Scorpio mental dissatisfaction limits

Several months ago I’ve posted that I had stumbled upon his wife FB where in every picture she was hanging over him and he was just hands down staring in the camera...

I never told him about it. We don’t have social media and this visual made me sick and sad because as I’ve explained before I rather die him to be happy even if I am not involved than unhappy because of him being involved with me.

So today we had longest ever phone conversation and all of a sudden he said ‘when we are eating out they want me to be in a picture with them and I refuse and they give me shit about it and I just don’t want my pictures on FB for their satisfaction that all of their friends looking and thinking about our happy family witch is crap!’

I almost said I saw some of those ‘happy’ images but I’ve decided I’ll say in person...

So he asked ‘what would you say? How would you get out of this fake crap and refuse to be in a picture?’

I said well...my love...I would simply say I do not want to participate in the game you are playing with your FB friends because I don’t want to pretend to be happy because I am not’...he sigh...then said yes, that’s exactly what is running trough my mind...’ and I had interrupted and said ‘wait! You aren’t me! You aren’t ready yet but when you ready - this will come to you and jump out of you like it was the only thing was there to say...but THEN you will have to face concequences and think about one thing...what worse can happen than dreaming of being buried alive and live in a horror of those dreams hunting you?

I said you will be ready when you are. Just make sure it won’t be in a cardiology unit! Because I wouldn’t be able to be there to save you...

He said ‘too bad...I’ll try to have you there no matter what’...I said STFU!

And of course we laughed...

Before ‘pictures’ crap he told me things that’s going on that he used to let go and Nevermind and now he doesn’t let it slide! He gets right back at whoever is trying to ‘be smartass’...

We were discussing business and people and I was yelling in his face about him MUST to come out dark place and stale pond...and he shared last days details etc.

My question is...can something drive a strong and hard headed Scorpio into throwing a towel and saying FUCK! Enough is enough!

I am claiming my life back!

I can’t Do It anymore!!!

Years of torture are over!!!

I want to breathe...and yes...you will all be financially taken care of!

Pack and leave...

Nope.

It's nothing but wishful thinking & delusion on your part.

Posted by Apis

How long has your ass been seeing this guy?

9 years! Does it make any difference for you? You don’t follow me do you? Too bad...lol

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Apis

How long has your ass been seeing this guy?

9 years! Does it make any difference for you? You don’t follow me do you? Too bad...lol

Nope, sorry.

9 fucking years? Are you kidding me?

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No! I am kidding me! Lol

But I am a Gemini so...I can keep on kidding...until I get what I want.

Pray I don’t want YOU! 👀

Posted by Jade_Alexander

How long have you been together?

He should leave because he’s done, not because he’s hopping into another relationship. But most men won’t leave and be done alone... they don’t like alone.

Does this mean you’re leaving your husband now?

I am not leaving my husband NOW!

I am just living my life waiting for Scorp to get on same page with me.

And shit is boiling so...I just can’t write a book here...just chapters. Lol

Posted by Apis

So you were 61 when you met him?

42, putz! Lol

Posted by Gemitati

Several months ago I’ve posted that I had stumbled upon his wife FB where in every picture she was hanging over him and he was just hands down staring in the camera...

I never told him about it. We don’t have social media and this visual made me sick and sad because as I’ve explained before I rather die him to be happy even if I am not involved than unhappy because of him being involved with me.

So today we had longest ever phone conversation and all of a sudden he said ‘when we are eating out they want me to be in a picture with them and I refuse and they give me shit about it and I just don’t want my pictures on FB for their satisfaction that all of their friends looking and thinking about our happy family witch is crap!’

I almost said I saw some of those ‘happy’ images but I’ve decided I’ll say in person...

So he asked ‘what would you say? How would you get out of this fake crap and refuse to be in a picture?’

I said well...my love...I would simply say I do not want to participate in the game you are playing with your FB friends because I don’t want to pretend to be happy because I am not’...he sigh...then said yes, that’s exactly what is running trough my mind...’ and I had interrupted and said ‘wait! You aren’t me! You aren’t ready yet but when you ready - this will come to you and jump out of you like it was the only thing was there to say...but THEN you will have to face concequences and think about one thing...what worse can happen than dreaming of being buried alive and live in a horror of those dreams hunting you?

