Silent Scorpio (Page 2)

Posted by nikkistar
Bruh, it's been a month. Why the fuck should it bother you what he does anymore? You looking crazy as all hell right now, still obsessing about this.

Stop using girl logic, and say "fuck it". You gonna let some dude you haven't talked to in a month dictate how you act just because you are going to the same party? Fuck that.

Look as hot as possible, and ignore him back.

I don't go around thinking about it every day, trust me, but it's not just some dude - it was one of my closest friends for over 20 years. Of course it bothers me, though I know you're right as well - at some point you must just say 'fuck it' and be done completely.

Posted by vesper
he blocked you?

hmm that's odd why would he do that? are you sure that there's nothing wrong between the two of you

Well, I can't for the life of me figure out what it is and nobody else seems to know either.

It's not really a consolation but he did block another friend out of the blue recently and this friend don't know what they did either..

If you are worried about him, drop him a note saying "i hope you are okay, i am here if you want to talk" and then leave it. At least then, you have extended a hand in friendship

How can you have any kind of relationship with a man that doesn't talk to you?

Go live your life

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My heart has broken into a thousand pieces.

My silent Scorpio friend who disappeared from me is now dead. It is ruled to be an accident, but I am not so sure. I have a strange feeling it's related to his depression, but I don't know.

I'm still in shock and denial and have a strange sense of guilt that I couldn't be there for him for the last part of his life.

Is there anyone slightly.. psychic out there? I'm grasping for hay straws, I know that. But everything feels so damn inconclusive for me. I'm desperately looking for answers. 😢

Posted by jpx
My heart has broken into a thousand pieces.

My silent Scorpio friend who disappeared from me is now dead. It is ruled to be an accident, but I am not so sure. I have a strange feeling it's related to his depression, but I don't know.

I'm still in shock and denial and have a strange sense of guilt that I couldn't be there for him for the last part of his life.

Is there anyone slightly.. psychic out there? I'm grasping for hay straws, I know that. But everything feels so damn inconclusive for me. I'm desperately looking for answers. 😢

My heart is broken for you.

It wasn't your fault. It wasn't anything you did, or didn't do...and don't think for a minute that you didn't matter...

Love and prayers to you.

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Yes if you dress sexy he'll give in.

Will texting naked work?

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Yes if you dress sexy he'll give in.

Will texting naked work?

Lol I was just being stupid lol

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So you cool now? Smart and all?

What a few months can do to a person!

Posted by jpx
Is there even a way to snap a Scorpio out of silent treatment? We're not talking days here - we're talking months, and it's the first time they ever did this, at least to me. I have literally no idea what I have done, and no one else seems to know either.

Are they having a mental breakdown?

Posted by jpx
My heart has broken into a thousand pieces.

My silent Scorpio friend who disappeared from me is now dead. It is ruled to be an accident, but I am not so sure. I have a strange feeling it's related to his depression, but I don't know.

I'm still in shock and denial and have a strange sense of guilt that I couldn't be there for him for the last part of his life.

Is there anyone slightly.. psychic out there? I'm grasping for hay straws, I know that. But everything feels so damn inconclusive for me. I'm desperately looking for answers. 😢

Oh hunny 😢

I'm so so so sorry.

Virgos (and some people in general) need closure. Crave it. I'm so sorry he left without giving you at least an inch of that. I hate that your left wondering bc I know your mind will be overthinking and creating ideas that may not be true. But you don't know that, none of us do.

I'm so sorry ):

Posted by jpx
My heart has broken into a thousand pieces.

My silent Scorpio friend who disappeared from me is now dead. It is ruled to be an accident, but I am not so sure. I have a strange feeling it's related to his depression, but I don't know.

I'm still in shock and denial and have a strange sense of guilt that I couldn't be there for him for the last part of his life.

Is there anyone slightly.. psychic out there? I'm grasping for hay straws, I know that. But everything feels so damn inconclusive for me. I'm desperately looking for answers. 😢

I'm so sorry to see this outcome. Please don't feel guilty. It wasn't your fault.

What makes you doubt it was an accident? We're the circumstances suspicious?

People need to read the OP's update post before commenting ffs.

This is so sad. So your Scorpio friend is dead now? Well maybe you got the answer you were looking for about why he went silent. ☹️

Scorpio can definitely go silent when they are on the downward spiral. Some never get out of it or it takes them a long time. Sometimes when a Scorpio finds himself swimming in the murky black waters we find ourselves in from time to time it starts to feel comfortable and they live there. It's not pretty.

