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**** News update ****

She never got back to me since last Friday and though I lean more towards feeling disrespected but who knows what it is really? There could be so many reasons why she didn't get back to me. I just hope that life is treating her well and that all is good on her side, I truly do. On my side I'll just leave it at that and move forward, I believe someone is impatiently waiting for me. I don't regret not having asked for her sun sign at this point, since it ended this way. I rather use astrology to help enhance a my partners life and it doesn't appear to be headed that way, so astrology is not needed from where I stand. If she ever reply back to me, I can resume our conversations or not depending on why she never got back to me. I didn't expect such response from you people on this thread. Everyone showed great concern in their own way and I thought it was cool. Yesterday I met my new reporting manager and the first thing she asked me after introducing herself, walking in to her new role was my birthday for celebration purposes and off course I believe her 😉. I was smiling thinking of some peoples comments on this thread on how quickly they ask for someone's sun sign when meeting. It got me laughing inside, shaking my head.

So with that being said ... it was a very long day for me. I'll try to get some sleep, I just thought you all deserved some kind of update.

Good night DXP users and usettes!

Awwww Sarasa ... how nice? Good luck and be careful. Ask him to kiss your cheeks on my behalf. They deserved to be kissed. Haha. Good night!

whiskey, thx for the update. and ur right whatever her reasons were they were her own u did ur part and thats all that matters...as the old saying goes u cant cry over spilled milk 😉 to bad for her though, because she would have had a great, genuine , sincere and honest guy to get to know.

and also look at it this way, maybe it wasnt meant to be...she saved u the time and energy of wasting it on her.

its funny because this weekend when i was out on a motorcycle with this aqua guy at a bar, as he was smoking outside this girls comes out and started chatting with us...and low and behold she starts on astrology and she says well im a libra, then she asks me what sign i am i say leo..she just stares at me and says really...when people first meet me they never peg me as a leo...then they say ok ur hair is like the mane of a leo, which it is red and long. but ur right i dont let astrology decide for me about a person i just get to know them for who they are...but i do like to know their sign.

keep up thee search whiskey, she is definitely looking for u just as ur searching for her..when the time is right the two of u shall cross each others path and fall madly in love....and i want an invitation the the wedding.

Ray has a thing for my cheeks. First you wanted to sqeeze them and now kiss them😛 Regarding that girl, too bad it didn't work out for you, Ray! But you know what? Like you said, there's someone waiting for you and you both have to find one another....It'll happen🙂

Thanks for the kinds words Lovage. Him bringing up the whole meet up twice was a good sign. And I love how he takes the lead. I'm going to try and curb my controlling side, lol. I can so see the water element in him esp the Scorp and then the moon being in Cancer-he's beginning to open up more now, me likes that🙂 I'm looking forward to the w/e, keeping my fingers crossed so that all goes well🙂

I'm going to try and curb my controlling side, lol.....Let me know how that works out..😉


I can so see the water element in him esp the Scorp and then the moon being in Cancer-he's beginning to open up more now, me likes that I'm looking forward to the w/e, keeping my fingers crossed so that all goes well


Yes, its nice when you get to see the sweet side of those scorp men, can be very special!! Cancer moon..interesting!!!..water..water..water. Its like when they open up..you just smile and say thank you!!

All should go well, just continue to do what you are doing and dont change..a shift in pattern will throw him for the good or bad...hahaha! Just talk everyday with him and put your mind at ease...its going to be a fabulous weekend for ya!! and hopefully you will have nice weather to go along with that nice date..😉

Posted by Rays Heart
**** News update ****

She never got back to me since last Friday and though I lean more towards feeling disrespected but who knows what it is really? There could be so many reasons why she didn't get back to me. I just hope that life is treating her well and that all is good on her side, I truly do. On my side I'll just leave it at that and move forward, I believe someone is impatiently waiting for me. I don't regret not having asked for her sun sign at this point, since it ended this way. I rather use astrology to help enhance a my partners life and it doesn't appear to be headed that way, so astrology is not needed from where I stand. If she ever reply back to me, I can resume our conversations or not depending on why she never got back to me. I didn't expect such response from you people on this thread. Everyone showed great concern in their own way and I thought it was cool. Yesterday I met my new reporting manager and the first thing she asked me after introducing herself, walking in to her new role was my birthday for celebration purposes and off course I believe her 😉. I was smiling thinking of some peoples comments on this thread on how quickly they ask for someone's sun sign when meeting. It got me laughing inside, shaking my head.

