I want her...

So in short, i want that co worker that i wrote about...i looked at her fb profile, and there isn't anymore that one photo with the dude, and her status is still single...it was back then too, but now it's just without that pic.

On those short 5 mins break sometimes but rarely i run into her, sit next to her, and i change my tonality a bit to a more seductive tonality while saying hi, and all that. She sometimes smile in a shy way, and last time she asked me if i was in some club over the weekend, where i saw her only 2x in a wrong time. But when she see me talking with some other girl from there, an Aqua girl, who is also into me and talk and smile eagerly, she becomes quiet, and kinda ignores me...or if i come together on a break with some chick, the same thing. When alone, sometimes she is even so quiet, not talking too much, just smoking, while on other times she talks a bit more and smile. My gut instinct and previous experiences with Sagi girls tell me that she is interested, i was hesitant cause of that possible bf, but it seems that she is really single, cause she was going out with friends anyway.

I know I am crazy, but i still haven't added her on fb, dunno why. I guess it's of a possible rejection, even small chance for that, but still...I would want to text her something about weekend, has she went somewhere, and all that, in easy going Sagi manner, and then to see her responses, if they seem eager or not so much...if they seem eager, then to invite for a drink, but dunno. If I run into her in a club, i would next time easily tease her a bit and kiss her, no doubt...but I haven't saw her there in like 3 weeks, so fb seems the only option.

And yeah, i have found out that she is only 20, lmao, i guess that is why is she shy and insecure, i'm a lot older than her, but i look way younger than i am. It's just, I'm so fucking thinking a lot about her that it drives me crazy sometimes, and I guess that maybe she waits for my move or she can think that i am just kind and not interested. When I am really into some girl, I can be a bit hesitant, plus work environment only makes it worse, if things don't go so well. I am optimistic by the nature, but still...

Is there any younger Sagi chick to give me some insight? Or any quiet and shy Sagi? Although I have noticed that most Sagi girls are shy when they like someone. Last younger Sagi chick i was with, on a date, she behaved in a very similar ways to this chick...she would be reserved, shy, would not appear as so much interested, but she was very interested, and knowing her zodiac before date, i was sure that she will like me...and at the end of the date when i kissed her, she returned even more, as if she just waited finally. Ofc, after that it easily became very physical to no wonder, and long, lot of kisses, hugs and passion.

And we only split up cause she was hurt me not being with her on a NY eve, I instead went with friends, cause i prefer to be outside and drink, have fun with friends, and not to stay inside my room as she wanted for that eve...so she removed me from all social media and told me to not try to say anything to her, and she gave her reasons. So yeah, my mistake, and I understood, it was as if i wrote that when i was much younger, in similar situations. But I wanted just to say, I believe attraction wise is the same with this girl, and she would i guess return even more if i kiss her.

Usually it's hard for me to maintain interest longer, and to just be with one girl, but i think i could try that with her, and would not repeat the same mistakes as with last Sagi girl. Btw, she is born on December 15th, while the last Sagi was like 13th or 14th December, lol. My guess is that she waits for my more obvious sign that i like her, so she can fully express herself and open up. Also that reserved and quiet Sagi chick was just insecure cause of past experiences, but she told me that her real nature is not alike that at all, she just waits for that other side to come out. It's like she have two personalities, one that is her true nature, and other shy side that she don't like. I mean, she said that about her, lol.

She has the same birthday as me lol I think you have a 50/50 shot

I dated two work colleagues and had long rships with them.....lazy way of meeting someone lol

@Sag88 - only 50/50...hmmm, that sounds bad tho xD

@AnotherTaurusGuyReturns - why? most people there hooked up at work, so they risked too 😄

Well yeah, if she reject me, it will be awkward at breaks and all that...or if she accept, but after that possible break up once...but i don't work near her, i see her just at short breaks, plus not always, and i can even avoid that, so no big problem. And it already affected me cause i think about her often...when I sit beside her on breaks, I just fucking want to kiss her badly, haha. Plus she was always in club so glad that she saw me, I could feel somehow difference...

