Lately

in the last two weeks my saggs has really been making me upset by one not spending time with me and two not communicating like normal. All of this made me upset so I let him how I was feeling it's impossible for me to hold things in, after I told him how I felt he got upset and told me don't start, then the next day he explain what was really going on. He stated that he was not in a good place right because his grandfather had pass and his grandmother was in the hospital where she still is. I didn't know any of this so I felt really bad that I was getting upset so I told him that if he needs me I am here for him and that I understand so take your time and help your grandmother get healthy. Sagg men, I don't know why they hide their emotions and shut down when things are effecting them?

He also said he is sorry for being distant and that we will spend time together this week so I was glad he open up to me plus also made a commitment to spend time together, right after all this happen there is a social site we are both on not Fb so I just join but I didn't have any friends till now so right after all this he text me "You got friends, I got you" I just deleted the page which I was going to do anyway, he is on the site so that was a way for me to check on him.
How can a person go from being sweet to showing his jealous side? I don't like when he gets jealous cause with him being a sagg I just don't expect it. Do you all think you get jealous sometimes?

My Sag does get jealous. Or threatened. But because he dresses up his feelings in a light hearted way, there were lots of times I intentionally hurt him or made him feel insecure. Sag men are not emotionally bionic, read behind the facade.

As for your Sag, I'm guessing with where he's at right now, you can expect alot of shifting emotions and you just need to stay the course and not get caught up in bullshit. It may be harder for him right now than usual to identify how he feels during this crisis so don't take his behaviour to heart. Be a friend to him.

(And mercury is only just moving forward again, so bear that in mind. Things may not feel right again until mid-month. Paitence!)

Posted by nimbue
My Sag does get jealous. Or threatened. But because he dresses up his feelings in a light hearted way, there were lots of times I intentionally hurt him or made him feel insecure. Sag men are not emotionally bionic, read behind the facade.

As for your Sag, I'm guessing with where he's at right now, you can expect alot of shifting emotions and you just need to stay the course and not get caught up in bullshit. It may be harder for him right now than usual to identify how he feels during this crisis so don't take his behaviour to heart. Be a friend to him.

(And mercury is only just moving forward again, so bear that in mind. Things may not feel right again until mid-month. Paitence!)

that is exactly what will happen with us, I will intentionally do things to get a reaction from him, I will not put pressure on him or make him angry during this time of grief all I can do is be there when he is ready.

Be true to yourself. Do you find yourself setting 'traps' for him? Whats the nature of your relationship, like how long have you been together?

Just feel sorry for Scorps...seem like they do NOT know anything about Sags...

Sags need our own "space" & "freedom" to do whatever we want!!!!!!!!! Sags are the LEAST jealous out of 12 signs!!!!!!!!!

He may just "pretend" to be "jealous"...to make you feel better...but it is not TRUE. If you want to be with him, then you should NEVER try to control or change him because the result would be against your will...someday, he may leave you alone forever...without any explanation.

Posted by nimbue
Be true to yourself. Do you find yourself setting 'traps' for him? Whats the nature of your relationship, like how long have you been together?

No, I don't set traps for him I am too busy for that and we have been dating on and off for 2yrs we were off twice during those two years.

the only time I upset him is when I say something he doesn't like, he thinks I have a smart mouth which I do.

Posted by Sutekh
"I will intentionally do things to get a reaction from him, I will not put pressure on him or make him angry during this time of grief all I can do is be there when he is ready."

this will backfire with a Sag,youre playing with fire .

Maybe that was a typo?

But i agree...Sags deal with truth. You hit them with that, you see the best of them. It's important to look at how self preservation or fear are leading you to create barriers...even if you care about that person, it still carries across that you're half in, half out...trust me, you'll get nowhere

Posted by Sutekh
"I will intentionally do things to get a reaction from him, I will not put pressure on him or make him angry during this time of grief all I can do is be there when he is ready."

this will backfire with a Sag,youre playing with fire .

intentionally is usually when I say things to upset him, but at this time no I am giving him his space, I am like that also I need my space when I am going through something like he is. I will be there if he needs me and ofcourse I will check up on him during this time.

In fact, fire & water can NEVER work together by their own NATURE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So no surprise to hear that Scorps often complain about Sags...or other fire signs. Really feel sorry for Scorps, but you guys have to follow the NATURE.

Posted by luckystar007
In fact, fire & water can NEVER work together by their own NATURE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So no surprise to hear that Scorps often complain about Sags...or other fire signs. Really feel sorry for Scorps, but you guys have to follow the NATURE.

