What's he up to? (Page 2)

FuckinA said: "It's like why do you even care if it's over?? It doesn't make sense to me why you would bother analyzing someone else's motives unless you weren't over that person, and hoping for more."

I actually wasn't sure I was over him when I read this thread if that is a more firm answer to your question. Remember I said I was trying to go see him this evening. Sorry if my having questions about him bothers you. I won't post anything else.

^Wrote not "read" this thread.

I am a Tauras and I must agree with Ferdy but saying that I am not sure I always understand the Scorp Male , the women yes a little more sane then the male Scorp 🙂
Male scorp : really want is it with you Guys :
1. if you are angry (you ignore the women)
2. If you feel you get to close (you ignore the women)
3. If you have feelings (you run away)

I m a stubborn bitch sometimes but I ve leart to be quiet patient since knowing a scorp male as they are like babies (need a lot of attention) I love scorps but they do act strange. All I can say is put up with him or do a runner now. Why are you putting yourself through this ? they are to many nice fish out there

1. if you are angry (you ignore the women) and sulk....awwww come here you wittle tootsie wootsie....dont sulk...poor wittle baby...ya know mommy loves ya...

2. If you feel you get to close (you ignore the women) and stalk

3. If you have feelings (you run away) then stalk some more

taurashel said: "Why are you putting yourself through this ? they are to many nice fish out there"

I don't see it as putting myself through this. Apparently, I'm a little different. I find comfort in Scorpios when it's just us in the room. Probably a lot of women do this. But, it's amazing to know that with one push of a button (I eye it the whole time we're together but don't touch it until I can't take it anymore) that I can change his entire attitude from sensually romantic to irritated and annoyed. By asking him to own his feelings for me.

I've never met a man I couldn't annoy. I've never met a man I couldn't escape. I've never met a man I couldn't get inside the head of. And I've never met a man that wouldn't come back, no matter what he tells himself and me or how angry I've made him again and again. These men always tend to be Scorpio.

you really are all that with a cherry on a top MsA 🙂

MsA are you and irishlibra dating the same guy...gee you both want to know what's up with the men in your life...why not just ask him?

AgentX said: "you really are all that with a cherry on a top MsA "

Nope, not and grateful for it. I don't envy women whose lives are more exciting. Could you imagine me trying to figure things out? LMAO!

Scorpionlady said: "MsA are you and irishlibra dating the same guy...gee you both want to know what's up with the men in your life...why not just ask him?"

Nope, unfortunately there are many men out here who leave women with questions. It's hard to "get to know someone" when you not allowed enough time, not sure of the right words, or can't find the courage to ask them something without fear of them pulling away. It's the worse part of dating. Knowing the fine lines.

Well part of getting to know someone is communicating. You can't communicate with him properly if you are on DXP getting 7 pages of responses. I know you must be really confused by know..

A dude that goes out for a smoke after sex then disappears is using you. The only thing more obvious would be a ten ton anvil dropped on your noggin.

He will continue to do it if you continue to let him. He thinks you will and that's why he keeps popping into your life when it's convenient for him. Don't fall for the flattery. Scorpio, like all water signs, are consummmate actors. We can convince someone of anything if we want to. Some use this for good, some for bad.

SeaSiren said: "A dude that goes out for a smoke after sex then disappears is using you"

WTF!!! roflmao:::::::::

We were on Instant Messenger when he told me he was going to go smoke and would be back in 5mins. I gave him 30mins and then I signed out. The next time he came online I ignored his IM.

The reason I responded to his picture text Saturday night is because My PBF ended up at a cookout with his family when I asked him to come over to watch a movie with me once I got home from the festival. He agreed to it but later texted me he was at his family's. So, once home I was online doing nothing, get the picture text,think...hmmm... this is a sign.

I start texting with my Scorp/Sag ex and at the time when he said "Invite me", my PBF called and said he had called me three times but it kept going to voicemail, he was 10mins away and his aunt lives 15mins from us so regardless if I was answering that phone or not he was going to show up.

He said that things were mellowing around 10pm and so he decided to come spend a couple of hours with me before he had to go pick up his brother and friend which he told them he would be back at 12:30am and they kept calling and texting starting at 12am. And they knew he was with me and he told them he was spending time with me. So he ended up leaving around 1am.

I don't know what that was about either (ex and PBF's timing), just interesting that the PBF was able to catch me before I hopped in the car. It's like something knew something.

ScorpionLady said: "Well part of getting to know someone is communicating. You can't communicate with him properly if you are on DXP getting 7 pages of responses."

There's no one I need to be communicating with. I responded to the younger Scorp's Myspace msg. Told him I was fine and that his new pics were nice. That's good enough.

The Scorp/Sag ex, haven't heard from him either but I didnt really feed into his "need to see me".

My PBF and I are good to go. I just have to find comfort in getting to know osmeone who wants to get to know me back. I'm so use to men not wanting to lose their freedom and so I feel like I've lost my identity.

"We were on Instant Messenger when he told me he was going to go smoke and would be back in 5mins. I gave him 30mins and then I signed out."

Ooooookay. Yeah, this is all confusing just to read, so I can't imagine living it. CRIKEY! If you're juggling this many men and none of them are fitting the bill, why not lose all of them? Sounds like a whole lotta confusion and drama-rama for nothin.

"My PBF and I are good to go. I just have to find comfort in getting to know osmeone who wants to get to know me back. I'm so use to men not wanting to lose their freedom and so I feel like I've lost my identity."


And you put this info on DXP to get what?

Why would you base your own identity on someone else? Being with someone who doesn't want the same things you do means you are simply taking on the identity they want you to have. The relationship will fail because you're not coming from a real place.

Scorpionlady said: "And you put this info on DXP to get what?"

I don't understand your question.

I was just explaining that there was no one I needed to get off of DXP to talk to.

I don't feel like I lost my identity because a man caused me to. I feel like I've been someone for so long that I forgotten what it's like to have the "good guy" on my team. Instead of opposing energies. That's what I meant by lost identity.

The only one I know anymore is not appropriate for my PBF who in his right mind does not want 6-10 kids. He said that I can do what my mom did which is have 6 and then changed it to 10 kids. It was a joke and if not I'll convince him it's a joke.

Queenscorpio said: "Ms. A you are putting way too much into this cyber fantasy... I think it is enjoyment for him nothing more. For goodness sake!"

Which guy? The Adonis or my Scorp/Sag ex? Cyber fantasy sounds like I'm making it all up in my mind. But, they are coming to me. I'm always the one in the wrong. 😢