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Well yeah, if she reject me, it will be awkward at breaks and all that...or if she accept, but after that possible break up once...but i don't work near her, i see her just at short breaks, plus not always, and i can even avoid that, so no big problem. And it already affected me cause i think about her often...when I sit beside her on breaks, I just fucking want to kiss her badly, haha. Plus she was always in club so glad that she saw me, I could feel somehow difference...

Do you know her chart? If it's the 15th it may be similar to mine

You don't present, in anyway, that you are interested... especially with all the "chicks" present here and there. It's really a bad look. She probably has been watching you.

Close your eyes, rewind, and see what she has seen.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Don’t mess with coworkers.

Thiiiiis

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Don’t mess with coworkers.

I have to disagree.

Sometimes it’s out of our control who we become physically attracted to, or who we fall for, regardless of where we meet them. Even if things don’t work out, If the two people are mature enough to handle it, then it shouldn’t be a problem either way.

Just get to know them, and be friends first. Then let the bond grow from there.

@Sag898 - Well, I just know that it's December 15th. I mean, I haven't asked her for the time of birth and all that, cause that would be too obvious, haha. But her behavior is very similar to other Sagi chicks i was with. They all seem kinda reserved at first, as if not interested, but from my experience, they are just very shy and wait that you kiss them, especially younger ones...that is when they return double as if they just waited for it. So last Sagi chick i was with 3 months ago, almost exactly the same type of behavior. I noticed for most Sagi chicks, it's all about being handsome at first, that will catch their interest.

Even if I know all that, dunno what is holding me too send her text, flirt a bit, and then invite for a drink. I guess cause she was recently with some dude, maybe longer relationship when I checked her profile, and it seems like she has a child, cause before on one pic with dude she had, when I saw his profile, it was profile pic with her, and there was one pic with child and two of them together, when they received greetings and thanked for it. Maybe cause I don't know the background, and if she is really single as is her status on fb, but there isn't anymore pic with that dude on her pics, so yeah, I guess she's free. And her going out mostly with her female friends on weekends.

Also do not remember if one Sagi chick rejected me when I tried...maybe once, cause I saw that girl only on fb, and she didn't know me in person, but that wasn't actually much of a rejection. Other times when I haven't tried, I also received some winks, touches here and there, but they were more mature and not very shy. The ones I tried with after inviting on a date, it was easy, effortless, and would soon get very intimate. 🙂

But I also tend to quickly lose interest when I get something, which I don't like, it seems it's more about challenge for me. Although I would want to be different with her. I don't want to hurt her. On the other side, I don't wanna wait too much, cause someone else will not wait. But Pisces dude from work just added her and many other chicks even not talking that much with her, and even liked a lot of her photos. I bet he even texted her. But he is a player and is with many chicks at once just screwing with them. He use that sleazy approach on co workers by calling many of them some sweet names, how they are his undestined love and all that. Although he was once at the same time on a break as she was, but they were not chatting, he was a bit blushy, and just checked his phone. So I guess nothing to worry about, plus when she asked me if I was out last weekend, and told me what happened there, he tried to also answer to her question but she didn't even turn to him, and just continued to look at me while I talked to her.

@VenusAquarius - Well, I wouldn't say I haven't done absolutely nothing that would make her realize that I like her. Those specific looks, my seductive voice and calling her certain names when I see her, mentioning I haven't saw her on a weekend, which implies that I noticed and thought about her, etc. But next step other than that can only be me inviting her for a drink which can only be done via text, cause no time for that in person, as I rarely see her even on very short breaks, and then we are rarely alone. So it would be like, str8 for the kill. If she accepts, it would be easy for me, but if not, even though chances are smaller in my opinion, it can still happen. For many things in life we must take risk if we want it, it is like that.

@LethalFantasia - She saw me there only when I was going out of club, and she was coming in, so no...but at work, whenever Aqua girl would talk to me a lot, she would get quiet, and not talk to me at all, I guess maybe jealous.

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@Sag898 - Well, I just know that it's December 15th. I mean, I haven't asked her for the time of birth and all that, cause that would be too obvious, haha. But her behavior is very similar to other Sagi chicks i was with. They all seem kinda reserved at first, as if not interested, but from my experience, they are just very shy and wait that you kiss them, especially younger ones...that is when they return double as if they just waited for it. So last Sagi chick i was with 3 months ago, almost exactly the same type of behavior. I noticed for most Sagi chicks, it's all about being handsome at first, that will catch their interest.

