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Hmmm...
Care to elaborate on how this benefits you and your partner ?
I'm curious.
Posted by sweethearts
Your talking mentally and I get that, but what about physically because if it's not there physically then it aint working for me!I can mentally connect with lots of people male and female but like hell am I jumping in bed with them!
Yes it's the mental age we r talking abt.
And yes, if he's physically not fit then there's no point.
So it's mental age and also fitness level to be more accurate.
A man of say in his 30's or 40's if he is physically fit, I'm sure he can handle a girl in her late teens or in their 20's.
But fitness is for all age groups, don't you think so ?
Even if a man is in his early 20's but is a softie, he can't handle a real woman could he?
Posted by Damnata
I don't know what the fuck is going on in this thread. My father is dating someone younger than that formula though and it's going great for both of them. If there's any single 36 year old man on this thread..holla back at me (if I'm doing this right)In other news...this disturbs me:
It's a bit like dealing with horses.
It's the second time you bring up horses in relation to dating so now I am oficially scared
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Hmmm..
I guess I'm famous now with my own set of stalker's.
But that's of no consequences.
Is your father extremely happier now ?
Does he want 2 keep up his fitness level or basically his health ?
Does he look towards a brighter future ? And also feels life in general is great ?
It's reasonable 2 assume he doesn't waste his time moaning and grumbling abt anything or everything in any forums similar 2 DPX ?
And his partner benefits greatly from your father, in terms of knowledge and also life experiences ?
He is happy but for them it's like..they match on all levels. She is really mature for her age, he isn't a sexual predator.
She takes care of him and his health - he was always clueless about his health and let it deteriorate over time. Now he has more energy and he looks after himself more.
I don't know who benefits the most out of this. She is less ditsy than she was, went on another career path since she knows him. He tries to teach her everything she taught me.
I asked him to post on DXP, because of the shortage of grown up Virgo Men but he only speaks Italian as a foreign language.
It's supposed to balance out, both greatly benefit from the relationship. Not the loped sided relationships when the EQ difference is too great - those only benefits one party and not the other, hence the frequent divorces/breakup's.
In the end the mental age would balance out everything - I highly suspect this from my observation within my Asian culture, however I suspect this will be so within the western cultures too.
But your story does hv similarities with those I've observed or even experienced.
Sincere wishes 2 your dad and all the happiness he deserves.
Posted by sweethearts
Your talking mentally and I get that, but what about physically because if it's not there physically then it aint working for me!I can mentally connect with lots of people male and female but like hell am I jumping in bed with them!
Yes it's the mental age we r talking abt.
And yes, if he's physically not fit then there's no point.
So it's mental age and also fitness level to be more accurate.
A man of say in his 30's or 40's if he is physically fit, I'm sure he can handle a girl in her late teens or in their 20's.
But fitness is for all age groups, don't you think so ?
Even if a man is in his early 20's but is a softie, he can't handle a real woman could he?
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Im talking physically attractive to me, he would have to be and with your theory I very much doubt I would be attracted to this person! The dude would be 80 years old!! Yuk and with that in mind...I can't imagine we'd have a great deal in common. I'd certainly be able to understand him, his generation and what he's been through because he's older than my parents but No I think your theory has just gone out the window on that one!
When I gave out this theory, I was thinking abt myself and other man.
It is abt getting married and having a family.
That includes babies..
So theres a need for a suitable mother, wife, lover etc.
There's a catch 2 this theory.
There's a max and min requirement.
I wasn't being thorough with my explanation.
Apologies and good morning !
So it's ok for you to have a much younger woman but don't worry about how or what the woman would feel having an old man at her side? Great theory!! Hope it continues to work for you but somehow I think age will eventually put you on the bench dreaming unless of course you are filthy rich and an opportunist catches you!
And I thought u were done with this thread Rabbit.
On a side note; u need 2 chk if u indeed hv diabetes.
Lose some weight and head 2 the gym at least 3 x per week.
Also chg ur diet, lose those carbs.
And just maybe along the way you will lose interest with DPX as a whole and maybe start living live ?
U r after all a Scorpio.
3 totems I heard.
It's abt change...
Posted by SilentGhost
When I gave out this theory, I was thinking abt myself and other man.I'm sure you were thinking about another man...
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~chortles~ Indeed!
My stalker has arrived xD
My need 4 u is complete.
U r now Dismissed !
Posted by SilentGhost
And I thought u were done with this thread Rabbit.On a side note; u need 2 chk if u indeed hv diabetes.
Lose some weight and head 2 the gym at least 3 x per week.
Also chg ur diet, lose those carbs.