So with that being said ... it was a very long day for me. I'll try to get some sleep, I just thought you all deserved some kind of update.

Good night DXP users and usettes!

Aww man. Sorry to hear it didn't turn out the way you wanted it to. Don't let it get to you (Which it isn't as I see in your attitude).

In regards to the birthday thing, you could always screw with her and act OPPOSITE of the stereotypical behavior. See if she reacts differently. I kid...kind of....

Posted by lovage
I'm going to try and curb my controlling side, lol.....Let me know how that works out..😉

Mmmmmmmm control (lol)

AstroAftermath: what an analogy, lol

And Lovage: Thanks for the encouraging words. We're both looking forward to it. The way I look at it: if we don't click, then we can still be friends, so it's all cool🙂 I'll write up an update after Sat😄

BTW: If anyone wants to analyze....It's mine:his...I don't have either of our birth times, so yeh....

Sun opposition Moon 9 Capricorn 52'20" 5 Cancer 8'18" 4.73
Sun square Venus 9 Capricorn 52'20" 14 Libra 48'19" 4.93
Sun square Mars 9 Capricorn 52'20" 2 Libra 49'43" 7.05
Sun sextile Saturn 9 Capricorn 52'20" 9 Scorpio 58'24" 0.1
Moon conjunction Mercury 15 Sagittarius 42'27" 13 Sagittarius 32'41" 2.17
Moon sextile Venus 15 Sagittarius 42'27" 14 Libra 48'19" 0.9
Moon conjunction Jupiter 15 Sagittarius 42'27" 17 Sagittarius 9'49" 1.45
Moon conjunction Uranus 15 Sagittarius 42'27" 8 Sagittarius 48'43" 6.9
Mercury opposition Moon 7 Capricorn 57'14" 5 Cancer 8'18" 2.82
Mercury square Venus 7 Capricorn 57'14" 14 Libra 48'19" 6.85
Mercury square Mars 7 Capricorn 57'14" 2 Libra 49'43" 5.13
Mercury sextile Saturn 7 Capricorn 57'14" 9 Scorpio 58'24" 2.02
Venus conjunction Sun 0 Sagittarius 3' 1" 0 Sagittarius 21'58" 0.3
Venus sextile Mars 0 Sagittarius 3' 1" 2 Libra 49'43" 2.77
Mars sextile Neptune 24 Libra 43'46" 27 Sagittarius 54'53" 3.18
Mars conjunction Pluto 24 Libra 43'46" 0 Scorpio 39'44" 5.93
Jupiter square Mars 25 Sagittarius 56'16" 2 Libra 49'43" 6.88
Jupiter conjunction Neptune 25 Sagittarius 56'16" 27 Sagittarius 54'53" 1.97
Jupiter sextile Pluto 25 Sagittarius 56'16" 0 Scorpio 39'44" 4.72
Saturn conjunction Saturn 13 Scorpio 57' 4" 9 Scorpio 58'24" 3.98
Uranus conjunction Mercury 11 Sagittarius 8'44" 13 Sagittarius 32'41" 2.4
Uranus sextile Venus 11 Sagittarius 8'44" 14 Libra 48'19" 3.67
Uranus conjunction Jupiter 11 Sagittarius 8'44" 17 Sagittarius 9'49" 6.02
Uranus conjunction Uranus 11 Sagittarius 8'44" 8 Sagittarius 48'43" 2.33
Neptune opposition Moon 29 Sagittarius 21' 4" 5 Cancer 8'18" 5.78
Neptune square Mars 29 Sagittarius 21' 4" 2 Libra 49'43" 3.47
Neptune conjunction Neptune 29 Sagittarius 21' 4" 27 Sagittarius 54'53" 1.45
Neptune sextile Pluto 29 Sagittarius 21' 4" 0 Scorpio 39'44" 1.3
Pluto trine Moon 1 Scorpio 47'23" 5 Cancer 8'18" 3.35
Pluto sextile Neptune 1 Scorpio 47'23" 27 Sagittarius 54'53" 3.88
Pluto conjunction Pluto 1 Scorpio 47'23" 0 Scorpio 39'44" 1.13

dbl dayummmmmm girl, check with mystic fish she's a pisces she is fabulous with this sort of thing unless someone else chimes in to assist ya.

virgohero

control is a beautiful thing!

haha!

