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Posted by DMVNaw. Take a look at how you're approaching men. I am not referring to sex, but your thought/beliefs about getting the man you want because it's motivating how you approach courtship (I like that word vs dating 😄)
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
From my observation I find when people think they can't or won't have something they "chase" it harder. Whether they are aware of it or not. "Chase" isn't limited to sweating a person. It can also mean do and/or say things that push to hard.
I was talking to a guy friend of mine last night about this same thing. He was telling me about a friend of his that approached a man all wrong, despite his advice. Asking the wrong questions too soon and not paying attention to how he was approach her. Also settling for piss poor behaviour under the guise of "wanting to come off a chill and easy going".
Anyway, nothing is wrong with you. Check your thoughts, your approach and the men your selecting to spend time with.
Posted by DwellingOnMoveRam was 10 years younger.
^^^^^^^^^^ another question:
would it help if she goes for a much older guy?
or for much younger?
Sag was 8 years older
Posted by enfant_terribleI actually have. Ive had 2 psychics tell me that.Posted by DMVEver considered maybe you're just not the type? Like, James Bond?Posted by enfant_terribleTheres some truth to this.Posted by DwellingOnMovePartial credit but with the risk of sounding unpopular I think men make the shift easier than women.Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.
that explains the half.
the other half is explained by "men stay too long in the FWB era too". they lose the orientation.
When men decide to settle they decide for the quiet life knowing what that entails. And they stick to it.
Women who are used and comfortable with the FWB lifestyle will have a harder time adapting to the quiet life, many of them seem to approach it as just another experiment.
Maybe i dont know how to relationship yet. What do i do for practice?click to expand
But i dunno. Im reluctant to take myself out the running
Posted by KoniuchaYoure fine. I could probably learn something
Sorry @DMV
I just shoved my way in here with my problem
Posted by DMVPosted by DwellingOnMoveRam was 10 years younger.
^^^^^^^^^^ another question:
would it help if she goes for a much older guy?
or for much younger?
Sag was 8 years olderclick to expand
so the older one was more an official thing than the younger one?
maybe your Sag Sun and H5 is too much for serious things. that irritates the children. I mean regarding the impression #zeitgeist makes that men stay longer in the playground than we women could welcome.
Switch to the older guys, maybe?
Posted by tizianiSomeone who wants to go just further than sex. Someone who wants to experience things together.Posted by KoniuchaWhat is long term potential to you?Posted by DMVGeez, that is why then.Posted by asc_scorp1991Venus capricornPosted by DMVAny retrograde planets or hard saturn aspects?
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
Venus sq saturn
I have Venus Virgo conjunct Saturn. It's like a strong Cap Venus.
We are looking for a serious only relationship. Well I am anyways. I won't waste my time unless I see long term potential.click to expand
Like a job interview looking for qualities that will season over time.
Posted by asc_scorp1991I hate that this is an outcome that i must live with.Posted by DMVTHAT 🙂Posted by asc_scorp1991Venus capricornPosted by DMVAny retrograde planets or hard saturn aspects?
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
Venus sq saturn
Sometimes its IS bad luck thanks to being born at the wrong time
Source: Personal experience thanks to Venus retrograde and other "love life" weakening aspects in chart. Ever since teenage I always sensed something was wrong with my "love luck" .When I started with astrology and studied others in my circle, that is when I knew.
Sometimes you just can't fight with the stars. Better just accept it no? Because when you accept that nothing good is ever going to happen to you, you don't "expect" things to happen. You stop waiting for that knight in shining armor because you know he ain't coming. That way, you end up becoming happier.click to expand
Just hate it.
Its even a harder pill to swallow cause other people have so much faith in my love life.
Posted by DwellingOnMoveI do like older. Id rather be the student than the teacher.Posted by DMVPosted by DwellingOnMoveRam was 10 years younger.
^^^^^^^^^^ another question:
would it help if she goes for a much older guy?
or for much younger?
