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Posted by MrFirebird
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No! now stop being a crybaby and post something interesting. 😛
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crybaby? no... I am being sarcastic. 😉
Don't you know that I have a sense of humor as dry as a Saltine Cracker?
hink so.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I was in an abusive relationship for 10 years...Did the harshest part begin before you had a child with him?
nope, right after....immediately after....like days.
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Posted by MrFirebird
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No! now stop being a crybaby and post something interesting. 😛
crybaby? no... I am being sarcastic. 😉
Don't you know that I have a sense of humor as dry as a Saltine Cracker?
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oh I got you, dw. I was jokin. you facepalm a lot when others fail to understand your jokes or sarcasm?
Posted by DwellingOnMove
^^^ yes, I think so.
Yes, she's Virgo. Good observer. And a real healer. Not one focused on her/himself.
Posted by MrFirebird
Please Sign The PetitionThank You.
No! now stop being a crybaby and post something interesting. 😛
crybaby? no... I am being sarcastic. 😉
Don't you know that I have a sense of humor as dry as a Saltine Cracker?
oh I got you, dw. I was jokin. you facepalm a lot when others fail to understand your jokes or sarcasm?
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dw... that's a new one.
Pretty much straight face.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
^^^ yes, I think so.Yes, she's Virgo. Good observer. And a real healer. Not one focused on her/himself.
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Ahhh Rip her arm clean off and come back and tell me how focused she is.
good one lol
Posted by DwellingOnMove
^^^ yes, I think so.Yes, she's Virgo. Good observer. And a real healer. Not one focused on her/himself.
Ahhh Rip her arm clean off and come back and tell me how focused she is.
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This thread is not about one Person or two. It is about domestic violence.
Not to forget this:
Posted by UnderOath92
check this poem out shawtyI got flowers today. It wasn't my birthday or any other special day.
We had our first argument last night and he said a lot of cruel things
that really hurt me. I know that he is sorry and didn't mean to say the
things he said - because he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today. It wasn't our anniversary or any other special day.
Last night he threw me into a wall and then started to choke me.
It seemed like a nightmare but you wake up from nightmares to find
that they aren't real. I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over.
I know he must be sorry - because he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today. And it wasn't Valentines Day or any other special
day. Last night he beat me and threatened to kill me.
Makeup and long sleeves didn't hide the cuts and bruises this time.
I couldn't go to work because I didn't want anyone to know
But I know he is sorry - because he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today and it wasn't Mother's Day or any other special day.
Last night he beat me again and it was much worse than all the other
times. If I leave him what will I do? How will I take care of the kids?
What about money? I'm afraid of him and too scared to leave him!
But he must be sorry - because he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today. Today was a very special day.
It was the day of my funeral.
Last night he finally killed me. I was beaten to death.
If only I would have gathered enough courage and strength to leave him.
So I got flowers today - for the very last time.
~Author Unknown
Posted by DwellingOnMove
^^^ yes, I think so.Yes, she's Virgo. Good observer. And a real healer. Not one focused on her/himself.
Ahhh Rip her arm clean off and come back and tell me how focused she is.
This thread is not about one Person or two. It is about domestic violence.
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You're lying this thread is called "Are Scorpio men usually abusive?"
Furthermore, seeing you want to make this thread about domestic violence
I think it's wrong to discriminate against foreigners.
You haven't discussed foreign violence, yet. To leave the Foreigners out is wrong.
You're lying this thread is called "Are Scorpio men usually abusive?"
Furthermore, seeing you want to make this thread about domestic violence
I think it's wrong to discriminate against foreigners.
You haven't discussed foreign violence, yet. To leave the Foreigners out is wrong.
The very first reaction (fortnately enough from a scorpio women):
Posted by ScorpiosHarmony
Destroy any ounce of love you have for this man before he destroys you.You've been warned!
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
"hit me with a closed fist about 3-4 times in my head"...... At home there should be no fist at work.
Zodiac sign plays no role...
Copy your thread to each board for different signs. And you'll get the same answer...
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still valid.
i read that some people have a hard time buying this. maybe the op is a troll and it isn't real. but it seems kind of a test to see how people answer isn't it? if this was posted in another forum, maybe fire sign or air, would people do the same thing and say 'no it's not an aries man or a leo man to do that', or 'gemini men this and that'
i honestly have to say that twirlingstrawberry deeply understands the situation more than most. it really does take someone who lived through it to understand the deep psychological wounds and the fear.
also, if he really is in the military, what section? is he a special ops?
well if this is true, you can't win with this type of guy. starlover mentioned examples like "Charles Manson and Ike Turner" ....you can't win. you'll end up dead somewhere in the gutter.
you have to put yourself in her place to understand. if you're desperate and scared, and astrology just happens to fall in your lap you scamper off to look for clues. why this why that.
i mean honestly, arent you all interested in why serial killers are the way they are? even astrology kind of points to it, but at the same time, another person with the same chart somewhere is psychologically a well functioning person in society and doesn't want to go killing or messing up others.
