does this chart favor fidelity or cheating?

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She has many male friends that she hangs out with and she's slept with 2 or 3 of them in the past and once before meeting me. She used to be promiscuous but only with close friends (she doesnt like sleeping with strangers) and she swears in relationships that she abhors cheating because she's been cheated on before and knows that it hurts. I was simply wondering what I could get from looking at the chart.

http://imgur.com/a/r1UxAbi

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You're insecure about it, so she will.


We talked about it for a whole day. Despite that everyone else tells me about her cheating on me eventually because of her being surrounded by male friends, I've decided to put my trust in her.


Why are they telling you that stuff, her chart seems reliable.
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They don't know her personally. Just going off ov generalizations. Mainly because she still talks to some of the guy she slept with in the past while with me on top of having mostley guy friends. She says that I'm going to have to come with her eventually (I've been avoiding meeting her friends and family despite her wishes to bring me to Thanksgiving. I'm just a recluse like that.) though. What aspects specifically point to reliability though?
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You're insecure about it, so she will.


We talked about it for a whole day. Despite that everyone else tells me about her cheating on me eventually because of her being surrounded by male friends, I've decided to put my trust in her.


Why are they telling you that stuff, her chart seems reliable.


They don't know her personally. Just going off ov generalizations. Mainly because she still talks to some of the guy she slept with in the past while with me on top of having mostley guy friends. She says that I'm going to have to come with her eventually (I've been avoiding meeting her friends and family despite her wishes to bring me to Thanksgiving. I'm just a recluse like that.) though. What aspects specifically point to reliability though?


Yeah she has allot of guy friends because other women are probably jealous AF of her Scorpio vibes.
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yeah she has stated other women usually dont like her or she ended up sleeping with them and then disconnecting. She also says I'm stuck with her and that she's territorial so that's a thing I guess. She cooks me food and brings it to me in the middle of the night and even buys me stuff sometimes. It's quite bizarre behavior in this day and age from a woman lol. I feel spoiled sometimes
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You're insecure about it, so she will.


We talked about it for a whole day. Despite that everyone else tells me about her cheating on me eventually because of her being surrounded by male friends, I've decided to put my trust in her.


Why are they telling you that stuff, her chart seems reliable.


They don't know her personally. Just going off ov generalizations. Mainly because she still talks to some of the guy she slept with in the past while with me on top of having mostley guy friends. She says that I'm going to have to come with her eventually (I've been avoiding meeting her friends and family despite her wishes to bring me to Thanksgiving. I'm just a recluse like that.) though. What aspects specifically point to reliability though?


Yeah she has allot of guy friends because other women are probably jealous AF of her Scorpio vibes.


yeah she has stated other women usually dont like her or she ended up sleeping with them and then disconnecting. She also says I'm stuck with her and that she's territorial so that's a thing I guess. She cooks me food and brings it to me in the middle of the night and even buys me stuff sometimes. It's quite bizarre behavior in this day and age from a woman lol. I feel spoiled sometimes


lmao, yeah be prepared to give all that back to her ten fold when the time comes that she needs its. Because she will need it.
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yeah she's told me that she's insecure and needs validation and reassurance that I give a shit about her sometimes. The start was a bit rough because I was always an asshole. Ended up breaking and regaining her trust twice in the span of one month. It was a mess but I asked her if she was happy and she sent me a nice paragraph going into detail about every little thing I do that makes her feel "so special" as she puts it lol
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You're insecure about it, so she will.


We talked about it for a whole day. Despite that everyone else tells me about her cheating on me eventually because of her being surrounded by male friends, I've decided to put my trust in her.


Why are they telling you that stuff, her chart seems reliable.


They don't know her personally. Just going off ov generalizations. Mainly because she still talks to some of the guy she slept with in the past while with me on top of having mostley guy friends. She says that I'm going to have to come with her eventually (I've been avoiding meeting her friends and family despite her wishes to bring me to Thanksgiving. I'm just a recluse like that.) though. What aspects specifically point to reliability though?


Yeah she has allot of guy friends because other women are probably jealous AF of her Scorpio vibes.


yeah she has stated other women usually dont like her or she ended up sleeping with them and then disconnecting. She also says I'm stuck with her and that she's territorial so that's a thing I guess. She cooks me food and brings it to me in the middle of the night and even buys me stuff sometimes. It's quite bizarre behavior in this day and age from a woman lol. I feel spoiled sometimes


lmao, yeah be prepared to give all that back to her ten fold when the time comes that she needs its. Because she will need it.

yeah she's told me that she's insecure and needs validation and reassurance that I give a shit about her sometimes. The start was a bit rough because I was always an asshole. Ended up breaking and regaining her trust twice in the span of one month. It was a mess but I asked her if she was happy and she sent me a nice paragraph going into detail about every little thing I do that makes her feel "so special" as she puts it lol


You're communicating pretty good by the sounds
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I hope so because she seems really special. Is it Sun conj. Moon that does this for her in her chart?
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You're insecure about it, so she will.