I think it's more to do with them being neighbouring signs, there's that little friction. Same element relationships have their own shit to contend with. I don't think any signs are incompatible, it depends on each persons willingness to understand and accomadate one another.

Posted by luckystar007
In fact, fire & water can NEVER work together by their own NATURE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So no surprise to hear that Scorps often complain about Sags...or other fire signs. Really feel sorry for Scorps, but you guys have to follow the NATURE.

with me and him it's different my chart is mostly fire and him mostly water, also if you read the threads a lot of sagg's complain about scorps therefore it goes both ways.

Maybe...for some Sags with lots of water like to complain a lot just like water signs...it is possible.

But what I am talking about are "real" Sags...we have common nature 🙂 that is totally different than water signs 😉

And real Sags always tell the truth...even if you would not like to hear...or may get mad...that is one of our nature 🙂

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Posted by nimbue
Be true to yourself. Do you find yourself setting 'traps' for him? Whats the nature of your relationship, like how long have you been together?

No, I don't set traps for him I am too busy for that and we have been dating on and off for 2yrs we were off twice during those two years.

the only time I upset him is when I say something he doesn't like, he thinks I have a smart mouth which I do.

you just said you do things to get reactions out of him, how is that not a trap?? LOL!

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Well maybe you can call it that, but I haven't did that in so long, I pretty much know him now so I don't get bothered by the little things he does to annoy me when before when he did those things that's when I would say things to get a reaction. Lately the situation was him acting different and I didn't know what was going on so I express my feelings to him but at that time I was not trying to upset him I was just speaking my feelings, at that point he told me what had been going on so I am cool now.

Posted by luckystar007
Maybe...for some Sags with lots of water like to complain a lot just like water signs...it is possible.

But what I am talking about are "real" Sags...we have common nature 🙂 that is totally different than water signs 😉

And real Sags always tell the truth...even if you would not like to hear...or may get mad...that is one of our nature 🙂

Exactly, I get your point
I am a scorp with a lot of fire who can't hold things in so if I am feeling some kinda way I will let them know.
which some saggs can't handle or maybe just those with a lot of water in their chart, like you said you speak the truth so you should be able to accept the truth.

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Posted by nimbue
Be true to yourself. Do you find yourself setting 'traps' for him? Whats the nature of your relationship, like how long have you been together?

No, I don't set traps for him I am too busy for that and we have been dating on and off for 2yrs we were off twice during those two years.

the only time I upset him is when I say something he doesn't like, he thinks I have a smart mouth which I do.

you just said you do things to get reactions out of him, how is that not a trap?? LOL!

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My thing with this post is why would he not tell me about his grandfather passing? I know he pretty much likes to be upbeat therefore I understand that he didn't want to come across depressed but I could have been there for him MORE if only I knew.

Posted by Sutekh
Sun-action,mars action, moon reaction

Im a moon cancer and had to learn not to take that kind of thing to heart. If im gonna verbally blaze people then im fair game , whatever is said i shouldnt take to heart.

Yeah, he has moon in pisces, mars in scorp

me I got my moon in taurus, mars in sagg,

Yea I'm super jealous when I don't trust someone?

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Posted by Sutekh
Sun-action,mars action, moon reaction

Im a moon cancer and had to learn not to take that kind of thing to heart. If im gonna verbally blaze people then im fair game , whatever is said i shouldnt take to heart.

Yeah, he has moon in pisces, mars in scorp

me I got my moon in taurus, mars in sagg,

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aww he is soo watery, like myself. its not intentional that he doesnt speak up. its just the way he is. id say he's more reserved than you are. i would simply let him know that he could tell u that and it woulda been cool, instead of going about it like you did. this isnt new behavior for you 😉 i hope you dont take offense, but this is something that you have to work on girl. the sideways stuff has to be left on the back burner and try a new approach. it may be hard with that fixed moon of yours. but you can do it. 🙂

thanks DMV and Sag 89 for your comments, maybe that's the thing he doesn't trust me, also I have no control when something is bothering I go off the deep end which I am getting better at since like you said DMV I should know better by now. Last night he text me again accusing me of some stuff which like you sagg 89 you get jealous when you don't trust someone, but I have been noting but honestly with him so I kinda feel like he is taking his personal issues out on me. he has never been this jealous in our whole relationship or ever accuse me of things like he is doing now.

thanks aquansidenout, I can relate to a lot of what you said...