Sag was 8 years older
so the older one was more an official thing than the younger one?
maybe your Sag Sun and H5 is too much for serious things. that irritates the children. I mean regarding the impression #zeitgeist makes that men stay longer in the playground than we women could welcome.
Switch to the older guys, maybe?click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by DMVNaw. Take a look at how you're approaching men. I am not referring to sex, but your thought/beliefs about getting the man you want because it's motivating how you approach courtship (I like that word vs dating 😄)
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
From my observation I find when people think they can't or won't have something they "chase" it harder. Whether they are aware of it or not. "Chase" isn't limited to sweating a person. It can also mean do and/or say things that push to hard.
I was talking to a guy friend of mine last night about this same thing. He was telling me about a friend of his that approached a man all wrong, despite his advice. Asking the wrong questions too soon and not paying attention to how he was approach her. Also settling for piss poor behaviour under the guise of "wanting to come off a chill and easy going".
Anyway, nothing is wrong with you. Check your thoughts, your approach and the men your selecting to spend time with.click to expand
I like your approach.
That reminds me of something else. (not sure if this is your thing or not)
According to the law of attraction you get things which you have imagined in all its details.
I think if OP can imagine/visualize several times a day how she is in a committed relationship with the man, she'll get it. The reason is while these visualisation sessions she can notice how different they are and how she needs to adapt. And what is her playful trick to feed the routine and the sparkle. The more details she works on, the more inspirational ideas she gets for the time being. for now not for the future. the actions and thoughts of now create the future.
Posted by PhoenixRisingSuch a hardened approach to life. To settle the urge not to be friendly, not to be gung ho, not to be excited.Posted by DMVNaw. Take a look at how you're approaching men. I am not referring to sex, but your thought/beliefs about getting the man you want because it's motivating how you approach courtship (I like that word vs dating 😄)
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
From my observation I find when people think they can't or won't have something they "chase" it harder. Whether they are aware of it or not. "Chase" isn't limited to sweating a person. It can also mean do and/or say things that push to hard.
I was talking to a guy friend of mine last night about this same thing. He was telling me about a friend of his that approached a man all wrong, despite his advice. Asking the wrong questions too soon and not paying attention to how he was approach her. Also settling for piss poor behaviour under the guise of "wanting to come off a chill and easy going".
Anyway, nothing is wrong with you. Check your thoughts, your approach and the men your selecting to spend time with.click to expand
Girl i got 6 planets in the 5th house. Quite the adjustment.
I even realized in my acting classes that being non jovial is not my forte.
Posted by KoniuchaAlways.
Anyways, I am a bit scared to go off liking someone else.
I am having such a hard time letting go of the last guy. Sometimes I wish I never met him.
When I do like someone, it is so deep and that is the issue.
There just is no middle ground. I either like or i dont. When i like, only 2 switches. I go full throttle or i dont move.
Posted by FrostedEllyMaybe i should ask for exit interviews.
Sags are real good at holding their serious cards close to their chest, so much so others think they don't exist. Especially if they have scorp and cap dabbled in there. Particularly if you like the chase in dating and have become good at it, which I don't know you but just from your posts history you give that vibe.
Water moon to water moon though, you ever just get that twinge in your gut of knowing? Idk. I always have an inuitive undercurrent about my relationships. Yet despite knowing some roads are going to be dead ends, I sometimes can't stop myself. I want the experience more than I want security sometimes. So I contradict my outgoing message cause a water moon deeply needs security and not just the experience and the thrill. Not that your me, but since we're all throwing pennies for thought in lol.
I only seem to attract pluto types as well. So who knows.
Maybe being just truly happily single. Living every minute of those short term affairs. Is the way too achieve happiness.
Coming to grips with my true reality.
Well then. You fucks dont get mad when i start posting about fling after fling again.
Coming to grips with my true reality.
Well then. You fucks dont get mad when i start posting about fling after fling again.
