Just Friends!! (Page 2)

If we're JUST FRIENDS then you wouldn't be laying down the hammer. Unless we're friends plus extra, but I didn't say extra. HA! Just friends is hanging out like I'm one of the boys. Like watching the Bulls or College Ball all week.

Maybe I missed your definition—

ok you're getting me on technicalities here. I thought you were saying you'd be happy being special friends

It's not always the case that you're friends with someone first, then develop more feelings for them...

It didn't start out with the Leo like we were just friends and I later suddenly started to sweat him....I met him because he was hitting on me! We liked each other from the start... It was only after things never went anywhere further (hot and cold several times) that we just became good friends.

Everybody wants to assume women can't handle this type of relationship with someone they're attracted to because we're so romantical and emotional and easily attached...but that's not been my experience. & I'm not just saying that.

I hate thinking like this...but I feel like men always consider their female friends as potential conquests in the back of their heads... :/ Which is why they can rarely be your BFFL

Posted by everevolvingepithet
He made you blush and feel like a little kid with a crush iirc ?
Mrahaha

Actually yes.

But F you Rooski. I see what you're trying to say...lol

I'm disappointed with the Leo. It's not like I was trying to date him...for one, I'm still involved with the Libra, and was always somewhat involved with him - not to mention this is just not the right time in my life for a new problem. Haha

I really just enjoyed his presence either. He makes me laugh and truly puts me in a better mood.
It's stupid he can't act normal just because he's dating someone. Like give me a breakkkk

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Leo has prob found someone to worship at his feet = douche.

indeed. She looks just like him.
He's so in love with himself....lol

Which brings me back to my point though...he's a male and incapable of being friends with me because we were once attracted to each other and therefore he will always consider me a potential conquest.

Fucking idiot.

The feedback from everyone on this topic as been brilliant. 🙂
I think I have my answer,no the opposite sex cannot just be friends,if one party wants more.

Posted by brianafay
Which brings me back to my point though...he's a male and incapable of being friends with me because we were once attracted to each other and therefore he will always consider me a potential conquest.

Fucking idiot.

I agree/identify with this. Its sad really,I think most times women can sweep aside the attraction to give the friendship a chance to flourish. However in the case of some men...its either I have you or nothing.

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by brianafay

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Leo has prob found someone to worship at his feet = douche.

indeed. She looks just like him.
He's so in love with himself....lol

Seriously ?
hahaha, that sounds about right.

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JUST like him. I swear to God.
My bff and I were laughing about it.

The Gem lez in my class (the female Rampage Jackson, haha) saw them at the mall together. She was like his gf is not cute at all...I was like aww come on she it too. She goes no, she looks like him, and not in a good way. LOL
I was like ok I'm glad someone else saw that too...if I said it I'd be a hater

Hahaha I know I love that ho.
They even talk/laugh exactly the same. She's just barely more feminine than him

She's totally softening my heart towards Gems
Plus DXP has been working on that for some time 😛

Posted by brianafay
Which brings me back to my point though...he's a male and incapable of being friends with me because we were once attracted to each other and therefore he will always consider me a potential conquest.

Fucking idiot.

You're funny. Yes, he's a male - he's wired different. Maybe he doesn't have time to be playing friends with you, he's into someone else, and you no longer interest him.

Posted by nov5male

Posted by brianafay
Which brings me back to my point though...he's a male and incapable of being friends with me because we were once attracted to each other and therefore he will always consider me a potential conquest.

Fucking idiot.

You're funny. Yes, he's a male - he's wired different. Maybe he doesn't have time to be playing friends with you, he's into someone else, and you no longer interest him.

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exactly! "playing friends"

So he never really intended to be my friend, he was only ever my friend with the motivation that we could hook up

I still want to be his friend even though he's not available and we're not gonna hook up anymore.

Thus, again, back to point one. I can absolutely be friends with the opposite sex... most dudes can't, despite the popular theory that it's females that can't handle it.

🙂 anything else schnookums??

Like I said he's wired different, so there might be a internal conflict lol. So would you want your man or who you're seeing to be friends with a girl that you know he's attracted to? Ok then. He's on his good boy mission and trying to avoid conflict. Plus - didn't yall have that whole flirt thing going on?

No, I think most dudes mean girls can't handle it "after" it goes down and it goes down really well. her feelings now involved

schnookums? lol lets not make this a habit

YOU LOVED IT!

^^your heart

LOL

OK...I tried the "Just Friends" approach with Mr. Scorpio. He still insisted that it was not possible to just be friends. His intent includes being physical as soon as I give the green light.

Why not just say OK, I respect your decision? We have only kissed two times...the second was very passionate.

I think it maybe the male species that makes it impossible to just be friends. Just my opinion.

Posted by LeoGal4Real

I think it maybe the male species that makes it impossible to just be friends. Just my opinion.

& I agree.

Schnookums up there agrees too, but he's not trying to come out and say we're right... so let's sit back and watch him grasp