Scorpio sex (Page 2)

Posted by scorpiothebadass
Whats your zodiac sign

I'm a bull?

No, neither actually. It was what kicked all of this off though I guess. Not sure if that or me saying ok done bc of the hot n cold and argument drama.I'm not sure where any of this is coming from but something happened somewhere after the sex thing.

I just thought it would have been better and more passionate. That's where the question came from for Scorp men....if it wasn't passionate and was terrible for me was it the same for him and did he control that going into it?

Posted by CR19
I just expected from the way he hyped it all up... it was going to be mind blowing amazing lol

The proof is what happens in the sheets. I talked mad shit when I was younger. Now, I just pick em up, carry them to the bed and give it hell. Either it's enough or it's not. Never been denied a rd 2 though. 😉

Thats why

No one wants to hear the sex is bad. If it is, you can ask him to do something else kindly whole in the act. You have to teach him. Instead, you made him feel insecure. Don't get why you're questioning it. You're the cause of his insecurity.

Now he's looking for excuses and putting the blame on you because he doesn't know how to be better! Now sex is going to be uncomfortable from now on for both of you. I think you ruined the relationship. That's sad.

Posted by scorpiothebadass
Thats why

Why?

Because you are a bull

Posted by pinkbird03
No one wants to hear the sex is bad. If it is, you can ask him to do something else kindly whole in the act. You have to teach him. Instead, you made him feel insecure. Don't get why you're questioning it. You're the cause of his insecurity.

Now he's looking for excuses and putting the blame on you because he doesn't know how to be better! Now sex is going to be uncomfortable from now on for both of you. I think you ruined the relationship. That's sad.

I understand that. I was in no way rude or degrading to him about it at all, just told him it wasn't as I had expected and asked if anything was wrong bc it didn't seem passionate or intimate. He said he was tired from running around and his long road trip and that he was mad and disappointed that I was disappointed. It wasn't a negative conversation afterward at all. Gentle and understanding. I'm questioning the parts leading up to it, the hype, the comments, the passion, the Scorpio sex stigma too I guess...just wondered but maybe you are correct, maybe no one has taught him. I think he was insecure before getting into it though.

Posted by scorpiothebadass
Because you are a bull

Why is that a bad thing? Bulls are great in bed?

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Posted by CR19
I just expected from the way he hyped it all up... it was going to be mind blowing amazing lol

The proof is what happens in the sheets. I talked mad shit when I was younger. Now, I just pick em up, carry them to the bed and give it hell. Either it's enough or it's not. Never been denied a rd 2 though. 😉

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Agreed. Maybe I should have tried more but it felt so rushed and made me feel like I couldn't open up and be myself in a sexual sense. It felt like he was controlling every aspect even right down to whether or not I would get off. That was the vibe I got every time. I even tried to keep going and restarting it after, and the next morning before he left but he had to leave pretty early so no go there either but he did kiss me a lot and act like he didn't want to go.

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Posted by pinkbird03
No one wants to hear the sex is bad. If it is, you can ask him to do something else kindly whole in the act. You have to teach him. Instead, you made him feel insecure. Don't get why you're questioning it. You're the cause of his insecurity.

Now he's looking for excuses and putting the blame on you because he doesn't know how to be better! Now sex is going to be uncomfortable from now on for both of you. I think you ruined the relationship. That's sad.

I understand that. I was in no way rude or degrading to him about it at all, just told him it wasn't as I had expected and asked if anything was wrong bc it didn't seem passionate or intimate. He said he was tired from running around and his long road trip and that he was mad and disappointed that I was disappointed. It wasn't a negative conversation afterward at all. Gentle and understanding. I'm questioning the parts leading up to it, the hype, the comments, the passion, the Scorpio sex stigma too I guess...just wondered but maybe you are correct, maybe no one has taught him. I think he was insecure before getting into it though.

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Every guy wants to be great in bed. Maybe it was great for him. I mean men only need a warm and wet place to put it and it feels good. I dated a Scorpio once. He was never super romantic, but it was still good.

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Posted by CR19

Posted by pinkbird03
No one wants to hear the sex is bad. If it is, you can ask him to do something else kindly whole in the act. You have to teach him. Instead, you made him feel insecure. Don't get why you're questioning it. You're the cause of his insecurity.

Now he's looking for excuses and putting the blame on you because he doesn't know how to be better! Now sex is going to be uncomfortable from now on for both of you. I think you ruined the relationship. That's sad.

