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Yes, I indeed want children, but I only want two 😐

Having one would be fine but I think I will be happier with two. However, I have to see how the man I plan to marry feels about having children -- It's unfair and wrong to trick or force someone into having children -- it would really piss me off ... especially if I'm not ready!

LOL, yes I do want to be married before I start having kids; it has nothing to do with morals but it's something that I would feel more satisfied with. I wouldn't want to have children right away ... I'd like to wait a few years. Why? Because I want to get to know my husband as his "real self" as opposed to the image he presented while we were dating (man will fool ya 😉) That way, if we don't stay together, we don't have to deal with kids while filing for divorce -- although if I wanted a divorce , having children wouldn?t stop me 😄


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"Taurus fathers are the best for little boys."

Lol my bull uncle likes to say of his two teenage boys, "No one is 18 under MY roof, you live in this house, you live under MY rules... I don't care how old you are, 20, 25, 30... hmph! 18 my ass!"

Another uncle commented on how they turn rebellious anyway and mr. bull replied with, "That's why you have to intimidate them (pause) now, if one day they no longer are scared, then shit, I don't know what, but I try ha ha ha"

He's such a typical bull, he cracks me up... that man is toooo funny! He jokes about it, but I cannot imagine those kids ever turning on him! His ugly side... is UGLY SCARY! lol
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cappysweetie
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Also,

It just doesn't make sense to have children with someone who isn't officially committed to you (?) -- I've seen way too much trouble resulting from that option so I'm choosing to stay away from that route. LOL, now if the man leaves me with all the kids then that's a totally different story. I don't know if I would make a decent mom, but I'd try. Now, I need to find a guy thatg would make a good father.

I must remember to stay away from those "bad boy" LOL, any woman who believes she can turn them into a husband/ father figure is sadly mistake. Ditto for men who try to turn "bad girls" into wives/ mothers 😉