"Ray has a thing for my cheeks. First you wanted to sqeeze them and now kiss them Regarding that girl, too bad it didn't work out for you, Ray! But you know what? Like you said, there's someone waiting for you and you both have to find one another....It'll happen"

If you were me, you'd have a thing for your cheeks too 😛. It's fine, it was nothing solid really, we had no constant interactions. I'm better off line, I get to use my senses but I think online is better for weeding out.

Posted by lovage
whiskey, thx for the update. and ur right whatever her reasons were they were her own u did ur part and thats all that matters...as the old saying goes u cant cry over spilled milk 😉 to bad for her though, because she would have had a great, genuine , sincere and honest guy to get to know.

and also look at it this way, maybe it wasnt meant to be...she saved u the time and energy of wasting it on her.

its funny because this weekend when i was out on a motorcycle with this aqua guy at a bar, as he was smoking outside this girls comes out and started chatting with us...and low and behold she starts on astrology and she says well im a libra, then she asks me what sign i am i say leo..she just stares at me and says really...when people first meet me they never peg me as a leo...then they say ok ur hair is like the mane of a leo, which it is red and long. but ur right i dont let astrology decide for me about a person i just get to know them for who they are...but i do like to know their sign.

keep up thee search whiskey, she is definitely looking for u just as ur searching for her..when the time is right the two of u shall cross each others path and fall madly in love....and i want an invitation the the wedding.

Thanks for the support Choco! I couldn't agree more. It sure saved me time and energy.

"In regards to the birthday thing, you could always screw with her and act OPPOSITE of the stereotypical behavior. See if she reacts differently. I kid...kind of...."


Haha ... Good idea, I can see her coming back to me in two months like, "You know for your birthday, did you say November or December, there was a lot of back ground noise while we were speaking on that day and I would want to miss your birthday you know." 😉

Posted by lovage
virgohero

control is a beautiful thing!

haha!

Haha I was hoping you'd catch that and get a laugh 🙂

Posted by Rays Heart
"Ray has a thing for my cheeks. First you wanted to sqeeze them and now kiss them Regarding that girl, too bad it didn't work out for you, Ray! But you know what? Like you said, there's someone waiting for you and you both have to find one another....It'll happen"

If you were me, you'd have a thing for your cheeks too 😛. It's fine, it was nothing solid really, we had no constant interactions. I'm better off line, I get to use my senses but I think online is better for weeding out.

Not being a narcisist but I love my cheeks too😄 And you know what?! You're so right about the whole online thing. It's very efficient to weed out the lot!

And to ladies that actually care: Bath & Body Works has a HUGE sale going on this w/e. Signature Body Creams are $ 3 amongst other things. I already went a tad crazy on those, lol. Good luck!😄

Thanks Sagi! I'll let you guys know how it goes...

"You're so right about the whole online thing. It's very efficient to weed out the lot!"

Yes I think Off line we tend to feed the physical attraction side of things first, which gets us to overlook some basic fundamentals of a good relationship.

Posted by sagigoat
Have fun tomorrow with the scorp/sag sarasa! i got a good vibe too from your description of him 🙂.


hey JD, i think it's a good thing that it ends before it even gets started. she is likey a sign you will find annoying anywayz given that you have already seen some early signs lol 😉. have a wonderful weekend! 🙂


"I'm better off line, I get to use my senses but I think online is better for weeding out."

that's true. never done online dating tho. although i cannot say i never fell for anyone on dxp lol. ppl who don't chat much have a disadvantage on line tho like mr.scorp i may not notice him and may think his humor was weird if we met online lol. his eyes, facial expressions and body languages talk so much. there is nothing online that beats someone who zeroed in on you in a group, moved to sit right next to you, stared into your eyes with a painful expression and said "i don't want to leave". oh mine lol.

