Will he act like a man again?

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I'm a 27 y/o Taurus woman, and i was with my scorpio ex for 4 years, we had a child but broke up a year ago.

9 months ago he met a gemini girl, i say girl because she's 19 and he's 32, i just think it's wrong and gross! Since he met this girl i've seen via instagram that they do large amounts of drugs, she takes him to festivals and raves. In the 4 years i was with scorpio he never did drugs, wtf changed?

He has become very irresponsible and i don't trust him around our daughter anymore, we sat down and talked and i mentioned taking full custody of our daughter and he broke down and cried and called me a witch and said i make his life hell and he's already moving in with his new girlfriend and they're engaged... 4 years together and all i got was his baby, 9 months with gemini girl and he's giving her the world.

He's so distant and nasty with me since he got with her, will he change back to how he used to be because i don't want to deal with this anymore.
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Did he break up with you before he met this Gemini girl?

Gemini girls can't stand Scorpio men and vice versa. Quincunx energy leads to tons of misunderstandings.At best they can be friends. There is hardly any sexual chemistry btwn these two signs. Unless there are other factors in play.

Whereas dxp is loaded with Taurus women and Scorpio men attraction and how they are the best pairings for each other. I don't believe in sun sign astrology, but maybe the Gemini will be high maintenance for this Scorp.

One thing, he sounds so disrespectful. And irresponsible. Are you saying you want him back?
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He's doing this because in Scorp fashion, they think they'll shrivel up and die if they aren't in a relationship.

Hence, he turns around and starts acting like an idiot because she's one. He's doing all this stupid shit in order to keep her around.

My Scorp friend did this when he got with his current flame. Didn't smoke weed, or was remotely interested until he got into a relationship with the guy. Not that I have an issue with his boyfriend- far from it. It's just he's stupidly impressionable and will change who he is and do all this dumb shit if it means keeping himself parked in that relationship.

Your dude is just being an asshat. He's just trying to keep up with the child bride he paired off with.
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Posted by InstantShawarma
Did he break up with you before he met this Gemini girl?

Gemini girls can't stand Scorpio men and vice versa. Quincunx energy leads to tons of misunderstandings.At best they can be friends. There is hardly any sexual chemistry btwn these two signs. Unless there are other factors in play.

Whereas dxp is loaded with Taurus women and Scorpio men attraction and how they are the best pairings for each other. I don't believe in sun sign astrology, but maybe the Gemini will be high maintenance for this Scorp.

One thing, he sounds so disrespectful. And irresponsible. Are you saying you want him back?
We had a mutual break-up and we were on the process of getting back together then he started sleeping with the gemini girl and now they're in a genuine relationship. No I don't want him back anymore I just want him to be apart of my daughters life like he was doing, but ever since this gemini girl came in the picture he's not himself anymore. Before we used to be able to have deep convo's and talk about raising our daughter and now he's rather spend time with his teenage girlfriend and doing cocaine.
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Posted by Charlie89
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Did he break up with you before he met this Gemini girl?

Gemini girls can't stand Scorpio men and vice versa. Quincunx energy leads to tons of misunderstandings.At best they can be friends. There is hardly any sexual chemistry btwn these two signs. Unless there are other factors in play.

Whereas dxp is loaded with Taurus women and Scorpio men attraction and how they are the best pairings for each other. I don't believe in sun sign astrology, but maybe the Gemini will be high maintenance for this Scorp.

One thing, he sounds so disrespectful. And irresponsible. Are you saying you want him back?
We had a mutual break-up and we were on the process of getting back together then he started sleeping with the gemini girl and now they're in a genuine relationship. No I don't want him back anymore I just want him to be apart of my daughters life like he was doing, but ever since this gemini girl came in the picture he's not himself anymore. Before we used to be able to have deep convo's and talk about raising our daughter and now he's rather spend time with his teenage girlfriend and doing cocaine.

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Looks like he is obsessed with her and there isn't a lot you can do to better his situation. Look out for yourself and your daughter.

If his habits have become an addiction, think what must be done to keep your daughter safe from all this mess.

And I'm a Gemini who was in a relationship with a Scorp. I was 17 and he was 20then... I wasn't doing drugs or anything. But my impulsive, friendly nature drove him insane. It never worked because I had way too many friends, was partying hard and I used to get attention and he felt the need to be around me all the time. Surprisingly he was the one who cheated. Smdh

I would break up only to get back because he wanted me back. Some weird pull.