I said you will be ready when you are. Just make sure it won’t be in a cardiology unit! Because I wouldn’t be able to be there to save you...

He said ‘too bad...I’ll try to have you there no matter what’...I said STFU!

And of course we laughed...

Before ‘pictures’ crap he told me things that’s going on that he used to let go and Nevermind and now he doesn’t let it slide! He gets right back at whoever is trying to ‘be smartass’...

We were discussing business and people and I was yelling in his face about him MUST to come out dark place and stale pond...and he shared last days details etc.

My question is...can something drive a strong and hard headed Scorpio into throwing a towel and saying FUCK! Enough is enough!

I am claiming my life back!

I can’t Do It anymore!!!

Years of torture are over!!!

I want to breathe...and yes...you will all be financially taken care of!

Pack and leave...

AND YOU BEEN COMING FOR ME....GIRL PLEASE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Posted by GemCurio

Side chicks aren't priorities to no man and for some reason I have met plenty of Scorpio men with Gemini Women as side chicks. I know one Scorpio man who just was in jail for 3 years and had his Gemini side chick still claiming them as closest friends even though he's going home to another woman.. And he still has another year in jail and went to jail for beating her up...It is what it is..

I am not side chick! We don’t have sexual anymore. We sort things out until we know what’s what and all we do is discussing things. As a friends. But it is probably will fly above your cocoo best anyway!

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Posted by Gemitati

Several months ago I’ve posted that I had stumbled upon his wife FB where in every picture she was hanging over him and he was just hands down staring in the camera...

I never told him about it. We don’t have social media and this visual made me sick and sad because as I’ve explained before I rather die him to be happy even if I am not involved than unhappy because of him being involved with me.

So today we had longest ever phone conversation and all of a sudden he said ‘when we are eating out they want me to be in a picture with them and I refuse and they give me shit about it and I just don’t want my pictures on FB for their satisfaction that all of their friends looking and thinking about our happy family witch is crap!’

I almost said I saw some of those ‘happy’ images but I’ve decided I’ll say in person...

So he asked ‘what would you say? How would you get out of this fake crap and refuse to be in a picture?’

I said well...my love...I would simply say I do not want to participate in the game you are playing with your FB friends because I don’t want to pretend to be happy because I am not’...he sigh...then said yes, that’s exactly what is running trough my mind...’ and I had interrupted and said ‘wait! You aren’t me! You aren’t ready yet but when you ready - this will come to you and jump out of you like it was the only thing was there to say...but THEN you will have to face concequences and think about one thing...what worse can happen than dreaming of being buried alive and live in a horror of those dreams hunting you?

I said you will be ready when you are. Just make sure it won’t be in a cardiology unit! Because I wouldn’t be able to be there to save you...

He said ‘too bad...I’ll try to have you there no matter what’...I said STFU!

And of course we laughed...

Before ‘pictures’ crap he told me things that’s going on that he used to let go and Nevermind and now he doesn’t let it slide! He gets right back at whoever is trying to ‘be smartass’...

We were discussing business and people and I was yelling in his face about him MUST to come out dark place and stale pond...and he shared last days details etc.

My question is...can something drive a strong and hard headed Scorpio into throwing a towel and saying FUCK! Enough is enough!

I am claiming my life back!

I can’t Do It anymore!!!

Years of torture are over!!!

I want to breathe...and yes...you will all be financially taken care of!

Pack and leave...

AND YOU BEEN COMING FOR ME....GIRL PLEASE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Yep! You dwelling on fucking HUG!

I have history...

If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

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Posted by GemCurio

Side chicks aren't priorities to no man and for some reason I have met plenty of Scorpio men with Gemini Women as side chicks. I know one Scorpio man who just was in jail for 3 years and had his Gemini side chick still claiming them as closest friends even though he's going home to another woman.. And he still has another year in jail and went to jail for beating her up...It is what it is..

I am not side chick! We don’t have sexual anymore. We sort things out until we know what’s what and all we do is discussing things. As a friends. But it is probably will fly above your cocoo best anyway!