The key is to recognize the process and to spiral up. The whole Phoenix thing. Come into a better place on the flip side but some of our brethren can't do that.

It's been a tough couple years for the Scorpio. Most of us have been living on reserves. I'm just now starting to feel lighter times. There has been some deep stink going on in the Scorpio sector.

Sorry to hear about your friend.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Posted by jpx
My heart has broken into a thousand pieces.

My silent Scorpio friend who disappeared from me is now dead. It is ruled to be an accident, but I am not so sure. I have a strange feeling it's related to his depression, but I don't know.

I'm still in shock and denial and have a strange sense of guilt that I couldn't be there for him for the last part of his life.

Is there anyone slightly.. psychic out there? I'm grasping for hay straws, I know that. But everything feels so damn inconclusive for me. I'm desperately looking for answers. 😢

I'm psychic ... Let go of the guilt in any way... He wouldn't want that.... Trust he knows your heart and intentions now between you and him both .... He is at peace love.... Rest your mind and allow yourself to cry and heal.... Please know if you need him... He is available to talk to if you are open... But in order to open your channels healing must take place... Accept your part in your relationship with him that you had in this world ... Trust he already has and has no resentments towards you... The guilt that you feel is self imposed .... I will send angelic protection to you and to those affected by his transition ... It's never easy losing someone when you didn't have some form of closure .... But now you can... Just allow the tears to flow... Also if you need any assistance ... Your angels are there to assist .... Just ask... Be mindful of your dreams and of scents ... Anything that may remind you of him... It's his way of trying to communicate ... When we transition over it's hard to communicate with people still living in the physical realm.... They don't want to scare you so they come to you in gentle ways ... Like numbers ... Dreams... Music.. Feathers .... Messages come to you... Be open.... Sending healing love and light your way...

Posted by TaureanVirgo

Posted by jpx
My heart has broken into a thousand pieces.

My silent Scorpio friend who disappeared from me is now dead. It is ruled to be an accident, but I am not so sure. I have a strange feeling it's related to his depression, but I don't know.

I'm still in shock and denial and have a strange sense of guilt that I couldn't be there for him for the last part of his life.

Is there anyone slightly.. psychic out there? I'm grasping for hay straws, I know that. But everything feels so damn inconclusive for me. I'm desperately looking for answers. 😢

My heart is broken for you.

It wasn't your fault. It wasn't anything you did, or didn't do...and don't think for a minute that you didn't matter...

Love and prayers to you.

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Thank you for your kind reply

Posted by TaureanVirgo

Posted by jpx
My heart has broken into a thousand pieces.

My silent Scorpio friend who disappeared from me is now dead. It is ruled to be an accident, but I am not so sure. I have a strange feeling it's related to his depression, but I don't know.

I'm still in shock and denial and have a strange sense of guilt that I couldn't be there for him for the last part of his life.

Is there anyone slightly.. psychic out there? I'm grasping for hay straws, I know that. But everything feels so damn inconclusive for me. I'm desperately looking for answers. 😢

My heart is broken for you.

It wasn't your fault. It wasn't anything you did, or didn't do...and don't think for a minute that you didn't matter...

Love and prayers to you.

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Seems the rest of my reply to you didn't quite make it...

We had over 20 years of beautiful friendship, it hurt me a lot when he would just block me out without an explanation, so I felt I must have done something really bad.

He did reply to one of the last texts I sent him, and he said he was "not mad anymore" and that we would talk later. That day never came. I know I tried reaching out to him and he still wouldn't work it out with me but it's hard to shake off the guilt that I should have tried harder or have been a better friend somehow 😢

Posted by LittleFairy

Posted by jpx
Is there even a way to snap a Scorpio out of silent treatment? We're not talking days here - we're talking months, and it's the first time they ever did this, at least to me. I have literally no idea what I have done, and no one else seems to know either.

Are they having a mental breakdown?

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I think so, a lot of things went "wrong" for him the past year, there was a lot of hardship for him to deal with at once and he was very neurotic to start with. He isolated himself but lately he seemed to have been a bit more cheerful and he was out with a few friends two weeks before his death. But yeah, everyone around him knew he was depressed and a bit "down on his luck" 😢

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by jpx
My heart has broken into a thousand pieces.

My silent Scorpio friend who disappeared from me is now dead. It is ruled to be an accident, but I am not so sure. I have a strange feeling it's related to his depression, but I don't know.

I'm still in shock and denial and have a strange sense of guilt that I couldn't be there for him for the last part of his life.

