How quickly do scorpios move on?

I was with a Scorpio for over a year... A year and a half on and off things didn't end up like a fairytale and were over. We have had no contact for a week but before we stopped talking he said he was taking someone to Thorpe park basically comparing everything he was doing compare to me. He nearly slept with the girl too... Now can someone tell me how long it takes for them to move on? Did he even love me to move on so quickly?? He's Scorpio with Virgo moon Mars in Scorpio Venus in Capricorn I'm Pisces with Aries moon Mars in Scorpio and Venus in Pisces

if you are asking for acknowledgment or approval of love from someone who is hurting you. it puts you beneath him

at the first stage they move on as quickly as you can imagine, but the regret (if there is one) comes later on, a few days, weeks or even months

the thing is when scorps are feeling good about their life and when they have something exciting going on or when they're feeling completely miserable and hopeless they tend to go deaf with their own words

in a lot of situations, they will tell you thing they don't mean or they do mean but just at that one hot moment, in those cases, you just stay calm and if he's pushing you away, let him push you away, just take it with dignity and be completely chill

and my main advice is: let him go. Scorps are never worth it, trust me, there's always gonna be games and coldness and rudeness and disrespect if you come across a scorp that has not evolved yet

Go about your life and do things to make yourself happy, this will both help you with your mental state and let him know that you don't need him to be happy

good luck

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if you are asking for acknowledgment or approval of love from someone who is hurting you. it puts you beneath him

Exactly this.

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if you are asking for acknowledgment or approval of love from someone who is hurting you. it puts you beneath him

If I'm gonna be honest I was hurt like 2 days ago but I'm over it I just wanna know if he ever loved me? We went through a lot it all seems fake now tho

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at the first stage they move on as quickly as you can imagine, but the regret (if there is one) comes later on, a few days, weeks or even months

the thing is when scorps are feeling good about their life and when they have something exciting going on or when they're feeling completely miserable and hopeless they tend to go deaf with their own words

in a lot of situations, they will tell you thing they don't mean or they do mean but just at that one hot moment, in those cases, you just stay calm and if he's pushing you away, let him push you away, just take it with dignity and be completely chill

and my main advice is: let him go. Scorps are never worth it, trust me, there's always gonna be games and coldness and rudeness and disrespect if you come across a scorp that has not evolved yet

Go about your life and do things to make yourself happy, this will both help you with your mental state and let him know that you don't need him to be happy

good luck

I appreciate that comment... I wasn't okay at first but I am now everything just seems so fake

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if you are asking for acknowledgment or approval of love from someone who is hurting you. it puts you beneath him

If I'm gonna be honest I was hurt like 2 days ago but I'm over it I just wanna know if he ever loved me? We went through a lot it all seems fake now tho

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To be honest it's not an adult relationship as he is not an adult.

In a few years you will think about it as kissing a boy when you were 8 imo.

And give it the same importance.

You don't have to do anything ..just let time pass.

The way you think and feel about kiss chasing now in 4 yrs time will be how you think if this.

He is regressing though. He really will never get beyond this point. Which is sad for him.

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He is regressing though. He really will never get beyond this point. Which is sad for him.

It's funny you say this I am 18 he is 27 28 next month and when he split with me he said he wished I was abit more maturer—?

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He is regressing though. He really will never get beyond this point. Which is sad for him.

Also what is regressing

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He is regressing though. He really will never get beyond this point. Which is sad for him.

It's funny you say this I am 18 he is 27 28 next month and when he split with me he said he wished I was abit more maturer—?

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Makes perfect sense. What he is saying is he wishes you were more easy to control less emotions under your own volition. It's possibly why he goes for younger girls.

You will see this in a whole new light in a few months ...

You are actually too much for him. He will probably never be able to have stable relationships.

He is fucked.

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He is regressing though. He really will never get beyond this point. Which is sad for him.

It's funny you say this I am 18 he is 27 28 next month and when he split with me he said he wished I was abit more maturer—?

Makes perfect sense. What he is saying is he wishes you were more easy to control less emotions under your own volition. It's possibly why he goes for younger girls.

You will see this in a whole new light in a few months ...

You are actually too much for him. He will probably never be able to have stable relationships.

He is fucked.