I was just giving a real example.. Point is as "passionate" as those Scorps are they are either doing it or not doing it. They really aren't ones to make excuses. Unless.... You already know what goes here.

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Of course I know! I am just wondering how long can he survive this shit before his Scorpio brain will say...enough!!!

Posted by Apis

You're Italian, right?

No! He is...lol

WOW you have been having an affair for 9 years and the wife never found out? LOL she sounds like a dumbass ( sorry ) but really?

Maybe she hates him

Posted by Apis

Just buy a fucking Vespa, a dildo with a suction cup, and call it a day like a normal old lady..

Just wear a helmet.

My mother is 6 years older than op, happily divorced, and a bf whose 38 😏

There is life after divorce, even if your older. Op is just to chicken shit to pull the trigger.

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Several months ago I’ve posted that I had stumbled upon his wife FB where in every picture she was hanging over him and he was just hands down staring in the camera...

I never told him about it. We don’t have social media and this visual made me sick and sad because as I’ve explained before I rather die him to be happy even if I am not involved than unhappy because of him being involved with me.

So today we had longest ever phone conversation and all of a sudden he said ‘when we are eating out they want me to be in a picture with them and I refuse and they give me shit about it and I just don’t want my pictures on FB for their satisfaction that all of their friends looking and thinking about our happy family witch is crap!’

I almost said I saw some of those ‘happy’ images but I’ve decided I’ll say in person...

So he asked ‘what would you say? How would you get out of this fake crap and refuse to be in a picture?’

I said well...my love...I would simply say I do not want to participate in the game you are playing with your FB friends because I don’t want to pretend to be happy because I am not’...he sigh...then said yes, that’s exactly what is running trough my mind...’ and I had interrupted and said ‘wait! You aren’t me! You aren’t ready yet but when you ready - this will come to you and jump out of you like it was the only thing was there to say...but THEN you will have to face concequences and think about one thing...what worse can happen than dreaming of being buried alive and live in a horror of those dreams hunting you?

I said you will be ready when you are. Just make sure it won’t be in a cardiology unit! Because I wouldn’t be able to be there to save you...

He said ‘too bad...I’ll try to have you there no matter what’...I said STFU!

And of course we laughed...

Before ‘pictures’ crap he told me things that’s going on that he used to let go and Nevermind and now he doesn’t let it slide! He gets right back at whoever is trying to ‘be smartass’...

We were discussing business and people and I was yelling in his face about him MUST to come out dark place and stale pond...and he shared last days details etc.

My question is...can something drive a strong and hard headed Scorpio into throwing a towel and saying FUCK! Enough is enough!

I am claiming my life back!

I can’t Do It anymore!!!

Years of torture are over!!!

I want to breathe...and yes...you will all be financially taken care of!

Pack and leave...

AND YOU BEEN COMING FOR ME....GIRL PLEASE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yep! You dwelling on fucking HUG!

I have history...

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Fuck you SIDE CHICK....LOL🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Posted by LadyNeptune

If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

Wait what? wife cheated on him AND gave him std— This detail I didn't read before lol

Yep, he's never leaving her. 100% sure. He's just cheating cause of his own pride got hurt, getting mental satisfaction for the hurt that was done to him

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Again, according to him...

Personally I think he’s just covering his ass, explaining the std he got from another side chick. This is what cheaters do, they vilify their wife/gf to normalize the cheating. We don’t know his wife...we do know he’s been a cheater for (minimum) 9 years 🤷‍♀️

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Posted by Piscoi

No, he is just as set on appearing happy, just like his wife, and will continue to mess with you until you finally realize it’s not going anywhere.

He is never going to leave her, someday you will see that.

I think if he had the choice, he would.

9 years is a damn long time and jelllllll, what is love anyway.

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At the moment he HAS a choice but we talking...too much at stake!

And we started from ‘let’s just see what’s gonna happen’ to...2018 and I never call!

So if it was just sex - I would know!

It’s not!

Posted by LadyNeptune

If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

Get married! Gave birth to kids. Ease them. Love them. Have a 30 years life together...then speak up!

Now forever hold your peace!

Really! How can you even talk on a subject never had nusband, children, in-laws?