Posted by Whatu
Is there any kind of womans refuge near by where you can stay? while the police sort him out.
fine boy who is not infected with zodiac-sign-patriotism virus.
Posted by lisabethur8
... i mean honestly, arent you all interested in why serial killers are the way they are? even astrology kind of points to it, but at the same time, another person with the same chart somewhere is psychologically a well functioning person in society and doesn't want to go killing or messing up others.
yes, we are interested. And there has been enough threads on dxp discussed this. And Sag or Pisces were among them killers too. But we have it past. We know it is just mind games. Placebo YES.
But nobody with real life problems like domestic violence should be confused according to these entertainment. Otherwise Astrology would get banned.
Posted by MrFirebird
You're lying this thread is called "Are Scorpio men usually abusive?"...
We cannot change the title any more. But the content of discussion shows how indifferent or compassionate we could be about it.
And to give you rest with the symptoms of zodiac-patriotism virus (or was it a nerve stricken) here you have a thread:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/interesting-leo-encounter-domestic-abuse-3429187/
Ok, if you wanted to know if I can give up, here you are.
if you stare into the abyss, the abyss stares back at you.
short educational film based on domestic abuse and violence against men demonstrating the different sorts of abuse a woman can inflict upon a man, be it bullying, mind games, emotional blackmail and physical violence. Stereotype tends to assume that in such cases (in heterosexual relationships) the woman is the victim, whereas shockingly 40% of all domestic abuse victims are in fact male.
Stricken nerve, no doubt, any more.
It's only in God's hands to what AquaGold will pay attention.
Posted by MrFirebird
You're lying this thread is called "Are Scorpio men usually abusive?"...We cannot change the title any more. But the content of discussion shows how indifferent or compassionate we could be about it.
And to give you rest with the symptoms of zodiac-patriotism virus (or was it a nerve stricken) here you have a thread:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/interesting-leo-encounter-domestic-abuse-3429187/
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well loyalty is great, but when another human being is being abused and is another sign/placement or whatever, yeah you see the lack of compassion and you wonder... hmm why are they like that?
it's kind of similar to Nazism, or Hitler's regime (can i get extreme?) you protect your own, but you don't give a shit about others even if they are innocent. It is SURVIVAL in that sense right? I'm trying to wrap my head around it.
or it is because they want to have FAVOUR for the certain sign ...because they want to secretly PAIR with them? Is that it? That's going really extreme. I don't know. It's just so kind of a dark comedy or something with lack of empathy.
Posted by MrFirebird
You're lying this thread is called "Are Scorpio men usually abusive?"...We cannot change the title any more. But the content of discussion shows how indifferent or compassionate we could be about it.
And to give you rest with the symptoms of zodiac-patriotism virus (or was it a nerve stricken) here you have a thread:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/interesting-leo-encounter-domestic-abuse-3429187/
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That dumbshit Leo was on coke.
Zodiac Patriotism?
ROTFLOL
That's good one. "The Patriot"
I get the feeling some people on dxp are afraid to make a single damn step without astrology...
Posted by DwellingOnMove
Stricken nerve, no doubt, any more.It's only in God's hands to what AquaGold will pay attention.
Yes.... woman, it's only in God's Hands.
She shall leave the tyrant and for her foolishness may
find another. And so might you.
As for me, my nerve is quite sound.
Posted by Dajjal
I get the feeling some people on dxp are afraid to make a single damn step without astrology...
Indeed, they are.
They fail to recognize the many, many other factors in life.
They seek Mr. Right and find Mr. Wrong.
"but but but... the charts said...."
To hell with the charts.
The reason why men abuse women and women abuse men is a long and storied matter.
People are NOT going to learn until they realize why they are who they are.
Neither can they begin to understand the dynamics of the spirit world.
What we see here begins within. And how we respond to the spirit realm that stirs
the inner turmoils dictates the manifestations that become abuse, crime, murder and war
that the news media talks about and petty politicians get a Good Housekeeping Seal Of Approval
stamp.
This world is messed up and it originates on the other side.
It's that simple.
and the cycles keep repeating, not just in love matters, elsewhere too. the only difference is the time and place
Posted by starlover
Go to RADASO much drama here
Wow
RADA?