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I think your right and it's such a shame because our sexual connection was amazing he let me do things he never let his fiancé do:// a few weeks before he ended it I majorly backed maybe Being cruel telling him not to message o didn't wanna talk(I did but he hurt me) and not believing anything I mean anything he said.. We did very slowly drift away

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He is regressing though. He really will never get beyond this point. Which is sad for him.

Also what is regressing

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To return to a less developed state. I have a theory that people who can't develop into adults ...sort of straddle life ..functioning at a somewhat adult level in maybe work ...but for some reason are unable to sustain it into personal behavior and can't develop an adult conscience.

When you think about it a conscience is a rather mature adult thing to have. Toddlers don't really in the same way. They have a necessary selfishness.

Often for some reason adults regress part of their persona into this.

Manbaby

He sounds like a bit of a weirdo. You saying the relationship feels fake now ....indicates it was a little odd. Am I correct ?

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He is regressing though. He really will never get beyond this point. Which is sad for him.

Also what is regressing

To return to a less developed state. I have a theory that people who can't develop into adults ...sort of straddle life ..functioning at a somewhat adult level in maybe work ...but for some reason are unable to sustain it into personal behavior and can't develop an adult conscience.

When you think about it a conscience is a rather mature adult thing to have. Toddlers don't really in the same way. They have a necessary selfishness.

Often for some reason adults regress part of their persona into this.

Manbaby

He sounds like a bit of a weirdo. You saying the relationship feels fake now ....indicates it was a little odd. Am I correct ?

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I wish I put this poast months and months ago you are very much right I never thought he had a conscience I don't think befor I do things but I feel bad and i have always thought he literally only cared about himself now you have pointed it out it is very true he would consider me ofcourse but at the end of the day everything he done was for him and to make him look good

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He is regressing though. He really will never get beyond this point. Which is sad for him.

It's funny you say this I am 18 he is 27 28 next month and when he split with me he said he wished I was abit more maturer—?

Makes perfect sense. What he is saying is he wishes you were more easy to control less emotions under your own volition. It's possibly why he goes for younger girls.

You will see this in a whole new light in a few months ...

You are actually too much for him. He will probably never be able to have stable relationships.

He is fucked.

I think your right and it's such a shame because our sexual connection was amazing he let me do things he never let his fiancé do:// a few weeks before he ended it I majorly backed maybe Being cruel telling him not to message o didn't wanna talk(I did but he hurt me) and not believing anything I mean anything he said.. We did very slowly drift away

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I'm sorry. A chronic liar?

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He is regressing though. He really will never get beyond this point. Which is sad for him.

It's funny you say this I am 18 he is 27 28 next month and when he split with me he said he wished I was abit more maturer—?

Makes perfect sense. What he is saying is he wishes you were more easy to control less emotions under your own volition. It's possibly why he goes for younger girls.

You will see this in a whole new light in a few months ...

You are actually too much for him. He will probably never be able to have stable relationships.

He is fucked.

I think your right and it's such a shame because our sexual connection was amazing he let me do things he never let his fiancé do:// a few weeks before he ended it I majorly backed maybe Being cruel telling him not to message o didn't wanna talk(I did but he hurt me) and not believing anything I mean anything he said.. We did very slowly drift away

I'm sorry. A chronic liar?

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Yes believe a Scorpio looked me right in the eye while I asked him a question I knew the answer to and he bare faced lied... I looked deep in his eyes too and he done it back and he lied to me couldn't forget it so I believe nothing he says now tells me he's with his friends I don't believe him says he's going shop I don't believe him... That is his fault tho

So could anyone answer my question did he ever love me?

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So could anyone answer my question did he ever love me?

sweetie he's the only one who can give you that answer

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So could anyone answer my question did he ever love me?

sweetie he's the only one who can give you that answer

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Before we split he said he would miss me I was a good fuck he still loves me but we drifted away?? He said he would probably sleep with someone then want me after he said he knows it's wierd but he knows how he works...... Very messed up he is very complex I would never take him back after that

I don't know why people assume that the person has never been in love just because he/she could move on quickly! Like where does that even come from? People are very much capable of loving deeply n moving on quickly after. I'm one of those ...so I know. Doesn't matter how exciting or not rest of my life is. I can compartmentalize stuff very well n move on pretty quickly. I don't see any point mulling over anything which has no place in my life anymore. I dunno if that has anything to do with me being a Scorpio tho.

N coming to your question about whether he ever loved you or no, only you can answer that. Did you question his love for you while you guys were still together?