Common! Shit up!

I just can't anymore! She has turned into DXP's Benny Hill.

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

Get married! Gave birth to kids. Ease them. Love them. Have a 30 years life together...then speak up!

Now forever hold your peace!

Really! How can you even talk on a subject never had nusband, children, in-laws?

Common! Shit up!

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So someone gives you 30 years of their love, time, and money. Gives you a home, provides for you, puts food on the table for you and your kids and you repay them with betrayal by spreading your legs for anyone...hmmm great logic granny.

Just pointing out the obvious. If her (allegedly) cheating on him and (allegedly) giving him an std wasn’t enough for him to leave the marriage, this certainly won’t be. Keep grasping for straws tho

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You're Italian, right?

No! He is...lol

Does he wear a gold chain and show his chest hair with his button down shirt?

I have a theory that all scorpio men are basically Burt Reynolds.

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Lmao! Yes he does!!! I would like you but that clapping hand shot reminds me of my Cap husband who does it and I WANT TO KILL HIM!!! are you a Cap? What is this shit means...clapping hands? Not working dick— Lmao

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Posted by LadyNeptune

If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

Wait what? wife cheated on him AND gave him std— This detail I didn't read before lol

Yep, he's never leaving her. 100% sure. He's just cheating cause of his own pride got hurt, getting mental satisfaction for the hurt that was done to him

Again, according to him...

Personally I think he’s just covering his ass, explaining the std he got from another side chick. This is what cheaters do, they vilify their wife/gf to normalize the cheating. We don’t know his wife...we do know he’s been a cheater for (minimum) 9 years 🤷‍♀️

Yeah true, that's another very possible option. He might be victimizing himself to keep her around cause making up stories is what gets him in the place who got to with her...wife might be perfectly fine and have no clue about any of that meanwhile he is a proven cheater. Well I'm not sure how can anyone trust a guy with such situation, he doesn't even sound too persuasive. It's almost like he's making fun of it and just checking how far can his bs selling go

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Reading her threads always makes me feel grateful to have my life. I hope I’m never that lonely and afraid where I have to settle for someone whose unavailable.

Posted by Sag898

WOW you have been having an affair for 9 years and the wife never found out? LOL she sounds like a dumbass ( sorry ) but really?

Maybe she hates him

5 years was just a business shit.

We were crazy but he was holding on because I was coming with my husband and they were ‘business partners’ so he held his horses! Lol

Then shit just happened...it’s a such a long story! Fuck or no fuck - we are emotionally together and he comes to me for every little thing and we had tried to brake up but it just not in a near future.

We bonded. By whatever means.

Our kids grown up now.

He is getting fed up. More and more...

So...my question remains...I can wait! I don’t care! He is the man!

And no one marching up!

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Posted by Apis

Just buy a fucking Vespa, a dildo with a suction cup, and call it a day like a normal old lady..

Just wear a helmet.

My mother is 6 years older than op, happily divorced, and a bf whose 38 😏

There is life after divorce, even if your older. Op is just to chicken shit to pull the trigger.

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Yeas my love! I am a chicken shit!

WHY would I leaving my cozy life and pay lawyers for divorce?

I am in my space!

Husband in his space!

Kid is coming home to both parents always asking me about Scorpio because she moves him!

Why would I just now spend money when my husband doesn’t bother me except he wants his dinner?

And again...have you been there! NO! Maybe you should shut ta fuck up? You know I love you but you have NO place to speak!

You have NOTHING real to contribute except all kinds of shit that comes out of your brain ‘what if’...

You don’t know nothing! Well...your mom isn’t me. And why are you have nothing what she had?

Man, you, divorce, boy-toy?

You can’t sting me tonight! I am soooooo fucking happy!!!

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Several months ago I’ve posted that I had stumbled upon his wife FB where in every picture she was hanging over him and he was just hands down staring in the camera...

I never told him about it. We don’t have social media and this visual made me sick and sad because as I’ve explained before I rather die him to be happy even if I am not involved than unhappy because of him being involved with me.