Even if I know all that, dunno what is holding me too send her text, flirt a bit, and then invite for a drink. I guess cause she was recently with some dude, maybe longer relationship when I checked her profile, and it seems like she has a child, cause before on one pic with dude she had, when I saw his profile, it was profile pic with her, and there was one pic with child and two of them together, when they received greetings and thanked for it. Maybe cause I don't know the background, and if she is really single as is her status on fb, but there isn't anymore pic with that dude on her pics, so yeah, I guess she's free. And her going out mostly with her female friends on weekends.

Also do not remember if one Sagi chick rejected me when I tried...maybe once, cause I saw that girl only on fb, and she didn't know me in person, but that wasn't actually much of a rejection. Other times when I haven't tried, I also received some winks, touches here and there, but they were more mature and not very shy. The ones I tried with after inviting on a date, it was easy, effortless, and would soon get very intimate. 🙂

But I also tend to quickly lose interest when I get something, which I don't like, it seems it's more about challenge for me. Although I would want to be different with her. I don't want to hurt her. On the other side, I don't wanna wait too much, cause someone else will not wait. But Pisces dude from work just added her and many other chicks even not talking that much with her, and even liked a lot of her photos. I bet he even texted her. But he is a player and is with many chicks at once just screwing with them. He use that sleazy approach on co workers by calling many of them some sweet names, how they are his undestined love and all that. Although he was once at the same time on a break as she was, but they were not chatting, he was a bit blushy, and just checked his phone. So I guess nothing to worry about, plus when she asked me if I was out last weekend, and told me what happened there, he tried to also answer to her question but she didn't even turn to him, and just continued to look at me while I talked to her.

@VenusAquarius - Well, I wouldn't say I haven't done absolutely nothing that would make her realize that I like her. Those specific looks, my seductive voice and calling her certain names when I see her, mentioning I haven't saw her on a weekend, which implies that I noticed and thought about her, etc. But next step other than that can only be me inviting her for a drink which can only be done via text, cause no time for that in person, as I rarely see her even on very short breaks, and then we are rarely alone. So it would be like, str8 for the kill. If she accepts, it would be easy for me, but if not, even though chances are smaller in my opinion, it can still happen. For many things in life we must take risk if we want it, it is like that.

@LethalFantasia - She saw me there only when I was going out of club, and she was coming in, so no...but at work, whenever Aqua girl would talk to me a lot, she would get quiet, and not talk to me at all, I guess maybe jealous.

Good luck!

Well thanks, but do you have any tips how were you like when being 20? More shy when you like someone, not showing interest unless guy do it first, etc? 🙂 Basically, I didn't wrote all of that cause I am sure what to do and how, otherwise I wouldn't wrote at all, so some insights would be nice. I mean, it probably is what I think it is, but just to "hear" it.

Also, dunno why you think it's only 50/50 cause from my experiences with a lot of Sagi, it is at least 80/20, mostly effortless, easy natural connection and understanding, it's just that I do not know for sure if she still is with that dude, and would like to minimize the risk cause of work. 😄

I mean, maybe she has same doubts as me...I will certainly do it, just want some insights from shy Sagi, as most are. Also, sometimes on short breaks she doesn't talk at all, just smoke, and go, barely saying hi, just checking her phone. While some other times she is like very glad and different...but she doesn't ask me about my life or something, but neither do I. Her looks are a bit different tho, and my gut instinct tells me there is something to it. 🙂

Outside of work she was way more relaxed and smiling, and all that. Maybe her behavior vary cause I haven't given any obvious clue or something, so she may think I am not that interested, lol.

I dont think you really want her.

You wouldn't be typing soliloquies here on DXP.

You actually be making moves.

I'm shy when I like someone and I won't compete with others, so I think you are spot on about her liking you. Just go for it. You talking to other girls could just be her observing you and not wanting to interfere. Kind of seeing if you're a player. I also will do the ignoring thing when I like someone and see them talking to other girls. I don't like it if I'm not getting attention.

Sag love work relationships lol It's so easy to get all the time in that you need from the person when you work with them everyday! 😆 No hard feelings later either.