I understand that. I was in no way rude or degrading to him about it at all, just told him it wasn't as I had expected and asked if anything was wrong bc it didn't seem passionate or intimate. He said he was tired from running around and his long road trip and that he was mad and disappointed that I was disappointed. It wasn't a negative conversation afterward at all. Gentle and understanding. I'm questioning the parts leading up to it, the hype, the comments, the passion, the Scorpio sex stigma too I guess...just wondered but maybe you are correct, maybe no one has taught him. I think he was insecure before getting into it though.

Every guy wants to be great in bed. Maybe it was great for him. I mean men only need a warm and wet place to put it and it feels good. I dated a Scorpio once. He was never super romantic, but it was still good.

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He said it was good and he got off each time so I guess. He wasn't romantic but he seemed to like that I was so attracted to him. And he liked kissing me a lot.

Ok so now I know why it was so awkward. He now tells me he has issues with emotional attachment and he is numb whatever that means. And quite rude to me. Grrrrrreat feeling but couldn't he have told me that beforehand?!?! Talk about feeling used. Where did I go so wrong?

Posted by Taniwha
FYI he probably watches to much porn and jacks off to much. Hit him up about it.

You're good!!! We actually talked about this and he told me he use to...it was a big problem for him. Maybe it still is then I guess.

There was no chemistry ... There has to be chemistry there with a Scorpio ... If not its just a buss

Posted by Bottabing
There was no chemistry ... There has to be chemistry there with a Scorpio ... If not its just a buss

I think this. We had covered this as well. I was so nervous and I had asked what if when we see each other again there is no chemistry and he said I don't think that will happen. Chemistry and intensity was great before this so I guess that was it. We had our final chat last night where a lot came to light that I wish I knew sooner but it is what it is, it happened. He got what he wanted ultimately and I wished him well in life.

Posted by CR19
Lol...it was awkward. The interest and attraction was there but it was rushed and I have to say he probably was exhausted as he was running around a lot but it just wasn't as passionate or kinky as I had expected or been lead to believe it would be. He did apologize. Just wasn't sure if it was something else...he got off, I did not and I did tell him right away in a gentle manner. I didn't make a big deal of it but he knew I was disappointed and since then he's been very hot and cold. Unsure what to think.

LOL such a familiar situation. You need to let him get used to you. No complaints, no demands.

If you like him enough everything is going to fall into places. Just watch his technique and see

what's his pleasure. Be extremely nice and stop complaining. He needs time. Good luck.

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Posted by CR19
Lol...it was awkward. The interest and attraction was there but it was rushed and I have to say he probably was exhausted as he was running around a lot but it just wasn't as passionate or kinky as I had expected or been lead to believe it would be. He did apologize. Just wasn't sure if it was something else...he got off, I did not and I did tell him right away in a gentle manner. I didn't make a big deal of it but he knew I was disappointed and since then he's been very hot and cold. Unsure what to think.

LOL such a familiar situation. You need to let him get used to you. No complaints, no demands.

If you like him enough everything is going to fall into places. Just watch his technique and see

what's his pleasure. Be extremely nice and stop complaining. He needs time. Good luck.

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I did care for him but he has hurt me deeply and I feel lied to and used. I told him Goodbye and blocked him. I don't understand but as of right now I never want anything to do with him again.

Posted by tiziani
Bad sex isn't fatal.

But when it's coupled with bad timing, it's hard to come back from that much.

I'm a sexual person but I could have worked with it, the rest not so much.

Exactly! It makes no sense to me. If you knew you didn't feel that way why not be upfront about it beforehand, and even after the sex part...why ask me if I was coming back after work or if you were going to see me again...or get mad when I left. Lies and games seems to me.

So op you don't want him anymore?

Why is this post than?

Posted by Amethysst

Posted by Bottabing
There was no chemistry ... There has to be chemistry there with a Scorpio ... If not its just a buss

I think this is the purpose behind all his weird behavior.

:/

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Yes I think so now too.

Posted by Gemitati
So op you don't want him anymore?

Why is this post than?

The thread was made before it was over. I wanted some logical opinions on the sex thing.

Posted by CR19

Posted by Gemitati
So op you don't want him anymore?

Why is this post than?

The thread was made before it was over. I wanted some logical opinions on the sex thing.

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Oh. Make sense now. I didn't know Scorp can be mean like that. Good luck next time!

It was waaaaaay different before the emotional roller coaster it became. But no, no next time for me. I've learned my lesson the hard way lol

Posted by femme
lol

This.

Posted by MagicMona
he sucks in bed and has a bad attitude on top of it? i'd leave this trash alone.

And this.

