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Competing with another girl for a Scorpio male. Help!!
Posted by angie2080
So now I'm confused because he told me I was perfect but also made a compliment to that girl...
😕 I'm confused as to what one has to do with the other. So because you're "perfect" he suppose to magically go blind?
Leave him to the Virgo. You want this too much, so you'll never be on equal footing with the Scorp. Not a good way to start any potential relationship.
The other girl is a WHAT —!!??
😱
I know of how strong the Virgo/Scorp connection can be. Not really sure about the cancer/Scorp.
But maybe you should try pulling back a little and letting him notice your absence and running after you.
But maybe you should try pulling back a little and letting him notice your absence and running after you.
Get a hold of yourself. 😐
Never compete for a man... he ought to be
competing for your attention, and what's
more is that he knows it.
You should at least *act* like you do too.
Never compete for a man... he ought to be
competing for your attention, and what's
more is that he knows it.
You should at least *act* like you do too.
Don't ever in your life compete for a man. It's so unattractive .. What sign are u ?
But honestly. All virgos I know including myself actually act hostile towards whomever I like at the time. Like I'll act cold and then warm. And then cold again. Not because I want to, but it's just how I am. I get shy and self conscious. Sooo... ?
But yeah crabs and scorps have that connection so I'd say just pull back
Thanks for all your feedback.
As I said before, I'm a Cancer!!! I understand that I have to make things clear for the Scorp but I don't want to look desperate. That's my point!! The Virgo girl, on the other hand, She's very bold and too available, like you can tell she wants him. So if I start acting like her, the Scorpio guy will think he has 2 girls that he can manipulate and his ego will be wayyyy high. So should I continue giving him signs? Maybe I should do it but be mysterious at the same time. Like, give him some attention but not too much, Or should I just back off and let him do the chasing. I heard Scorpios like challenges so do you think he'll go for a girl like me or for the Virgo who's very open with him?? When I started giving him signs, it helped a lot because he approached to me more. But with this Virgo girl in between it makes me uncomfortable because I feel like I'm competing for this guy. But I like him and that's why I don't know if I should go for it. What do you think?
As I said before, I'm a Cancer!!! I understand that I have to make things clear for the Scorp but I don't want to look desperate. That's my point!! The Virgo girl, on the other hand, She's very bold and too available, like you can tell she wants him. So if I start acting like her, the Scorpio guy will think he has 2 girls that he can manipulate and his ego will be wayyyy high. So should I continue giving him signs? Maybe I should do it but be mysterious at the same time. Like, give him some attention but not too much, Or should I just back off and let him do the chasing. I heard Scorpios like challenges so do you think he'll go for a girl like me or for the Virgo who's very open with him?? When I started giving him signs, it helped a lot because he approached to me more. But with this Virgo girl in between it makes me uncomfortable because I feel like I'm competing for this guy. But I like him and that's why I don't know if I should go for it. What do you think?
You already said that if you make yourself seem too open, he'll have the both of you wrapped around his finger.
Why don't you just try being there for him in a way she isn't. Don't use up all your time and thoughts on this guy. Be a little mysterious, make him want to get to know you instead of crawling at his feet.
And who knows, the Virgo may not even care that much about him. She sounds like a flirt and like someone who may play him (if she ever got him) for sport.
Why don't you just try being there for him in a way she isn't. Don't use up all your time and thoughts on this guy. Be a little mysterious, make him want to get to know you instead of crawling at his feet.
And who knows, the Virgo may not even care that much about him. She sounds like a flirt and like someone who may play him (if she ever got him) for sport.
It seems your a little more than antsy about her being in the picture.
Does she truly have something that you don't, that we're missing here? Like is she in his group or ? Like why do you feel so threatened ?
Because the guys still up for grabs, she doesn't have him (as of right now anyway).
Does she truly have something that you don't, that we're missing here? Like is she in his group or ? Like why do you feel so threatened ?
Because the guys still up for grabs, she doesn't have him (as of right now anyway).
What scares me is the fact that he might like her. Otherwise he wouldn't use that smiley with the heart faces. ?
It will be a little hard for me to open up to him again since now I have doubts and I don't want to get my hopes too high. I guess I'll still be there for him but not too available so he knows he has to work hard to have me.
It will be a little hard for me to open up to him again since now I have doubts and I don't want to get my hopes too high. I guess I'll still be there for him but not too available so he knows he has to work hard to have me.
Be yourself. Don't compete. Don't display jealousy. Don't ask him about her only b/c she isn't relevant in your situation with him unless you allow Scorpio girl to get in your head and throw you off track by making her relevant ie important.
He's single so respect his space to do his own thing. Your single so go and do your own thing. He's not the only guy in town so stop thinking about this one guy who flirts in your face.
You are perfect but being that does not mean he's going to chuck his single card down and couple up with you.
Your anxiety level is high right now and all your doing Is pushing him right into her arms with your desperate energy to keep him. Be confident. Being confident RAISES his attraction towards you. Seeing you unbothered and unlphased can literally pull him closer to you.
Keep it simple. Move slightly AWAY from him and he'll most likely notice that and move closer to you, keep doing that until you get the end result you desire to have.