Posted by FrostedEllyMy life. Though it applies to many areas and not just relationships
Water moon to water moon though, you ever just get that twinge in your gut of knowing? Idk. I always have an inuitive undercurrent about my relationships. Yet despite knowing some roads are going to be dead ends, I sometimes can't stop myself. I want the experience more than I want security sometimes. So I contradict my outgoing message cause a water moon deeply needs security and not just the experience and the thrill. Not that your me, but since we're all throwing pennies for thought in lol.
Posted by arose32Stop choosing girls that have the self esteem of an ant. Insecure people often sabotage things to confirm their not worthy.Posted by tizianiTalk to me please... I've been told "I just can't slow you down... You can have anyone you want... I don't know why you're attracted to a girl like me" I don't get it...
Maybe you inspire fear in people. You have that kind of vibe in the way you write.click to expand
Also, if women are saying "I just can't slow you down", then that suggest you may either need to figure what message you're sending to others or you may need to simply find women that understand your need for space better.
Posted by febyThis. Sorry Saggies, but most of the time y'all are stubborn as f*ck and no can tell you anything about the way you're going about things. You know it all. Worst than a fixed sign in some cases. I'm guessing that messes with your need for freedom (aka don't tell me what to do) or desire for full acceptance of who you are mindset. If it's broke, well....fix it.
I hear the same thing from a sag I work with. As she's sitting there juggling numerous men through dating sites right in front of my eyes. She keeps getting the 1 date and then the next day "it's not going to work" thing. I think it's more of a be honest with yourself kind of thing, usually is.
Plus she has a tendency to give too much / share too much right away. I tried to tell her to keep her hand closer to her chest but I don't think she'll change....maybe doesn't want to even.
Posted by KoniuchaAre you scared ,or is it that you're in a place where you feel like you've got nothing more to give for the time being bc the last person took it with them?
Anyways, I am a bit scared to go off liking someone else.
I am having such a hard time letting go of the last guy. Sometimes I wish I never met him.
When I do like someone, it is so deep and that is the issue.
I meant that as something to ponder on for yourself..
Posted by HarukaaI wish i had a different moon.
It's your scorpio moon I guess
I don't know DMV .. but maybe you're always show them that u r care so much about them .. maybe more than you are really did.
Maybe you don't play mind games ? I know it's funny but I always do it when I really want a man I really just want one in all my life but I play games for a long time that make him crazy lol
Don't be open with them, be a mysterious to make them fall for u... cuz love is about mysterious and games .
do not go with them when they ask DMV €ðŸ‘
Keep saying no in a Innocent way.
I mean be hard and don't let them in when they ask.
Just let them that you are want them but don't want them in the same time.
My sis have moon in scorpio .. and she is always ask me for a new game to play with her lover .. but sometimes she get mad at me without reason lol
Maybe you're looking for something serious, but don't tell them .. keep them chase you ..they will ask you in the end about what you really want.
Good luck
Posted by tizianiI'm not sure about that because .... When girls see me, they shake their head and smile.. Or they'll do something to get my attention... Etc. it's like they Will DO ANYTHING for my attention, but once they get it... Don't know what to do .... Like they can't handle it... I know I'm not weird or anything because It falls I. My lap. This cancer girl on the forum said I'm too attractive that's why I have girl issues. But what does that mean?? How can I let them know I'm deciding to talk to you for a reason...Posted by arose32Do you come off as unapproachable?Posted by tizianiTalk to me please... I've been told "I just can't slow you down... You can have anyone you want... I don't know why you're attracted to a girl like me" I don't get it...
Maybe you inspire fear in people. You have that kind of vibe in the way you write.click to expand
Posted by DMVI can relate to this 110% . and I have the same verbal reactions that you mentioned as well. the guys I want don't reciprocate. the ones who want me are mentally unstable or weird. there's no in between. it's either 0 or 100. in every way I don't want.