Girl I dated a Scorpio man for 2 years and they are just not passionate lovers. He was my first so I didn't know any better. But I hooked up with him years later after a breakup and was kinda disgusted by his awkwardness and lack of intamacy. We hung out for hours and somehow the act still seemed rushed. It seemed like he was acting out a porn flick or play; disconnected somehow. I definitely told him but it made him want to "try again". Never in this life.

But my Scorpio friend and her Scorpio man went years having sex without kissing. Made children like that. So maybe they just don't need all of the passion. They'll even have sex and not talk to each other when they're mad. (I've done that too but we weren't mad after; they'll still hate each other.)

I dk man. Not for this bull.

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Posted by Diddybop
Girl I dated a Scorpio man for 2 years and they are just not passionate lovers. He was my first so I didn't know any better. But I hooked up with him years later after a breakup and was kinda disgusted by his awkwardness and lack of intamacy. We hung out for hours and somehow the act still seemed rushed. It seemed like he was acting out a porn flick or play; disconnected somehow. I definitely told him but it made him want to "try again". Never in this life.

But my Scorpio friend and her Scorpio man went years having sex without kissing. Made children like that. So maybe they just don't need all of the passion. They'll even have sex and not talk to each other when they're mad. (I've done that too but we weren't mad after; they'll still hate each other.)

I dk man. Not for this bull.

This was so weird to read, it blew my mind.. the Scorpio I was with would freak out on me if I didn't kiss him back. He craved my touch.. now I just hate him. I got a fire burning in my heart and not a good one. ?

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I'm a kisser too so my friend not kissing her man really weirded me out too. But in my case we kissed but he was talking really dirty during and didn't seem to feel that I was turned off. It was not a sexy experience.

Why do u hate him though? I hate mine but don't know how to explain why to him without sounding like a victim. Which isn't really how I feel. I think he's a bad guy in general lol ?

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Posted by Diddybop
Girl I dated a Scorpio man for 2 years and they are just not passionate lovers. He was my first so I didn't know any better. But I hooked up with him years later after a breakup and was kinda disgusted by his awkwardness and lack of intamacy. We hung out for hours and somehow the act still seemed rushed. It seemed like he was acting out a porn flick or play; disconnected somehow. I definitely told him but it made him want to "try again". Never in this life.

But my Scorpio friend and her Scorpio man went years having sex without kissing. Made children like that. So maybe they just don't need all of the passion. They'll even have sex and not talk to each other when they're mad. (I've done that too but we weren't mad after; they'll still hate each other.)

I dk man. Not for this bull.

This was so weird to read, it blew my mind.. the Scorpio I was with would freak out on me if I didn't kiss him back. He craved my touch.. now I just hate him. I got a fire burning in my heart and not a good one. ?

I'm a kisser too so my friend not kissing her man really weirded me out too. But in my case we kissed but he was talking really dirty during and didn't seem to feel that I was turned off. It was not a sexy experience.

Why do u hate him though? I hate mine but don't know how to explain why to him without sounding like a victim. Which isn't really how I feel. I think he's a bad guy in general lol ?

If I could create a timeline of all the asshole stupid shit he's done throughout almost a decade to make me hate him.. it would be a novel by now. My love is so unconditional towards him that I was willing to put myself out there for his wellbeing..He doesn't deserve a woman like me I deserve better. I want to pour out my heart and devotion to a guy who's willing to take it in and maybe reciprocate it somehow.. I have so much love to give it's sad.

I hate being on my knees for a selfish man as himself. There's no one to blame but me..

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Well there's still victory in dodging a bullet. You could have stayed and resented him and become bitter so there's that. Having a lot of love to give is good. Not sad.

I just found out that this Scorpio has been married with children for 3 years while he's been trying to get another chance with me. Sometimes it's best to just stay away especially when someone isn't good for u. Regardless of their words.

I always make it good, intentionally or unintentionally.

It's not possible for Scorpios to be bad at sex

Lol

I'm looking forward to getting it on with my New Scorp man...

To the Op he didn't want to kiss because he was busy giving it to you..if you want to make love date a nice Taurus man.

You talk like a total slut, maybe he thought that is what you wanted?

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Posted by CR19
Lol...it was awkward. The interest and attraction was there but it was rushed and I have to say he probably was exhausted as he was running around a lot but it just wasn't as passionate or kinky as I had expected or been lead to believe it would be. He did apologize. Just wasn't sure if it was something else...he got off, I did not and I did tell him right away in a gentle manner. I didn't make a big deal of it but he knew I was disappointed and since then he's been very hot and cold. Unsure what to think.

Maybe he was nervous?

Maybe he's now embarrassed?

Scorps are more "Romantic" than "sexual" IMO.

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lol I don't know about that.