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I don't know why people assume that the person has never been in love just because he/she could move on quickly! Like where does that even come from? People are very much capable of loving deeply n moving on quickly after. I'm one of those ...so I know. Doesn't matter how exciting or not rest of my life is. I can compartmentalize stuff very well n move on pretty quickly. I don't see any point mulling over anything which has no place in my life anymore. I dunno if that has anything to do with me being a Scorpio tho.

N coming to your question about whether he ever loved you or no, only you can answer that. Did you question his love for you while you guys were still together?

I'm just bitter ATM I know people can move on quickly and still have loved the person BUT he said to me he doesn't move on straight away atleast a few weeks he said so that's why I'm asking and sometimes I did like I said once he lied I didn't believe a thing

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I don't know why people assume that the person has never been in love just because he/she could move on quickly! Like where does that even come from? People are very much capable of loving deeply n moving on quickly after. I'm one of those ...so I know. Doesn't matter how exciting or not rest of my life is. I can compartmentalize stuff very well n move on pretty quickly. I don't see any point mulling over anything which has no place in my life anymore. I dunno if that has anything to do with me being a Scorpio tho.

N coming to your question about whether he ever loved you or no, only you can answer that. Did you question his love for you while you guys were still together?

I'm just bitter ATM I know people can move on quickly and still have loved the person BUT he said to me he doesn't move on straight away atleast a few weeks he said so that's why I'm asking and sometimes I did like I said once he lied I didn't believe a thing

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I get it.

N maybe moved on faster than he thought? Not taking his side.Just talking about probabilities.

Umm..so the trust was gone long before you guys were over then? What did he lie about?

My Scorpio ex still has pictures of me on his Facebook and hasn’t had a gf since. We broke up in 09...

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I don't know why people assume that the person has never been in love just because he/she could move on quickly! Like where does that even come from? People are very much capable of loving deeply n moving on quickly after. I'm one of those ...so I know. Doesn't matter how exciting or not rest of my life is. I can compartmentalize stuff very well n move on pretty quickly. I don't see any point mulling over anything which has no place in my life anymore. I dunno if that has anything to do with me being a Scorpio tho.

N coming to your question about whether he ever loved you or no, only you can answer that. Did you question his love for you while you guys were still together?

I'm just bitter ATM I know people can move on quickly and still have loved the person BUT he said to me he doesn't move on straight away atleast a few weeks he said so that's why I'm asking and sometimes I did like I said once he lied I didn't believe a thing

I get it.

N maybe moved on faster than he thought? Not taking his side.Just talking about probabilities.

Umm..so the trust was gone long before you guys were over then? What did he lie about?

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We were drifting apart so I'm not surprised an he has all these girl "mates" some he's kisses one he's slept with so there was one dodgy girl who hung up the call when I was there asked him if he done anything with her ever he said no found out they kissed a while ago and he liked her but she lived to far so when I found out I asked him and he looked me straight in the eye and said Iv never even hugged ofcourse he was lieing it maybe something small to you but to me it's still a lie and if he lies over something as stupid as that then what else

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My Scorpio ex still has pictures of me on his Facebook and hasn’t had a gf since. We broke up in 09...

Ohhh no abit clingy bless and he kept my nude pictures but deleted the ones of us hahah typical bloke

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I don't know why people assume that the person has never been in love just because he/she could move on quickly! Like where does that even come from? People are very much capable of loving deeply n moving on quickly after. I'm one of those ...so I know. Doesn't matter how exciting or not rest of my life is. I can compartmentalize stuff very well n move on pretty quickly. I don't see any point mulling over anything which has no place in my life anymore. I dunno if that has anything to do with me being a Scorpio tho.

N coming to your question about whether he ever loved you or no, only you can answer that. Did you question his love for you while you guys were still together?

I'm just bitter ATM I know people can move on quickly and still have loved the person BUT he said to me he doesn't move on straight away atleast a few weeks he said so that's why I'm asking and sometimes I did like I said once he lied I didn't believe a thing

I get it.

N maybe he moved on faster than he thought? Not taking his side.Just talking about probabilities.

Umm..so the trust was gone long before you guys were over then? What did he lie about?