He's single so respect his space to do his own thing. Your single so go and do your own thing. He's not the only guy in town so stop thinking about this one guy who flirts in your face.
You are perfect but being that does not mean he's going to chuck his single card down and couple up with you.
Your anxiety level is high right now and all your doing Is pushing him right into her arms with your desperate energy to keep him. Be confident. Being confident RAISES his attraction towards you. Seeing you unbothered and unlphased can literally pull him closer to you.
Keep it simple. Move slightly AWAY from him and he'll most likely notice that and move closer to you, keep doing that until you get the end result you desire to have.
Posted by Montgomeryi ❤❤❤ this Cap lady!!
Get a hold of yourself. 😐
Never compete for a man... he ought to be
competing for your attention, and what's
more is that he knows it.
You should at least *act* like you do too.
Posted by angie2080I would act desperate for him, truly.
Thanks for all your feedback.
As I said before, I'm a Cancer!!! I understand that I have to make things clear for the Scorp but I don't want to look desperate. That's my point!! The Virgo girl, on the other hand, She's very bold and too available, like you can tell she wants him. So if I start acting like her, the Scorpio guy will think he has 2 girls that he can manipulate and his ego will be wayyyy high. So should I continue giving him signs? Maybe I should do it but be mysterious at the same time. Like, give him some attention but not too much, Or should I just back off and let him do the chasing. I heard Scorpios like challenges so do you think he'll go for a girl like me or for the Virgo who's very open with him?? When I started giving him signs, it helped a lot because he approached to me more. But with this Virgo girl in between it makes me uncomfortable because I feel like I'm competing for this guy. But I like him and that's why I don't know if I should go for it. What do you think?
I would tell him straight, "i want you and I desire you sooooo much !!! please please!!!! do you loveee me too because I can't take it anymore!"
I would be very very truthful, no hiding my feelings. and lay all down the line for the love.
edit - if I keep it all in i'll just be crying in my pillow all the time and I don't want that.
so I will cry to him instead.
do what feels good in your heart.
I would send him songs of LOVE.....tell him what's in my heart. that I want to kiss him everyday, for the rest of his days, because my heart is bursting and the pit beneath my stomach is aching!!!
if you want him soooo badly, be truthful, don't hide it.
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by Montgomeryi ❤❤❤ this Cap lady!!
Get a hold of yourself. 😐
Never compete for a man... he ought to be
competing for your attention, and what's
more is that he knows it.
You should at least *act* like you do too.
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So do I... she us *fabulosity* personified.
Posted by angie2080
Hey there!
I recently started talking to a Scorpio guy. We're friends but my gut tells me that he likes me and I also like him A LOT!! Since the beginning I knew that many girls were attracted to him, so I tried not to throw myself at him. But after a while I decided it was time to open up and I started giving him subtle hints that I'm into him. After that, he also started opening more and flirting with me more. I wasn't so sure if he liked me until one day he told me I was PERFECT. And from there, I kind of knew he liked me. The problem is that there's a girl that constantly flirts with him. She makes it SUPER obvious that she likes him. For his birthday, she was the first one to write on his wall on Facebook. She's always the first one to comment on his photos and everything. I'm assuming he knows that she likes him. Well, the other day I found out something that made me really sad. This girl was tagged on a photo with another girl and he basically wrote a comment saying: "You girls look beautiful" and he posted an emoji with heart eyes!!!!!! OMG, and I feel like he said that because she was on the photo. And of course, she got all happy and replied "thanks". So now I'm confused because he told me I was perfect but also made a compliment to that girl. I don't know if he likes her too. Now I'm not sure if I should continue giving him signs that I like him or back off, since this girl won't stop flirting with him and it's annoying because he will think he has 2 options if I act available. What makes it worst is that now he's flirting with her back since he said she looked beautiful. Should I bother to compete with this girl for him? BELIEVE ME, I REALLY LIKE HIM A LOT!!!! He's a really nice guy but she's going to be on our way. I feel a connection because I'm a Cancer. The other girl is a Virgo. Any advice on how to act with him—? I'm scared of looking desperate like that girl but I don't want to miss my chance with him. Help!!
hmm OP, what's your love style , your venus mars??
ohhh what are his placements?? that make him have these DUAL ladies around? 😕 curiouser...
Posted by pisces4scorpioive never known any scorpio man to do that.
Im a water sign as well, and I have a thing for a Scorpio. He fell in love with me last spring but I wasnt ready for a commitment. We remained lovers and saw other people.
The more men i went thru the more i realized how special my scorpio was. Then right as I was ready to say lets do this - he fell in love with another woman. She too is Scorpio.
He kept me as a lover but then the guilt started to break him. I kept telling him I would never say no to him. That I was his for the taking.
But then last weekend I decided no. If he is with her, and still wants me I'm going to cut him off. He needs to be monogamous with her to figure out if shes the one for him.
But I know he still wants me. We still hang out a few nights a week, platonically. And now I'm just biding my time. Waiting for them to implode.