So today we had longest ever phone conversation and all of a sudden he said ‘when we are eating out they want me to be in a picture with them and I refuse and they give me shit about it and I just don’t want my pictures on FB for their satisfaction that all of their friends looking and thinking about our happy family witch is crap!’

I almost said I saw some of those ‘happy’ images but I’ve decided I’ll say in person...

So he asked ‘what would you say? How would you get out of this fake crap and refuse to be in a picture?’

I said well...my love...I would simply say I do not want to participate in the game you are playing with your FB friends because I don’t want to pretend to be happy because I am not’...he sigh...then said yes, that’s exactly what is running trough my mind...’ and I had interrupted and said ‘wait! You aren’t me! You aren’t ready yet but when you ready - this will come to you and jump out of you like it was the only thing was there to say...but THEN you will have to face concequences and think about one thing...what worse can happen than dreaming of being buried alive and live in a horror of those dreams hunting you?

I said you will be ready when you are. Just make sure it won’t be in a cardiology unit! Because I wouldn’t be able to be there to save you...

He said ‘too bad...I’ll try to have you there no matter what’...I said STFU!

And of course we laughed...

Before ‘pictures’ crap he told me things that’s going on that he used to let go and Nevermind and now he doesn’t let it slide! He gets right back at whoever is trying to ‘be smartass’...

We were discussing business and people and I was yelling in his face about him MUST to come out dark place and stale pond...and he shared last days details etc.

My question is...can something drive a strong and hard headed Scorpio into throwing a towel and saying FUCK! Enough is enough!

I am claiming my life back!

I can’t Do It anymore!!!

Years of torture are over!!!

I want to breathe...and yes...you will all be financially taken care of!

Pack and leave...

AND YOU BEEN COMING FOR ME....GIRL PLEASE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yep! You dwelling on fucking HUG!

I have history...

Fuck you SIDE CHICK....LOL🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Yeah! Except he doesn’t fuck me so what is a side chick with no dick—

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Posted by LadyNeptune

If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

Wait what? wife cheated on him AND gave him std— This detail I didn't read before lol

Yep, he's never leaving her. 100% sure. He's just cheating cause of his own pride got hurt, getting mental satisfaction for the hurt that was done to him

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Don’t listen to LN! She didn’t give him STD! They weren’t fucking already because she was fucking someone else and they were in sexless shit!

He was lucky! And I knew she was fucking but I wouldn’t dare hurt him by telling him...

She is still fucking that dude.

But he doesn’t make as near as Scorp does so she hold on to his ass...and he finally said...she is afraid to lose me as her meal ticket!

I didn’t want to hurt him but I said...yessss!!!

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Side chicks aren't priorities to no man and for some reason I have met plenty of Scorpio men with Gemini Women as side chicks. I know one Scorpio man who just was in jail for 3 years and had his Gemini side chick still claiming them as closest friends even though he's going home to another woman.. And he still has another year in jail and went to jail for beating her up...It is what it is..

I am not side chick! We don’t have sexual anymore. We sort things out until we know what’s what and all we do is discussing things. As a friends. But it is probably will fly above your cocoo best anyway!

I was just giving a real example.. Point is as "passionate" as those Scorps are they are either doing it or not doing it. They really aren't ones to make excuses. Unless.... You already know what goes here.

Of course I know! I am just wondering how long can he survive this shit before his Scorpio brain will say...enough!!!

He's not going to. He's getting everything he needs from the secrecy and anticipation. The thoughts behind it, the codependency, the darker side initiative without the act. It has become enough. It's sometimes better than actually doing for both your signs. If it was really an upsetting situation for him, he'd just explode and run. My best friend is Scorpio of and I've known him for half my life. There would be arguments daily, he'd have reasons to walk out or be in a room all night by himself. The environment would be so hostile that everyone would see it coming. All his close friends would know about his problems at home & that he was on the verge of separation. He would take care of all his duties, but the environment would be chaotic.

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So...is it still going on? For how long?

Posted by GemCurio

I apologize but people are not what they say. That's the mask they wear. We ALL are what we do. You are listening and laughing to sweet words waiting on a never coming promise land, and the Scorpio is the crooked preacher selling you a dream while robbing you of time, life, thoughts, and emotions you don't get back. He's a vampire and you're his sippie cup...