We were drifting apart so I'm not surprised an he has all these girl "mates" some he's kisses one he's slept with so there was one dodgy girl who hung up the call when I was there asked him if he done anything with her ever he said no found out they kissed a while ago and he liked her but she lived to far so when I found out I asked him and he looked me straight in the eye and said Iv never even hugged ofcourse he was lieing it maybe something small to you but to me it's still a lie and if he lies over something as stupid as that then what else

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Definitely wouldn't call something small or big. It's for you to decide. But when you did think it was huge n wasn't able to look past that n know you wouldn't be able to forgive him for that, why did you stay with him after that?

N what do you mean he kissed her a while ago? Was it while he was still in relationship with you or?

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My Scorpio ex still has pictures of me on his Facebook and hasn’t had a gf since. We broke up in 09...

Ohhh no abit clingy bless and he kept my nude pictures but deleted the ones of us hahah typical bloke

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Lol men can be pigs!

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I don't know why people assume that the person has never been in love just because he/she could move on quickly! Like where does that even come from? People are very much capable of loving deeply n moving on quickly after. I'm one of those ...so I know. Doesn't matter how exciting or not rest of my life is. I can compartmentalize stuff very well n move on pretty quickly. I don't see any point mulling over anything which has no place in my life anymore. I dunno if that has anything to do with me being a Scorpio tho.

N coming to your question about whether he ever loved you or no, only you can answer that. Did you question his love for you while you guys were still together?

I'm just bitter ATM I know people can move on quickly and still have loved the person BUT he said to me he doesn't move on straight away atleast a few weeks he said so that's why I'm asking and sometimes I did like I said once he lied I didn't believe a thing

I get it.

N maybe he moved on faster than he thought? Not taking his side.Just talking about probabilities.

Umm..so the trust was gone long before you guys were over then? What did he lie about?

We were drifting apart so I'm not surprised an he has all these girl "mates" some he's kisses one he's slept with so there was one dodgy girl who hung up the call when I was there asked him if he done anything with her ever he said no found out they kissed a while ago and he liked her but she lived to far so when I found out I asked him and he looked me straight in the eye and said Iv never even hugged ofcourse he was lieing it maybe something small to you but to me it's still a lie and if he lies over something as stupid as that then what else

Definitely wouldn't call something small or big. It's for you to decide. But when you did think it was huge n wasn't able to look past that n know you wouldn't be able to forgive him for that, why did you stay with him after that?

N what do you mean he kissed her a while ago? Was it while he was still in relationship with you or?

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I didn't make too much of a deal I just noted that he lied and moved on and no it was a while ago nothing to do with me really but if I think something dodgy is going on then I will find out what's going on

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I don't know why people assume that the person has never been in love just because he/she could move on quickly! Like where does that even come from? People are very much capable of loving deeply n moving on quickly after. I'm one of those ...so I know. Doesn't matter how exciting or not rest of my life is. I can compartmentalize stuff very well n move on pretty quickly. I don't see any point mulling over anything which has no place in my life anymore. I dunno if that has anything to do with me being a Scorpio tho.

N coming to your question about whether he ever loved you or no, only you can answer that. Did you question his love for you while you guys were still together?

I'm just bitter ATM I know people can move on quickly and still have loved the person BUT he said to me he doesn't move on straight away atleast a few weeks he said so that's why I'm asking and sometimes I did like I said once he lied I didn't believe a thing

I get it.

N maybe he moved on faster than he thought? Not taking his side.Just talking about probabilities.

Umm..so the trust was gone long before you guys were over then? What did he lie about?

We were drifting apart so I'm not surprised an he has all these girl "mates" some he's kisses one he's slept with so there was one dodgy girl who hung up the call when I was there asked him if he done anything with her ever he said no found out they kissed a while ago and he liked her but she lived to far so when I found out I asked him and he looked me straight in the eye and said Iv never even hugged ofcourse he was lieing it maybe something small to you but to me it's still a lie and if he lies over something as stupid as that then what else

Definitely wouldn't call something small or big. It's for you to decide. But when you did think it was huge n wasn't able to look past that n know you wouldn't be able to forgive him for that, why did you stay with him after that?

N what do you mean he kissed her a while ago? Was it while he was still in relationship with you or?

I didn't make too much of a deal I just noted that he lied and moved on and no it was a while ago nothing to do with me really but if I think something dodgy is going on then I will find out what's going on

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You just didn't make too much of a deal by not acting on how you're feeling. But you definitely took it very seriously to the point that you didn't believe a thing after that(your own words here

"once he lied I didn't believe a thing " ...if I understood that correctly that is) also that's the first thing you could recall of him when talking about his lies. So you never moved on from it really...no? I won't ask you how/why you tried to find out...but it was before your relationship right? Why bother to get into details? Seems like there were trust issues even before that.

