The Scorpio Sting!

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I'm sure my guy can go longer than that. When we first met we argued a lot .. Smh he is a control freak... We would stop talking for a week.. Or even a Month.. I remember one time I thought I was annoying him or something like that.. And he said flat out.. If I didn't want to speak to you I would just block you... And this was in the beginning..So it makes nervous that he actually blocked me. Smh I know it has to do with another woman too.. And I don't care if he wants to be with her or whatever.. It's just something abt being blocks. It's crushing 😢
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I've been blocked before..by a couple of males I've dated.. I'm an Aries.. We go hard! And you take the last word.. But they always unblock. I was just afraid with scorpios.. Because they can't easily bury you and never look back.

Ps lol it's not real love unless you've been blocked before. Lol
For us to never look back, you would have to have done something incredibly over the line.

Don't worry your head, just do your own thing. He'll come around if he's meant to.
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Thank you... What if I contacted the woman I think he is talking to now.. And told her his game.. Yikes lol is that something to block me on forever... I'm not sure if he knows... I did this after he blocked me.. He blocked me when I told him that I hope he lives in bliss with his new friend and that he is a jerk for ditching me .. And I noticed the new girl.. Then he took down a turtle emoji from his ig bio (that was my pet name for him) and he blocked me
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I've been blocked before..by a couple of males I've dated.. I'm an Aries.. We go hard! And you take the last word.. But they always unblock. I was just afraid with scorpios.. Because they can't easily bury you and never look back.

Ps lol it's not real love unless you've been blocked before. Lol
For us to never look back, you would have to have done something incredibly over the line.

Don't worry your head, just do your own thing. He'll come around if he's meant to.
Thank you... What if I contacted the woman I think he is talking to now.. And told her his game.. Yikes lol is that something to block me on forever... I'm not sure if he knows... I did this after he blocked me.. He blocked me when I told him that I hope he lives in bliss with his new friend and that he is a jerk for ditching me .. And I noticed the new girl.. Then he took down a turtle emoji from his ig bio (that was my pet name for him) and he blocked me
If you're unsure about him cheating on you with someone else, he will be highly offended. I definitely would. Especially if he's showing you that he's yours, and you still question his loyalty to you and in fact embarass him by reaching out to someone about him, making him look like a sleazy person when he's not.

Jealousy and having a leash on us is cute, but keep it between you and us scorps. Over the edge possessiveness and trying to control who we can and cannot be with, is not. Getting others involved in our affairs is as bad as it gets.

I would be livid.
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We were never in a relationship... But we've been connected to each other for almost a year... What I said kind of makes me sound horrible.. But I'm not... He was all into me.. Starting to get close.. Then randomly.. He pulled away and I noticed this new girl follow his ig.. And there was back and forth liking a bunch of each other's pic... Then he stop texting me.. And wouldn't respond to anything from me.. Almost like I've been replaced.. Just flat out like that.. Then he put up some quote abt finally feeling like you met the right person and his caption was "falling for you" 6-1-16.. He clearly wasn't talking abt me.. He hadn't responded to me in two days.. And the new girl liked that post and I think she reposted it. So it's clear they are talking now or whatever they are calling it. When I noticed this.. I told him how horrible he was for dropping me after meeting someone for only a week and now he is madly in love..that's when he blocked me. W
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Posted by DollyLuxe
I'm dating a Scorp. He blocked me on Facebook once just because I asked a goddamn personal question. So I blocked him everywhere else. A week later, he begged me to take him back. As long as it's not infidelity, he'll come around. Be tough! Don't give him the reaction he wanted to see. He'll be annoyed if he sees you're not even affected by any of this.
Why would a healthy person want to be with a person who manipulates emotions in such a way?
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How long is enough time?
The longest would be two weeks for mine. But that was when we were a month into dating. It doesn't happen often these days but when we do fight and he gives me the silent treatment, usually it would be 3-4 days. I'd wake up to a bunch of messages and voicemails and videos and other stuff lol.
Finally a woman who understands.

