@DMV
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i think im cursed
Understanding Feelings of Being Cursed in Love
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Posted by DMV
My personal life sucks balls and always has.Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
Posted by DMV
My personal life sucks balls and always has.Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
From the threads i have seen/read of yours, it didn't seem like you actually wanted to be tied down. Perhaps that was an incorrect assumtion on my part, but that is what came across via the internet, so i would assume that was tenfold in realtime.
Maybe that has all changed for you and you desire to be tied down now.. maybe the way you approach it is still hooking those " types" of men? just something to ponder. i do hope you find what you are searching for.
DMV.. I was about to post this today..
I for real don't get it. I'm hardworking, studying in Architecture, literally building my first company from the ground up.. Caring.. And I KNOW FOR A FACT... My sex is amazing... I'm so selfless... And I have to be great looking because I get the women everyone wants!!! BUT THEY BE CRAZY!!!! Like my friends laugh and say I get the crazy ones...
I have about five girls right now to this day... When they see me, they act like we talk and stuff... But they won't step up to the plate... Omg
Posted by tiziani
Maybe you inspire fear in people. You have that kind of vibe in the way you write.
Talk to me please... I've been told "I just can't slow you down... You can have anyone you want... I don't know why you're attracted to a girl like me" I don't get it...
"I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love."
everybody on dxp talks this childish talk. don't they get bored with it?
First cpmlication factor: "I want".
Next one: statistically life is more pragmatical and sold to Saturn than dreamy and sold to Neptune.
Nevertheless you may get it if you make it to your number one priority. (Law of Attraction) Most often we do not do that. Because we have no faith. "what if I make it to my prio 1, and get him - the love of my life-, and he dies from cancer?". Some worries we don't have when we put all the eggs in the work basket.
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.
Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.And what if you are just completely single? No FWB, no nothin
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Stylish nerdy glasses = Not intimidating / def relationship potential
Lol
Posted by justagirl
From the threads i have seen/read of yours, it didn't seem like you actually wanted to be tied down. Perhaps that was an incorrect assumtion on my part, but that is what came across via the internet, so i would assume that was tenfold in realtime.Maybe that has all changed for you and you desire to be tied down now.. maybe the way you approach it is still hooking those " types" of men? just something to ponder. i do hope you find what you are searching for.
Posted by cheekyfaerie
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try not to see this guy as a loss and let it get you all down in the dumps. Somewhere, somebody out there is speaking your language.click to expand
- Saturn can change us, right?
- Is it that Taurus man? Is he worth it at least?
- self-sabotaging mode triggered by the smooth enemy? some chances are none. be aware and protect yourself.
I see why I decided to visit them in the animal shelf. My place is not big enough. LOL
Posted by blessyou
I try to make life as Neptune as possible..idgaf how strong of a hold Saturn has on me or others,
cute comment.
Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.
that explains the half.
the other half is explained by "men stay too long in the FWB era too". they lose the orientation. everybody thinks they know what is not relationship material. but do they see the "relationship material" at all? reminds me once again of Chris Brown who would co-sign that Rihanna is a whore. But he cheated permanently on his other ex.
I mean why is it difficult for all the other girls too?
Nobody wants the hoes. Everybody sees only the hoes. Two decades ago we could recommend them to go marry their moms. I bet nawadays they think their mothers are hoes too. so?
Posted by DMV
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Say whatever you want, this right here is your problem.
Wanting to take and take from someone without giving is not love.
Nobody's hoping for a parasite.
Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.that explains the half.
the other half is explained by "men stay too long in the FWB era too". they lose the orientation.
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Partial credit but with the risk of sounding unpopular I think men make the shift easier than women.
When men decide to settle they decide for the quiet life knowing what that entails. And they stick to it.
Women who are used and comfortable with the FWB lifestyle will have a harder time adapting to the quiet life, many of them seem to approach it as just another experiment.