lol ... I couldn't agree more. I'm more of a doer than a speaker, I think online my Libra Mercury and Moon show more than anything else. I just have a poetic way to say things which can play in my advantage sometimes but in real life I don't talk much, I'm more of a listener. I like to listen and watch people. Sounds weird! 😛

Side bar // ... Saggitarius89 can you please stop removing your threads? lol

Posted by Rays Heart
**** News update ****

She never got back to me since last Friday and though I lean more towards feeling disrespected but who knows what it is really? There could be so many reasons why she didn't get back to me. I just hope that life is treating her well and that all is good on her side, I truly do. On my side I'll just leave it at that and move forward, I believe someone is impatiently waiting for me. I don't regret not having asked for her sun sign at this point, since it ended this way. I rather use astrology to help enhance a my partners life and it doesn't appear to be headed that way, so astrology is not needed from where I stand. If she ever reply back to me, I can resume our conversations or not depending on why she never got back to me. I didn't expect such response from you people on this thread. Everyone showed great concern in their own way and I thought it was cool. Yesterday I met my new reporting manager and the first thing she asked me after introducing herself, walking in to her new role was my birthday for celebration purposes and off course I believe her 😉. I was smiling thinking of some peoples comments on this thread on how quickly they ask for someone's sun sign when meeting. It got me laughing inside, shaking my head.

So with that being said ... it was a very long day for me. I'll try to get some sleep, I just thought you all deserved some kind of update.

Good night DXP users and usettes!

What— :O Oh dear ... I'm sorry JD ... here I was under the impression that you found out what her sign was and everything and that you two were still talking.

😢

😢

... actually, don't worry about JD, its better that she show her true colors now then later, you know? It could be a reason why she didn't get back with you but be that as it may, you don't have time to wait on her.

Yes, someone is waiting for you. Everyone has someone that needs them -- I believe. It just depends on when they meet.

haha, isn't it funny how you never really meet the right person at the right time. Theres always something wrong when you meet that one person you want to be with. You know, its like their married your single. However, I do believe that if the situation is too complicated then its not worth it. But if their are just minor, non-earth scattering things, then why not give it a go.

You don't seem to have a problem attr

Allright, so here's the update:

He's a cutie, SUPER NICE....But I didn't feel much. May be it's too early? Idk....I wouldn't mind going out with him again though.....maybe it's b/c I'm looking for the Uber-perfect guy that doesn't exist....see what I mean by "I'm a confused soul when it comes to relationsihps"....sigh, lord help me!

hola sararsa...did u actually enjoy him and his company and how did the date end? ur still processing things,eh?

i would definitely say go out again if you can, sometimes the first date is a tester just to see how things are between two people and it might take a few more dates to ignite something....so dont rule him out yet. give it time hun and see what can develop but only if u want to...do it for urself just to make sure...sometimes people need to grow on u for u to see them for what they truly are.

did u expect alot from this first date?

there is no perfect guy/gal in this world...some people u can connect with better than others. do u really want a *perfect* person? because sooner or later that perfect individual will not be so perfect in ur eyes...

whoa! my messages was cut off lol!!!

To: Ray's Heart

You dont' seem to have trouble attracting women but you may not attract ones that you want. lol, I have that problem but I think if we both put things in perpective, we will have no trouble attracting who we need.

So no worries Ray darling, you'll be fine 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

Posted by sarasa
Allright, so here's the update:

He's a cutie, SUPER NICE....But I didn't feel much. May be it's too early? Idk....I wouldn't mind going out with him again though.....maybe it's b/c I'm looking for the Uber-perfect guy that doesn't exist....see what I mean by "I'm a confused soul when it comes to relationsihps"....sigh, lord help me!

