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Scorpio girl and Gemini man, I need advice please (Page 2)
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Posted by scorchedearth
it's typical push/pull bullshit. he only wants her if she seems to not want him. she'd be better off spending all her time ignoring him then she'd probably end up with exactly what she wants. 😛
I think that's what going to happen 🙂. It's weird cause he only does it when we're apart. If we're together he's affectionate.
Just checked my worst Gemini experience.....he was Gem Sun/Moon/Mercury!!
Kept me on the Gemini-go-round for years.
Crazy thing is, he wasn't that good in bed anyway😢, but I thought I was in lurrrve so I stayed, dangling, waiting for him to sort himself out, for the time to be right etc etc.
**bang head**
DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU - with any guy. I may very well have missed my chance at meeting A Real Man while I was in this holding pattern. **bang head**
If a guy wants you he will man up. Whatever his sign.
Really.
*goes off to bang head again*
Kept me on the Gemini-go-round for years.
Crazy thing is, he wasn't that good in bed anyway😢, but I thought I was in lurrrve so I stayed, dangling, waiting for him to sort himself out, for the time to be right etc etc.
**bang head**
DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU - with any guy. I may very well have missed my chance at meeting A Real Man while I was in this holding pattern. **bang head**
If a guy wants you he will man up. Whatever his sign.
Really.
*goes off to bang head again*
This won't help either, but I have a duty of disclosure......I know a Scorp married to her Gem for about 14 years.
He cheats but she won't leave because she wouldn't "have anyone" and would probably have to come back to work to support herself.
Ick.
He cheats but she won't leave because she wouldn't "have anyone" and would probably have to come back to work to support herself.
Ick.
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Just checked my worst Gemini experience.....he was Gem Sun/Moon/Mercury!!
Kept me on the Gemini-go-round for years.
Crazy thing is, he wasn't that good in bed anyway😢, but I thought I was in lurrrve so I stayed, dangling, waiting for him to sort himself out, for the time to be right etc etc.
**bang head**
DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU - with any guy. I may very well have missed my chance at meeting A Real Man while I was in this holding pattern. **bang head**
If a guy wants you he will man up. Whatever his sign.
Really.
*goes off to bang head again*
That's what I'm trying to avoid. I don't want to spend a lot of time figuring him out. I don't want to get to that point where I'm so attach and it's hard to walk away. It happened to me before when I was dating a pisces guy. I knew I should have walked away but cause I stayed longer I got so attached to him that It was so difficult to walk away. He emotionally drained me . Upto this point I still think he owes me big time for putting me through hell. My experience with him made me stronger and wiser tho. But it took away a lot of my time and we suppose to be a good match.
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
This won't help either, but I have a duty of disclosure......I know a Scorp married to her Gem for about 14 years.
He cheats but she won't leave because she wouldn't "have anyone" and would probably have to come back to work to support herself.
Ick.
Do most Gemini guys really into cheating?
If you ask that question on the Gem board they will tell you "NO"
If he's a cheater. I rather walk now than have my heartbroken later. Did your Gemini man cheat? Just curious.
Saggirlius, I suggest you take this post to the Relationships & Astrology board for more diverse feedback. You may also get more male perspective. I may even suggest the Gemini boards too to get Gemini male advice. Good luck to you.
Posted by LunarMaiden
Saggirlius, I suggest you take this post to the Relationships & Astrology board for more diverse feedback. You may also get more male perspective. I may even suggest the Gemini boards too to get Gemini male advice. Good luck to you.
Hi thanks I will do that
Posted by DG
Its only been two months people!! OMG, y'all got this guy cheating, lieing and playing games already.. Stop over analyzing shit. Every relationship in the beginning is a test of waters.
Chill bitches. This girl gonna head for the hills. 🙂
+100
Posted by DG
Its only been two months people!! OMG, y'all got this guy cheating, lieing and playing games already.. Stop over analyzing shit. Every relationship in the beginning is a test of waters.
Chill bitches. This girl gonna head for the hills. 🙂
Do most Geminis really lie, cheat and play games? He sent a text last night and I haven't replied.
Hi, I'm the original poster and I'm here to give everyone an update and to seek further help.
I'm still seeing this Gemini man and he's still not able to commit. It's been four months since the time I posted here so we've been seeing each other for 6 months now. I stopped seeing him for a couple of months because I got tired of the way he communicates but he pursued me and didn't want us to stop seeing each other. I saw some changes that he was communicating more so I gave it another try. What worries me is he still won't commit. He said even though we've known each other that long there were periods of time that we were not constantly seeing each other because of our busy schedule. I told him that we should just move on our own lives and stop seeing each other. He didn't like that idea and he asked me to give him more time. I told him I would but I'm not comfortable having sex with him anymore because i feel like I'm just being used. He said he's jot using me for sex and I'm the only girl he spends time with but understood and respected my decision. So last time we hung out we didn't have sex and I'm planning to not have sex with him until I'm sure what he's intentions are.
My questions are, do Geminis take this long to commit to someone? Did I make the right decision to give him more time and to withhold sex from him? Should I just move on and stick to it no matter what he does to get me back because this thing is not going anywhere? Thank you.
I'm still seeing this Gemini man and he's still not able to commit. It's been four months since the time I posted here so we've been seeing each other for 6 months now. I stopped seeing him for a couple of months because I got tired of the way he communicates but he pursued me and didn't want us to stop seeing each other. I saw some changes that he was communicating more so I gave it another try. What worries me is he still won't commit. He said even though we've known each other that long there were periods of time that we were not constantly seeing each other because of our busy schedule. I told him that we should just move on our own lives and stop seeing each other. He didn't like that idea and he asked me to give him more time. I told him I would but I'm not comfortable having sex with him anymore because i feel like I'm just being used. He said he's jot using me for sex and I'm the only girl he spends time with but understood and respected my decision. So last time we hung out we didn't have sex and I'm planning to not have sex with him until I'm sure what he's intentions are.