We’ve discussed that! I am not very shy to tell him shit when I feel like it...however I’ll be the cup because I don’t need another sipper...lol

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If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

Wait what? wife cheated on him AND gave him std— This detail I didn't read before lol

Yep, he's never leaving her. 100% sure. He's just cheating cause of his own pride got hurt, getting mental satisfaction for the hurt that was done to him

Again, according to him...

Personally I think he’s just covering his ass, explaining the std he got from another side chick. This is what cheaters do, they vilify their wife/gf to normalize the cheating. We don’t know his wife...we do know he’s been a cheater for (minimum) 9 years 🤷‍♀️

Yeah true, that's another very possible option. He might be victimizing himself to keep her around cause making up stories is what gets him in the place who got to with her...wife might be perfectly fine and have no clue about any of that meanwhile he is a proven cheater. Well I'm not sure how can anyone trust a guy with such situation, he doesn't even sound too persuasive. It's almost like he's making fun of it and just checking how far can his bs selling go

Reading her threads always makes me feel grateful to have my life. I hope I’m never that lonely and afraid where I have to settle for someone whose unavailable.

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You might die looking for your dream at 103! What a great perspective! At least I have accomplished something by bringing a person to the world!

What are you gonna do? Harbor dogs and paint old wooden shit?

Ok. To each it’s own!

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You're Italian, right?

No! He is...lol

Does he wear a gold chain and show his chest hair with his button down shirt?

I have a theory that all scorpio men are basically Burt Reynolds.

Lmao! Yes he does!!! I would like you but that clapping hand shot reminds me of my Cap husband who does it and I WANT TO KILL HIM!!! are you a Cap? What is this shit means...clapping hands? Not working dick— Lmao

No, not a Cap. The clapping is for the gem side hoes as they take the walk of shame in the morning

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I am fine in the morning thank you!

Keep jerking off! As I am sure that all that hands are for! Lmao

Posted by ellesbelles

"can something drive a strong and hard headed Scorpio into throwing a towel and saying treetrunk! Enough is enough!"

Yes.

However, it has to be substantial. He has an Aries Moon like me....and we are forever optimists. Tomorrow is a new day...blah, blah, blah....and we will endure for gotdamn forever thinking if we just hold on a little longer we will turn that corner and all will be right in the world.

The only time I give up is when there was clear disrespect on their side...like unforgivable events of disrespect where people cant come back from.

This is what is starting to going on in his life that drives him nuts!!!

That’s why he is becoming ‘nasty’ and talks back...which never had happened before.

And family goes like ‘why are you talking like that’ and he turns his back and goes out and talks to me!

And of course...I have never been a bitch to his family before bit right now I am opened up and said...not this year but you will get fed up. And he said...about there...very much.

And I said...consult with me before drastic measures!!!

Thanks. I always knew someone just one will come and answer with brains❤️

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I just can't anymore! She has turned into DXP's Benny Hill.

ROFLMAO!

STAHP

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Side chicks aren't priorities to no man and for some reason I have met plenty of Scorpio men with Gemini Women as side chicks. I know one Scorpio man who just was in jail for 3 years and had his Gemini side chick still claiming them as closest friends even though he's going home to another woman.. And he still has another year in jail and went to jail for beating her up...It is what it is..

I am not side chick! We don’t have sexual anymore. We sort things out until we know what’s what and all we do is discussing things. As a friends. But it is probably will fly above your cocoo best anyway!

I was just giving a real example.. Point is as "passionate" as those Scorps are they are either doing it or not doing it. They really aren't ones to make excuses. Unless.... You already know what goes here.

Of course I know! I am just wondering how long can he survive this shit before his Scorpio brain will say...enough!!!

He's not going to. He's getting everything he needs from the secrecy and anticipation. The thoughts behind it, the codependency, the darker side initiative without the act. It has become enough. It's sometimes better than actually doing for both your signs. If it was really an upsetting situation for him, he'd just explode and run. My best friend is Scorpio of and I've known him for half my life. There would be arguments daily, he'd have reasons to walk out or be in a room all night by himself. The environment would be so hostile that everyone would see it coming. All his close friends would know about his problems at home & that he was on the verge of separation. He would take care of all his duties, but the environment would be chaotic.