Hi sarasa 😄

I didn't know anything about this! Man, I miss everything :o

Hey, if you just went out with him, I think its too soon to tell whether or not you feel anything.

hey lovage, thanks for that. No, I hadn't expected a lot from this date and neither had he. I guess this was just to see if we'd even "click" in person. Both of us had fun and thought we should do it again. So, definitely it went well. Like I said, I think I need to process things in my head a little. He looks like a keeper but if I don't ever feel anything from him, then unfortunately he gets slotted into the "friend" list, which is too sucky for me. I'll probably get a chance to talk to him tomm or something, so we'll see. And about teh "perfect" person, no, there's no such thing as being perfect. But guess waht I was trying to say there is that he's perfect in all ways except that I haven't felt a spark yet! So I guess I'm going to go out with him a couple more times, talk to him, and see wehre it goes. Maybe it'll develop into something, maybe not, time will tell....

lol...to actual find someone that u can soulfully click with is so hard to find these days. so many people to chose from but where is the *chosen* one.

people come into your life for a reason..so ask urself why this person? who is he..what does he want, and what do u want as well... but to find out u might have to take a few more chances to find the hidden answer.

how young are you sarasa? im guessing ur younger...

i think the both of u should process things and let it marinate but dont over think things...just go with what ur feeling.

placing someone in that *friends* category is so contagious...believe me i know i place men their as well, but it is what it is. you just know when u feel an instant spark there is no denying it you feel it so strongly and effortlessly...it just takes ur breath away.

im glad ur going to see him again just to see if something can grow from this encounter...by then u will know for sure to stay or move on and at the same time still continue to be active seeing other men..dont place all of ur time into just him, keep those options open...keep ur mind healthy and well nourished. feed it with the love that u hold for yourself.

"However, I do believe that if the situation is too complicated then its not worth it."

I believe so to.

"You dont' seem to have trouble attracting women but you may not attract ones that you want. lol, I have that problem but I think if we both put things in perpective, we will have no trouble attracting who we need."

True. I have to put things in perspective. I don't want to spend a life with the people that I attract off line, I find them very temporary.

Posted by lovage
lol...to actual find someone that u can soulfully click with is so hard to find these days. so many people to chose from but where is the *chosen* one.

people come into your life for a reason..so ask urself why this person? who is he..what does he want, and what do u want as well... but to find out u might have to take a few more chances to find the hidden answer.

how young are you sarasa? im guessing ur younger...

i think the both of u should process things and let it marinate but dont over think things...just go with what ur feeling.

placing someone in that *friends* category is so contagious...believe me i know i place men their as well, but it is what it is. you just know when u feel an instant spark there is no denying it you feel it so strongly and effortlessly...it just takes ur breath away.

im glad ur going to see him again just to see if something can grow from this encounter...by then u will know for sure to stay or move on and at the same time still continue to be active seeing other men..dont place all of ur time into just him, keep those options open...keep ur mind healthy and well nourished. feed it with the love that u hold for yourself.

Yes, putting someone in the "friend" list is very contagious. When I described the day to a friend of mine, she immediately asked me if he felt like a friend. I was kinda shocked:O Did I just do that? Put him in the friend list already?

I'm 25 and so is he (he's about a month older). I'm also very ambitious (which is expected I guess, being a capri and all). I look for that in a man too. Now, he does have goals. He wants to get a better paying job at the moment and is thinking of going back to school for his Masters. But I didn't "see" that. You know how ambition just shines through someone, like you look at someone and you just see it, in the way they carry themselves, it shows in their eyes too. I didn't see that. I didn't see that confidence either. That was kinda bummy. He's super nice BUT a relationship cannot survive on niceness alone.

So yeh, we need to hang out more to figure out if it'll go somwehere. And no, I'm not going to devote all my time to him. I'm going to basically "shop around". I know it sounds bad but that's what dating is all about. You go out with a bunch of them to search for the one until you get exclusive with that one.....seriously, I find it's so complic

My message got cut off, urghhh! lol

Anyways, I was saying that this stuff is complicated for me b/c I have a hard time drawing the line b/w reason and feeling. A lot of people say there's no reason when it comes to matters of the heart but c'mmon, it's kinda dumb to just go by feeling. Idk, that's just me, I guess I like to fall back on reasons for "security"....feelings, well they are too fluctuating....too much insecurity when you base things solely on feelings.....