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
my true Lilith is in the 7th house, and my 7th house is bare otherwise. there's the "user" or the "used". so far I've just been the "used" because I'm unable to be very discerning. I'm blinded by the crushes I have and I confuse crushes for love. I fall in love very quickly, and in turn I'm often rejected or just used. I'm not patient enough to "develop" love. I just want it to happen. that's my main issue.
despite that I still think in regards to love I am cursed. and Venus is my dominant.
I think I'm pretty fabulous too. I'm not very attractive, but I have some traits that should make up for that. clearly they don't lol.
we will find someone eventually, and if we don't maybe we are better off. despite the feeling of loneliness we will suffer. I feel isolated most of the time anyways, but I "live for love". it just seems it wasn't made for me. or it's God's way of laughing and mocking me, holding what I want some feet above my head and I can never reach it.
Posted by DMVThis is a change... I've always seen you as keeping a healthy distance
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
(emotionally) from the men in your life, because you weren't looking for
anything more at that time.
Maybe this is just the transition phase?
Can we get actual time span... howl long you've *really* been without?
Maybe its' not as long as it feels.
Posted by DMVNo i dontPosted by HarukaaI wish i had a different moon.
It's your scorpio moon I guess
I don't know DMV .. but maybe you're always show them that u r care so much about them .. maybe more than you are really did.
Maybe you don't play mind games ? I know it's funny but I always do it when I really want a man I really just want one in all my life but I play games for a long time that make him crazy lol
Don't be open with them, be a mysterious to make them fall for u... cuz love is about mysterious and games .
do not go with them when they ask DMV €ðŸ‘
Keep saying no in a Innocent way.
I mean be hard and don't let them in when they ask.
Just let them that you are want them but don't want them in the same time.
My sis have moon in scorpio .. and she is always ask me for a new game to play with her lover .. but sometimes she get mad at me without reason lol
Maybe you're looking for something serious, but don't tell them .. keep them chase you ..they will ask you in the end about what you really want.
Good luckclick to expand
I love me
Posted by DwellingOnMoveThat's not necessarily true and could be a big issue if you're enetering a relationship thinking this.Posted by risesafterallPosted by DMVSay whatever you want, this right here is your problem.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
I have a hard time to understand you both. Is "to save my life" a language thing? Cause I don't see how a man can save any life. When you extend yourself to a further person, usually you have more problems/worries too. It is at least not as comfortable and managable as living alone.click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingIve always thought of saggis as a scorpio with a sense of humor.Posted by febyThis. Sorry Saggies, but most of the time y'all are stubborn as f*ck and no can tell you anything about the way you're going about things. You know it all. Worst than a fixed sign in some cases. I'm guessing that messes with your need for freedom (aka don't tell me what to do) or desire for full acceptance of who you are mindset. If it's broke, well....fix it.
I hear the same thing from a sag I work with. As she's sitting there juggling numerous men through dating sites right in front of my eyes. She keeps getting the 1 date and then the next day "it's not going to work" thing. I think it's more of a be honest with yourself kind of thing, usually is.
Plus she has a tendency to give too much / share too much right away. I tried to tell her to keep her hand closer to her chest but I don't think she'll change....maybe doesn't want to even.click to expand
Posted by DamousWhy not. I was much happier then.
STOP FUCKING A NEW PERSON EVERY OTHER DAY >.>
It wasnt until i started drinking that damn dxp koolaid Preaching relationship this and settle down that. Stop screwing this stop sucking that. Ever since that shit infested my mind ive been unhappy.
The hell with all that.
Give me dick or give me death
Posted by DMVBeing approachable isn't the issue and frankly has nothing to do with relationships. If you're intimidating (e.g. I don't feel like I have a place in your life) that determines if one wants to stick around or not.Posted by tizianiIm intimidating. Thats for sure.
Maybe you inspire fear in people. You have that kind of vibe in the way you write.
But i still get approached.click to expand
Posted by DamousI will!!!Posted by DMVThen do THAT!Posted by DamousWhy not. I was much happier then.