Is she the one he's with right now?

Ha! One of my bf is pisces and she dated a scorp fella for an year, broke up, he got a thing to fuck the same night i think. Scorps almost always have a girl or two willing to do that 😄 Anyways, my friend was calm,meanwhile emotional for the next 1-2 months and then she moved on. They're friends till now, he still fucks random girls.

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I don't know why people assume that the person has never been in love just because he/she could move on quickly! Like where does that even come from? People are very much capable of loving deeply n moving on quickly after. I'm one of those ...so I know. Doesn't matter how exciting or not rest of my life is. I can compartmentalize stuff very well n move on pretty quickly. I don't see any point mulling over anything which has no place in my life anymore. I dunno if that has anything to do with me being a Scorpio tho.

N coming to your question about whether he ever loved you or no, only you can answer that. Did you question his love for you while you guys were still together?

I'm just bitter ATM I know people can move on quickly and still have loved the person BUT he said to me he doesn't move on straight away atleast a few weeks he said so that's why I'm asking and sometimes I did like I said once he lied I didn't believe a thing

I get it.

N maybe he moved on faster than he thought? Not taking his side.Just talking about probabilities.

Umm..so the trust was gone long before you guys were over then? What did he lie about?

We were drifting apart so I'm not surprised an he has all these girl "mates" some he's kisses one he's slept with so there was one dodgy girl who hung up the call when I was there asked him if he done anything with her ever he said no found out they kissed a while ago and he liked her but she lived to far so when I found out I asked him and he looked me straight in the eye and said Iv never even hugged ofcourse he was lieing it maybe something small to you but to me it's still a lie and if he lies over something as stupid as that then what else

Definitely wouldn't call something small or big. It's for you to decide. But when you did think it was huge n wasn't able to look past that n know you wouldn't be able to forgive him for that, why did you stay with him after that?

N what do you mean he kissed her a while ago? Was it while he was still in relationship with you or?

I didn't make too much of a deal I just noted that he lied and moved on and no it was a while ago nothing to do with me really but if I think something dodgy is going on then I will find out what's going on

You just didn't make too much of a deal by not acting on how you're feeling. But you definitely took it very seriously to the point that you didn't believe a thing after that(your own words here

"once he lied I didn't believe a thing " ...if I understood that correctly that is) also that's the first thing you could recall of him when talking about his lies. So you never moved on from it really...no? I won't ask you how/why you tried to find out...but it was before your relationship right? Why bother to get into details? Seems like there were trust issues even before that.

Is she the one he's with right now?

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Because she only spoke to him when I wernt there I knew there was something more a few weeks later she sent him a nudish picture too I don't wanna get into it because I wanna move on she isn't who he's with now tho she only spoke to him when she was single a Pisces also

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Ha! One of my bf is pisces and she dated a scorp fella for an year, broke up, he got a thing to fuck the same night i think. Scorps almost always have a girl or two willing to do that 😄 Anyways, my friend was calm,meanwhile emotional for the next 1-2 months and then she moved on. They're friends till now, he still fucks random girls.

Yeh it's mad but it's because it's being done to me that it's a issue tho I messed my ex around and now I have been messed around. Iv had my karma now time to stop feeling sorry for myself bring out my Aries moon and move on to something better because when I think about it I'm not upset I just miss having someone to talk to I miss the routine that is all. I'm done.

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Ha! One of my bf is pisces and she dated a scorp fella for an year, broke up, he got a thing to fuck the same night i think. Scorps almost always have a girl or two willing to do that 😄 Anyways, my friend was calm,meanwhile emotional for the next 1-2 months and then she moved on. They're friends till now, he still fucks random girls.

Yeh it's mad but it's because it's being done to me that it's a issue tho I messed my ex around and now I have been messed around. Iv had my karma now time to stop feeling sorry for myself bring out my Aries moon and move on to something better because when I think about it I'm not upset I just miss having someone to talk to I miss the routine that is all. I'm done.

