@Bobbo92
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Why Am I So Desperate Lately?
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Hey Guys,
Lately I have been really desperate for a relationship, I don't know what it is but every girl I see and hang out with I end up hooking up with her and she gets attached. I don't know what to do because I literally have 4 girls right now that I am talking to. Any suggestions?
Thanks,
Bobbo
Must be your Rising.
Tough life, man.
Posted by Damnata
Must be your Rising.Tough life, man.
Can you explain what that means to me?
Rising Leo
You should have a lot of charm.
Then again you have a Scorpio Moon so..a brooding kind of charm?
Is 92 your Bday year? If so, you're still young. Dating helps you learn more about what you want and don't and how to interact, not to mention gives you the opportunity to meet the person who would suit you best. As long as the gals aren't be played then there's no problem. Stay honest with them and if they don't like the current situation they're free to move on.
Posted by Bobbo92
Hey Guys,Lately I have been really desperate for a relationship, I don't know what it is but every girl I see and hang out with I end up hooking up with her and she gets attached. I don't know what to do because I literally have 4 girls right now that I am talking to. Any suggestions?
Thanks,
Bobbo
Stop seeing 2, and choose between the 2 remaining. Sorry, I'm not sure what else you could do but it ought to help you decide. Surely there is one that you know that you like more than the others.
Posted by MoonArtist
Is 92 your Bday year? If so, you're still young. Dating helps you learn more about what you want and don't and how to interact, not to mention gives you the opportunity to meet the person who would suit you best. As long as the gals aren't be played then there's no problem. Stay honest with them and if they don't like the current situation they're free to move on.
This too. As long as you're open with them, I don't see the problem. I'm guessing they don't know and that's your issue, or?
bad problems.
You didn't tell them about each other, did you? :/
im honest to every one of em but is just like i want to pick one eventually, but im sexually active with 3 of the 4
and yes im born in 92, so im 21 and still young. but i act a lot more mature for my age. like a LOT.
Well, they know and they're willing to have sex with you. Apparently none of them are grabbing your attention more than the others or you would have picked by now. How long have you known them?
If you are "so desperate" for a relationship you would be in one not juggling 4 girls... just sayin. Besides, I have found when someone is so desperate for something to happen it probably shouldn't, usually issues with oneself and using others to avoid them.
It's really not that hard, pick one, drop the other 3.. simple. I think you are just here to brag you are juggling 4 women...
Posted by Bobbo92
im honest to every one of em but is just like i want to pick one eventually, but im sexually active with 3 of the 4
Posted by Bobbo92
and yes im born in 92, so im 21 and still young. but i act a lot more mature for my age. like a LOT.click to expand
I suggest you decide what you want, playing the field (screwing multiple girls) or actually pursue a monogamous relationship.
Honestly, if I met the guy I wanted to be in a relationship with and found out he was screwing 3 girls I would dump him immediately. Learn self control and figure out what you want.
I've never known a Scorpio to long for a relationship.... but then again, Scorpios are masters at hiding their TRUE feelings, intentions and desires. So it's a toss up.
I would suggest getting rid of the girls you strictly have sexual connections with and keep the girl who you believe you have a deeper connection with. Scorpios love to be intellectually stimulated ... the sexual aspect is a given.
Bobbo92,
Is that your eyes? if so, it's beautiful. Really.
Really good advice in the last responses. When it comes down to it, you can pick one to be happy with or risk losing them all by dragging this out unnecessarily. You can date through your twenties as you've been doing (nothing wrong with that as long as you aren't hurting anybody) or settle into a monogamous relationship. There just aren't any other options. Good luck. I hope you are able to find happiness with your final decision. In the future and if you end up with one... try to avoid talking to females you could find yourself in any way sexully attracted to. You being a Scorpio male makes it extremely difficult to withhold any type of passion, and others are attracted to that as well so I think if you end up in a committed relationship it'd be wise to avoid temptation all together. If you see a pretty girl, keep your eyes ahead and keep walking! Haha.
Posted by geminicandIe
He says he is mature for his age. I don't think so, lol.I am so glad I am not in my 20ies anymore and to deal with this type of bullshit.
23 here and I'm not gonna lie... I can't wait to be in my thirties. Such uncertain times. Fun, but stressful as hell.
He's young and having fun... it takes time to simmer down.
Posted by geminicandIe
He says he is mature for his age. I don't think so, lol.I am so glad I am not in my 20ies anymore and to deal with this type of bullshit.
23 here and I'm not gonna lie... I can't wait to be in my thirties. Such uncertain times. Fun, but stressful as hell.