STOP FUCKING A NEW PERSON EVERY OTHER DAY >.>
It wasnt until i started drinking that damn dxp koolaid Preaching relationship this and settle down that. Stop screwing this stop sucking that. Ever since that shit infested my mind ive been unhappy.
The hell with all that.
Give me dick or give me deathclick to expand
Posted by PotHeadVirgo25I relax, think, prioritize/strategize
Honestly DMV, I don't think you really want a relationship as you don't come off relationshippie to me anyway.
How do you work past problems that show up down the line? Do you? Can you give me an example? Somehow I think there may lie the problem or may steer us toward it.
Posted by tizianiOkay well what could be the reason I attract difficult girls... I try to date average looking people but they always try to "one up" me.. Ya know? The push pull stuff etc.. It's never just chill. Well I had one and we were cool, but she thought she could entertain other people and I would not do me ... I asked her out she declined.... Kept having sex... She was talking to other people... And then I was like bump it. I can talk to who I want to talk to... She got pissed .. That ended. 8 months, I'm finally over her and it... But idk... I have two girls who we are not dating or even having sex but for some reason they give me hell and stuff. And I just want friendship... I had to cut them off .. But I want to know what am I doing to get these type of people...Posted by arose32Im guessing you need to spell out those reasons to them in the moment.Posted by tizianiI'm not sure about that because .... When girls see me, they shake their head and smile.. Or they'll do something to get my attention... Etc. it's like they Will DO ANYTHING for my attention, but once they get it... Don't know what to do .... Like they can't handle it... I know I'm not weird or anything because It falls I. My lap. This cancer girl on the forum said I'm too attractive that's why I have girl issues. But what does that mean?? How can I let them know I'm deciding to talk to you for a reason...Posted by arose32Do you come off as unapproachable?Posted by tizianiTalk to me please... I've been told "I just can't slow you down... You can have anyone you want... I don't know why you're attracted to a girl like me" I don't get it...
Maybe you inspire fear in people. You have that kind of vibe in the way you write.
Let them know what you need from them to show your vulnerable side.
Attention is one thing, attraction is different.
We're mostly deeply attracted to contradiction and controversy in a person's presence of character.
You can admire someone without really ever being attracted enough to them to trust them.
You seem like you have high personal standards that you definitely should never play down for anyone who won't try to meet them, but if it's just "this is everything I have going for me and believe me, you have my attention for a reason" there's no controversy and no contradiction in the bond you're offering to these women for them to want to open up to exploring more.click to expand
You aren't Curse your mind
Posted by DMVIt isn't. I'm sorry, but this sounds too much like a "bend over and take it up the a** without lube" approach to life. While it may be harder to get the love you seek, it's not impossible. And it most def isn't something you should just accept. D*mn instead of buying a new outfit or getting your hair done, just get yourself a cat already.Posted by asc_scorp1991I hate that this is an outcome that i must live with.Posted by DMVTHAT 🙂Posted by asc_scorp1991Venus capricornPosted by DMVAny retrograde planets or hard saturn aspects?
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
Venus sq saturn
Sometimes its IS bad luck thanks to being born at the wrong time
Source: Personal experience thanks to Venus retrograde and other "love life" weakening aspects in chart. Ever since teenage I always sensed something was wrong with my "love luck" .When I started with astrology and studied others in my circle, that is when I knew.
Sometimes you just can't fight with the stars. Better just accept it no? Because when you accept that nothing good is ever going to happen to you, you don't "expect" things to happen. You stop waiting for that knight in shining armor because you know he ain't coming. That way, you end up becoming happier.click to expand
Posted by cheekyfaerieTHIS was beautiful. Thank you 🙂Posted by tizianiMale Virgo bestie used to tell me I was intimidating. That I projected an air of confidence and knew what I wanted and that was scary for a lot of people. That they didn't know how to take the kind of honesty with which I was living. That I was scaring them off. But that's what happens when people aren't on your level. When you want different things. You seem foreign to them.