We talked about it for a whole day. Despite that everyone else tells me about her cheating on me eventually because of her being surrounded by male friends, I've decided to put my trust in her.


Why are they telling you that stuff, her chart seems reliable.


They don't know her personally. Just going off ov generalizations. Mainly because she still talks to some of the guy she slept with in the past while with me on top of having mostley guy friends. She says that I'm going to have to come with her eventually (I've been avoiding meeting her friends and family despite her wishes to bring me to Thanksgiving. I'm just a recluse like that.) though. What aspects specifically point to reliability though?


Yeah she has allot of guy friends because other women are probably jealous AF of her Scorpio vibes.


yeah she has stated other women usually dont like her or she ended up sleeping with them and then disconnecting. She also says I'm stuck with her and that she's territorial so that's a thing I guess. She cooks me food and brings it to me in the middle of the night and even buys me stuff sometimes. It's quite bizarre behavior in this day and age from a woman lol. I feel spoiled sometimes
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she likes you around, and you feel really special to her in many ways.



other women feel threatened by her i guess. lol



i get that way when i know another woman is very similar to me. ;p

And we size eachother up. LOL

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but then at the end of the day, we end up kind of ...respecting eachother. And even helping eachother. It's a weird thing really. I dont really understand it.



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Realistically, go with what you feel is right. All this chart reading and shit is bullshit. You’ll either get cheated on or you won’t.

As far as the opposite sex friends thing goes.. it’s fine but I always keep one thing in mind.

I started out as a friend too.

If you pursue her just be confident in yourself. None of her actions (should she choose to make shitty ones) are a reflection of you.


Thanks. Does it help that when they hang out she always talks about me in high regard and how she's happy that I'm different from her past bfs?
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That's one fucked up Scorpio.


She's been through much pain. What stands out to you in her chart?

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Are you listening and really reading what people are saying ?

@peachy06 He's totally ignoring what people including myself (with the almost exact chart ) are saying.

EVERYTHING sticks out.

She has too much Scorpio. So you better prove your trust. She's been through a lot of gruesome shit and...

I'm not gonna repeat everything that's already been said.

What more info do you want OP


Relax lol


No. I can't 😂

I'm in a pissy mood today.

Too much BS


He's in her web either way lolol


Yeah true.

Why do men get so easily addicted to us ?

But then don't do what's necessary to keep us and keep us happy ?
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Probably because once people come to focus from being blind sighted by the initial, pure high, that's when it's realized two human beings have to make their personal lives come together and juggling and compromise come into play while making time for each other.
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That's one fucked up Scorpio.


She's been through much pain. What stands out to you in her chart?

🙄🙄🙄

Are you listening and really reading what people are saying ?

@peachy06 He's totally ignoring what people including myself (with the almost exact chart ) are saying.

EVERYTHING sticks out.

She has too much Scorpio. So you better prove your trust. She's been through a lot of gruesome shit and...

I'm not gonna repeat everything that's already been said.

What more info do you want OP


Relax lol


No. I can't 😂

I'm in a pissy mood today.

Too much BS


He's in her web either way lolol


Yeah true.

Why do men get so easily addicted to us ?

But then don't do what's necessary to keep us and keep us happy ?
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Probably because once people come to focus from being blind sighted by the initial, pure high, that's when it's realized two human beings have to make their personal lives come together and juggling and compromise come into play while making time for each other.
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She has many male friends that she hangs out with and she's slept with 2 or 3 of them in the past and once before meeting me. She used to be promiscuous but only with close friends (she doesnt like sleeping with strangers) and she swears in relationships that she abhors cheating because she's been cheated on before and knows that it hurts. I was simply wondering what I could get from looking at the chart.

http://imgur.com/a/r1UxAbi






Jarax, what's your chart? We really should start there--
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Thats similar to @Lala1393's chart. She probably can answer your question, she seems to be really honest and in tune with her feelings


Lol. YET, He's answering and taking advice from all the trolls and non-scorps 🙄

I wrote 2 long ass paragraphs for nothing. Even though our charts are identical.

People who don't listen are annoying AF.

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I just didn't have any questions for you. I even liked your post. You said if you had anything else that you'd include it later so I just sat back.
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That's one fucked up Scorpio.


She's been through much pain. What stands out to you in her chart?


The Sag Mars part. Girl can't be trusted.

With all these Scorp placements it's like she doesn't even have a Mars lol It's that weak that it isn't even noticable from all this lol


True, but mars in Sag is another red flag.

