Allergic to my mother

any other Scorps around here have Gemini mothers?

Are you a first born? I always find mothers don't tend to get along with their first born daughters..

She probably feels the same way about you .. most parents do when it comes to Scorpio children .. we just can't fucking wait until you get the hell out of our house, so peace in the household can be resumed.

I agree that it simply came out wrong and if it was worded differently it would better accepted, being that it allergy is an illness gives an insulting feel to the statement.

I feel what Scorpiogemini is saying though because I too have to stay away from my Mother. It's simply better that way. We're too different in nature. She's very dramatic and I'm very peaceful. I like a peaceful environment and her nature goes against that.

I love her for what she represents and all and I'm naturally protective of her but it's better that I stay away from her. Unfortunately I appreciate her better from far away.

My god..Ditto Ray...I am like that myself..I am better at loving them from afar..just works better that way. My mother is a drama queen and a half too..she suffers from victim mentality..but i'd still do anything for her..within reason and of course not before stating my point..

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MM,

I need some control of my environment and I don't mind disagreement within a unit, I personally think it's healthy when the individuals involved walk towards understanding/resolution. I always try to bring things to a balanced, peacefully even state. I can't stand drama for the sake of drama and never ending, dwelling in negativity and complaints. I think it's unhealthy.

My bad ..... it's you .. I should have looked more close to who I was talking to.

I'll hide my words to you ..... when you become worthy of my words to you, I'll attempt at that time to talk to you .. until then, have fun in your misery.

You don't even know what a moderator is for, and think they shouldn't have the very power in which defines them ... that pretty much says it all.

My mother is a Gemini, May 21,

When I was in my 20's we had major issues, she wanted me to live my life the way she saw fit but I saw different, it took some time to get her to understand, me and know she does.

My mother is my best friend, I can talk to her about anything. We spend hours on the phone talking about every and anything...

Let her know how you feel.

I don't have a Gemini mother - mine's Aquarius.

But I understand what you mean when you say allergic.

I was like that with my mother and it is because I know she is most likely watching my every move, where Im going etc and this felt like invasian of privacy although she didnt intervene as such.

As Scorpios, we dont want people to know much about us - who we are, what we're doing, who we are seeing etc... This includes close family - especially mothers as they tend to be more intrusive, wanting to know everything about whats going on in your life.

Fathers are more laid back so I guess we dont have problems with them as we do with mothers.

Try being a Scorpio teenager with a Scorpio mother. Oh man that was nothing but war.