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You absolutely can do it! There was a discussion here about the best moon sign and yours was the winner, a lot of people pointed out how fun,chill and honest is the atmosphere around yall aries mooners 😄

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Ha! One of my bf is pisces and she dated a scorp fella for an year, broke up, he got a thing to fuck the same night i think. Scorps almost always have a girl or two willing to do that 😄 Anyways, my friend was calm,meanwhile emotional for the next 1-2 months and then she moved on. They're friends till now, he still fucks random girls.

Yeh it's mad but it's because it's being done to me that it's a issue tho I messed my ex around and now I have been messed around. Iv had my karma now time to stop feeling sorry for myself bring out my Aries moon and move on to something better because when I think about it I'm not upset I just miss having someone to talk to I miss the routine that is all. I'm done.

You absolutely can do it! There was a discussion here about the best moon sign and yours was the winner, a lot of people pointed out how fun,chill and honest is the atmosphere around yall aries mooners 😄

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I do love being a Aries moon because I'm sensitive but also got that fight inside I am a little fighter and i love so hard aswell

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I don't know why people assume that the person has never been in love just because he/she could move on quickly! Like where does that even come from? People are very much capable of loving deeply n moving on quickly after. I'm one of those ...so I know. Doesn't matter how exciting or not rest of my life is. I can compartmentalize stuff very well n move on pretty quickly. I don't see any point mulling over anything which has no place in my life anymore. I dunno if that has anything to do with me being a Scorpio tho.

N coming to your question about whether he ever loved you or no, only you can answer that. Did you question his love for you while you guys were still together?

I'm just bitter ATM I know people can move on quickly and still have loved the person BUT he said to me he doesn't move on straight away atleast a few weeks he said so that's why I'm asking and sometimes I did like I said once he lied I didn't believe a thing

High position in work, great number of friends supporting him/her (so he/her will be even more selfish)

this will aply to all sun signs regardless of gender too, some can even lie to themselfs and discard you easily

cause he/her ego is already satisfied enough.

(this example experienced with a moon virgo + mars cancer + venus gemini)

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He has got a new job and he's moving into a shared house with some of his work mates too and I can imagine he's got lots of dogs sat wagging their tailes waiting for his attention hahahaha you are right your all right god I'm so angry and bitter I got a lot of hate towards him now

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at the first stage they move on as quickly as you can imagine, but the regret (if there is one) comes later on, a few days, weeks or even months

the thing is when scorps are feeling good about their life and when they have something exciting going on or when they're feeling completely miserable and hopeless they tend to go deaf with their own words

in a lot of situations, they will tell you thing they don't mean or they do mean but just at that one hot moment, in those cases, you just stay calm and if he's pushing you away, let him push you away, just take it with dignity and be completely chill

and my main advice is: let him go. Scorps are never worth it, trust me, there's always gonna be games and coldness and rudeness and disrespect if you come across a scorp that has not evolved yet

Go about your life and do things to make yourself happy, this will both help you with your mental state and let him know that you don't need him to be happy

good luck

Aren't we forgetting here that some women are ticklish happy being married forever to their Scorpios?

Not everything is black and white.

And yes - Scorpios like a good wine - better with age. 👍

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Posted by LittleFairy
if you are asking for acknowledgment or approval of love from someone who is hurting you. it puts you beneath him

If I'm gonna be honest I was hurt like 2 days ago but I'm over it I just wanna know if he ever loved me? We went through a lot it all seems fake now tho

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Really? That must be love!!! Lol

And maybe he felt your shallow depts all this time and that's why he is gone!

What exactly you went trough ALOT in a year...? Just wondering. So tell. Pls

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Ha! One of my bf is pisces and she dated a scorp fella for an year, broke up, he got a thing to fuck the same night i think. Scorps almost always have a girl or two willing to do that 😄 Anyways, my friend was calm,meanwhile emotional for the next 1-2 months and then she moved on. They're friends till now, he still fucks random girls.

Yeh it's mad but it's because it's being done to me that it's a issue tho I messed my ex around and now I have been messed around. Iv had my karma now time to stop feeling sorry for myself bring out my Aries moon and move on to something better because when I think about it I'm not upset I just miss having someone to talk to I miss the routine that is all. I'm done.

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Great!!! With this high tolerance to heart breaks you are destine to choose whom you want and get them right by the balls!

2 days recovery time from 'love' is a God given gift! I envy you.

No, actually I am not.

So, move on and get them...baby!

He was talking to other chicks probably months before you broke up .



There are many types of love. The english language is so limited. The greeks had at least 6 different words for the different types of love.



