Im still in disbelief
but wasn't that already an old shoe?click to expand

Posted by DwellingOnMoveIm not sure. But i can tell if im a spinning plate and i fade to black.Posted by DMVPosted by arose32I have to be cursed. Theres no other explanation.
DMV.. I was about to post this today..
I for real don't get it. I'm hardworking, studying in Architecture, literally building my first company from the ground up.. Caring.. And I KNOW FOR A FACT... My sex is amazing... I'm so selfless... And I have to be great looking because I get the women everyone wants!!! BUT THEY BE CRAZY!!!! Like my friends laugh and say I get the crazy ones...
I have about five girls right now to this day... When they see me, they act like we talk and stuff... But they won't step up to the plate... Omg
I hang out in a totally different crowd. Ive changed alot and still no one wants to date me.
I can only be me.
It has to be all this 5th house energy. I dont come across as committal maybe. Im just loads of fun to people.
Dont get me wrong. Men and women clamor to hang out with me. Im a good time. But no relationship
What about they themselves? Have they started their own quiet commital relationships while you were watching in the air?click to expand
Posted by DMVBecause you said you want someone to save your life. Someone to fulfill an emptiness (?)Posted by risesafterallThats where youre wrong i think.
Wanting to take and take from someone without giving is not love.
Nobody's hoping for a parasite.
Im not a taker in any of my relationships. Totally opposite.
Im a giver not a receiver. Im a doer. Im a mars in virgo, venus cap.
I love to DO for people..
What have you read from me to make that causation?click to expand

Posted by blessyouPeople who make comments like this, piss me off.
I would chime in but I don't want to hurt feelings

Posted by KoniuchaWell, how often and where do you actually get a chance to meet new people.... except for the trenchcoat pedobear that prowls your nightbourhood? 😛Posted by febySee, I am both of those things and still, nothing 😭
I would think be more discriminating and more reserved, just from what I've noticed.click to expand

Posted by enfant_terribleNever. NEVERPosted by DMVNot for anything too serious though, right?Posted by tizianiIm intimidating. Thats for sure.
Maybe you inspire fear in people. You have that kind of vibe in the way you write.
But i still get approached.click to expand

Posted by DMVEver considered maybe you're just not the type? Like, James Bond?Posted by enfant_terribleTheres some truth to this.Posted by DwellingOnMovePartial credit but with the risk of sounding unpopular I think men make the shift easier than women.Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.
that explains the half.
the other half is explained by "men stay too long in the FWB era too". they lose the orientation.
When men decide to settle they decide for the quiet life knowing what that entails. And they stick to it.
Women who are used and comfortable with the FWB lifestyle will have a harder time adapting to the quiet life, many of them seem to approach it as just another experiment.
Maybe i dont know how to relationship yet. What do i do for practice?click to expand

Posted by blessyouYes this is good. I agree.Posted by DMVMeaning if Saturn wants me to struggle and work so hard, I'll make sure to get some $ me-time $ in because Im not really feeling the Saturn energy always trying bring me down so I always make sure I can fit in some happy time throughout my day if possible. Looking at the bright side of things.Posted by blessyouCan u elaborate
I try to make life as Neptune as possible..idgaf how strong of a hold Saturn has on me or others,click to expand

Posted by febyMore reserved is impossible.Posted by DMVI would think be more discriminating and more reserved, just from what I've noticed.Posted by enfant_terribleTheres some truth to this.Posted by DwellingOnMovePartial credit but with the risk of sounding unpopular I think men make the shift easier than women.Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.
that explains the half.
the other half is explained by "men stay too long in the FWB era too". they lose the orientation.
When men decide to settle they decide for the quiet life knowing what that entails. And they stick to it.
Women who are used and comfortable with the FWB lifestyle will have a harder time adapting to the quiet life, many of them seem to approach it as just another experiment.
Maybe i dont know how to relationship yet. What do i do for practice?click to expand

Posted by asc_scorp1991Venus capricornPosted by DMVAny retrograde planets or hard saturn aspects?
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
click to expand



Posted by KoniuchaWell then that's what you'll attract. Same reason the restless souls & split personalities will not attract "homebodies" but their own kind.Posted by enfant_terribleI rarely go out. I am just really so busy and only have a few friends. My closest friend moved away 😢Posted by KoniuchaWell, how often and where do you actually get a chance to meet new people.... except for the trenchcoat pedobear that prowls your nightbourhood? 😛Posted by febySee, I am both of those things and still, nothing 😭
I would think be more discriminating and more reserved, just from what I've noticed.
Unfortunately I'm a big homebody.click to expand

Posted by risesafterallNo. Its a phrase. I dont need saving.Posted by DMVBecause you said you want someone to save your life. Someone to fulfill an emptiness (?)Posted by risesafterallThats where youre wrong i think.
Wanting to take and take from someone without giving is not love.
Nobody's hoping for a parasite.
Im not a taker in any of my relationships. Totally opposite.
Im a giver not a receiver. Im a doer. Im a mars in virgo, venus cap.
I love to DO for people..
What have you read from me to make that causation?click to expand
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Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.