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Don't let it stress you. I think we've all felt that way but when we look back it's a cakewalk. Hmmmm.....I need to take that advice for my 40's, the divorce, starting college again....WOOHOO!!! I'm going to cakewalk it!! 😄
Sorry if im not mature by anyones means. didn't mean to harm you.
i just thought this was an honesty site with no judging.
Posted by geminicandIe
He says he is mature for his age. I don't think so, lol.I am so glad I am not in my 20ies anymore and to deal with this type of bullshit.
23 here and I'm not gonna lie... I can't wait to be in my thirties. Such uncertain times. Fun, but stressful as hell.
Don't let it stress you. I think we've all felt that way but when we look back it's a cakewalk. Hmmmm.....I need to take that advice for my 40's, the divorce, starting college again....WOOHOO!!! I'm going to cakewalk it!! 😄
Can you give me advice then, while I am still in 30ies? What would you tell your 30something self?
Lol, thanks.
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I'd tell my 30 yr old self to not freak out about hitting the 30's and all the silly "omg, I'm getting old! Omg, I'm getting wrinkles" bs. I'd also say that if you haven't hit some "milestones" in life that people so often feel pressured into (marriage, kids, etc.) to not panic and definitely don't do something rash just to cave to that pressure. Enjoy life! If it's getting too busy find a way to carve out some slow time. If there's something you've wanted to do or learn then hop to it! Take care of yourself because stress is brutal in every aspect and will tear you down fast. Weed out anything toxic and pointless that you don't enjoy in your life, and that goes for people. Reconnect with those you still hold dear that might have gotten overlooked in the hustle of life. 🙂
Posted by PrettyQueenBee
I've never known a Scorpio to long for a relationship.... but then again, Scorpios are masters at hiding their TRUE feelings, intentions and desires. So it's a toss up.I would suggest getting rid of the girls you strictly have sexual connections with and keep the girl who you believe you have a deeper connection with. Scorpios love to be intellectually stimulated ... the sexual aspect is a given.
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Thank you for your advice!
Posted by geminicandIe
And quit pretending you are hurt. You can't be super mature at 21, so don't even pretend.
Can you be loved? Or are you a hater?
Posted by Bobbo92
Sorry if im not mature by anyones means. didn't mean to harm you.You are not harming anyone but yourself.
And internet, including this forum, is a judgmental place because such is human nature.
Now, what was your question again?
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Hey miss lippy (geminicandle),
enough of the tude, you sound like a raging asshole. its judgmental but you don't have to hate. my question is why are you an asshole, and why do you judge eh? shut your mouth and be happy.
love and peace,
Bobbo
Posted by geminicandIe
He says he is mature for his age. I don't think so, lol.
I am so glad I am not in my 20ies anymore and to deal with this type of bullshit.23 here and I'm not gonna lie... I can't wait to be in my thirties. Such uncertain times. Fun, but stressful as hell.
Don't let it stress you. I think we've all felt that way but when we look back it's a cakewalk. Hmmmm.....I need to take that advice for my 40's, the divorce, starting college again....WOOHOO!!! I'm going to cakewalk it!! 😄
Can you give me advice then, while I am still in 30ies? What would you tell your 30something self?
Lol, thanks.I'd tell my 30 yr old self to not freak out about hitting the 30's and all the silly
"omg, I'm getting old! Omg, I'm getting wrinkles" bs. I'd also say that if you haven't
hit some "milestones" in life that people so often feel pressured into
(marriage, kids, etc.) to not panic and definitely don't do something rash just to cave to that pressure. Enjoy life! If it's getting too busy find a way to carve out some slow time.
If there's something you've wanted to do or learn then hop to it!
Take care of yourself because stress is brutal in every aspect and will tear you down
fast. Weed out anything toxic and pointless that you don't enjoy in your life, and
that goes for people. Reconnect with those you still hold dear that might have gotten
overlooked in the hustle of life. 🙂click to expandThanks MA! I love this
You're welcome!
youre giving opinions of who i am, all i want is help. if you cant help, try not to include your negative self. Thanks!
I personally don't have a problem with what he's doing. The gals know and if they aren't holding out to be in a serious relationship with him then they just want the dick. If he's having fun with that many then he's not really thinking they're material for a serious relationship, either. He'll change his mind when he finds one he's serious about.
MoonArtist,
I second the motion on that.
Posted by PrettyQueenBee
I've never known a Scorpio to long for a relationship.... but then again, Scorpios are masters at hiding their TRUE feelings, intentions and desires. So it's a toss up.I would suggest getting rid of the girls you strictly have sexual connections with and keep the girl who you believe you have a deeper connection with. Scorpios love to be intellectually stimulated ... the sexual aspect is a given.
+1
Thank you for your advice!