I think what you two had is a form of love called eros. It's what most refer to as deep lust based infatuation...the least valued type of love as it is the most transient to the greeks but needed to start relationships.

Also you will have just as good if not better sex again

especially if you hook up with someone with a cap mars placement.

i'm especially curious to know what your experience would be like with someone with similar placements to mine-

pisces sun venus in taurus libra moon cap mars

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There are many types of love. The english language is so limited. The greeks had at least 6 different words for the different types of love.

Yeah...give it more labels n get away with things 😒

It's kinda true tho.

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Posted by LittleFairy
if you are asking for acknowledgment or approval of love from someone who is hurting you. it puts you beneath him

If I'm gonna be honest I was hurt like 2 days ago but I'm over it I just wanna know if he ever loved me? We went through a lot it all seems fake now tho

Really? That must be love!!! Lol

And maybe he felt your shallow depts all this time and that's why he is gone!

What exactly you went trough ALOT in a year...? Just wondering. So tell. Pls

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Things moved very quickly I left college to stay with him he got kicked out of his mums and I stayed with him eventually we got a room in a shared house... Very controlling we stayed with his dad for a couple weeks and when he was working his dad would ask me to join him and his other room mate( my exs auntie) to the pub he would hate it tell me to leave everythin.... When we was in the shared house he hit me and I ended up going back home and we drifted after that very minipulative it didn't work tho not for long anyway

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Posted by irena
at the first stage they move on as quickly as you can imagine, but the regret (if there is one) comes later on, a few days, weeks or even months

the thing is when scorps are feeling good about their life and when they have something exciting going on or when they're feeling completely miserable and hopeless they tend to go deaf with their own words

in a lot of situations, they will tell you thing they don't mean or they do mean but just at that one hot moment, in those cases, you just stay calm and if he's pushing you away, let him push you away, just take it with dignity and be completely chill

and my main advice is: let him go. Scorps are never worth it, trust me, there's always gonna be games and coldness and rudeness and disrespect if you come across a scorp that has not evolved yet

Go about your life and do things to make yourself happy, this will both help you with your mental state and let him know that you don't need him to be happy

good luck

Aren't we forgetting here that some women are ticklish happy being married forever to their Scorpios?

Not everything is black and white.

And yes - Scorpios like a good wine - better with age. 👍

Irena also forgot that a dark cancer can also be games, coldness, rudeness and disrespect as mentioned there.

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My first love was a cancer moon and he harrassed me for ages walking past my house always texting shouting abuse across the road threatening me he even followed me once were fine now tho we get along well

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
He was talking to other chicks probably months before you broke up .



There are many types of love. The english language is so limited. The greeks had at least 6 different words for the different types of love.



I think what you two had is a form of love called eros. It's what most refer to as deep lust based infatuation...the least valued type of love as it is the most transient to the greeks but needed to start relationships.

Also you will have just as good if not better sex again

especially if you hook up with someone with a cap mars placement.

i'm especially curious to know what your experience would be like with someone with similar placements to mine-

pisces sun venus in taurus libra moon cap mars

Well I have Pisces sun Aries moon libra rising Venus in Pisces Mars in Scorpio I don't know how we would get on??

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Posted by LittleFairy
if you are asking for acknowledgment or approval of love from someone who is hurting you. it puts you beneath him

If I'm gonna be honest I was hurt like 2 days ago but I'm over it I just wanna know if he ever loved me? We went through a lot it all seems fake now tho

Really? That must be love!!! Lol

And maybe he felt your shallow depts all this time and that's why he is gone!

What exactly you went trough ALOT in a year...? Just wondering. So tell. Pls

Things moved very quickly I left college to stay with him he got kicked out of his mums and I stayed with him eventually we got a room in a shared house... Very controlling we stayed with his dad for a couple weeks and when he was working his dad would ask me to join him and his other room mate( my exs auntie) to the pub he would hate it tell me to leave everythin.... When we was in the shared house he hit me and I ended up going back home and we drifted after that very minipulative it didn't work tho not for long anyway

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You've got to forgetnit baby. Right after he hit you...

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Posted by LittleFairy
if you are asking for acknowledgment or approval of love from someone who is hurting you. it puts you beneath him

If I'm gonna be honest I was hurt like 2 days ago but I'm over it I just wanna know if he ever loved me? We went through a lot it all seems fake now tho

Really? That must be love!!! Lol

And maybe he felt your shallow depts all this time and that's why he is gone!

