i agree. And I don't really feel safe knowing that I am in control. I must admit I do like to be in control, but I also want to respect what my guys wants. Like if he says I'm too controlive then I will cut back...lol But still I love Taurus's They rock my sox! They like to be conttorlive too so its kinda a plus but we might fight over who has control. When people say possesive and obsessive it seems like a bad thing but its not because when we love something or someone we can't let it go. And lots of guys like to know that they're girl loves them soooo much that she doesnt want to let them go.