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@VenusAquarius - Well, I wouldn't say I haven't done absolutely nothing that would make her realize that I like her. Those specific looks, my seductive voice and calling her certain names when I see her, mentioning I haven't saw her on a weekend, which implies that I noticed and thought about her, etc. But next step other than that can only be me inviting her for a drink which can only be done via text, cause no time for that in person, as I rarely see her even on very short breaks, and then we are rarely alone. So it would be like, str8 for the kill. If she accepts, it would be easy for me, but if not, even though chances are smaller in my opinion, it can still happen. For many things in life we must take risk if we want it, it is like that.

I don't know why people think their actions are so unique or special. You probably think you're the only person interested in her too.

@DMV - Jeez girls, you are harsh, haha. Why would i take so much time to write about her if she is unimportant to me? Makes no sense, cause I wouldn't waste my time just like that.

@saggurl88 - Well, it would be easy for me if I could interact with her more than a 5-10 minutes per week at work, cause I rarely see her, she does not work so close to me, and I only see her sometimes on 5 mins breaks, and when I came at similar time, she would have like only 3 mins. Or more people would be there, so it seems only fb add, little talk about weekend or something, and if she seems glad through her replies, then to invite for a drink. 😄 I thought of doing something in club, but I don't see her there anymore. My doubts are if she is dating someone new even status is single, or her ex bf. 😄 But thanks for the reply, would try anyway.

@VenusAquarius - Well, I'm well aware if I wait too much, someone else would not hesitate, and if she likes him too, it will happen between them. Like this Pisces young dude that added her and liked many of her photos, but he is doing it with every attractive chick, I mean, he's a player, but do not hesitate with chicks. Although she ignored him trying to get into conversation after she asked me something, and continuing talking to me. But who knows, maybe online he invited her on a drink already, or someone else. So yeah, someone is maybe more obvious than me...I agree that I haven't done anything properly but only cause it is possible to do it online, cause I rarely has a chance to see her shortly, yet alone.

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@DMV - Jeez girls, you are harsh, haha. Why would i take so much time to write about her if she is unimportant to me? Makes no sense, cause I wouldn't waste my time just like that.

@saggurl88 - Well, it would be easy for me if I could interact with her more than a 5-10 minutes per week at work, cause I rarely see her, she does not work so close to me, and I only see her sometimes on 5 mins breaks, and when I came at similar time, she would have like only 3 mins. Or more people would be there, so it seems only fb add, little talk about weekend or something, and if she seems glad through her replies, then to invite for a drink. 😄 I thought of doing something in club, but I don't see her there anymore. My doubts are if she is dating someone new even status is single, or her ex bf. 😄 But thanks for the reply, would try anyway.

@VenusAquarius - Well, I'm well aware if I wait too much, someone else would not hesitate, and if she likes him too, it will happen between them. Like this Pisces young dude that added her and liked many of her photos, but he is doing it with every attractive chick, I mean, he's a player, but do not hesitate with chicks. Although she ignored him trying to get into conversation after she asked me something, and continuing talking to me. But who knows, maybe online he invited her on a drink already, or someone else. So yeah, someone is maybe more obvious than me...I agree that I haven't done anything properly but only cause it is possible to do it online, cause I rarely has a chance to see her shortly, yet alone.

You should just go for it. We are Sag, it's pretty easy to flirt and keep things semi-casual in a fake way, if you know what I mean 😆

Find a way to ask for her number. Sag women need a little push to get things going, otherwise it will be a standstill.

@saggurl88 - Hahaha, well, only way is by adding her on fb, texting her something chill, and after a bit of chit-chat to invite for a drink, if she accepts, then to ask for a number, lol. It usually works too when someone is into you. 🙂 Also noticed that Sagi girl will only add you first if they are sure you like them, otherwise they would wait for you to do it.

Maybe what is holding me back is a fact that when she had pic with ex bf from 2 years ago, he was tagged, and I saw his profile, on hers she was single with her profile pic, but on his profile main photo was her and him together, and in a relationship status. And then I saw on his profile pic of her and him from couple of months ago, she is holding some baby and kissing, he is standing beside her, and people congratulate them, while she thanked them. So if it was her child, she got it at 18, jeez.