Maybe you inspire fear in people. You have that kind of vibe in the way you write.
The hang n bangs become the most honest relationships you have because at least those people can admit they are stunted. That their needs are basic. Everything else is much more grey. And we sometimes cling to both when we shouldn't because of the comfort of the basic and the hope of the grey. That latter, more often than not, turns out to be false hope tho. When you find someone on your level, that speaks your language, you won't be foreign anymore. No more grey.
Anyway, I think you and I have a lot of similarities. I saw some truth in his observations and found some comfort there. Started seeing the grey as a dangling carrot and stopped wasting my time. Can't be certain, but think that change of thinking was instrumental in the Boy coming into my life in a new capacity. I mean, we get back what we put out, right.
Long story short, try not to see this guy as a loss and let it get you all down in the dumps. Somewhere, somebody out there is speaking your language.click to expand
Posted by DwellingOnMoveYou're speaking to my soul Dwelling. Accomplishing this is harder then one thinks. Fear, doubt and insecuirty makes it challenging.Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by DMVNaw. Take a look at how you're approaching men. I am not referring to sex, but your thought/beliefs about getting the man you want because it's motivating how you approach courtship (I like that word vs dating 😄)
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
From my observation I find when people think they can't or won't have something they "chase" it harder. Whether they are aware of it or not. "Chase" isn't limited to sweating a person. It can also mean do and/or say things that push to hard.
I was talking to a guy friend of mine last night about this same thing. He was telling me about a friend of his that approached a man all wrong, despite his advice. Asking the wrong questions too soon and not paying attention to how he was approach her. Also settling for piss poor behaviour under the guise of "wanting to come off a chill and easy going".
Anyway, nothing is wrong with you. Check your thoughts, your approach and the men your selecting to spend time with.
I like your approach.
That reminds me of something else. (not sure if this is your thing or not)
According to the law of attraction you get things which you have imagined in all its details.
I think if OP can imagine/visualize several times a day how she is in a committed relationship with the man, she'll get it. The reason is while these visualisation sessions she can notice how different they are and how she needs to adapt. And what is her playful trick to feed the routine and the sparkle. The more details she works on, the more inspirational ideas she gets for the time being. for now not for the future. the actions and thoughts of now create the future.click to expand
Posted by mrpepperidgeRipPosted by DMVyou lost your way without your sag sisters ligiea and jessica h!!Posted by DamousWhy not. I was much happier then.
STOP FUCKING A NEW PERSON EVERY OTHER DAY >.>
It wasnt until i started drinking that damn dxp koolaid Preaching relationship this and settle down that. Stop screwing this stop sucking that. Ever since that shit infested my mind ive been unhappy.
The hell with all that.
Give me dick or give me deathclick to expand
Posted by DMVActually, I believe in destiny. Everybody have it, and it's just like you are an actor in some movie, and you don't know it's ending while watching it. But you can, through tarot cards for example, as it is pretty accurate, so it tells you that everything is already arranged. And it seems as people have many choices in their life, but it really isn't like that...you can choose the path, but not the destination...every path is just shorter, or longer, more challenging, but the goal remains the same. That's the way I see it, and I have many reasons to believe that. I know many situations which are not like that by an accident. Sometimes it's just not meant to be...
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
So that is why someone who is maybe ugly and stupid, have more luck in love, job, and other things from someone who is pretty and smart, down to earth, and maybe not so choosy. I know many people like you described yourself, that they have no luck in that field, for no reason. It's just like that...for years. Even though you work constantly to make yourself better, it doesn't change a thing. And for some people even though they finally find something that they were looking for, they quickly lose that person in some accident, etc.
I also think that we choose our scenario for life before reincarnation...you want to experience suffering, or hard life to see what it's like, because of challenge and experience.
