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Why is it always walking on eggshells with you ladies?
It's not.
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LOL Scorpio women are eggshell city when you Scorpios get in one of your moods the guy that is walking on eggshells around you is wondering what the hell happened you as the Scorpio is tight lipped thinking the guy should be a mind reader and know exactly what happened. It is not easy dealing with a Scorpio yes it is eggshells you Scorp women may not think so it is very much so.
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The sarcastic humor seems to be common for Scorpios I've said this before my ex boss he is a Scorp man he had a very dry sarcastic humor and he liked to use it. Now that I've worked with and currently working with a Scorpio woman again she too has a bit of a sarcastic humor she doesn't use it as much as my ex boss. The first Scorpio I worked with she too has a sarcastic humor, not sure if you can describe it as they laugh at other peoples pain but its the way I see it.

It takes a special knack to make a Scorpio laugh you have to understand them there are things that other signs find hilarious and a Scorp doesn't even laugh.
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Why is it always walking on eggshells with you ladies?
It's not.
LOL Scorpio women are eggshell city when you Scorpios get in one of your moods the guy that is walking on eggshells around you is wondering what the hell happened you as the Scorpio is tight lipped thinking the guy should be a mind reader and know exactly what happened. It is not easy dealing with a Scorpio yes it is eggshells you Scorp women may not think so it is very much so.
Whatever stihl
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The same reaction I would get from the first Scorpio she used to say Whatever a lot
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Posted by Rambunctious76
Why are y'all so damned aggressive?
It depends on the scorpio.
I wouldn't necessarily say I'm aggressive. I know what I want and I am not afraid to voice it when in a relationship, but in many situations people consider me very passive.
I would say I feel off centered when I don't know what's going to happen next and I am left guessing.
I think that I am a control freak really not aggressive lol.
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Hey ladies, fun question for you:

Let's say you've just exchanged numbers with a good looking guy, made small talk for a bit before parting ways. About 20 minutes and a good amount of miles later you see a vehicle speeding behind you trying to catch up, it's him and he's signaling for you to get off at the nearest exit. You pick up your phone to call him, but realize it's now completely dead. He's trying to say something, but gets drowned out by surrounding cars and highway noise... Are you intrigued enough to pull over or too creeped out to stop?
Neither; I'd think he's trying to initiate a race, and dust him cause Mars in Aries. 😄
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The "liar" was me. I never lie under normal circumstances - I feel almost repulsed by it. But when I don't feel bad about it(like in a game where everyone knows that everyone is lying, including her), I'm fine with it because I don't find it morally wrong.
Like mafia?
Lol
No I would not see it bad it's a game n ur good at it lol. If I know you already n know u don't conduct urself that way in real life no issue.
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I don't even know the name of the game - we made it up ourselves(we were four people). Sounds wonderful. I was just a little surprised when she stared at me strangely and said something like her view of the world just crashed. She has been nice to me ever since, but she has not actively sought me out. I know she's got a lot on her mind atm, so that's possibly it? Hope it's not a problem.
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The "liar" was me. I never lie under normal circumstances - I feel almost repulsed by it. But when I don't feel bad about it(like in a game where everyone knows that everyone is lying, including her), I'm fine with it because I don't find it morally wrong.
Like mafia?
Lol
No I would not see it bad it's a game n ur good at it lol. If I know you already n know u don't conduct urself that way in real life no issue.
I don't even know the name of the game - we made it up ourselves(we were four people). Sounds wonderful. I was just a little surprised when she stared at me strangely and said something like her view of the world just crashed. She has been nice to me ever since, but she has not actively sought me out. I know she's got a lot on her mind atm, so that's possibly it? Hope it's not a problem.
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What was the lie you said just prior to her statement?
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The "liar" was me. I never lie under normal circumstances - I feel almost repulsed by it. But when I don't feel bad about it(like in a game where everyone knows that everyone is lying, including her), I'm fine with it because I don't find it morally wrong.
Like mafia?
Lol
No I would not see it bad it's a game n ur good at it lol. If I know you already n know u don't conduct urself that way in real life no issue.
I don't even know the name of the game - we made it up ourselves(we were four people). Sounds wonderful. I was just a little surprised when she stared at me strangely and said something like her view of the world just crashed. She has been nice to me ever since, but she has not actively sought me out. I know she's got a lot on her mind atm, so that's possibly it? Hope it's not a problem.
What was the lie you said just prior to her statement?
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We were supposed to make up two statements about ourselves and one would be true(so, three in total). Long story short, one of my lies was that I had been published in a specific paper and she asked details and I made up some details(as I should, according to the game). She guessed that was the true statement about me, and when I said it wasn't: that's when she said that. And it was directed, not at the lie itself not being true, but the fact that she couldn't see that I was lying.
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The "liar" was me. I never lie under normal circumstances - I feel almost repulsed by it. But when I don't feel bad about it(like in a game where everyone knows that everyone is lying, including her), I'm fine with it because I don't find it morally wrong.
Like mafia?
Lol
No I would not see it bad it's a game n ur good at it lol. If I know you already n know u don't conduct urself that way in real life no issue.
I don't even know the name of the game - we made it up ourselves(we were four people). Sounds wonderful. I was just a little surprised when she stared at me strangely and said something like her view of the world just crashed. She has been nice to me ever since, but she has not actively sought me out. I know she's got a lot on her mind atm, so that's possibly it? Hope it's not a problem.
What was the lie you said just prior to her statement?
We were supposed to make up two statements about ourselves and one would be true(so, three in total). Long story short, one of my lies was that I had been published in a specific paper and she asked details and I made up some details(as I should, according to the game). She guessed that was the true statement about me, and when I said it wasn't: that's when she said that. And it was directed, not at the lie itself not being true, but the fact that she couldn't see that I was lying.
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I agree with Impulsv. She's more than likely thrown by the fact she couldn't distinguish the lie from the truth. You may have inadvertently even triggered what's also bothering her. Regardless, it's not really about you.
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The "liar" was me. I never lie under normal circumstances - I feel almost repulsed by it. But when I don't feel bad about it(like in a game where everyone knows that everyone is lying, including her), I'm fine with it because I don't find it morally wrong.
Like mafia?
Lol
No I would not see it bad it's a game n ur good at it lol. If I know you already n know u don't conduct urself that way in real life no issue.
I don't even know the name of the game - we made it up ourselves(we were four people). Sounds wonderful. I was just a little surprised when she stared at me strangely and said something like her view of the world just crashed. She has been nice to me ever since, but she has not actively sought me out. I know she's got a lot on her mind atm, so that's possibly it? Hope it's not a problem.
What was the lie you said just prior to her statement?
We were supposed to make up two statements about ourselves and one would be true(so, three in total). Long story short, one of my lies was that I had been published in a specific paper and she asked details and I made up some details(as I should, according to the game). She guessed that was the true statement about me, and when I said it wasn't: that's when she said that. And it was directed, not at the lie itself not being true, but the fact that she couldn't see that I was lying.
I agree with Impulsv. She's more than likely thrown by the fact she pegged the lie as a truth. You may have inadvertently even triggered what's also bothering her. Regardless, it's not really about you.
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She did seem thrown by it, especially since it happened a few times.