Nah...
Drama??
Nah....
Roll your own?
Yep.
Hey, what do you think of Drum Tobacco?
Posted by Dajjal
and the cycles keep repeating, not just in love matters, elsewhere too. the only difference is the time and place
Indeed it does but the cycles are no longer "clear" as they have become a nasty entanglement of
confusion. And yes in every area of society and most certainly politics and social concerns.
People try to fix their problems but repeat the same mistake, over and over and over using the
same methods. - You know? Make the same mistake, expecting different results = insanity?
That's what's going on there in the world.
Posted by Aquariusgold
Ok I'm madly in-love with a scorpio man who I've been with for over 3 years. One minute he can be so sweet & nurturing, and then the next minute he's calling me every name under the sun... tells me to get the f*ck out of his house, even says he hates my gutts and wishes I was dead. I knew he had a temper but I didn't know it was that bad until I moved in with him in May. Now things have gotten quite physical! I mean like...he just snaps! We can be having a normal discussion and then at any given moment he'll just fly off the handle if I say something "stupid" or if offend him in some way. Then starts yelling like a tyrant while spit comes flying out of his mouth! He'll be mad for HOURS or even DAYS!! It can be sooo draining..Like the other morning...he had woken me up out of my sleep while I was having a weird dream about my ex (I have no clue why!!) and I mentioned to him out of casual conversation (Like a Dumbass) that I had dreamed about my ex but he took it the wrong way ...called me an unappreciative b*tch and then hit me with a closed fist about 3-4 times in my head. He's 6'3" 215lbs and I'm 5'2" 128lbs...so I try to avoid arguments because it's impossible to calm him down once enraged. But when he's nice, he's extremely NICE and so affectionate & Our love-making is ridiculously passionate! But sometimes I question his love for me because he treats me like the enemy when I upset him. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH...WHAT TO DO??
He's a fucking nut!!!! Run.
Posted by starlover
Too much dramaNo i don't roll my own
Smoking makes meto cough and smell nasty
But i did used to smoke Drum 😛
Did you every try very deep belly breathing Mr F....it may help you
Are you referring to the natural high sensation?
^unfortunately I do. I'm an observer and (sometimes over-)thinker. and tired of repeating the same things over and over again. not like people don't get it, most don't want to because it's easier sticking to what you are familiar with, even if it's killing you.
Posted by nov13thscorp
lmao this is the dumpest thread ever....and I cant believe my fellow scorps replied...if this was real you would of either A) went to the cops or B) asked personal friends or family for advice...I feel like hitting u just for wasting our time....aqua girls have that affect on me
Aqua men have that affect on me....
Posted by Dajjal
^unfortunately I do. I'm an observer and (sometimes over-)thinker. and tired of repeating the same things over and over again. not like people don't get it, most don't want to because it's easier sticking to what you are familiar with, even if it's killing you.
You know, they might "get it" but they don't care.
And you can only care for so long until you have to make the decision to give up caring
or else you are robbed of your wits.
- As far as Domestic Violence goes, it works both ways. - A violent parent will raise
potentially violent children if those children are unable to find an escape.
They grow up and have a difficult time in school and then work and society in general.
A nasty woman will do her man wrong and if her man had been abused himself, he may
turn around and kill her or vice versa.
Television programming and music only feed the endless diet of violence.
Men and women fail to respect the power of sex and how it can tweak the brain faster
than no drug ever could. Depending on the person, of course.
Posted by nov13thscorp
lmao this is the dumpest thread ever....and I cant believe my fellow scorps replied...if this was real you would of either A) went to the cops or B) asked personal friends or family for advice...I feel like hitting u just for wasting our time....aqua girls have that affect on meUmmm...I went to the police station the other day but decided not to file at that moment...and I'm too embarrassed to tell friends. Does that answer your question?
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I know how you're feeling, but at some point you have to realize that you shouldn't be embarrassed, he should be. Your silence helps protect him, helps him get away with it. I did that for years while married until I was so hurt and disgusted and mad that I decided I didn't owe him my silence or my protection. Speak out! You'll be surprised how many already know, and how many have been praying you leave him.
Posted by nov13thscorp
lmao this is the dumpest thread ever....and I cant believe my fellow scorps replied...if this was real you would of either A) went to the cops or B) asked personal friends or family for advice...I feel like hitting u just for wasting our time....aqua girls have that affect on meUmmm...I went to the police station the other day but decided not to file at that moment...and I'm too embarrassed to tell friends. Does that answer your question?