Haven't read about it before but sounds unstable and ready to escape when uncomfortable. All in all she sounds like a trouble. Add to it she has no female friends...red flags all over the place
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She has 4 female friends that shes super close to. She said she would even take a bullet for one of them. The rest are guys though. alot of big brother types
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She has many male friends that she hangs out with and she's slept with 2 or 3 of them in the past and once before meeting me. She used to be promiscuous but only with close friends (she doesnt like sleeping with strangers) and she swears in relationships that she abhors cheating because she's been cheated on before and knows that it hurts. I was simply wondering what I could get from looking at the chart.

http://imgur.com/a/r1UxAbi






Jarax, what's your chart? We really should start there--
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I'm afraid to post it tbh. I have like ALL the cheater aspects but my scorpio moon makes me way too emotional. the guilt would mentally destroy me. she's stated that I'm stuck with her and the only way she would leave is if I cheated or we always fought and it caused emotional stress. She says she's afraid I'll cheat just so she'll leave.

Anyways

my chart: http://imgur.com/a/DcSMRTB

our synastry overlay: http://imgur.com/a/QZ5SV06
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She has many male friends that she hangs out with and she's slept with 2 or 3 of them in the past and once before meeting me. She used to be promiscuous but only with close friends (she doesnt like sleeping with strangers) and she swears in relationships that she abhors cheating because she's been cheated on before and knows that it hurts. I was simply wondering what I could get from looking at the chart.

http://imgur.com/a/r1UxAbi

You actually might be a very, very good match for her. Jupiter makes you not want to settle down though






Jarax, what's your chart? We really should start there--


I'm afraid to post it tbh. I have like ALL the cheater aspects but my scorpio moon makes me way too emotional. the guilt would mentally destroy me. she's stated that I'm stuck with her and the only way she would leave is if I cheated or we always fought and it caused emotional stress. She says she's afraid I'll cheat just so she'll leave.

Anyways

my chart: http://imgur.com/a/DcSMRTB

our synastry overlay: http://imgur.com/a/QZ5SV06
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She has many male friends that she hangs out with and she's slept with 2 or 3 of them in the past and once before meeting me. She used to be promiscuous but only with close friends (she doesnt like sleeping with strangers) and she swears in relationships that she abhors cheating because she's been cheated on before and knows that it hurts. I was simply wondering what I could get from looking at the chart.

http://imgur.com/a/r1UxAbi

You actually might be a very, very good match for her. Jupiter makes you not want to settle down though






Jarax, what's your chart? We really should start there--


I'm afraid to post it tbh. I have like ALL the cheater aspects but my scorpio moon makes me way too emotional. the guilt would mentally destroy me. she's stated that I'm stuck with her and the only way she would leave is if I cheated or we always fought and it caused emotional stress. She says she's afraid I'll cheat just so she'll leave.

Anyways

my chart: http://imgur.com/a/DcSMRTB

our synastry overlay: http://imgur.com/a/QZ5SV06

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Jarax what's the age difference?
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She has many male friends that she hangs out with and she's slept with 2 or 3 of them in the past and once before meeting me. She used to be promiscuous but only with close friends (she doesnt like sleeping with strangers) and she swears in relationships that she abhors cheating because she's been cheated on before and knows that it hurts. I was simply wondering what I could get from looking at the chart.

http://imgur.com/a/r1UxAbi

You actually might be a very, very good match for her. Jupiter makes you not want to settle down though






Jarax, what's your chart? We really should start there--


I'm afraid to post it tbh. I have like ALL the cheater aspects but my scorpio moon makes me way too emotional. the guilt would mentally destroy me. she's stated that I'm stuck with her and the only way she would leave is if I cheated or we always fought and it caused emotional stress. She says she's afraid I'll cheat just so she'll leave.

Anyways

my chart: http://imgur.com/a/DcSMRTB

our synastry overlay: http://imgur.com/a/QZ5SV06


Jarax what's the age difference?
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I'm about to turn 21. She's about to turn 25
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She has many male friends that she hangs out with and she's slept with 2 or 3 of them in the past and once before meeting me. She used to be promiscuous but only with close friends (she doesnt like sleeping with strangers) and she swears in relationships that she abhors cheating because she's been cheated on before and knows that it hurts. I was simply wondering what I could get from looking at the chart.

http://imgur.com/a/r1UxAbi

You actually might be a very, very good match for her. Jupiter makes you not want to settle down though






Jarax, what's your chart? We really should start there--


I'm afraid to post it tbh. I have like ALL the cheater aspects but my scorpio moon makes me way too emotional. the guilt would mentally destroy me. she's stated that I'm stuck with her and the only way she would leave is if I cheated or we always fought and it caused emotional stress. She says she's afraid I'll cheat just so she'll leave.

Anyways

my chart: http://imgur.com/a/DcSMRTB

our synastry overlay: http://imgur.com/a/QZ5SV06


Jarax what's the age difference?

I'm about to turn 21. She's about to turn 25
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That's one fucked up Scorpio.