And just maybe along the way you will lose interest with DPX as a whole and maybe start living live ?
U r after all a Scorpio.
3 totems I heard.
It's abt change...
Hmmm....Tiny Hands say, "watch what you eat and don't be fat, super tall Rabbit! I will sit on my fat ass while I eat greasy burger and fries and tell you how to live better. Confucius say this most healthful and beneficial meal! I pretend to be more 'Murican because Honey BooBoo is my secret wannabe lover."
Posted by SilentGhost
My stalker has arrived xDMy need 4 u is complete.
U r now Dismissed !
What? Did I hear something? Hmmm...must be the empty sound of a sad and lonely ghost. Oops, no, my mistake, that was my dog farting.
Posted by sweethearts
So it's ok for you to have a much younger woman but don't worry about how or what the woman would feel having an old man at her side? Great theory!! Hope it continues to work for you but somehow I think age will eventually put you on the bench dreaming unless of course you are filthy rich and an opportunist catches you!
Since u r old and nature or God has decided that u can no longer bear a child.
It's it my fault or is it your that when you could you blew it away ?
Life sucks.
Deal with it and be on your merry way.
Posted by SilentGhost
My stalker has arrived xDMy need 4 u is complete.
U r now Dismissed !
What? Did I hear something? Hmmm...must be the empty sound of a sad and lonely ghost. Oops, no, my mistake, that was my dog farting.
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I repeat..
Once more..
U r Dismissed !
Muahahahaha !
Hey, Rabbit, $ 5 bucks says the empty voice in the darkness has lost its way. What should we do?
Let's see;
Rabbit is old, losing his eye sight and has mood - depression.
Prolly also has diabetes.
And you just after a bitter court case which u needed ur sister around 2 give you some form of confidence.
Also u r like 24/7 posting in any or every threads.
Especially mine of which I have dismissed you twice.
If both ur lives r any benchmark 2 be followed..
Then YES I've lost my way xD
Muahahahahaha
Btw u r still dismissed !
Posted by SilentGhost
Let's see;Rabbit is old, losing his eye sight and has mood - depression.
Prolly also has diabetes.
And you just after a bitter court case which u needed ur sister around 2 give you some form of confidence.
Also u r like 24/7 posting in any or every threads.
Especially mine of which I have dismissed you twice.
If both ur lives r any benchmark 2 be followed..
Then YES I've lost my way xD
Muahahahahaha
Btw u r still dismissed !
Obviously you didn't really read anything in depth because you only have surface info and you're trying to twist it to suit some lame purpose of your own devising. Pathetic and weak attempt at trying to shame or belittle others on your behalf. Tsk tsk...your really not a credit to the proud Scorpio heritage. ~cough-grey lizard-cough~
Oh, forgot to mention how amusing it is how much you keep track of how much anyone is or isn't online. ~cough-hypocrite-cough~
Uh huh...
Yea I belief you hehe
Maybe some other night belief u too xD
Maybe others will see how sad u truly r but still in denial..
Just possibilities hehe
I'm drinking passion fruit juice, it's such a hot day...
And in a few short hours this grey lizard is headed 2 a party.
And while I'm away partying..
U do hv my The Super Gray Lizards permission 2 keep on telling everyone how awesome and happy u r xD
Btw, almost every other post of yours says it.
Is it only awesome in DXP ?
I'm just extremely curious hehe
You'll never get to know, will you? You're not one of my inside people and all you'll ever see is what I want you to see and even that is colored by your weird obsession. I don't need to constantly brag about my life the way you do because in the end I don't give a rats ass what anyone else thinks of me. I am who I am and what I am and I'm perfectly fine and content with that. Your opinion of me isn't relative to anything important to me. Good luck trying to figure me out, though.
Oh u r now defending urself..
Is there a need 2 do so?
I heard ppl that r hurt or feel slighted feels a need 2 defend themselves most vigorously.
All these details r merely details..
I'm not bothered with it.
And u r still dismissed !
p/s: careful what u post, ppl might think u r in love with me and repeatedly getting dismissed is bad 4 a lady's reputation xD
Who said I was defending myself....YOU? Who are you, anyway, other than a fat, short man who brags about his fake life too much? No, there is no need to defend myself. I'm merely putting you in your place like an especially unintelligent dog that can't learn a simple thing like being house trained.
FYI, the last time I checked I really don't care about "reputation". That's for shallow, weak minded sheep to worry about.
Posted by SilentGhost
Let's see;Rabbit is old, losing his eye sight and has mood - depression.
Prolly also has diabetes.