BTW: Hey RAY and SWEETY!!!!😄

ha, you and i are in the same exact situation. i actually hate dating though. most of the time it's so superficial and i don't really like the process of constantly defining boundaries with different people. sometimes i think it's more work than it's worth. but i haven't given up yet. 😛

Posted by sarasa
My message got cut off, urghhh! lol

Anyways, I was saying that this stuff is complicated for me b/c I have a hard time drawing the line b/w reason and feeling. A lot of people say there's no reason when it comes to matters of the heart but c'mmon, it's kinda dumb to just go by feeling. Idk, that's just me, I guess I like to fall back on reasons for "security"....feelings, well they are too fluctuating....too much insecurity when you base things solely on feelings.....

i agree with this and am the same way. it was a learning process for me, but i'd almost rather gamble with my money than my emotions. (no seriously though.)

Posted by sarasa
My message got cut off, urghhh! lol

Anyways, I was saying that this stuff is complicated for me b/c I have a hard time drawing the line b/w reason and feeling. A lot of people say there's no reason when it comes to matters of the heart but c'mmon, it's kinda dumb to just go by feeling. Idk, that's just me, I guess I like to fall back on reasons for "security"....feelings, well they are too fluctuating....too much insecurity when you base things solely on feelings.....

BTW: Hey RAY and SWEETY!!!!😄

Yeah I was trying to post last night and it just would process for ever, it was probably going through updates or something.

I'm glad that things went well for you and I see that you didn't have a spark. You know ambition doesn't always shine through right off the bat. It really depends on the individual. You have fire influence and could be looking for some immediate reaction but on a water sign, especially Scorpio, ambitions, motives are very often not apparent on the surface.

Others may come off very aggressively and I've seen that very often, where aggressiveness is mistaken for confidence, passion and ambition. Later come to realize that they are very insecure and not ambitious at all, they were just aggressive. I believe certain things only time can reveal. I think you want to look for the things that makes someone exceptional. The uniqueness in a man. Every men on this earth is capable of obtaining security, while no one can be the individual you connected with and that's what you want to grasp.

So you want to make sure, that you understand who you are and where you're headed as an individual, then it will be easier for you to know what type of life partner is needed to assist you in reaching your dreams. I say It's good to shop around when you know what you're looking for otherwise you could be piling up bad experiences, that can contribute into making you the type of women that will not suit, the type of men that you want.

You know how ambition just shines through someone, like you look at someone and you just see it, in the way they carry themselves, it shows in their eyes too. I didn't see that. I didn't see that confidence either. That was kinda bummy. He's super nice BUT a relationship cannot survive on niceness alone.


I know that feeling and you are definitely right you can sense it in a person when you get that feeling of them being ambitious...seeking a true goal instead of just talking about it....so many are talkers and not doers.. I always say dame just freaking do it what the heck is the hold up....and i think that equals to *fears* and insecurities. That messes alot of people of, they are afraid to take that next step...sorry for me!! LOL a relationship needs so many angles and directions to make it, niceness is all good and dandy but at the end of the day what else can you bring to the table, after awhile you will get bored and stagnant.

Sarasa, maybe its good you did meet maybe you can encourage him in some sort of way to make him more ambitious. He might look at you and say dame this girl has got it going on....open up his eyes to the possibilities to force his self ahead of the game. Time is to precious and life is a deal breaker!!

So yeh, we need to hang out more to figure out if it'll go somwehere. And no, I'm not going to devote all my time to him. I'm going to basically "shop around". I know it sounds bad but that's what dating is all about. You go out with a bunch of them to search for the one until you get exclusive with that one.....seriously, I find it's so complic


*high five* gf thats what i always try to tell people dont get stuck on one person sooooo soon, its plenty more fish in the sea. Shop..shop, its called window shopping just observe from the outside and when you are ready check out the inside/quality of the merchandise..try it on and if you dont like it put it back on the rack on move on.



Anyways, I was saying that this stuff is complicated for me b/c I have a hard time drawing the line b/w reason and feeling. A lot of people say there's no reason when it comes to matters of the heart but c'mmon, it's kinda dumb to just go by feeling. Idk, that's just me, I guess I like to fall back on reasons for "security"....feelings, well they are too fluctuating....too much insecurity when you base things solely on feelings.....


Matters of the heart is such a tender thing and thats why alot of people end up confused and

hurt/abandoned...crossing the path between feelings and reason you have to really try to compare what it is that you are trying to hold on to..when the feelings take over it can leave you drained (physically,emotionally,mentally) and then you cant find the reason either because you were already lost in the beginning, so how do the two of them come to a understanding and when..it is very complicated. Its like a tug of war...you are pulling this way and the other person may be pulling the other was as well.. Life and love is just plain crazy.