Is there anyone slightly.. psychic out there? I'm grasping for hay straws, I know that. But everything feels so damn inconclusive for me. I'm desperately looking for answers. 😢

Oh hunny 😢

I'm so so so sorry.

Virgos (and some people in general) need closure. Crave it. I'm so sorry he left without giving you at least an inch of that. I hate that your left wondering bc I know your mind will be overthinking and creating ideas that may not be true. But you don't know that, none of us do.

I'm so sorry ):

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Thank you

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by jpx
My heart has broken into a thousand pieces.

My silent Scorpio friend who disappeared from me is now dead. It is ruled to be an accident, but I am not so sure. I have a strange feeling it's related to his depression, but I don't know.

I'm still in shock and denial and have a strange sense of guilt that I couldn't be there for him for the last part of his life.

Is there anyone slightly.. psychic out there? I'm grasping for hay straws, I know that. But everything feels so damn inconclusive for me. I'm desperately looking for answers. 😢

Oh hunny 😢

I'm so so so sorry.

Virgos (and some people in general) need closure. Crave it. I'm so sorry he left without giving you at least an inch of that. I hate that your left wondering bc I know your mind will be overthinking and creating ideas that may not be true. But you don't know that, none of us do.

I'm so sorry ):

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Yeah, it's driving me crazy to say the least. The way he left us.. the way he died, even that is inconclusive and even his family are feeling doubtful about it. I hope we will get some answers soon, the police are investing this very thoroughly which is good. But I know that we may also never find out what happened or what went on his mind, nobody seems to know, not even his family. 😢

Posted by Deedee86

Posted by jpx
My heart has broken into a thousand pieces.

My silent Scorpio friend who disappeared from me is now dead. It is ruled to be an accident, but I am not so sure. I have a strange feeling it's related to his depression, but I don't know.

I'm still in shock and denial and have a strange sense of guilt that I couldn't be there for him for the last part of his life.

Is there anyone slightly.. psychic out there? I'm grasping for hay straws, I know that. But everything feels so damn inconclusive for me. I'm desperately looking for answers. 😢

I'm so sorry to see this outcome. Please don't feel guilty. It wasn't your fault.

What makes you doubt it was an accident? We're the circumstances suspicious?

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Yes.. he died from a fall accident, but he had been around that place millions of times, even as a child he knew his way around there. He had told nobody that he was up there, nobody knew where he was. His family told me he had a tendency to do that lately, disappear for long walks and not tell anyone where he was going and stuff like that.

The last thing he posted on social media was a song with the lyrics "this is the last time I see you", which a lot of us have found very disturbing. It might just be an accident and that his depression and that song choice are just odd circumstances but.. it just feels so weird.

Posted by ScorpFemme
This is so sad. So your Scorpio friend is dead now? Well maybe you got the answer you were looking for about why he went silent. ☹️

Scorpio can definitely go silent when they are on the downward spiral. Some never get out of it or it takes them a long time. Sometimes when a Scorpio finds himself swimming in the murky black waters we find ourselves in from time to time it starts to feel comfortable and they live there. It's not pretty.

The key is to recognize the process and to spiral up. The whole Phoenix thing. Come into a better place on the flip side but some of our brethren can't do that.

It's been a tough couple years for the Scorpio. Most of us have been living on reserves. I'm just now starting to feel lighter times. There has been some deep stink going on in the Scorpio sector.

Sorry to hear about your friend.

Thank you for your kind reply.

You are very right, my friend had a rough couple of years, starting four years ago I think. A lot of things in life went "wrong" and he was confused about most areas of life as well.

We were both slightly anxiety ridden people (I have Scorp moon) but I have learned to let things go whereas I felt like my Scorp Sun friend would cling on to negative things that happened and sometimes was very resentful and bitter about things that happened to him. He isolated himself, in order to protect himself from that happening again. The hard Scorpio shell.

He was an extreme person. It was either 100% good or 100% bad with him. The downside with that was that he, like you said, would be stuck inside his own feelings with no way out.

What happened is ruled as an accident but every single one of his friends are doubting it, and two of them even said: "I had a bad feeling about this".

I can't even explain how sad I am about this. He was a good, good person. He didn't deserve to go out like this. He deserved a nice life, a nice and calm life away from stress. 😢

Posted by Wineaux15
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Thank you. Still in shock 😢

Posted by Bottabing

Posted by jpx
My heart has broken into a thousand pieces.

