what does this scorpio want from me? I really like him but I dont know whats going on

This is going to be a long one so hold on to your seats, guys. In the beginning of the year my friends and I went to Chicago on a trip where we met up with a guy who was a mentor of one of our friends. He lived in Chicago because he is in med school but he lives in Los Angeles. We meet up with him and he takes us out to dinner. He orders a few appetizers and my friend expresses that she does not like one of them because it has tomatoes. He had a disappointed look on his face which I realized so I jumped in and said that everything was pretty good. I could not stand that he was being so generous and she was being insensitive. I think he felt good after that so he ordered another appetizer which no one ate but him(I was really full and could not eat a bite) I still initiated that we all take one but no one did..I said "I feel bad that you ordered it and no one ate)... Fast forward he takes us to a bar and we order drinks. I get a Moscow mule and he says that I made an excellent choice.. we all talk for a while and my friend asks him how old he is and he says he is 32. AND I reply but you don't look 32 and he says well if I don't shave I look old because I have white hair and I say ya that's not because youre its because youre stressed. Then with a half grin he looks at me and says.. youre my type of girl, from the appetizers, to the Moscow mule, and then he looked at me and couldn't say anything.. kind of speechless..then in june when he came to visit L.A the 3 of us met up and he was so confident chit chatting it up and as soon as my friend left to go to the restroom he was tongue tied and didn't know what to say and when he did start talking he did so in a calm/low voice. I have realized that he has been testing me...never had I liked another guys picture on fb, he would send me fake friends requests from other guys and see if I would accept and then one day I got mad and I did and he went ballistic! He went on a rampage liking all these girls photos..tagging that he was out on dates, etc, but I always feel like I am on a roller coaster with this guy...what does all this mean? Does he like me or is he just friendly?

I just wish he could communicate to me how he is feeling. I don't know if he is not expressing anything because he is so far away and doesn't want the long distance relationship thing or if he doesn't want a relationship at all. That is where I am left clueless.

Posted by Caprigoat
I have realized that he has been testing me...never had I liked another guys picture on fb, he would send me fake friends requests from other guys and see if I would accept and then one day I got mad and I did and he went ballistic! He went on a rampage liking all these girls photos..tagging that he was out on dates, etc, but I always feel like I am on a roller coaster with this guy...what does all this mean? Does he like me or is he just friendly?

He likes u or not thats another thing but i do not understand from your post what is the issue here ?

Did u assume that he had been sending u fake friend request ? or did he tell u ?

He may like you but arnt you just still friends . Liking others pics is normal whats the big deal ?

Posted by Caprigoat
I just wish he could communicate to me how he is feeling. I don't know if he is not expressing anything because he is so far away and doesn't want the long distance relationship thing or if he doesn't want a relationship at all. That is where I am left clueless.

I have had a bad bad experience with a scorp guy ages back. Too many mind games . So dont even try . If something has to happen it will happen .

and for everything else there's mastercard

The fake friend request strikes me as odd? Who does that?

Who does fake friends? Hi my name is Casper the friendly ghost. Creepy.

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Posted by Deedee86
The fake friend request strikes me as odd? Who does that?

That bit made me wanna roll my eyes sooooooo hard!

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Some people take fb way too seriously. I had an aunt (60 years old) unfriend me once over something really petty. I guess I liked the wrong thing. I didn't even know she was mad and I didn't even notice that she unfriended me until several months later. I just called her and said "really?" .

She had been stewing all that time.

duh he likes you.

who the hell goes ape shit over someone adding someone else on fb if they don't like you?

just ask yourself that.

the fake friend request thing...that is not my type of guy. this dude sounds like he has a scorpio moon too. definitely a scorpio stellium. what else is in his chart?

i mean someone has to like these guys so if you're into that you might as well just tell him you're sorry about accepting the friend request, but if you're scared of his behavior now i advise you to leave while you can.

dated a guy like this...but he was a scorpio moon. toxic. i'd never fuck w that again.

not saying all scorpio moons are toxic...some are more evolved than others...but the ones who aren't...look out.

At first it was subtle it started with one request a day which I wouldn't accept the request but I would not delete it either. Then when I got mad and I liked one of the pictures of the requested person is when I noticed that he went mad, changing his profile picture of him and two hockey girls (which is an old picture may I add)when he had not done that before. I ignored this whole charade for a few days and when he put a status, I acknowledged it pretending like I was not bothered by the drama he created over the weekend. An hour later I get a friend request which I delete..and then I get another one the next day which I delete again. This would not be as weird but I literally never get friend requests from random people, especially not from random states. If I do it is from people who are friends of acquaintances or people that live in my city.

Could be true, and ya you are right I am watching him pretty closely. I should probably back off and see what happens. Thanks 🙂

Likes you but pretty ridic/unstable behaviour.

one thing I know is he does not want me to know how he feels, that is why he is testing me. I guess I just have to wait it out. There's still 8 months until he is officially back 😢

He just sounds a bit odd but he's a Scorp, we do odd things. Some think it's cute. Others think it's psycho. Meh. Just ignore him, that will really wind him up. Only joking. I think he definitely has a heavy Scorp chart in there. Carry on with your life and if he's about in eight months time and in a position to ask you out then take it from there. If not then it doesn't matter.

Posted by Caprigoat
At first it was subtle it started with one request a day which I wouldn't accept the request but I would not delete it either. Then when I got mad and I liked one of the pictures of the requested person is when I noticed that he went mad, changing his profile picture of him and two hockey girls (which is an old picture may I add)when he had not done that before. I ignored this whole charade for a few days and when he put a status, I acknowledged it pretending like I was not bothered by the drama he created over the weekend. An hour later I get a friend request which I delete..and then I get another one the next day which I delete again. This would not be as weird but I literally never get friend requests from random people, especially not from random states. If I do it is from people who are friends of acquaintances or people that live in my city.

Let me share a story with you. Many years back some one added me on gmail chat. The user id had my name in it. I added it as i had a friend with same name as mine so i assumed its her id and she had send me a request. When i started talking i realised its not her. The person started telling me that he likes me and all. I immediately thought its a prank by some friend. It went on for many days and eventually i got sure its not any prank. I knew it was someone i know as he told many things about me . Now just some time before all this i had joined a new job and met few new people. I did 1+1 and assumed its someone from my new job. Due to some weird coincidences i arrived at a conclusion that its some X person from office. I got irritated with him in my mind and yes my behaviour got weird with him. Ofcourse i did not ask the X person in office directly . However in mails i kept on pushing this random guy to tell me who he is . He did eventually and i was shocked as i could not even have thought that it would be him.

I shared this with you to tell you that NEVER ASSUME . Anything could happen.

I am a married person and no one is playing like me like me not games with me today but i do get 10s of random guys FB requests every other day . FB is open network . If you have decent looks or you are a girl ...guys send you requests . No big deal .