Never chase a Scorp man.
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I don't chase him... Just curious.. Is 1 month to 3 months health for a Scorpio man to disappear. And if you read my comments above (I explained the story) do you think he will keep me blocked forever. I feel he won't. I hope I'm not "feeling" my hopes and dreams.
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Hm I just replied to your other thread it's that bad another thread was created of same guy asking if water and fire signs get along. So what do you think you could try next since this isn't working out I'm sorry though.
I was just curious in general.. I love Scorpio .. I just would like one that could match with me. Lol whatever if it never happens.. I have some good interesting memories 🙂
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Posted by DollyLuxe
I'm dating a Scorp. He blocked me on Facebook once just because I asked a goddamn personal question. So I blocked him everywhere else. A week later, he begged me to take him back. As long as it's not infidelity, he'll come around. Be tough! Don't give him the reaction he wanted to see. He'll be annoyed if he sees you're not even affected by any of this.
Why would a healthy person want to be with a person who manipulates emotions in such a way?
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My question as well....
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My Scorpio sister blocked me on social media because I was late to a picnic. She did this because she viewed my being late as a lack of control on her side--she's like an a Emperor in control of every situation. This pissed her off so much that I think she blocked me so she didn't explode in irrational rage at me. Personally, I thought it was ridiculous but looking back she was going through several problems that she wasn't telling anyone. I once read that Scorpios can sometimes take their problems out on the wrong people. Didn't want to believe it but maybe it's true.

In the end, I didn't talk to my sister for 6 months when she finally came back with an "apology ". We are now closer than ever.
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Posted by BrightLight
My Scorpio sister blocked me on social media because I was late to a picnic. She did this because she viewed my being late as a lack of control on her side--she's like an a Emperor in control of every situation. This pissed her off so much that I think she blocked me so she didn't explode in irrational rage at me. Personally, I thought it was ridiculous but looking back she was going through several problems that she wasn't telling anyone. I once read that Scorpios can sometimes take their problems out on the wrong people. Didn't want to believe it but maybe it's true.

In the end, I didn't talk to my sister for 6 months when she finally came back with an "apology ". We are now closer than ever.
So basically scorpios block people something for pure pettiness. Hmm I've been blocked before by a Scorpio.. Lol because he wouldnt respond to my text.. So I called him like 30 times within abt 3 min span.. He was pissed.. And serves him right for being a jerk.. I'm probably just a crazy Aries. But they can't block me forever.. Because I've imprinted on their brain very well. So that Scorpio.. Eventually unblocked me.. I know this one will. But I think I'm going to just move on.. I've had enough abuse.. I'm way too nice of a person.. To have to deal with his cold treatments to me.. I feel like he is low key mental abuse and manipulative. So I will keep him my prays.. If it's meant to be.. Then I guess it will be. Right?
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You didn't read that right. Not pettiness. Controlling anger. Also unseen factors. Please reread what I said. Listen. Don't make snap judgements Aries.
I totally read everything you wrote.. And like I said it was pure pettiness. If you like to call it controlling angry. I understand that point too. Let's not get wild abt it tho. Thanks for your comment.
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Lmao
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Posted by kitkatms
If a male Scorpio blocks your number and social media. Is he done forever? Or is there a chance he will hit you up again?
Here's my question, if he blocked you, why are you taking your time to contemplate a reconnection? Why arn't you pulling on your inner self respect and shrug with a "Bye Felicia" attitude?

For fuck's sake, there are 7 billion people on planet Earth. If he ever contacts you again just tell him that instead of being a crying pussy and using technology to ignore someone; that your balls have already dropped and you have no issues telling him to take a plunge into cold reality and hunt down someone else to play head games with.


Seriously, fuck that shit, the moment a guy tries to mess with my head is the second I take a figurative hammer to his balls.

JFC.
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If a male Scorpio blocks your number and social media. Is he done forever? Or is there a chance he will hit you up again?
Here's my question, if he blocked you, why are you taking your time to contemplate a reconnection? Why arn't you pulling on your inner self respect and shrug with a "Bye Felicia" attitude?

For fuck's sake, there are 7 billion people on planet Earth. If he ever contacts you again just tell him that instead of being a crying pussy and using technology to ignore someone; that your balls have already dropped and you have no issues telling him to take a plunge into cold reality and hunt down someone else to play head games with.


Seriously, fuck that shit, the moment a guy tries to mess with my head is the second I take a figurative hammer to his balls.

JFC.
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Thanks.. I working on this way of doing things.

What does JFC mean?
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Posted by Ellycakes
No sting.

You both just sound immature. Him for multiple counts of shadiness. You for pushing the envelope and getting involved where you have no business to when you should have just walked away with dignity.

Just leave him alone and go find someone who won't fuck with your head. Oh and don't contact any of the new persons former or potential current/future interests lol.
I hear you! I felt ridiculous immediately afterwards. Just wanted to hurt him like he hurt me. Wasn't worth it. Lesson learned.