So...is it still going on? For how long?

If he is not pulling away hard and fast and what I mean by that is within a 60 day period, he's not moving away. His actions are not pointing in that directions and either way, now or later, it will cost time, money, and people are going to be hurt if his happiness is outside his "home". So he would just do it, get it over with and stand for what he wants, and explain to his children, attorneys, and colleagues. Scorpios DO NOT Fuuuukboi around with their emotions or the things they want no matter the cost, judgments of others, or who it hurts. You should just stop watching the clock because you're going to be in this moment/situation/scenario you're in for a long while.. My condolences..

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It’s sooo true in many aspects of life!

Except this story isn’t like others.

What you said is right on money!

However sometimes life gives us surprises!

He doesn’t really need me!

He can live without me. But he can’t for some reason and it’s not sex!

I am eager to find out.

I just can’t post everything...

Thanks for the insight! It’s very true and accurate...except major details that I can’t reveal.

how long have you been married together?

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If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

Wait what? wife cheated on him AND gave him std— This detail I didn't read before lol

Yep, he's never leaving her. 100% sure. He's just cheating cause of his own pride got hurt, getting mental satisfaction for the hurt that was done to him

Again, according to him...

Personally I think he’s just covering his ass, explaining the std he got from another side chick. This is what cheaters do, they vilify their wife/gf to normalize the cheating. We don’t know his wife...we do know he’s been a cheater for (minimum) 9 years 🤷‍♀️

Yeah true, that's another very possible option. He might be victimizing himself to keep her around cause making up stories is what gets him in the place who got to with her...wife might be perfectly fine and have no clue about any of that meanwhile he is a proven cheater. Well I'm not sure how can anyone trust a guy with such situation, he doesn't even sound too persuasive. It's almost like he's making fun of it and just checking how far can his bs selling go

Reading her threads always makes me feel grateful to have my life. I hope I’m never that lonely and afraid where I have to settle for someone whose unavailable.

You might die looking for your dream at 103! What a great perspective! At least I have accomplished something by bringing a person to the world!

What are you gonna do? Harbor dogs and paint old wooden shit?

Ok. To each it’s own!

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My dream is a partner who respects me. How are you gonna find that with a cheater?

So is that how it works? You have a kid and give up on life. Flimsy excuse. Own your shit lady. Don’t blame your kid, come on.

Live in your fantasy world. Just don’t be surprised that other people keep poking holes in it.

No, just because he bitched to you about having to take fb photos with wifey doesn’t mean he’s gonna leave her and be with you. And that’s a good thing for you. If you had him completely you’d get bored.

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how long have you been married together?

You mustnknow! 24 years!

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WOW you have been having an affair for 9 years and the wife never found out? LOL she sounds like a dumbass ( sorry ) but really?

Maybe she hates him

5 years was just a business shit.

We were crazy but he was holding on because I was coming with my husband and they were ‘business partners’ so he held his horses! Lol

Then shit just happened...it’s a such a long story! Fuck or no fuck - we are emotionally together and he comes to me for every little thing and we had tried to brake up but it just not in a near future.

We bonded. By whatever means.

Our kids grown up now.

He is getting fed up. More and more...

So...my question remains...I can wait! I don’t care! He is the man!

And no one marching up!

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Interesting

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It is good to consider all options until all has been implemented to no success. Then people can call quits. Otherwise, it is passively letting the relationship go while providing commentaries.

Pricinding commentaries? Elaborate please...

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WOW you have been having an affair for 9 years and the wife never found out? LOL she sounds like a dumbass ( sorry ) but really?

Maybe she hates him

5 years was just a business shit.

We were crazy but he was holding on because I was coming with my husband and they were ‘business partners’ so he held his horses! Lol

Then shit just happened...it’s a such a long story! Fuck or no fuck - we are emotionally together and he comes to me for every little thing and we had tried to brake up but it just not in a near future.

We bonded. By whatever means.

Our kids grown up now.

He is getting fed up. More and more...

So...my question remains...I can wait! I don’t care! He is the man!

And no one marching up!