She's been through much pain. What stands out to you in her chart?


🙄🙄🙄

Are you listening and really reading what people are saying ?

@peachy06 He's totally ignoring what people including myself (with the almost exact chart ) are saying.

EVERYTHING sticks out.

She has too much Scorpio. So you better prove your trust. She's been through a lot of gruesome shit and...

I'm not gonna repeat everything that's already been said.

What more info do you want OP


Relax lol


No. I can't 😂

I'm in a pissy mood today.

Too much BS


He's in her web either way lolol


Yeah true.

Why do men get so easily addicted to us ?

But then don't do what's necessary to keep us and keep us happy ?
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What does it mean when said that Scorpio wants "an equal" in a partner>
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She has many male friends that she hangs out with and she's slept with 2 or 3 of them in the past and once before meeting me. She used to be promiscuous but only with close friends (she doesnt like sleeping with strangers) and she swears in relationships that she abhors cheating because she's been cheated on before and knows that it hurts. I was simply wondering what I could get from looking at the chart.

http://imgur.com/a/r1UxAbi






I‘d say keep an eye or better both eyes wiiiiide open! Sag mars loves some side snacks if she doesn‘t see you as superior.

She keeps those male „friends“ for attention.

Don‘t be ashamed of your gut feeling telling you this situation stinks. It does
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Unless you are a virgin your outlook on this is pretty hypocritical. Someone’s past before they met you is inconsequential. What matters is how they act AFTER you come into their life.


This is completely correct.

Also, I think you are making a big deal, you can’t call someone special because of their star sign, it’s ridiculous. Do not put her on a pedestal without knowing her properly, it gives off a bad clingy vibe.

Don’t listen to your friends. Do they know her, you and the situation so perfectly that they know exactly what will happen? Guy friends are jerks, a bunch on laughing hyeanas, jealous and they don’t want you to succeed, always be very careful what you share and with who, because their negativety transfers to you, which causes doubt, and then lack of confidence when you’re with the girl.

Thirdly don’t be jealous, I dunno, this should be obvious, but don’t be jealous of any other guy she’s talking too, again.. bad vibes, she will pick up on them. Who cares if she talks to other guys, act stronger than that, act like you know you’re better then those guys, and she will think it too. Act like other guys are better, she will think that, so this is what you don’t want.

Be strong, be confident, and don’t be scared, even if you do get together properly, and she does cheat, it’s not the end of the world, don’t but scared about how you might feel when someone might cheat on you. Women may come and go, just have the confidence that whatever happens you’re gonna make it, with or without them. Happy with or without them.
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That's one fucked up Scorpio.


She's been through much pain. What stands out to you in her chart?


🙄🙄🙄

Are you listening and really reading what people are saying ?

@peachy06 He's totally ignoring what people including myself (with the almost exact chart ) are saying.

EVERYTHING sticks out.

She has too much Scorpio. So you better prove your trust. She's been through a lot of gruesome shit and...

I'm not gonna repeat everything that's already been said.

What more info do you want OP


Relax lol


No. I can't 😂

I'm in a pissy mood today.

Too much BS


He's in her web either way lolol


Yeah true.

Why do men get so easily addicted to us ?

But then don't do what's necessary to keep us and keep us happy ?


What does it mean when said that Scorpio wants "an equal" in a partner>


That they're a fucking liar.

Haha no it means they want someone who puts in as much effortvas they do.

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If she breaks up with me due to attempted suicide (depression was really really bad and had been kept inside for years. I never told her.) and talks to me every day over the phone (I didn't talk to her for 5 days after one conversation that went fine. She didn't pick up for two days so I stopped calling and when I got out, she had changed her status to Single and deleted the relationship from her wall completely) while I'm in psych, is it over for good? I got out after 9 days and talked to her over text and she said she has alot going on that she wants to accomplish in a short span of time (I know about it). She held in all her feelings and the only person she had to talk to was me (she felt like I didn't have her best interest at heart and didn't trust me) and when she finally told her brother (who she says always wants the best for her) she realized all her focus had been on me and not herself and her goals and that she would worry about me all the time and never get anything done because of it. She said we should accomplish a few of our goals and then we could get back together but I don't see it. She doesn't trust me now and she stated she wouldn't cut me off but be friends with me at a distance. She said she just doesn't have anything left to deal with me rn (despite me getting medication and treatment currently). I know I treetrunked up majorly but I don't want her to cut me off slowly like this.
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Why is it so hard to date other women. She mentioned that she wants you to work on yourself. I think she is being considerate and your acting not so balanced. What is attractive about a suicidal mate.


I'm not suicidal anymore and I think it's because she broke up with me and said we could get back together later so there wasn't alot of finality to it.
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Just end it and date other women, we are in the minority. Women are easy stop worrying about 1 that is not normal. I'm done like you should be.