My questions are, do Geminis take this long to commit to someone? Did I make the right decision to give him more time and to withhold sex from him? Should I just move on and stick to it no matter what he does to get me back because this thing is not going anywhere? Thank you.
RUN... VERY FAST.. GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN!!
Trust me, I waste 6 years of my precious life on the non committing w******s! They are head f****s, go for a cancer 😉
Posted by starlover
Yes as the scorp lady above says *non committing* ~ that is no good for a Scorp!
Posted by starlover
Scorpio woman and Gemini man.....no, no, no!! I have heard many a gem man say *i am a born liar*, is that what you want in a partner?click to expand
How long or what does it take for a scorpio woman to realise that a gemini man is not right for her?
I'm a Taurus and am interest in a scorpio who happens to be in a relationship with a gemini man for about 3 months now.
I don't know if it helps. But I a Scorpio dude that dated a Gem women off and on for like 6 years. She is the love of my life. It was the most rewarding and the most painful relationship ever. The twins can be a difficult pair to handle. 😢
"cancers are just as bad.
anything with a penis...
walk.away....
lol"
Anything with a penis?? He's deffo not gay??
If you read Linda Goodman's sun signs, you'll see that gemini men are critical, harsh, and change their minds all the time, everything that scorpio girls hate, they are unstable and u'll never know if you're coming or going. They will mess you up, ruin you're self esteem because they criticize everything, one minute he was saying he hated blondes and girls who wear make up, so I dye my hair brown and wear hardly any make up, next thing you know, when he dumped me, like he always would, he started going out with a bright blonde, caked in make up, fake boobed, bimbo a month later. Typical fake gemini man.
Well he said that I don't iniiate text or call and the only time i do is when im pissed. He also addead that I don't look for him were not together. It's true that he almost always initiates most of our conversations and dates. I tried to break it off with him a few times and even avoided him but he always looked for me.
They want what they cant have. When I was with him, he'd get bored, start looking at other girls and emailing them. Then he'd dump me saying he 'didn't want to cheat on me' and would if we stayed together. I'd be heartbroken, beg and beg, then I'd go and reluctantly find someone else, then gemini man comes strolling back because he's 'realized he loves me, im amazing, wah wah wah' and seeing me with someone else has destroyed him, I end up sleeping with him, f**king things up with me and my new boyfriend and then he'd get cold feet again, ' I don't want a relationship yet' basically, I'll have sex with you and not have any of the responsibilities of a boyfriend. - This has happened 4 TIMES in 6 years!!
It's finally over now. But from what I've learnt and if there's anything I can say to any girls who cry over men, or are finding it so hard to work a guy out, or are putting in sooo much effort and not getting anything back.
PLEASE WALK AWAY AND NEVER LOOK BACK. I wasted so much time trying to make a guy love me because he loved playing with my head. Love is:
*EASY
*SHOULD FLOW
*SHOULD MAKE YOU HAPPIER THAN IT MAKES YOU SAD
*SHOULD BE LIKE TO BEST MATES BUT WITH PASSION
*SHOULD MAKE YOU BE THE MOST YOU YOU CAN POSSIBLY BE
* SHOULD NOT BE A STRUGGLE OR HARD
*WILL NEVER MAKE YOU FEEL ANXIOUS OR AS IF YOU CAN'T DO OR SAY SOMETHING
And the main thing, a man who loves you, or wants to be with you, will hate to see you cry, will never leave you, will never get mixed feelings about whether to stay in the relationship, and will do everything he can to see you and make you happy!
It's finally over now. But from what I've learnt and if there's anything I can say to any girls who cry over men, or are finding it so hard to work a guy out, or are putting in sooo much effort and not getting anything back.
PLEASE WALK AWAY AND NEVER LOOK BACK. I wasted so much time trying to make a guy love me because he loved playing with my head. Love is:
*EASY
*SHOULD FLOW
*SHOULD MAKE YOU HAPPIER THAN IT MAKES YOU SAD
*SHOULD BE LIKE TO BEST MATES BUT WITH PASSION
*SHOULD MAKE YOU BE THE MOST YOU YOU CAN POSSIBLY BE
* SHOULD NOT BE A STRUGGLE OR HARD
*WILL NEVER MAKE YOU FEEL ANXIOUS OR AS IF YOU CAN'T DO OR SAY SOMETHING
And the main thing, a man who loves you, or wants to be with you, will hate to see you cry, will never leave you, will never get mixed feelings about whether to stay in the relationship, and will do everything he can to see you and make you happy!
also an man who really wants to be with you will be rushing to call you his girlfriend because he doesn't want to ever risk loosing you to someone else and will be proud to say "she's mine". If he's not doing that then he's using you for sex because he's not you're boyfriend so doesn't need to act like one.
And about him indicating dates and calling:
The minute he feels you slipping away, he'll try make you come back and be all into him again, he likes the fact that he is admired and loved by someone, it boasts his ego and makes him feel like a big guy cos really behind that mask hes weak.
The minute he feels you slipping away, he'll try make you come back and be all into him again, he likes the fact that he is admired and loved by someone, it boasts his ego and makes him feel like a big guy cos really behind that mask hes weak.
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