Interesting

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So I say...lol

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I just can't anymore! She has turned into DXP's Benny Hill.

ROFLMAO!

STAHP

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Hold on, let me count the ways.

- I came to DXP a little over 2 years ago, May 2016 I believe. By that time, me and my boy were already best friends and I had been secretly in love with him for around 3 years.

- Gemithotty was already going on about the Scorp when I got here.

- By the end of the year: I had already had my little suicidal meltdown on his birthday, he had his personal crisis and I completely forgot about my own crap and instead stuck by him 24/7 for several months. By January we had become closer than best friends.

- In March last year we got intimate for the first time. She was still stuck on the same square.

- By the end of last year: my boy had already moved in with me, we had become exclusive, he'd introduced me to his family as "belonging to him", we'd had our first major relationship crisis and he learned a valuable lesson during it.

She, on the other hand, went on a little meltdown about now hating him, but 2 months later she was back sucking on his theoretical big toe (you thought I was gonna say cock, didntcha?? Get yer mind outta the gutter, sailor!!).

It certainly hasn't been a smooth sailing upto this point, but one thing is certain: he doesn't want to let me go. He says it and shows it. We live in his second family home right now, it was his idea. He's a month away from only his 21st birthday so I'm cutting him some slack for his inexperience, just giving him some time to figure a few things out.

But we've learned a great deal from each other since his birthday 2 years ago. Our relationship has grown and evolved big time. And Gemithotty is still stuck on the exact same square she was back in May 2016.

I like to say that it's impossible to shock me anymore, but I think we've discovered a missing link between homo sapiens and apes. One far stupider than humanly possible.

@Gemitati

Its not an ideal scenario, but have you considered to just having an affair, you stay with your husband, he stays with his wife. Your husband and you dont have sex, he and his wife dont have sex, his wife is sleeping with the other man.

So, just have an affair, dont divorce, stay both where you are, but claim some happiness

I am not sure its the best thing or outcome if he is to leave his wife and divorce.... because then he will suddenly be single and he maybe will want to explore a bit of wild dating or such... realistically, its a very probable scenario, what would happen, if he divorce and leave his wife... he will go on dating

what you get now is some emotional bond, which is good and exceptional.... now, just go back to have sex as well..... I mean, what is the point, if you dont even get sex from him? just being his therapist? for how long? have sex

dont wait for the divorce which is likely to a) never come b) if it comes, he will date others and sleep with all the brainless chicks who will be willing, and you can bet there will be a lot of them, if he is divorced

you have him more now maybe, until he is not divorced

if you really want him, the safest option is to have maintain your homes, both of you, where still everybody is doing what they want........... dont wait for miracles/resolutions/divorce, just live your life with sex included! with him

otherwise, what is the point? if he is not willing to sleep with you, you two has just a friendship.... yawn 🙂

and dont let him overtake every conversation with you about moaning about his unhappy life at home... tell him to not be pathetic

you are too accomodating for him, without you even getting sex out of it

girl, just do him, but regularly.... like setting up meetings once or twice a week and sleep together.... if he cant do this, its not because of his marriage

dont be so afraid of his sorry a**

PS. strictly an adult realistic advice for this specific situation, not applicable in your 20s without decades of marriages and grown up kids

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It is good to consider all options until all has been implemented to no success. Then people can call quits. Otherwise, it is passively letting the relationship go while providing commentaries.

Pricinding commentaries? Elaborate please...

I mean, if he has problems with the wife, has he brought it up to her? Seek counseling? It seems like he vents and watches it all fall but that's about it. It's not actually trying but instead it's avoiding guilt if it all falls apart.

It's almost safe to say that it's good to stay in the sideline bc you're never going to be right or wrong. You play that neutral position and that's what he likes. The fact that he can come to you while he vents about his relationship and at the same time gets to have sex with you. There's an appeal to it. The question is, will it stay the same once you both decide to get out of that safe zone.

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I would aheee with your every word except first time I’ve heard ‘wife’ word from his mouth after we had known each other for about 6 years...

We had unspoken rule not to talk about our spouses.

It’s NOW when we don’t get physical and I hear something wrong in his voice - I’ll say ‘ok spill it’...