And her insta is private, but her status is some date xx.xx.2017 ❤️...so I guess it would mean that maybe it's that child. That could put me off, her being so young and having a child with an ex. If he is ex, cause situation is strange. Who knows about a child, it's rather strange. Nobody mentioned at work her having a child, just that she is in a relationship, but that was couple of months ago.

So now there isn't that photo of them two together on her profile, as I can see from public photos, maybe now is finally over, and prior to that her status was still single, but he had profile pic with her, which was confusing to me. I am like a detective, haha, always liked to research, lmao. I cannot check his profile now, cause there isn't that tagged photo of him anymore, so it's strange.

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@saggurl88 - Hahaha, well, only way is by adding her on fb, texting her something chill, and after a bit of chit-chat to invite for a drink, if she accepts, then to ask for a number, lol. It usually works too when someone is into you. 🙂 Also noticed that Sagi girl will only add you first if they are sure you like them, otherwise they would wait for you to do it.

Maybe what is holding me back is a fact that when she had pic with ex bf from 2 years ago, he was tagged, and I saw his profile, on hers she was single with her profile pic, but on his profile main photo was her and him together, and in a relationship status. And then I saw on his profile pic of her and him from couple of months ago, she is holding some baby and kissing, he is standing beside her, and people congratulate them, while she thanked them. So if it was her child, she got it at 18, jeez.

And her insta is private, but her status is some date xx.xx.2017 ❤️...so I guess it would mean that maybe it's that child. That could put me off, her being so young and having a child with an ex. If he is ex, cause situation is strange. Who knows about a child, it's rather strange. Nobody mentioned at work her having a child, just that she is in a relationship, but that was couple of months ago.

So now there isn't that photo of them two together on her profile, as I can see from public photos, maybe now is finally over, and prior to that her status was still single, but he had profile pic with her, which was confusing to me. I am like a detective, haha, always liked to research, lmao. I cannot check his profile now, cause there isn't that tagged photo of him anymore, so it's strange.

Don't let that stop you, you should add her. I just had to ask my Ex to take down our photos together because someone I am trying to date said he seen me on my ex's FB page.

He's a Leo. I ended up texting my Ex and asking him to take them down because it was messing up my dating life and he still hasn't and just said stop cheating on him lol

I screenshotted it and sent it to Leo to let him know we aren't together at all anymore. It's been 3 years and my ex can't let go. Just add her and see if she accepts and reaches out. You know as a Sag, seeing someone for 5-10 minutes at a time is almost torture when you like the person! Even though it's fun waiting for the next meet up.

@saggurl88 - Well yeah, it popped to my mind what you wrote, that maybe he still isn't over her, but also that maybe she came back to him, then broke up again, and so forth. So if that child is her child, maybe they have some photos together cause he's baby's father, and maybe it's not her child, I guess when I add her, I will see more of it, so I would know.

And yeah, it is a torture seeing person you really like for just 5-10 minutes in entire week, or even less than 5 minutes. I know that when Sagi girl is sure a guy likes her, she usually add him first then being so eager about him, and also start to text him often on fb, what he is doing, and all that, but only after you invite them for a drink or something. So as you said, if she is attracted as I think she is, and has same dilemmas, she would be glad that I add her on fb and text first, and to accept invitation for a drink, so she can finally get to know me better. 🙂

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@saggurl88 - Well yeah, it popped to my mind what you wrote, that maybe he still isn't over her, but also that maybe she came back to him, then broke up again, and so forth. So if that child is her child, maybe they have some photos together cause he's baby's father, and maybe it's not her child, I guess when I add her, I will see more of it, so I would know.

And yeah, it is a torture seeing person you really like for just 5-10 minutes in entire week, or even less than 5 minutes. I know that when Sagi girl is sure a guy likes her, she usually add him first then being so eager about him, and also start to text him often on fb, what he is doing, and all that, but only after you invite them for a drink or something. So as you said, if she is attracted as I think she is, and has same dilemmas, she would be glad that I add her on fb and text first, and to accept invitation for a drink, so she can finally get to know me better. 🙂

So are you gonna do it or what? lol

Yeah, I have to. But I am now going to work, so will do it maybe tomorrow when I wake up. Cause Sagi can quickly lose interest if things doesn't progress or aren't that clear, I mean, while she wonders if I like her, someone can be more bold, she may like him, and don't wait anymore. Maybe someone already invited her, like Pisces dude or someone else, but no one of them can match Sagi. Fire is fire. 😉 And who can understand Sagi better than Sagi himself. 😄

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Well thanks, but do you have any tips how were you like when being 20? More shy when you like someone, not showing interest unless guy do it first, etc? 🙂 Basically, I didn't wrote all of that cause I am sure what to do and how, otherwise I wouldn't wrote at all, so some insights would be nice. I mean, it probably is what I think it is, but just to "hear" it.