And you just after a bitter court case which u needed ur sister around 2 give you some form of confidence.
Also u r like 24/7 posting in any or every threads.
Especially mine of which I have dismissed you twice.
If both ur lives r any benchmark 2 be followed..
Then YES I've lost my way xD
Muahahahahaha
Btw u r still dismissed !
I think your ideal partner is more like your age divided by 7 minus 2.
That would make a 43 yr old man have an 8 yr. old partner? 😕
Posted by MoonArtist
That would make a 43 yr old man have an 8 yr. old partner? 😕
I said ideal, not realistic. And that's a special formula just for him. 😉
Posted by MoonArtist
That would make a 43 yr old man have an 8 yr. old partner? 😕I said ideal, not realistic. And that's a special formula just for him. 😉
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rofl...ewww...and that brings us back to Honey BooBoo+Tiny Hands.
Posted by MoonArtist
That would make a 43 yr old man have an 8 yr. old partner? 😕I said ideal, not realistic. And that's a special formula just for him. 😉
rofl...ewww...and that brings us back to Honey BooBoo+Tiny Hands.
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...I don't even know what that is, and I know it's something creepy as hell lol
Enters another one more..
Ladies of a certain age grouping..?
This post must bother u mental oldies a lot.
Lets see, a 47 yrs old "chick" is an equal 2 an 80 yrs old man...mental age wise.
Whilst a 47 yrs old man is still capable of vigorously producing offspring xD
Yeah...
Life sucks hehe
Posted by SilentGhost
Enters another one more..Ladies of a certain age grouping..?
This post must bother u mental oldies a lot.
Lets see, a 47 yrs old "chick" is an equal 2 an 80 yrs old man...mental age wise.
Whilst a 47 yrs old man is still capable of vigorously producing offspring xD
Yeah...
Life sucks hehe
I'm actually 24, gramps.
And as someone who doesn't want kids, I just can't wait till I'm older. 🙂 No more periods, don't have to worry about birth control or pregnancy...
While you'll always have to worry about becoming an oopsies baby daddy with the 20 yr old gold diggers you can only hope of "scoring" with. 🙂
Correction 2 my hypotheses, of course everyone has rights 2 dispute this xD
A 47 yrs old man who is healthy and fit.
Whom has no diabetes..
With no mood swings like an old woman..
Basically a predator and knows he is one..
After all a man must know how 2 earn a living anywhere and at any environment he is in.
Also he must know how 2 protect those he loves...
Posted by MoonArtist
That would make a 43 yr old man have an 8 yr. old partner? 😕I said ideal, not realistic. And that's a special formula just for him. 😉
rofl...ewww...and that brings us back to Honey BooBoo+Tiny Hands.
...I don't even know what that is, and I know it's something creepy as hell lol
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Creepy as hell is right.
Posted by munchkin
And as someone who doesn't want kids, I just can't wait till I'm older. 🙂 No more periods, don't have to worry about birth control or pregnancy...While you'll always have to worry about becoming an oopsies baby daddy with the 20 yr old gold diggers you can only hope of "scoring" with. 🙂
Doesn't want kids ?
Great !
Now I can categorise you xD
U r one of those freaks of nature..
Gay or lesbian ?
U see, if ur DNA is flawed nature will want your DNA strain 2 be extinct and not pass down the line.
Hence the desire not 2 have children or 'loving' the same sex xD
Ain't nature or God great ?
Posted by munchkin
And as someone who doesn't want kids, I just can't wait till I'm older. 🙂 No more periods, don't have to worry about birth control or pregnancy...While you'll always have to worry about becoming an oopsies baby daddy with the 20 yr old gold diggers you can only hope of "scoring" with. 🙂
Forget gold diggers. Where he's from they pay for 22 yr olds....aka, whores. And since the human rights situation on that side of the world is less than stellar it doesn't matter if he knocks up a prostitute...that's her problem and maybe her pimp can sell the kid or have another sex slave in the making. Lovely life, huh?
Posted by munchkin
And as someone who doesn't want kids, I just can't wait till I'm older. 🙂 No more periods, don't have to worry about birth control or pregnancy...While you'll always have to worry about becoming an oopsies baby daddy with the 20 yr old gold diggers you can only hope of "scoring" with. 🙂
Doesn't want kids ?
Great !
Now I can categorise you xD
U r one of those freaks of nature..
Gay or lesbian ?
U see, if ur DNA is flawed nature will want your DNA strain 2 be extinct and not pass down the line.
Hence the desire not 2 have children or 'loving' the same sex xD
Ain't nature or God great ?