I know how you're feeling, but at some point you have to realize that you shouldn't be embarrassed, he should be. Your silence helps protect him, helps him get away with it. I did that for years while married until I was so hurt and disgusted and mad that I decided I didn't owe him my silence or my protection. Speak out! You'll be surprised how many already know, and how many have been praying you leave him.
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Do what she said. Just be prepared for the immediate separation - get your things in order, in advance.
Moon, you might talk to AG in private about this.
Just a thought.
Posted by Aquariusgold
I feel so stupid...I swear all this time and after reading so many threads and forums on the internet, I just thought it was a Scorpio's nature to have a really bad short temper. I almost felt like it was my duty to stick it out and be patient. I've never been in a relationship with a scorpio so I was searching for as much advice as possible. The Aquarius in me causes me to be persistent and obsessive (in a sense) in finding ways to cure the relationship I have left.
Don't blame astrology for the fact that you let him do this. When you are free of him and not panicking inside take some time to figure out why you needed to keep him:fear of being alone, poor self esteem, guilable, dependent, etc? So many reasons why too many accept this and protect their abuser. Have faith and love in yourself, don't accept this for your life. Grow from it, and learn, but do get out. Later today I'll post some links when I have my computer (I'm at the airport on my phone). Arm yourself with knowledge.
Posted by nov13thscorp
lmao this is the dumpest thread ever....and I cant believe my fellow scorps replied...if this was real you would of either A) went to the cops or B) asked personal friends or family for advice...I feel like hitting u just for wasting our time....aqua girls have that affect on meUmmm...I went to the police station the other day but decided not to file at that moment...and I'm too embarrassed to tell friends. Does that answer your question?
I know how you're feeling, but at some point you have to realize that you shouldn't be embarrassed, he should be. Your silence helps protect him, helps him get away with it. I did that for years while married until I was so hurt and disgusted and mad that I decided I didn't owe him my silence or my protection. Speak out! You'll be surprised how many already know, and how many have been praying you leave him.
Do what she said. Just be prepared for the immediate separation - get your things in order, in advance.
Moon, you might talk to AG in private about this.Just a thought.
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Yes, I'll do that firebird, but I also want this public. I'm not embarrassed to share my story. The more who can learn from it, the better.
OP, ask anything you want in pm that you don't want public. Quite a few of us in here have been in your shoes and managed to get free. I also suggest getting a psychologist or therapist, because you'll be dealing with mentally healing after you leave and probably have PTSD. It's all fixable, and it's not the easiest wash of emotional growth to go through, but you'll come out stronger for it.
tells me to get the f*ck out of his house, even says he hates my gutts and wishes I was dead.
Then starts yelling like a tyrant while spit comes flying out of his mouth!
called me an unappreciative b*tch and then hit me with a closed fist about 3-4 times in my head.
He's 6'3" 215lbs and I'm 5'2" 128lbs...
I LOVE HIM SO MUCH...WHAT TO DO??
Looks ^^^like he's beat you senseless.
It's very simple, and you know there's help out there.
Stay if you want his wish to come true and kills you OR
Leave (unless you are chained to the toilet) and live.
Pick one. Regarding the astrology of it all...flush that shit down the toilet.
Posted by lisabethur8
i read that some people have a hard time buying this. maybe the op is a troll and it isn't real. but it seems kind of a test to see how people answer isn't it? if this was posted in another forum, maybe fire sign or air, would people do the same thing and say 'no it's not an aries man or a leo man to do that', or 'gemini men this and that'i honestly have to say that twirlingstrawberry deeply understands the situation more than most. it really does take someone who lived through it to understand the deep psychological wounds and the fear.
also, if he really is in the military, what section? is he a special ops?
well if this is true, you can't win with this type of guy. starlover mentioned examples like "Charles Manson and Ike Turner" ....you can't win. you'll end up dead somewhere in the gutter.
you have to put yourself in her place to understand. if you're desperate and scared, and astrology just happens to fall in your lap you scamper off to look for clues. why this why that.
i mean honestly, arent you all interested in why serial killers are the way they are? even astrology kind of points to it, but at the same time, another person with the same chart somewhere is psychologically a well functioning person in society and doesn't want to go killing or messing up others.
Let me clarify... again: I have a hard time believing
that someone would use a description of an astrology
sign (be gentle... they are sensitive!) to justify
domestic abuse... it is unbelievable.
I didn't read through the entire thread and I'm pretty sure I know how most everyone's responded.
I am just another voice joining in agreement. You need to leave this man, the sooner the better.
2 words. Ike Turner.
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^ virgo if I am correct 🙂