Good to know. I'll reach out again and see what I can do to help her. Thank you! 🙂
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The "liar" was me. I never lie under normal circumstances - I feel almost repulsed by it. But when I don't feel bad about it(like in a game where everyone knows that everyone is lying, including her), I'm fine with it because I don't find it morally wrong.
Like mafia?
Lol
No I would not see it bad it's a game n ur good at it lol. If I know you already n know u don't conduct urself that way in real life no issue.
I don't even know the name of the game - we made it up ourselves(we were four people). Sounds wonderful. I was just a little surprised when she stared at me strangely and said something like her view of the world just crashed. She has been nice to me ever since, but she has not actively sought me out. I know she's got a lot on her mind atm, so that's possibly it? Hope it's not a problem.
What was the lie you said just prior to her statement?
We were supposed to make up two statements about ourselves and one would be true(so, three in total). Long story short, one of my lies was that I had been published in a specific paper and she asked details and I made up some details(as I should, according to the game). She guessed that was the true statement about me, and when I said it wasn't: that's when she said that. And it was directed, not at the lie itself not being true, but the fact that she couldn't see that I was lying.
I agree with Impulsv. She's more than likely thrown by the fact that she couldn't distinguish the lie from there truth. You may have inadvertently even triggered what's also bothering her. Regardless, it's not really about you.
She did seem thrown by it, especially since it happened a few times.


Good to know. I'll reach out again and see what I can do to help her. Thank you! 🙂
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Yeah. Probably questioning her judgment.
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You Scorpio women give off the vibe and death stare when you meet people I think its your defense mechanism to keep them at a distance till you can use the laser beam eyes to analyze the person like an x-ray machine.

Yes Scorpios are very much self destructive they sure know how to phuck things up in their lives its almost like they get joy from it.
They have an inner self destruct button that they can push on at times. You sound jaded or bitter from a "Scorpio" and haven't worked through it.
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No I'm not jaded or bitter just puzzled how a Scorpio woman can work hard at something putting a lot of effort into it then turn around and screw it up. It seems like they don't want to succeed as a Cancer man I never put that much effort into something then sabotage it. Scorpios are rarely happy or satisfied about anything most things are one step away from disaster, you try to cheer them up its futile.
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You Scorpio women give off the vibe and death stare when you meet people I think its your defense mechanism to keep them at a distance till you can use the laser beam eyes to analyze the person like an x-ray machine.