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I have a theory about homophobes...they're fighting their own closeted tendencies. And if nature was so set against it then why is it in nature?
Flawed DNA..
Which is why 'tendencies' r targeted to end or try to stop those DNA from spreading throughout humanity..
Thus there r gays or lesbians..
It's meant 2 end it..
You're soooo CUTE when you try to be logical and reasonable. Unfortunately that's also not your strong point. Meh.
Seriously, don't you ever sleep ?
Go 2 sleep and later you can spar with me all you like..
I know I'm super addictive..
But I prefer a fresh mind 2 spar with..
Posted by sweethearts
So it's ok for you to have a much younger woman but don't worry about how or what the woman would feel having an old man at her side? Great theory!! Hope it continues to work for you but somehow I think age will eventually put you on the bench dreaming unless of course you are filthy rich and an opportunist catches you!Since u r old and nature or God has decided that u can no longer bear a child.
It's it my fault or is it your that when you could you blew it away ?
Life sucks.
Deal with it and be on your merry way.
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I have had my children and none of them would bring home an old man as yourself! Shame on you, make all the excuses you want for being a dirty old man, doesn't cut it and don't being our people down by trying to make it about Malaysia. My family there don't think or act like that!
I didn't realize you were sparing. Doesn't that involve matching wits with an equal mind? Aww, look at you trying to be cute again. I'll get some pretty pink bows for your hair and a little bit of lipstick for you...you know, to help with that cuteness factor you're trying out.
Enters the Dragon lady..
Well, u 2 hv my permission 2 complain and whine abt anything you like.
I'm feeling magnanimous 2day..
Take it all out..
I can handle anything xD
Go 2 sleep moonie..
Yes, I'm sure it's easy for you to handle "anything" when your "anyTHING" is 2" long.
Go to sleep you say? Are you dismissing me again? Huh, the last I checked you have no say or control over me. Ooooooohhhhhhh, let me guess: you dismissing me is code for your not being able to handle me and my comebacks. I'm sorry, I didn't realize it bothered you so much.
Posted by sweethearts
So it's ok for you to have a much younger woman but don't worry about how or what the woman would feel having an old man at her side? Great theory!! Hope it continues to work for you but somehow I think age will eventually put you on the bench dreaming unless of course you are filthy rich and an opportunist catches you!Since u r old and nature or God has decided that u can no longer bear a child.
It's it my fault or is it your that when you could you blew it away ?
Life sucks.
Deal with it and be on your merry way.
I have had my children and none of them would bring home an old man as yourself! Shame on you, make all the excuses you want for being a dirty old man, doesn't cut it and don't being our people down by trying to make it about Malaysia. My family there don't think or act like that!
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Don't worry, we don't really think he's a typical portrayal of Malaysia. He can't even portray a proper scorpio.
There r actually 3 Malaysia's..
With 3 different and distinct identities..
Which part r u referring 2 ?
Btw we hv beautiful beaches and also an oceanic island, could be the perfect hideout for some loving couples..
It's actually paradise on earth.
Well if you don't hv a man or woman to share your life...
U still hv DPX to sooth your insecurities...
I'm sure it's lovely there, geographically speaking. Many places are. As for sharing, the people in my life, my lovers....that isn't something you're privy to. Insecurities? What are those?
Care 2 share your ex husband's age ?
And also what was the main reason for ending the marriage ?
Purely for research..
But if u r a coward and don't wish 2 divulge the details then I understand xD
Posted by munchkin
And as someone who doesn't want kids, I just can't wait till I'm older. 🙂 No more periods, don't have to worry about birth control or pregnancy...While you'll always have to worry about becoming an oopsies baby daddy with the 20 yr old gold diggers you can only hope of "scoring" with. 🙂
Doesn't want kids ?
Great !
Now I can categorise you xD
U r one of those freaks of nature..
Gay or lesbian ?
U see, if ur DNA is flawed nature will want your DNA strain 2 be extinct and not pass down the line.
Hence the desire not 2 have children or 'loving' the same sex xD
Ain't nature or God great ?
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Nature *is* awesome indeed - it endowed me with a brain! A brain that understands that there's no rational reason to breed. Especially since the world is already overpopulated.
Oh yeah. I'm very straight, happily engaged to a man 3 years older, and very healthy and happy. 🙂
And I'll just leave this here: http://m.nydailynews.com/1.1421592
Quite frankly I could not give even an atom of a damn if I help the species reproduce or not. There are others to do the breeding thing, so....not my problem! 🙂
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I'm a woman but my relationship follows the rule. I'm 39. He's 27. 39/2= 19.5+7= 26.5.
Not creepy at all.