What exactly you went trough ALOT in a year...? Just wondering. So tell. Pls

Things moved very quickly I left college to stay with him he got kicked out of his mums and I stayed with him eventually we got a room in a shared house... Very controlling we stayed with his dad for a couple weeks and when he was working his dad would ask me to join him and his other room mate( my exs auntie) to the pub he would hate it tell me to leave everythin.... When we was in the shared house he hit me and I ended up going back home and we drifted after that very minipulative it didn't work tho not for long anyway

You've got to forgetnit baby. Right after he hit you...

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I don't know what you mean??

Posted by Baby340

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
He was talking to other chicks probably months before you broke up .



There are many types of love. The english language is so limited. The greeks had at least 6 different words for the different types of love.



I think what you two had is a form of love called eros. It's what most refer to as deep lust based infatuation...the least valued type of love as it is the most transient to the greeks but needed to start relationships.

Also you will have just as good if not better sex again

especially if you hook up with someone with a cap mars placement.

i'm especially curious to know what your experience would be like with someone with similar placements to mine-

pisces sun venus in taurus libra moon cap mars

Well I have Pisces sun Aries moon libra rising Venus in Pisces Mars in Scorpio I don't know how we would get on??

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what is your birthday?

and what is your ex's birthdate?

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Posted by Baby340

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
He was talking to other chicks probably months before you broke up .



There are many types of love. The english language is so limited. The greeks had at least 6 different words for the different types of love.



I think what you two had is a form of love called eros. It's what most refer to as deep lust based infatuation...the least valued type of love as it is the most transient to the greeks but needed to start relationships.

Also you will have just as good if not better sex again

especially if you hook up with someone with a cap mars placement.

i'm especially curious to know what your experience would be like with someone with similar placements to mine-

pisces sun venus in taurus libra moon cap mars

Well I have Pisces sun Aries moon libra rising Venus in Pisces Mars in Scorpio I don't know how we would get on??

what is your birthday?

and what is your ex's birthdate?

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19 February 1999 his is 21 November he's 27 28 next month dot know the year for him

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Posted by irena
at the first stage they move on as quickly as you can imagine, but the regret (if there is one) comes later on, a few days, weeks or even months

the thing is when scorps are feeling good about their life and when they have something exciting going on or when they're feeling completely miserable and hopeless they tend to go deaf with their own words

in a lot of situations, they will tell you thing they don't mean or they do mean but just at that one hot moment, in those cases, you just stay calm and if he's pushing you away, let him push you away, just take it with dignity and be completely chill

and my main advice is: let him go. Scorps are never worth it, trust me, there's always gonna be games and coldness and rudeness and disrespect if you come across a scorp that has not evolved yet

Go about your life and do things to make yourself happy, this will both help you with your mental state and let him know that you don't need him to be happy

good luck

Aren't we forgetting here that some women are ticklish happy being married forever to their Scorpios?

Not everything is black and white.

And yes - Scorpios like a good wine - better with age. 👍

Irena also forgot that a dark cancer can also be games, coldness, rudeness and disrespect as mentioned there.

My first love was a cancer moon and he harrassed me for ages walking past my house always texting shouting abuse across the road threatening me he even followed me once were fine now tho we get along well

Your lucky he didn't make you go through emotional manipulation

(i believe this can happen more on oposite gender)

do prefer being physically abused so i can forget that person next day and not months.

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Ohh he did trust me especially in the beginning... 6 months we were seeing eachother after I moved out there was emotional manipulation on both sides I'm not innocent towards the end o became very distant and sort of cruel telling him not to talk to me because he would ignore me on his nights out and it would piss me off so I would be nasty block him then unblock him and he would do the same when we argued he would block then unblock me

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Posted by Baby340
I was with a Scorpio for over a year... A year and a half on and off things didn't end up like a fairytale and were over. We have had no contact for a week but before we stopped talking he said he was taking someone to Thorpe park basically comparing everything he was doing compare to me. He nearly slept with the girl too... Now can someone tell me how long it takes for them to move on? Did he even love me to move on so quickly?? He's Scorpio with Virgo moon Mars in Scorpio Venus in Capricorn I'm Pisces with Aries moon Mars in Scorpio and Venus in Pisces

My placements except the moon😃

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Who mine or his hahahah