Posted by feby
I hear the same thing from a sag I work with. As she's sitting there juggling numerous men through dating sites right in front of my eyes. She keeps getting the 1 date and then the next day "it's not going to work" thing. I think it's more of a be honest with yourself kind of thing, usually is.Plus she has a tendency to give too much / share too much right away. I tried to tell her to keep her hand closer to her chest but I don't think she'll change....maybe doesn't want to even.
I can tell from my own story that Astrology is right in these points:
- not being discriminating enough.
- not to play a fake role, not try to be secretive/mysterious.
- not to have fear of losing anything a priori.
- thinking of "plenty of fishes" while the subconscious is getting tired and hopeless. (additionally Pluto square Mercury has been eating me from the start)
Posted by DMV
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.Say whatever you want, this right here is your problem.
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I have a hard time to understand you both. Is "to save my life" a language thing? Cause I don't see how a man can save any life. When you extend yourself to a further person, usually you have more problems/worries too. It is at least not as comfortable and managable as living alone. For me with Moon in Pisces it is double trouble. I don't know how it is for other Moon placements.
What happened to Mr Ram?
I got friend zoned!!!
Im still in disbelief
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but wasn't that already an old shoe?
Posted by arose32
DMV.. I was about to post this today..I for real don't get it. I'm hardworking, studying in Architecture, literally building my first company from the ground up.. Caring.. And I KNOW FOR A FACT... My sex is amazing... I'm so selfless... And I have to be great looking because I get the women everyone wants!!! BUT THEY BE CRAZY!!!! Like my friends laugh and say I get the crazy ones...
I have about five girls right now to this day... When they see me, they act like we talk and stuff... But they won't step up to the plate... Omg
I have to be cursed. Theres no other explanation.
I hang out in a totally different crowd. Ive changed alot and still no one wants to date me.
I can only be me.
It has to be all this 5th house energy. I dont come across as committal maybe. Im just loads of fun to people.
Dont get me wrong. Men and women clamor to hang out with me. Im a good time. But no relationship
Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.that explains the half.
the other half is explained by "men stay too long in the FWB era too". they lose the orientation.
Partial credit but with the risk of sounding unpopular I think men make the shift easier than women.
When men decide to settle they decide for the quiet life knowing what that entails. And they stick to it.
Women who are used and comfortable with the FWB lifestyle will have a harder time adapting to the quiet life, many of them seem to approach it as just another experiment.
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well, I cannot talk for women with FWB lifestyle.
But I am still angry at the two men who tried to push me into this. How dare they? Both with Cap AC. One Virgo Sun, the other Pisces Sun. haha the service axis. that reminds me of another Virgo who told me years ago I should go to the disco and have ONSs. service-axis reloaded?
Posted by tiziani
Maybe you inspire fear in people. You have that kind of vibe in the way you write.
Im intimidating. Thats for sure.
But i still get approached.
Posted by arose32
DMV.. I was about to post this today..I for real don't get it. I'm hardworking, studying in Architecture, literally building my first company from the ground up.. Caring.. And I KNOW FOR A FACT... My sex is amazing... I'm so selfless... And I have to be great looking because I get the women everyone wants!!! BUT THEY BE CRAZY!!!! Like my friends laugh and say I get the crazy ones...
I have about five girls right now to this day... When they see me, they act like we talk and stuff... But they won't step up to the plate... Omg
I have to be cursed. Theres no other explanation.
I hang out in a totally different crowd. Ive changed alot and still no one wants to date me.
I can only be me.
It has to be all this 5th house energy. I dont come across as committal maybe. Im just loads of fun to people.
Dont get me wrong. Men and women clamor to hang out with me. Im a good time. But no relationship
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What about they themselves? Have they started their own quiet commital relationships while you were watching in the air?
Posted by blessyou
I try to make life as Neptune as possible..idgaf how strong of a hold Saturn has on me or others,
Can u elaborate
Posted by DMV
My personal life sucks balls and always has.Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
Well I'm the champion always picking up wrong guys in my life, And all those relationships always have the same ending, they leave, quit talking, ignoring, lying, blah. I think your life is better than mine, seriously. At least no problems there.