Also, dunno why you think it's only 50/50 cause from my experiences with a lot of Sagi, it is at least 80/20, mostly effortless, easy natural connection and understanding, it's just that I do not know for sure if she still is with that dude, and would like to minimize the risk cause of work. 😄

I mean, maybe she has same doubts as me...I will certainly do it, just want some insights from shy Sagi, as most are. Also, sometimes on short breaks she doesn't talk at all, just smoke, and go, barely saying hi, just checking her phone. While some other times she is like very glad and different...but she doesn't ask me about my life or something, but neither do I. Her looks are a bit different tho, and my gut instinct tells me there is something to it. 🙂

Outside of work she was way more relaxed and smiling, and all that. Maybe her behavior vary cause I haven't given any obvious clue or something, so she may think I am not that interested, lol.

Well I have a cancer rising so I've always been shy. I don't know I think you should be persistent without being creepy and be friendly. That should work. Don't be afraid of rejection

@Sag898 - But what is a bit confusing to me, is that, sometimes even if i sit beside her, and she is alone on a break, just smoking or a bit on her phone (reading news or whatever), she remains quiet...doesn't say anything first, and when I make some comment to start things going, she almost doesn't say anything, or barely say hi...other times she is way different.

Ofc, as a Sag and fire sign, we do not like that cold or mixed attitude, so after that I would be also a bit distant, then suddenly when I run into her she would be like, "heeey, are you alive...just a bit more (until shift is over)...I would mostly be like "heey you little, what's up", but sometimes she remain quiet on that, or doesn't even look at me, or pay attention, lol. So being a Sagi, even if she is shy, it makes me wonder sometimes. She is like sometimes more open and relaxed, and sometimes totally different.

Any explanation for this? 😄 She is also a bit quiet when talking with other girls, so it makes me wonder if it is just my imagination between her and me, or what, lol. Although, many Sagi chicks I was with, they were also mostly reserved and didn't appear as interested until I kissed them...I mean, I realized long time ago when they asked about another date, I knew it was just their shyness.

@LethalFantasia - Nah, I mean, it's normal to communicate with other people, maybe she can be a bit insecure when she see Aqua girl being so eager, but I do not flirt with Aqua in front of her, just normal talking and smiling. Aqua does give that long gaze at me, and talk non stop, even for hours. I now work with her, have some training with her there, and it's as if I haven't noticed Sagi girl passing by that hall to go on mini breaks anymore...maybe seeing me talking too much with that Aqua made her avoid that hall, or I haven't noticed her later. Aqua is in long distance relationship, but her body language is very interested, she talks non stop, smiles a lot, and gives me that long gazes, but I flirt a bit with her just for fun, as a Sag, we are like that, but I am not doing it in front of Sagi girl...it's just a bit of innocent flirting without any intentions. I mean, I know that when Aqua girls hear me talking, they always get interested from my experience, lol. And she always try to stand so close to me. Both of them are 20.

@LethalFantasia - About hard to settle down and keeping options kinda open, that is true...but about me not seeing her as I used to cause of reasons you mentioned - wrong. On old position, I had more flexible breaks, and I knew when Sagi girl is usually there, so I would be there, and could stay longer. On this other position, I do not have flexible breaks, so that is the reason. Also, only a few times I were on breaks with some female coworkers including Aqua girl, but Aqua talked with other people too, it's not like we were just talking in front of her. And usually I was alone on breaks, or saw Sagi there.