Yes Scorpios are very much self destructive they sure know how to phuck things up in their lives its almost like they get joy from it.
They have an inner self destruct button that they can push on at times. You sound jaded or bitter from a "Scorpio" and haven't worked through it.
No I'm not jaded or bitter just puzzled how a Scorpio woman can work hard at something putting a lot of effort into it then turn around and screw it up. It seems like they don't want to succeed as a Cancer man I never put that much effort into something then sabotage it. Scorpios are rarely happy or satisfied about anything most things are one step away from disaster, you try to cheer them up its futile.
I don't think that one woman you are obsessed with is a true representation of all Scorpios. All of the statements that you make regarding her don't ring true to me at all.
Her placements may be vastly different than mine or she may have other issues that affect her behavior but your blanket Scorpio statements could be further from the truth.
He doesn't even know if she is a Scorpio. He is just assuming
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I'm working with a Scorpio I know her exact birthdate and the first Scorpio I worked with I know her exact birthdate plus I know a few other scorp women.
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You Scorpio women give off the vibe and death stare when you meet people I think its your defense mechanism to keep them at a distance till you can use the laser beam eyes to analyze the person like an x-ray machine.

Yes Scorpios are very much self destructive they sure know how to phuck things up in their lives its almost like they get joy from it.
They have an inner self destruct button that they can push on at times. You sound jaded or bitter from a "Scorpio" and haven't worked through it.
No I'm not jaded or bitter just puzzled how a Scorpio woman can work hard at something putting a lot of effort into it then turn around and screw it up. It seems like they don't want to succeed as a Cancer man I never put that much effort into something then sabotage it. Scorpios are rarely happy or satisfied about anything most things are one step away from disaster, you try to cheer them up its futile.
I don't think that one woman you are obsessed with is a true representation of all Scorpios. All of the statements that you make regarding her don't ring true to me at all.
Her placements may be vastly different than mine or she may have other issues that affect her behavior but your blanket Scorpio statements could be further from the truth.
He doesn't even know if she is a Scorpio. He is just assuming
I'm working with a Scorpio I know her exact birthdate and the first Scorpio I worked with I know her exact birthdate plus I know a few other scorp women.
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Like seriously, you stopped sounding like a person with their shit together like 100 posts ago.
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Posted by Chance_11
How do you know when you're being self destructive?
When I feel white hot blinding rage emerge within and I see only red.

Then that would be the time for me to acknowledge the anger, or injustice inflicted unto me and let it wash away, let it go. Simply because it was inflicted upon me, it does not necessarily mean I must be the recipient of said negativity, to reach that awareness and to find the release is but very important.

To then stabilise my inner calm and reach my place of peace again.
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I'm working with a Scorpio I know her exact birthdate and the first Scorpio I worked with I know her exact birthdate plus I know a few other scorp women.
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I'd say Aspie but that's my answer to everything
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Scorpio Ladies, what is your favorite "chill and relax activity"
Bubble barhs.

Smoking weed outside on a nice day.

Actually just being outside on a nice day. Writing especially.
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Is that your Gem bits at play? I had to fight the urge to post more than one "chill and relax activity". So many things help me chill out. All depends on my mood.
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Scorpio Ladies, what is your favorite "chill and relax activity"
Bubble barhs.

Smoking weed outside on a nice day.

Actually just being outside on a nice day. Writing especially.
Is that your Gem bits at play? I had to fight the urge to post more than one "chill and relax activity". So many things help me chill out. All depends on my mood.
Ok, since a lot of our "chill and relax" activities revolve around mood; what puts you in a good mood?

(List as many as you like). 😄
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In no particular order:

Music
Dancing
Sex
Witty sarcastic banter/teasing with my bestie (especially when I'm being pissy)
CHOCOLATE
Tea
Long drives with my bestie
Walking along the beach with my bestie
People watching with my bestie
Listening to the rain
Talking to someone I trust and respect
Young and the Restless-----yaaas I'm all about these fictional character's antics.
Watching a old comedy series marathon (Sex in the City, Seinfeld, Fraiser)
Writing (doesn't necessarily put me in a good mood, but helps me feel better)
Watching Boxing/UFC
Boot camp class at the gym
Yoga
Painting
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Did you think you were a fire sign before finding out you was a water sign?
No, but I didn't know anything about astrology when I first learned that I was a Scorpio so I didn't know what a fire sign was. I'd say that now sometimes I relate to fire sign descriptions, maybe because my Mercury is fire and my moon is in my 1st house.

I didn't relate to what I first read about Scorpios (I was a preteen) and felt rather horrified. It was generic info, granted, but even now I don't relate to a lot of what is written about Scorpios, notably statements about Scorpios being jealous and vindictive.
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I share my thoughts and feelings about it with a close friend, write about it (journal type entries) and talk to myself, out loud, to get out the tension, etc. Often it helps if I can find humour in the situation and laugh about it a bit. I also focus on things and people I enjoy so I'm not taken down completely by the negativity.



It's rare that someone wrongs me enough to merit a cut out, and my above answer is more about the cases where that's what I had to do because it wasn't resolvable. Usually I try to resolve things with people when possible, by talking with them.

And like FrostedElly I will do my best to look at what might have lead to the problem, and on both sides (theirs and mine).

I might never be able to trust a person again if the wrong is extreme, but understanding what might have lead to the problem helps with letting it go and not having it haunt me and make me jaded.