Anyways I shared because Gemini-Scorp isn't an easy pairing. I haven't heard any good stuff about this pairing. And she may exhaust him emotionally and mentally... Don't worry about him for now. He is being an idiot. Take care of your daughter, who needs you.
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4 years together and all i got was his baby, 9 months with gemini girl and he's giving her the world.



What else were you hoping for OP?

I'm wondering the same thing. Other than the care of your daughter, not seeing why the comment about his decision to give this Gem "the world" was even necessary, but it's quite telling.

Seems like you have some issues to resolve where he is concerned.
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4 years together and all i got was his baby, 9 months with gemini girl and he's giving her the world.



What else were you hoping for OP?

I'm wondering the same thing. Other than the care of your daughter, not seeing why the comment about his decision to give this Gem "the world" was even necessary, but it's quite telling.

Seems like you have some issues to resolve where he is concerned.
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I believe the OP was hoping for a reconciliation before the Gem got involved with him. Happens when a kid is involved, I think.
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4 years together and all i got was his baby, 9 months with gemini girl and he's giving her the world.



What else were you hoping for OP?

I'm wondering the same thing. Other than the care of your daughter, not seeing why the comment about his decision to give this Gem "the world" was even necessary, but it's quite telling.

Seems like you have some issues to resolve where he is concerned.

I believe the OP was hoping for a reconciliation before the Gem got involved with him. Happens when a kid is involved, I think.

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Of course it does and I picked that up from the OP without reading any further. Choice of words often reveal one's true motivation.

I just prefer it when people are straight up about what the issue is vs trying to make it about something else. You'll get better responses from the Scorps on the board because they'll know what you're hoping to achieve.

OP, as for your daughter (since you're claiming that is what this is all about) sounds like you're already planning to take steps to protect her and keep her safe until he gets himself sorted, so what he's doing and who is doing it with is of little concern---hense my initial comment. He's grown and you're no longer together, so that's not your issue. If he's not of sound mind and body when she is in his care, protect her. Period. Find a new bestie to have "deep convos" with and stop focusing on how much your bond has changed. It happens.

I just hope you're not using sole custody as a threat to keep the Scorp in line. It won't work in your best interest or hers.
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unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like this
But it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
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what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
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unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like this
But it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?


what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
She didn't specify what drugs.. and dude I'm a pot head, I'm not talking about weed and I don't think she was either.. People don't go to raves to smoke weed..
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the OP is full of shit....She just bitter/jealous of the Gemini,,,I see sheete like this all the time...She mad he's moved on...ima pot head too BTW lol

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unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like this
But it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?


what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
She didn't specify what drugs.. and dude I'm a pot head, I'm not talking about weed and I don't think she was either.. People don't go to raves to smoke weed..




the OP is full of shit....She just bitter/jealous of the Gemini,,,I see sheete like this all the time...She mad he's moved on...ima pot head too BTW lol

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Again. Agreed

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unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like this
But it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?


what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
She didn't specify what drugs....

Eh em...

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now he's rather spend time with his teenage girlfriend and doing cocaine.

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unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like this
But it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?


what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
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The girl is massive on psychedelics and cocaine, and whenever i've been to pick up my daughter i've seen his girlfriend with a bong and she's all over. I don't want that around my child.
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unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like this
But it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?


what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
She didn't specify what drugs.. and dude I'm a pot head, I'm not talking about weed and I don't think she was either.. People don't go to raves to smoke weed..




the OP is full of shit....She just bitter/jealous of the Gemini,,,I see sheete like this all the time...She mad he's moved on...ima pot head too BTW lol

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I'm far more angry and embarrassed all my friends talk about it and a 30 year old man should not be with a teenage girl as well as joining in her drug abuse with her and bringing my child around it. He can spend £300 on a designer dress for his new girlfriend but now buy his own daughter a birthday present?
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So hes actually posting pics of himself on Instagram snorting coke?
Yes his girlfriend has quite the following on instagram and she uploads ~edgy~ photos of her self constantly in Calvin Klein underwear and videos of him snorting lines off her ass. With pics of them at raves with different pills.
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Im calling bs. Post the Instagram link.
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unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like this
But it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?


what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
She didn't specify what drugs.. and dude I'm a pot head, I'm not talking about weed and I don't think she was either.. People don't go to raves to smoke weed..




the OP is full of shit....She just bitter/jealous of the Gemini,,,I see sheete like this all the time...She mad he's moved on...ima pot head too BTW lol


I'm far more angry and embarrassed all my friends talk about it and a 30 year old man should not be with a teenage girl as well as joining in her drug abuse with her and bringing my child around it. He can spend £300 on a designer dress for his new girlfriend but now buy his own daughter a birthday present?
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Nobody does being bitter like a Brit can!