I thought you were an earth girl (cappie)you seem to have a good sense of direction with yourself and what you need out of life. You will be a dangerous woman to someone..and i mean that in a good way (intelligence,loyalty,goals and etc)

Keep dating baby it will get better, keep the options open until that *special* one comes into your life...

Have we found out her sign yet?

Posted by Lady_M
Have we found out her sign yet?

No ... I don't know her sign. Probably never will.

grrrr i wish i didn't know the sign of the guy who currently has my attention. cause i'm sure knowing it is influencing me some way even if i don't want it to!

Posted by wheelhomies
grrrr i wish i didn't know the sign of the guy who currently has my attention. cause i'm sure knowing it is influencing me some way even if i don't want it to!

I think it does, I knew it would in my case. I just got too deep into astrology to have that knowledge not influence me. I didn't like the vibe I was getting from her from the start and consider it done now but at least I don't have a bias to whatever sign she was.

Is the guy you're seeing, astrologically a good match?

Posted by Rays Heart


I think it does, I knew it would in my case. I just got too deep into astrology to have that knowledge not influence me. I didn't like the vibe I was getting from her from the start and consider it done now but at least I don't have a bias to whatever sign she was.

Is the guy you're seeing, astrologically a good match?

i'm sorry it turned out the way it did - she doesn't know what she's missing out on!

hmmmm. well, he's a leo. i think astrologically that match is represented as tumultuous...with drama and power struggles. but my prior experiences with leo men haven't been that way at all.

speaking of which, gemini is supposed to be a good match with leo. but i really don't understand that. i am usually attracted to them on many different levels, but i can't trust them with my feelings. the last one that i dealt with was really into me...actually completely infatuated with me for about a month. then, out of nowhere his behavior changed completely. next thing i know he's all googly eyed over another chick - a fellow gemini! i got no explanation for this whatsoever, which to me is extremely disrespectful. that kind of fickleness is hurtful.

so i'm very skeptical of what astrology says are good and bad matches. i'm usually really, really into leo men. but at the same time, i know it does influence my perceptions about others' behavior and even my fears about how the relationship may develop (especially whether or not it will last). it's because of that that sometimes i wish i never got into astrology at all!

it makes me question and thing about things i otherwise probably wouldn't. and i hate complication. we do click really well.

*1st thing = think

Thanks Wheel and I don't know why but I always thought you were a Leo for some reason.🙂 I understand what you're saying. See when you get too deep in astrology you start relating your past experiences to your astro knowledge and that's not always a good thing. Leo and Gemini usually go well together but reality astrology goes beyond the sun sign, that's why I think one shouldn't let a sun sign stop you from seeing someone or make you go forward. As stated by Ms.P before on this thread, it can get you to not spend enough time on a good person or invest too much time on a bad one.

I want to try out a leo man! 😛
A case study of sorts:
one knowingly and one blind study.

Posted by Lady_M
I want to try out a leo man! 😛
A case study of sorts:
one knowingly and one blind study.

lol ... I'm sure one will volunteer to participate in this study LM. It shouldn't be a problem.

Posted by Rays Heart
Thanks Wheel and I don't know why but I always thought you were a Leo for some reason.🙂 I understand what you're saying. See when you get too deep in astrology you start relating your past experiences to your astro knowledge and that's not always a good thing. Leo and Gemini usually go well together but reality astrology goes beyond the sun sign, that's why I think one shouldn't let a sun sign stop you from seeing someone or make you go forward. As stated by Ms.P before on this thread, it can get you to not spend enough time on a good person or invest too much time on a bad one.

i know. :/ i guess the only solution for the time being is to put it out of my mind. like it's just two people getting to know each other - no signs involved. hehe, i say that like it's easy. i'm trying anyway.

Posted by Lady_M
I want to try out a leo man! 😛
A case study of sorts:
one knowingly and one blind study.

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when did this desire come about lady m? i'm surprised. 😄

lol
Well I have very little experience with the men. I've only known of one for a fact (He seemed very aqua).
I just want to test the opposites dynamic.

i support this mission! good luck! hehe.