Who can go the longest without SEX?

😛 Not me, I feel suicidal right now.

Virgin, eh? Good job, how old are you?

Wonderful Pluto! Wonderful! How did you manage to stay a virgin for so long. I'm waaay off topic. I'm just intrigued is all.

I can go pretty long myself. Maybe even two years.

PM-Are you a deliberate virgin or a coincidental one?

Me. I'm not a virgin, but i wish i were. 25yo.

Like, is it a choice?

I don't feel bad cuz my lovers were people I loved and they loved me, but I still wish I'd had saved it. -26 yrs old

Longest was 2 yrs, and I didn't even miss it! I think I am just irrate about it now, cuz I have a lover and he's not here!!! 😢

If I'm involved with a guy... I enjoy waiting if I have to. Like in an L.D.R. I mean, I enjoy it for what it is... the anticipation can be... whats the word... stimulating? an aphrodisiac! thats it! 🙂

Regardless whether love was experienced with the sex or not. Sometimes it helps to keep your damn legs closed. I say that because I am emotional though. All my partners loved me too. But i swear sometimes i wish i could take it back.

you can be a virgin without choosing to be one.

Some people are born again virgin's...but i got it when you said "Virgin-Virgin" 🙂 i say bravo my dear! Bravo! No diseases, No Pregnancies! Good for you!

"Very good Point Pluto. But I think what Yama slyly meant was that is it because you don't have anyone to date you etc etc.....(shrug)"

No, not exactly.

I meant=was it a conscious choice or was it just the natural course of things.

Why do people always assume the worst?

"you can be a virgin without choosing to be one."

Raises hand...

*poker face*What are you talking about?*/poker face*

There can be a limit to anticipation Creepy!!! lol

Anyways, I like the thot of born again virgin, it allows a new start. 🙂 But I won't do that myself, my scorp is too good. 😛 hehe

Are we playing poker? (confused bullface)

I think I went almost 2 years at one point (definitely by choice.) I'm glad I did, it gave me all kinds of time to figure out what kind of guy I should get involved with. I missed not the sex but the connection felt as a result of having it.

"There can be a limit to anticipation Creepy!!!"

it's all in how you look at it 🙂 and... i have a feeling that deep down, you know you're gonna enjoy how thoroughly you'll ravish him because of the anticipation 😉

oops! im sorry... that probably didnt help. lol

well, i think you should use your angsty energy to plan your attack. 😛 lol i'm serious.

How did this turn into the Virginity times — I thought the topic was How Long someone can go without having sex ...whose already had sex. well, really - it doesnt matter.

This past July 30th marked the 2 yr. mark for me.

YES - i remember the date of the last time i had sex... i remember everything about most of my relationships ESPECIALLY that particular one.

Making Love (which is dif from sex) is a spiritual experience,...
no matter how much people try to water it down.

When you've been hurt.... horniness/urges are an after thought.

Your heart has to heal before it can listen to what your body is saying.

My break-up has left me feeling anxious about everything..so sex means very little to me right now.

But of course i feel a little something when a Shakira or Rihanna video comes on 😉

Oh man, mercury, that's a long time... Do you mean to tell me you don't have any sexual urges? I have a libra friend who's like that, but you are a pisces, don't you feel like something big's missing in your life?

it was 1.5 yrs for me...if you believe all that scorp sex rep stuff then i guess that's a really long time for a scorp but i wasn't seeing anyone seriously during that time so had to do without 🙂

thankfully that's over

scorpoffcharts.....

sex only means as much as the bond that you share with the person.

Great sex just means someone's penis feels good inside someone's vagina.
It's simply putting part A inside part B and having some creative motion
and excitement.


TRUE LOVE MAKING....is mind shatteringly intense.
It's bigger than body parts...
You feel as if you're damn near hovering over the bed (or couch, or whatever).

I don't miss the sex..... cuz the PERSON i as making love to did me so wrong and hurt me in a way that it destroyed part of my willingness to fall in love.

I miss the love that made the love making possible.

That IS the most important thing.


A good sex life is the icing on the cake.

and I love icing, but without cake what would the icing sit on ??

I'm still virgin I can go the longest without sex ^^

I've gone longer than you, ah!

Mercury,

Your point was well taken 🙂 I agree with your distinction and your description of making love. I guess what I was implying before was that love making could be experienced more. If only it wasn't so potentially devastating to experience the most ephemeral thing and then have an experience like what you described.... I am sorry you have been so burned, I definitely can emphathize. Yet, bringing that pain with is just too difficult for then it shuts down one's potential for new experiences. Letting go is a truly awesome power.... I don't do it very well, but when I have it has been truly relieving.

no doubt. letting go.... still workin on that. that's a tuffy - 😉