Life is just a joke, don't take it seriously, because you will choose many different scenarios, 'cause we are eternal. 😉
Posted by ozzzyWow yes what you wrote reakly speaks to me. I get a reading evey 6 months if not, definitely once a year.Posted by DMVActually, I believe in destiny. Everybody have it, and it's just like you are an actor in some movie, and you don't know it's ending while watching it. But you can, through tarot cards for example, as it is pretty accurate, so it tells you that everything is already arranged. And it seems as people have many choices in their life, but it really isn't like that...you can choose the path, but not the destination...every path is just shorter, or longer, more challenging, but the goal remains the same. That's the way I see it, and I have many reasons to believe that. I know many situations which are not like that by an accident. Sometimes it's just not meant to be...
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
So that is why someone who is maybe ugly and stupid, have more luck in love, job, and other things from someone who is pretty and smart, down to earth, and maybe not so choosy. I know many people like you described yourself, that they have no luck in that field, for no reason. It's just like that...for years. Even though you work constantly to make yourself better, it doesn't change a thing. And for some people even though they finally find something that they were looking for, they quickly lose that person in some accident, etc.
I also think that we choose our scenario for life before reincarnation...you want to experience suffering, or hard life to see what it's like, because of challenge and experience.
Life is just a joke, don't take it seriously, because you will choose many different scenarios, 'cause we are eternal. 😉click to expand
Readers have been consistent. I will have more money than i will have to figure out how do spend and my love life has been and will be hardpressed for years to come
Posted by DMVNo one is saying all of that. If you entered a job interview thinking "sh*t I doubt I'm gonna get this, but I'm gonna put my best foot forward anyway and see what happens", I guess I believe you're setting the stage for how you will come off in the interview. People pick up your energy. Maybe not the best analogy because an interview is often a one shot deal, but imagine if you're with someone reading you. Studying you and the things you say because they are trying to see where they fit in your life. I have no idea how you come off. All I'm saying is take the time to really think about how you come off. Assessing if you're giving too much to people not worth it at that stage of the game. You can still be you, but is the person worth it? Have you even stopped to ask yourself that before you give your all?Posted by PhoenixRising
Naw. Take a look at how you're approaching men. I am not referring to sex, but your thought/beliefs about getting the man you want because it's motivating how you approach courtship (I like that word vs dating 😄)
From my observation I find when people think they can't or won't have something they "chase" it harder. Whether they are aware of it or not. "Chase" isn't limited to sweating a person. It can also mean do and/or say things that push to hard.
I was talking to a guy friend of mine last night about this same thing. He was telling me about a friend of his that approached a man all wrong, despite his advice. Asking the wrong questions too soon and not paying attention to how he was approach her. Also settling for piss poor behaviour under the guise of "wanting to come off a chill and easy going".
Anyway, nothing is wrong with you. Check your thoughts, your approach and the men your selecting to spend time with.
Such a hardened approach to life. To settle the urge not to be friendly, not to be gung ho, not to be excited.
Girl i got 6 planets in the 5th house. Quite the adjustment.
I even realized in my acting classes that being non jovial is not my forte.click to expand
Your acting class may be a better example. Are you telling me acting "jovial" is the appropriate response to every scene/script your given in class? That sometimes the character you're portraying doesn't require a different emotional response or approach? Yes that may be you and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, but the scene is calling for a different amount of effort. Put forth the effort that suits the situation. That's the perfect opportunity to practice what I'm saying if you so choose. Not every pair of dimples requires you to push forward and shine.
The relationship you were in, how did you approach it. How did it flow? Rhetorical questions btw.
Scorp moon, it not about all or nothing. It's about finding a medium that still reflects you and considers what the other person is bringing to the table.
I know this sounds strange coming form an overly saturate 8th placement Scorp. I'm no better and I continuously have to work at it. I've just found when I have, things changed for me.
Anyway sweets, I feel I'm bordering on lecturing now, so I'm gonna ease up. Not my intention at all 🙂.
I know this sounds strange coming form an overly saturate 8th placement Scorp. I'm no better and I continuously have to work at it. I've just found when I have, things changed for me.