But now young Pisces dude, player, that is obviously flirting with all attractive girls, came to talk with me and was on purpose mentioning other chicks in front Aqua while looking at her, and calling her, she ignored him, lol. I worked with him, he has those flexible breaks, and I see him on the roughly same time as when Sagi is there, which I do not like. Maybe I'm a bit jealous cause I know him, he tries to get in every girls pant's, but as Sagi girls don't like players, I hope that she ignores him there. He liked almost all her pics, and I guess he is hitting on her on fb. So what I am doing is literally nothing compared to him. He adds every attractive girl from there he barely spoke to, and then text them on fb and flirt on work. Plus it's an obvious sleazy approach with many fake sweet words to every attractive chick...I don't do any of those, plus I am genuine about my interest, and focus on a girl I like...not forcing anything like him. So I wouldn't say I'm a player there...

Also question to all Sagi girls, would this message be appropriate when I add her on fb...she accepts, and then something like "Hey, what's up, I no longer see you on breaks or in clubs, so I wanted to say hi". Something along those lines. I mean, it is not too obvious or too direct, but it sends kinda clear message that I am interested. If her reply sounds somehow cold, then maybe to send another text, and if she remains cold, not using emoticons or whatever, then to leave it like that. But if she appears kinda glad and eager, then next step to invite for a drink...

Update: Haha, what a bummer, so she does have a child, and it is with another Sag, he is on December 5th, her Dec 15th, lmao. So she has a thing for another Sagi it seems. She quickly got pregnant with him tho, and he even has the same age as me. He was quicker to find her before me, lmao. But hey, I fucked up what could be awesome with another Sag three month ago, although not my fault entirely, but she was mad, lol. And Sagi moves on quickly. So their strange status is maybe him also making a mistake, and she dumping him, but he isn't over it, so he still has pic with her. Cause her status is still single, although at December they were still together, celebrating. Ah, I would be a good detective, all clues picked up, lmao.

Ok, tha fuck happened tonight. I saw Sagi chick unexpectedly in one club, I was by the table close to the toilet, and she was running quickly...noticed me or not, I grabbed her hand, and was like, hey, where have you been, what are you doin' here, kissed her cheek...she was like anxious and tense, "ah, dunno, I'm everywhere now, and run into toilette...I was kinda feeling a bit down cause of her almost cold response.

Then after she came back from the toilette, she asked me if she can stay by my table, cause some annoying dude is bugging her, 7th dude like this one for tonight, she was really annoyed as her sis too, they were really harsh to him...he asked me something about them, I looked at him in a way of stop bugging them, and he left...so I stayed with her, and tried to cheer her up a bit, we talked a bit about work, and when her vacation starts, which happened to be now, and mine was over now, she made a comment of me being in another position, I responded that I do not see her at breaks anymore often, cause of no more flexible breaks, but she still hasn't flirted or anything.

She stayed serious and tense as her sis by the table, I asked her what she will do now, like, go home, but he still stayed, maybe cause of me. And them being irritated, and being late, they still stayed, so I guess maybe her sis stayed cause of her, cause I was still there, if she knows if Sagi girl likes me.

But I then talked a bit with sagi friend, and she moved close to her sis, by the wall, so I just left home with Sagi friend, without saying c ya at the end, cause she moves close to the wall, and wasn't talking with me, just with her sis by the end, so I was like, fuck it...didn't want to entertain her, or whatever...wasn't in the mood already, plus that strange attitude, but wanting to be by my table, appears next to me...so what is going on? Is she attracted or not?

She was whole time tense as her sis cause of annoying dudes that approached them whole night, but wasn't flirting with me, I guess cause of her sis and friend, her being irritated and shy...so I didn't knew what to do next, and just left...any insight? Damn, I know there must be chemistry, but is driving me crazy the whole situation...don't know what to do...her coldness got me somehow. I expected to get her in the mood and to flirt and do something, but damn...

I was also like, "you see, no more dudes like this one, you're safe with me"...but she acknowledged that also in a tense and a bit cold way.

And to remind you all, her ex is 10 days younger than me, also Sagi, and she has a child with him...but she going alone with friend, and having single status while he has in relationship status and pic with her on profile means he didn't got over it, while she did. And he prolly pumped her up on purpose. So ofc, chemistry between Sags is there. But what is going on with her now...is she so insecure now or what. I was kinda discouraged to try or do more after her behavior.