Posted by tiziani
Maybe you inspire fear in people. You have that kind of vibe in the way you write.Im intimidating. Thats for sure.
But i still get approached.
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Not for anything too serious though, right?
Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.And what if you are just completely single? No FWB, no nothin
Stylish nerdy glasses = Not intimidating / def relationship potential
Lol
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I wear glasses cause my eyes are to piercing. Lol
Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.And what if you are just completely single? No FWB, no nothin
Stylish nerdy glasses = Not intimidating / def relationship potential
Lol
I wear glasses cause my eyes are to piercing. Lol
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See how you confuse all the little boys 😛
Posted by feby
I hear the same thing from a sag I work with. As she's sitting there juggling numerous men through dating sites right in front of my eyes. She keeps getting the 1 date and then the next day "it's not going to work" thing. I think it's more of a be honest with yourself kind of thing, usually is.Plus she has a tendency to give too much / share too much right away. I tried to tell her to keep her hand closer to her chest but I don't think she'll change....maybe doesn't want to even.
Well im not juggling. I dont have anything to juggle.
I dont share alot but i give tons of attention early on. I cant help it lol. Im excitable. Highly. I have no middle ground. Sitting with my hands under my butt is not a reality. Lol
I go after things that i want. Ignore what i dont.
Posted by blessyou
I try to make life as Neptune as possible..idgaf how strong of a hold Saturn has on me or others,Can u elaborate
Maybe related to this:
Posted by DwellingOnMove
... statistically life is more pragmatical and sold to Saturn than dreamy and sold to Neptune.
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Posted by risesafterall
Wanting to take and take from someone without giving is not love.Nobody's hoping for a parasite.
Thats where youre wrong i think.
Im not a taker in any of my relationships. Totally opposite.
Im a giver not a receiver. Im a doer. Im a mars in virgo, venus cap.
I love to DO for people..
What have you read from me to make that causation?
Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.that explains the half.
the other half is explained by "men stay too long in the FWB era too". they lose the orientation.
Partial credit but with the risk of sounding unpopular I think men make the shift easier than women.
When men decide to settle they decide for the quiet life knowing what that entails. And they stick to it.
Women who are used and comfortable with the FWB lifestyle will have a harder time adapting to the quiet life, many of them seem to approach it as just another experiment.
click to expand
Theres some truth to this.
Maybe i dont know how to relationship yet. What do i do for practice?
Posted by DMV
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.Say whatever you want, this right here is your problem.
I have a hard time to understand you both. Is "to save my life" a language thing? Cause I don't see how a man can save any life. When you extend yourself to a further person, usually you have more problems/worries too. It is at least not as comfortable and managable as living alone. For me with Moon in Pisces it is double trouble. I don't know how it is for other Moon placements.
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No its phrase lol.
What i mean is, i cant get a boyfriend even if my life depended on it.
What happened to Mr Ram?
I got friend zoned!!!
Im still in disbelief
but wasn't that already an old shoe?
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That was a different ram.
Posted by arose32
DMV.. I was about to post this today..I for real don't get it. I'm hardworking, studying in Architecture, literally building my first company from the ground up.. Caring.. And I KNOW FOR A FACT... My sex is amazing... I'm so selfless... And I have to be great looking because I get the women everyone wants!!! BUT THEY BE CRAZY!!!! Like my friends laugh and say I get the crazy ones...
I have about five girls right now to this day... When they see me, they act like we talk and stuff... But they won't step up to the plate... Omg
I have to be cursed. Theres no other explanation.
I hang out in a totally different crowd. Ive changed alot and still no one wants to date me.
I can only be me.
It has to be all this 5th house energy. I dont come across as committal maybe. Im just loads of fun to people.
Dont get me wrong. Men and women clamor to hang out with me. Im a good time. But no relationship
What about they themselves? Have they started their own quiet commital relationships while you were watching in the air?
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Im not sure. But i can tell if im a spinning plate and i fade to black.