My silent Scorpio friend who disappeared from me is now dead. It is ruled to be an accident, but I am not so sure. I have a strange feeling it's related to his depression, but I don't know.

I'm still in shock and denial and have a strange sense of guilt that I couldn't be there for him for the last part of his life.

Is there anyone slightly.. psychic out there? I'm grasping for hay straws, I know that. But everything feels so damn inconclusive for me. I'm desperately looking for answers. 😢

I'm psychic ... Let go of the guilt in any way... He wouldn't want that.... Trust he knows your heart and intentions now between you and him both .... He is at peace love.... Rest your mind and allow yourself to cry and heal.... Please know if you need him... He is available to talk to if you are open... But in order to open your channels healing must take place... Accept your part in your relationship with him that you had in this world ... Trust he already has and has no resentments towards you... The guilt that you feel is self imposed .... I will send angelic protection to you and to those affected by his transition ... It's never easy losing someone when you didn't have some form of closure .... But now you can... Just allow the tears to flow... Also if you need any assistance ... Your angels are there to assist .... Just ask... Be mindful of your dreams and of scents ... Anything that may remind you of him... It's his way of trying to communicate ... When we transition over it's hard to communicate with people still living in the physical realm.... They don't want to scare you so they come to you in gentle ways ... Like numbers ... Dreams... Music.. Feathers .... Messages come to you... Be open.... Sending healing love and light your way...

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Thank you, this almost makes me cry reading it.

I have a hard time being spiritual I guess, but I want to reach him in any way that I can to let him know that I'm so sorry for whatever way I hurt him. I never meant to. He was a wonderful guy who made everyone smile, the funniest person I ever knew. He did not deserve this 😢

Can you feel if this was an accident or not? Did he want to leave life behind? Is he better now, at peace? 😢

Posted by Scorpio123
Wow! Sorry for your loss.

Thank you. I'm still in such shock, there has not gone a day by that I haven't cried. 😢

Posted by jpx

Posted by Bottabing

Posted by jpx
My heart has broken into a thousand pieces.

My silent Scorpio friend who disappeared from me is now dead. It is ruled to be an accident, but I am not so sure. I have a strange feeling it's related to his depression, but I don't know.

I'm still in shock and denial and have a strange sense of guilt that I couldn't be there for him for the last part of his life.

Is there anyone slightly.. psychic out there? I'm grasping for hay straws, I know that. But everything feels so damn inconclusive for me. I'm desperately looking for answers. 😢

I'm psychic ... Let go of the guilt in any way... He wouldn't want that.... Trust he knows your heart and intentions now between you and him both .... He is at peace love.... Rest your mind and allow yourself to cry and heal.... Please know if you need him... He is available to talk to if you are open... But in order to open your channels healing must take place... Accept your part in your relationship with him that you had in this world ... Trust he already has and has no resentments towards you... The guilt that you feel is self imposed .... I will send angelic protection to you and to those affected by his transition ... It's never easy losing someone when you didn't have some form of closure .... But now you can... Just allow the tears to flow... Also if you need any assistance ... Your angels are there to assist .... Just ask... Be mindful of your dreams and of scents ... Anything that may remind you of him... It's his way of trying to communicate ... When we transition over it's hard to communicate with people still living in the physical realm.... They don't want to scare you so they come to you in gentle ways ... Like numbers ... Dreams... Music.. Feathers .... Messages come to you... Be open.... Sending healing love and light your way...

Thank you, this almost makes me cry reading it.

I have a hard time being spiritual I guess, but I want to reach him in any way that I can to let him know that I'm so sorry for whatever way I hurt him. I never meant to. He was a wonderful guy who made everyone smile, the funniest person I ever knew. He did not deserve this 😢

Can you feel if this was an accident or not? Did he want to leave life behind? Is he better now, at peace? 😢

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Nothing is an accident .... It was his time love and he is fine now... Any death on this earth is never an accident ... And hell yes he is much better now... Open up and talk to him... Through your heart ... Pay attention to your dreams in the next coming weeks... Understand he is at peace love .... Keep healing...

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Posted by Scorpio123
Wow! Sorry for your loss.

Thank you. I'm still in such shock, there has not gone a day by that I haven't cried. 😢

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Crying opens your channels... Please heal and mourn... You do not want to hold on to those emotions ... It will actually take a toll on ya... Release and be open to what you see... Sorry hun this is Only way to contact other realms... When we experience heart ache it's to open you up... Your heart chakra the only way to connect to source ... Despite what society has taught ... Enlightment comes from experiencing that tug at your heart ...