£300 on coke. I wouldn't worry about that issue. He's probably snorting Persil for that little money.
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So hes actually posting pics of himself on Instagram snorting coke?
Yes his girlfriend has quite the following on instagram and she uploads ~edgy~ photos of her self constantly in Calvin Klein underwear and videos of him snorting lines off her ass. With pics of them at raves with different pills.

Save as evidence for custody

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This! And it doesn't matter what he buys her or how much he spends so long as he's court ordered to pay child support for your daughter. Don't focus on him or his choice to be a loser, instead focus on getting full custody and making sure your daughter isn't being neglected by druggies.

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Posted by blackphase
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unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like this
But it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
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Reality check, honey. Many parents "abuse" drugs and alcohol behind closed doors, it doesn't necesserily make them bad parents
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unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like this
But it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
Reality check, honey. Many parents "abuse" drugs and alcohol behind closed doors, it doesn't necesserily make them bad parents


Behind closed doors is different than doing it openly and posting pictures of yourself doing so on social media.. That's really immature.
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Lol ok then, by that logic most celebs should get their kids confiscated?



Immature is not the same as irresponsible.

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unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like this
But it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?


what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
Weed is a drug... I wouldn't want anyone taking that stuff or any form of drugs near my child!
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Op said Cocaine.

Thats a whole other game. :/

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unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like this
But it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?


what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
Weed is a drug... I wouldn't want anyone taking that stuff or any form of drugs near my child!
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Never said anything about doing ANY drug around ANY kid

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I'm a 27 y/o Taurus woman, and i was with my scorpio ex for 4 years, we had a child but broke up a year ago.

9 months ago he met a gemini girl, i say girl because she's 19 and he's 32, i just think it's wrong and gross! Since he met this girl i've seen via instagram that they do large amounts of drugs, she takes him to festivals and raves. In the 4 years i was with scorpio he never did drugs, wtf changed?

He has become very irresponsible and i don't trust him around our daughter anymore, we sat down and and talked and i mentioned taking full custody of our daughter and he broke down and cried and called me a witch and said i make his life hell and he's already moving in with his new girlfriend and they're engaged... 4 years together and all i got was his baby, 9 months with gemini girl and he's giving her the world.

He's so distant and nasty with me since he got with her, will he change back to how he used to be because i don't want to deal with this anymore.
He chose to be a "boy" and now he met a "girl"... Age has nothing to do with it... If you were both meant to be with each other, it would have worked and you would not be on dxp writing to a bunch of strangers.

You both decided to have a baby even though your relationship was not perfect.... He did not change. . He was probably this way all along but you 1) refuse to see it or 2) Scorps are "secretive" so you have to dig really really deep to "find" the other side of them which obviously you didn't.

Your best bet is to try and build a good relationship with him for your baby's sake. But let him know that unless he seeks help for his addiction, he will not be permitted to see his child
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great response

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unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like this
But it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
Reality check, honey. Many parents "abuse" drugs and alcohol behind closed doors, it doesn't necesserily make them bad parents


Behind closed doors is different than doing it openly and posting pictures of yourself doing so on social media.. That's really immature.


Lol ok then, by that logic most celebs should get their kids confiscated?



Immature is not the same as irresponsible.



Then I used the wrong word.. Doing that IS irresponsible. And in my opinion, majority of parents these days are not cut out to be parents.. somewhere along the line people stopped seeing parenting as something to be taken seriously.. Nowadays they all let technology raise their children instead of doing the job themselves.. heck, half of the parents out there are children themselves anyway. And yeah.. there are a lot of celebs that should have their children confiscated.. Really.. there are just a lot of people out there who shouldn't be reproducing. LOL

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lol