I keep seeing him so he has me in his face which reminds him how much he desires me (he always texts me after we part platonically to tell me how crazy i drive him) but I'm not putting out because he needs to feel the misery of not having me to decide if his relationship is worth it.
So I do this and I wait.
he loved me first so I dont feel bad about this.
really? seeing other people and sleeping with them? I guess i'm learning.
Posted by DivaCanLeoI get you....
i can't be the other woman if im in a situation with any man, if a scorpio wants to fuk with me like that he got something coming to him, a car driving his azz over
there's gonna be WAR. and fatality.
Posted by pisces4scorpioPosted by lisabethur8Well youve seen my other posts - Ive focused on Scorpios this year. I had four that fell in love and remained lovers with me after i said I cant commit yet. Only the one I mentioned in the above post thru a fit about it. But he still obliged. Scorps are lovers. And voraciously at that. And keen compartmentalizers.Posted by pisces4scorpioive never known any scorpio man to do that.
Im a water sign as well, and I have a thing for a Scorpio. He fell in love with me last spring but I wasnt ready for a commitment. We remained lovers and saw other people.
The more men i went thru the more i realized how special my scorpio was. Then right as I was ready to say lets do this - he fell in love with another woman. She too is Scorpio.
He kept me as a lover but then the guilt started to break him. I kept telling him I would never say no to him. That I was his for the taking.
But then last weekend I decided no. If he is with her, and still wants me I'm going to cut him off. He needs to be monogamous with her to figure out if shes the one for him.
But I know he still wants me. We still hang out a few nights a week, platonically. And now I'm just biding my time. Waiting for them to implode.
I keep seeing him so he has me in his face which reminds him how much he desires me (he always texts me after we part platonically to tell me how crazy i drive him) but I'm not putting out because he needs to feel the misery of not having me to decide if his relationship is worth it.
So I do this and I wait.
he loved me first so I dont feel bad about this.
really? seeing other people and sleeping with them? I guess i'm learning.
One who is a psychologist used to call it Frankensteining - you get different needs met by different partners. When you cant find the one that will meet all your needs - or the one you find who can, wont commit - you keep at the frankensteining.
Scorpios have a secret side. They must have a secret. Im starving my Scorp of his secret by not letting him have me till hes single. He could very well just go find someone else but I know he wont.
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what secret side?
when I think of secret side I think of this kind of secret side....yuck.
Posted by DivaCanLeowould you drive over me in your prius?
i can't be the other woman if im in a situation with any man, if a scorpio wants to fuk with me like that he got something coming to him, a car driving his azz over
Posted by leowww
Never compete for the attention of a man, you either have it or you don't. You shouldn't have to play games to keep him interested.
yes u do lol
Posted by DivaCanLeoPosted by lisabethur8this pisces chick is a just another easy floozy women ...she goes around how men love her, nah bytch they just loving fuking you.Posted by DivaCanLeoI get you....
i can't be the other woman if im in a situation with any man, if a scorpio wants to fuk with me like that he got something coming to him, a car driving his azz over
there's gonna be WAR. and fatality.
she thinks she's so sexxy.click to expand
hater..Let her live..Do u Pisces
I'll reinstate this fact to make you feel better "the water sign connection will win".
That Virgo sounds wild AF (from what your telling) and seems like she has fire placements ☕️?
If the Virgo wants a challenge introduce her to an aqua and you take the Scorpio LMFAOO
That Virgo sounds wild AF (from what your telling) and seems like she has fire placements ☕️?
If the Virgo wants a challenge introduce her to an aqua and you take the Scorpio LMFAOO
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I recently started talking to a Scorpio guy. We're friends but my gut tells me that he likes me and I also like him A LOT!! Since the beginning I knew that many girls were attracted to him, so I tried not to throw myself at him. But after a while I decided it was time to open up and I started giving him subtle hints that I'm into him. After that, he also started opening more and flirting with me more. I wasn't so sure if he liked me until one day he told me I was PERFECT. And from there, I kind of knew he liked me. The problem is that there's a girl that constantly flirts with him. She makes it SUPER obvious that she likes him. For his birthday, she was the first one to write on his wall on Facebook. She's always the first one to comment on his photos and everything. I'm assuming he knows that she likes him. Well, the other day I found out something that made me really sad. This girl was tagged on a photo with another girl and he basically wrote a comment saying: "You girls look beautiful" and he posted an emoji with heart eyes!!!!!! OMG, and I feel like he said that because she was on the photo. And of course, she got all happy and replied "thanks". So now I'm confused because he told me I was perfect but also made a compliment to that girl. I don't know if he likes her too. Now I'm not sure if I should continue giving him signs that I like him or back off, since this girl won't stop flirting with him and it's annoying because he will think he has 2 options if I act available. What makes it worst is that now he's flirting with her back since he said she looked beautiful. Should I bother to compete with this girl for him? BELIEVE ME, I REALLY LIKE HIM A LOT!!!! He's a really nice guy but she's going to be on our way. I feel a connection because I'm a Cancer. The other girl is a Virgo. Any advice on how to act with him—? I'm scared of looking desperate like that girl but I don't want to miss my chance with him. Help!!