Posted by risesafterall
Wanting to take and take from someone without giving is not love.Nobody's hoping for a parasite.
Thats where youre wrong i think.
Im not a taker in any of my relationships. Totally opposite.
Im a giver not a receiver. Im a doer. Im a mars in virgo, venus cap.
I love to DO for people..
What have you read from me to make that causation?
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Because you said you want someone to save your life. Someone to fulfill an emptiness (?)
Posted by blessyou
I would chime in but I don't want to hurt feelings
People who make comments like this, piss me off.
I would think be more discriminating and more reserved, just from what I've noticed.
See, I am both of those things and still, nothing 😭
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Well, how often and where do you actually get a chance to meet new people.... except for the trenchcoat pedobear that prowls your nightbourhood? 😛
Posted by tiziani
Maybe you inspire fear in people. You have that kind of vibe in the way you write.Im intimidating. Thats for sure.
But i still get approached.
Not for anything too serious though, right?
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Never. NEVER
Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.that explains the half.
the other half is explained by "men stay too long in the FWB era too". they lose the orientation.
Partial credit but with the risk of sounding unpopular I think men make the shift easier than women.
When men decide to settle they decide for the quiet life knowing what that entails. And they stick to it.
Women who are used and comfortable with the FWB lifestyle will have a harder time adapting to the quiet life, many of them seem to approach it as just another experiment.
Theres some truth to this.
Maybe i dont know how to relationship yet. What do i do for practice?
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Ever considered maybe you're just not the type? Like, James Bond?
Posted by blessyou
I try to make life as Neptune as possible..idgaf how strong of a hold Saturn has on me or others,Can u elaborate
Meaning if Saturn wants me to struggle and work so hard, I'll make sure to get some $ me-time $ in because Im not really feeling the Saturn energy always trying bring me down so I always make sure I can fit in some happy time throughout my day if possible. Looking at the bright side of things.
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Yes this is good. I agree.
This is a great point. Ty
Posted by enfant_terrible
Been on the FWB scene too long? Men can smell that, aka "are intimidated by that" and usually go for a safer bet once they decide they want something serious. As has been my observation.that explains the half.
the other half is explained by "men stay too long in the FWB era too". they lose the orientation.
Partial credit but with the risk of sounding unpopular I think men make the shift easier than women.
When men decide to settle they decide for the quiet life knowing what that entails. And they stick to it.
Women who are used and comfortable with the FWB lifestyle will have a harder time adapting to the quiet life, many of them seem to approach it as just another experiment.
Theres some truth to this.
Maybe i dont know how to relationship yet. What do i do for practice?
I would think be more discriminating and more reserved, just from what I've noticed.
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More reserved is impossible.
More discriminating is absolutely possible
Posted by DMV
My personal life sucks balls and always has.Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
Any retrograde planets or hard saturn aspects?
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Venus capricorn
Venus sq saturn
I am worthy of love cause ive had it.
^^^^^^^^^^ another question:
would it help if she goes for a much older guy?
or for much younger?
I would think be more discriminating and more reserved, just from what I've noticed.
See, I am both of those things and still, nothing 😭
Well, how often and where do you actually get a chance to meet new people.... except for the trenchcoat pedobear that prowls your nightbourhood? 😛
I rarely go out. I am just really so busy and only have a few friends. My closest friend moved away 😢
Unfortunately I'm a big homebody.
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Well then that's what you'll attract. Same reason the restless souls & split personalities will not attract "homebodies" but their own kind.
You just need to find a real life arena to meet new ppl the organic, old-fashioned way.
Posted by risesafterall
Wanting to take and take from someone without giving is not love.Nobody's hoping for a parasite.
Thats where youre wrong i think.
Im not a taker in any of my relationships. Totally opposite.
Im a giver not a receiver. Im a doer. Im a mars in virgo, venus cap.
I love to DO for people..
What have you read from me to make that causation?
Because you said you want someone to save your life. Someone to fulfill an emptiness (?)
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No. Its a phrase. I dont need saving.
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My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.