Anyway sweets, I feel I'm bordering on lecturing now, so I'm gonna ease up. Not my intention at all 🙂.
Posted by DMV😆!
Maybe being just truly happily single. Living every minute of those short term affairs. Is the way too achieve happiness.
Coming to grips with my true reality.
Well then. You fucks dont get mad when i start posting about fling after fling again.
Posted by FrostedEllyI'm not saying you're saying this at all, but I never understood the self awareness without application approach to life. (general) You know or have a sense of what the issue may be creating your issues, but you're not doing anything to challenge it and be different to create a different experience. Like "this is me, it suck but I'm just gonna complain for the rest of my life".
Water moon to water moon though, you ever just get that twinge in your gut of knowing? Idk. I always have an inuitive undercurrent about my relationships. Yet despite knowing some roads are going to be dead ends, I sometimes can't stop myself. I want the experience more than I want security sometimes. So I contradict my outgoing message cause a water moon deeply needs security and not just the experience and the thrill. Not that your me, but since we're all throwing pennies for thought in lol.
Your post just made me think of the people I encounter that do this.
Posted by DMVYes.Posted by PhoenixRisingIve always thought of saggis as a scorpio with a sense of humor.Posted by febyThis. Sorry Saggies, but most of the time y'all are stubborn as f*ck and no can tell you anything about the way you're going about things. You know it all. Worst than a fixed sign in some cases. I'm guessing that messes with your need for freedom (aka don't tell me what to do) or desire for full acceptance of who you are mindset. If it's broke, well....fix it.
I hear the same thing from a sag I work with. As she's sitting there juggling numerous men through dating sites right in front of my eyes. She keeps getting the 1 date and then the next day "it's not going to work" thing. I think it's more of a be honest with yourself kind of thing, usually is.
Plus she has a tendency to give too much / share too much right away. I tried to tell her to keep her hand closer to her chest but I don't think she'll change....maybe doesn't want to even.click to expand
Posted by Weedsspeak for yourself. caps need money, not love and we are good.
You and everyone else.
Posted by DMVdo you believe in God? Gods love is the only love that won't let you down.
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
Posted by enfant_terribleI don't know about that.. if guys ultimately know what they want and are just doing FWB in the meantime, I'm more inclined to agree with what you say above. But ime and observation, that is rarely the case.Posted by DwellingOnMovePartial credit but with the risk of sounding unpopular I think men make the shift easier than women.Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.
that explains the half.
the other half is explained by "men stay too long in the FWB era too". they lose the orientation.
When men decide to settle they decide for the quiet life knowing what that entails. And they stick to it.
Women who are used and comfortable with the FWB lifestyle will have a harder time adapting to the quiet life, many of them seem to approach it as just another experiment.
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If they are doing FWB because they don't know what they want or whatever, then no. They are not as able to easily transition into a relationship. Less able than women, imo.
Posted by mrpepperidgeLigiea! Miss her!Posted by DMVyou lost your way without your sag sisters ligiea and jessica h!!Posted by DamousWhy not. I was much happier then.
STOP FUCKING A NEW PERSON EVERY OTHER DAY >.>
It wasnt until i started drinking that damn dxp koolaid Preaching relationship this and settle down that. Stop screwing this stop sucking that. Ever since that shit infested my mind ive been unhappy.
The hell with all that.
Give me dick or give me deathclick to expand
Posted by KittenLaRougeAmen amen amenlPosted by DMVdo you believe in God? Gods love is the only love that won't let you down.
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
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Posted by exoYup. Cross that off the list.
simply put, you gotta show some vulnerability.
Been there done that.
Posted by dewiklaessen1991Thats what they say. Comes when u least expect it.
Just think like this try and see how it goes when you think like that often good things happen I had it too when you don't expect anything things will come your way
I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.
Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.
With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.
I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.
Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont
And this courting song n dance does not make me happy
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