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You are very welcome ! Attempt to block out all of the negativity.. You're a young male ... a Scorpio at that ! LOL ... it's natural for young men to explore... I don't think you're doing anything wrong... just protect yourself and don't lead any of the girls on. Find someone who understands you ... Maybe a fellow Water sign or an Earth sign.. Scorpios mesh very well with Capricorns and Virgos.
Regardless of the woman's sign, if you're serious... find someone that one can establish a meaningful connection with. Scorpios associate sex with the connection... it's natural... especially with the men. But try finding a girl who likes what you like. Good luck !
Posted by MoonArtist
I personally don't have a problem with what he's doing. The gals know and if they aren't holding out to be in a serious relationship with him then they just want the dick. If he's having fun with that many then he's not really thinking they're material for a serious relationship, either. He'll change his mind when he finds one he's serious about.
Agree 100% !
maybe if you want a meaningful relationship, maybe you should stop having sex with the three girls so you can start assessing which one you truly connect with on an emotional/mental level without having the sex factor cloud your judgement. but dang 3 at a time! when it rains it pours i guessssss
Posted by Bobbo92
Hey Guys,Lately I have been really desperate for a relationship, I don't know what it is but every girl I see and hang out with I end up hooking up with her and she gets attached. I don't know what to do because I literally have 4 girls right now that I am talking to. Any suggestions?
Thanks,
Bobbo
Okay, well you know how you keep "hooking up" with girls every time you hang out with them? Stop doing that thing. Problem solved.
Posted by Bobbo92
Hey Guys,Lately I have been really desperate for a relationship, I don't know what it is but every girl I see and hang out with I end up hooking up with her and she gets attached. I don't know what to do because I literally have 4 girls right now that I am talking to. Any suggestions?
Thanks,
Bobbo
Good question. Why ~are~ you so desperate to boas..I mean, "bemoan" how you just can't stop getting chicks to pine after you?
Posted by IrresistableScorp
My 20 something Scorp male friend is the same way. Its non stop shagging with multiple girls. Guess what? Its only because none of them interest him--well for long. One day a woman is going to come your way and rock your world!!!Please don't screw it up with crazy Scorp possessiveness and passive aggressive crap. Thanks.
This is 100% correct. You are basically telling us that you don't like any of those women. Find someone you like.
Your behavior is not Scorpionic at all. Scorpio men - even when they settle - go for the best they can get. They don't continue having relationships with women they enjoy less.
Do you have a Leo Moon or something?
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100% agree
Bobbo92- Well tell us about the girls if you want us to pick one for you 😄
Posted by beggarsblanket
Bobbo92- Well tell us about the girls if you want us to pick one for you 😄
Ohh! Yes! I love playing matchmaker! We'll need pics, natal charts and a few hairs from each girl. We'll also need some pristine white hens....for the....well....voodoo stuff.
Bobbo..
I think our eyes match perfectly and I want to be your fifth.
How do I go about this? 😄
Posted by beggarsblanket
Bobbo92- Well tell us about the girls if you want us to pick one for you 😄Ohh! Yes! I love playing matchmaker! We'll need pics, natal charts and a few pubic hairs from each girl. We'll also need some pristine white hens....for the....well....voodoo stuff.
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^^what she said.
rofl....DAMMIT DAMNATA!!! I did NOT say "pubic".....But that might make it more interesting....
Posted by MoonArtist
rofl....DAMMIT DAMNATA!!! I did NOT say "pubic".....But that might make it more interesting....
Welcome on the Scorpio Board where everything's about sex all day, every day.
Posted by MoonArtist
rofl....DAMMIT DAMNATA!!! I did NOT say "pubic".....But that might make it more interesting....Welcome on the Scorpio Board where everything's about sex all day, every day.
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I thought that was the Cancer Board.
Posted by MoonArtist
rofl....DAMMIT DAMNATA!!! I did NOT say "pubic".....But that might make it more interesting....Welcome on the Scorpio Board where everything's about sex all day, every day.
I thought that was the Cancer Board.
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The Cancer Board is about cuddling after sex 😄
Someone hasn't been on the Cancer board lately..... 😛
Posted by MoonArtist
Someone hasn't been on the Cancer board lately..... 😛
don't go advertising. there's plenty of horny scorp traffic over there already.
Posted by MoonArtist
Someone hasn't been on the Cancer board lately..... 😛don't go advertising. there's plenty of horny scorp traffic over there already.
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We don't want them to come to our skinny dipping party? why not?!
Posted by MoonArtist
Someone hasn't been on the Cancer board lately..... 😛don't go advertising. there's plenty of horny scorp traffic over there already.
We don't want them to come to our skinny dipping party? why not?!
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hm? OK but they gotta get naked first.
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