But somehow she staying that late at that place so irritated, and asking me to be by my table suggests me that she likes me, or she would left home...maybe she waited me to be more persistent, or dunno...

Posted by ozzzy

So in short, i want that co worker that i wrote about...i looked at her fb profile, and there isn't anymore that one photo with the dude, and her status is still single...it was back then too, but now it's just without that pic.

On those short 5 mins break sometimes but rarely i run into her, sit next to her, and i change my tonality a bit to a more seductive tonality while saying hi, and all that. She sometimes smile in a shy way, and last time she asked me if i was in some club over the weekend, where i saw her only 2x in a wrong time. But when she see me talking with some other girl from there, an Aqua girl, who is also into me and talk and smile eagerly, she becomes quiet, and kinda ignores me...or if i come together on a break with some chick, the same thing. When alone, sometimes she is even so quiet, not talking too much, just smoking, while on other times she talks a bit more and smile. My gut instinct and previous experiences with Sagi girls tell me that she is interested, i was hesitant cause of that possible bf, but it seems that she is really single, cause she was going out with friends anyway.

I know I am crazy, but i still haven't added her on fb, dunno why. I guess it's of a possible rejection, even small chance for that, but still...I would want to text her something about weekend, has she went somewhere, and all that, in easy going Sagi manner, and then to see her responses, if they seem eager or not so much...if they seem eager, then to invite for a drink, but dunno. If I run into her in a club, i would next time easily tease her a bit and kiss her, no doubt...but I haven't saw her there in like 3 weeks, so fb seems the only option.

And yeah, i have found out that she is only 20, lmao, i guess that is why is she shy and insecure, i'm a lot older than her, but i look way younger than i am. It's just, I'm so fucking thinking a lot about her that it drives me crazy sometimes, and I guess that maybe she waits for my move or she can think that i am just kind and not interested. When I am really into some girl, I can be a bit hesitant, plus work environment only makes it worse, if things don't go so well. I am optimistic by the nature, but still...

Is there any younger Sagi chick to give me some insight? Or any quiet and shy Sagi? Although I have noticed that most Sagi girls are shy when they like someone. Last younger Sagi chick i was with, on a date, she behaved in a very similar ways to this chick...she would be reserved, shy, would not appear as so much interested, but she was very interested, and knowing her zodiac before date, i was sure that she will like me...and at the end of the date when i kissed her, she returned even more, as if she just waited finally. Ofc, after that it easily became very physical to no wonder, and long, lot of kisses, hugs and passion.

And we only split up cause she was hurt me not being with her on a NY eve, I instead went with friends, cause i prefer to be outside and drink, have fun with friends, and not to stay inside my room as she wanted for that eve...so she removed me from all social media and told me to not try to say anything to her, and she gave her reasons. So yeah, my mistake, and I understood, it was as if i wrote that when i was much younger, in similar situations. But I wanted just to say, I believe attraction wise is the same with this girl, and she would i guess return even more if i kiss her.

Usually it's hard for me to maintain interest longer, and to just be with one girl, but i think i could try that with her, and would not repeat the same mistakes as with last Sagi girl. Btw, she is born on December 15th, while the last Sagi was like 13th or 14th December, lol. My guess is that she waits for my more obvious sign that i like her, so she can fully express herself and open up. Also that reserved and quiet Sagi chick was just insecure cause of past experiences, but she told me that her real nature is not alike that at all, she just waits for that other side to come out. It's like she have two personalities, one that is her true nature, and other shy side that she don't like. I mean, she said that about her, lol.

It’s interesting what horoscope and ‘power of suggestion’ do to people.

Posted by VenusAquarius

You don't present, in anyway, that you are interested... especially with all the "chicks" present here and there. It's really a bad look. She probably has been watching you.

Close your eyes, rewind, and see what she has seen.

Cuz he just want to get his dick wet 😄

Sounds typical fuck boy to me

"I want her" nah bro your dick wants her smfh

His pics scream big dick ego



D*I*C*K E*G*O !

I wouldn't want to deal with him for my life

Well, doubt, cause chicks won't stay near you if they are not attracted, they would avoid, and she could easily go home, but she didn't. She was just irritated cause of the whole night, and her sis being pissed off. Shy girls rarely come to you first, and this was her subtle way I guess.